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[mindofserenity]

Asalamu alaikum, Ramadan Mubarak. I hope your Ramadan is going well. I wanted to ask a question as a revert. I am 19 and I would like to get married for the sake of Allah. I have an abusive family however and a lot of heart pain because of this. I know what it's like to be treated well because of a friend of mine from school. I would like to get married but I have no wali and I know it's going to probably make my family cut me off. They will disapprove anyone and everyone. It's not something they are willing to talk about, as it is I live in constant silent treatment about any matter regarding myself. Be it that I need lotion or my school fees paid, it's silence until someone else steps in. Non of my family members are willing to help and think I'll of me because my dad spread rumours to justify him treating me this way but Allah knows. So what advice would you have for me who is looking to get married. Because I know what I want, who I want, my goals and values. And I know what I want my future husband to have in terms of the same. But how would I go about it? Sorry if this is a very tough question, insha'Allah you can even speak it over with a sheikh or something I don't have access to one and let me know your opinion insha'Allah. Jazakallah Khair.

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

May Allah ease your pain and reward you immensely for your patience. From one revert to another, though our sufferings may not be the same, Allah ‎ﷻ blessed us both with the same gift of Islam and guidance الحمدلله. I hope you have a good support system despite your family’s absence. It will take time ‎إن شاء الله as it did for mine.

When I did my nikkah, of course I had no wali. Therefore the imam was able to step forward as my Wali which is completely acceptable for our cases ‎إن شاء الله. So do not worry for finding a wali if you do not have any Muslims in your family. However, it is still important to include them and inform them because marriage is a significant matter.

‎ما شاء الله You are only 19. I do not know when you reverted but my only advice would be that, make sure you take the time to prioritise your deen and your relationship with Allah above anything and anyone else. Marriage is indeed a beautiful blessing, it completes half a deen. But marriage is only a part of our journey in this life with its ups and downs so do take time being certain of who you are and your potential partner.

Have sabr and tawakkul always ‎إن شاء الله and may Allah bless you with a good spouse ‎ آمین

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[hubufiallah]

What would you do differently if you know nobody would judge you?

to be entirely honest, i would never do anything for the sake of someone’s opinion unless it is detrimental to my faith in Islam or if it intentionally hurts others.

#hubufiallah #askm

[askokussko]

belizim de belizim

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[l0v3l33]

Hi there, how's your day going? Even if things feel tough today, just know that you're doing an incredible job, and I'm so proud of you. Take some time for yourself to rest and recharge, and remember to prioritize your well-being. Sending you a warm virtual hug because you're truly precious and deserve all the best. Don't forget to put on that beautiful smile of yours.

This was literally me while reading this!

Oh lord!! I must have some good things in my life because these messages literally have me smiling like a maniac!!

I am so grateful to whoever sent me these!!

This is surely my good karma rewarding me!!

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[thisisnt-reaal]

#anons #anonymous #ask #send asks #ask blog #ask game #ask to tag #preguntas #anonimos #pregunta #preguntitas #mexico #tumblr chilenito #askme

[mindofserenity]

May Allahbless you this ramadhan for your islamic reminders and posts

اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

And may Allah bless you with more than what you had asked for me 🌹

#askm

[hubufiallah]

من الامارات؟

انا من انجلترا

#hubufiallah #askm

[askokussko]

mitinin disine bakinnn

#elimi issririuodu oyun oynuyofuk iste #bi baktimelumde bi sey var #disi takilmis 🥺🥺🥺 #askm #miti

[l0v3l33]

Sending you a big hug and a reminder that you're an absolute rockstar! You've faced so much and come out stronger every time. I'm so proud of you for staying true to yourself and never giving up. You deserve all the happiness and health in the world. Don't forget to smile and take care of yourself – you're worth it!

🌙💓

Oh my god! I love you! You're doing God's work!!!

This made me so happy!! Hehehehehe

Like I'm not even depressed or anything but oh lord I am so happy RN!!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

#askm

[clockwayswrites]

Clock, I need you to know that I dreamt about that fic you aren't writing.

Clock, I don't dream. And on the very rare instances that I do, it's 99% disjointed nonsense that slips out of my head within 10 minutes of waking up. Literally, in my 24 years of life I've only had like 3 or 4 dreams that actually stuck.

But that fic you aren't writing has apparently sunk itself so deep into my brain that I had a once in a blue moon memorable dream about it.

It was still a bit disjointed, but I distinctly recall a dinner party? potluck? IDK, there was food; at Danny and Jason's apartment complex. Like, the while building. Some of Red Hood's crew was there. And Jason was in civvies. Dick was there too. And Danny was conspiring with everyone (not Jason) to be a mischievous little shit. So there weren't enough chairs. I'm sure you can see where this is going.

Oh my gods that is amazing. Also I'm sorry(?) for making you dream? Or you're welcome?

As a gift, to feed your poor brain... let's write a little bit of this. Hum, when would this happen for max amusement... Let's say this is after Danny has asked Hood if he wanted to share, but before the Goon scene.

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“What the fuck,” Dick murmured to himself.

“They’re hiding chairs,” the stranger, who Dick hadn’t noticed leaning against the kitchen counter till then, explained.

Dick tilted his head in thought and took another sip of the battery acid they were calling punch at this potluck. The potency of the drink might explain what he was watching happen.

The chair on top of the tenuous stack wobbled dangerous.

One of the men— Marco? —who were trying to shove the stack of three chairs into the closet shushed the chair. He pointed at it like one would a misbehaving dog and that the threat alone would get it to stay.

Definitely the punch.

“Why?”

“Because if there aren’t enough chairs, someone is going to have to sit in someone else’s lap and they’re plotting to make that happen,” the stranger said.

Dick took a moment to glance away from the game of closet Jenga to look over the other person. They were a slight thing, but slight in the way that spoke of lean muscles and a hidden strength. It reminded Dick of how Wally was built. The bright aqua eyes were almost unnerving in how bold the color was. The way they were grinning, widely, as they continued to watch the struggle didn’t exactly make them any less unsettling.

They took a large bite out of the cookie they had in hand.

A cookie sounded like a good idea. Dick snagged one from the platter, recognizing Jason’s baking.

Cinnamon and spice bloomed across his tongue. “Huh. Okay. Does Jason know?”

The stranger laughed, shaking their head. “No, that would defeat the whole purpose. He’s the intended chair.”

“Huh.” Well that was interesting. “Who’s the intended seater. Sitter? Sittie?”

“That would be me,” the stranger said, sticking their hand not holding the cookie out. Dick set his war crime known as punch down to shake it. “Hi, I’m Danny. I’m your brother’s accidental sugar baby.”

Dick choked on thin air.

Just how potent was that punch?

#blathers and bits #ailithnight #askme answeryou #the fic that i'm not writing #dp x dc #dead on main #to achy to tag #will tag if it becomes a 'real' part later

[theeroticlover]

This is not a question but a compliment. Your page is incredibly sexy. It appears kissing is an important part for you and I do believe kissing has been overlooked way too long. There should always be fun and exciting teasing.

Aaah !!! I am glad you like it Mr/Ms/Mrs Anonymous.....

I must say quite an observation !!!

I absolutely love ---

Yes, I agree, kissing is often overlooked....

Eye contact, subtle touches, lip biting and sweet caresses.... Everything adds up....

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