#and the misogyny blah blah

[hxhhasmysoul]

the chainsaw man people are starting to really make me irritated. no i’m not going to reblog your jjk 212 fanart when you write under it that megumi just got treated like aki. sorry to break it to you but megumi’s fate was first hinted in may 2018, half a year before the first chapter of csm was published. i don’t care fujimoto got there first. what’s going on in juju rn isn’t some riding the coattails of csm. it’s very clearly been the plan all along.

#like i get it i get it #people like csm more #juju characters not that blah blah #juju story too complicated blah blah #what is even going on in juju blah blah #and the misogyny blah blah #does gege even know how jujutsu works blah blah #omg why the white haired bimbo in the box so tragic blah blah #but like can you maybe just stay in your lane? #you like something else? #good for you #can you enjoy it without constantly compering it to something else #is there nothing to it other than being better than juju in your eyes? #and this fucking aki comparison really just grates at me #sorry #rant #mean bitch hours #going back to my roots #for those new here i'm not a nice person #i just blocked most annoying hxh people years ago so i had little to be a mean bitch about #but new interest new rant reasons

[beforeyougo-turnthebiglightoff]

the most annoying thing everrr is when people say their music isnt getting listened to because theyre like autistic or a woman or part of some marginalised group, and then they show their music and its the worst thing youve ever heard before, like maybe. just MAYBE. people aren't listening because it sucks balls

#like im sorry but ?? can you not hear #how BAD THAT IS #like genuinely this is so mean but dont start whining about how youre a woman and its misogyny when the song SUCKS. #obviously misogyny is an issue but ??? THE SONG IS TERRIBLE #or if its a drawing or something like nooo one caressssss #blah blah! #not 75 stuff

[quasarkisses]

listening to a reading of Jane Eyre and fucking christ Mr. Rochester is a horror movie villain

the worst part is that Jane is like "oohh his red flags are so sexy respectable" GIRL HE IS 20 YRS OLDER THAN YOU. no WONDER he has a secret wife

#blah blah blah #the period typical internalized misogyny from the authoooooor #but do enjoy reading a wack story by someone who cared much to write it

[terezbian]

i can't get over how weird and misogynistic "i'm fucking your wife" type jokes are. like online leftists will get mad if you say it's a weird thing to say but how is treating a woman like a prop with which to humiliate the person you're talking to anything but out and out misogyny. am i insane

#for some reason it doesn't bother me w your mom. perhaps the implied step parent status. #i mean i know ppl on this site think misogyny is fake but. like #blah blah blah

[pentimint]

dr foreman is literally constantly getting microaggressed. macroaggressed even

#chase just asked if he was using a “ghetto euphemism” what the fuck is going on in this show #i know it's a drama from the mid 00s but my god. the racism the antisemitism the misogyny #blah blah

[aerithisms]

we don't actually <3

#blahs #yes i know it's a year old video but youtube recommended it to me today! so #this is so silly none of these things in the thumbnails are like anti-femininity or something #also VERY weird to put gentleman jack in there. a show about a) a real person and b) a gender non-conforming lesbian #but this is problematic i guess bc she's making the girls with conventional gender presentation uncomfortable :/ #the not like other girls backlash just circled back into misogyny #'stop talking about how failing to conform to expected gender roles has made you feel othered! CRINGE! put on some make up <3'

[sexlapis]

hi, i was wondering about your opinions on misogyny and misandry?

recently i saw you reblog a post that someone else reblogged from the original post, which essentially said that misandry isn’t real/all men are evil.

i was wondering if you agreed with these statements, because i can’t find the post that you reblogged, and now am curious.

i don’t mean to come across as offensive or rude, but i’d like to know because i have my own personal opinions on the matter, and i’m willing to discuss them if you’re open to it :)

dw you’re not being rude, i’ll just keep this short: 1. i don’t think misandry is real 2. if i reblog something i probably resonate or agree with it to some extent (& honestly i don’t remember reblogging a post like what you stated. i don’t remember everything i reblog) 3. people can believe what they want, including things i disagree with, i don’t control anyone & i’m not God 4. this is a fanfiction account where i talk about kissing fictional people…i’m not particularly interested in discussing my beliefs nor do i think i’m even qualified to do so, especially not on tumblr of all places.

#sexlapis replies #yeah misandry isn’t exactly productive but i don’t think it’s real #and people can think it’s real if they wish to do so #i just don’t believe it is #i don’t believe misandry is systemic like racism colourism homophobia & misogyny + multitudes of other forms of discrimination is #*are #blah idk #anon #feminism

[remma-demma]

Truly fucking insane to me how even some trans people have drunk the gender essentialist koolaid and think that trans men are like, inherently arms of the patriarchy and oppressors. Just like believing all cis men are each, individually responsible for patriarchy. Isn’t the point of feminism that the system and people’s unconscious upholding of the system are the thing to be criticizing?? Gender essentialism is still gender essentialism even if you do it to trans people.

I don’t know why people don’t understand that treating any group as a monolith whose experiences are all the same is like. Bad and harmful. Trans men are men but they are not cis men. Many of us have experienced girl / womanhood enforced on us by society and deeply understand the struggle. I don’t see why it’s harmful to acknowledge the fact that trans men experience misogyny!!!! Lots of trans men haven’t or won’t transition! I promise you even if we are men, see ourselves as men, the vast majority of society will not.

I really hate infighting and “calling out” whole sections of the community, and I guarantee I’m not talking about 90% of trans women who are normal but that other 10% act like trans men have betrayed women by “choosing to be men”. Isn’t that like, 1) literally gc / terf logic and 2) implying that trans people just up and choose their gender one day (not saying that some don’t but like. Being trans is a deeply personal thing that’s often not a choice.)

This is thinking that makes trans men guilty to be trans men. We’re used to hearing it from radfems but to hear it from people who are supposed to be our allies??? From people who we have something so deeply in common with? It fucking sucks!!!

#sorry I just saw three whole Twitter posts that literally were like ALL TRANS WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AND FUNNY AND AWESOME #and all trans men are stupid and stinky and bad #trans men continue to be punching bags every three months for some fucking reason #I’m not disagreeing that trans women are put under a lot more pressure societally and that fucking sucks #but literally whenever trans men speak up we ARE dismissed. #our struggles may not be the same but they still fucking exist #this is mostly a vent but feel free to (civilly and constructively) talk to me about where my blind spots might be #I’m taking American cultural anthropology and we just learned the word intersectionality and I don’t think people truly understand that #the intersection between “being men’ and “being raised as female’ is very real #I think what that male model said was stupid in terms of like #thinking that trans women are to blame for being so visible #but what he said about the general way people are raised in gendered ways is not bullshit. #culture affects us from literally all angles and it’s wild to think that a trans man could just flip a switch one day and forget #being constantly put down and told to be kind and put others feelings above your own and be scared of being assaulted and blah blah blah #being raised as a girl shit. unless you transitioned as a child and had super supportive parents that shit is REAL #my post #trans #jfc even if you were raised in the right gender medical misogyny affects us too! our bodies are policed just like women’s are #also lol I’m not saying I just learned the term or idea intersectionality it’s just interesting to learn about it academically

[seethesunny]

the tess erasure has happened since 2013. actually. it doesn't make it better tho.

#most tlou fans do NOT even remember her when she's pivotal to the whole story #there has been a renaissance for her character this year but this isn't news #there's a lot of factors to consider and blah blah blah but it will always boil down to misogyny #okay I'm done #gecko rants #mine

[maraslesbian]

god i shouldn't have gone on twitter i just ended up seeing a bunch of tweets about the whole "rtd didn't want to put dt in jodie's clothes" thing and now i'm just. mad. it was bad enough that they had jodie regenerate into dt but that they changed the clothes too because they didn't want to put a man into "women's clothes" makes it SO MUCH WORSE

#doctor who #doctor who spoilers #like. i sort of assumed that it was because it's wasn't a 'real' regeneration. but no. it was just good old misogyny #and like. given the amount of emphasis that jodie has put on the fact that she wanted her doctor to be for everyone #and that she chose that costume because it was gender neutral #it's SO FUCKING DISRESPECTFUL to her that they went and did that #i get what rtd was trying to say with the whole 'i didn't want to make it into a joke or be disrespectful to drag' blah blah blah #but like COME ON. it's large pants with a tshirt and suspenders #and if you don't want it to look like a joke just don't frame it as joke. that's literally your job #look at what they did with the master and take some fucking notes for FUCKS SAKE it's not that hard #anyways #mara talks #and rants endlessly in the tags

[teddybearsandlightningstorms]

i think my only actual complaint is that barbie was called a facist? calling her something more sexist or from the mainstream concept of barbie, bimbo/slut/gold-digger/naive/anorexic/tart, would've made the points hit harder imo

#it's like when they make a relatable villian a babykiller so people stop agreeing with them #they could've stuck to the unraveling internalized misogyny a bit more #barbie #source: teddybearsandlightningstorms #i know i know 13 year olds say words blah blah #but like. it felt like it was added to dismiss the rest of it #if it was something that really pushed her insecurity button about being 'mainstream barbie' then a later moment would've been even better

[pricklypear1997]

This is one of the most sexist and pointless disgusting comments I’ve ever had to respond to on YouTube… sweeties, THIS is why I am a radical feminist.

And my response. Like this shit literally makes me so angry. This person is arguing in a comment thread that argues for trans women in intimate female spaces such as locker rooms, bathrooms, etc oh, and trans women writing fiction about lesbian relationships… yuck.

#rant #lgbt #drop the t #radfems do touch #radfem #gender dysphoria is a serious mental disorder #this person is just sexist #internalized misogyny #feminism #liberal feminists are wrong #this is so degrading #who actually thinks like that #this person literally hates women #this person is clearly a self hating gnc woman #imagine using sexist stereotypes to defend your sick political beliefs #and then she goes off about trans women dealing with this or that issue blah blah #like honestly #I don’t care #I’m not going to support a group that is literally using another marginalized group for their own profit and gain #I still believe that some real trans people exist #but the majority of you are fake as hell #putting on fake nails and a dress and a cheap wig doesn’t make you a woman #shut the fuck up #and this self hating woman #get a life

[pentimint]

brian yuzna answer my emails

#dispatches from the sickbed #mint writes #blah blah #HP Lovecraft's Herbert West: Misogyny

[macarensesangles]

sometimes there are some real gems hidden in otherwise bad fics too, like in this one the author did mention emet having a haunted look about him and it sent me to an interesting place thinking about how pfeil might interpret that and feel and that led me to write War Flashbacks Drabble. and i had never really considered the idea of incorporating that detail, so really, it was an edifying experience. to read emetwol omegaverse fanfiction

#also like bad is a matter of taste blah blah etc #i try not to be mean but like #there is so much like unbelievably radioactive unexamined misogyny in so many of these fics #that it's harder for me to be nice than with fics that i just didn't gel with

[cistematicchaos]

Makeup is neutral. Or, it should be. But because of the world we live in blah ect, we’re taught to believe it isn’t. Makeup should be whatever you make of it, just like your body. It should be awesome or boring or unnecessary or interesting, ect. But because of ~social constructs~, it doesn’t work like that, so let’s talk about it for a sec.

Some people wear makeup out of necessity. For reasons ranging from intersexism, transphobia, transmisogyny, racism, ableism, misogyny-It goes on. Makeup isn’t a choice for everyone and that’s an important thing to understand. Some people wear makeup because they’ve been conditioned to believe that without it, they’re “ugly” and that’ll make them unsucceessful and/or unapproachable and/or unattractive. Which, because of the things I listed before(intersexism, misogyny, ableism, ect), is actually tied into actual systemic issues.

But it’s also important to understand that many other people don’t like/want or even can’t wear makeup and that’s not just something to respect as well but can have social repercussions too that also tie into those same systemic issues.

Regardless, neither of them have some sort of inherent “morality” behind it. The idea that all people who wear vibrant or lots of makeup are playing into the patriarchy or that people who don’t wear makeup/lots of makeup are somehow better and more “feminist” or whatever isn’t just all kinds of fucked up but all it does is play into those same stereotypes and bigotries we’re trying to fight. 

Talking about the misogyny and isms baked into the makeup industry is important but attaching inherent morality to makeup is not. So don’t. 

#Misogyny #Feminism #Transmisogyny #transphobia #intersexism #makeup industry #Beauty standards #Blah ect #Chaos is speaking #I've been thinking about this for a bit #so I just decided to say it #no it's not what i usually talk about #but whatever #my blog my thoughts #the patriarchy #body neutrality #body positivity #whatever #sorry to sound like a journalist or something #but #lolz i sound like that fr sometimes.

[polyamoryprincess]

This is a reminder to all the girlies out there that guys who are desperate for other men’s approval are a big red ass flag

#Like yeah daddy issues blah blah blah we all have those thats fine I get it #But if they took that to mean they gotta do everything they can to win another man’s approval #Run cause your opinion will probably be about 10 steps down from whoever his least favorite guy friend is #Like there’s always misogyny and a susceptibility peer pressure and posturing #There’s always this little boy quality to these guys that always makes me sad but it’s also like… please… stop… #I see this a lot with boyfriends and their gf’a brothers like oh no