#and not her abusive husband

[procrastinatingsoicanreadfanfics]

“the women in my fandom are overhated” have you ever spoken to a hetero man that’s a vikings fan?

#they love to pretend that aslaug genocided their poeppe #“every woman but lagertha is a boring character” #“aslaug is evil” #you’d think she was the cheater #and not her abusive husband #vikings #this applies to #margrethe #yidu #amma #torvi #astrid #aslaug #helga #gisela #kwentrith #judith #elsewith #leave women alone! #also #let them be gay

[estrogenism]

Pride flag for people who want to or have cut Crowfeather open and left him to die of infection! Hope you enjoy <3

#i'm so glad the wc fandom is starting to move past the era of nightcloud hate #nightcloud did nothing wrong and crowfeather is an abuser and a terrible husband #i think crowf's trial SHOULD have ended with her cutting him open and leaving him to die of infection #joke flags ★ #warrior cats #wc #nightcloud #nightcloud wc #crowfeather #crowfeather wc #crowfeather infection #lelei flags ★ #violence cw

[clouvu]

Touchy

#suggestive #genshin impact #arlecchino #sandrone #arledrone #mfs will figure out how to somewhat properly use the blur filter and texture filter and abuse the hell out of it #im mfs #With no peep of sandy ever showing up in fontaine i think its joever for us 3 arledrn fans #This isnt stopping me however I got enough delusions to support an entire fatui army #Mean Autistic Scientist x Her Trophy Husband is just SO GOOD to me #Arle is literally her superior and all but You Dont Understand #She Gives Me Trophy Husband Vibes

[eliotbaum]

Tender hearts and weary souls 🩸⛅️

(or: that time we turned a portion of our Curse of Strahd game into a period drama romance, featuring my cleric pc and lydia petrovna)

#curse of strahd #illustration #artists on tumblr #kasper dunant #lydia petrovna #dnd 5e #dnd art #cos art #bless our dm for fleshing out side characters that dont get enough love #justice 4 lydia spoilers ahead but she's got a hot bf now after her abusive husband's demise

[thoumpingground]

So when Darcy went to fix the Lydia/Wickham situation, he first tried to get Lydia to return home, only bribing Wickham into marrying her when she wouldn't. This is sensible by modern standards, but we know from everyone else's reactions Lydia *failing* marrying Wickham would bring the Bennet family shame. Darcy knows this, and doubt he planned to leave the situation as is. So how did he originally plan to fix it?

I think Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy was gonna channel his inner Emma Woodhouse (didn't have to dig far, they're very similar people) and play matchmaker. In my headcannon Darcy checked his "Possible Husbands for Georgie" list against his "People who owe me Gargantuan favours" list and offer whoever came up money to marry Lydia.

Now, he would want to spare the Bennets of as much of the scandal as possible, and wouldn't want to take the merit in front of Lizzie, so all would most likely happen discreetly through Mr. Gardiner, while Lydia was in London, and she would move to her husbands immediatly after.

However, I wanna propose a different scenario: Lydia returns to Meryton. Scandal ensues, the Bennets are disgraced. Then, within two weeks, a random well-off man shows up intent on courting Lydia and *only* Lydia. He heeds nobodys warnings and gives no explanations. Lydia loves it. Every other mum in Meryton is furious. The Bennets are confused and paranoid. Imagine the drama. The intrige. The million questions still unawnsered long after Lydia eventually gets married and leaves. Bingley marries Jane (cause of course Darcy still told him he'd been wrong to pull them apart, and Bingley would) and Darcy's still somewhat around. Maybe him and Lizzie get together, maybe not, but every time the topic comes up he gets all sheepish and awkward and she gets suspicious and it's a thing. It's their new dynamic.

#picture a binder for “people who owe me Gatgantuan favours” #and like a few pages for “Possible husbands for Georgie” in a folder #“why would Darcy waste a good man on (ugh) Lydia?” i fear someone might ask?“ #because Darcy's a good considerate person. he was trying to save her for a bad marriage in the first place. #not saying he'd give up the top pick but he wouldn't set her up with anything less than safe and decent #also as annoying as Lydia is she doesn't deserve abuse. Austen makes a point of telling us even with Wickham she's got her family's support. #also also the top pick is probably Charles and he's taken so #jane austen #mr darcy #lydia bennet #mr. gardiner #lizzie bennet #decent guy. #pride and prejudice #classic literature

[appsa]

Tbh most of all what bothers me abt the "soulmates played straight" is just the assumption that the universe will choose right and in ur best interests, and any abuse that occurs is an aberration. Ik its not that serious buttttttt first of all. Thats not how any of it works. Abuse isnt an aberration it is the norm. Second of all how can u be ok putting that much trust in the design of some unknowable force of the universe. Crazy

#btw. this is also why id be all in for a tlt soulmate au where the entity choosing ur soulmates is VERY MUCH THERE. AND VERY FALLIBLE. #but alas..... #anyway this is all because i was thinking abt some soulmate au i read when i was a teenager #and there was specifically a character in an arranged marraige who had a Different Soulmate who was their True Love or whatever #and they didnt meet because the evil husband forced them into a marraige #and my gripe is like. well if that person isnt even in her life then why are they her soulmate. whats the point of that #stop shying away from it. the universe lets bad things happen to good ppl all the time #in fact the framework of soulmates would only make abuse worse

[hi-intrepid-heros]

I am not usually one to assume a person's character based on their opinions around fictional media, but I know every one of you folks siding with Kipperlilly Copperkettle and saying how relatable you find her definitely drove someone in your high school to self harm from bullying and blamed it on your mediocre at worst home life

#“kristen started it” hi are you insane? seek therapy #the misinterpretation of Brennan's genuinely evil npcs (especially women??) will never not be infuriating to me #y'all will see a woman abusing her children and husband or cheating on her husband or murdering children (ALL brennan NPCs) #and be like “omg... the struggles of girlhood... go off queen...” #truly frightening #dimension 20 #d20 #fantasy high junior year #brennan lee mulligan #fantasy high #intrepid heroes #kipperlilly copperkettle #high five heroes #the bad kids

[mymarifae]

every day the fanon idea that shinomama is abusive and/or neglectful like shinei is ages more and more poorly . like. yeah sorry this family dynamic reads much more like a genuinely kind loving mother who married a man she thought she knew - perhaps at too young of an age - and overestimated his capacity to handle children. and is likely overworking herself to make sure her babies feel loved despite HIS neglect and harsh words. she's been shown to be nothing but kind, and the fact that some people take her kindness and either ignore it or turn her into a copy of mafuyu's mother is a little ...

i won't say it's explicitly misogynistic but it's probablyyyy worth examining why you saw shinei's abusive behaviors and started automatically attributing them to shinomama by virtue of her being married to him

#bit of a sore subject here #my mom wasn't perfect but i think i'd kill anyone who even Tried to insinuate she married her first husband because they were both #violent abusive alcoholics. like i'm fucking sorry? No. #not saying that shinei is an alcoholic btw i'm just saying that like #assuming that his wife must agree with the way he treats ena and akito and behaves similarly herself because they are married #i fucking hatebthat shit. shut up

[dylan-rodrigues]

his mom is the smartest person in the entire drama because she ✅thinks Nayeon is dumb AF ✅doesn't believe in past lives like a sane person

and yet she's the one treated like a dumb lunatic... for being angry she wasn't told about her son's terminal illness? and for fussing over him... when he's in the hospital??

#this poor lady better divorce her loser husband FAST #destined with you #kdrama #rowoon #jo bo ah #the way pops talks to his wife and the mother of his son is so disrespectful if not borderline abusive??? #if I saw my parents arguing like that #I'd go back into my coma

[laniidae-passerine]

what I love about the Ushers is, yes, some of them didn’t deserve it. Leo was just any drug addicted asshole who treats the people around him like shit but he clearly cared about his family even when they hated him and he grew up around drugs and addiction. Tammy was emotionally and verbally cruel to Bill and coerced him into a life he didn’t want but she did love him no matter how hard she tried to hide it and she wanted to be a better person. Lenore was just a girl who hoped for a kinder world for her mother and herself, who did nothing wrong but trust in her grandfather. That’s the point. Some of the children are horrible and violent and unkind and some of them are just people, messy, disturbed people. They deserved a chance just like anyone else. But they don’t get one. When somebody gambles your life before it begins, before you’re even conceived, you lose. When we let the rich and the powerful play God and do awful things, the poison seeps all the way down. Even to the good ones. Even to ones who could have been good. Nobody ever wins.

#like that’s the tragedy!!! leo could have had rehab. tammy could have seen a therapist. lenore had a whole life ahead of her. #it could have been so good! Frederick could have been a dentist and a father and a husband and a kind man #but in this world he’s a cocaine addict and a mutiliator and an abuser. because his father signed his life away #that’s the unforgivable bit about the tragedy. not what could have the usher siblings been. #but what could their bloodline have been. what could the world have been. how long would Lenore have lived and been loved. #it isn’t their fault the contract was signed. but it is their tragedy. #tfothou #the fall of the house of usher #the house of usher

[foldingfittedsheets]

Hnnngh. I haven’t been talking to my sister for like four years. She’s in an abusive relationship and I was trying to support her, but she radicalized as a result of her shitty husband. She tried to hide it until I confronted her and she ended up telling me she didn’t think trans people deserve rights. So I cut contact.

But it sucks. I still have dreams where she apologizes and turns back into the sister I looked up to. And I hate that her abusive husband has very successfully cut her off from any support networks.

She messaged me today out of the blue talking about His Dark Materials and she’s not allowed on social media so I know it was just a funny universe coincidence. But I started texting back.

We had a short talk about books and she said she was glad I responded because she misses me. I don’t want to start shit but I don’t want her in my life more than this small chat because it’s not like she’s stopped being hateful, but I do miss the sister I grew up with.

#ramblies #she’s always been selfish but she now thinks gay people go to hell and therapy is for wackos and that it’s okay to hit your kids #I know it takes time and patience to deradicalize people but I just don’t have the spoons #bedsides which her abusive husband will still br whispering poison in her ears all the time

[princesandromeda]

The fact that this absolute parasite of a man recycled his proposal speech and managed to hit the head of the nail with both girls because they were both vulnerable and had desire for a family… or he would've if Jiwon hadn't had knowledge of the future.

Park Minhwan, you absolute scumbag of a human being. Not only are you a sexist, inferior-complexed, gymbro, cryptobro cheating man, BUT ALSO UNCREATIVE?

ofc there's also a lot to say about Sumin. Despite how satisfying it is to see her reap what she's sowed for decades (and would have continued to sow had Jiwon not stood her ground), it's… kind of hard to not feel pity for her. Especially after Minhwan's "you're only a pretty face" comment since she's probably been compared to Jiwon for her grades her whole life.

I really like how they're portraying Sumin's abusive childhood in this adaptation, because while it does not justify at all any of her scummy actions, it ties to her attention-seeking tendencies, and her obssession with being the only human being Jiwon ever needed.

ok that's it for tonight, let's see what next week brings.

#marry my husband #kang jiwon #park minhwan #jeong sumin #marry my husband spoilers #ofc it's satisfactory to see sumin get taken down. but i really felt bad when her childhood was shown in the webtoon :( #i have a feeling that they're not killing minhwan in this adaptation. probably sumin tho. after some attempt to murder jiwon #maybe incarceration for minhwan's abusive tendencies? idk let's wait and see

[earlgodwin]

unpopular opinion: i know most of the show fans find ursula bonadeo annoying and dislike her character because cesare projected lucrezia onto her and used her as a substitute. but after many rewatches, i grew to like her. she's very pretty, and she was very sweet to lucrezia while helping her with giving birth. i feel sorry for her because she's a noble young woman who spent her life trapped with an abusive husband who beats her. and when she thought she finally found this handsome, honorable savior who could free her (even though she was indecisive about him, which i don't blame her because women back in that era didn't have many choices, and her husband would probably kill her if he found out about her and cesare), he turned out to be unhinged, as he seduces her, and manipulates her while being lustfully obsessive over her. so, she was rightfully terrified and frustrated by cesare because he eventually assaulted her and dragged her around while forcing himself on her because she didn't exactly look like the perfect image (mirror of his sister) in his head after she cut her hair. then she got a very brutal end at the hands of the french army, raping her and mutilating her. she lived most of her life being tormented by cruel men. her character makes me so sad thinking about the women who were mistreated and killed by their abusive partners and were lost and forgotten to time because of the patriarchal system since it is beyond horrible towards women.

#thanks for coming to my ted talk (is that still a thing though?) #i'm just very weak for women okay? #i'm a cesare x lucrezia ride or die girlie through and through #but it wasn't the only reason why i didn't ship cesare with ursula #i'm not saying i don't like dark ships buuuut... #cesare x ursula just never clicked with me at all because all i was doing was rooting for ursula to leave cesare for not respecting her #she mostly existed to drive cesare's bloodthirst as we saw how he managed to murder her husband and then later avenging her #i'm probably the only person who is crying about ursula right now #ursula bonadeo #ruta gedmintas #the borgias #tw rape #tw abuse #text post #jen's unpopular opinions

[stevieharringtonwifeguy]

where's the crack au where stevies on real housewives as the wife of famous retired metal star eddie munson like. she'd fuck them up. going for that sweet down to earth insanely rich person persona but any time any of the other housewives tries to start shit with her she Shuts It Down

#tryna think about what her like. Intro Dumb Saying is i wanna incorporate her coming for a bitchs kneecaps with a baseball bat #steddie #transfem steve harrington #steve harrington #eddie munson #stevie harrington #stranger things #also she'd be doing a lot of charity work for like abused kids and lgbt rights especially trans rights #the housewives are like oh my husband hates when i buy things you relate right stevie #she's like man if i don't buy enough shit eddie gets pouty bc he thinks he's not being a good provider #she's one of the ones who's like my sex life is going GREAT thank you for asking #oh you didn't ask? im gonna tell you anyway we just bought a new sex swing way better lumbar support than the last one

[bitchin-tubs]

Been rewatching morel orel nonstop recently I just have to say Clay’s a bitch If I had married Bloberta we would’ve been happy together

#bloberta i love you and your flaws <3 #[she’s neglectful & abusive] #she need me to show her what a REAL husband is like!!! - a girl #bloberta puppington #bloberta hymentact #moral orel

[buddiesmutslut]

One thing I hate so much about 911 is the LACK OF APOLOGIES.

Bobby shoves Buck against the wall in s1 & it’s written off as acceptable bc Buck is being nosy, like being annoying is a good excuse to put your hands on an employee.

Buck apologized for the lawsuit & not being around in s3, but Bobby never apologized for holding him back (& lying about it) & Eddie never apologized for screaming at him in the grocery store.

Chim assaulted Buck in his apartment before going after Maddie, and it was never addressed. (Also, does anyone remember if Chim apologized for keeping the Daniel secret from Buck but not the bomber in that one episode? I genuinely can’t remember, I haven’t watched the first seasons in like, a year.)

Also, does Maddie ever apologize for telling their parents about Buck being in therapy? I know they fought about it, but it was also tied in with the Daniel secret (which was fucked but they talked about that) and I can’t remember, but that was kind of shitty, too.

Buck maybe purposefully gets rough with Eddie and definitely hurts his ankle during the game. Sure, we see him feeling bad about it & Maddie scolding him, but no actual apology to his best friend, not even a mention of one.

Those are just the ones I can think of off the top of my head, & idk man, people are flawed, and I know that these characters aren’t perfect, but part of that is apologizing & making amends when you’re wrong. So much stuff is just glanced over to keep the story moving, and I get it but I’m not a huge fan of it. They all have this great, family bond, but how sustainable is that when you’re not owning up to your mistakes and making it right when you hurt someone?

#911 abc #evan buckley #911 spoilers #eddie diaz #howard chimney han #bobby nash #i have a lot of thoughts #if I was in charge I’d lock everyone in a room & make them say sorry #oliver stark #ryan guzman #peter krause #kenneth choi #jennifer love hewitt #we’re all going to sit in a circle and apologize for the way we hurt each other #the fact that we got Buckley AND Diaz parent apologies before we got apologies for the lawsuit is UNREAL #Honestly that punch from Chim & the way it was handled kind of turned me off his character #like he’s literally in love with a woman that survived an abusive relationship who ended up killing her husband in self defense #and then her next partner punches her brother in his own home bc she spoke to him? & we just go on with our day to day lives???? idfw that #Chim is cool & funny but I hate the writers for that #honestly I could sit here & pick apart each of these occurrences for days so I’m just going to shut up now lol