okay i get that buck doesn't want to get a couch because it's a metaphor or whatever but he canonically has not had a couch for 8 months. imagine if your friend had the money to get a couch but wouldn't because it's a metaphor. who tf does he think he is. augustus waters from tumblr classic the fault in our stars by john green?
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like yes yes eddie needs to choose and buck needs to be chosen but also
Eddie needs to get over the very big trauma of losing his wife. Last time he dated someone he had literal panic attacks at the thought of her being mistaken for Chris’s mother and as much as we saw him work through in therapy we never?? really?? talked?? about?? that?? So, yeah, Eddie needs to realize that he’s at a point where he’s ready to risk his heart and give love a second chance
(and maybe realize he already did becase there already is a partner in his life who gets consistently confused for Chris’s guardian and it feels natural to him?? but he still needs to realize he’s ready for love)
And Buck needs to be ready to be in a relationship where he’s loved for who he is, where he doesn’t bend and twist to fit someone else’s expectations. And for that Buck needed to die, and needed to come back, and now he needs to process that trauma and steady himself.
(and Buck loves so quickly, so openly, so loudly, and he gives so much of himself and he wants to be loved that way, and maybe he’ll realize that he already?? is?? loved?? but he needs to let himself accept it)
so basically, it’s not only a matter of choice... eddie needs to be ready to love and buck needs to accept that he is loved if they are ever going to find each other properly together
and that, my funny little friends, is the point of their arcs were we are at right now
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not to get all "actually☝️" about it but. the whole point of this is the fact that it isn't at all eddie's fault and buck just doesn't know how to properly process or recognize his feelings and know what he's missing *until* he gets presented with a specific situation. in truth buck has no right to be mad at eddie for building bonds with other ppl and it's why he has to do some introspection. this is not a "oh no poor buck eddie apologize to him!!!" thing, it's about buck getting, for lack of a better term, a good emotional humbling. eddie deserves good friendships and relationships, full stop. and if he likes the way he feels when he hangs out with tommy then great!! he's his own person and not a tool to further buck's character. but you also can't expect buck to immediately recognize that because, again, and for the millionth time, the whole POINT is that he doesn't. so if it has to get ugly and uncomfortable and embarrassing for him to do so then that is what will happen and that doesn't make either of them bad people. this is not a blame to be passing around. it's just them being human beings
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another absence is the presence moment is actually the hardware store scene with bobby. as far as we know bobby's only ever been a firefighter, he's a legacy, his dad was a firefighter. so when eddie said that they needed help i assumed you know he'd go to evan "ymca barbie" buckley for help on construction, for help on christopher's homework because buck sits with chris and draws silly hearts and makes him skateboards and bakes cookies for his class and he worked in construction. but eddie asks bobby because a part of him wants to talk about his love life and he just doesn't feel comfortable discussing that one on one with buck.
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The promo team making me rewatch the ending of 6x18 and Oliver saying the Natalia of it all getting dealt with early on has me over here thinking and hoping that we open to Buck showing off his newly delivered couch to Maddie or someone. He explains he chose it himself after he and Natalia had an argument in the couch shop about the right type of couch and that’s how he realised she didn’t really see him - so they split then and there and Buck finally chose his own couch and it didn’t come with a girlfriend!
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it’s the way some people were headcanoning beforehand that eddie would be dead in the dream bc buck wasn’t there to save him from the sniper but the episode chose to focus on buck’s impact on eddie so early on the show instead and how all that almost mirrors the “you act like you’re expendable but you’re wrong” conversation. Bc ultimately it’s never been about buck saving eddie in the literal sense, it’s about the way he’s saved him just because he’s buck. Because he’s eddie’s support system and because he has his back and because of his importance to christopher and because, from pretty much the first week, buck stepped into the mess with eddie and never stepped back out again
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the focus on buck and eddie’s friendship / relationship this season plus all of the interviews oliver and ryan have done together…
and you think the jealousy storyline, involving eddie, is NOT going to end with buck realizing he is in love with his best friend???
(not attacking anyone btw i am just being silly and i will be happy with whatever the hell happens LONG AS we get canon queer buck)
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Buck: I just don’t wanna pick the wrong couch yk?
*Buck 5 minutes later to the first girl who walks into the room*: Hey Natalia do you want to buy another couch with me 🤪🤪
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