#and i think today they crossed a line

[slippery-minghus]

ough. just more or less laid a boundary with my best friend and it feels really bittersweet. good because i did it instead of taking the passive route that would make me uncomfortable, but bad because i don't want to hurt their feelings... but good again bc maybe if i start having better boundaries with them, they'll realize there's some stakes to continuing the shit they're doing..?

#i love them but there's just not a solid piece of motivation in them to take any initiative towards bettering themselves #like. i get that they're struggling and that's real and valid #but there's struggling and trying to do something about it and then there's struggling and wallowing in it #and they're so caught up in learned helplessness that they just keep making bad decision after bad decision #and even though they know that it messes them up they keep getting high #and i'm pretty sure they're due to get drug tested by their doctor soon exactly for this #and they keep getting high bc it's the only way they can cope with the hellhole job they refuse to leave #and even though there are things being handed to them to find other options they won't take them #and i think today they crossed a line #we were about to hang out for our weekly discord call (which 60% of the time they bail on bc they're too fried from work) #and they were like wait. i'm still high. didn't think i still would be by now. #and they asked if i was okay still hanging out #and my first instinct was of course as long as they wanted to #but i couldn't do it. i'd either wanna be high with them which i can't do or it would just be kinda awkward #and it's bad enough being their vent board for work drama when they're sober #i couldn't say yes. so i gently said we'll hang out next week with a heart and #some lighthearted texting back and forth. but. going with the flow with them does wear on me #i know they're time blind but i also know the time blindness is worse bc they're always high. i know they don't intend to hurt my feelings #but them always being late to our hangouts when they do show does really feel like they don't value my time or ours together #especially bc our schedules don't line up well and i always end up staying up an hour late when we hang out #i really wanna have a candid talk with them about it and i don't think they'd ditch me over it or get mad at me but... #i just don't want to hurt them. even if a lot of it is their own doing they have a lot on their plate #it puts me in a tough spot which isn't fair. theyir best friend shouldn't hurt them but who else should call them out on their bullshit? #maybe in a day or two. i'll start with something small. i'll refresh my memory on DEAR MAN and stuff #fuck. bc who better for me to test my own challenges at having better boundaries on than my friend who's also struggling #having better boundaries is one of the few things i really have stagnated on and won't take initiative to heal so if i want them #to do the same i need to set an example #personal #and. well. guess i get to play halo tonight after all

[mrghostrat]

cc: my only main hobbies are playing video games and like, spending time with my wife. uh, nothing really outside of that... like i don't secretly read, for example. (background laughter) that would catch you off guard. (screaming with laughter) wait why are you laughing so hard. (still laughing) why are you laughing so hard. what the fuck. that was rude.

heard you all needed a dose of "partner causing chaos off screen"

tina changed my brain chemistry with this one

(april 2021 highlights) (full qna) (stream) @tinadayton

#can't believe i almost didn't think about this today #i'm BEGGING YOU all to watch this #please #ray narvaez jr #twitch #shoutout to pee pee poo poo or poo poo pee pee #that's my streamer #(i also wish i could see this as streamer au but i know these guys personally and dont really cross that line ha)

[sleepinglionhearts]

new stickers? it’s more likely than you think!

#doodles #stickers #fe3h #fire emblem three houses #byleth eisner #edelgard von hresvelg #claude von riegan #dimitri alexandre blaiddyd #fe art tag #ok so i uploaded these guys + the line the cross and the curve artwork today #so they will be under review for a little while but should be accessible soon enough #i don't think i've had to wait more than a day for my other stickers when they started doing this #anyway aaaaAAAAA these took a long tiiiime #or ok the byleths did not take so long #edelgard and dimitri were also finished sorta close to when the byleths were done #but claude.... claude was the challenging one #i wanted his pose to look good but also could not for the life of me figure out a good pose for him #obviously i kinda set myself up for something when i drew edelgard and dimitri in the poses they're in #also maybe i should not have thought 'oh yeah let's put the weapons in there too that'll be cool' #which yeah it looks good but MAN IT WAS DIFFICULT #ok ok enough from me about these please enjoy #i have other things to work on now #a commission or two and then. more stickers #please enjoy the art #and please have patience while redbubble decides what to do with these things

[yuukels]

#doodle #art #ensemble stars #enstars #fanart #leo tsukinaga #izumi sena #izuleo #thinking about that one leo line ...he fell into a river #also animal crossing parody bcs i randomly thought abt whitney today and izumi looks so much like her ....

[sunnnfish]

It’s a fucking task to not just repeatedly post about I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then. 今触らねえんだな. Please understand I am genuinely thinking about it 24/7. Like god. I know I already waxed poetic about it but SERIOUSLY what was Kagi gonna DO what was Hirano EXPECTING HIM TO DO. Huh? Okay… …I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then. 今 right now 触らねえ not touch んだな I guess.

AND something else I’m thinking too much about the hanzawa how do you know you’re in love and I know he said 触りたいとか wanting to touch them and it’s the same word because of course it is that’s how words and translations work but I’m sick in the head !!!! And also the love is when you can’t stop thinking about the other person or so they say and fucking. Idk. I reread the series today and goddamn does Hirano think about Kagi a lot. It’s sickening. I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then. I’m SICK

#it’s on fucking LOOP in my BRAIN #I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then. #man that sun is dazzling today #I feel struck by this crazy urge to do whatever I can to support him #I like you as a person #I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then #今触らねえんだな #and don’t even get me started about like the physicality of it #Hirano laying on his back on the goddamn floor #Kagi crossing that line and leaning over him barely a foot away from his face #what was he going to do….. #and like. god what were they thinking in that beat that breath before Hirano spoke #he was expecting Kagi to do something. waiting for it #Kagi-kun? #(what are you waiting for?) #Christ alive. #and Kagi leaves and he gets up on his elbows like a jilted lover #… I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then #it’s fucked. I’m fucked #AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #sunnfish.kghr #Hirano to kagiura #Hirano and kagiura #if you see me posting about other things I promise I guess he wasn’t gonna touch me then is still on my mind. I promise

[aziraphale-protection-squad]

right. so. i'm taking the angel and i'm wrapping him in a soft blanket and i'm telling him that NO ONE has the right to touch him without his consent.

no matter how well they know each other and got along previously.

or how angsty the person feels about possibly never seeing him again.

or how much Aziraphale might even possibly WANT to be intimate with that person on some level, someday, when they're okay again.

there are no ways around this:

if he's not READY for it, or if he's not in the MOOD for a kiss, then NO ONE SHOULD BE KISSING HIM. PERIOD.

#pretty sure this is not a controversial statement but the things i've seen some folks say today has been. um. #disheartening to say the least and alarming at worst. #please fucking tell me i'm not the only one who knows assault when they see it even if they find both characters attractive. #like. holy fuck. i love(d) crowley too but what the fuck. #how is THIS being overlooked while Aziraphale is taking all the blame for how shit went down in the finale. #~ooh they finally kissed!!!!!~ ugh but STUPID ANGLE!!! >:( doesn't he know how sexy and emotional crowley is??? he should ENJOY this!!!! #<- some of y'all's apparent attitude and it Concerns me deeply. #call it what it fucking is even if it sucks. it was a violation. period. it's 2023 we don't tolerate Blurred Lines bullshit here. #goddamnit this was my safe fandom and now i'm like. y'all scare me tbh. #i hate fandom drama but the way the majority have elected to ignore a literal assault so they can UWU Sad Demon Puppy their blorbo is just. #what is this? spn??? #he was my blorbo too but holy fuck i have lines. i have boundaries. and he crossed them when he crossed Aziraphale's. #if u think u know who this is no u don't #i am conflict avoidant leaf me alone lol #i just need to know that i'm not the only person here who um. respects boundaries and consent and all that. because y'all got me Concerned. #like. i wanna rant about this in my fandom friend groups but they're all UWU CROWLEY DESERVED BETTER so um. i no longer feel safe there tbh #good omens spoilers #go2 spoilers #go spoilers #good omens 2 spoilers

[fantasticalleigh]

not only do i love little knick-knacks to put around my room but i am an absolute SUCKER for glow in the dark knick-knacks and such. i have glow in the dark dice and a glow in the dark tumbler cup and some bracelets and at night when they glow i just lie in bed and think neat

#if i were a dragon i would hoard cool glow in the dark things and i'd prob have neon eyes/claws just saying #all this to say that i bought electric green nail polish earlier today thinking it was glow in the dark but turns out i picked #the shade that doesn't glow lmao i'm disappointed but it's a cool color still #glow in the dark stars actually freak me out #there's a place near me that used to be a blacklight-lit mini golf place with neon shit everywhere #and it sounds cool in concept but it looks like a nightmare and i hated that place but it's out of business now #so there's def a line to cross #i bought my sis glow in the dark rainboots once as a gift bc she thought they were cool too #and they didn't have my size :( but then she lost them ages ago #those boots were so cool RIP #leigh speaks #also the new monster high skulltimate secrets line glow in the dark and i bought ghoulia tho i shouldn't have #she GLOWS i love her

[wiltking]

i feel fucking unhinged about these leon drawings. with great power comes great responsibility and im putting all my power into these trans tits rn

#these will NOT be going on my ig account where several family members follow me. i do think i have crossed a line. today 🥰

[no-face-no-shame]

I wish I knew how to describe how my life went to shit during one day. I wish today never happened

#i'm not going to elaborate because it would take too long and i'm not going to write a vent essay #but yeah basically my parents hate me now and think i'm the most vile and disgusting lying deranged monster #and i already know it will never change at this point. today crossed the line #vent #delete later

[ashmp3]

guys i can’t wait for it to get cold… i was sorting out my winter accessories and got excited looking at my leather gloves and fur hats and earmuffs… as if that’s a crime… Anyway last year the color of the season for me was dark chocolate brown and dark red (mixed with black or navy as a base) and it will remain the same this year god bless….

#i have dark red and chocolate brown leather gloves (and black and black with fur lined) and my chocolate bag… and my new šubara… GODD #i can’t wait i love when i look like little winter princess it’s my favorite thing ever #also i would love to find a small cherry colored leather bag and i think i did fingers crossed it doesn’t sell but it’s so sexy and cute #and the black one… if i do well on my work today i will order it 🤭🙏 #tt

[raulfernandez]

Have I told you people about the Jaume/Adrian cars fic yet?

#myself #anna author era #this has been in planning for so long now lmao Libby knows all about it #anyways I was just thinking about it today like imagine the scene where the 3 of them cross the finish line (lightning with his tongue) #but it's on bikes (it's Adrian. Tatsu and I think Marc or Vale lmao) (don't ask) #if I were a better artist I would so try and draw that lol

[ducksbyday]

A very messy attempt of visualising my q!aypierre redesign

TLDR: When returning from vacation, always make sure you don't accidentally take exotic animals with you back home, they can disturb the environment greatly.

An headcanon/au where Q!Pierre is a deepsea creature pretending to be human. He managed to sneak on the plane to France and now he's on the island looking for the perfect partner to consume/parasitize (That's why he keeps bringing people to his bed lmao)

[but then he realises "hey maybe I don't actually wanna eat maximus and they live a very happy after ]

#I love men who are evil without intending to be #I imagine him thinking that it's just completely normal to eat your significant other #I am very tired #and my head hurts #that my excuse this time #qsmp aypierre #qsmp #aypierre #aypierre fanart #I am uncertain if this one should've stayed in the drafts or if I am just mentally ill #I think it is a very funny concept #Seeing the events of today 14/8/23 I am relieved to know that this is def not crossing a line why the fuck is Maxo now pregnant LMAO

[touchlikethesun]

so i've already doled out pet names to a few hq characters, tobio's "my son <3", akaashi's "my darling," yachi's "my girl <3"...

originally tsukki didn't get a pet name (well, you could say originally he already had a pet name but i'm 23 now and i don't want to call a 15yro boy the same pet name i called him when i was 13/14 nope nope), mostly cause he's already tsukki, that's not a pet name but it is a nickname. but now i feel like just "tsukki" isn't affectionate enough, and even "tsukki <3" doesn't quite feel right... maybe "my dino nerd <3"?? with the "<3" the "<3" is very important... that feels a bit reductive...

this is a serious dilemma.

#for those curious i unironically and frequently referred to him as “my husband” for year #bc yeah i've always had a hard time disentangling identification and attraction #calling him that now would both be wildly inappropriate - he's a babyyyyy - and also inaccurate like that's not my husband that's ME so #i think he was the second character i called that... the first was kurapika from hxh and you know what i'd still call him that today #like if i got back into hxh #love kurapika <3 #and i am not really that much like him #if anything i am more like leorio #and the fact that i can admit that is truly proof of character development #how are leorio and tsukki similar...? #well don't think tooo hard about it kk thx bb <3 #anyways i will think about this and report back #maybe strawberry boy? but that's also reductive #sweetheart is what i have other characters call him in fics #i could do that but THAT feels like crossing a line #that's for kuroo not for me #ah well anyways #tsukki <3 #tsukishima kei #haikyuu

[sugucidal]

ageing up characters kinda gives me the ick especially when it's 30+ year old writers writing about characters that were 15 for 98% of the anime/manga

hmm this is definitely murky water territory we're stepping into right now. personally, im not interested in characters that aren't canonically adults cause i just prefer adult characters. but i wont bash on anyone that does decide to age up a character cause at the end of the day, its fiction. BUT, it definitely gets icky for me when a character like for example: killua gets aged up and written smut abt. cause they write zero implications of him being an adult besides saying he's 18+ in the story. so there's certain lines not to be crossed. but i could see why you and some other people could get icked out to see a 30+ year old writing heavy smut n thirsts about a character who'll never see a chance to be aged up canonically in their respective universes.

send me your unpopular opinions!

#୨♡୧ — 𝒊𝐍𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐌𝑬𝐒𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐄 #i think if the author can age up their character. why not you? #buuut #there's certain lines not to be crossed like say the character being a literal child 🚬🐟 #thats on some hisoka shit #i wouldnt write smut abt a character who isnt 18+ today but i definitely would have back when i was 18/19 #its fiction. so overall im pretty neutral on this discussion #write what u want 🐠

[asiogie]

If ur recent tweet is about that clip/ss from the irl stream then u are so based and i’m glad you find it weird too

i was debating saying smth for like 30 mins bc obviously the idea is for dream to not see that shit but i think the damage from one person with a platform being like Hey Knock It Off is significantly less than the amount of people who would continue to say things like that if nobody said anything about it u feel me

#does this make sense or am i waffling #anyways i love dreams body #we all love dreams body #but i think theres a line and a lot of people crossed it today #ask

[winxys]

i find it very annoying that u can't express ur opinion on a song without ppl immediately telling u to shut up and calling u a hater. if i made a song that sucked ass i would appreciate it if my fans told me instead of lying to me

#glad to see lyons on tumblr aren't as annoying as the ones on twt bc PLS #i hope i like the song but also everyone can express their opinion ? it's not like anyone's hating on THEM we hate the noise 🫶 #i hate this in general but i rlly felt it today #m.text #not saying the ooo song sucks btw it might not be as bad as i think i'm just making a point #also ofc there's a line u shouldn't cross im just annoyed at ppl that r like u HAVE to like everything ur faves put out and if u don't then #even say it