#and also therapy

[lifeof-pink]

realizing while reading the epilogue that kim dokja’s constant habit of throwing himself to his death is not necessarily him having a complete plan to come back, but that regardless of if he comes back or not he simply cannot imagine himself having his own happy ending in the end is destroying me… like when did he ever survive specifically for himself?? did he ever want to live not because it would allow his companions to survive but because he himself deserved a place in the world??? idk idk im sad im so sad im wallowing in my own tears rn…. excuse my probable mischaracterization im having a moment

#omniscient reader's viewpoint #orv #orv spoilers #orv epilogue spoilers #my heart burns for him #it hurts im so desperately sad for him #especially with the outright stated suicide attempt…. #like i thought that was just something a fsnfic author wrote but no its fucking canon #i need someone to convince him that he deserves good in the world #and also therapy #despite his whole life he still ended with so much love in his heart #and they loved him so much he was able to come back #my chest hurts #i need someone to hold him and also me

[ultimateaclrecovery]

My therapist asked me Tuesday if I thought part of why I keep debating whether to stay with my boyfriend or not (for those who missed it I broke up with him in March and then got back together a week later because I hadn’t actually given him a chance to respond to or change to the things I was unhappy about) was because I struggle with my making decisions in general.

And wow did that hit me like a ton of bricks. Now I’m no chidi from the hood place, but like I do agonize over a lot of decisions. (See my recent flight angst and every meaningless poll I’ve made here.) and it sounds weird but it was deeply relieving. It’s nice to know where a lot of the angst comes from. It also explains in part why the idea of breaking up with him feels like it would be a relief, because then the decision would be over and I wouldn’t have to make it anymore (in addition to the schedule relief) whereas staying together is more ongoing decision so the decision angst continues.

And not that that means we won’t break up still in the future, there’s a reason for the doubts after all but it’s nice to identify the source of some of the comfort and that it’s an okay source. Removes some of the meta worry (being worried about the angst, don’t have to worry about being stressed about the decision if you know you’re just stressed because decisions are hard)

She also brought up how we can’t ever be 100% sure of anything and that it’s okay to have things not be perfect.

So know I have made myself a little decision making spreadsheet to help me track how I feel about my boyfriend and whether or not I want to keep dating him. The hope being to stop the doom spiral from anytime something slightly upsets me and deciding that must mean he’s the worst for me and I need to break up with him and die alone. Because that’s not helpful or representative really of whether he’s a good fit for me or not.

And maybe it’s slightly neurotic to rank how feel about interactions with my bf, but I love me some data. And laying things out clearly to really see patterns. And see what’s actually happen verses getting distracted by doom spiraling (or conversely letting one good moment (or good sex and all those feel good hormones) ) over shadow the rest

#chaos rambles #I love me some spreadsheets #and also therapy #therapy is good #I doesn’t feel like a good sign sometimes that dating him more or less drive me to therapy #but therapy is good for everyone anyway #and first relationships as an adult are hard

[orngbanana]

wish Jeremy and Dion got more screentime and POV chapters in the novel so I could have more info to psychoanalyze and be sad abt them

#jeremy agriche #jeremy agrece #dion agriche #dion agrece #twtptflob #the way to protect the female lead's older brother #roxana #men with serious attachment issues have ruined my life yet again lmao #I want to study them #they deserve a mental breakdown #and also therapy #i hate them/j

[lajqlla]

ahem

Keefe and Sophie always make each other promise they wont hate each other whenever something happens because Sophie always gets shit on over everything by Fitz, sometimes Biana, and even Dex (who are supposed to be her best friends), and Keefe literally was never loved by anyone growing up. Fitz, his supposed "best friend," shits on him just as much as Sophie, and dont even get me started on his parents that literally ABUSED HIM VERBALLY, MENTALLY, AND EMOTIONALLY. he feels, always has felt, that he cant open up to anyone.

and then Foster came along.

kind, patient, caring Foster. the Foster who will hold him through his tears, the Foster who will hear him out and tell him he has every right to feel the way he does. Foster who will see him at his very lowest, take his hand, and sit with him until he's ready to start the journey back up.

after all the bitching and moaning he got from other people, is it any wonder he'd never believe he could truly be loved?

#keefe sencen #sophie foster #sokeefe #kotlc #this boy needs so many hugs #and also therapy #angst headcanon

[bailarinasworld-blog]

Was it just me, or did you guys also notice that Laurel talks to Tyler in a very suspicious way? He looks quite uncomfortable when she cups his face. I don't know, she looks like she's...trying to seduce him sometimes? And Tyler's father is an idiot, chasing the wrong people while he has a pedophile torturing his son, and who knows what else 🤮

#laurel gates #tyler galpin #wednesday #ped0philia #hydetyler #hyde #wednesdayserie #i hate tyler's dad #and even more Laurel #Tyler needs to be protected from these two #and also therapy #a warm blanket #hot chocolate and lots of love

[piereoglyphics]

I think abt my lego oc the average amount

(working on a oneshot book for him on archive... might make a full book of the AU but i need to check with my accomplices :])

Also if you're wondering abt the "7724 AOD" it means 7724 years after the overlords first defeat

#ninjago #ninjago oc #ninjago aus #ninjago au #ninjago art #ninjago fandom #my precious #pls ask me about him #pls ask #they need a hug #and also therapy #glyphs drawings #cormasterofcolor

[sugarcubemari]

Living a nightmare…

#ace attorney #miles edgeworth #this man needs a hug #and also therapy #my art

[thegreatmelodrama]

Petition for Steve Harrington to get a dog and be happy at the end of Stranger Things

#steve harrington #Steve Harrington will beat death allegations #st4 #stranger things #stranger things 4 #he deserves to be happy #give him a dog #and also therapy #and maybe a brain scan?

[mstrchu]

girl help my friends keep trying to do things that will definitely make them insane

#why don't you both try ASCENDING to some THERAPY #bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #astarion #gale dekarios #did not realise gale had a last name until just now when that tag popped up #is his last name not 'of waterdeep'??? #... #art tag #also perceive my little guy.. his name is tau......

[slimylittlemaggot]

If this gets 10,000 notes, then I'll go to therapy.

#haha #jk #I can't afford it #I'm broke #also I don't think that I should base my decisions on my social media performance #but lord knows I need therapy

[beybuniki]

gossip duo tbh

#i like clingy deku but i also like touch avoidant bakugo theyre so funny #bakugo is so focused he forgets to yell at deku for putting his entire weight on his fucked up back THIS IS PHYSICAL THERAPY LETS BE GENTL #anyway i think bakugo is claustrophobic #bnha

[spiderzwebb]

hey guys i havent been on here much because i have decided to become insufferable once again and make being a runner my whole personality

#3 races coming up!!! #diary #and also therapy

[probablyhuntersmom]

The healing and lasting love of a mom

#for Mother's Day 2023 #camila noceda #hunter noceda #toh hunter #older hunter #toh waffles #the owl house #toh edits #loz's edits #loz's art #he's her lil' wolf cub forever #in the last pic he's fetching her to go for dinner at Dell and Gwen's house #like listen: she would've played a huge role in his recovery. after the Collector Palace scene he would've sunk into the darkest depression #in the weeks and many months to follow #she'd check his therapy progress. accompany him to therapy at times and fetch him from therapy too #he needed her warmth and guiding light as foundational building blocks. to be who he was after the timeskip #they'd both always remember that night where he drowned and she pulled him out of the water #she'd make sure he had the best possible Grom Night #and he'd be eternally grateful. they'd also work together throughout the years to follow since her expertise and his can overlap nicely #he keeps visiting the Human Realm now and then. to have movie nights..dinners..road trips etc with her and Luz and Vee #1k #2k #3k #4k #5k #8k #9k #10k #15k #20k

[greenglowinspooks]

To be honest. DCxDP where the reason Danny meets the bats is Ace the Bat-hound

Like, just think about it for a second. Danny is in Gotham for college, or maybe he just moved out to find a city where having mad scientist parents isn’t actually that unusual.

He can see ghosts.

The ghosts know this.

Now he’s getting harassed left and right by spirits trying to get closure. Fine, whatever, most of them are a one-and-done type deal, and the amount of ghosts trying to get his help steadily decreases.

Except for this one very stubborn dog.

It just keeps showing up and leading him to crime scenes! He doesn’t know how many “anonymous tips” he can call in to the cops before they trace his phone! And this dog, this incredibly good boy, will not stop trying to help the city. He’s never met anyone with such a strong sense of justice, let alone a dog. Can dogs even have a moral compass?

And so Danny just accepts the fact that Ace isn’t going anywhere and becomes his reluctant sidekick/dedicated medium. He leans into the whole thing, dressing up in a mix of traditional magic-user attire and accessories that pay homage to the ghost dog.

He becomes somewhat well known. The psychopomp detective following around the shadowy figure of a German Shepard? That’s unusual! That’s weird! I mean, it’s not the weirdest thing in Gotham, sure, but he’s a new vigilante and he’s got a ghost dog that people can only see when it’s around him. Someone’s gonna notice.

Damian, as Robin, is the first to reach out to him.

Ace doesn’t know Damian but he does know a Robin, and while this isn’t his Robin, he’s still friendlier than usual. Danny’s panicking because oh god the bats are here and also is this kid gonna steal my ghost dog, Damian is absolutely delighted by Ace, and Ace is just happy to see a Robin again.

Damian decides that the psychopomp isn’t a danger to anyone, and there’s no reason to put this encounter into his reports, really, and perhaps Danny can help with some of his cases in the future.

Danny is sweating bullets because Damian basically tells him that he’ll keep him secret as long as he gets to play with Ace. Ace is happy that he’s finally getting some bat affiliated crime-fighting assistance.

And so, Danny is now both Ace AND Damian’s reluctant assistant. At least whenever he’s in trouble, he can always call a middle schooler to help him.

(Is Robin even in school? He’s out patrolling damn near every night, and he stays out late as hell. Does he have a bedtime? He should.)

Eventually it gets to the point where Damian is going over to Danny’s house. When he first sees it, he has a damn bitch you live like this moment, to which Danny responds that not everyone has the money to afford a nice place. Damian counters that he could at least take the time to clean up, and Danny replies that he’s working, going to school, and being a vigilante assistant to a ghost dog, something’s got to give.

Danny nearly has a heart attack when he checks his bank account the next day and sees that someone transferred him 10,000 dollars.

And so they get into a routine. Danny and Damian fight crime with Ace at night, and occasionally Damian stops by during the day to play with Ace and have Danny help with his homework.

(Damian is smart enough to do it on his own, but some of the instructions are written incredibly confusingly, and he would never admit to needing help to his family. Danny is just glad that the kid is in school and cares about his education, blissfully unaware that he’s basically emotionally adopted him.)

Damian is used to being in Danny’s company.

Eventually, when going over a case with the family, Damian absentmindedly remarks that he’ll have to ask Danny about some of the clues that they might be missing. Nightwing asks who he means and Damian makes a face like he just swallowed a lemon.

Cue shitstorm.

Who is “Danny?” Why is Damian willing to ask for help from anyone, much less someone outside of the family? Does he know who Damian is? Has Damian been compromised? What the hell is going on?

Damian now has to explain that Danny is the psychopomp with the ghost dog who he might have met hunted down while on patrol and conveniently not mentioned, but he’s not a bad person, really, and he lets him play with Ace, and he’s been quite helpful on certain cases due to his ability to talk to ghosts.

Bruce insists that the family meet Danny. Damian, hoping that he won’t just skip town the second he hears the news, relents.

Danny is surprisingly eager to meet the bats, considering his earlier fears.

Damian, blissfully unaware of what’s coming, sets a time and place to meet.

Once everyone is there, he gives Bruce the earful of a lifetime.

Robin is in middle school! Danny knows that there’s no way to stop the boy from going on patrol, but you could at least shift his schedule so he gets enough sleep on school nights! Does the Bat even know where he is half the time?! (No) And why isn’t he comfortable asking his family for help with both cases and homework? Did they ever even notice how much time he was spending at Danny’s house? If Danny was a bad person, he could have seriously hurt the poor boy! Shame on you!

Nightwing is mortified that Damian didn’t trust him enough to tell him about any of this. Red Hood is laughing his ass off, because yeah Danny is making good points but he’s also chewing out the literal Batman. Tim is recording the whole thing. Steph is delighted by the absolute gall of this Danger Twink™️, and already planning to add him to several groupchats. Damian is more embarrassed than he’s ever been in his entire life.

You, he points to Nightwing, did your academic life feel supported when you were a Robin? Nightwing is too stunned to speak. Red Hood, eternal shit-stirrer, says that oh, we all prioritized patrol over our education, that’s just how it is. Red Robin actually dropped out of high school to avoid distractions, did you know that?

Danny honest-to-god shrieks at this.

He finishes his angry rant and leaves, everyone too stunned to stop him.

And as it turns out, Tim wasn’t the only person recording the whole thing.

The entire internet is blowing up with Psychopomp The Danger Twink™️’s rant. People are taking sides. Things are getting messy. Red Hood literally admitting on-camera to previously being a Robin is somehow not the main focus here.

Eventually someone connects some dots from the video, as well as stories circling the internet about the psychopomp. A ghost dog named Ace, who is the literal only reason that the psychopomp is fighting crime at all, which seems incredibly fond of Nightwing and Robin.

A crime-fighting dog who wants constant attention from both the current and original Robin.

Oh my god, Ace the Bat-hound died and became a crime-fighting ghost.

And, somehow, that’s still not the strangest thing going on in Gotham.

#dcxdp #dc x dp #dp x dc #dpxdc #dp x dc crossover #dc x dp prompt #literally Ace is too good a boy to pass on #this veered wildly into ‘Danny emotionally adopts Damian’ but really it’s what he deserves #sometimes family is an ex child assassin an undead college student and a ghost dog #also Danny gives literally no shits during investigations because he Cannot Die #he will just casually take 40 bullets to the chest like it’s nothing #if he encounters a rogue he will beat the everloving hell out of them and then give them Jazz’s card #(she’s doing confidential therapy for vigilantes and rogues) #except for the ones who are too far gone. like the joker #he’s a bitch and Danny hates him #if given the opportunity Danny would gladly kill him but Clockwork says he’s not allowed to do that #so he settles with beating the hell out of him and then covering all his stuff in glue #and of course alerting the authorities

[chronicowboy]

#sami rambles #genuinely insane of him #i need his home address and bank account details so i know where to send my therapy bills #also the paperwork for my emotional damage lawsuit #tlou #tlou hbo #craig mazin #the last of us #the last of us hbo #bill and frank #bill x frank #frank x bill

[coralnoodle]

WHAT THE HELL IS LAB SAFETY!!

#my art #danny phantom #dp #danny fenton #danny phantom fanart #heheheh i have more time to do art now!! #reason: i went to therapy for work #tho im also writing my thesis so like dont set this as your standard for me lmao #anyways!! who wants to listen to my insane danny phantom analysis and hcs!! #eye strain #ask to tag!