#and also i need a fucking haircut

[v4mpbite]

I hate when I see a really pretty girl with such a cool style but I'm walking home from tesco looking like a scruffy dog 😭

#im gonna start dressing up to go to ny corner shops again #and also i need a fucking haircut #so i dont look bad #omg

[mirrorhouse]

this hair mod is sooooooooooooooo cute

#she can have a kind of fucked up choppy awesome haircut as a treat #this armour mod also??!?? i need her so badly #the armour is gothyanki gear btw #baldur's gate #lae'zel #★

[lifeintheworldtocome]

your WHAT shirt came

my fnaf lobotomy shirt of course

#delete l8r #i looove this shit so much im never taking it off #ignore the back of my hair btw i need a haircut so fucking bad 😭😭 hasnt been touched since june man #also ignore the fact that i took this on snapchat and just exported it bc i didnt want to take another. lmao

[keymintt]

life doodles

#art #me #comics #my art #doodles #in regards to that last one there are mats on the floor i'm not getting slammed into like. concrete #oughgh i need to dye my hair blue again that doodle's old #but also i need to cut it hdsgklhdfl that's gonna be tonight's task #using my clippers for the first time wish me luck #i've cut my own hair before but to the effect of like. trimming a haircut to what i /actually/ wanted #went to the barber months ago like 'hey can you cut my hair' and when he was done he was like 'i gave you something more feminine!' #like! i appreciate the time you took! that's not why i came here though! i kinda want to curl up and die abt that! #he also gave me an undercut. which. i don't look /terrible/ with an undercut but imo the line between a bowl cut and an undercut is razor #fucking thin. also i asked for the length to be blended and showed pictures but who knows i could just be a dumbass for all i know #gotta do it yourself if you want it done right. queer rite of passage or smthin idfk #ANyways hope y'all are doing good

[leave-a-whisper]

If you're defending Kit Connor but then going back and saying "wait, but it's okay to harass this unlabled person because they are CLEARLY straight" please just shut the fuck up. That's the same exact thing people were saying about Kit and the only reason you care about what happened to him now is because he happens to be queer.

#just say you hate cishet people and go #or people you perceive to be that way #also 'queer culture' is not a fucking thing oh my god #you wouldn't tell a straight/unlabled woman with a short haircut and masculine clothes that she's 'using lesbian culture' #so just let men wear dressed jesus fucking christ #you don't need to be openly queer in order to dress gnc #the double standard is ridiculous #no one and I repeat no. one. #owes you a coming out #that is not for you #they don't exist to be your 'rep' #they are P E O P L E #you don't getvto make exceptions for people you dislike #har rambles #heartstopper #kit connor

[mellaithwen]

Me: I’m fine

Also me: *crying over my puppy getting his first big haircut next week*

#you don’t understaaaand he’s my baby and he’s smöl so how can he need a full groom 😭 and he’ll lose his puppy fluff #he has the cutest superman ringlet and I’m worried they’ll cut it 😭😭😭 #I don’t know why this is breaking through the anti depressant wall but it really fucking is my dudes (gn) #I’m also genuinely scared they’ll decide to just shave him completely even thought he’s not matted but I’m so paranoid #I’ve never liked a haircut from the hairdressers yknow? 🥲 #we named the dog Indiana #pupper #puppy #dogs #Mellaithwen takes a photo

[carbon--14]

not putting this on the art blog cuz it’ll probably never get finished but re: that other post, WOE. STEVEN GRANT BE UPON YE

#steven grant #moon knight #moon knight comics #mk #elliott draws stuff #I NEED TO YELL OKAY. i am a writer and have read the last 10 years worth of mk in under a week #my thoughts on steven are SO SCRAMBLED i have SO many ideas cuz idk what version of him i like best #he’s a BUSINESSMAN. he’s a FILMMAKER. he’s SMART and he knows what people WANT #but he’s also PASSIONATE and just a liiiittle FUCKING WEIRD. #the kind of ‘eccentric’ where no one bats an eye when he seems to drop of the face of the earth for a while (like in mackay) #(also i think he’s pretty aware that he’s the best at dealing with mksys’s emotional + physical wellbeing) #(hence why ‘getting a haircut’ takes top priority as soon as he gets to front for the first time in a while lmaooo)

[theconfusedanimal]

DOODLES

#sketchbook diary #got my eyes checked by his parents bc they're really nicies #waiting for the new glasses now (ive had my current ones for over ten years at this point) #also got a haircut!!!! fucking NEEDED it #do i do oc tags. i forget #i think i dont but i should #davin the zorua/shinx #amina the meowstic/persian #asher the delcatty/torracat #aedre the vaporeon

[strawbs-screaming]

looking through my old messages is so traumatizing i want to go back in time and kick myself in the stomach like what possessed you...

#biggest “WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT” moment in my life tbh #the only thing that didnt make me cringe is me calling my brother a “mayo snorting goblin” #2020 me kinda ate that up #2021-2022 was def something tbh #i wore pink cat ears. i think thats all you need to know #ohh this is def going to keep my dumbass awake at night #ı was cringe but i was free and im proud of past me for that #it was one of my worst years but like... kick ass #<- by worst i mean mentally horrid in a way that changed me forever #speaking of 2021-2022.. my old chosen names were absolutely CRIMINAL #the first one was felony (which i still kinda dig but in a cunty way) the second one was ciel which i think is cool #but heres the bomb: one of my old chosen names was cereal. CEREAL #i think ted takes the cake tho. what evil soul possessed me to choose ted as a name #also constantine waa one of my old names which is actually fucking awesome #eıhjfjfjf i have a science exam tomorrow and im on tumblr infodumping about 2021 me uhhhf #i jumped through so many hoops to get to this blog #2020 somehow knew something transgender was going down and decided to get a haircut and boom. gender #DYSPHORIA THAT IS GET PRANKED LOSER #shout out to 2020 me for figuring out whats up #not sorry about the incoherent screaming. im autistic and i am full of violence

[jorvikzelda]

….Okay but what if I cut my hair off though

#day 2 of having realisations that turn my entire life and sense of self completely upside down and send me into a full blown identity crisis #it’s going well #But like!!!! Having the urge to cut my hair off is WAY >>>>>> the severe nausea and disgust at myself I was feeling last night #We live and we grow !!!!!! #z talks #not horse game #my hairs currently armpit length I’ve been growing it out for the past 3 years after having it short for over 3 years before that #(it’s been a process with some setbacks bc I had some damaged hair that needed OFF and also an undercut that needed Away) #and I’ve been like. ok I’ve never had Super Long Hair before. let’s get this bitch to waist length #BUT IM JUST NOT FEELING IT MAN #I keep looking back at the pictures from when I had chin length hair and going fuck man that was a good haircut for me

[bugmistake]

well gay people. another night at the gay bar that left me deeply dysphoric and feeling , as a result, deeply unattractive and perhaps unlovable. jury’s out on that last one. auuuugh

#im getting a haircut on tuesday maybe i should go real short again. maybe i should do voice training #idk being a femmy faggy guy and transmasc is so fucking. #i know i dont pass a lot lf the time. i used to mostly pass and that was nice but i also didnt like thr way i looked #idk in december someone flat out said to me ‘you look like a woman’ so thats. #so that was. um #idk i need a hug man i need a good hug and i need to take a nap on someone. i hate it here

[running-in-the-dark]

ah, crap.

I gave up and started watching Almost Paradise. I don't want to like it! but I'm not even a minute in and there's his stupid face and his arms and he's adorable and I hate it (I love it 😭)

and then this: "just boom. heart failure. and trust me, that's worse than penis failure" cool 👍

and now he's been hit in the face by a beach ball 😌 awesome

#and his name is Alex in this??? what the fuck that's illegal #I'm not gonna try to find another name again you stupid fucker so you better be nice 😫 #sorry #having my usual internal conflict about liking his face and hating him as a person etc etc x #but he is. so. pretty. #I don't even mind the hair. I still think it should be illegal to cut his hair short but if it has to be. this haircut is acceptable. #also he's old and this show is reminding me of that and. why does that make it. better. fuck off #god I hate him (lying) #I laughed so hard when he got hit by that beach ball #I need to see that man get hurt. but really hurt. sooo badly hurt. please I'm begging. someone better punch him soon #almost paradise #christian kane

[theambivalentagender]

I'm noticing a pattern.

Ya'll thirsty.

#valley echoes asides #fuck i need a haircut #also now yall can see why i dont handletter my comics 90% of the timev

[lokh]

how i look with he/him pronouns in my bio

#jokes. theyre not my first preferred pronouns but lmao #i want a haircut so bad. but im toughing it out #what for???? on principle at this point #me #lady at the pharmacy said she liked my overalls i was like omg thank u.... #anyway also i need a haircut becos if i get called maam when i dont intend for it one more time im gonna go batshit. #u cant see the extent of it cos i usually have it up but. theres a lotta fucking hair. #but the front isnt long enough to keep back with it.... #i feel like maybe if ALL of it was back id get maamed less. cos u can see my developing widows peak LMAO #obviously i would have been fine with it here. but i got maamed on the flight back when i was #at my worst and greasiest. already unpleasant experience made worse

[anomalousmancunt]

the thing is: while connecting with the trans community is important and you should do that regardless of your identity, because trans men and trans women and nonbinary people and all other trans people all have a lot in common... you, a trans person of any identity, do also have a lot in common with, say, cis queer people.

so as a trans man, there is nothing wrong with relating with or taking inspiration from cis queer men (or, hell, cishet men) when regarding your gender. you're not doing anything "wrong" or being somehow indirectly bigoted, and you're not obligated to always look towards other trans people (who may be fucking with gender but not in the same way you do) for inspiration.

it's no less progressive to see a cis gay dude and go "I want to be like that". it's not wrong to see yourself in cis men - it's actually perfectly normal. and helpful, plenty of times - as much as trans men helped me with male fashion, I've also looked at cis men who presented like i wanted to, even if I didn't exactly look a lot like them.

#ftm #trans ftm #transmasculine #trans male #gender presentation #this is about a lot of stuff ive seen lately #but basically: to stop queer infighting you also need to realize you will relate to cis men. #and also: you're not limited to 'ftm advice' #i swear you don't need to look up ftm haircuts or fashion or whatever #you're allowed to just. look at men fucking with gender. #16y/o me needed to hear that tbh

[ronnyraygun]

Okay, like, fuck New 52, but, like, every time I think about how Tim’s first canonical queer relationship could have been with Miguel (THEY WERE R I G H T THERE. IT WAS A DATE. THEY WENT TO PRIDE. MIGUEL A N D TIM NEVER TOLD THE TEAM. “I felt like a prince just being next to him.” WTF, DC?!??) I get a little sad, because, like…Miguel loved Tim, and if DC weren’t cowards, we could have seen Tim give him that back. Tim went to him for help personally. He opened himself up to like that, LIKE THE WAY HE DID TO CASSIE AND KON. AND—

FUCK NEW 52 BUT RED ROBIN/BUNKER WILL ALWAYS BE REAL TO ME.

#tim drake #miguel barragan #red robin #bunker #tim/miguel #shut in the fuck up ron #they could do it. #i hate that tim because he isn’t even really tim drake #but…like… #he was soooo slutty #that came out of left feild BUT YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND #HE FLIRTED WITH HALF THE TEAM TO GET THEM THERE #AND FLIRTED WITH A SCIENTIST TO SAVE (fake) BART’S LIFE #[points] WHORE. #AND MIGUEL LOVED HIM FOR IT. #he’a ​also like the most stereotypical iteration of a gay man out there #even if he was “straight” #tim and his flamboyant haircut and tight t shirts and tight jeans and bitchy demeanor? #let’s be real here #that was a fruity ass young man #i am not afraid to say it #BUT I THINK MIGUEL DESERVED THAT LOVE #AND MORE #HE WAS SO LOYAL #AND GOT TREATED LIKE A SECOND BEST #AND I WILL NEVER FORGIVE DC FOR IT #HE WAS MY BOY #FUCK EVERYONE ELSE #BUNKER SKITTER POWERGIRL 2.0 AND DANNY THE ALLEYWAY WERE ALL THAT MATTERED #WAHHHHH