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steampunk-raven · 7 months
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my parents are talking about a really triggering thing within earshot but I currently can’t move or talk and neither of them have their phones with them so I can’t text them
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come-on-shitty-boys · 4 years
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//general dating headcannons//
Characters: Bokuto Koutarou/Kuroo Tetsurou/Akaashi Keiji
Warnings: none :)
Word Count: 2K (~630 a piece)
Notes: kdhfesdkfje catch me getting carried away on Kuroo’s ope 0-0
Bokuto Koutarou
My literal husband ;-;
He’s such a sweet boyf oml hi yes, where do I order one?
Bokuto 100% dates to marry.  He’s not here for flings or anything like that, so your relationship will turn serious pretty fast.
Bo is a simp and no one can tell me otherwise, so when it comes to PDA? Oh, he’s C L I N G Y
He always wants to hold your hand or sometimes he’ll walk behind you and cling to your waist.  It’s definitely super hard for both of you to walk, but it’s adorable and makes him happy, so you’re not really going to complain.
If you hug onto his arm? He’s going to melt, especially if you trail your fingers up and down his bicep
It’s the same when the two of you are in private.  He likes to have contact with you whenever possible.  He’ll lay your head in his lap if you’re both laying on the couch or he’ll sit you in his lap and place little kisses at the base of your neck, right above the collar of your shirt.
His clothes are your clothes.  At this point, you wear his training jacket more than he does.  Sweatshirts? Flannels? Shorts?  That’s shared territory right there.
And my G O D does he love it.  He already has to buy bigger clothes because he’s got those wide shoulders, so his clothes tend to either fit you perfectly or completely swallow you, there is no in between.
If you’re thicc too? He has 100% stolen your leggings, just to see the appeal of them.  Please hide them, because oH he understands now.
He gets jealous jealous.  As in, he will place himself between you and the guy trying to talk to you and he’ll act all big and tough.  But the minute the other dude backs off?  Baby boy is back, wanting hugs.  He’ll kiss you all over your face and be really pouty, asking if you’re okay and telling you that he loves you ;-;
Bokuto hoots bye i don’t make the rules. Okay yeah i kinda do, but still.
It’s not like HOOOOOT, but like a really soft h o o and he probably kinda wiggles in his spot, real happy
Bo has N O control over how he sleeps.  He’ll always start out really normal, like you’ll be tucked into his side or something, but by the time you guys wake up? S T A R F I S H he is on his face, limbs covering the whole bed, just snoring away
When he’s away for games, he’s always on the phone with you.  Like, the guys will try to hang out or something and he’ll definitely go off to his room with a “Oh, I want to call Y/N before she goes to bed, but I’ll come by later!” 
And then he just doesn’t because he’s the one who fell asleep, not you.
Compliments the shit out of you.  You’re his hype man and he is yours.  He’s constantly telling you that you look beautiful or if you send him a selfie, he’s absolutely sending back the simp emoji, asking how he got so lucky.
He calls you ‘babe’ but usually only when he wants your attention or if he’s in another room and needs something, so expects lots of “Baaaaaaaaaaabe”s to be headed your way.
Other times?  He calls you by name.  Because there’s a million people who get called babe or sweetheart, but your name is yours, so it feels special and kinda intimate to him?  So, if he’s feeling a little extra sentimental, he’s going to bury his face in your neck and just whisper lots of quiet, “I love you, Y/N”s over and over again.
Kuroo Tetsurou
R O O S T E R H E A D A S S that I love very very much
He’s a complete dork and I know the fandom makes him to be some kind of smooth talking God I’m guilty of it too but-
He’s literally not.  He fumbles over his words so much when he’s around you.  You guys can be dating for years and he’ll still have his moments where he’s a stuttering mess in front of you.
Asking you out?  You suffered second-hand embarrassment.  His face was about as red as his jersey and the boy was so nervous, rubbing the back of his neck, refusing to look at you, but then just shyly raising his eyes to look at you and muttering,
“Do you maybe wanna go out sometime?”
INSTANTLY STARTS APOLOGIZING
“But- but only if you want, of course! Don’t feel like you have to say yes, I can take rejection!  I’m so sorry.  I probably made you really uncomfortable.  You know what?  You don’t have to answer.  I’m just going to go.”
He’s so shook when you say yes, but then immediately puts his cool guy act back on, like “psshh of course you do.”
I don’t see him being super into PDA or physical contact period?  There’s something really special about just being near each other to him.  Just accidentally bumping shoulders or brushing hands while the two of you stroll, talking about anything and everything.
Even in private, there’s not a ton of physical contact.  Maybe tangling legs together as you sit on opposite ends of the couch, but that’s really it.  He likes being in close proximity with you, but he doesn’t need to be touching you at all times.
But he’s down to cuddle if you ask.  He’ll let you lay on top of him and hide your face in his neck or his chest.  Sometimes you guys will talk, but most of the time?  Cuddle time = nap time
He doesn’t get super jealous, but he won’t hesitate to come stand behind you if some guy is trying to hit on you.  Kuroo will probably just play with your hair or make some kind of comment about how that bracelet he bought you looks really nice on you.  Just dropping subtle hints that you’re taken.
Afterwards, though, he just drops it.  It doesn’t really bother him.  He knows well enough that if you didn’t want to be with him, you would’ve broken up with him.  He just wants to be there in case someone tries to make you uncomfortable.
Gamenightgamenightgamenight
I’m talking like board games.  Hours and hours of just sitting at the kitchen table with a bunch of your guys’ friends, slowly ruining relationships, but overall having a good time.
Kuroo plays Dungeons and Dragons.  I’ve said this SO many times and no one is going to tell me otherwise.  So, if you show any interest in maybe wanting to play, or, better yet, if you already know how to play?  He’s bringing you to A L L of the future sessions.
He’s probably going to write your character into his character’s backstory, so when Dungeon Master!Kenma scolds him for playing reckless in order to protect you, Kuroo can retort with, “Well, actually, if you paid attention when I was telling my backstory, you would know- *insert long-winded backstory of how your characters know each other and how his character vowed to your character’s dying father that he would protect you etc etc*”
Kuroo is super into domestic life with you, so you guys probably moved in together as soon as possible.  As in, if you started dating in high school, you were sharing an apartment your first year of college. 
He just has a lot of fun doing little household things with you, like cooking, cleaning, or just enjoying quiet evenings together after all of the work is done for the day.
Kuroo said “I love you” first, but it took you both forever to say it, because you were both kind of new to this dating thing and you had always been told that it was a really big deal, so you didn’t want to rush that.
;-; please take care of my dorky rooster
Akaashi Keiji
Akaashi is pretty easy-going in relationships, but he’s also super romantic.
As in, he has hand-written you love letters.  He’s got really neat writing too, so that just adds to their appeal.  Akaashi probably has a wax seal that he seals all of the envelopes with? I don’t know why, but he seems like the type of guy to have one.  
You guys have a book club, just the two of you.  Oh, it’s so cute.  It started as the two of you forcing each other to read your favorite books, but then, you guys ran out of books to share?  So, once a month, you guys will go to the local bookstore and just spend a good hour or two trying to decide what book to give the other next.  
Akaashi 100% always recommends classic novels.  Things like Sense & Sensibility, Fahrenheit 451, Lord of the Flies, and Brave New World am i saying that because that’s my favorite book? more likely than you’d think.
He’s a lot more prepared for these shopping escapades that you are.  He usually knows exactly what he wants to get you.  If they don’t have it?  That’s fine.  He has a list.
You on the other hand?  You’re asking the clerks what they recommend, reading the back of every book that seems like something he might enjoy, but you usually resort to dystopian novels (Never Let Me Go, Gone, The Handmaid’s Tale, etc), because he likes analyzing the politics and seeing how they could be metaphors for today’s world.  
Damn this really turned into me just recommending books huh
After you two pick out the selections for the month, you two coffee hop.  So, each month, you try a new cafe and you will spend hours just sipping coffee and reading.
He gave you a first edition copy of the first book that you recommended to him for your anniversary one year.  Akaashi wrote you a letter, telling you how happy he was to have spent so much time with you and that he can’t wait to share more books with you and probably some really poetic stuff, because he’s a good writer, but he hid it in your favorite part, so you don’t get to read it right away.  
Okay, now that I got that out of my head.  Like Kuroo, Akaashi isn’t super into PDA, but he does like to hold your hand.  He also always offers to carry your bag.
Akaashi likes to fidget with your fingers.  The two of you could be out or just hanging at home, but he’s playing with your fingers.  It’s just a habit for him.  He used to fidget with his own hands a lot, but now he’s got yours, so not only does he get to keep his hands busy, he gets to hold onto your hand
He doesn’t get jealous.  Or at least, you don’t think so.  He’s really good at hiding any sense of envy he might feel.  He doesn’t say anything.  He knows that you can take care of yourself, but he’s likely right there next to you, possibly playing with your fingers behind your back.
It’s a really chill relationship dynamic for the most part.  You two could be dating for a week and it’ll already feel like you’ve been together for years.  You guys just vibe really well, so there was never that awkward stage at the beginning of the relationship.  Likely because the two of you started off as friends, so slipping into dating wasn’t a very hard transition.
Akaashi isn’t one to say “I love you” a lot, but he really does love you more than anything.  He likes to take care of you and he tries to give you the best life possible and that says I love you more than any words ever could.
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peace-coast-island · 5 years
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Diary of a Junebug
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Treat yourself to tea and pastries!
Today was a lucky day. I finally obtained a copy of the elusive Pillowy Delights cookbook! It took me years to find one so it’s a big victory for me!
Years ago my cousins and I used to hang out at the bakery of the same name in Rosevine. I still memorize the menu from the super popular chocolate beignets to seasonal specials like caramel tiramisu and Christmas themed tarts. We would go there almost every weekend and I’d usually order a peach blueberry tart and a bunch of macarons.
Sadly Pillow Delights closed its doors six years ago and since then I haven’t found a place that could match its flavorful and light petit fours and sweet beignets. The original owner’s granddaughter had passed away unexpectedly and there was no surviving family so the place shut down. Since it was one of the oldest places in Rosevine, it was like losing a family member. A few years later the building was torn down and replaced with a fast food place.
A while after that I found out that the original owner wrote a cookbook containing all of the sweets from the bakery. Turns out everything in there was made using the original recipes, which I thought was cool. Problem was the book went out of print decades ago so obtaining a copy wouldn’t be easy.
So for the past five years or so I kept an eye out, hoping that one day I’ll find it. Whenever I came across a used bookstore, that was one of the first things I’d look for. I tried not to get too disappointed when my search came up with nothing. After all, it was a long shot.
Until today when I visited a used bookstore with Lilac, Cal, and Dottie in Carousel. Somehow I had a feeling that the book was one of those things where it’ll come to me when I least expect it. And it did! Right under a huge pile of used cookbooks, some that date all the way back to the 1700s!
The copy I found also happens to be a first edition print, which is even more rare! And it’s in very good shape - almost like new! Obviously a book like that is quite pricey but it’s worth every cent.
Now that I’ve obtained the elusive cookbook, I’ve been baking up quite a storm! First I just had to make the classic chocolate beignets. They’re not perfect but I’m happy with the outcome. Tastes just like my childhood!
Second was my favorite, the peach blueberry tart! This one by far is my absolute favorite and I’m so happy that I can make it now! I missed it so much!
Then there are the macarons - another classic. I made vanilla, chocolate, matcha, and red velvet. I’d love to try the other flavors but they’re a bit beyond my macaron making skills at the moment. A challenge for another day!
And don’t forget the petit fours - something that other bakeries just can’t beat! I made the famous earl grey cake and while it’s very tasty, it’s clear that I need a bit more baking expertise so I’ll be revisiting that one later. I also made french vanilla, chai, and orange, all which came out great as well - but missing that one final touch that makes it scream Pillowy Delights.
Now after book hunting and baking all day, I’m spending the rest of the day enjoying tea and pastries!
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robertodacosta · 7 years
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hi! this is a little embarrassing, but I want to start reading comics and I have no idea where to start. I wasn't allowed to read comics growing up so I'm not even sure where to get them. anyway ahh you just seem cool and I like your blog so I hope it's okay that I'm asking you for advice!
i’m so happy to help! when i started reading comics (about 2 years ago, now) i found the amount of comics and the sheer mass of backstory and even just the basics really overwhelming, so under the cut i went through and explained where to get comics, tips for how to start reading, and some recommendations for good comics for folks who are new to comics. if you want specific recs for specific characters, shoot me another ask and i can help with that!
Good luck, and let me know if you have any more questions, or how you like the books I recommended!
first, some basics.
a quick rundown on how comics are sold. new issues are released every wednesday, and new issues can be bought physically in comics shops or digitally. comics run in story arcs, which might be made up of 2 issues, or sometimes as many as 12 issue, depending on the comic. a while after an arc is finished, the collected issues will be released as a trade paperback (tpb). 
where do you get comics?
comic books stores tend to be pretty common, so if you prefer to read physical comics rather than digital. this website will tell you the closest stores to you. comic stores will carry newly released issues, assorted tpbs, and some have large selections of older back issues of comics that you can buy individually.i honestly only went to a comic book store for the first time this summer because i was really intimidated by them, though i’m not entirely sure why, so it’s really easy to read comics, even if you don’t have a store nearby.
you can always buy tpbs on amazon, and i know barnes and noble and some independent bookstores also carry tpbs, though in my experience b&n tends to be pretty heavy on dc/marvel, and heavy on popular characters.
for digital comics, comixology is your best friend. it covers any/all publishers, so i would just skip marvel/dc digital stores and go right here. it’s good to support the creative teams behind comics, but if you can’t afford to buy that many comics, you can read comics for free here, and download them here. comixology also offers a subscription service, comixology unlimited, that allows you immediate access to a library of digital comics, from marvel, dc, and other publishers. marvel offers marvel unlimited, a similar service, but with a wider range of marvel titles. both take a few months to upload new issues, as an incentive to both buy issues and subscribe. it’s worth noting that sales of digital comics and tpbs are counted towards official sale stats, so if you want to support a comic that’s in danger of cancellation, buying the issue at a store is the only way to have your purchase counted.
what to read?
there are so, so many comics, so i’ve recommended a handful of series that are pretty easy to get into for beginners, while still being good reads. i’ve sorted these recs by dc/marvel/indie, and included some quick notes.
full disclosure, i almost exclusively lead comics led by women, so i am not the person to ask for captain america or batman reading recommendations. luckily, most other folks are reading those characters, so it shouldn’t be too hard to find suggestions!
DC
DC rebooted their whole universe with the Rebirth initiative last year, so pretty much everything is 30 or fewer issues in right now. Rebirth was technically a reboot, but some comics do reference earlier continuity from the New 52, their previous reboot (in 2012 i think?). I’ve not read a lot of n52, and i think general consensus is that rebirth titles are much stronger than n52. Aside from these recs, the best thing to do with dc/marvel is find the characters you like, and then go read the current book that they’re in, and see how you like it!
Batwoman (2010)- Kate is a new character, and this is her original solo. There are other character in the book with long histories, but you don’t really need to know them to read it. I’d recommend reading Batwoman: Elegy first.
Batwoman: Elegy- Batwoman was introduced in an earlier comic, but this is her first collected story. 
Batwoman (2017)- I’m not caught up on this, but I would assume you can read this without having read Kate’s earlier series, if you want to start with Rebirth. Otherwise, the only thing you need to read to be caught up for this is the 2010 Batwoman solo.
Black Canary and Zatanna: Bloodspell- This is a team up story that gives you backstory on Dinah and Zatanna’s relationship, and shows them going on a mission together. It’s a graphic novel, so it’s like one very long issue.
DC Comics Bombshells- If you only read one DC comic, I’d suggest this one. It’s an alternate universe where the female heroes of the DCU all came first, as a team of super powered heroes fighting in WWII. Most of DC’s biggest female characters have significant roles, and the comic also introduces you to a bunch of slightly less well known female characters. There’s like 3 men, and almost all of the heroes are confirmed wlw, so it’s a gift, and should be treasured. The series ended earlier this summer, and is now being continued in the sequel, Bombshells United. They’re both digital first comics, which means new issues are released digitally on Fridays, and collected into print editions every third Wednesday.
The Legend of Wonder Woman- This is totally outside of main dcu continuity, and it’s a retelling of Diana’s origins as Wonder Woman in WWII. 
Trinity (2017)- Batman, Superman, and Wonder Woman team up. Other characters guest star, which helps introduce you to the wider DCU. It’s fun and the art is cute.
Wonder Woman (2016)- If you enjoyed the movie, definitely read this. It has 2 storylines running simultaneously for the first 25 issues, one retelling Wonder Woman’s origins, and one set in the present, in which Diana realizes parts of her life have been lies, and sets out to discover the truth. The first few issues might be a little confusing because of this, but more because it’s intended to leave you questioning things, not because it depends on an in depth knowledge of continuity. What’s really brilliant about Greg Rucka’s run on this comic (the first 25 issues) is that WW has the least consistent history of pretty much any character, and Rucka dismissed pretty much all of the inconsistency, and streamlined Diana’s backstory. Also, Diana, Etta, and Steve are the dream team. This has been released in 4 tpbs so far, which organize the book by story arcs, instead of the original release order, which ran multiple arcs on alternating weeks.
Zatanna (2010)- this is pre-n52, but honestly all you need to know about previous continuity is that Zatanna exists. It’s one of maybe 2 solo runs she’s ever gotten, and it’s only 16 issues. It’s fun, easy to read, and Zatanna is so great, and deserves a rebirth solo.
MARVEL
Marvel is in the middle of a reboot right now, and I’m not really sure where they’re going. They’ve been on this cool initiative where a lot of classic heroes are phased out and younger, more diverse heroes take on their titles. But they’ve convinced themselves that nobody likes it and that it’s destroying sales, so they’re doing something weird right now that is very unclear. The entire universe hard rebooted about 2 years ago, following a very confusing event called Secret Wars, which was the culmination of about 3 years of ongoing plots in Avengers, New Avengers, and Fantastic Four. I’m mostly recommending ongoing runs because the hard reboot makes it pretty easy to jump on with any book. Again, for marvel comics, just find the characters you like, and read their current books!
A-Force (2016)- Gone too soon. This is the first ever women-only Avengers lineup, and it pulls heroines from all over the MU. The first couple of issues talk about secret wars (and there was an a-force mini-series during secret wars, that’s really good, but involves some knowledge of the surrounding events), but it’s navigable. It’s a really good team, and a fun comic!
Alias- It’s kind of iconic, and it’s really worth reading. This is Jessica Drew’s very first appearance in the MU, so no prior knowledge necessary. The Purple Man story that the Netflix show used draws on this comic, without replicating it. It’s a dark comic, but super good.
All New X-Factor (2014)- It’s all new, but with old X-Men characters. Character backstory doesn’t matter here, because this is a group of people who’s not really talking about their past if they can avoid it, but pretty much any relevant backstory is contextualized for new readers. This is fun, up until there are multiple crossover events that slow down the plot, but even those are still readable, without reading the main crossover event. It’s interesting, the art is cool, and all the characters are dweebs with superpowers.
America (2017)- America Chavez is such a good character, and this is a really great comic! It’s only 5 issues in, so very easy to catch up. It explains any backstory you might need, and is really witty, and pop-culture savvy.
Astonishing X-Men (2004)- This is the first comic I ever read, and functions really well as an X-Men comic for people who haven’t read X-Men comics before. It’s about 10 years old, and eventually it hits the year or so when there was an X-Men crossover event every 6 weeks, but the first 25-30 issues (the Whedon/Cassaday run) are really good, and will make you love Kitty Pryde forever.
Avengers Assemble- The very best intro to marvel comic. Skip the first 9 issues (written by Bendis) because they are bad, and start when Kelly Sue Deconnick takes over. This has a rotating cast of Avengers, including those in the MCU and those not, and is such a good read. It introduced me to my very favorite character (Jessica Drew), and gives every character depth.
Black Panther (2016)- Get pumped for this movie and read the comic! Ta-Nahesi Coates is such a good writer, and this is a really strong, textured story, that really works on every level. I’ve not read any previous BP comics, and I had no trouble with continuity.
Champions (2016)- This is Ms. Marvel’s team of teen superheroes, coming out of Civil War II, last summer’s marvel crossover disaster. It’s really good and engages with social justice issues in ways that feel about as effective as comic books can be.
Defenders (2017)- It’s literally just the cast of the Netflix Defenders teaming up, for actually the first time ever as a team of 4. It’s still on the first arc, but I’m enjoying it thus far.
Hulk (2016)- So, so, so good! Jennifer Walters (formerly known as She Hulk) takes over the Hulk mantle following her cousin Bruce’s murder in CWII. It’s all about trauma and PTSD and how Bruce’s death and Jen’s own debilitating injury in CWII changed her, and her ability to control her hulk. I wish everybody was reading this, and I think this is probably my favorite ongoing comic from any publisher.
Ms. Marvel (2014) and Ms. Marvel (2015)- This is the thing to read! Kamala was created in this comic, so you can just jump right in! It’s fun and well-written and the art is consistently good, and this is so worth reading!
New Mutants (1983)- This comic is like 30 years old but it’s the best and the New Mutants are my favorite superhero team in any universe. This is part of the X-Men franchise, and is the origin of a handful of characters who now show up all over the place. (Magik is on the main X-Men roster, Sunspot and Cannonball have been Avengers for a few years, Dani Moonstar is a Valkyrie who played an important role in some X-Men events). And there’s a New Mutants movie coming out next spring so might as well get prepared for that, right?
Silk (2015) and Silk (2015-7)- Cindy Moon is the hero we deserve! The first series covers her origins, then it was cancelled due to Secret Wars cancelling everything, then rebooted like a month later. The second series was also cancelled (rip), but follows Cindy as she infiltrates crime rings and tries to track down her missing family. Cindy is a new character, so a great starting point!
Spider Woman: Origin- All about Spider Woman! 5 issue miniseries, giving the character her definitive backstory.
Spider Woman: Agent of SWORD- Kinda backstory heavy (follow up to the Secret Invasion crossover event), but it’s totally possible to follow. Everything you need to know gets explained, but it’s basically Jessica Drew working as a secret agent for an organization that’s like the CIA but for aliens, and hunting down members of an alien race that kidnapped and impersonated her. This and Origins are kind of the essential Spider Woman reading, and I really recommend them both. Jess is the best, and her recently cancelled comic had one (1) good issue.
Storm (2014)- I didn’t recommend a lot of X-Men books because, imo, they’re the hardest Marvel books to start reading, but Storm’s solo is wonderful and incredible and you don’t need to know anything about X-Men to understand it!I
Indie
I don’t read a lot of indie comics, so I’m just going to list some titles I like and you can see what looks good! Indies are inherently easier to understand than marvel/dc books because, for the most part, indie comics stand on their own. But I assumed you were mostly hoping for superhero comics in your ask, but shoot me another ask correcting me if I’m wrong, and I can make you an indie rec list!
Faith
Lady Killer
Ody-C
Paper Girls
Pretty Deadly
Welcome Back
The Wicked and the Divine
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morrisbrokaw · 6 years
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Why, How and What I’m Reading this Year
I started this year with the goal of trying to read one book a week. Turns out—with pregnancy, a new job, house-hunting, two moves, buying a house, and now a newborn—that just wasn’t in the cards for me. When I realized this, I tempered my loftier ambition and decided to aim for at least two books a month. This still hasn’t been the easiest.
But reading helps make me feel like myself, and in the midst of so much transition (…see list above), it’s been important for me to maintain habits that feel like they anchor me. These kinds of habits (the self-loving, life-giving kind) tend to be the first ones I sacrifice when life gets busy—it feels luxurious, bordering on absurd, to insist that I take time away from my ever-growing to-do list to read a novel, doesn’t it?! So to make sure that casual reading wasn’t sacrificed on the Altar of More Urgent Priorities, I made a plan. I thought in advance about what I wanted to read, why, and how to make sure it happened. I thought I’d share not only my reading list with you, but my thought process in creating it during such a busy year.
Choose from books you already own
If you’re a book hoarder like me, this is a no-brainer. It’s easy to read books that you already own—much more convenient than having to order a new one each month when book club decides its next pick. And (bonus!) it means you get around to those books that have been given as gifts for Christmas or birthdays before they collect dust!
  Diversify your author list
Taking a cue from my old book club in New York—which decided as a group to read exclusively female authors for a year following the last presidential election—I’ve tried to skew my personal reading list toward women writers, writers of color, and queer writers when possible. Since so many of the authors assigned within the canon of traditional education are white or male, I consider it a responsibility to get exposed to more diverse voices and perspectives. Additionally, I also try to make a point of reading a mix of both debut authors and classic works.
  Diversify the genres you read
In a given year, I want a good helping of fiction, nonfiction, poetry, prose, short stories, memoir (and so on). Sometimes I have all these things on my bookshelf waiting to be read, and sometimes I reach out to friends (or the NYT bestseller list) to get ideas.
  Read more than one book at a time
If a certain book I’m reading seems to be dragging on and on, I simply start the next one without feeling guilty. (I know some of you are cringing right now!!) Reading, at least for me, is often mood-based—so having more than one book going at a time means I can have different reading experiences that suit whatever my mood is at the moment. This way, if I don’t feel like bringing some morose novel to a picnic in the park, I can bring a series of short stories or some poetry, instead.
  Support local bookstores and local publishers
Let your reading list be an excuse to support local bookstores and local publishers! In the Twin Cities, I love Subtext, Birchbark Books, Magers & Quinn, and Midway Book Store. And our great state has a booming local publishing industry, as well: Milkweed Editions, Graywolf Press, and Coffee House Press are all favorites of mine.
All of this thoughtfulness in advance helps me focus on reading, rather than trying to decide what to read. This is really important! If there’s one reason I don’t read as much as I’d like to, it’s that I haven’t decided what to read—I don’t have a book going, or I finish a book and don’t know which one I’ll start next.
With all this prep in mind, here’s what I’ve read this year:
WHEREAS by Layli Long Soldier– in this book of award-winning debut poetry by a Lakota woman, Long Soldier is “clapping back” against the total inadequacy of the U.S. government’s “Congressional Resolution of Apology to Native American” offered under the Obama administration.
  Jailbird by Kurt Vonnegut – Vonnegut was one of my brother’s favorite authors, and reading him always helps me connect with more of my brother’s soul, his taste, his absurdist sense of humor and wry wit.
  Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood – this is a memoir that came highly recommended from several friends; Lockwood is a writer perhaps best known for her poem “Rape Joke”; this book is tragic and funny and beautiful and difficult in ways I didn’t know one author could combine so skillfully.
  Her Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado – from our very own local Graywolf Press (as is Long Soldier’s book, above)! This debut book of short stories has won tons of awards, all well-deserved.
  The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath – a classic that has long been on my must-read list, but it finally felt like the time was right. I knew it would be heavy (it deals with suicide, depression, and mental health stigma, especially in women) but also knew it was important to read.
  My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry by Fredrik Backman – a Christmas gift! And an author I’d heard of but never read; it was a lovely and light novel compared to some of my other selections which is always nice to have in a lineup.
  It’s Okay to Laugh, Crying is Cool Too by Nora McInerny Purmort – I somehow hadn’t read this book yet but knew I needed to (because I adore everything NMP does, and her book came so highly recommended by so many people!) I finally picked it up after a reading she hosted at Subtext Books in Saint Paul.
  Winter Journal by Paul Auster – Auster is one of my favorite writers; his style has been called “absurdism,” often dealing with identity in the postmodern world. I wanted to read this book because I’m such a fan of his fiction, and this memoir, which focuses on art, mortality, bodiliness, and aging, sheds light on his other artistic projects.
  Self Portrait with Boy by Rachel Lyon – the debut novel for Lyons, about an artist in the 90s trying to further her art and maintain her relationships and integrity. The author is a good friend-of-a-good-friend from New York and when I saw her book in a bookstore in Saint Paul, I scooped it up immediately!
  Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward – ahh, this book crushed me. Jesmyn Ward is an award-winning author and this is her second novel; it’s about a little boy growing up in Mississippi and the poverty, racism, drugs, spirituality implicit in that space and time.
  Commonwealth by Anne Patchett – Anne Patchett’s ability to tell a story and weave in and out of different emotions and characters is truly profound. This was my first Patchett novel despite how often she’s been recommended to me!
  Happiest Baby on the Block by Harvey Cox –a baby book! About baby sleep habits! Because let’s be realistic, I have to be practical about what I’m reading sometimes, too.
  The Diary of Anaïs Nin Vol 2 by Anaïs Nin– Nin is one of my favorites. She was a bohemian Spanish-Cuban-American woman living in Paris with a bunch of literati, keeping a journal as the threats of world war grow increasingly imminent.
  The Ninth Hour by Alice McDermott– McDermott is an award-winning author writing about spirituality, scandal, and the ways women persevere in the midst of these things.
  The Power by Naomi Alderman– this book is like The Handmaid Tales in reverse; a society in the future where women have come to dominate and run society, and social stereotypes are all reversed.
  Holy the Firm by Annie Dillard – Dillard is one of my all-time favorite authors, so I didn’t want to miss the chance to read her this year! This particular book is a short meditation on nature and spirituality.
I’ve got a few more books started and a few that are on my list to finish before the year is up. What books are you reading? And what tricks or tips do you have for picking out what to read, and sticking to a book or a reading list once you begin?
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 Ellen Koneck likes reading and writing and thinks homebodiness is a virtue. She has her MA in religion from Yale and works in academic publishing. She has one plant, one tattoo, and an identical twin. Contrary to all conventional wisdom, she regularly brings up both religion and politics at the dinner table.
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