#YES i'm bi

[google-searchhistory-official]

I came out to my parents high as fuck which was a win win for me. I was barely aware of the awkwardness and they're still guessing if I was being truthful or just speaking high nonsense

#yes I'm bi #yes i get high #it was really fun too because i like to switch up from doubling down to outright denying whatever i had just said when high #i am... very annoying when stoned

[juanabaloo]

whew. it's not over yet, but i can tell it's been A WEEK bc i saw that ad with those 2 hot guys who install like internet (?) or something and it was the only ad i saw on tumblr for like 30 minutes. so i must have seen them like 10 times.

i took a screenshot of the ad bc it made me laugh, and now i no longer see the 2 hot guys. maybe if you take a screenshot tumblr then works to hide the ad from you? so weird. so tumblr. here is the ad if you don't know what i'm talking about.

i was distracted by the guys, it's not an ad for internet, it's an ad for business insurance. i guess the target is business owners and these 2 guys are supposed to be their employees?

#yes i'm bi #despite all my faith lehane posting i'm not immune to these 2 guys #apparently #fyi i do not own a business #the ads on tumblr are so random #honestly the guy on the right is giving me heath ledger ennis vibes a little #and now my ADHD brain is imagining this is an ad for a stage play based on brokeback mountain but it's modern #and it's these 2 internet installer slash roofer slash whatever guys

[sarasade]

One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".

Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.

That's the TL;DR version of this post. 

ANYWAY here is the long version

Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".

One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.

Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.

It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.

This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.

People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.

I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.

Anyway if you want to read more:

- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info

-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos

-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.

-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa

- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.

-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge

#Also I don't mean that you can always tell if someone is a transphobe or a TERF based on a couple of things they have said. #My point is that sometimes ok people can have very regressive ideas too. #This is not a call out post about how we should go around accusing anti-fujoshi people #todd in the shadows #hbomberguy #sarasade text #even I've got those “Fandom is mostly straight women fetishizing gay men” comments once and it begins to sound kind of passive-aggressive #when you're a bi woman. Lot of fandom stats at AO3 show that fandoms are montly bi women. who are these people calling straight exactly hmm #also straight women are completely ok leave them alone. I know I know Yes I'm so brave for saying this #cw: transphobia

[daily-odile]

A certain someone made me play Pokemon Rejuvenation and a certain old man reminded me of a certain old woman

#kreiss is. very odile vibes. to me. also baller outfit (suit gaming) #isat #in stars and time #isat odile #pokemon rejuvenation #kreiss #Pokemon rejuvenation is honestly such an amazing fan game #incredibly high effort and polish. fun stuff #Also a fucking MONSTER of an rpg I've been grinding this game for 50 hours now and I'm not even halfway holy shitttt #feli i blame you #day 72 #16 left #.... #might have to actually change to bi-daily-odile fr fr #me when i accidentally drew her too close to the original sprite's pose: uhh wait how do i make it different #ah yes #cunty legs + hand lean

[virahaus]

Another day, another fantastic time to debunk completely delulu takes I've seen around. This one actually baffles me on a whole new level, and that people are ACTUALLY thinking it is canon it's giving me a headache.

Why, yes, on that nutter house that is twitterX (and here too unfortunately) people are now claiming that Eddie was Buck's Bi awakening in 2x01 in place of Oliver's recent interview.

First of all shall we look at the definition of Bi awakening, shall we?

"When someone, who thought or assumed they're straight, develops a crush on someone of the same gender and leads to them wondering if they are bisexual."

The key thing here is the realisation. You cannot have a bi awakening without having a moment where you are like "do I like the same gender too? Am I not straight? Am I bisexual?"

Which is EXACTLY what is happening on 7x04 and 7x05 with Buck exploring his feelings for Tommy before AND after the kiss.

There's NO bi awakening on 2x01 because Buck doesn't question in behaviour!! He doesn't have any moment where he considers his animosity about Eddie as anything more than intense dislike, jealousy and fear of being replaced.

Some of you are taking things too far. You are purposefully trying to ERASE actual canon content about a beloved character's bi awakening (something huge, especially with a 30 y/o character) just because you cannot stop for a second and not insert Buddie everywhere you like, even going as far as completely invalidating Buck's journey.

I'm not denying that in retrospect Buck may have found Eddie attractive (Oliver confirmed this as a strong possibility, yes, but that doesn't equal realisation since Oliver also acknowledged that Buck does not look any farther on his feelings on Eddie than interpreting them as personal jealousy).

But canonically Buck's bi awakening is Tommy.

You may not like it, you may not ship it, but you can't behave like this. Headcanons are all well and good, but presenting them as gospel and canon content? Y'all need to take a deep breath and actually get off the internet for a while.

This behaviour is only going to hurt the fandom in the long term. And it is not the first time or the first instance where you take something Oliver said in interviews and completely misinterpret it to suit your pipeline. Try some critical thinking, y'all.

(I'm aware not everyone is thinking like this, but those types of posts are getting over one thousand likes each. At this point it is a fandom problem.)

#evan buckley #eddie diaz #tommy kinard #bucktommy #buddie #911 abc #911 fandom #911 #911 show #911 season 7 #911 s7 #evan buck buckely #my post #yes I'm tagging it buddie. i do not care. y'all need to actually think things through before spreading misinformation #tevan #kinley #bisexuality #bi awakening #lgbtqia

[khaotunq]

TYPECAST: Khaotung Thanawat edition

#khaotung thanawat #the eclipse #tonhon chonlatee #2gether the series #moonlight chicken #a tale of thousand stars #55:15 never too late #only friends the series #my gifs #my edits #mine: khaotung thanawat #mine: typecast #userjamiec #tuserhidden #tuserrowan #tostrangers #joe from blacklist was meant to be here but the scene i wanted to use was ungiffable #but his description is 'no gay all panic' #zero isn't here because we don't know enough about him #but his description is 'maybe gay mostly panic inducing' #didn't do cause youre my boy or charming stepmom because i haven't watched em #yes i know jojo said ray was bi but SHRUG #ktnw typecast: gay panic. look me in the eyes and tell me i'm wrong. #i'm as weak for the os2 ayan opening his eyes as i am for original ofts trailer sand smoking so it goes in okay #55:15 is genuinely a lovely little show btw it destroyed me and i love it

[peanut-butter-fox]

Hi!! for the doodle requests thing can you do Vuzi? 💜💛 I need some toxic yuri turned good content right now lmaooo

Thank you and have a nice day!! ☺️

yup! I love these two so much 💜💛

hope you have a wonderful day as well :D

"can I have my hat back?"

"hah- no"

#murder drones #murder drones fanart #uzi doorman #serial designation v #vuzi #v x uzi #violet violence #digital art #peanut's doodles #requests #robot yuri!! #(doesn't know what yuri means) #((I think it just means wlw but I'm not 100% sure help)) #why yes I did make the hearts bi colored thank you for noticing

[imrllytootiredforthis]

sub yuta okkotsu agenda 😔

no bc i got THOUGHTS, i got so many thoughts about my babygirl named yuuta okkotsu, you don't even UNDERSTAND how badly i want him

him in the movie-*aggressive eye twitch*, his big sweet innocent puppy eyes-fuck it just *short circuits*

AND THEN afterwards when he's his anxious, tired, emo self (me too fr), like he's still just my cutie patootie and it's a literal CRIME how little sub fics of him there are bc take one look at that baby AND TELL ME that he is a daddy dom in bed-you'd be lying to yourself and me-and we do not tolerate lying in this house

no but fr, he is not domming for his life. a service top-perhaps, he would still cry a lot though and if you were making HIM fuck YOU he would beg for you to just take over, his arms shaking on either side of your head as he tries to make you feel good. because it's not the same like this-he wants you to fuck him, he wants to ride you as your hands grope over his body, he wants to pinned against a wall and fucked hard and rough within an inch of his life.

babyboy just wants to be loved and taken care of by his so

#inbox💌 #he's probably my second favourite character in jjk #after geto (my literal wife) #but like i'm not even done talking abt him but i gotta shut up before i talk too much and can't stop😭 #don't even get me started on HIM AND MAKI #god i want her so bad too #they are the bi panic #imagine tagteaming him with maki #and he just dumbly takes it all like a good boy😫 #“i can take it~” #“m' a good boy-right?” #YES YOU"RE A FUCKING GOOD BOY #I WANNA EAT HIM UPPPP #sub yuuta #hard thoughts #dom reader #yuuta x reader #yuuta okkotsu smut #yuta smut #yuuta okkotsu x reader #jjk smut #sub jjk #sub jujutsu kaisen #jujutsu kaisen smut #jujutsu kaisen x reader

[pluto-rainstorm]

I'm tired of seeing people on 911twt make Buck's coming out scene to Eddie about Buddie (fyi, I am a buddie shipper so I really mean this)

No, that wasn't disappointment on Buck's face! He was afraid that his best friend was gonna think differently of him!

I feel like people are missing the whole point of Buck's arc this season! It's about HIM! It's his story and it's being written and acted so well! Let the characters have their own individual arcs completed first!

I thank Oliver Stark for being so proud and open to explore this side of his character, he obviously loves Buck and is portraying a side of media that doesn't really get explored much in mainstream shows like 9-1-1!

Just enjoy the show, s7 really saved it...

#i feel like i'm always complaining but it needs to be said for some people to understand what it actually means #oliver stark didn't give us this beautiful storyline just for fangirls to make it about buddie #yes i ship buddie #but i'm also going to enjoy the bi buck storyline separately from it! #911twt is not safe for people who actually care about the show #evan buckley #eddie diaz #buddie #911 abc #911

[kumishona]

Ah yes. My emotional support British/American contemporary achillean novels starring an impulsive disaster bisexual with a hero complex having a ridiculously funny queer awakening for his depressed soft gay archenemy who has a four-word name, is basically royalty, and writes melancholic poetry on the side.

#red white and blue #carry on #rwrb #snowbaz #firstprince #casey mcquiston #rainbow rowell #simon snow #baz pitch #basilton pitch #tyrannus basilton grimm pitch #prince henry of wales #alex claremont diaz #alexander claremont diaz #henry fox mountchristen windsor #yes I'm aware simon is unlabeled!! just being silly :) #achillean #gay #bi #bisexual #disaster bisexuals #lgbtq+ #mlm #men loving men #queer #wholesome #ya novels #book recommendations #romance tropes #they're in love your honor

[hues-of-purple]

me every time anyone says anything, ever...

#and yes i am on the meme making website and i'm obsessed #anxious #asexual #bi #ace #biromantic #shitposting #lgbtqia #lgbtq

[vaggieslefteye]

VOX, Media Overlord | 1x02 - Radio Killed The Video Star

"[He's] up in his tower waiting for a flat-faced prince to calm him down."

#hazbin hotel #vox #hazbin vox #vox hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel vox #requested #hazbin hotel edit #hazbin edit #my gifs #radio killed the video star #oh yes. definitely gonna do more of him. he's tricky but doable #he's a fun challenge. it's tough to keep his bright colors bright and saturated #while at the same time not oversaturating him #cuz if i don't recolor at all he comes out BLAND and boring #(as do all gifs) #but if i saturate him even a little then he can oversaturate and then the image quality is MURDERED IN COLD BLOOD bc #the higher the saturation and contrast = the worse the quality gets. which is funny cuz this show is all high sat and contrast LMAO #but i'm making him work. got a decent recipe for him so far. i'll keep playing with him cuz wow his shots are so NICE #like sure his two colors contrast a lot but at least they're FLAT for the most part. so that helps a lot in the color tables #character spotlight #also it's weird... #usually i have a thing for pathetic bi men but somehow vox didn't trigger the awooga cortex in my brain. wonder if/when that'll change 🤔 #i think i'm too busy simping for vaggie and husk to give him attention rn is all kjsdhfljsdhjfkhs #okay enough tag rambling i still have another request to work on :D #flashing gif #flickering gif

[tiny-chubby-bird]

I've seen gay hub videos that had less heated looks than Luis while watching Leon do target practice challenges.

#yes i downloaded the mod to dress leon up in ada's sweater dress #HE LOOKS SO GOOD IN IT YOU GUYS #i cannot concentrate on anything else while playing its unreal #I'm so happy this mod exists i hope it will never disappear #anyway yeah Luis is so goddamn gay/bi for Leon and it's so relatable #i feel like leon should be considered a sexuality/preference of his own #leon kennedy #luis serra #re4 remake #leon x luis

[snoopy-nerdio]

HAPPY VALENTINES AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY GREASER!!!! 🎉🎉🎉

FINALLY I CAN POST THIS RAHHHHHHH

I love it sm and they're perfect, if this flops i'm imploding

I wanted to use the song "Can't take my eyes off you" but the text was too big so I used "I only have eyes for you"

Greaser by @radsee

Greaser simp (Fresh) by @loverofpiggies

#utau #freshgrease #fanart #greaser #sans #fresh sans #happy birthday #i love them sm #pls notice me or i'll cry #I'm making them kiss soon #gay #bi #aroace #yes they're dysfunctional but shush #they're in love your honor #undertale #art #digital art #retro rock

[den-kunn]

the trio dynamic

Bi ain't a jealous man, no. Not at all.

ref piiiic:

#mk #mortal kombat #mortalkombat #mk1 #bi han liang #kuai liang #tomas vrbada #noobsaibot #sub zero #smoke #bitomas #just a hint #yes I legit forgot to write the text I'm so dumb ª #kuai and tomas never take angry bi seriously #mk au #mom am I funny #artist on tumblr #artists on tumblr #meme

[charcubed]

I'm curious, what are the main reasons why Dean is your favorite canon bisexual in media? Love your meta and that video btw

Ooooo, anon, thank you for the kind words and for giving me an excuse to talk about my love for bisexual icon Dean Winchester <3

I'm going to be really annoying (sorry) and quote part of my meta first. It summarizes and articulates many of my thoughts on this. And then to further answer your question I'll add a bit under it!

From the very beginning, Dean Winchester has been a character tied to classic elements of American masculinity. He was introduced with a superficial veneer involving those elements, but almost immediately the early episodes provide a look at the complexity of his character underneath it. Over the years, that complexity was further explored, and he came to embody a study in things society would often have us think should be incompatible contrasts: the gruffness and grit of hunting life and its associated masculine iconography, paired with his open and deep emotional care for the world; unabashed love for classic rock, superheroes, and horror movies, as well as unabashed joy connected to TV dramas, chick flicks, and childhood favorites like Scooby-Doo; life on the road with a muscle car, but the desire for a home base with creature comforts he can make his own; motivation to always help people, but the clear longing for balance with personal domesticity and relaxation so he could save not only others but also himself.

As a whole, his character functions as an effective deconstruction of toxic masculinity and stereotypical American heroism. And while much of Dean’s most masculine traits and interests are said to come from his father’s influence, part of his journey is loving those parts of himself on their own merit not because he ever had to but because he wants to. He is not his father, and he redefines those valued parts of his identity so they are his and his alone. He also crucially learns to recognize and joyfully embody that those masculine traits were never all that he had to be, working through and overcoming shame and hesitancy along the way. The result? He’s “good with who he is.”

He and the audience are encouraged to see that there are no rules his identity and interests must subscribe to, on a micro or a macro level. The message is to disregard predetermined destiny or duty. Free will means his life is his to determine, his family can be what he makes of it and how he defines it, and what he needs and wants do not ever have to be mutually exclusive. Dean’s journey is about freedom from outwardly-imposed limitations–whether those limitations come from his father’s example and the God altering his story, or from the pervasive societal ideals and network/executive interference outside of it. Dean can and should contain multitudes, all at once.

In this way, Dean’s story is a powerfully queer narrative that acts as metacommentary. In the fullness of its execution, it is also specifically a deeply bisexual narrative.

The not-so-hidden truth is that Dean is canonically a bisexual man. His story was afforded something that’s rare for most characters and almost nonexistent for queer ones: fifteen years of lengthy, nuanced development.

[...]

Again: Dean’s identity journey is about how he can and does contain the capacity for multitudes, and it’s part of what makes him such a compelling character. He can like “this” and “that.” He can be attracted to women and men. Or, as writer Ben Edlund and director Phil Sgriccia said in a DVD commentary, Dean has “the potential for love in all places.”

I wanted to include the above verbatim because it spells out something specific: Dean's narrative is bisexual in its bones. Supernatural evolved to become a queer text, but the specific ways the show and Dean as a character evolved are very intertwined with and informed by the fact that Dean is a masculine bisexual man. SPN is a story that was not meant to be about being queer, but as it became about freedom through free will, those themes were then leveraged and emphasized in connection to queerness because of Destiel. And by the end, the free will narrative and Dean's journey as a bi man are utterly inseparable, because Dean's fight for true freedom is tied to his love for a man and their untraditional family in a way that higher forces are trying to hinder.

You cannot cut out or edit or remove Dean's bisexuality from the story, or several narratives and plot lines (not just Destiel) would at minimum be misunderstood or at maximum fall apart. And yet, simultaneously? Dean's bisexuality is also far from being the sole important thing about his character because he is written with such nuanced complexities and across so many years of material.

Of course, add onto this the overall unique situation that surrounds Supernatural as a piece of media. People talk at length about how there will never be anything like it again, including me; that's obviously true from multiple different angles and for multiple different reasons, with Destiel being prime amongst them. But a related yet distinctly significant branch of that topic is there will never be another bisexual character who is written and evolves quite like Dean.

Was Dean supposed to be bisexual from the very start, out of the mind of Kripke? Who can know for sure, but probably not. Were certain writers and members of production deliberately putting more queercoding and subtext into Dean's character/story from the very start? Who can know for sure, but potentially yes, and certainly the answer becomes unarguably definitely yes the farther you get into the show. That's part of my love and passion for him too, because all of that is deeply unique and incredibly cool.

Dean's bisexuality evolved in a way that (against all odds) actually feels organic, seamless, and like it's simply a part of his character that's been there all along. The effect when you look at Supernatural as a whole body of work is that Dean's always been bi, and his expressions of and acknowledgements of that part of him ebb and flow depending on situation–which is a very relatable notion for many queer people. And as those writing the show became more committed and certain about that piece of who Dean is, so did he, in nuanced and subtle ways skillfully embedded into his story by design. It's bafflingly, impressively cohesive; gives him an incredibly realistic feel; matches his overall character growth; and rings true to his demographic, age, personality, and experiences.

Dean and his story and the situation(s) surrounding both are simply incomparable, and that will be true forever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

...also. Well. I simply love him, y'know? For even more reasons unconnected to this. How can you not, right? :')

Thank you for asking, and thanks for reading this bi Dean manifesto!

Putting my video that you mentioned here for anyone who's not watched it:

My new magnum opus, please stream, etc.

(or watch on Tumblr here)

#bisexual dean winchester #dean is bi #bi dean meta #bi dean winchester #dean winchester is bi #supernatural #spn meta #char writes things #God I LOOOOOVE HIIIIMMMM #dean #anonymous #yes I used like 5 dean is bi tags. I'm valid. leave me alone