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am-i-the-asshole-official · 6 months

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My IRL ex who lives abroad now is dating my online friend who also lives there and I am deceiving them, AITA?

All of us are Asian, 29. Fake names are used.

My ex (Fred) was my childhood best friend, we grew up together in the same conservative society, people expected to see us marry since we were kids, all that jazz. At 18, we both moved away and kept up LDR. Moving meant big changes of course, I was in a huge city and I had internet access for the first time. I became a BTS fan in 2013, I started creating and reading a lot. I joined tumblr, made friends from all over the world. I was being radicalized rapidly, and I figured out I was bi too. My world was suddenly a million times bigger.

He however, didn't change much. He was scientific minded unlike most people here and his friends were all STEM kids but they were still functionally right leaning. He was racist when it came to BTS or East Asians in general. He was ignorant and happy to ignore queer existence, he used to say things like queer people needed to be shown the right path. We were turning out to be quite the opposites. Eventually we broke up. He was heartbroken, he tried to drag me back in many times and I avoided him like plague. I managed to ditch him completely when we were about 23. He left for USA to study.

Around the same time I befriended one of my closest online friends, Daphne. We lived in the same state but she was always traveling so we never got to meet. We're both hellsite veterans and keep our identities under lock & key so we don't know our real names or exact place of work, but we know each other's deepest kinks and childhood traumas, and stories about our exes. We both had the same kind of interests, politics, and fandoms, we're both bisexual. I've also come out as a trans man a few years ago and I go by a masculine name online, can't transition IRL. Daphne's known me since my girl era. Daphne left for USA last year for her Masters.

Now the wild part, by some twist of fate, Daphne met Fred who's also working on his Masters in an adjacent field. It is by no means a niche subject and USA is the fourth largest country, they still found each other. He sang in our first language at some party, he's very hot, and... he's into BTS like her. Wild. So they're now dating.

They started following each other on twitter and he followed a bunch of her friends including Me! We have exchanged pleasantries and while on his account he has his real name and location, mine is a mixed bag account with my fake name and my (sfw) queer creations all over it.

I know who He is but he doesn't know who I am, he thinks I'm just one of Daphne's dudes, and Daphne doesn't know that she's dating my ex who she had promised to drop into the Challenger's Deep (joke). My reasoning for hiding the truth is-- It's still not safe for me to be out IRL and he can mess it up. I remember his bigotry, I hate him, I have every right to avoid him and here that means not revealing my identity. But it's been years so maybe he has changed, and Daphne is my friend. So, I feel like a massive ahole for not telling her at least. At the same time she really did hate my racist homophobic right leaning ex a lot, so knowing the truth will make things awkward and I don't want to lose my friend.

So, there you have it. AITA?

BTW, no I'm not into BTS ships or reader insert fantasies, that's not what I create. I know someone would ask about it so there. I'm also Not attracted to Daphne, if I was I'd have asked her out straight away, I don't play around about my crushes.

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

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mammonswhore · 2 years

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I saw that ur requests were open! Can I request headcanons for the brother+undsts if possible? It's a weird one.. so I've been playing otome games since forever and I've used the same oc for every game. The ultimate mc, they know some shit cuz they've seen some shit..

Continually mc has been transported, transfer or moved to weird places just to meet the same group of people. The older sadistic ahole, ore-sama, I don't like you at the beginning,shy otaku, always angry-tsundere, the horny one, the twinsTM, youngest cute one who's 100% a yandere, himbo/bimbo/bimboy, shady ahole, questionable aged one and the secret character/villain.

I think the brothers and undats would be put off abt mc reaction to everything, having their threatened, people just dying infront of them, dying themselves, going to sleep through the day and going to school at night, and being really good at any type of magic. They expertly know how to defuse situations, mostly it's them bullshiting their way out.. I feel like mc would know some of the supernatural beings in the devil dom do to their prior experiences.

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Random demon: Well well well if it isn't little 'ol mc!

Brothers: *on alert*

Mc: REGGIE?! HOW ARE YOU!*hugging demon*

Leviathan:*is jealous* do you know him mc?

Mc: Uh YES! We use to go to the same school together! He really helped me alot!

Demon-Reggie: *blushing* aww..

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Mc: ah.. went from 7 gods.. to 7 demons at least I have some demon experience..

Lucifer: excuse me?

Mc: yeah Zeus summond me to help his son and 6 of his friends who were outta touch with humans.. I assume I'm doing the same here?

Diavolo: you have demon experience?

Mc: yeah a school I went to before apparently was filled with demons and vampires.. and something about me being the key to get some book.

Mammon: *gulp*vampires*shaking*

Mc: you're a demon and you're afraid of vampires? I mean I wasn't to surprise... at least I wasn't a sacrifial bride... again..

Leviathan: w-were there werewolves?

Mc: you bet your ass there were werewolves!

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Mc and co: *at one of dia's party

Noble vampire lady: *walks up to mc and co* well hello me~

Lucifer: good evening Lady Goodmore...

Lady Goodmore: And you.. now mc... whatever happened to that meeting huh?

Mc: o-oh.. um... weeellll.... somethings came up.

Lady Goodmore: would you like to dance?

Mammon: HA! NO WAY MC SAID THEY DANCE WITH ME!

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Mc: *at a café with asmo* hmm I really like this Strawberry banana smoothie

Asmo: yeah! Too bad they were out of the carmel hazelnut ice coffee*down turn*

Group of succubus: WAAAHHH! MC!

Mc: huh!?*tackled by group*

Succubus 1: WAAH! MC YOU NEVER REPLIED TO MY TEXT!

Succubus 2: YEAH!! I KEPT TRYING TO CALL YOOU BUT YOU NEVER ANSWERED!

Mc: sorry ladies but I lost my old phone I'm sorry..

Succubus 3: YOU NEED TO TREAT US TO A DATE RIGHT NOW!!

Asmo: *gets completely ignored* w-wait..*succubuses pick up and run away with mc* WAIT HEY! MCCC!

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Levi & mammon: *Arguing*

Satan & belphie: *planing to prank lucifer*

Solo & barbie: *barbie trying to teach solo to cook* *putting whole egg in mixing bowl*

Mc: *scrolling through ddd*

Witch: OHOH~ if it isn't my favorite mc!

Solo: Great Witch Angela?

Mammon: *hide behind levi* Oh shit..

Belphie: *who dares touch his mc*

Mc: *not looking up* oh hi Angie

Witch Angela: you never came to your magic les-*sees Solomon* YOU'VE BEEN CHEATING ON ME WITH THAT BASTARD!*sees mammon* AND YOU!

Mc: h-hey... Angie let's calm down

Hi! First of all I would like to apologize because it took me so long to even reply but I am not able to fulfill ypur request since I have only played ObeyMe and MM and I can't even tell which games you are talking about.

But as I cannot make this I would like to post this since anyone else with more experience with otomes can make this request a reality.

#obey me writing #writing prompt #obey me

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toomanyfandoms02 · 4 years

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Jealousy // Draco Malfoy x Reader

Summary - Reader hangs out with her best friend Blaise and -Someone- gets jealous.

Word Count - 1k

Warnings - implies sex

Jealousy was a common thing to experience from Draco. He was probably one of the most protective people I had ever met. So I was use to it.

But that didn't mean it made it any easier to deal with.

Besides Draco, Blaise Zambini was my best friend. It had been that way our whole lives. Our mum's were best friends and they even got pregnant with us around the same time. So we were bound to be close knit.

And it stayed that way.

I was currently sitting at the 3 Broomsticks with Blaise, sipping a mug of Butterbeer and laughing at some inside joke he had recited. Draco had said he wouldn't be able to make the Hogsmeade trip this weekend, he had to study for an upcoming Transfiguration exam. (He never really paid attention in that class.) So of course I told him that was fine, I would go alone.

But I happened to run into Blaise.

"So how's everything going with Draco? He seems a lot happier than he's been since we were little." He commented, snacking on his biscuit. I smiled at the question, I was glad he was *noticeably* happier with me.

"Things are going really well I think. I know how much of a dickhead he can be but he's never treated me with anything but respect."

"He's definitely got a soft spot with you that I don't think he has for anyone else." He nodded with a laugh, I thought so too.

We had spent the whole day together shopping, I even bought Draco a little present I thought he would like. With the help of Blaise.

After a few hours, we took a carriage back up to school together, mostly because I knew I would need help carrying my bags.

I was kind of a shop-aholic.

Blaise grabbed 3 of my 5 bags, helping me heave them to the Slytherin Common Room.

"Pure-blood." I said to the portrait, it promptly opened so we could drag in my bags of wasted money.

I saw Draco on the couch, a quill in one hand and a thick, (I assume Transfiguration textbook.) in the other. He looked up from it, eyebrows furrowing and lip twitching in the slightest.

"Hello Blaise." His voice sounded spiteful, as if he wasn't talking to one of his friends. Blaise smiled and waved awkwardly, setting the bags at my feet.

"Hi Draco." He looked back at me. "Thanks for hanging out with me today, it's been a while." He patted my shoulder, leaving for the dorms.

In an instant the textbook was shut loudly, making me nearly jump from my skin and hold my heart.

"Bloody hell Draco, what's wrong?"

"I thought you said you were going to Hogsmeade alone today." He pressed, folding his parchment into his book.

"I did go alone, but I ran into Blaise so we had a drink and did some shopping." I gestured to my pile. Then it clicked, he was making the face.

The face where his lip was slightly down turned, eyebrows furrowed only slightly. One eye brought into the slightest glare, but not enough to look angry. Just enough to look *jealous*.

"Wait a second, are you jealous?" His facial expression dropped, turning into wide eyes and red tinged ears.

"What? Of Blaise? Why would I be jealous of Zambini?" His words came out rushed and high pitched.

"Wow, you sound incredibly convincing." I laughed, grabbing his hands. "Theres no need to be jealous, Blaise and I are just friends, always have been, always will be."

"I'm not jealous!" He pouted aggressively, taking his hands from mine and crossing them at his chest. I dug my head between his arms so my head was on his chest, and hugged him.

"Sure you aren't." I giggled. His arms loosened and wrapped around me properly.

"I just felt bad that I couldn't spend the day with you, that's all. And he got to." His chin rested on my head.

"If it makes you feel better, I bought you something." I released from his grip, searching for a smaller bag. Once I located it I pulled the tiny box out with a smile and handed it to him.

"Here, open it." He gave a puzzled look before opening the box. It held a ring in the form of a coiled snake with shiny green eyes. He smiled at it, slipping it onto his ring finger.

"I love it Darling." He went to bring me in for a kiss but I stopped him.

"Wait! Look at the inside of it." He slipped it off, turning it in the light so he could read the engraved message.

*16-04-1996*

*Y/n*

He smiled widely, just staring at the small lettering.

*His Y/n*

"And I got a matching one." I showed him the inside, mine saying the same but instead, his name. "Now we can carry a little piece of eachother everywhere." I commented. This time I let him bring me in for a kiss, lightly grabbing my jaw and tracing it.

"Blaise helped me pick it out." I said between kisses.

"Don't talk about him while I'm kissing you." He laughed breathily onto my lips, pulling me into his lap on the couch with him.

"Then who should I talk about?" I giggled, teasing him. He flipped us so he was hovering over me on the cold leather.

"Who do you think?" He replied intimidatingly, those icy eyes boring into my soul.

"You tell me!" I sat up and pecked his lips. He gave a playful eyeroll and came down to me, passionately kissing me. He ran his hands through my hair and down my body. His mouth now trailing kisses down my jaw and neck.

"Do you think we should move this to my room?" He whispered against my neck.

"Probably dimwit." I lightly shoved him off of me, getting up from the couch and grabbing him by his tie. "Wouldn't want to get caught by a poor first year." I laughed, beginning to pull him up the stairs.

"I don't even care, as long as I'm with you." He said in a dreamy voice.

"Oh sush Malfoy." I scolded as I shut the door to his dorm.

*Man am I in for it tonight.*

#draco malfoy x reader #draco one shot #draco x reader #draco malfoy one shot #draco malfoy #draco malfoy imagine #harry potter #harry potter imagine

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7thcirclebaker · 3 years

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-- Edited to add read mores because I learned how to do that on mobile--

---Nvm, that didn't work---

Random idea (loosely based on yj); There's an award show for young people in film and TV, like the kids choice awards. Adrien gets nominated for VA in the LB & CN movie and Gabe is like idk if I want you going because it's outside Paris but publicity but danger but and Adrien pulls out the but it's be good for me to interact with other actors and it's my first award show and Mom would want me to be there 'kitten eyes' Gabe caves, those are Emilie's kitten eyes, he has never successfully said no to them. Undecided if Gabe actually plots to use this for making deals because like, they're very inconsistent on how much he cares about Adrien's safety tbh so I'm leaning towards he falls back on the old rule of award shows are sacred party time from Emile's days.

Adrien wants to go because of all those reasons and also, Garfield Logan, star of Space Trek will be there! The one who's also loud and out a hero with some connections to the JL. Adrien is a smart boy, him and LB cannot hunt down HM themselves, they have a lot going on and she is looking hella stressed. Therefore maybe he can get help from someone their age who won't be a complete ahole he hopes. He asks for extra AstroCat power ups and hints lightly he might bump into people who can help them but at a distance. He hints this too lightly, LB has immediately started freaking out about him not being in town and is not picking up on nuance because she is planningTM. Plagg flies over later and explains the plan to Tikki, Tikki tells Lb she needs to focus some energy on CN having really good luck. Adrien's charm from Mari becomes extra extra lucky.

Because of this heapload of extra luck, he just so happens to be sitting with Garfield, his girlfriend Queen Perdita and a stakeholder in the org that runs the kids show, Probs Tim as the Wayne here, for the preshow light meal and social. Usual magical firewall means they've never heard of what's going on in Paris. They're like politely asking what it was like voicing a fictional hero when Paris doesn't have one and Adrien's like well actually... In between this brief reveal at the meal and getting to the actual auditorium show many frantic texts to JL members are sent. Tim is aching to disappear and research. Gars like, I wanna hear more, you wanna grab a sneaky lunch tomorrow. Adrien's like this could not have gone better!! Gars like, where are you staying, I'll swing by early to make sure you don't look obviously too much like yourself, do you have anything not designer? Hc he has a CN hoodie that Mari made him after she found out he got nominated for the award because she's procrastinating dealing with her issues.

Next Day Tim has researched, they're all making polite small talk and probing questions at lunch and planning to drag Adrien back to his flat for more intense questions and Adrien makes a terrible joke because he's around at least one other hero so it's ok to let a little CN show, he can just write it off as being the VA, be fine. Not when hes been tracking chipped so they don't lose him and he has to AstroCat to Paris because there's an Akuma that he has to recharge in the middle of. He's like getting ready to fly back to LA to meet up with them and apologize but someone had the great idea to boom tube right under him so he couldn't avoid the conversation.

LB was napping on her kitties shoulder because it's like midnight in Paris and that fight was hard and she'll go back to her bed soon, she just needs a little recharge mkay. They are suddenly falling. She is unhappy. He is unhappy and then very akward like oh shit, some frantic begging in french to pls don't take my ring I know they know who I am and you should also know who I am but I did it to help and you look so tired. Lb goes to lucky charm herself up something to help guide her in this, she gets coffee. While lucky charming, someone says something along the lines of you probably shouldn't have voiced yourself in a movie tbh. Lbs brain shuts down, she gets beaned in the head by her magic coffee and is just out of it for like 2-6 hours.

Adrien spends several hours alternating between panicking, never leaving her side, where she's detransformed and wearing a borrowed Bat Domino Tikki put on, being comforted that it'll all be fine don't worry and trying to explain things. They realize questions need answers soon because Adrien needs to go back to the hotel and LB probs needs to get to Paris. They wake her, loudly at tikkis recommendation. She's typical Mari waking up and does not realize there are like a dozen people around her when she starts talking half awake to Tikki about how she had this weird dream where Adrien was CN but then that would explain so much about how he figured out my identity but this means I can never date Adrien and get married and have three kids and a hamster because he's my kitty and if we fall in love it causes CB and the end of the world but I'm sure that's definitely not the case because Bunnix would have told me! The only response she gets is a choked "Princess?" Lb is suddenly very awake and very aware of the people and the domino mask that isn't magic and Adrien and the headache and the people and the fact their heros and Adrien and oh crap.

Swirling blue portal, bunnix appears with a bowl of popcorn. Doesn't even give Mari or Adrien a chance to start to Panic, is like nope, this is the right way for you to find out identities, it's all good I'm just here for clarification and to watch the show. The collection of very confused heros would like clarification very much please and thanks. Focus now, freak out later. Info dump!!! Request for hunting down hawkmoth pls, no coming to Paris though because bad. Mari asks for a boom tub back to Paris pls, she has school. Suits up and is ready to step through, runs back, kisses Adrien on the cheek and says I'm happy it's you minou, and bolts through the portal. Adrien is broken, but happy though, he thinks. He's not sure if this is happy though because it's been a while, mistakenly says that out loud. Adrien gains supportive friends who get superheroing and parental expectations and also being in the limelight all the time which he needs. He does not need them attempting to help with his attempts to woo his lady, who he keeps accidentally breaking and genuinely can't tell she's shutting off because she likes him or because she doesn't like him flirting. They both start chilling in the YJ flat because it's nice and chill and they don't need to worry about intruders or emotions.

--- possible addition, Mari gets big sister Zatanna who loves that this teen who wields literal creation goddesses is amazing at fashion, she's my sister now Dick you can fight me. She gets dragged to spas to relax and also is taught magic. Adrien is also there learning magic and some spa stuff when he has the time but is also happy to just sit and be a Simp when they do fashion things with like some inputs on the current trends.

----- There are several arguments about who gets to actually get and keep Adrien as a mentor and big brother role, mostly between Dick and Will, honorable mention to Roy. Oliver and Dinah have told Bruce he has a problem and Adrien fits their aesthetic better, also Dinah is a therapist and he definitely needs that. Hal is making a surprisingly good case for powerful ring bros

Option for class salt and not sure how much of S4 of MLB there should be because I think the whole Chloe/Zoe thing is doing them both dirty and I don't think it's okay Chloe was manipulated by a man who's known her all her life and that makes her irredeemable tbh.

#maribat #ficlet #potential crack fic #free to good home #adrinette #Adrien gets to be actually useful and we love that for him #Mari is all kinds of stressed #mlb x dc

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