#Just say you're homophobic

[antiyourwokehomophobia2]

I think that people who say stupid shit like "their love doesn't require kisses and sex! They can be in a romantic relationship without it" should enter a relationship with someone who never wants to kiss them or have sex with them and tell me if they still feel the same afterwards.

#Yes this is about good omens #I'm so tired of writer being all too happy to display heterosexual kissing and sex #But gay characters are apparently able to have a relationship without it #There's nothing 'deep' about not having sex with your partner #Kissing and sex is not perverted! It's loving #Isn't it amazing that if you kiss someone then everyone around you immediately knows you guys are in a relationship ? #One simple gesture can convey so much about two people and their relationship with each other #That's not romantic? #Get out of here #Just say you're homophobic

[yomi-hellsimp]

My favorite thing about homophobes despising The Sandman because there's like 95% LGBTQ+ characters is when they say shit like "Gay people only take up 5% of the population. If this took place in a gay bar, it would make sense."...you are literally looking for realism in a show about the sandman and exorcists and demons and shit, lmao.

#just say you're homophobic #at least then we can agree and it doesn't make you look as idiotic #the sandman

[chirpsythismorning]

As a gay Mike truther, this is my favorite bi-Mike evidence

#byler #don't like piling on the discourse #but again #as much as i am a gay mike truther #bi mike is something very special to me #one way -> #'it doesn't have to be one-way.' #oh... so what you're saying is mike's probably been trying to convince himself he can't be gay bc he's attracted to women too...? #but mike.. #did you know you can like both? #that it doesn't have to be one way...? #mike in the shot alone right in front of jonathan as he says this #then panning over to reveal will and el paralleling each other #it's whatever #technically me saying i'm a gay mike truther bc the evidence supports it could be seen as invalidating to bi-mike truthers and vise-versa #but healthy discourse needs to be encouraged #just because you don't like someone's interpretation/it goes against yours that doesn't make it inherently homophobic/biphobic #it means you're feeling challenged and that's okay! #bask in it and move on #and if ppl are harassing you #just know they probably have a humiliation kink and you're just feeding it by giving them attention #it's likely they don't care that they've hurt your feelings and nothing is going to change that #not worth the energy

[nullbutler]

This is your sign to give Goodbye Volcano High a shot. I know people were jackasses about it, but this irony-poisoning doomer-mindset 4chan brainrot is not allowed to poison my queer dinosaur tragedy coming of age story (with lesbian situationships, and real mental health shit, and the cutest most strikingly complex characters, and an ending that made me sob for 40 minutes uncontrollably)

if that isnt enough BEHOLD

OLD WOMAN LIZARD YURI

#goodbye volcano high #i dont care what those transphobic homophobic assholes have to say #this is one of the best stories with one of the best messages #and its something that i honestly think #if you're feeling alone or unsure about your future or just scared #its such a good comfort show #i know everyone knows they all die at the end #but theres a comfort in the tragedy #a nd i saw so many people i knew in so many of the characters #it was really really good

[maddy-ferguson]

i don't like j0pper either but when people say joyce should've stayed with bob they always lose me because i have a hard time believing she even liked the man

#like hardcore twitter j0ppers have a point i fear she wasn't amused by his antics #and narratively he's very much her el and her steve the normal she can't go back to after the upside down stuff (like him wanting them to #move to maine) #something else about joyce and hopper. when someone said i don't think hopper's homophobic for saying like is he in s1 (i don't think he #would be based on that alone like it's not a convincing argument to me at all) someone else said you're crazy to think joyce would get #with a man who could be homophobic she would never do that to will when like. wasn't murray's whole thing in s3 that joyce didn't #like that hopper was a brute but that she also kinda liked it. now why they would choose to highlight that instead of continuing on the #path of s1-s2 j0pper idk but just. it's funny that they'd immediately go joyce would never do that to will when like. yeah. #i do think bob was the better choice...for will's stepdad lol. for joyce idk. #for jonathan...no idea #and hardcore j0ppers are cute when they say how dare you base your opinion of hopper on s3 that's like three days in his entire life WELL #we only spend one week a year with these characters blame the duffers for giving us this side of hopper and for leaving us with that for 3 #years. but i can also find stuff i don't like about him in other seasons so we're fine #and like i say: brf slt

[anzekopistar]

I actually hate this league

#New York Islanders #* #just say you're homophobic and move on #it's organization policy shut the fuck up

[lesjasmine]

“61% of bisexual women and 44% of lesbian women surveyed in 2013 reported some type of intimate partner violence (IPV) compared to 35% of straight women. Intimate partner violence includes emotional/verbal abuse, physical abuse, stalking, sexual assault, and more. So, why don’t we know that queer relationships have such high rates of abuse? For starters, physical abusers are often portrayed as violent men, so along with many other misconceptions about women-loving-women (WLW) relationships, many people have trouble understanding why and how this abuse may occur. It’s especially dangerous when queer women themselves are conditioned to treat their own unhealthy situation differently than a heterosexual couple might.

Around 44% of lesbian and 61% of bisexual women have experienced forms of rape and physical violence by an intimate partner as compared to 35% of straight women.”

As we can see, clearly straight women have been abused less, therefore only confirming that the lesbian partner is most likely to be the responsible one of the abuse. Gay men have the lowest amount of DV. Women are the problem lol. Women also abuse children at more than double the rate of men, and initiate domestic violence 70% of the time in straight relationships. Interesting.

https://www.standffov.org/tdvam/abuse-in-lesbian-relationships/

STFU with badly done 'scientific' studies that don't even start off by defining the definition of lesbian. Most of the women in this study were with MALES. They experienced violence with MALES. To add to it, no study on 'lesbians' is going to be accurate since they never study stats on gold star lesbians (aka actual lesbians).

#hop off my page #just say you're homophobic and go

[reluctantbylerblog]

they really have the gall to say they aren’t biased against byler when these are their reactions to both of these posts:

like c’mon bffr

#byler #not gonna tag this as anti m*leven because the last time i did that my post ended up on the actual m*leven tag #so tumblr clearly can't be trusted #but lol I don't much care for m*levin romantically but it just blows my mind how… #idk…let's say…passionate the st subreddit is about ensuring it's sanctity #like they're always like ‘i have no problem with people who ship byler my problem is with people who want mike to break up with el for him’ #and idk it all just seems like a cover for what the actual problem you have against byler: #it's a gay ship involving a character you've projected all your straight fantasies onto (mike) and you feel that #because byler shippers ‘force’ people to admit it will be canon #it says something about your own sexuality #like please touch some grass and work on your homophobia because you can relate to a character who is gay #it's okay #you're not going to magically turn gay if mike ends up being gay #now I'm not saying byler shippers are all little angels btw #(we could probably do better if we just focused on enjoying the ship and the characters instead of arguing with homophobes) #but i definitely think the hate towards byler shippers is queerphobic (it's no secret most of us are queer in some way or another) #where the hate towards m*levin shippers (simply by the fact that it's a straight ship) is just not #and no I don't buy the argument that it's misogynist to want mike to leave el #(as if el's character arc hasn't been intrinsically tied to how misogyny and heteronormativity are #tied together under oppressive systems like the patriarchy #and that her idea of romance and boyfriends under it has been harmful to her independence and sense of self)

[farshores]

Is something happening with the Kaidan ppl again 👀

okay i was quiet on this and other asks on my posts cus it wasn't my space to say anything till those effected spoke up but tldr

Dan threatened to sue over Kaidan being revoiced by saying he owned the IP of the character (yknow...false. That's like saying Christopher Judge owns Kratos or Hiddleston owns Loki cus they voice/play the characters lmao)

Also is hunky-dory liking/interacting with conservative, transphobic bs, as seen in my updated pinned/Cwahsonts post here (general warning for transphobic bs & J0ann the t*rf) [x]

So yknow, totally normal human being behavior 🤷 Cus being a decent person is ooooh so hard to do

#ik this makes folks uncomfy w Kai now which hey fair but idk for me im a spiteful ass nigga - he's mine now /hj #anonymous #kaidan skyrim #kaidan 2 #would tag as disk horse but tbh being a bigot aint discourse you're just a shit human being #but me saying 'hey dont be a homophobic/transphobic piece of shit!' was apparently bullying lmao #anyway who wants to put down bets they run to the modding reddit again for defense like last year

[dreamytfw]

btw, I love how Destiel fans are constantly like "wow, Good Omens fans are so defensive about Ineffable Husbands all the time idk why we're just out here enjoying our ship uwu" every time there's a poll, and then when Destiel loses that poll the narrative is always "YOUR CHASTE CLOSED MOUTH KISS WOULD BE NOTHING WITHOUT THE EPIC LOVE STORY THAT IS DESTIEL! DESTIEL PAVED THE WAY FOR YOU SHIP! BE GRATEFUL FOR DESTIEL!"

Yeah, can't imagine why people who like AziraCrow would be defensive towards Destiel fans 🙄

#saying this as someone who likes both #hardcore Destiel fans are insufferable #'we're just having fun uwu' they say while actively putting all other ships down #like please shut up I am begging you #also the irony of saying we wouldn't have an AziraCrow kiss without the homophobic love confession #when the truth is we wouldn't have SPN at all without GO #I know y'all are so loud about it because you're insecure about it #cus of all the constant gaslighting the CW has put us through #but come on #stop being obnoxious towards other ships #op #Good Omens #SPN #Supernatural #SPN fandom critical #Ineffable Husbands #AziraCrow #Destiel

[hildegardladyofbones]

I have a lot of thoughts about saltburn that is impossible to put into words however the main one is that i will from now on be using this as a test to see if we rlly get eachother, yk? like if they thought it was trash i will NOT be ranting about the inherent nature of death to them. like we can still be friends, but i won't introduce you to my skeletons

#saltburn #saltburn 2023 #i get why it has such a low score and i think that was to be expected but god i hope i won't meet those people irl #just say you're homophobic and move on /j

[amarriageoftrueminds]

disney-owned marvel comics admitting that they’re now just creating them to be future mcu-film fodder (not independent and committed to their own characters’ history), bringing out comics which retcon comics Peggy to match MCU Peggy as if they never based her on a Nazi and had her repeatedly hiring/willingly working with them across multiple universes, then having her attack and victim-blame comics Bucky while evil monologuing about how Insane it is to suggest she has done anything wrong in her life, ever, then using the next Cap comic to turn Bucky into a villain and pit him and Steve against each other despite 80+ years of comics history of them doing anything but that because they’re so devoted to each other, while simultaneously using every D+ tv show to shit on, retcon and straightwash both of them?

at this point kevin feige’s obsession with meticulously trashing Steve and Bucky is just verging on fan behaviour

#antipeggy #stucky #antisteggy #p*ggy meta #mcu meta #comics #mcu critical #steggy is hydra trash party #meta #steve meta #bucky meta #stucky meta #steve rogers #bucky barnes #kevin feige that creepy dead-eyed highlander-lookin fuck #LOL just say you're homophobic and go you don't need to waste all this ink #sorry I'm a little bit salty today #alexa play why are you so obsessed with me #cynthia glass #yet each man queues the thing he loves

[glouris]

rats

#this is what photomode was invented for actually #ignore atreus #god of war #god of war ragnarok #heimdall #atreus #while we being goofy - who came up with that headcanon about heimdall being homophobic? #😭have you seen the guy? 😭 #how do you look at him and go yeah COMPLETELY STRAIGHT not even a WHIFF of fruitiness there #and to even go further and say that he's homophobic that's just- #miss ma'am #i think you're fishing in the wrong pond 😭 #i aint gonna lie that's the gayest looking mf the new games have to offer LOOK AT HIM

[realasslesbian]

Can us lesbians actually stop just letting casual homophobia slip by in movements that are supporting us for this hot second. Because y'all did that with the queers and the transes and now y'all doing that with the rad fems, and my old homosexual ass is telling you these rad fems ain't gonna keep supporting lesbians once they don't need us no more. So when you see these hetties bad-mouthing the rainbow or gender non-conformity or whatever even small ass thing, can we, for once, take no fucking quarter?

#like the amount of straight rad fems I've seen shitting on Mardi Gras this last couple weeks #and the shit that they're shitting on is literally just homosexual people #they be like 'how dare these predators parade in the street' #like #fuck off Sandra your precious Nigel is probably doing far more degenerate shit right now #gay people being visibly gay is not inherently a bad thing #homosexuals merely existing doesn't mean we're automatically supporting TRA ideology #or sinning against the lord #or whatever your flavour of dumb thinly veiled homophobia is #Mardi Gras is a gay and lesbian event #for gays and lesbians #it literally says it in the name #and sure the TRAs have foisted themselves onto it like some stinking barnacles #but they're not what gay pride is about #so shitting on gay pride just for existing isn't revolutionary #it's just homophobic #you ain't no different from the hordes of homophobic men rampaging in Sydney's streets during Mardi Gras #you're ideology is just as homophobic as theirs #and therefore just as worthless #so maybe instead of opening y'all's mouth to condemn anything happening under a rainbow flag #maybe shut tf up for two seconds and ask yourself is it really your place to say anything at all #and is what your saying actually just homophobia #or just keep being homophobic idc at this point #what's another useless movement that lesbians busted our ass to get off the ground only for it to mutate into a lesbophobic dumpster fire #I'll honestly be surprised if this radfem wave turns out any different #lesbian #lgbt #feminism #gold star lesbian #gold star lesbians do interact

[incorrect-web-novels]

There's something uniquely frustrating about the idea that there's only One True Interpretation of a story or character when the story has been altered and changed via adaptation. Like, did this person fundamentally misunderstand the novel, or did they just watch the live action? Is this person woombifying this character, or did they just see a version that was less graphic/under stricter censorship? Is this person erasing a canonly queer character, or was that character not explicitly queer in another adaptation?

I think harassing someone for having a different interpretation is cringe and reductive and fucked up in general, but it's even more unfair to do so under the assumption that Every Thing They Say Must Be Supported By What I've Decided is the "True Version" or whatever. No one should have to consume ever possible adaptation of a story to talk about it, especially when they're just minding their own business, and even if they did... it's not worth sending death threats or harassing them or refusing to treat them like a person

#not a quote #before you @ me this is about ppl who harass others over media not ppl having differing opinions #bc like. that's fun! I love seeing debates! but not when you're trying to say one person is like. homophobic or a horrible person #or when you come onto random ppl's blogs/posts to try and pressure them if that makes sense? #like. the easiest way to be nice about it is to just start with smth like 'oh I hadn’t considered that! I took it as...' or whatever #it's really not that hard honestly #q slur #death threats mention #tl;dr treat ppl like ppl 👍 #(or beings deserving of respect) #discourse #my posts

[stupid-sloot-headcanons]

Btw I do write for Stranger Things but I personally hate the term "Fruity Four" to describe that particular group of characters and I'm not going to answer requests describing those characters as such, sorry not sorry

#like I got an ask a while back describing them with that term and I was just like... #...Go-Go Gadget Homophobia Deleter #i understand ppl reclaiming slurs but a) self awareness is a thing and b) ive seen and heard straight ppl say shit like that and it will #never be ok. Youre not being cute Jessica you're being homophobic using a word you just saw on Tiktok #It's a similar cringe to seeing ppl use aave and sounding like Starfire trying to use human slang