#I'd Like To Help You With Your Problem

[ms-boogie-man]

The Dandy Warhols - “I’d Like To Help You With Your Problem (feat. Slash)” Official Music Video

Angie/Maddie🦇❥✝︎🇺🇸

#The Dandy Warhols #I'd Like To Help You With Your Problem #Slash #Official Music Video

[chaunceyandchumleysdad]

The Dandy Warhols released their new album, Rockmaker, today, so I'm kicking off the weekend with a song from that LP, I'd Like To Help You With Your Problem featuring Slash.

#I'd like to help you with your problem #the dandy warhols #rockmaker #slash #new music #kicking off the weekend #Youtube

[aboutoriginality]

The Dandy Warhols - “I’d Like To Help You With Your Problem (feat. Slash...

#the dandy warhols #I'd like to help you with your problem #Youtube

[bitegore]

Zionists want you to conflate Judaism and Zionism. Zionists want you to believe that Judaism cannot exist without Zionism and that all Jews are Zionists. Zionism would have Jews believe that a Jewish state is the only way that they can be safe from antisemitism and will point to any instance of antisemitism as proof that Zionism is the solution- so Zionism wants gentiles to be antisemitic in their support of Palestine. They want you to conflate all Jews with Zionism and the state of Israel, and they want you to treat all Jews regardless of political affiliation as the face of Israel. Antizionist Jews exist, and incidences of antisemitism ostensibly acting against Zionism will not help dismantle the forces propping Zionism up.

Don't do their work for them.

#red rambles #viva palestina #antizionism #i haven't actually seen a lot of antisemitism personally. not recently anyway. but that's more a feature of me not following antisemites #i DO however see a lot of people talking about the people they're seeing throw their support behind antisemites using palestine #as an excuse to conflate all jews with israel #and i cannot stress enough that that is literally what israel and zionist forces abroad WANT. #i am jewish. my entire family is jewish. i want to see palestine free. and i have SEEN how the jewish community gets conflated with israel #both from the inside and out #and i am dead serious when i say that every time someone is antisemitic it strengthens the conviction from people abroad #that it's a terrible sad situation but there's 'no other choice' #if you're being antisemitic you are doing the enemy's work for them. Stop it. #like... look. i am putting this in the tags bc im talking in the tags but i mean this. I do not give a single flying fuck if you personally #are a giant raging antisemite at the moment. Your personal beliefs are your problem and not mine. I do not fucking care. But if you are #being openly and loudly antisemitic *in your support of palestine* you are absolutely not fucking helping. I am so dead serious right now #if you want to raise awareness and you're being antisemitic because of deep held beliefs or whatever i want you to look around and read the #fucking room. Do you understand how much of Israel's international support comes from the idea that they are the only country where jews ar #safe from antisemitism? do you see how every time palestine comes up people point at incidences of antisemitism in anti-genocide actions to #discredit the entire movement? do you not understand how your actions are cutting the movement down at the knees? #i'm jewish and proud of it. i don't like antisemitism. but there's a genocide on and i'd rather work against it than quibble over who i #work alongside. i dont fucking care. you can be as antisemitic as you like in private. stop fucking the movement up. #there are bigger things to worry about here. if i can put aside my own concerns as to who i'm talking to you can hold your tongue #and fight the good fight instead of handing weapons to the people who are trying to fucking flatten gaza.

[rollforjackass]

kinda hoping that they resolve things between aziraphale and crowley like. halfway through season 3 so the rest of it is just them being giddily, Insufferably newylwed

#not really. i want them to resolve it naturally and with the full amount of time & devotion it requires to resolve it well #i just think it would be extremely funny if 90% of the jesus christ wrangling american road trip was them not caring about it At All #'oh he's gone off turning nukes into salamanders? hm right sounds serious. too bad i'm busy sucking & fucking at a sonic's rn or i'd help' #'on the cross you say? terrible business. another crucifixion you say? shame. in florida you say? sounds like a them problem' #and no in this fantasy world of mine they do not adopt jesus he's like aziraphale's high uncle whom they have to drive to the family reunio #the ultimate and most immediate marriage test you could possibly hope for: you and your spouse in the car with jesus christ of nazareth #can't believe i typed any of that. it would be funny is what i'm saying #fuck ineffable husbands i want insufferable husbands #good omens spoilers #go2 spoilers #good omens #oxly hollers

[shamelesslymkp]

@mayakern OK so I have a PLAN to write a nice and helpful review of your skirts, but I honestly have no idea if I'll actually be able to follow through anytime soon or if it'll just languish in my head for the rest of time, so this is a PLACEHOLDER nice and helpful review that just says HER SKIRTS ARE V. NICE, IF PLUS SIZE AND ON FENCE HIGHLY RECOMMEND DO BUY

#this is in fact me tricking myself into writing a helpful review #by putting the stuff in the tags #these skirts are a+++ #i'd been looking at the sunflowers skirt longingly for months #and then it was on sale and i was everything is terrible i want cheerful sunflowers #and i got it #wore it #and immediately ran into the problem of wanting to wear it every day #(side note i now have purchased three additional skirts) #for the texture-sensitive people such as myself! important info: #material feels like bamboo cotton like you can get in sheets #so if you don't know what that feels like and if it's an ok texture you can go to a store that sells bed linens and find a sample #n.b. it's not exactly the same probably but it feels close enough for me #and i am . notoriously picky about textures #the skirts are full enough that even though the material is soft and light #it hangs heavily enough to not show off anything you're wearing underneath #and disguises that you've got stuff in your pockets #even if your pockets are FULL #(and these are BIG POCKETS) #the sizes overlap - I got the larger size of the ones i fit into #and i like the fit but did find that my pockets will start pulling them down a bit #which is less of a problem if both pockets are full #and more of a problem if it's just one pocket #so i have now ordered the size down as well #anyways yes highly recommend #yes expensive but also! not actually THAT expensive! #because this stuff is quality?? #like i buy shit from torrid which is somewhat cheaper #but also will start falling apart within six months if not sooner #and i can tell that when it arrives because of the stitching etc

[rubberbandballqueen]

i just think that as a chemistry major i shouldn't be forced to take biology classes that expect me to memorize the everything to pass. i need some kind of "biology for chemistry majors" where they emphasize the techniques a living thing has at its disposal to remain at homeostasis and then look at how all these parts come together to form a complex living organism undergoing constant holistic processes to remain at equilibrium. i don't need to know what a golgi apparatus is called i just need to know how it serves its function in the complex process of transforming A into B

#had to google golgi apparatus just now to know what it does (process lipids n protiens apparently) i haven't been in a bio class since 2016 #my classmates in o chem would usually conplain to me abt the bio classes forcing them to memorize a bunch of #species that fall under certain taxonomic classifications bc their specificities Would show up on the exam #n i'm just like. that is a horror show. why do i need to be able to id 36 types of mollusks. #i'm probably Also like this bc i haven't taken a bio class since 2016 unless you count high school physiology then 2018 #the worm speaks #my thoughts on academia are pretty much always 'this sucks please let me test into the very specific credentials i want' #bc academia tends to assume that the things i wanna research are the things i wanna teach but that is actually untrue #mostly bc my fave parts of chemistry are the very foundational things n what i like abt teaching it is that you have to balance #accuracy with generality so that new students don't get totally lost in the details of it all or spend too much time focused on a niche #my interest in discussing w/experts mostly extends out to 'okay tell me the new findings. ooo cool i'll incorporate that' #'good luck with your problem tho' no interest in helping out with specifics. only interested in being able to communicate knowledge #the stuff i'd have more interest in discussing and researching lie more in the arts. i do love discussing a good symbolism #probably bc i can also accept that there's never really one exact answer! like what if i do a stem research and then im just Wrong. #art and the human condition on the other hand!! let's go let us gather the Contexts and then Discuss!!!

[the-furies]

i have been procrastinating writing my stupid time loop fic for the past week because we wrote ourself into a corner by adding Cuno into the mix and HERE'S the problem with writing as a system. Y'know how you try to Channel The Energy™ of a character you're trying to write. We can't do that as a system we'll just pull that character up to front for realsies. Do you see my problem here? I don't want Cuno up front. He'll just call me slurs.

#pk;m Volition🟣 #writing liveblogging #not that I'd have a problem with it he is right i am a faggot #but like he wouldn't cooperate! HFHDJSDJFN #I'd be like Please Sir Can You Help Me Write You In This Fic he'd be like I roll 1d6 to throw a rock at your face . #I'd be like WHEN THE FUCK DID YOU LEARN DND LINGO #he'd be like I ROLL 1D6 TO THROW ANOTHER ROCK AT YOUR FACE! #DO YOU SEE THE PROBLEM? I FUCKED UP! AJSHSJDJDJDJDKD

[bat-the-misfit]

i just got a very angry ask of someone who thought i was posting about them to make them angry

darling the only people i complain about on my tumblr are my family bc they DON'T HAVE tumblrs and therefore WILL NOT SEE MY POSTS

#do you think i'm a 13 y.o girl on facebook posting about how angry she is about her friend without saying her name but it's obvious? #come on i'm not stupid #if the shoe fits that's your problem that means you know you said smth wrong to me #idgaf about you girl it's been years i don't talk to you screw what you're doing of your pathetic life #what would i gain by posting about you????? NOTHING. I'D ONLY LOSE MY TIME WITH SMTH STUPID. #why would i lose my time with that??? now when i post about my shitty family i get relieved and that's beneficial to me #wake up girl the world doesn't spin around you #not everyone is living thinking about you 24/7 #and i thought i was paranoid #anyway she's blocked 👍 #man it's been years since i was her friend idgaf about her #come on i thought someone sent me a mbti blog rec i was so hopeful like yaaaay sm1 saw my post and they'll help me #but no lol #tio morcego tá azedo

[ub-sessed]

When there are so many things wrong with you that can't do the things you need to do to get better

#or something #i don't know #my brain isn't working lately #depression: Must exercise every day or you're going to want to die! #vestibular disorder: Sorry man you're gonna have to deal with this problem first in order to be able to do that. #me: Look you guys I'm just trying not to kill myself here. Can I do both? I'd really like to be able to do both. #depression and vestibular disorder eyeing each other: Yeah no that way leads to burnout. We can give you two weeks of that tops. #anxiety: But if we don't do it all now we will die!! #adhd: This is way too many things to juggle. I'm out. #my knees and my back: We'd just like to put in a vote here for the exercise thing. But more low key than what depression wants. #my wallet and my bank account: OMG YOU GUYS GET YOUR FUCKING SHIT TOGETHER ALREADY #ADHD: yeah guys we need to buy yarn and needles for knitting #depression: Oh yeah we definitely need money for knitting! #anxiety: *whimpers* *crawls back into bed* #me: Guys? Guys? We need to go buy groceries. Can you help me figure out what we're going to wear? #depression ADHD and anxiety: Not my department. #(half an hour later) ADHD: Oh hey guys we forgot to eat!

[queen-mihai]

I'm just now realizing that I've started seeing, like, names I actually know in my interactions! So-and-so liked your post, this other person reblogged your post..

I never know what to do when things are going well. I'm in maintenance. People don't usually interact with me (professionally) unless there's a problem. And once the problem is fixed I get to see it working once and then I disappear. I don't know what "Good and reliably functional" looks like lmao. Not in person. Not long term. It kinda works that way with relationships too, for the most part. I mean I have long-running relationships, don't get me wrong. But in the professional world, I'm so used to being a ghost, that it's quite normal for people to see me 50 times and never have had the chance to learn my name. That makes most people I come across strangers. And that makes me a stranger to practically every person I come across.

The practical effect of this for me is that I NEVER know what to do after problems are fixed and it's time to just exist.

Like...I leave now, right? I'm at home, I did the dishes, folded the laundry, and changed the tires on the car. That's all I needed to do for today. I... I'm done now... but like, there's a lot of hours left in the day. What do I do now? Do I leave? I don't have anywhere to go... relaxing doesn't feel natural. So in real life I just end up working myself into exhaustion because my brain needs something to fix at all times cuz that's how I'm wired.

And online it's not much better. Years ago, I was flirting with someone and they said something quite provocative. I was like ".....I..... don't know where to go from here. I can't say I didn't expect that to work but like... I'm not sure what to do now" and they were like "keep flirting. You're doing good"

😂😂😂😂

I don't really think there's a point to this post, I guess. If you have a mechanic, repairer, or maintainer in your life, who's entire job it is to figure out problems: it's okay to give them permission to sit down and relax

#maybe the big problem is you need someone to cuddle with #I'd do my best to fix that #or like #the indent on this couch doesn't fit right without you sitting in it #can you come help me out #also I'm gonna turn on a movie #you can just keep the couch functional for me while the movie is going #should write a book called how to care for your maintainer

[seknots-izumimir]

whenever people talk about having love lives or partners i just sit there like 😐👍

#good for them ofc!!!!!!! no shade!!!!! live your lives i am happy for you!!!!!!! #but at the same time i have. no experience with any of that and it makes me. very confused #how do you get people to like you......... nobody's ever had a crush on me???? #and while i'd enjoy having a partner its like. idk. do i want a romantic partner or a qpr or something else??? #and like. im a lil poly??? i guess??? but like.......... that just. complicates things don't it #we aren't even discussing the mental illnesses here man like...... augh. #maybe being a shut-in with zero social life; a tendency to be flaky; and generally being socially inept doesn't help... #ah well! problems for future vani who will probably ALSO be a shut-in in college!

[the---hermit]

Weekly self care challenges

Back in July I did a 30 days of self care challenge, it was something I decided to do for two reasons. The first one it was to hold myself accountable and to actually do things for myslef, it helped with motivation, when I really didn't have much of that. Secondly it helped to see at the end of each day what I was doing for myself. It was a nice challenge, but I did it without much of a plan, and I basically just did more or less the same thing sfor a month. It was still good and effective, and certainly had an impact (especially with keeping me motivated as I said), but I felt like it was missing something.

I am yet again in a place in which I feel like I need to consciously take care of myself, but I would like to challenge myself a bit more in doing different things. I have browsed the internet and collected a long list of prompts and ideas. Since at the moment I am unable to plan clearly when I will have time to practice self care, between researching for my thesis, writing it and working, I decided that at the beginning of each week I will make a small post with a few self care prompts to complete during that week. I will cross them off as I complete them, and then in my daily posts I'll just have my small list of self care things I did on that day to keep myself accountable (which might contain self care things I do on a daily basis like reading first thing in the morning for example). This way I can try to challenge myself, but I am still free enough to plan when do certain things last minute in case my working plans change. I hope this makes some sort of sense. I have collected quite a few ideas, and I am really looking forward to this personal challenge. Feel free to join me in these small weekly self care challenges (and let me know if you do!!), and if you have any ideas or things you personally like to do for self care, let me know! The more ideas the better. I will be starting from the week from the 24th to the 28th of August and then I'll go on from there for a few weeks and see how that goes. I plan on doing this for at least a month so four weeks, but I might do a bit more depending on how well it works.

#i am really excited to start doing this because as you might have gathered from my last few posts #my mental state is everything but stable at the moment #so i hope that being a bit more mindful and actually doing something for myself might help a bit #it probably won't solve the problem but as long as it makes things a bit better it's fine by me #i also feel like doing it this way will help with motivation much more #as i said i'd loveto see more people doing this alongside with me either with the weekly ideas i'll be posting for myself or with your own #just take some time out of your week to take care of yourself #self care #self care challenge #weekly self care #self care prompts #self care ideas #personal challenge #mental health #studyblr #studyblr challenge #self care counts as productivity #mine #the---hermit

[skyteglad]

the latest aita is making me sad. the teeth one. because like... when i was a kid, i was told to have braces! and that i'd need an eventual surgery! and because i didn't want to, my parents didn't make me.

that surgery would've changed my life. i'm not fucking kidding. i'm pretty sure 75% of my physical disabilities stem from not getting that surgery. and by the time i was able to bring up trying to have corrective work again, i was two years from losing my insurance, and my parents procrastinated. now it seems like a pipe dream it'll ever happen.

i get being resentful of your parents forcing you to do things you don't want to do, but god damn, if mine had actually really pushed me into getting braces, my life would be so much different and so much better.

#riot.txt #personal #vent #sorry i'm just. really emotional and maybe a lil triggered #bc SO MUCH of my physical and mental health problems can be stemmed to my jaw #and my teeth. #bc i didn't get that surgery i can't swallow easily. i can't take medication i severely need. my back and neck are bent in ways i can't und #due to lack of breathing. i can't sit up straight bc i can't breathe and that's caused so much damage to me! #if they'd have pushed me into caring for my teeth and my body it would've saved me SO much heartache and pain. i'll have no way of knowing #how different life would be #but i know for a FACT i wouldn't have certain issues i have now... i'd be on mental health medication i wouldn't have chronic pain i'd be #able to function in society without feeling like a burden who'll never be able to get on social security #idk im jst... PLEASE iff you have the chance to have orthopedic work done - DO IT. #if your PARENTS are going to be footing the bill and have good insurance i PROMISE thats a fucking blessing #bc i can't work anymore and the surgery i need that might fix a lot of my life is in the tens of thousands without insurance that i cant bu #anyways sorry to ramble n trauma dump but its my blog and if ANYONE sees this and it helps them or convinces them to get work done while #they can then. idk. feels worth it to be vulnerable :'3 #EDIT: also like... if they'd forced me sure i'd be resentful #but ykw i am rn? even more resentful for the intense medical neglect that stemmed from 'well he doesn't want to so lets not make him' #most kids don't want to go to the doctor. maybe if they'd taken me regularily to a fucking doctor i'd have more answers for what's wrong wm #like... god i'd have hated braces then bc ofc i would i was a kid #but i hate even more now knowing just how fucking NEGLECTED i was as a kid bc they let me make my own choices by going the hands off approa #iunno. anyways. nah on that aita. you're allowed to be upset and resent him for it but GOD he is not an asshole for caring about you #'your body your choice' does not apply here at all. i'm so sorry to tell u this. fdkgfdhgkjdgd #EDIT 2: didn't even MENTION the fact i have dehibilitating chronic migraines and headache that i suspect are directly tied to my poor denta #health!! LIKE. AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK FOR THE ENTIRE DAY #SOMETIMES (OFTEN) MUTLIPLE TIMES A WEEK. #i only JST NOW got access to medicatio to help w it and i CAN'T. SWALLOW. THE MEDICATION THAT PREVENTS THE MIGRAINE FROM GETTING WORSE #I CAN ONLY SWALLOW THE DAILY MED... BC ITS _SO FUCKING TINY_. #aahghghfgdfhgdfjd -puts face in hands-

[trans-leek-cookie]

someone talking about the ways media and common tropes/depictions of things that are either explicitly or implicitly linked to marginalized people are demonized and presented badly is not a fucking opportunity for you to flex how you're doing it Differently And Better

#I'll rb the post but I domt want to add it on cause it feels. Not my place maybe #Anyway fun fact! You can think that all you fucking want! Close your God damn mouth about it and figure out if it actually adds to the #Conversation! Marginalized ppl don't have to hear about how you're hashtag Not Like The Others!!! TAKE IN THE INFORMATION AND CONSIDER IF #THE THINGS YOU DO TRULY DEFY STEREOTYPES OR ARE STILL IMPLICITLY INSPIRED BY THESE BIASES!!! AND DO IT QUIETLY OR WITH SOMEONE WHOS WILLING #TO LISTEN! NOT ON THE POST INFORMING YOU OF THE PROBLEMS EXISTENCE #Also I'd move this tag up but genuinely idk if I can do that atm. But I'm LITERALLY guilty of the same shit. I immediately jump to no true #Scotsman the subject because I want to defend it!!! Yes I recognize the pattern is wrong and yes I genuinely believe it isn't necessarily #Inherent! But I still have to confront the fact that it's so prominent and to many people inseparable from the subject #(That being disability and body horror). I will say: my immediate instinct was to disregard any body horror that is just like Real Shit Tha #Happens To People as body horror but that's not helpful! I can't just say well it's not body horror BECAUSE PEOPLE STILL CALL AND SEE IT AS #BODY HORROR!!! I HAVE TO STOP AND CONSIDER THE LARGER IMPLICATIONS. My PERSONAL OPINIONS do not matter and the pedantic discussion is #Something to be had with friends or used as it's own criticism of the genre not ON THE POST CALLING OUT A REAL ISSUE! Anyway just. #Both artists and consumers have to be critical of What we see as body horror/what others tell us is body horror/what we accept as body #Horror bc/what we create as body horror etc. We NEED to confront that and we can't just say I Wouldn't Do That! We need to understand that #It goes deeper than that!!! Also YOU DONT INHERENTLY KNOW WHATS POSSIBLE FOR A HUMAN TO EXPERIENCE #There's so many things that ppl can experience and Live With! There are obviously things that are fatal so u rarely hear abt them but human #Beings can survive a lot of things!!! And here's the thing: the rarer something is the shittier it feels to have it misrepresented!!! #At the very basic level: CHECK IF THE THING YOU WANT TO USE AS BODY HORROR IS A RECORDED PHENOMENON AT LEAST!!! FOR THE LOVE OF FUCK #DO THE BARE MINIMUM

[heavenknowsffs]

Ppl might not know this but i am damn tired of it... if you contact customer service like online (chat/message etc) DON'T FUCKING CLICK ON THE "no, i still need help" button.... ESPECIALLY IF YOUR PROBLEM IS ABOUT A TOTALLY UNRELATED THING.

#like only click if the person actually didn't help #because you're telling a corporation their employee did not help you when in fact THEY DID 99% of the time #also the other person in the other side is human. if you don't lkke the answer their giving you that's a you problem #we don't say 'you're not entitled to a refund' just because it's fun like i don't give a shit about your money #i'm not gonna keep it for myself. i could not care less #if i tell you you're not entitled it's bc you're not. if you were i'd give you the fucking refund #cuz it might be new to you but i don't want a random ass bitch screaming at my face bc they lost $40 #maybe if you knew how to read you'd see it's non refundable