today, i was driving my spouse and i across the city to meet up with my family for dinner. unintentionally, i went down to a major stroad that is finally seeing some revitalization. i’ve driven down it alone plenty of times — usually when i’m heading to Braum’s to get us some 10pm milkshakes— but never been down it with them in tow.
so, as we make the turn at the stop sign and it clicks my autopilot off, i pat their thigh and start sputtering out a “look look look look look!”
my spouse— who doesn’t care about city planning/urban design, but listens to my ramblings because they know it makes me happy— looks up from whatever TikTok they were watching to peer out the window.
“look!” i say again. “they put in some protected bike lanes! they’re painted and have the barriers along the edge so idiot drivers can’t cross over and hurt a cyclist. and look!”
i point to the way the bike lane snakes back and around a newly installed bus stop. “they’ve installed actual bus stops now! i mean, i wish there was a bus lane so it wouldn’t halt the flow of traffic and create the potential for assholes in a rush to whip around a bus and endanger lives, but it’s a start and that’s a lot around here, y’know?”
we continue the drive, and my spouse endures my genuine excitement as i spot a newly-etched biking path and more bus stops. and then, just as quickly as it started, it comes to an end. a brief flicker of hope that reconnects to the concrete jungle.
but for those few fleeting moments, there was a healthy show of progression in an otherwise stubborn, rigid environment. and it filled me with immense joy.
as for my spouse, we had a discussion about the hostile design of the bus stop benches that we’d like to see undone eventually, and then we returned to our normal drive routine. i, the helmsperson, and they, the tiktok player with the volume high enough for me to hear/process it.
and idk, it was a neat little moment. :)
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Okay, my brain refuses to think about anything other than Murderbot, so I looked at every use of the word "friend[s]" in TMBD and... created some pie charts. Normal human activities.
Some Thoughts™ I had while putting this together (under the cut):
In All Systems Red, Murderbot notes that the PresAux crew are all close friends (twice! and goes on to explain their internal relationships which I think is very cute). This is pretty much the only use of 'friends' in ASR, except for when Murderbot says that SecUnits can't be friends with each other.
It seems that this may be one of the first times Murderbot has ever really been around a group of friends before? Murderbot notes that this is not the norm for its contracts and admits that the fact that they are all friends and the way they interact with each other make it actually enjoy that contract (before!!!! the hostile attack, so it already enjoys this contract before they start seeing it as a person etc ghghhhh). [Inference: Friendship seems enjoyable.]
The first character that calls Murderbot its friend is ART in Artificial Condition. Murderbot immediately refutes this (and then goes on to call ART its friend to its clients for the rest of the book). [Inference: Maybe ART is Murderbot's friend. And maybe that is... agreeable]
Rogue Protocol has more than twice as many instances of the word 'friend' as any of the other novellas. Why? Miki. Friendship and its implications for non-humans are a central theme because Miki is friends with everyone. Murderbot initially scoffs at the notion that Miki and Miki's humans are friends. At the end of the book, after witnessing how desperately Don Abene tried to stop Miki from trying to save them, and her grief after its death, Murderbot has to admit that she had in fact been Miki's friend. [Inference: Humans can be friends with bots and can sincerely care about them]
In Exit Strategy, Murderbot tentatively uses the word "friends" for its humans for the first time (several times actually). It questions whether it can actually call them its friends or not and later realizes that it had been afraid what admitting that the humans are its friends would do to it. At the end of the book, Mensah tells Murderbot the PresAux crew are its friends, which is the first time a human has directly said that to it (at least on-page). [Inference: Humans can and want to be Murderbot's friends]
In Network Effect, Murderbot seems to be more habituated to the word 'friend', confidently calling ART and Ratthi its friends, like it is no longer just trying the concept on unsure if it fits. There are many instances in which other characters refer to MB as ART's friend or the other way around and Murderbot's humans refer to Murderbot as their friend several times. Generally, there seems to be less hesitancy, because yes, all of them are Murderbot's friends, why wouldn't they be. [Inference: SecUnits can have friends. This SecUnit has friends. They care about it a lot.]
Conclusion: The Murderbot Diaries tell the story of a construct that does not seem to consider the possibility of friendship for itself and is fine with that - until it accidentally starts caring a little too much and suddenly more and more people annex it as a friend (ew) to the point where it can no longer deny that this is happening and has to begrudgingly admit that yes, it has friends now and maybe that is actually not a bad thing.
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from this concept:
I now have a very cool, very soft, and entirely hand-made 2017 Louie plush !!!!!!
Very silly tail ⬇️
He has a completely functional pull-apart jacket zipper !!!
Also completely functional: the pockets 😼
And here is also a closeup on the little phone
He is made up almost entirely of fleece, all hand-sewn. His shirt and some of his eyes are felt (also the scar on his foot). He's stuffed with polyfill . He's weighed down with lentils 😭 His pattern is made custom by me :) I'm not sure exactly how long he took, but I'd guess some amount of months. Maybe 2, but maybe only a few weeks of collective actual work days
He does also have a dog toy type squeaker in him
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