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myun-saidthoughts · 7 months
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8TH House Synastry: The Dilemma
This is my own personal interpretation of how someone would feel moving on from an 8th house connection (I have 12th house placements & a Scorpio moon that squares my Neptune)
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It's so easy to say you've moved on from this person, sometimes they don't linger in your thoughts, sometimes they don't consume your mind, sometimes they don't even give you this high that you have felt from their gaze,
and then sometimes their presence becomes this unwarranted need, suddenly their eyes are the only thing that can make you feel okay, accepted and whole.
weeks, months even can go by and you tell yourself "i'm doing good, i haven't thought about them consistently for a few weeks" and then out of no where, you run into them,
you see their face, your stomach drops, your eyes fixate on their presence, and you suddenly feel the void within screaming their name.
in this instance; they don't make eye contact with you, they avoid conversation and withdraw their attention, and the part of you that says you've moved on disappears.
suddenly their lack of assurance shatters any value within, they aren't bringing that sense of peace or reassurance your soul craves and now all you can feel is this pit of pain in your stomach,
all you can feel is that you're not good enough, not worthy enough, and not valued enough,
all you can feel is that lack of wholeness you wish you could fix, and yet the one thing that would make everything feel better is them.
you're trying to move on, you know you have to let this part of you go, but saying good bye to them is saying goodbye to the one key that unlocks your ability to accept vulnerability, romance, and love.
you want nothing more than to share a connection with someone who your body deems as "safe", and their eyes are the only things that allow the parts of you that you wish you could be okay with, be accepted.
how do you say good bye to the one key that makes you feel the acceptance you can't feel on your own?
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(this is why 8th house synastry constantly goes through cycles and loops, the highs and lows their soul gives you is never ending, especially if you are trying to heal your fear within. sometimes it feels amazing but when it's not amazing, all you are confronted with are all the inner voids your soul can't escape from)
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These are my personal thoughts; I have a Scorpio Moon, 12th house placements with my Moon squaring Neptune and Venus sextiling Neptune, 8th house synastry hits me in my core; more so than the next considering I have a disorganized attachment style, but I wanted to write this to let other people know that you're not alone in healing from 8th house or Pluto connections. Saying good bye to them is like saying good bye to the one thing your soul craves the most, you're not alone
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scorpihoe1111 · 2 months
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Astrology Observations-Part 2🌙
Having both Taurus and Aries placements in a chart can indicate someone who enjoys pressuring/embarrassing people when underdeveloped. These people can be actual bullies towards others when they’re at their worst.
Gemini rising’s/Mercury in the 1H look younger than they actually are.
Scorpio rising women are sometimes shorter than average while Scorpio rising men are taller than average.
8H moon’s can have dreams about scenarios that end up happening IRL.
Capricorn Rising’s usually have a skinny/bony appearance.
Whatever sign and house Saturn is in your chart can tell you what other people’s karma is for messing with you. Ex: Taurus Saturn in 7H? Taurus is a Venusian sign so it rules over beauty/appearance as well as luxury and money and the 7H signifies relationships, partnerships and marriage etc. Their karma may be their physical appearance looking uglier, plus going broke as well as their relationships/love life going downhill.
People with Scorpio in the 6H may prone to UTI’s/yeast infections or very heavy and painful monthly periods.
Cancer Rising’s may attract a lot of jealousy because of how intelligent they are (Gemini 12H)
Aries Rising men are usually buff and naturally muscular in appearance.
Aquarius in the 11H can attract multiple friend groups from all walks of life way more easily than the average person.
Pisces Moon/Venus are a lot more skilled in manifesting the things they want than they think they are.
Venus/Libra in the 12H can signify a lot more people than you think having a crush on you/being attracted to you. Your secret admirers just keep it to themselves because they assume you already know and don’t wanna boost your ego.
Leo, Libra, Scorpio and Capricorn rising women consistently attract men who neg them as a way of trying to get them to notice them.
Sagittarius placements (esp mercury) are blunt and rude in their speech but they don’t mean any harm by it, they just say whatever they’re thinking.
Virgo placements on the other hand are also blunt, but they over analyze every encounter and conversation they have so they usually know what’s rude to say and what’s not. So if a Virgo’s saying shady things towards you, they mean it.
Libra Venus’ can not remain in a relationship if there isn’t constant flirting. It’s also important not to let yourself go if you’re in a relationship with them because they are visual asf.
12H sun’s rarely get acknowledgment for the good they do but get a lot of attention for the mistakes they make.
12H suns can also be kind of gullible and naive growing up.
Mercury in the 2H usually don’t like to talk about things that aren’t factual or don’t benefit them in some way.
Mars in the 12H can be prone to high blood pressure due to internalizing their anger most of the time.
Venus in the 1H are very attractive, even if not conventionally handsome/pretty there’s something very aesthetically pleasing about their facial features and their overall vibe.
Venus in 1H can also do no wrong in the eyes of the public. Basically pretty privilege.
Same goes for Pisces Risings ⬆️ they usually get away with a lot due to their innocent demeanor.
Your moon sign is usually a prominent sign in your mother’s chart.
Saturn in the 8H might not lose their virginity until later in life, or at least not as soon as their peers.
Your rising sign can tell you what everyone was feeling or what was going on during the time of your birth.
Leo women have this tendency of leaving or cheating on men who are good to them for guys who are terrible people. (Not all Leo women of course, but I’ve seen soooo many Leo girls do this)
Pisces men are very, very confusing. The type of person to be married for years with kids and still try to keep up with what you got going on in your life.
Cancer in the 12H usually have issues with women/mother in their life.
Aries Venus prefer the chase more than the actual relationship.
Scorpio/8H placements have an inherent fear of their spouse/loved ones dying.
Pisces mars are freakier in bed than most people think.
Moon sextile Neptune manifest through their dreams a lot.
Sun in the 5H is someone who doesn’t take life too seriously and prefers fun over responsibility a lot of the time.
Mars in Scorpio are more revengeful and unforgiving than any other Scorpio placement honestly. These people can get revenge and still not be happy.
Mars in Sagittarius usually have lots of flings and hookups throughout their life.
TW!: Some underdeveloped Virgo men have a weird tendency to actually want to harm women mentally and emotionally. They’re not the type to just break up with a partner and move on, they usually want to make the breakup as fucked up as possible so the thought of them remains in the persons mind forever. I’ve met over 6 Virgo men who’s admitted to this before and the girl didn’t even do anything wrong in the relationship, they just didn’t wanna be with her anymore but didn’t want her to forget them.
Capricorn women usually have very long, flowing luscious hair.
Part 3 coming soon 🌪️
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botanicalsword · 27 days
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House Stellium • Harmonising your energy
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Advices for those with prominent House Stellium
This is relevant for Natal Chart, Progression Chart, Solar Return Chart, and Lunar Return Chart.
1st House Stellium - maintain humility & an open mindset
be open to others' opinions and not be too arrogant
listen to your inner voice, trust your intuition and inner feelings - learn to listen to others' perspectives
gain different angles of thinking and experiences
2nd House Stellium - hard work and savings
avoiding get-rich-quick schemes, seeking luck, or engaging in illegal ways
through diligence and frugality, steadily accumulate wealth and achieve your goals
✧ 3rd House Stellium - talents and interests
leverage your expressive and communication abilities to excel in the field of culture and the arts
showcase your uniqueness in the arts and cultural domains
enhance your expressive and communication skills to engage with others and share your thoughts and creativity
✧ 4th House Stellium - explore unknown territories
explore the world outside and not stay too isolated at home.
actively participate in social activities - step out of your comfort zone
broaden your horizons, enrich your life experiences - interact with different groups of people
✧ 5th House Stellium - the importance of financial knowledge
study investment theories - can better manage and grow our financial assets
engage in moderate entertainment and relaxation outside of work - maintaining a balance
✧ 6th House Stellium - physical health
be attentive, and diligent but overworking
maintain a balance between work and life
Sustaining good physical health - enhance work efficiency and life quality
schedule work and rest time properly
✧ 7th House Stellium - choice of partner
be cautious in choosing partners, whether in relationships or business ventures
Good partnerships - shared success
unsuitable partners - unnecessary troubles and difficulties
✧ 8th House Stellium - unexpected circumstances
leave room for alternatives when dealing with matters - reduce anxiety and stress
have backup plans and maintain being calm / let go
9th House Stellium - knowledge and wisdom
read more books, explore the world
understand different cultures and perspectives, and expand our thinking and cognitive range
Reading - transport us into a colorful world, stimulating our imagination and creativity.
✧ 10th House Stellium - quality of life
excel in work or entrepreneurship while also giving yourselves some space for personal life
pursue professional success while paying attention to our quality of life
need time to rest, engage in leisure activities
spend time with family and friends
✧ 11th House Stellium - self-acceptance
strong interpersonal skills
avoid relying too much on others' approval
maintain authenticity and independence
not excessively conforming to others' expectations or seeking validation for satisfaction
believe in our value and capabilities
maintain confidence and self-esteem
✧ 12th House Stellium - kindness and empathy 
qualities of tolerance and inclusiveness
sympathize with others' experiences
avoid procrastination
take proactive actions and avoid delaying problem-solving or pursuing our goals
forgiveness towards others and yourselves - release inner tolerance and goodwill
Dear 12th House Stellium
12th House Stellium Part I (Extended)
12th House Dominance Part II (Extended)
Hidden strength of 12th House (Extended)
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hausofneptune · 4 months
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songs that give the same energy as these aspects/placements
[astro notes no. 008]
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hey y'all! i'm sure this has probably been done before, but i thought it'd be fun to do a post where i can talk about music and astrology bc i'm very much so a nerd when it comes to both of those topics :) (i'm dipping my toes into synastry/composite placements in this post, and i'm still learning about those subjects so any of these notes sound like surface-level baby shit, that's why, i apologize in advance lmao)
also, if it don't apply let it fly, we all have different charts and so therefore aspects and placements will manifest differently for all of us.
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 ༊*·˚ ˗ venus in the 12H | scorpio / cancer venus: unknown / nth — hozier
you called me angel for the first time my heart leapt from me you smile now, i can see its pieces still stuck in your teeth and what's left of it, i listen to it tick every tedious beat going unknown as any angel to me do you know, i could break beneath the weight of the goodness, love, i still carry for you? that i'd walk so far just to take the injury of finally knowing you?
i feel like it's worth mentioning that hozier has venus in aquarius in his 12H, which makes so much sense when you listen to his music. these placements are, i feel, indicative of loving extremely hard, even to your own detriment. they tend to crave deep, nurturing, spiritual connections in love. and although they might have the capacity to understand people on a deeper level, rarely is that level of understanding reciprocated to them in love (especially the venus 12th housers), which can result in this feeling of being "unknown". y'all's suffering usually results in amazing art though, which can be an upside depending on how you look at it lmao
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༊*·˚ ˗ moon in the 8H | moon square / opposite pluto or saturn: good days — SZA
said i'm not tryna be a nuisance, it's just urgent tryna make sense of loose change got me a war in my mind gotta let go of weight, can't keep what's holding me choose to watch while the world break up and fall on me all the while, i'll await my armored fate with a smile still wanna try, still believe in good days
as an 8H moon native i literally cannot listen to this song without crying lmfao. i feel like there’s so much inner emotional turmoil that people with these placements experience, and these experiences can definitely harden somebody into the type of person who’s emotionally avoidant and seeks to escape through their work or self-destructive habits. or, they become someone who, despite of what they’ve been through, utilize their understanding of the “darker” side of life to help others, and at least attempt to seek out things that bring them joy recognize that you don't have to view life through the lens of the fucked up shit you've been through.
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༊*·˚ ˗ venus in the 9H / taurus ruling over the 9H: bliss abroad — masego ft. sheléa
i'm a boss, i know you like that spend it all, and make it all back see the sea view right from the cockpit just a preview to one of god's gifts i love the way we have no limitations, every night a celebration you take me there you exceed my expectation, beyond imagination
this is such a cute placement to have, both in natal and synastry. in the natal chart, it can indicate being someone who finds pleasure in traveling and learning about cultures that are vastly different than yours, and even finding spiritual fulfillment through doing so. it also shows being someone who enjoys traveling and exploring uncharted territory with their partner (or finding love in a different country), as well as feeling the most fulfilled in a relationship with someone who you feel "enlightens" you and brings newfound wisdom to your day to day life. these natives could also end up attaining wealth through these endeavors as well.
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༊*·˚ ˗ sun trine or sextile black moon lilith | mars conjunct uranus | venus aspecting mars / pluto (synastry): stroke — banks
it’s always in my head everything is always about you tell me you’re a book that i misread you just wanna tell me what to do you want me, you want me want me to stroke your ego beg for it, die for it i got the touch placebo
i like to refer to aspects and placements like these as the "you not finna tell me what the fuck to do" indicators. with the natal aspects, these are typically the type of people who like to push against the boundaries just to see how far they can go, and enjoy ruffling other peoples' feathers for fun. they're also visionaries, and tend to prioritize their individuality above all else and enjoy encouraging others to feel empowered as well. on the other hand, the synastry aspects can indicate a strong level of physical attraction and sexual compatibility, when they're afflicted it can very much so lead to power struggles, with mars/pluto being the one attempting to assert some form of dominance or control over venus. how that ends up playing out depends on the context of the individual natal charts of those involved, personally i'd rather eat a denim jacket than let somebody (especially a man) tell me what to do, but i digress.
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༊*·˚ ˗ moon / mercury in 3H (synastry) | sun in pisces / taurus (composite): are you even real? — james blake
all i can do is trust in her late nights, i can see the lust in her acid rain is a first for her skies open up, share a cup with her cracking seals, guilty no appeal trip down the hill, strawberry fields are you even real? she said, "tell me how you feel" are you even real?
3H synastry is so sweet and so underrated, probably because it's not a house that people typically look at for an indication of "romance", but i feel like communication is an integral part of relationships that (clearly) nobody really takes into account. moon and mercury in the 3H can be indicative of giving/receiving words of affirmation with someone, as well as an ease in not only expressing your emotions to someone but having a very strong intellectual connection to them. it could also be indicative of having a strong bond with their siblings or immediate family as well. i also mentioned sun in pisces and taurus in the composite chart because the production of this song is so ethereal, and the lyrics are very domestic in a sense? i feel like it's representative of the spiritual connection and compassion that pisces brings, alongside the pleasure and security found in building a home with the person you love.
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༊*·˚ ˗ pisces moon / mercury: count me out — kendrick lamar
i care too much, wanna share too much in my head too much, i shut down too i ain't there too much, i'm a complex soul they layered me up, then broke me down and moralities dust, i lack in trust
pisces moons are truly god's strongest soldiers lmfao. i spoke on this in a previous post and i'll reiterate it again because it's so real, but pisces is the only water sign without "armor", and therefore the water sign that tends to get hurt the most. and i'm speaking in terms of the archetype and not necessarily every person with prominent pisces placements when i say this (pls do not come up under this post talking about a pisces that hurt your feelings, we do not care), but pisces are very sensitive and kind-hearted by nature, and with the moon in pisces that can very easily manifest as becoming "captain save a hoe" and trying to help and fix everyone around you, even to your own detriment. in regard to having mercury in pisces, i feel like the upside is having a very romanticized way of speech and a general "poetic" ideological approach to life, and the downside is getting lost in your thoughts, as well as being misrepresented or not clearly understood in communication/connection to others, and therefore "shutting down" and opting not to speak at all.
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༊*·˚ ˗ sun / venus trine or sextile neptune (natal or synastry): two weeks — fka twigs
i'll put you first, just close your eyes and dream about it higher than a motherfucker, dreaming of you as my lover i'll quench your thirst, just chase the high and stop your doubting flying like a streamer, thinking of new ways to do each other
i'm not gonna hold you, i feel like this is the perfect example of a song fully encapsulating what an aspect feels like. i feel like these aspects can make someone very ethereal, they may have a tendency to come off as impersonal or "out of reach" to those around them, and are typically very intuitive and spiritually-inclined. in synastry, this could make someone view their partner through a dream-like lens. aside from neptune's malefic characteristics (which typically show up more with conjunctions or challenging aspects) it's energy paired with the sun and venus can make a relationship feel like a fairy-tale in a sense. they may have a telepathic connection with one another, visit each other or communicate through the astral realm, and their intimacy can feel like a very spiritual experience for both parties.
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as always, if you have any of the aspects or placements mentioned let me know how it manifests in your own life! and if you have any songs that you feel like are representative of any placements feel free to drop them below, i'm always looking for new music to listen to!
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cyberstrangerballoon · 3 months
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8TH SYNASTRY is thinking every now and then about the person who made you feel like you were on fire in the past, and not being able to do anything because you don't talk to each other anymore. They tell you to move on, but what about when no one you've ever met is like them? Once you've tasted the divine, it's hard to settle for less.
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8hsaturn · 1 year
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-- my astrology observations pt.1
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Aquarius risings with Neptune on the ascendant can be extremely popular for their appearance amongst their peers, they’re also pretty influential and can be copied very often if Uranus is conjunct the ASC. They tend to have an immaculate fashion sense especially if paired with Taurus placements.
What separates Libra from Taurus is their way of expressing Venusian energy: Taurus, fixed earth, expresses it through a beautiful voice and coveted seduction, they’re down to earth and aware that they’re naturally attractive, acting chill and not being a try-hard is their trick. libra, cardinal air, on the other hand, isn’t scared to shake things up and keep people on their toes, they’d flirt to see how well their charm works and would change “tactics” to hook people in. they’re cardinal and so know how to spark someone’s interest but their air nature can make them pull away before they feel trapped. Taurus alternatively might prefer to simply sit because they know they attract people without moving a finger. Both can be very charming but also difficult to pin down especially as they grow older and more in tune with their Venusian nature.
As someone who always does readings for my friends, I noticed people with similar majors tend to have similar placements! law/political science majors tend to have a lot of Libra or just Libra on the angles and even 7th-house placements. IT/coding majors tend to have a lot of Scorpio/Virgo/Aquarius. actually, you can even guess why they chose the major from their chart.
My Capricorn friend chose software engineering because of the job prospects and because he enjoys working hard on a program and seeing it come to fruition which is very Saturnian.
8th house synastry is a complex matter but I believe the issue lies in people looking for that one overlay that guarantees a perfect relationship: there’s no such a thing. each overlay will have different results depending on both people’s charts and how they use or abuse their own placements. 5h synastry with your 5h stellium crush can seem incredible until you realize their Saturnian nature makes them see 5h energy as inherently immature and repress that nature, and have their ego drive them to see all fun they don’t initiate as cringey. 7h synastry can seem like a promise for marriage until you realize your person hates how they lose themselves in their relationships and distance away from you. In short, you can’t promise anything even with a synastry chart in front of you if you don’t know the trauma and experiences of both people. Makes sense, because astrology is truly just a tool to understand better, it doesn’t control or define anything.
8th house moon synastry can make the moon person very attuned to the other person’s feelings and want to know how their deepest emotions. Bad intentions can make the moon person use their knowledge to manipulate the house native though. it can be an aspect for understanding but if the house person has a Scorpio or Saturnian moon, or a natal 12h/4h/8h moon, or moon aspecting Saturn they might see this desire as annoying and could put them off, especially if they’re emotionally unavailable/stunted: they see the connection as making them too vulnerable and will escape it.
Sun conjunct Saturn… might make the sun person feel as if the Saturn person is repressing them, dulling their light, and just dampening their mood. In what exactly? that depends on the sun sign and house where the conjunction happens. e.g: if the sun conjuncts Saturn in Gemini in the 9h: sun person might feel that Saturn isn’t as enthusiastic or excited about the things that they’re passionate about or doesn’t understand their jokes or interests, shuts down convos or doesn’t let them talk. They might feel mocked for their beliefs or that the Saturn person doesn't take their philosophies and deeper concerns seriously.
I disagree with the notion that certain placements indicate intelligence or otherwise lack of. Intelligence is so complex and difficult to define, and I don’t mean eq vs iq or mathematical vs linguistic Intelligence, I mean that people’s experiences can push them to hone certain intellect over the other: having a libra stellium doesn’t mean all you got is street smarts, but that’s what you found yourself focusing on developing due to the cards you were dealt in life. I believe your chart will indicate which skills and intelligence you had to use, or need to use, be it something you have to learn from scratch or an instinctive talent, rather than natural skills.
that’s all, thank you for reading this far <3
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marsfa1ry · 1 year
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astrology observation 𓇼
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capricorn mercury i love their dry sense of humor and dark sarcasm. my scorpio mercury be giggling like a baby when they tell a joke while everyone else blank stare the native, concerned about their dark humor. also their choice of words is so calculated and careful if developed, no sugarcoating tho, with well aspected could also be poetic. it’s so cute. ahhh my favs
lilith 3h knows how and when to push the button and let that intelligent communicator self take over lol literally can talk themselves out of anything and could wrap someone around their fingers by their words. school and/or siblings might be a hit or miss for them. it’s either good or bad, nothing in between.
mars 1h idk if it’s just me or not moving body when mentally in a better place for a whole day can cause natives a great emotion turmoil like (esp in virgo degree i guess💀) that’s why coping mechanism and serotonin booster includes deep cleaning room, groceries … oh maybe it’s just me ok
not to mention that healthy routine HELPS natives a lot i mean i guess it helps every human being but i feel like it emphasizes when it comes to mars 1h let me know if you resonates or not^^
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earth moons with uranus prominent aspects/placements yes earth moons do need a stable routine to help them maintain their mind but with uranus influence esp if making aspects to mc, i think will most likely hate to have a 9-5 work, plus with prominence 9h/sagittarius, spontaneous career life is their go-to. their earth moons still want the stability tho so it could be that they have a stable morning and after work routine etc.
leo moon something about their hair that never fail to catch my attention. it’s like tho they did nothing their hair be thriving.
also something about head bumps because there was this one time i dreamed of a leo moon head bumping me just for me to wake up to an astrology observation (i can’t remember which one😿feel free to inform me so i can put credits here) says head bumping is a lion thing so leo placements tend to do that helpp- but tbh it’s so cute ><
earth moons w fire moons i rarely see astro community talk about this two together like it’s SO underrated. earth moon say the most straightforward, simplest compliments that get fire moon all flustered up and stuff like 😳 and firey do this most random, unprovoked things just to get reaction out of earthy. purely just vibing together. fire moon get earth moon out of their comfort zone, earth moon makes fire moon more grounded. seen them in many long terms relationships.
ex: EDIT : i just found out that brian groomed megan fox and actually so problematic so i deleted this example 🤢
ross lynch (aries moon) - jaz sinclair (capricorn moon)
aishwarya rai (capricorn moon) - abhishek bachchan (aries moon)
ryan gosling (capricorn moon) - eva mendes (leo moon)
moon conjucnt mercury synastry : moon be like ‘bruh you speak my mind’ while mercury ‘you read my emotions and know what to do with them without me talking it out so’ love this
moon conjunct chiron chiron making hard aspect to luminaries (emphasize on moon bcs istg…the pain towards deepest part of ourselves um) can manifest such a big impact in native’s life :,) and which part will be effected depends on houses where it sit in. however, as much as how diverse the conjunction can play out🤭 the same thing that wounded the natives could be the same thing that heal the natives. the key is to mastered the cruel (💀for real like who have this aspect would understand what i mean) chiron. as much as it makes you a severely wounded soldier in inner world’s field ffs, breaking the pattern of chiron can manifests a really great result.
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moon prominent aspect in mother’s chart can be presented in your s/o’s chart or someone you like. for better or worse. 🧍‍♀️
mercury in sagittarius degree (9°,21°) philosiphize their words unintentionally and left people who had a conversation with them thinking about their words a lots esp when they give advice, they brought a whole new perspective to the person.
scorpio/8h prominent the struggle is real when someone they close with or trust don’t also hate their enemies. it’s a sign to retreat for them😠 ride or die. all or nothing.
lilith prominent/dominant men try so hard to hide their feelings and reactions when lilith prominent/dominant women come around. might even bully/pick on them at an extreme end. horrible at it finest when undeveloped ugh
taurus lilith square ascendant attract a lot of taurus mars and i have love-hate relationship with most of them
pisces rising really do get away with things. wittiness and chameleon energy of mutable + slyness of water = slay 💅
aries in big 6 literally always there in charts of ppl who heavily watch or fond of anime, manga
capricorn/cancer sun pair with scorpio/taurus sun no matter what others perceived them individually, they seems like a traditional couple to me lol when they’re together it gives ‘of course they’re together’ vibe. capricorn-scorpio and cancer-taurus more often than vice versa
pluto 3h i found myself thinking about what these natives say a looooot like even if it’s the most silliest stuff they said, it still echoes in my mind like ‘i think yellow is a really bizarre color’ and my mind goes 😮🤯😦😵‍💫🙀 wtff
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; hihi, first i didn’t expect my previous astro notes to blow up this much so i want to say that i appreciated all the interactions and support <33 thank you so much and i hope whoever come across this astro ranting HEHE a really nice day/night and much fun reading this ⭐️
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444shayyy · 5 days
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am I wrong to say I lowkey am enjoying 8h synastry more over 12h rn even though this man has a whole stelluim in my 8h
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iicedmatchalatte · 11 months
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Hi! Have you ever been the planet person in 8h synastry?, it seems that 8h person is very effected but isn't the planet person too..especially personal planet like Mars?
Can we have a post from mars' perspective of 8h synastry?
Thanks
Hi!!!
I’ve personally never been in connections where I’ve been the planet person in 8h synastry. Though I have noticed that it’s always the 8h person who is enthralled and obsessed and the planet person does have the same feelings but it’s never as intense as the 8h person. The planet observes the 8h person as being attractive and enticing but I feel like it’s in the back of their mind.
Mars person: “Who is that?? Wow they’re really attractive…..I wonder what I’m going to eat later tonight…”
8h person: “Holy shit this is the sexiest person I’ve ever seen. I must be intimate with this person, I want our souls to become one. I have to have them. I can’t stop thinking about them….. what is happening???”
That’s at least how I view this dynamic lol😂
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midhevn · 8 months
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Okay so this is going to be really long because I am surrounded by so many people with their luminaries in my 8h, and that means i should have a pretty good understanding of it by now (right?) lol so buckle in…We're digging into 8h moon synastry.
The 8th house represents feelings and resources shared or gained through others, so it can be a very projective house, especially when the moon is involved as the moon reflects. With the 2nd house you are your own individual. You have your own needs, you accumulate your own personal wealth and resources, and you have morals and values that pertain to your own personal experiences and views on life. With its opposing house being the 8th, now you have to consider what other people's needs, resources, and values are on top of your own. There's mutuality in this house which is why I don't believe in the who feels what more bs. Both people play a part in the relationship and are as equally as involved.
Moon person’s emotions heavily impact the house person; they’re incredibly reactive to the moon person’s energy; like a knee jolt. If the moon person is affected by something, the house person is as well, and vice versa. The house person’s response to the moon person’s feelings is what will impact the moon person. Both people pull vulnerability out of each other. Usually its the moon person first, and then the house person reciprocates. The moon person senses that the house person has depth and dimensions to them, or that there's more to them than what they express on the surface which makes it comfortable for them to express their more emotional and vulnerable sides. Moon person can draw a lot of deep repressed emotions out of the house person as well. The moon is a luminary, it illuminates.
The best thing this connection can do when someone's moon is in the other's 8h is to strengthen their emotional bond and communication. If the moon person is doing all the emotional labor in this connection, they can feel closed off by the house person which makes them retract back into themselves. If the house person is highly guarded or lacks standard self awareness of what their insecurities, fears, what holds them back are, they can feel "exposed" or "naked" when the moon person is around them because the moon person can naturally sense the house person’s vulnerabilities.
The 8th house is very complex and depending on who you speak to, its themes may vary. I consider this house to be a very private house, especially if the natal 8th ruler goes into its own house, the 4th, or the 12th. It's the things about ourselves we don't really want other people seeing, or that we feel ashamed, or embarrassed of. We simply choose to shove away the things that are brought out in the 8h, until we simply can't anymore, which usually happens when someone significant enters our lives. It is the house person's choice to keep hiding parts of themselves keeping up a façade, to abandon a connection all together because of how difficult it is, or to persist anyways and allow someone in despite their fears, denials, insecurities, and doubts they have about themselves. This connection can make the 8th house person question their morality big time.
The sign of the 8h can represent the energy that one experiences a lot, but chooses to keep hidden from others, or feels like that part of themselves is repressed. The 8th house naturally quincunxes the 1st which is the self. There's a barrier between the energy of both signs involved causing its flow to be somewhat offbeat or irregular. When someone activates our 8h and we're not ready for something that is deep and real, the house person will do everything to keep what they perceive to be their "mess" under the wraps, but the thing is they really can't. The moon person is standing in the middle of it all. This is where the 8th greets the 1st causing the house person to become aware of these self limitations that were established in order to transform them (if they choose to). The planet person naturally expresses the energy of that sign that you deeply struggle with expressing and is here to show you that its not all that bad.
Now, the outcome of the relationship depends on multiple factors: the sign of the house and moon, rulerships, and what aspects a person’s moon has, and what aspects the moon is making to to the house person's planets, bc if their moon is conjunct uranus or saturn for example, it’s gonna manifest completely different from someone whos moon is conjunct jupiter or venus, or even from someone who has little to no moon aspects. Finding out what house is moon ruled in the moon person’s chart will greatly clarify the energy that person is bringing into your 8h. Example, my best friend has a 2h moon conjunct uranus. Their 7h is moon ruled. They’re bringing 2h and 7h topics into my 8th. They are very generous and supportive towards me, (and somewhat possessive which often happens with 8h moon synastry), and I don't feel deserving of it at times, but this is the point! It's going to bring out insecurities, vulnerabilities, and fears in order to get you to change your perspective or transform yourself in some way.
The first time I was aware of someone’s moon being in my 8th was someone I felt completely tethered to, but that’s what it does. It makes both people feel almost like there’s an obligation to be in each other's lives, and to stick it through the ugly and bad IF they're mature enough and willing to put in effort (at the time of the relationship, I was definitely not ready). Everyone whos had their moon in my 8th, I've wanted to protect, and I feel like everyone who's moon has been in my 8h have been very protective of me.
The 8th house person will immediately feel attraction to the moon person, and later down that line, the attraction will either intensify over time, or fester depending on how well the person handles their own 8th house energy. This relationship is not going to be easy whatsoever. Being around the moon person can easily be very triggering to the house person which can make them run for the hills if they become overwhelmed by the moon person's probing energy (i'm guilty of this), and the moon person can become discontent towards the house person for how they handle the themes of the 8h.
Both the moon and house person can be at risk of becoming overly obsessive, codependent, controlling, or just plain outright unhealthy about the dynamic. There's a huge fear of losing each other, but the tighter they hold onto each other, the more difficult the relationship becomes. You want to be in each other's presence 24/7 because of how seen you both feel in the connection and how good it feels, until you don't. You entered the relationship as 2 separate individuals, and you must try to keep it that way, respect each other's autonomy, and learn to have common ground.
A reoccurring thing I've observed with this configuration that has rang true to me is that the moon person tries really hard to be seen by the house person. Both people do, but the house person is more subtle about it. They want acknowledgement, or want to get a reaction/response out of the other. Both people may or may not be aware of this and could intentionally/unintentionally ignore the other's gestures, which creates a sense of despondency, especially on the moon person's end. The moon needs reciprocation from the house person in order to feel secure.
This has the potential to pull out the most displeasing human qualities in one another, depending on multiple factors: where both people are on their own personal journey, how they navigate their emotional body, how well they handle the intensity of the connection, the aspects involved, and whether or not the 8h person natally has planets in this house. There can be manipulations, power-plays, coercion, and other boundary crossing dynamics that can easily wound and scorch both individuals. The moon is possessive of the house person’s energy, whereas the house person is possessive of the literal person. This relationship can go from being all consuming lovers where you can’t imagine living without the other, to completely loathing each other in a drop of a hat in worst case scenarios.
Let me know if any of this rang true to you!
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youremyheaven · 2 months
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8h Synastry Vibes
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Like fire to water, they burn your flesh but you drench their darkness. You feel enmeshed with light, ignited, alive and they become one with your darkness. You feel your souls recognise each other, this is an eternal bond. They ignite you, you extinguish them. It's maddening but it's profound. Annihilate any sense of separation because you're one and the same.
The Sufis call it "fanaa" or annihilation. One must annihilate the ego to merge with God who is love. Similarly, you have to rid yourself of "you" to lose yourself to love.
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myun-saidthoughts · 4 months
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🥀 Astrology Observations 🥀
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🦋 Water house synastry increases or creates co-dependent behaviors
🦋 When dealing with 12th house synastry and unrequited love/dismissive behavior from one person (as the planet person or the person who has more Pisces/12H/Neptune influence) often times, they may struggle with over emphasizing "synchronicities."
Example: Their name randomly pops up on your FYP/Twitter or what not and even though they haven't spoken to you in weeks or months even, falling into a dilemma where you tell yourself this is a "sign" to text them or that they are thinking of you may occur.
Example: If you find yourself constantly checking their social media, you might start interpreting their story posts as covert expressions of their feelings for you. In turn, you might even resort to dropping subtle hints on your own social media, hoping they'll notice and reciprocate the attention.
Example: You may accept the fact that this person no longer thinks of you but they could post one (1) vague story, comment, picture, tweet and if that said post could have *any* relation to you, then a part of you (or all of you) may believe that it's confirmation that they like you again or that they are thinking of you again, regardless of outside or external factors that have happened.
Falling into a delusional hole is likely and unless there are consistent clear and prominent signs or words that they are not thinking of you or that they are interested in someone else, a part of you will fixate and wonder if what they are posting is for you, about you or to you.
🦋 Virgo Moon criticize's themself harder than they criticize others
🦋 Sagittarius Sun + Taurus rising creates a very optimistic, grounding, and stable individual regardless of trauma or hurt. (Needless to say everyone has their breaking point)
🦋 Capricorn Moon men with a water rising + have polarized emotional feelings. They become extremely uncomfortable with feelings yet emotions run high and they could have outburts
🦋 Capricorn Moon individuals have a very harsh relationship with their mother, either she was cold, dismissive, strict or uncommunicative. A part of their soul felt un-nurtured or cared for in a way that they needed.
🦋 Moon square Neptune in a birth chart indicates a mother who struggled(s) with addiction, reality, or with mental health. The tighter the orb the more severe or prominent the mother's behavior was towards the child.
🦋 People with natal 4th/8th/12th or have prominent Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces placements that have harsh aspects towards Neptune/Pluto/Chiron/Lilith may prefer intense water house synastry
🦋 Sagittarius, Virgo + Aquarius in a birth chart can indicate a highly intellectual and intelligent soul. They may have a gift of photographic memory.
🦋 Heavy Libra/Leo/5H placements all give off the same aesthetic in my opinion, very feminine, they attract more than they chase
🦋 Mars oppose/conjunct (sometimes square) Moon + Venus synastry creates intense and obvious attraction between one another, you may experience a heightened desire for intimacy with them, possibly leading to an increase in your usual level of sexual expression; especially if you are objectively very attracted to them.
🦋 Mars conjunct/oppose ascendant synastry can create jealousy or dislike towards the ascendant person if both parties are the same sex. (Especially if there has been one awkward encounter where Mars's confidence was affected because of Mars's own personal core wounds)
🦋 Leo Moon/Venus need their partner to show them off. Their partner has to openly and loudly claim them, not in an annoying or suffocating way but in a way where they feel instantly validated or wanted; to the point where everyone naturally notices
🦋 Scorpio/Pisces + Neptune aspecting the MC/ASC) rising's have similar facial features
I've noticed that Scorpio + Neptune aspecting the MC/ASC can creates that emo aesthetic (also heavy Pisces individuals as well can fall into that aesthetic too)
🦋 Jupiter in the 8H indicates your family (or others around you, people/partners) has or have had wealth, whether that be from your/their parents, grandparents, and so forth.
🦋 Malefic planets like Pluto's or benefic planets like Jupiter placed in the 2H/8H house showcases dealing with an extreme theme when it comes to money; in some point of life
Pluto in the 2H/8H showcases extremities of having money then losing it all, becoming obsessed with money, or receiving high sums of money and becoming careless with it; power trips could occur where you can't be given your money because of higher authorities or officials (2H) or because of family issues with tax documents and trusts (8H) etc. Truly the themes here that can manifest are endless and as always aspects/full natal charts paint the better picture.
🦋 11H Moon individual's give so much to their friendships, it's as if no matter how many times they get burned by someone, their soul still asks and searches for a the kind of friend they are.
(Bonus if they have 12H placements too then the search for authentic, considerate and kind souls feel like a never ending battle that they keep losing too and no matter how many times they feel burned they still keep searching)
🦋 Moon conjunct Pluto in a composite chart creates the same intensity as 8th House/Pluto synastry; the relationship can't be light.
🦋 5H synastry increases the chances of partying with one another. You may see them out often or make plans that involve the night life/parties. Childlike fun behaviors can also occur and with one another energies are lifted and there is no negativity.
🦋 With past life connections: when you are with them, 1 hour feels like 10 minutes; before you know it 6 hours pass and you don't even realize it.
🦋 Heavy Aries placements (especially Sun or rising + chart ruler) tend to prioritize the gym and their body. Working out comes so natural to them.
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scorpihoe1111 · 3 months
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✨Astrology Observations✨
🔥Mars in Sagittarius individuals are more stubborn with their beliefs than earth/fixed mars.
🌍Speaking of which, those with mars/mercury in Taurus refuse to change their mind about an opinion they have. Even if they’ve been proven wrong, or know themselves that they’re wrong; they will still stand firm to the public about what they said.
🌍Virgo/Pisces men are usually Bisexual, bi-curious or just most likely to be completely in the closet.
💧Cancer women can be very big liars and I’m not sure why anyone hasn’t called that out yet. They’re more likely to lie about bigger things, in a way that benefits/manipulates the person/situation to their benefit rather than white lies tho.
💧Scorpio women on the other hand tend to lie unprovoked about small things, like what they ate that day.
🌪️Aquarius’ talk A LOT, but usually only about random little things. If they seem quiet around you it’s because they don’t feel comfortable yapping about non-sense with you
🌪️Libra’s are more 2-faced than Gemini. Especially the men.
🌪️Speaking of Libra men, they’re very feminine and sassy with other women. Usually the type to actually be jealous of women (for whatever reason) and try to bring her down in a subtle, backhanded; passive way. Especially in regards to how the woman appears. Kind of like how girls do to one another.
🔥Sagittarius suns can never stay genuinely mad even if they’ve started the fight. They’re the type of people to punch someone in the face and say “Let’s go get ice cream” to them 5 minutes later.
🔥Both Aries men and women find it difficult to be truly committed in relationships. More of the type to prefer FWB or one night stands rather than a genuine relationship.
🌪️Gemini moons are a lot more knowledgeable than people give them credit for. Their minds know an answer to question you have on every different subject. They’re both book and street smart imo too, they always know what someone’s true intentions are and can play along accordingly to get what they want or turn the tables.
🌍Capricorn men tend to have a very dry, harsh; dark type of humor that others would consider disturbing or offensive, especially in their youth.
🌍Capricorn’s can be just as judgmental as Virgo, maybe even more honestly since Virgo’s will give you some grace but Capricorns will straight up avoid you and not wanna be seen with you if they feel you’re below them.
🌏Capricorn moon men almost always have mommy/daddy issues that they tend to take out on women. Think back to your last toxic/narcissistic relationship or situationship; he was a Cap moon wasn’t he?
💧Pisces women can be very vulnerable around the wrong kind of people. They have a tough exterior and push away those that genuinely care about them but open right up to toxic individuals lol. Regardless of what kind of red flags the person has, Pisces women will always feel comfortable in their presence (even if they shouldn’t).
💧Cancer venus’ are the people who quite literally wanna baby their partners. Unfortunately this also includes not holding their partners accountable.
🌪️Aquarius venus’ love language is personal space.
🌪️Gemini mars tend to fight with their words more than their hands, and honestly? Their words hurt worse than any beating.
Part 2 coming soon 🌚
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botanicalsword · 2 months
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Venus ✧ how you pursue love and beauty ♡⁀➷
Where Venus is located, that house is the area where we easily find satisfaction and happiness, a field where the energy of love and beauty manifests.
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♡ Venus in the 1st House
This brings a beautiful appearance and a gentle personality to the Houser - They are skilled at dressing themselves and have good taste and temperament. They generally make a good first impression. Even if their genetics are not strong, they have great fashion and makeup skills.
♡ Venus in the 2nd House
Houser with this placement have a pursuit of a good life, and their way of earning money is related to art or luxury goods. They are willing to spend money to improve their quality of life as long as they are not severely afflicted by Saturn. Usually, they can easily earn money, and their quality of life is quite high. However, if they are heavily afflicted by Saturn, they may easily become materialistic or even take loans to consume luxury items.
♡ Venus in the 3rd House
People with this placement are interested in art or emotional intelligence. Generally, their communication style is pleasant and gives people a refreshing feeling. They have a great sense of aesthetics and tend to be specialist in the field of beauty. It is very comfortable talking with them without much pressure.
♡ Venus in the 4th House
This position indicates a strong concern for the home environment. They have high requirements for comfortable living and enjoy spending money on decoration and arranging their living environment. In childhood, they often come from families with love or artistic heritage tendencies.
♡ Venus in the 5th House
People with this placement have a strong sense of love and know how to indulge in romance and pleasure. They seek to experience and appreciate the beautiful things in life, such as art and music. They often have a good relationship with children as well. The 5th house represents children and Venus, a planet associated with femininity.
♡ Venus in the 6th House
In this position, the work atmosphere is usually good, or the work is related to art and beauty. Additionally, this is the house of health. Venus placed here can easily lead to problems due to unhealthy or indulgent habits. Venus is not a planet of discipline but rather seeks beauty, so it is natural to indulge in things like drinking milk tea occasionally - attention should be paid regarding healthcare.
♡ Venus in the 7th House
This position is quite favorable. The native understands interpersonal relationships well and has high emotional intelligence. They are particularly good at making themselves comfortable through one-on-one relationships, whether it is finding a partner or a business collaborator who can make their life better. However, they should be cautious not to develop a mindset of pleasing or appeasing others too much, nor should they become overly dependent or immersed in relationships.
♡ Venus in the 8th House
This position is beneficial for financial investments. They are adept at utilizing collective resources and have a keen sense. They often have good luck in inheritance and are interested in mysterious matters. They tend to have a deeper understanding of things.
♡ Venus in the 9th House
This is a sign of having exotic love affairs. People with Venus in 9th House are easily attracted to people from different cultural backgrounds and are likely to encounter romance and adventure during foreign or long-distance travels. They also enjoy different cultures and artistic topics. They are experts in discussing popular brands from abroad.
♡ Venus in the 10th House
They are highly concerned about their public image. They channel the energy of love and beauty into their careers and spread love and beauty to the public. They tend to work in industries, such as wedding photography, beauty salons, cosmetic procedures, makeup artistry, and image consulting, all of which are fields dedicated to spreading beauty.
♡ Venus in the 11th House
This benefits forming collaborations with like-minded people. People with Venus in the 11th house are often popular in groups, and they are skilled at finding common ground and creating a harmonious atmosphere. They tend to have many friends and acquaintances.
♡ Venus in the 12th House
This is a hidden placement, it often indicates the hidden traits of Venus. On one hand, people with this placement tend to be reserved in matters of the heart, which may lead to unrequited love or similar experiences. This can be used for understanding, but not for definitive judgments. Additionally, people with this placement have a good sense of art and often possess a unique charm.
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hausofneptune · 7 days
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synastry / composite chart notes [2] ⋆.*:・ ೄྀ࿐ ˊˎ-
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i swear every time i get on here i gotta apologize for how long these posts end up being. saturn is conjunct my natal mercury rn and i feel like fucking jimmy neutron. idk how y'all be doing them little bullet point posts bc i always end up writing a goddamn thesis.
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─ ruler of your 7H in their 8H in synastry can indicate a partnership that is defined by a merging of resources and is deeply transformative in nature
⋆.*:・☽ this is a connection that can impact both natives in extremely profound ways, especially on a psychological (and sexual) level. this may be a relationship that is private or potentially kept secret from others, the pair may be very protective of what they have together and of one another, specifically the 8H person. finances will be a significant factor as well. these two may excel as business partners or gain monetarily through their connection, or they may lose money and potentially encounter some form of debt, depending on the full context of the synastry chart.
⋆.*:・☽ the planet that has rulership over the 7H will ultimately determine how this energy manifests. for example, if the sun has rulership over the 7H, the 7H person may approach partnerships in a way that is courageous and self-assured in nature. the confidence that the 7H person exudes will have an intense impact on the 8H person's psyche, for better or for worse. the 7H person may be the one to pull the 8H person out of their shell and offer comfort and stability both in terms of romance and material gain.
⋆.*:・☽ the 8H person will also have a significant impact on the 7H person's identity and how they navigate partnerships. ultimately, this is a pair that can benefit not only in terms of resources, but spiritually as well, as these two tend to understand each other on a deeply intimate and vulnerable level.
─ sun sextile juno in synastry can indicate a very productive and supportive bond between two partners
⋆.*:・☽ with this pairing, the very way that the sun person carries themselves is precisely what the juno person values and seeks out of a partner. juno could admire the way that the sun expresses their ideas and creativity, and even look to them for guidance in terms of how they navigate their own individuality. the sun appreciates juno’s adoration for them, and will usually go out of their way to encourage juno’s own personal self-expression.
⋆.*:・☽ this aspect can offer a sense of balance and mutual understanding between two partners. these two may share common interests in terms of what they want out of life and how to attain it, usually with the sun being more proactive in building the ideal life for the pair, while juno is there to offer support and maintain a sense of stability within the relationship.
─ their venus conjunct mars in your 7H in synastry can manifest as an extremely magnetic and amorous connection
⋆.*:・☽ this is a pairing that tends to be immediately drawn to each other upon meeting and find one another irresistible. these two can be a very attractive couple, both energetically and physically. the venus conj. mars native ignites an extremely intense sensual energy within this relationship, while the 7H person is more likely to be the one providing a solid building ground to fortify the relationship.
⋆.*:・☽ while there is potential for this connection to evolve into a long-term, steady relationship, the venus conj. mars native’s dedication to the 7H person could be fleeting. venus conj. mars natives require a level of excitability from their relationships, and they may struggle if they feel their passion is not being reciprocated by the 7H person. it may not be something they’re forthright about depending on the sign the conjunction is in, but the venus conj. mars native will typically crave attention and validation from the 7H person, and may grow resentful or unhappy with the relationship if that need is not being fulfilled.
─ your venus in their 5H in synastry can manifest as a fruitful, playful, lighthearted energy in a connection
⋆.*:・☽ these two may share common artistic interests, and can even excel when working together creatively. the two have an appreciation for one another’s talents and can motivate each other to excel in their fields, resulting in them being viewed as a "power couple" to those around them. this pair tends to be very romantic and flirty in nature, and depending on the full context of the synastry chart, they can definitely be one of those couples that have amazing chemistry and constantly feel the same butterflies they felt upon initially meeting one another.
⋆.*:・☽ venus here tends to be more of the "giver" in this exchange. they may be extremely devoted to the 5H and willing to look past whatever flaws they may have, for better or for worse. venus could also feel jealous at times, as they enjoy being doted on by the 5H person and struggle when they give that attention to anyone else, but these feelings are typically half-hearted and don't last for long.
⋆.*:・☽ on the other hand, the 5H person usually values venus' appreciation for them, and reciprocates by cherishing venus and the ways in which they motivate them. although, these two have to ensure that they're on the same page in terms of commitment, as the 5H person may view their connection as more of a "fling", while venus seeks something far more substantial. ultimately, this tends to be a beneficial connection for both parties in terms of the inspiration they derive from one another, so long as the two can maintain balance and not overindulge in the pleasure produced by this bond.
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─ mars opposite pluto in synastry can indicate an intense and potentially volatile connection between two people
⋆.*:・☽ if this is one of the stronger aspects in a synastry chart, then this most likely going to be a connection where the two are constantly triggering one another, whether it be consciously or subconsciously. these two can be extremely headstrong, and could constantly be competing for the dominant role within the relationship. power dynamics can be significant role here, as both partners tend to want to act out if they feel controlled by the other in any way shape or form.
⋆.*:・☽ despite this, there tends to be a magnetism that pulls them together and keeps them together, for better or for worse. mars here tends to be enamored by the profound intensity that pluto provides, while pluto is attracted to the proactive, assertive nature of mars. although, over time the appreciation for one another's qualities can quickly devolve into feeling threatened by their characteristics. this is an aspect that can influence a "fight or fuck" dynamic within the relationship, and while this may be a dynamic that works for the two initially, it's not something that's substantial enough to maintain balance in the long run.
⋆.*:・☽ while this aspect can be tumultuous, it's not impossible for the pair to work through their differences and evolve to a point where they can work together instead of against each other. these two usually have to work towards finding more productive ways to express their pent up frustration that isn't just make up sex. it may benefit the two to assess how the energies of their mars and pluto play out in their own natal charts, work through those energies individually, and then approach their relationship from a more communicative and self-aware standpoint.
[ while i'm not implying that this aspect or any astrological aspect will definitively indicate abuse, i refuse to be disingenuous and act as if there isn't a pattern between afflicted mars/pluto aspects in synastry and abusive behavior. that being said, if somebody is getting they head knocked between the washer and dryer, there ain't shit to work out. that is a situation that is bigger than astrology, and i would implore them to seek support and find a way out of that relationship ]
─ ascendant square uranus in synastry can manifest as a relationship that is spontaneous in nature and potentially imbalanced
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, these two may bump heads frequently in terms of their individuality and how they express themselves. typically, sparks fly when these two meet and there's a level of excitability they initially have in their connection. but this pair may eventually struggle to show up in this relationship without feeling like they're "subduing" parts of themselves. their independence may be of great importance to both of them, especially uranus. they tend to feel like they cannot fully express themselves in their partnership, or feel imposed upon when one or the other does so.
⋆.*:・☽ this can be an unconventional relationship generally speaking, but also in terms of how they both show up as partners. these two may need more space apart from one another than the average couple to be able to function happily in their connection. this can also manifest as the ascendant being more "traditional" in the way that they approach their relationships, and in turn feeling as if they cannot rely on uranus. ultimately, both parties may need to compromise in order to feel fulfilled and sustain a long-term connection.
⋆.*:・☽ although, there are still benefits to this connection whether the two are able to recognize it or not, as this aspect forces them to evolve and look beyond their own personal perspectives in order to learn and gain knowledge from their partner, especially in terms of innovation and social awareness. ultimately, this pair can grow to recognize the importance of their own personal self-expression and come to value what freedom really means to them.
─ ruler of their 12H in your 1H in synastry can indicate a deeply karmic, spiritual connection that profoundly impacts the natives
⋆.*:・☽ in this connection, the 1H person is typically drawn to the "mystic" nature of the 12H person. the 1H person may look to the 12H person as a source of wisdom and seek guidance from them. the 12H person, whether consciously or subconsciously, influences the way that the 1H person views themselves and the way that they navigate through life. the 12H person might not even be someone who is normally characterized as mysterious or secretive, but for the 1H person, they may be able to pick up on the subconscious nature of the 12H person and feel inclined to explore the underlying motives behind their behavior and thought process.
⋆.*:・☽ this can also manifest in the opposite way, where the 12H person is able to read the 1H person like the back of their hand. this can make for a bond that is extremely healing in nature, as these two may feel like they understand one another on a level that nobody else can, and can therefore offer much needed comfort and support, especially for the 12H person. on the flip side, this can also indicate a connection that can influence manipulative or underhanded behavior. because they can connect with one another on such a deep level, it could lead them to weaponizing their weaknesses against each other.
⋆.*:・☽ ultimately, the planet that has rulership here will offer more context into how this energy plays out. for example, if saturn is the planetary ruler, the 12H person may push the 1H person to do better and be better, which in of itself isn't inherently negative, but the 1H person may struggle with feeling as though that the standards that the 12H person is setting are impossible to reach, which can be detrimental to their self worth. in the context of this placement, the 12H person may need to reel it in at times and ensure that they can offer foresight and guidance without making the 1H person feel like they aren't good enough.
─ moon square ceres in synastry can indicate differing attachment styles and emotional conflict in a relationship
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, one or both partners may struggle with feeling as though their emotional needs are not being met. typically, whatever potential wounding the moon has in regards to their upbringing (the mother/maternal connection specifically) will more than likely be triggered by the way that ceres goes about displaying affection. for example, if the moon grew up not receiving much nourishment and are used to more "practical" ways of being shown love, it may feel overbearing if ceres is someone who shows love through hugs and cuddling, or by connecting on a deeper, more emotional level.
⋆.*:・☽ as a result, ceres may feel like they're efforts are going unappreciated, and ultimately feel as though the moon person doesn't love them, when in reality, these two do legitimately love each other, they just go about expressing love and the way they need to receive it in different ways. this is definitely an aspect that can be worked through, and can influence a very powerful bond between the two. these natives can learn a lot about themselves through their emotional connection to one another, and it can be very rewarding when the two do eventually get to a point where they feel emotionally taken care of and nurtured by one another.
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─ ruler of the 4H conjunct mercury in the composite chart can manifest as themes surrounding home and security being prevalent within a relationship
⋆.*:・☽ these two usually have shared interests and goals regarding how they navigate their domestic lives. matters of the home can be of great importance to them, and they may have had similar experiences in their childhoods that allows them to easily connect with one another. they could also come from similar cultures, share the same cultural traditions, or be the same ethnicity.
⋆.*:・☽ they can grow close with each other's families, and could see building a family and/or home together as a priority. or, this could manifest as not necessarily being "close" with each other's families or wanting a family/home of their own, but rather these connections and ideals having a significant (positive or negative) impact on the way that they communicate and navigate their relationship as a whole.
⋆.*:・☽ as mentioned, the planet that has rulership here will offer more context into how this energy plays out. for example, if the sun holds rulership over the 4H, this would essentially heighten the significance of the domestic life in this relationship. their upbringings could play a vital role in how well they communicate with one another. if they share similar values then it should be more of a "productive" communication, whereas if they were taught opposing ideals growing up, they may encounter obstacles when trying to connect with one another. this can also indicate a pairing that is more on the private side when it comes to their relationship.
─ uranus sextile pluto in the composite chart can indicate a bond where individuality and growth is encouraged
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, there can be an intensity that defines the nature of this relationship. this tends to be a very creative, artistically gifted pair, and they may even view one another as their "muse" in a sense. this can also be an ever-changing connection, not necessarily in an unstable way, but more so in an evolutionary type of way. this is a pair that is constantly rediscovering themselves, and instead of that posing a threat to the relationship, it actually improves and strengthens the bond that they share
⋆.*:・☽ these two want to see each other grow, and they could even enjoy the process of having to "rediscover" their partner over and over again. there's usually a lack of judgement in this relationship, and they may even feel inclined to bare the darker sides of themselves to one another. this is a relationship where the unconventional is very much welcomed, and they may share ideals that are unorthodox or deemed "radical" by social standards. this pair could also view sex as something that is extremely liberating, and will usually go out of their way to explore more unconventional, kinkier sides to intimacy, especially in terms of domination or power dynamics.
─ jupiter conjunct the IC in the composite chart can manifest as shared philosophies playing a significant role in how they navigate their private lives
⋆.*:・☽ this tends to be a very abundant connection and indicates good fortune is to be found in the couple's domestic lives. these two tend to be a source of inspiration for one another, and they may have common interests in terms of how they approach matters of the family and home. they make seek to build a foundation together that is generous, warm, and hospitable. they could be a couple that others lean on for support, or look to for guidance and understanding.
⋆.*:・☽ this pair may also be very spiritual. they recognize how important and sacred the connection they share is, and as a result can feel inclined to keep it private as a means of protecting it. jupiter being conjunct the IC in the composite chart also means that jupiter is opposite the midheaven, which indicates that while the two share an optimistic approach to their personal life, they may struggle navigating how to implement that same positivity in their public life at times. this couple may need to work towards maintaining balance between these two facets of their lives, but ultimately, the benefic energy of jupiter will typically work in their favor, alongside their shared ideals and outlook on the world.
─ ruler of the 7H trine black moon lilith in the composite chart can manifest as the independent nature of both partners playing a major role in how they navigate their partnership
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, there's typically a shared understanding and need for both partners to express their individuality without feeling impeded upon. with the trine here, they both tend to respect one another's power, and may even be attracted to the parts of each other that they may have been convinced to suppress or be ashamed of. this is a pair that doesn't attempt to control or stifle one another's deeper, more primitive urges, in fact, they tend to actively encourage it, and may even fulfill these desires as a means to further connect with and heal one another.
⋆.*:・☽ as mentioned, the planet that has rulership here will provide greater context into how this energy plays out. for example, if mars has rulership over the 7H, it may further amplify BML's urges and primal desires. this couple can come off as very domineering to others, and tend to be very evidently infatuated with each other. they can act as motivating forces and push one another to achieve their goals, and encourage them to unapologetically be themselves in the process of doing so.
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─ moon conjunct pluto in the composite chart can manifest as a passionate connection that deeply impacts the two on a emotional and psychological level
⋆.*:・☽ this aspect indicates that this relationship is anything but light hearted, once this pair sinks their teeth into one another it's extremely hard to pull them apart. this relationship brings up intense emotions for both parties, and they may feel as though they've never been understood on the level at which they are in this connection. while this can push the couple to grow and evolve spiritually, it may also bring about feelings of possessiveness and manipulative behavior in the worst case scenario.
⋆.*:・☽ they can struggle with feeling as though they can't live without one another, while at the same time struggling with how intense the connection is and wanting to run away from it. these two typically have to work towards maintaining some form of balance, both in themselves and in the way that they approach and navigate this relationship, as it can begin to feel all-consuming at times. it's best for this pair to instill boundaries and give each other their space when needed.
─ neptune square north node in the composite chart can indicate a relationship that is very spiritual, yet elusive in nature
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, the couple may struggle to see this relationship for what it actually is, versus what they want it to be. this is a pair that is essentially meant to come together and remove the rose-colored lenses from one another's eyes, and experience love and connection from a real, raw, spiritual place. these two usually find each other when one or both of them are experiencing some form of an "awakening", and need clarity and stability in their lives.
⋆.*:・☽ this is a couple that typically has to work towards engaging in clear-cut communication with one another. this is a relationship that not only inspires them to navigate love from a grounded, truthful place, but it teaches them to also navigate their day to day lives with the exact same type of energy. when evolved, this aspect can influence a very creative, harmonious, and compassionate nature between two lovers.
─ mercury opposite saturn in the composite chart can manifest as a mental disconnect, and an inability to see eye to eye with one another
⋆.*:・☽ with this aspect, it may be a common occurrence for this couple to bump heads with one another in terms of their ideals, especially regarding stability and structure. they may struggle with feeling like they can't fully express themselves within this connection without either partner growing frustrated or being restrictive.
⋆.*:・☽ this is a couple that typically has to learn how to compromise with one another. they have to work towards being able to hear one another out without feeling as though they need to have the utmost authority in the relationship. ultimately, they have a lot that they can learn from each other, and with the evolved energy of this aspect, they can work together to build a dynamic within their communication style that equally supports and benefits both of them.
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cyberstrangerballoon · 6 months
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Regarding the 8th house synastry, who do you think feels the placements the most? The person of the planet or the person of the house? I don't think I've ever seen anyone explain whether the planet person also feels everything intensely like the house person. What y'all think?
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