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flutt3rb4tz · 4 months
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i hate when people who dont have marfans make/headcanon characters with marfans as some quirky trait. i really do, i've seen it a lot in my life as someone who was diagnosed at 3 with the condition and it honestly grinds my gears they always do the most stereotype-y traits, or ignore how much of a struggle it is to live with marfans, or how marfans can fuck up your body further by just how much shit it causes.
to put it into perspective, i got tagged like a fucking animal at school because they didnt want to take too much care into explaining that i needed extra care if something happened, or that people should be gentle with me because i could die on school grounds. ive sat cooped up in my home most of my life, i've only been on a fair ride once because getting on a roller coaster could harm me as well. i need help walking or getting around because my body cant always handle it, i have other problems due to marfans that have hurt me greatly for my entire life.
i'm slowly going blind from marfans and theres nothing a doctor can do that will stick. i risk aortic dissection simply by being hit in the chest, i used to be afraid of going to bed because if anything hit my chest too hard i could literally fucking die then and there, because my heart would fucking collapse on itself and theres a decent chance that i wouldnt make it to the emergency room.
it's not just some trait, it is a disability. and it's not quirky!! it was never fucking quirky!!! getting discriminated against for being disabled by the age of 4 wasnt fun! it wasnt silly! it was traumatizing!!!!
if you're going to make a character or headcanon a character with marfans take into account how much of a stereotype you're making them. there are short people with marfans, fat people with marfans (like myself), poc with marfans, there are people who cannot walk or function because of marfans, people with marfans arent scary or shy or weak all the time. we're human people! we vary!
talk to actual people with marfans. look up posts about the condition from people with the condition. dont confuse marfans with EDS. just have common sense!! its exhausting trying to look at content from people like me and either seeing headcanons, EDS posts, or people telling everyone with marfans that they have no hope (this ones common on reddit, but it applies).
people with marfans dont immediately die either, btw. i saw a post recently that was just "haha this character better have had amazing doctors or his marfans would kill him in 2 seconds!!!" and that's not how it works. of course it can be fatal thats with all things, but dont act like its an immediate death sentence, please. i'm sure a lot of us have heard it enough already
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mimalovesyou · 3 months
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Sweetheart, I need a recharge…🪫💔
寶貝~幫我充電好嗎🥺
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jaetyun · 1 year
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Most likely to with some trainees please?
Boys planet MLT’s; a thread!
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featuring: gyuvin matthew s.hanbin keita junhyeon zhang hao seunghwan honghai gunwook jay
fluff!
a/n: i use mlt kind of loosely, making every question less of a rant of most - least but more one option - another option
being pampered vs pampering
being pampered
honghai, gyuvin
i mean it’s kinda obvious
honghai is a total baby
he just wants to be little spoon after a long day of work and can u blame him :(
gyuvin LIVES off praise, he needs to hear from you hes doing it right even if it’s just simple things like cooking or doing chores
both of them spend nights giggling kicking their feet twirling their hair biting their finger over sweet texts you send
just clingy
so incredibly clingy
the more i write the more i realize gyuvin is so bf coded ☹️☹️
gunwook, matthew
now you might be wondering
how is gunwook not with the former??
to that i say he’s totally pamper you to as a congrats
you aced an exam? he’s out buying you ice cream and best BELIEVE he’s gonna be feeding you
if you can’t sleep he’ll tuck you in and sing you a lullaby <33
matthew has no preference
you just happen to end up spoiling him more often
you just can’t resist his aegyo ☹️❤️
he uses this to his advantage
“babbbbyyyyy can you pleassseee make ramen for me” while batting his eyelashes
jay, junhyeon
it’s very unpredictable w them
theres no set dynamic w either of them
you want him to buy something for you? sure!
he’s feeling little spoon in the moment? you’re big spoon 🫵
neither of them care very much
if i had to pick one way or the other jay is more likely to spoil you and junhyeon is more likely to be spoiled
potentially unpopular opinion..
junhyeon seems like he’d be very calm and chill in a relationship
he uses all his energy and humor with his friends youre his little safe area to recharge his social battery
jay is just always a very down to earth guy
he doesn’t really care either way 90% of the time
keita, zhang hao
they just have very motherlike tendencies
they’ll naturally buy things for you cause “you’ll run out soon anyways”
keita writes songs for you all the time
if morning texts were a love language that’s what zhang hao has
he hasn’t missed a single day of saying good morning and good night to you even if there was no other conversation that day
keita likes paying
i cant explain it but anytime you’re out you might as well not bring your wallet cause he’s gonna fist fight you before you’ll ever buy anything around him
the ONLY time you’ve paid was on your first date where you split the bill
seunghwan, hanbin
seunghwan moreso than hanbin
his face would curl in disgust at your attempt of big spooning
“what do you think you’re doing?? come over here” he wraps arms around your waist, leaving you as mush in his hold
hanbin is also very motherly
would literally make a lunchbox for you everyday if he could
both of them are just so good at indulging and pampering like i’m at a loss for words
i cant even explain on paper it just makes sense okay
i’m right my word is final!!!
pampering
easily jealous vs secure
easily jealous
gyuvin, gunwook
not necessarily possessive??
but they’re the type to death glare ANY guy that comes your way
gyuvin is probably a lot more pouty and gunwook
like gyuvin would be so clingy if he felt threatened in your relationship
hes just a lil insecure and needs reassurance but it’s okay cause we love him for it 💔
gunwook says he likes pda cause he likes physical touch
hes lying
it’s so he can basically let everyone around the two of you know you’re off limits
he feels like you’re too good to be true
he needs to fight for you yk
if you tell either of them to knock it off they def will though
junhyeon, keita
they’re more willing to let things go
like if it’s just someone checking you out they’re chilling
it’s when flirting starts that drives them mad
i think keita would be more vocal about it
he’d do something immediately
“you’re just so stunning-“ “arent i lucky?”
junhyeon would watch on the sidelines then scold you afterwards
once you give a friendly reminder they’re perfect for you theyre back to chilling
not nearly as much guard dog energy as the other two
but don’t mistake that as chill
keita has def said some things in the moment he wish he could take back
honghai, hanbin
the pouty boys
it takes a while for them to crack, it wjen it happens they’ll be SO WHINY
hanbin is so petty
“how does this look on me?” “why don’t you ask ___?”
hai isn’t passive aggressive he just gives you the silent treatment
most of the time some rando isn’t gonna hurt their pride
it’s your friends thatre a lil too close to you…
which results in full blown fights
it gets resolved though cause communication is sexy 🙏
zhang hao, jay
it’s not that they don’t get jealous
they just handle it pretty well
instead of being like gunwook who’s practically holding you or like keita who makes sly remarks theyll be silent in the moment
afterwards they rationalize it in their head and their fine
it’s not that there’s no communication
they just realize you’re loyal and they don’t have to worry 💯💯
i think hao is more likely to say something
not a whiny or petty comment but just a genuine “do you realize ___’s intentions with you?”
very down to earth men
they don’t wanna fight they just wanna head empty love partner
and we love that tbh
seunghwan, matthew
SO SELF ASSURED
like they would argue with their friends over their lack of jealousy
“why would i be worried about ___? they’re not the one kissing y/n are they?”
they genuinely cannot fathom a possibility where you cheat
which is reasonable cause let’s be real youd FUMBLEEE if you lost one of those two 😵‍💫
seunghwan might have doubts here and there but overall he can realize how important he is to you and that solves most issues
secure
going out vs staying in for dates
going out
junhyeon, seunghwan
it’s like an adventure to them
so many more possibilities on things to do
junhyeons fave dates are when you go out late at night and see what’s open
will you end up spending 4 hours at a theatre hopping around random movies at random times? will you find a cool dinner spot? will you scavenge through an abandoned building? it’s always an adventure!
seunghwan likes going to romantic places
takes you on picnics, going to a carnival, renting a karoke bar, bowling
he would totally have a bucket list of cliches he’d want to fulfill
he also just likes showing you off to the world <33
the best part is when you guys go home together both exhausted and rambling about everything you experienced throughout the day
taking showers after spending a hot day in the sun in the summer 😵‍💫 or a warm bath if it’s a cold winter day ❤️
*WALL*
jay, gyuvin
definitely prefer staying at home
does not mind going out though!
gyuvin has made it his personal duty to find the best cafe in town with you
you both have your own ranking you bicker over all the time
secretly his long term goal is learning your perfect pastry and trying to recreate it
he’s not telling you though itd ruin the sincerity of the coffee shop nights
jay wouldn’t mind every once in a while
it would get draining after like the second time a week though
has a soft spot for places like an aquarium or an arcade
places that might come off as childish
those jay could go to all day everyday
still doesn’t beat a nice cuddle session while watching a movie by a LONG SHOT for either of them
hanbin, keita
homebodys at heart
would do it for you though
especially if they have super outgoing s/o’s
very easy to convince
will react in very opposite ways though
if hanbin ends up agreeing on a date night out hes making 100000 steps and plans
he knows exactly where you’re going and when you’re going down to the minutes
he wants it to be perfect for you!
keita though
he lets you pick
“you wanted to go out! so where should we go??”
very easygoing though
down for literally anything you’d wanna do
except like rock climbing sky diving or axe throwing
that’s a hard no
matthew, gunwook
i honestly have nothing to say here
it just makes sense okay
im tired
bare with me
zhang hao. honghai
okay homebody by ph-1
their ideal date is making a lil dinner for you then playing a board game or video games
simple men
they just like being with their safe person in their safe space
zhang hao will show you all his fave tv shows and want your reactions
hai will spent HOURS just scrolling on tiktok with you next to him
it’s like a game to see how synchronized your fyps are
if either of them have a pet they’d love playing with their pets w you
if you have a pet theyd have play dates
doesn’t matter the species
you guys will make it work
like who says it wouldn’t be iconic to have a dog and bird friendship??
staying at home
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thewizardprincessau · 2 months
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(gripping my head) iiiiii'm going to make a post soon detailing the different kinds of magic users that exist in the world, but terms are the bane of my existence and i need help 💔
long story short im just borrowing dnd logic with the distinctions between sorcerers/wizards/warlocks, just with an added twist. wizards are kinda similar to the tremere in vtm in which they use blood and other parts of their body to cast spells because they are not innately capable of using magic (i prommy it will make more sense when i explain the magic system 😭). but i realized i also wanted to add an Additional subclass of magic user who is someone who relies on items infused with magic to cast spells (like a spellcasting focus?) that they have to recharge. NOW my problem is that I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO CALL THESE PEOPLE SHFHDHFDHAHSSJSBD
i was thinking artificer but that doesnt really feel right!!?? i mean they dont INVENT things so its just lexically incorrect. but i cant really find or think of a term that suits the description well... sos 😭
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allfortzu · 2 months
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im having fluffy datzu thoughts and someone needs to hold me back.... they are so dear to me...
anyways, how are you doing!
from your nr.1 fan
I am always having fluffy datzu thoughts,, if I didn't consciously hold myself back all my fics would be abt datzu 💔 but you shouldn't hold back bc then who else will share these datzu thoughts for me to read 🥹
I'm doing good!! I'm actually working on a slowburn-ish fic now (tho keep your expectations low,,.), but I've also rlly been wanting to write a short fic of just datzu coming home exhausted from work and recharging by cuddling or smth mindlessly sweet like that :((
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swampstew · 3 months
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RAVENN HAIII :3 I’ve been good but have a lotttt of work so my body is always dead by the end of the day 💔 how are you though? I hope ppl aren’t trying to steal your works again 🌝
Luuuuuuu I’m so happy to see you in my inbox and notifications again! I def feel that way overburdened with work feeling - have you been doing some self cares to recharge? Personally I love soaking in a hot bath until I shrivel and prune.
I’ve been meh - work sucks ass, selfish readers suck ass, I’m just trying to find my peace and joy in sharing work online again and just trying to not lose my mind.
Oh man you probably missed the YouTube/Wattpad book reviews bullshit that was happening but on god you haven’t missed much! I haven’t seen people stealing my shit but if you see anything pls let me know, I always have some residual venomous anger to spit out😚
I meeeeeesed you but understand the need to just log off this app for extended periods.
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mvnces · 4 months
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it's kurjak's turn to be the weighted blanket. he's lazy, and jet lagged, and decker being in bed means it's easy to just... lurch onto the mattress and basically just drape himself on decker like someone poked a hole and him and he's deflating. tucks his face into decker's neck, too. he needs to recharge. 💔
The sound of Kurjak arriving did cause a light stir, of course. It was only the animals that raised their heads, though, and then decided against moving from the bed and merely waited. Decker, on the other hand, was familiar enough —comfortable enough— that the noise did not rouse him fully. He would know that it would take all of two minutes for his partner to have made his way to their bedroom that it would not matter if he got up. It would be the same as every other time that Kurjak got home while he was sleeping. Which was to climb into bed alongside Decker and their fur children and settle in for the night.
A soft, sleepy noise rumbled through his chest at the sensation of a familiar warm body sprawling on top of him.
Decker shifted under the additional weight. Not opening his eyes, though, even as he turned his head to gently nuzzle at the side of Kurjak's face. Content to fall back asleep to the sound of the other's heart beat.
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destinyc1020 · 1 year
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Tom isn’t a good man, he knows we miss him and he doesn’t care 💔
We just want to see his face, that’s all 😂
Tom is out there living his best life lol. He said he'll catch y'all on the flipside 😂
You know, I'm wondering if maybe playing that TCR role all those months tired him out and he felt that he needed a long break for his physical and mental health? 🤷🏾‍♀️
Some actors really feel burnt out after doing a role... especially if they've been physically active for the role, or playing an emotionally-troubled character. Some need to rest a bit and recharge.
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electrosair · 8 months
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hihi!! i'd absolutely love it if you could do a matchup for me. i hope you're not overwhelmed by these requests, remember to take care of yourself and give yourself some free time to balance out doing all these <3 (apologies in advance if this becomes wayyyyy too long)
in my free time, i'm doing one of two things. i'm either lazing around, playing genshin, texting/calling friends, scrolling through social media, watching masterchef (it's a guilty pleasure) or i'm attempting to finish up school work that i remember needs to be completed. most of the time, in the beginning of the day, i'll take a note of everything i have to do, and plan my free days according to that.
personality-wise, i'm an extroverted introvert!! (INFP-T) basically, i have the ability to get along well with people, start new conversations, and can pretty easily make new friends and keep in contact with them, but! my social battery eventually dies out once i feel like i've talked enough. when i reach that limit, i usually need time to myself before i can get back to my outgoing self. i also tend to be described as the hardworking, helpful, and happy friend :]
my favorite nation is liyue!! its history fascinates me and i don't think i'll ever get over the lantern rite events. my favorite element is also anemo, for no particular reason, i just know i like it haha
random facts time !!
i have the tendency to pick up new hobbies, but suddenly drop them sometime later.
i tend to be self-conscious of myself, but not really in a bad way? like i like to be self aware of myself and how i might be perceived by others to ensure that i'm mentally healthy and good, if that makes sense haha!!
when it comes to romance, i prefer to become friends with the person i'm interested in to get to know them better before we start dating
i have a mindset of "i need to get things done now, so that future me can thank me later."
again, thank you soso much if you end up doing my matchup!! remember to stay happy and healthy :D
anon do you want a hug? because i want to give you one (you were just way too kind while asking for this)😭💔
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Kaveh!
You might have mornings or afternoons where you spend your time getting ahead of work. It doesn't always work out in Kaveh's case as he always ends up getting complaints from clients, but he enjoys spending time with you even if you are quiet.
At some point he would see you watching Mastercheft and get hooked on the screen with you, most likely giving some comment about the decor of the place and the alcohol used for cooking because he is him.
Resting times in which you both recharge your energies after long and tedious days. Possibly lying on the couch or going out to eat at a restaurant not too crowded.
You would be friends for quite some time before finally starting to date, if that's the way you want it, even if he attempted to confess his feelings he would be too embarrassed and would quit before trying.
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pastelnurturing · 9 months
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🌈 Navigating Tough Days in CGLRE 🌈
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Hey lovelies! Today, I want to talk about the not-so-glamorous side of CGLRE – the tough days that we all face from time to time. 🌧️
As much as we adore the magical moments, being a caregiver and supporting an age regressor can also come with its share of challenges. Some days, the outside world might be overwhelming, or our little ones may be feeling extra sensitive, leading to meltdowns or emotional struggles. 🌪️💔
But fear not! In this caring community, we're all here to lean on each other and offer support during these rough patches. 🤗💕 Remember, it's okay to reach out for help, to share your experiences, and to seek advice from fellow caregivers and little regressors alike. You are not alone in this journey! 🌈
One thing I've learned is that patience and understanding are key. It's important to listen, validate their feelings, and provide a safe space for them to express themselves. 🗣️💗 Sometimes, all they need is a loving hug and reassurance that you're there for them no matter what. 🤗✨
And caregivers, don't forget about self-care! Taking care of ourselves is crucial, as it helps us be better equipped to care for our little ones. So, don't hesitate to indulge in some "me time," relax, and recharge your own energy. 🌺💆‍♀️
Together, we'll navigate through the tough days and celebrate the triumphs, no matter how big or small. Let's continue to uplift, support, and cherish each other in this wonderful journey of CGLRE! 🌟💖
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whirlwind-lancer-dilan · 11 months
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Can anyone tell me if the Samsung Galaxy Xcover 5 64GB is good for playing Final Fantasy Opera Omnia? And do you know if there are more ways to recharge it?
If you know better phones with replaceable battery (without the need for technicians) that cost up to 300€ (not more) let me know, I'll take a look. Hoping they are available here in Italy.
There is also the Gigaset GS5 but there are problems with the German post, I no longer want to deal with parcels that have disappeared or never arrived at their destination and are often returned to the sender for no reason (twice I tried and twice I never received anything forcing me to ask for a refund). I'm not the only one to complain about this, as it's mostly a problem for small overseas sellers/shops.
My current phone is a Samsung Galaxy S3 Neo that I've been using for 8 years and it's almost destroyed and I have to change it, after only 2 years the USB port to charge it broke so I had to buy a battery only charger and I'm going on with these since then (I had taken it to be repaired but they had only erased my datas, if that had been the problem I could have done it myself since there is the option in the phone 🙄). It has android 4.4 and many apps no longer work, soon not even WhatsApp. 💔
I try to get help wherever I can ask… 🙏
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flutt3rb4tz · 3 days
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aaaa. i wish my friends would actually act like friends. and. invite me to play games with them sometimes instead of excluding me or making the game harder for me to play (i have really bad tech anxiety and they like forcing mods on ppl)..
i js.. wanna play vidy game.. and hang out.. but all they play are mmos im too scared to/just cannot join in on (shitty laptop) or modded games that scare the shit out of me!!! why cant i hang out with my friends and why do they never think to invite me. i dont even try making it hard all ive told them is that downloading mods gives me panic attacks
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ask-ash-and-goh · 2 years
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OKAY GUYS IM SO SORRY FOR NOT ANSWERING IN SO LONG I NEED TO RECHARGE MY MOTIVATION I HOPE U UNDERSTAND 💔
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maximotts · 2 years
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nooooo, i love talking to you! cause, you know, you're the best!
i usually only hug friends and family buuuut because you're the awesome person you are *with consent, tackles you with a friend hug*
i hope you have a good, restful fic hiatus, motts! you deserve all the time you need to step back and focus on your irl things. i hope you get to recharge and refocus on everything you need to (but still find time to rest that brain of yours cause that's majorly important)
-🫘
I love hugs, they’re very cherished to me rn lmao when I get sad I get clingy 🫠
Thank you! I’m sure that taking a break will help, even though I’ll miss being on here as much and all, it’s what’s best right now 😭💔
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vale-quevale · 9 months
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It's been a long time, but I did it.
Since I started shooting digital, I desired to learn analog. Always been scared about it, maybe for the "you have just one chance!" feeling that made me really uncomfortable.
Before ​m​e and my boyfriend are leaving for ​a​ week​, just thought about it again: I have a​n out of shape ​smartphone, maybe I could bring my reflex​ with me, but sometimes I feel it so heavy, plus my swimming is the very-long kind​ and I want to leave as few personal belongings as possible on the beach.
So here comes the idea. Some years ago I found out that ​a​ 90s Yashica ​Zoomate 105​ SE Brava, our family camera​ for a while, ​was still there, with a​ 125​ film ​inside​, exp. at least 10 years ago​ - ​w​hat a discovery​ for a naife amateur.
​Today I put inside the new battery… it turns on!​ 18 pictures out of 24​, wow, maybe I can shoot even 6 pictures more!​ ​but... ​no way​. ​Brava ​seems to need ​m​ore time ​for ​recharging. The ​dealer suggests "maybe it's better to ​r​ewind it and try a new ​f​ilm".​ They​ sen​t ​the developed files to my mail in 20 minutes, and this is what came out: some flowers, my father and some special memories of my grandma ​b​irthday - this is how we discovered the​y were shot in 2008.
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I bought a new film. I also wanted a 800 ​to try something at night, but it was unavailable​; for now a daylight film is ok, I will buy ​another ​one ​next time. The dealer wanted to put the film inside the Brava for me but I was like "I CAN DO IT BY MYSELF, PLS STOP, thx Mr." (just like a little girl jealous for her new toy).
Watching some analog pictures on the laptop screen, in just 20 minutes, has been so weird. I remember when my father had to wait ​two, maybe three weeks​ or a month to get "the call".​ I​ asked him quite every day "did you take them​? ​they're ​not ready yet?​!" and we had to wait more and more, until he could took them home after work, just to find out that maybe 3 or 4 shoots were good.
I couldn't wait for the ritual. After I came​ back home​ ​I put the ​unexposed film inside the Yashica​ that… doesn't shoot, lol.​ The flash works, the display ​t​oo, but when I press the shot button it ​goes like "nope my friend, i just can't do this anymore, please just give up". May be an issue with the shutter, idk. I r​ewind the new ​f​ilm and (surprise​, surprise!) ​it​ ghosts inside the canister.​ What a genius. Here comes the "oh shit, i just spent 13 euros for nothing"​ part. Discouraged, I luckily found this video, and I could bring the film outside again.
​Since the ​B​rava was not expecting for that resurrection 💔​ my analogic​ ​a​dventure ​c​an continue with​ ​a plan​ B​: a ​working Ferrania​ ​Admira One somebody gifted​ to me for the ​Prima Comunione​. No self-timer, no zoom, no flash mode changing. Just a narrow point & shoot, but it can works.​ ​I can't wait to​ develop again​ :)
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theaspieworld · 10 months
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"🎥 Being a parent of a child with autism comes with unique challenges, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed and burnt out. 💆‍♀️💔🧠 In this video, I'm sharing some of my best tips for managing stress and avoiding burnout as a parent of a child with autism. From setting boundaries to practicing self-compassion, these techniques have helped me find balance and peace during difficult times. 👪 If you're a parent of a child with autism, know that you are not alone. It's essential to prioritize your own self-care, so you can show up for your child and family from a place of strength and resilience. 🙏 I hope this video will inspire and encourage other parents of children with autism to practice self-care and take the time they need to recharge and replenish. 💜 Remember, self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for your well-being and the well-being of those you care for. #AutismAwareness #Parenting #SelfCare #StressManagement #BurnoutPrevention #MentalHealth #WellnessJourney #Neurodiversity #Compassion #Mindfulness #Support #Community"
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