observermadeleine

[observermadeleine]

a protagonist

(ancient greek: one who plays the first part, the main character)

the protagonist leads and affect the plot, influencing the story and moving it forward, it’s about them actually. They face every ups and downs, we as observers, too.

do you feel like a protagonist?

what do you think about becoming the main character?

#main character #thoughts #protagonist

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a weird attachment, or not weird?

when you met a new person, you „clicked”, you have a phase of contant texting, do you feel like the person is owned by you?

not in a way, like they are an object, no, god no.

I mean you feel like the person is yours, like they don’t have any other favourite people. it’s blue, to realise that you’re just a addition to their life. I feel like I am a jelaous kind of person, but I don’t show it off. I am aware that I am just afraid of losing the person. but I did lose them. I accepted that.

I am trying to implement „I don’t care” mindset. it helps.

Anybody relates?

#thoughts #frienship #i just realized #attachment styles #jealousy #looking for advice

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a reflection

I am in the course of reading „Perfect On Paper” by Sophie Gonzales and I have realised that we are in the relationships with personalities. Like if the person was the opposite gender, they would be just the same. However, if someone cares about the beliefs that women have to be with men, the personality (the loved person) is their friend, I guess.

What do you think?

Like Idk exactly what to think about that, maybe I am wrong or sth. There are probably more aspects, as the topic is quite complex.

#thoughts #realisation #relationship #perfect on paper #booklover #frienship

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food labels

best used by (the date) - it shows when it’s the best time to taste the freshness of the food, hence you can consume it after the date passes

used by (the date) - you’d rather not consume it past the date… 💀

companies use those dates to make you taste the food at peak of tastefulness, so you come back later and buy more…

I made myself some pudding (from pudding powder) which was past the date (delish), survived ✔️

Ingested chocolate past the date. survived ✔️

and more i guess

HOWEVER it depends on the type of food you wanna eat.

I barely bited a piece of mozzarella cheese which was labeled “used by (the date)” exactly on this date and it was downright disgusting.

use your senses to check the food’s edibility, honey!

#random #foodblogger #food labeling #consumerism #food #good to know #zerowaste #practicalknowledge #tips

[observermadeleine]

why did the Mongols have lantern jaws?

the Mongols had lantern jaws because they chewed a lot of raw meat which they "processed" under the seats on horseback in the XIXth century, for example.

#mongols #history #fun facts #bones #jaw

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how to remember some symbols of chemical elements?

• what do you say when a gold bar falls on your foot? AU!

gold - Au

gold itself is pretty heavy.

• have you ever had the bloody taste in your mouth? or have you ever chew a spoon as a child (or now)? it is disgusting FEEE!

iron - Fe

#chemistry #remember #studying #chemical elements #howtoremember

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an idea for being bored in a public space

Create stories of people in the situation you see them now. Like you see a waiter in a restaurant who is a bit lost in his job today and you think up:

„Why I thought it would be a perfect job for me? I simply bemock myself ahhhhh….” etc.

You may write in the first or third person, whatever you feel like.

#ideas #writing #boredom #writing stories #public space #fictional characters #writers on tumblr #thoughts #ideaforboredom

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I’m grateful for everything I own.

However, when I hear funny stories or see how happy people are when they spend time with each other making memories and stuff, I want it too.

I am afraid of not making these memories.

Being alone is also okay, but I would love hanging out and doing crazy stuff. Nevertheless when I am around friends, I feel like I’m the wooden one.

Anyone can relate?

#frienship #looking for advice #thoughts #hangout #someone tell me u relate </3

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"I laugh again. It's a pathetic sort of expulsion of air, but for me that qualifies as a laugh." Solitaire by Alice Oseman (chapter one).

That made me think about the science of laughing. Anyone can relate?

#solitaire #alice oseman #reactions #laughing #book quote

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thought

One of the reasons we do not have friends is we aren't flexible. We have our strict routine which is supposed to lead us somewhere, but we don't consider doing something different or wasting time. It's painful. If my acquaintance asks me if want to go somewhere or do something, I rarely say yes. It repeats a few times and no one ever ask me if I want to hang out.

#thoughts #being alone