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10 Reason Why Some Relationship Don't Work

You are single, bored and you just have nothing

to do. It is another miserable day like the day

before. You need someone to talk to and you are

turning on the computer, browsing some… dating

sites. There are so many people… singles, like

you are.

What should you ask from them? Can they change

your life for better?

The answer to the last question is up to you.

Would you let a person you have met online to

change your life? Are you willing to do this? Do

you trust someone you have met this way?

SOME people simply do not have the courage to let

an online relationship to develop and change in a

normal healthy relationship. Are you one of them?

Let me re-ensure you that online relationships

really are working, and yes it can change your

entire life, in a good way.

But there are some impediments or mistakes which

are leading to the end of the relationship

between two people that could have had a good

future together:

1. First of all if you do not take people you are

taking to too seriously, you will be treated the

same way.

2. Being too secret and reserved. If you do not

tell things about you and you are not working to

develop a relationship, nobody will make this for

you.

3. Trust or lack of trust is the biggest

impediment of an eRelathionship. You have to try

to get the people you are taking to trust in you,

and then find out if that person is a trustworthy

one. There are so many ways to check out this.

4. Being shy. If you are interested in someone

and you want to meet her/him offline, let her/him

know this. What do you have to lose?

5. Fear of disappointment or fear of becoming a

victim of someone with bad intentions can make

you paranoid. It is good to be preventive but not

exaggerate about this. It is not funny and will

pull people away.

6. Unbelieving. If you do not believe that an

eRelathionship can become something more then it

is, you will not pay too much attention and…

You get exactly what you give and some more, don’

t you?

7. Do not make that relationship a priority in

your life. Any human needs to feel that is

important for someone, that is the center of

someone life, even if you have meet that human

online. Don’t you feel the same? Wouldn’t you pay

more attention to someone if you would know that

you are a priority in his/her life?

8. Not making the next step. Talking online can

be fun but it is not enough to get to know a

person better and after a while it can become

boring. Talking on the phone can help you two to

develop the relationship and do not forget that

you can feel chemistry only when you two are

meeting face to face, touching each other,

feeling the smell of her/his perfume.

9. Beeing insincere, pretending that you are

something that you are not will lead you

eventually to the end of any relationship. So be

honest from the very beginning, maybe you have

just meat the mach of your life, don’t take the

risk to lose her because of a stupid mistake.

10. Thinking that online dating sites are some

kind of shops where you can find a lover like you

find a pear of shoes, and if you are braking the

shoes you can go back to that shop and buy

another pair just like the first. It is not true,

every human, every soul is unique. If you lose

her/him it is for good. So I am sure that you

will have problems like all couples have but it

is worthy to make the effort to solve these

problems together.

Be happy that the technology gives you the chance

to meet your match online, but do not waste this

chance, it could never come back to you.

Understand What He Or She Really Wants In Every Relationship

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Relationship Test If You Are Feeling Crushed

Is your relationship becoming uncomfortable? Are you no longer enjoying the relationship? Do you not understand what might be going wrong, but you can sense it? You are not happy, but cannot pin point the cause of unhappiness. You want to get away from the relationship but are arguing for and against and getting tired of the whole thing. This is a typical; sign of getting crushed and facing confusion in the relationship.

The Secrets Of Every Relationship

Let us discuss more about how this happens.

I will give one example- your partner is with you. Your partner is not contributing any positives to the relationship. She/he keeps complaining that you are the cause of their unhappiness and discomfort. You wonder how when the ball is in the other court? She/he does not understand what ever you are trying to communicate. You get angry and try to explain again only to get further frustrated. If you talk of separation you are told that they will not be able to live alone. They want to be with you. Get all the comforts from you. They care nothing about your comfort. They blame you for everything that goes wrong. They understand no communication or act as if they don’t understand. You want to run away from it all, but they make you feel guilty of doing something terribly wrong by that. You simply do not know what to do and are at your wits end. You feel crushed.

What should you do in this situation? Let me tell you. Don’t interact with your partner. Don’t try to communicate at all. Ask them to take care of themselves and not to bother about you at all. Get away slowly by taking no obligation from them. Let them feel it slowly. Over a period of time they will understand that they cannot manipulate you. If at that point, you separate, they will not be able to play their game of making you feel guilty. You will get your freedom. Reclaim your freedom from relationships that crush you.

Make Your Partner Worship You

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How To Turn A Friend Into A Lover

When two people are in a relationship, they need to share a certain level of compatibility that extends beyond the bedroom. Besides getting along as lovers, they need to be friends, in order to share each other’s joy and sorrow and be on the same wavelength, mentally and emotionally. Friends, who are close to each other, tend to have that kind of emotional and mental connection, which is why the friendship is shared in the first place. Imagine if you could find that kind of compatibility in a lover as well! Read on for tips how to turn a friend into a lover:

Do You Know What He Likes

Remind them of what they like

If you have a male friend, who have hinted in the past about what he likes in you – certain physical or emotional characterstics that you possess – learn to highlight those features. Just don’t go overboard.

Remember, that when you were friends, how you looked or felt didn’t matter because he would love you nonetheless. But, when it comes to love, you need to present yourself in a way that will make him notice.

Change the talk

When people are friends they tend to talk about everything under the sun, from common interests or each other’s love interests! If you want this person to relate to you on a more intimate level as well. You could try flirting verbally.

How To Talk To The Women/Men Of Your Dreams

Create the ambience

Instead of going with him to a ususal hangout like a movie or a coffee shop, you could change the venue to a more private and romantic setting.

Change your attitude

If this person is already your friend, he will know how you behave around someone you have more than platonic feelings for. The next time you meet him, start behaving with them the way you would around someone you like.

Body language

This is one of the most powerful tools to hint to people how you feel. The body language that two friends share is very different. All you have to do is change the way you touch your friend and if he has half a brain, he’ll get the hint.

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