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clemleur · 10 months

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we need to have a serious conversation about how gwen is so girlfriend (lesbian) coded

#my girlfriend specifically #we kiss #cause she’s my girlfriend #we’re in a committed relationship #clem talks <3

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transmascissues · 7 months

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gay trans men: isn’t it fucked up that so many cis gay men proudly talk about how disgusting they think our bodies are, get violent when they realize they were attracted to one of us, push us out of community spaces because they don’t think we belong there, invalidate the orientation of the cis gay men who enter into relationships with us, accuse us of raping the cis gay men we’ve had sex with, aggressively misgender us and make assumptions about our bodies, act like their personal lack of desire to be with us means we must be fundamentally unattractive and morally reprehensible, and generally treat our existence like a personal attack worthy of a violent response when all we’re trying to do is exist?

those cis gay men & their friends: oh my god, you’re literally trying to force your disgusting female pussy onto gay men! this is conversion therapy! you’re a predator and a rapist and you deserve to die!

gay trans men: …we literally do not care if you have sex with us. nobody said anything about that. a lot of us are t4t, asexual, and/or already in a relationship, and the rest of also don’t want to have sex with you that badly because we would much rather be fucking someone who actually likes us; this has never been about who we personally want to sleep with. we’d just really appreciate it if you could treat us like human beings and not actively try to make the gay community hostile toward our existence. you don’t have to be attracted to us, just don’t be awful to us? and maybe, once you have that part down, ask yourself why you were so quick to assume a subset of queer people are all violent predators?

those people: HOMOPHOBES! EVIL GROSS FETISHIZING RAPIST HOMOPHOBES!

#it really is like talking to a brick wall. an aggressively bigoted brick wall #i promise none of you are such spectacular lovers that we’re going to those lengths to fuck you #the more mad we make you the more likely it is that none of us would touch you with a ten foot pole #like. me and my five year committed gay relationship do not want to fuck you #and even if it ended tomorrow. i still would not want to fuck you personally #bc i 1) am primarily t4t. 2) have fucking standards. and 3) have no interest in fucking people who don’t want to fuck me #this was never about wanting to get in bed with you #we just want to exist in peace #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

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luminouslotuses · 4 months

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does anyone else think about wilma. bc i do. i miss her

#but it’s okay we’re in a committed relationship and she’s my wife Btw ^_^#wilbur soot #the sorry boys

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manyfandomsonelog · 3 months

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This is something that’s coming from an issue that’s already been discussed a lot which is that it’s really difficult in general to imagine what Juno and Nureyev’s life together would look like if things end up working out, which is certainly a problem I’m really interested in exploring, but looking at it purely from a comedic standpoint it would be really funny if they move to Hyperion City together and Juno is a private detective again and Nureyev is just… still a thief.

Like I don’t know how realistic it would actually be for Nureyev to continue being a thief if he doesn’t need to anymore but just imagine the hilarity in Juno Steel, private eye talking to a client whose house has been broken into and then during casual conversation Juno’s husband gets brought up and the client is like “Oh, what’s your husband do?” “…Don’t worry about it.”

Even funnier if Nureyev was the one who broke into the client’s house in the first place.

#just thinking about how funny it would be to just live as a private detective and a criminal who are in a committed relationship #which is like part of the problem of their future but we’re not TALKING about that. we’re talking about the SILLY #jupeter #tpp

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cornerihaunt · 2 months

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ok so.

#my best friend came to visit me for a couple of days and idk it felt like a farewell tour of a band that was good 2 years ago #that’s the best i can explain it #maybe she’s the one who outgrew me but the whole 48 hours felt like we were just reminiscing about our uni years together yadda yadda yadda #we’re in completely different points of our lives – she has a steady job a girlfriend new friends and lives in another country #im here in the same town we studied trying to get my degree trying to get over my fear of commitment #idk it’s just sad #im meant to visit her in may but idk. maybe i’ll either talk it out with her or just let it fizzle out #ok now that i’ve let it out im feeling better #idk we were meant to be best friends forever but now i don’t know if i’m meant for that kind of relationship be it romantic or platonic #rambles

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weirdo09 · 3 months

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ok so,, janis ‘imi’ike n miles 42.. what do we think?

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justinefrischmanngf · 4 months

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he asked me a serious question last night that was very reasonable to ask, and i did give a kind of response and i said we’d get into it more when we were not talking on the phone and we WILL and we SHOULD because it’s important in some ways. but also i am terrified.

#i knew it’d have to come up but it would be so much easier if it didnt #but it does! and it’s not fair to him if i avoid it forever #that being said we’re very fucking early on in this relationship #but also like. it’s reasonable to ask and i will talk to him about it and i think he has really properly committed to this thing #and i would really like this to be real so it makes sense #but it’s scaryyyyyyyyyyyy

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maladaptvs · 5 months

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hi guys (thinking about pip)

#pip #i’m holding his hand #he’s my husband #we’re literally in a committed relationship wym #kingston started playing and i had a Vision of him??

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dokiyeom · 11 months

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looking thru hinge profiles w my friends is giving me a smau idea,,,

#aiyah aya !!#also guys.#i was literally in the same room as txt AND FUCKING HITMAN BANG LAST NIGHT #that literally means i’m dating kazuha lol #like by degrees of relation #we’re literally in a happy and committed relationship #kazuya. ayazuha. our surnames r a bit too similar hold up

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mrs-kelly · 2 years

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Man I love the sentiment behind getting married but some f/o’s just are not the marriage type and like. I want to move a step forward. Without getting married. You get me?

#I mean Jack and I had a commitment ceremony but #we’re BASICALLY married tho ahdkfl I just didn’t wanna have a ‘wedding’#a wedding between Jack and I didn’t make sense #but when I say ‘some f/o’s’ I’m particularly talking about James ok ahdkfl #I don’t wanna do anything like that right now but I know I will #so I’m trying to brainstorm now and like #maybe I can find some other ceremonies or #just come up with a special moment for us to share you know #just. something that brings us together and makes it clear to the both of us that neither of us is going anywhere #cuz I mean technically at this moment James and I aren’t even using labels for our relationship #like he’s not my ‘boyfriend’#but I don’t know that we’ll ever use labels like that?#or maybe we’ll come up with something else?#idk all I know is James is really important to me #and he’s bound to become even more important as time goes on #and I just wanna be able to make a big deal of it you know #ren speaks #im gushing out here folks #lost in your eyes

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eternalsummer2006 · 10 months

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im literally like. dumb

#it’s not like physically possible for me to like someone who isn’t unavailable or without some sort of like. circumstance attached #the whiplash of texting the ex of someone in the friend group (she still likes them)#to texting my best friend who has a girlfriend #like to text someone in a fun detached way and immediately text the reason I’m detached #fun thought experiment is would they have even flirted with me if best friend was there #obvs he has a girlfriend there’s no reason he should be an inhibitor #and yet however heavily I flirt with everyone else that’s like half of how we act not even flirting #obviously not flirting. again. girlfriend committed four year long relationship etc etc #but I mean would there have even been like an opening to flirt with me #I’ve gotten comments before from people saying they were worried they were flirting with me too much in front of him cause we look #like we’re together or at least a thing #which is like horrifying and also feeding into my delusions and also impossible #and i really just assume he knows but he likes being liked so he lets it happen #but it’s not like. one sided affection as in there’s no way to call me into question without calling him into question as well #which you can’t. he’s in a relationship #a terrible (but I’m a masochist so actually it’s kind of fun) situation to be in #講話

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sinkingsubmission · 2 years

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Hey baby, I'm Dom Joby seeking for an obedient and stupid, soft sweet submissive to explore her fantasies and her deepest desires. would go miles with her to fulfill her desires cos I understand she doesn't get to satisfaction at once. you take that honor. Grab my arm. Call me daddy.

I’m actually very happily submitting to a wonderful owner. While I know he likes others wanting what’s his, it’s important to first and foremost recognize his ownership. I’m happy to share how he helps me fulfill my deepest desires if you’re interested though

#also please at least try and get to know a girl before asking her to submit to you #subs are not one size fits all and neither are doms #we’re people first #and like any committed relationship it needs a solid foundation before jumping into the fantasies and deep desires #anon #asks

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cuchillx · 2 years

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i just want to have a girlfriend and a boyfriend, why can’t we just have everything? 🥺

#context: im dating a cute girl and its been a while we have a non-exclusive relationship but #we both agree we’re not aspiring to reach regular relationships milestones together (marrying having a family etc)#that relationship makes me so happy though its been going slow but i feel a genuine connection and i enjoy so much our dynamic #this is proof that relationships that are ‘casual’ and therefore not ‘a real thing is bullshit #yeah we have something casual and we both take it SERIOUSLY #because we love and care for each other #with dude is complicated because he is striving for something that involves commitment to exploring eventually having s family etc #which i want a lot too!#but he’s never tried non monogamy and expressed he wouldn’t be comfortable trying it #really fair and i will never try and persuade someone to do something they don’t feel comfortable with I’ve done monogamy all my life #and im fine with it #im just open to poly too #i really like him and i feel so valued and seen by him #i have time to explore both options but i know at the end of the line I’ll have to make a decision #😩 I’ll try to make a mindful decision i guess when the time comes #syrup speaks

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falcqns · 2 years

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FLO AND ZACH BROKE UP??

WE FINALLY HAVE A CHANCE

#natashasera #i say that as if we’re not both in committed relationships