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textstomykids · 9 months
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Phantom business costs.
Ramit Sethi discusses that phantom costs often sneak into our personal lives. For example, a phantom cost of homeownership might be a roof that needs replacement 6 years after the house is bought.  Even when phantom expenses are predictable (the water bill, snow removal costs), they still might not be considered when making a change. Phantom time sucks also exist. It’s exciting to change the…
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thelonesgroup · 3 months
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Don't Let This Challenge Derail Your 2024
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This is a time of year that I love - many agents are feeling full of promise and inspiration toward making changes in their business! I am also very excited about what is coming up for our industry this 2024 and beyond. We have a strong year ahead of us that is full of changes that many of us have never seen before. You need to be ready!
Whatever your resolutions this year - making more money, taking time off, getting your systems up-and-running, creating a buyer package - there is one critical component that I hope you are including in your business today: education.
This year, education is going to be an important part of what separates successful agents from agents who are left behind and miss the huge opportunities that will be shaking our markets.
Agents are very skilled at putting out fires: transaction fires, urgent buyer fires, listing drama fires. While many of you provide heroic and timely service to take care of your clients, you are neglecting putting time towards your own personal improvement. It's easy to fall flat when all of your time and energy has been spent putting out fires, but this 2024 will mark a period of changes in our industry. These changes mean investing time to expand and update your expertise.
For example, here in Washington State we are seeing a big change to how single-family residential property can be used. House Bill 1110, which passed last year, is already triggering big changes to municipal comprehensive plans through-out the state, allowing townhomes, duplexes, and multi-family units to be built in certain SFR zoned areas. It's a complex issue and agents who understand how this impacts property value and transaction management have a huge opportunity ahead of them.
Another change seen here in Washington State and elsewhere are new laws like HB1337, which allow much broader placement of accessory dwelling units (ADU) to encourage density and expand available housing. This is very exciting news for agents and property owners through-out our state!
And more are on the way. Just this month the Washington State House overwhelmingly passed HB1245, which will allow property owners to split lots. There are caveats of course, including that new lots must be no smaller than 2,000 square feet and not result in changes to existing affordable housing, among other details. When it goes to the Senate floor, we hope for its passage.
How legislation like these bills are changing the landscape of the market and creating opportunities for agents is just one topic of many at my upcoming State of the Market event, next week on the 24th. If you are looking for an easy opportunity to immediately elevate your knowledge and expertise, this is the best chance you may have this year and since it is an online event, you can participate from anywhere.
"But Denise!" I hear some of you say, "I am so busy juggling business. I don't have time to take out of my day to deal with these issues. I'll figure it out when it happens."
I understand the challenges that business brings. As a top-producing agent I know these challenges all-too-well. However, I also know that becoming a market expert was one of the most important things I could have done. The time I have spent developing expertise has paid me back thousandfold.
When I first set out on my plan to become a top-producing agent I saw my plans derailed by the unpredictability of the business again and again. One month turned into six and before I knew it, half the year had slipped by and nothing had really changed. My business hadn't grown and my quality of life was worse than ever. I knew that if I wanted my business to grow, if I wanted more quality of life, I had to find the time to grow my knowledge of the market and my trade.
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If I wanted my business to change, I needed to change. I needed a chance to be able to impress potential clients with my knowledge, not, "Let me get back to you on that." I needed to extend that knowledge through my marketing and connect with clients that were dealing with issues right now. And right now, there are a growing number of clients out there dealing with these issues and more.
I took a close look at how I was spending my time and made a commitment to grow my skills as an agent. After examining my tasks, I realized I was doing several things that were not bringing me closer to my goals. I was having long lunches with clients, touring properties that were too far away and that I had no buyer for, helping fellow agents market their properties. Admirable maybe, but ultimately not activity that was building my own business. I was procrastinating by filling my time doing work-tasks that made me feel like I was working, but that were not bringing in results.
Don't fall into this trap! If you are struggling to invest in your business knowledge and skills this year, look for inefficiencies in your schedule. That might be wasting time on the internet, spending time in the office with agents who aren't out working, touring buyers who haven't been prequalified, or something else. Set new rules in your business that give you the opportunity to invest in yourself!
As I mentioned, this January 24th, I'm presenting my State of the Market online. In three-hours you will learn more about what is happening in our industry, how we got here, and my predictions for where we are headed, than you will experience at any other time this year. Where are mortgage rates headed? How will that impact our market? How is legislation shaping our industry for years to come? How are evolving tenant friendly policies impacting landlords and investors? What must you know about second homes, ADUs, middle-housing, and other opportunity markets? I will be covering all of this and much more, growing your expertise and providing you with client-talking points you can use for the year to come. Don't miss it - go get registered right now!
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By Denise Lones CSP, CMP, M.I.R.M. The founding partner of The Lones Group, Denise Lones has over three decades of experience in the real estate industry. With agent/broker coaching, expertise in branding, lead generation, strategic marketing, business analysis, new home project planning, product development and more, Denise is nationally recognized as the source for all things real estate. With a passion for improvement, Denise has helped thousands of real estate agents, brokers, and managers build their business to unprecedented levels of success, while helping them maintain balance and quality of life.
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three-moving · 5 months
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someone should replay butterfly soup with me. i wish to experience an emotion but not alone.
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books1youtube · 9 months
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artisticdivasworld · 1 year
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Time Management and Blocking: Can they help you?
We all have the same 24 hours in a day. Yet why does it seem that some people get more done than others in that same amount of time? To be successful at anything we must learn to manage our time efficiently. Time management is the answer and time blocking is the method. There’s a saying about finding time. I often wish I could find the time to do this or find more time to finish that or some…
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kopfconsulting · 1 year
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Too Distract to foc...Ooh, What's That?
Let's face it, distractions are an entrepreneur's Achille's Heel. No matter how committed we are to a project or idea - dangle a trend, holiday, or competitor's brain child in our face and everything comes crashing down.
The Plight of Shiny Object Syndrome Let’s face it, distractions are an entrepreneur’s Achille’s Heel. No matter how committed we are to a project, dedicated to an idea, or focused on what is right in front of us – dangle a trend, holiday, or competitor’s brain child in our face and everything comes crashing down. Think you are the exception, trust me – you are not. Hey I could be wrong and you…
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lilithism1848 · 7 months
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What are some advice you give to a young communist?
Hit the gym.
Delete time-waster social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) - organize face-to-face with real people. A bit of political discourse online is fine.
Arm yourself. Get guns, and learn how to shoot them. Don't get museum items because "Mosins are cool" or some nonsense, get whatever combat-worthy AR and sidearm is a military standard in your geographic region, depending on where you are that's probably something like an M16, G36, AK-12, or AK-47.
Organize with trustworthy individuals. In case of civil war or anti-socialist genocide, you need people you can rely on (and the reactionaries WILL eventually come for people like us in the West, capitalists never give up without a fight).
Organize a meeting point where you will meet your comrades in case of conflict.
Get good military-grade or better marching/combat boots and always have a full bug-out bag ready. Long-lasting rations for at least a few days, water filter/purification equipment, first aid kit, sleeping equipment, heat blanket, tinder and mechanical lighter, tarp, basic tools like knife, are, rope, etc. (try and stay below 10kg weight without water, add as much water as you can comfortably carry). Do regular training marches with your simulated backpack (10km with 10kg of weight minimum).
Study how to organize at work and build a mutual aid network. Help found unions.
Focus hard on education. The better educated you are the better.
Society is not ready for revolution, yet. So, get a great career that makes money. Yes, participating in capitalism is good, actually. Become as rich and powerful as possible. Make use of all the tools capitalism gives you. Preferably find a collectively owned business but don't be shy about participating in capitalism. Use the power and money you gain along the way to fund and support revolutionaries.
Always remember: It is not your personal responsibility to change the world or jeopardize your own wellbeing by acting according to ideals nobody else shares. As long as you don't personally stand in the way of revolution, your priority should be bettering your own life. Societal change can only be achieved at a societal level, personal responsibility is a liberal myth. Lead the best life you can while promoting socialism.
I know that some of this sounds like paranoid prepper bs and LARPing and will continue to feel like LARPing the entire time until the revolution starts but if you are a revolutionary communist you need to be ready... this is part of any revolution.
Know these "funny" videos where right-wingers stand in a line and make Nazi salutes then "train" by doing 10 push-ups before falling over wheezing, then trying to march in a line completely out of tune with each other while some skinny guy with a swastika tattooed on his face is swinging an SS flag? Yeah, those idiotic-looking guys are more organized more disciplined, and more committed than the overwhelming majority of self-proclaimed Marxist-Leninists in the West.
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prttykittes · 6 months
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Hi!!
Can I have a fem! Reader
Any bsd fem character with a reader that’s like Kaworu nagisa from neon genesis evangelion
Have nice day
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Woooahh!!! Hi ❄️ anon!! :3 — here's your request!! ♡⁠(⁠>⁠ ⁠ਊ⁠ ⁠<⁠)⁠♡
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ෆ Akutagawa, Sigma X Female!Reader [she/her/you/your]
— Synopsis:: just hanging around with your lover but there seems to be a problem but it's fine!
CW. Fluff, straightforward, rude people, awkwardness, Reader is in PM(Akutagawa) DOA(Sigma)
A/N :: This is short because I had no ideas! (⁠⊃⁠。⁠•́⁠‿⁠•̀⁠。⁠)⁠⊃ — I did a different format for this one because I had no ideas — written by a minor (⁠。⁠・⁠ω⁠・⁠。⁠)⁠ノ⁠♡
[MASTERLIST] — works, works! ⊂⁠(⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠*⁠.⁠✧
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AKUTAGAWA:: You were hanging with Akutagawa, while on a mission. You were done the mission but you wanted to have fun and you imagined to convince Akutagawa to hang around before going back. "Just act normal, even though you aren't" you said to him, he is still looking down at his feet. "Okay..." He mumbled as you walked back a shop, it was nice looking and Akutagawa said nothing. "Where is that lady at?!" A voice boom loudly, a man with a deep voice with a big beard looked around madly and there's another person. His eyes land on you, you can see his teeth gritting. "That girl!" His finger pointing at you, you lift up an eyebrow in confusion. "Eh?" Akutagawa stared in confusion and anger as well, what lady and what did she do? The another man signs and waves you over, you shrug as you walk towards them. The large-beard man looks at you with crazy eyes, the other man sighed in embarrassment. "Did you steal from here" the man said looking at you, you could tell he was nervous. "No, I just came here with my boyfriend" You pointed at Akutagawa, the guy was more nervous. It was the truth, you had just came here. "Oh...I see" he gulps and coughs. "Did you see anyone?" He questioned. "Nope" you said. "Oh! I found it" the large beard man said, he lifts up the "lost" item. "Look around, next time before you accuse anyone" you with a blank stare, the man jolted and bow. "I am sorry!" You walked away with Akutagawa next to you. "Time wasters.." Akutagawa mumbled next to you, you smiled. "Let's continue our little date." You said, you can see his ears turning red as he walks ahead of you. Well now you can have some fun with just the two of you
SIGMA:: The casino was busy, lots of customers. Sigma would go around and help out people, you would sit around and keep a look out. You saw rather a rude customer talking smack to sigma, the man was yelling curses at him. Sigma could only nod his head with a nervous smile on his face, that man sure is annoying. You saw no bodyguards around that area so you got up and went to him. You smiled as the man's face got more visible, Sigma noticed you walking towards him. "What is the problem?" You questioned the man, the man turned to you. "I lost all my money!" He yelled, you had a dead pan face. This man is really stupid, of course you would lose your money if you lost! "Ah..I see, so do you know where you are at?" You said. "Duh! Yes, I fucking do. Are you stupid , girl?" You said, apparently he didn't because he was mad that he lose all his money. "Well seems like you don't! This is a casino, so you would lose money if you lost." You said calmly, your eyebrow was twitching slightly. "So?!" He yelled, you could smell his drunken breathe. "SO, get out. Loser" you said, his eyes widen. "Wha—" he said in confusion. "Bodyguards!!" You clapped as some people and bodyguards noticed so they went over and got him out. "Thank you.." Sigma said, he had a small smile on his face. "Let's go rest" you said and grab his hand, leading him to his office.
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thomawifey · 1 year
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a date?
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pairings: dazai osamu x reader
contains: fluff, crack
wc: 355
a/n: an old dribble i made for the same friend! chuuya next?
“oh my belladonna~ is this a date?”
“w-what?! no..” you commented while blush spreading across your face. The brown haired guy left out a chuckle. How did this happen, you asked?
First, you wanted kenji to help you on a mission or whatever the president gave you, but he can't. he can actually but he's full You wanted to ask ranpo, and you remembered he wasn't allowed by the president. The others were busy and it left you with a choice, Dazai Osamu. He's just there, in his desk, playing with his paper airplane. He was making Kunikida irritated, so you chose him. And did you regret it? Absolutely.
“Who knew, dear name would choose me?” he said with a smirk on his face. You decided just to ignore his bluffs, and continue to walk side by side. He started to poke your cheeks while walking beside eachother. this little shit You became slightly annoyed by his antics, and continue to stay ignorant. But it sure didn't stopped him to continually tease you.
(time skip after the mystery hehe)
You stretched your arms upwards against the air and let out a sigh. You were finally free from the work you had, even though.. you continued getting tease by the bandage waster bastard. You turned around telling Dazai that the work is gone, but he was no where to be seen. You titled your head in confusion, looking around to spot the brown haired, you didn't found him around the area. You started pacing your walk still looking around to find him, once again he wasn't on the sight. Right before you turn around to check again, bandaged arms wrapped around your neck, and it was indeed the Dazai Osamu. “Oh, there you are.. I thought you got kidnapped or something,”
“Aww, were you searching for me, dear?” he replied with a smirk on his face. You chuckled holding his forearm that's hanging around your neck, “Am I? Who knows. To be honest i’ll be rather happy if you got lost, so there will be no one who will continue to tease me.”
“Ouch, quite hurtful Belladonna.”
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thank u for reading hehe <3
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studentbyday · 6 months
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my ideal morning routine
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making this for accountability bc i really 1) don't like waking up to do schoolwork and 2) should stop using my phone first thing in the morning, even just to check notifications bc i always get sucked into social media and it's such a time waster.
Either turn off my alarm (that would be the only time I use my phone) or wake up when I wake up (do try to use the alarm to gradually wake up earlier tho...)
Stretch bc I'm a stiff old woman
Drink water
Journal in good lighting (either open the blinds or leave the room) bc I really need to order my thoughts and consciously set a more positive and encouraging frame of mind at the start of the day
Exercise if I feel like it 💪
Comb hair + 🪥
Eat breakfast 😋
Take my vitamins and probiotic
AND THEN DON'T USE MY PHONE THROUGHOUT THE DAY EXCEPT FOR COMMUNICATION* DAMMIT 😤😤😤
*that includes the tumblr update
and if i'm really busy (like this week 😵‍💫), i will leave my phone in my room, away from my desk. if you see me on here during the day, then you know i've failed 😅
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pudgybun · 11 months
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this person spent like dayyyyys trying to guilt trip me into talking to him and lying saying he tipped me or followed my paid platforms in order for me to chat with him. Then tried to give me hella unsolicited advice on how to run my business (was basically just saying to get kik and talk for free??? HELLO????)
I was super cordial for a longggg time trying to explain that this is my job but he sent me some variation of the above message 3 different times so I finally blocked lmao
just letting other ppl know in case he tries to dm u! He's a time waster and was hella sketchy, asking if I get notified when I get tips on here and all my other platforms and lying saying he tipped lol. v lame!
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glitziinova · 9 months
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Managers with a Tamagotchi Headcanons
(I want a tamagotchi uni but I don't have one yet so I'm making headcanons) (Include spoilers???? for the Tamagotchi uni)
Duck shuffler
🦆 > DO NOT trust this man with taking care of anything
🦆 > Probably kills it many times from lack of proper care, he dgaf
🦆 > Does like pushing the buttons tho and hearing the beeps
🦆 > The tama is either as maxed out or dead
Prethinker
🧠 > thinks that it'll be SO easy to take care of it but struggles to keep up with its needs
🧠 > Have some difficulties for the first few days (had a few close calls with death) but got the hang of it
🧠 > Likes Mametchi because he's smart
🧠 > High to maxed training but mid everything else
Deep diver
🐠 > Thinks it's cute and plays with it when he's had some free time or it's a slow day
🐠 > Likes Otmatchi and Shykutchi
🐠 > Mid-overall care and stats
Rainmaker
⛈️ > Love this fucking thing with all of their heart, it's always on her so she can take care of it everywhere
⛈️ > Falls to their knees devastated when it dies
⛈️ > Love when her tama gets married or gets a playdate
⛈️ > Likes all of the tamas but prefers the ones that look like fluffy clouds like awamokotchi
⛈️ > Maxed out hunger, happiness, and training
Gatekeeper
🛡️ > Girl running the Tamagotchi like its the navy
🛡️ > WAY too picky for marriage and playdates
🛡️ > likes Knighttchi
🛡️ > Mid stats with high training
Witch Hunter
🪄 > Is confused on why this plastic egg thing has a weird creature in it and why he gotta take care of it.
🪄 > Saw the Majoritchi on the Tamagotchi on and got pissed. Always tries to prevent his tama to marry him
🪄 > Gets a bit mad that he can't take over the magic land
🪄 > Full hunger, low happiness, but maxed training
Bellringer
🔔 > Loves Belltichi with everything in his heart as long as the nature and flower theme tamas.
🔔 > Has one of the most playdates
🔔 > Ok care overall
Multislacker
📺 > Actually somewhat takes care of it, but does the bare minimum. Mainly checking on it when he's bored
📺 > Kinda forgets about it until it starts screaming on their desk
📺 > usually get the same tamas because they can't be bothered to actually take care of it to get the different ones
📺 > Plays a game like...once a Life stage
📺 > Bad to mid care
Mouthpiece
📞 > Mainly got them to give to her grandkids but decided to get one for herself because it looked cute
📞 > Has the most problem navigating the menu with the buttons, often asking her grandkids or the other managers who have one for help
📞 > Makes those little cushions, cradles, and covers for it
📞 > Good overall care but with low to mid training
Major Player
🎹 > Use some of the beeps and sounds for music
🎹 > Do enjoy playing with the little guy and seeing all the cute things it does
🎹 > Has one of the most playdates
🎹 > Pianitchi is his daughter and he loves her so much
🎹 > Has a Tamagotchi music stars
🎹 > Pretty good care
Firestarter
🔥 > Only really have playdates with Graham's tama, but he's open to others
🔥 > Takes better care of it than Graham
🔥 > Thinks acchitchi is cool
🔥 > Very good overall care
Plutocrat
🌑 > A family can be 6 mafia capitalist robots. That's it, just 6 mafia capitalist robots with a virtual pet.
🌑 > Lowkey surprised when the Tamagotchi Uni had Italian as a language
🌑 > Takes his tama to the water city because it reminds him of Italy
🌑 > When he's busy with something, he often gives his Tamagotchi to one of the Satellites for them to care for it. (they did eventually get their own Tamagotchi)
🌑 > Likes Yukinkotchi
🌑 > Maxed hunger, happiness, and training
Treekiller
🪓 > Thinks that it's a silly time waster but got invested in it
🪓 > Makes Chip has playdates or  marriage with his tama
🪓 > For some reason, he usually gets the nature-themed tamas
🪓 > Mid care
Chainsaw Consultant
⛓️ > Mainly just sits on his desk until it beeps for something
⛓️ > Don't really pay too much attention to it, often leaving it paused or with a sitter
⛓️ > Low to mid care
FeatherBedder
🦉 > May not be the best person to trust with this
🦉 > Will take somewhat good care of it when he's awake but falls asleep with it unpaused
🦉 > Will wake up with it either dead or face down surrounded it with's own poop everywhere diseased
Pacesetter
🎸 > Him and Flint got matching tamagotchis, they often have little tamagotchis playdates and have each tamagotchis marry the other
🎸 > Mainly keeps it on his wrist but sometimes has it as a keychain
🎸 > Mans in the pace corner, pacing and playing the little games
🎸 > Only really feeds it when it's beeping so he can go back to the games
🎸 > His Tamagotchi will have maxed happiness,  low hunger, and no training
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violivs · 24 days
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NMTDaily: And So It Begins
- Beatrice’s first vlog! What an opening line, I love it lol. I remembered the hand wave on “hello, people of the Internet” having a wider arc across the screen than it actually does, funny enough! Glad I didn’t specify the wide wave when I referenced this line in MARRIED, the fic I posted on the 25th.
- “I’m not too old for Halloween”, girl after my own heart!
- Always thought it was interesting that Bea’s mother is American. I wonder how/why they decided that. It’s the kind of super specific detail that makes Bea feel so real, because who would make that up? It’s also interesting that it means Bea and Ben’s families are both somewhat international. Another parallel for them, another thing they have in common.
- I bet the Aunties’ wedding was the cutest thing ever, imagine Hero and Leo standing up with them! That’s probably the last time all of the Dukes were together before the story starts.
- I’m surprised Bea’s parents moved because her dad got a promotion. I would have assumed her mom did, because we get the impression of her as the high-powered businesswoman. But good for Bea’s dad. Is it canon that he’s a university professor? (Promotion = tenure?) Or did I make that up for fanfic and/or confuse him with Ben’s parents being professors in canon? Listening for that. Maybe Bea’s dad was actually also a business person all along and that’s how her parents met. Who knows.
- Bea says Australia like I say Indiana, lol (no hate to anyone from Indiana though! Just another of those inborn rivalries with the neighbor, like the Oz/NZ one.)
- “A great science program” I forgot Bea was a science person!
- I always loved the set decoration in this room, I remember it’s Hero’s room, and it’s so artsy and cozy and pretty. Love the wall art.
- “Leo and I are in charge of the house for the next six months” Excuse me, does this series really only take place over six months? Well, it ends in the first week of November, so that’s seven full months. I think it felt like it lasted a whole year when it was airing though. Time slowed down during a certain arc for sure.
- “in-joke with myself!” Classic. I kind of love that the text on screen saying “good one Beatrice” is Bea talking to herself again in-world, but out-of-world it’s kind of the Candle Wasters talking, interacting both with their own main character and with the audience. Meta.
- “Sorry my life is so boring” are like, THE famous last words for an LIW protagonist. Honey, you got a big storm coming!
- I was always so incredibly impressed with Beatrice’s independence, her comfort with leaving her parents and essentially being on her own before she even finished high school. I was alone in a college dorm hours away from home when I first watched this, second semester of freshman year if I’m not mistaken, and I could barely believe I’d managed it. I couldn’t imagine doing that any earlier than I had. I thought she was so brave and cool. I think Bea actually shows more hesitation and nervousness than I realized she did in this episode, both because she’s not used to vlogging yet and because being in a new place is nerve-wracking, but I still think she’s so brave.
- It’s so interesting that in a reversal of the play, it’s our Beatrice who comes from away to Messina to start the story, instead of Benedick and the other men returning from war. Of course, we’ll see how the boys’ arrival on the scene is modernized soon enough!
- Harriett does such a great job making you care about Bea and like her right from the start. You just want to keep listening to her talk. I can’t wait to do just that over the next seven months.
- The Benedict Cumberbatch crush is a stroke of genius, but what are the odds that there happens to be a super famous guy named Benedict that you can reference who is at peak relevance in the exact year your MAAN modernization premieres? Truly, this series as it exists could only have happened in 2014. It was the perfect time and the perfect people. What luck.
- Oh, this is the wider arc hand wave I was remembering! It’s just at the end of the video and not the beginning. Funny!
- Covering the camera with her hand and ducking out of frame at the end of her first video is a direct parallel to what Bea and Hero do in their final NMTD video, sliding out of frame and all. Love that.
- I can’t believe how much there is to talk about even with these early episodes. These posts are gonna get so long they’ll have to go under a cut for the later episodes!
💖🦩🥭
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bellewintersroe · 1 year
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Ron Speirs x British girl headcannons Just had the most overwhelming urge to write some head cannons for this scenario as I knew I’d never finish a full fic, but I’d love to read one 😫
this was heavily inspired by ww2 soldiers reuniting with their loves after the war, some not for decades after- my heart can’t take this. Sorry for the break I’ve been super busy, but hopefully will get back to posting asap!!
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Ok so let’s say this girl lives in Aldbourne, England. Maybe she’s around 18/19/20? Still pretty young and living at home, could be working in a shop or in the laundrette, maybe she’s training to be a nurse?
Ron, with the rest of the men were stationed in England, in the same village, so she’d mingle with all of the soldier pretty much immediately. They’d all find her beautiful, but Ron- the minute he set eyes on her he fell in love.
I feel like they’d catch each others eyes from afar, maybe the girl is shy? She’d give him a small smile and her eyes would follow him around, completely entranced by the handsome man.
he’d be in his uniform, and I feel like it would be a sunny afternoon, maybe fairly warm? She might be with her friends or family, but he doesn’t notice, his jaw tenses and he swears his heart fails when she smiles at him.
Ron knows there’s be competition if he doesn’t approach her fast- so it’s almost immediate that he introduces herself, and this is Ron pre-war so he’s less intimidating?
maybe this girl still finds him scary asf cos he is beauty is intimidating.
he’d probably panic and shake her hand? But unlike a lot of the men he’s respectful, still fairly forwards, but he isn’t oozing desperation.
his eyes are glimmering, you know the church scene? He looks so pretty and smart omg.
as I said pre war Ron, I think would be a lot more chatty? He’d take her on walks and it would end up being her dragging him to places she grew up around.
Both their intentions are very clear, and with the threat of war looming Ron has no time for time wasting. Probably would kiss her pretty quickly, would hold both her cheeks like she’s the most precious thing in the world.
ron blushes whenever she kisses him.
Their love is so pure and so intense, whenever they get a moment together they can’t get enough of one another.
He’s protective, keeps an arm around her waist or her arm wrapped around his. She’s not as aware of the persona he has to upkeep so she does get a little playful, maybe wraps her finger around his belt loop.
ron gets confused by this? Also gets confused by the accents surrounding him- maybe when she introduces him to her family he can’t understand a word anybody is saying ?
oh my god the thought of war looming and them having to leave one another is gut wrenching. It makes Ron want to be sick.
When the date does come Ron has to keep himself together during their goodbye, she on the other hand is sobbing against his uniform, neither one of them can bare the idea.
Like I said, Ron isn’t a time waster so promises marriage to her? Like he has a full ring and everything, promises a proper proposal when he’s home?
probably stole the ring let’s be honest.
Write to one another continuously, she worries horrendously and the only thing Ron finds really getting in the way of his secure mindset is her.
He feels soft thinking about her, sad, distracted. He can’t bare it, he’d definitely pour his heart out in all his letters. Would not let any single man in his or any company see these letters or pictures she’s given him, that side of him is reserved for him only.
whenever they return to England for a little while, Ron would be so so happy to reunite with his girl. He’d hug her so tightly and take her away to somewhere the two of them can be alone.
I don’t think either of them would believe in not having sex before marriage, Ron makes love sooo passionately and she literally can’t get enough of the man.
he becomes a little quieter after each time he returns home, she’s worried he’s lost interest, but really the burden of war is heavy on his mind.
so gut wrenching for them both whenever he has to ship out again, and there’s the realisation that the likelihood of him returning to England won’t happen again. That’s soul destroying omfg.
here’s the heartbreaking part, she wants to stay in England to be with her family, but he desperately wants to return to America. They agree to disagree and the letters slowly burn out and become less frequent as the war ends.
He’d go home feeling so lost and burnt out from the war, he continues working working and working to occupy his mind from the girl he’d fallen so deeply in love with.
Ron is absolutely heartbroken. Nobody comes close to her, and the same goes for her, but this heartbreak mixed with the intense grief after the war is so overwhelming. Again, he just has to get on with it.
for years he’d consider writing her, but he’d be scared of rejection- she could be remarried?! Who knew. I think she’d feel the same? She’s so busy with nursing during and after the war, she thinks Ron has most definitely found another pretty European broad and their chances is long gone.
let’s say 5 years down the line? She makes the big move to America with her family, to start a new life after the war, they go chasing the American dream to rid the sadness of loss and grief the family had.
Ron would be on the forefront of her mind, and you best believe she has a weird inkling that they’d bump into one another out there. (Maybe she doesn’t realise how big America is lmao).
anyway, this definitely and sadly doesn’t happen. But she still has his home address, she’s got his telephone number, everything. So a letter gets sent, two weeks later she’s still not heard anything back. Then three weeks pass, a month, two months.
a letter comes when she’s least expecting it. And it’s from Ron. She’s in total shock, he would be in total shock. Ofc, he’s actually nearby? He’s stationed in New York, and he was now working in the military still, in the Korean War.
You best believe Ron is inviting her around to where he’s living. Before the visit he’s a pacing mess, he’s anxious, nervous, excited?! Hell, he’s even scared. A lot had happened in the 5 years between them knowing each other, what if it was awkward?
some how, it’s not. It’s a little tense, but the excitement and the way they pull each other into their arms is tear jerking.
they’d both kinda stare in shock. Ron would have wide eyes and I think she’d just burst into a mixture of a huge smile followed by an emotional breakdown as they simultaneously collapse into each others arms.
Ron truly through he’d lost her, so to have her in his arms once again is soooo insanely overwhelming.
Has to take a seat, but they can’t keep their hands off each other omg.
ron would feel like he wanted to beg and plead for her to stay with him in America, so when she assured him that she’s not going anywhere- he feels like he could literally cry.
Ron doesn’t cry a lot, barely ever, so I think he’d have a couple of tears in his eyes and he gets too choked up to speak- but I don’t think he’d outwardly cry in front of her.
Probs would have trouble getting used to each others accents again.
Feels like a dream come true, they were separated by a whole ocean before, so I don’t think Ron would want her going very far from him ever ever ever again.
let me just tell you now, this man is a sucker for a British accent- so take that how you please ;)
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