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deviantartdramanow · 2 years

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Here we go again with the drama bitch Reddumbassdraws

https://www.deviantart.com/reddragondraws/status-update/I-knew-I-was-gonna-901572772 So cute how much you love us lmao. Ok let's break this down with his petty little insults. ;3

its kinda funny you assume that when this is the first time I would be “having a fit because he can’t shit talk here anymore.” Besides it’s been more so debunking and following along with defending yourself which isn’t that encouraged? https://deviantartdramanow.tumblr.com/post/671343006574657536/red-talia-is-an-unstable-and-dangerous-person-to

Fair point, yet this is coming from a group of people who started a whole false pedo claim campaign hints why I am defending her via dragging on this harassment onto my self. Which funny enough was easy to do given the context they view me was a “dumb groomed child”. So why arent you getting away from her? How many years of collecting 'intel' on her and not one callout or video to claim for it? No others did the hard work and you sat there sucking the farts out of her ass alongside Aiden inflation boi. Debunking...? Where? You came and threw petty insults at the page lil man, not once did you approach the page in a civil manner lmaaaaaaooooo nice try kid. And yes you are a stupid groomed kid because people are TELLING YOU TO GET AWAY and you sit there plugging your ears going 'why is no one helping me?! T_T --- Its funny yall scream that I am “groomed” yet you let this person slide with shipping me the real person with Táll. I only allowed Steve who aparently is a Gary Stu despite having very clear flaws because Táll didn’t TRY AND FORCE ME INTO ANY ERPS AT ALL LMAOO AND BY THE SHIT I WAS REFEREEING TO WHEN I SAID SHOOTING DOWN I MEANT HER TRYING TO HARASS FYI FAIRY AND OTHER MEMBERS JUST TO LATTER ON GET HARASSED BU THESE VERY SAME PEOPLE DOWN THE ROAD MY GOD LMAO. I ALSO HAVE MY VERY OWN PROOF FOR THIS LMAOO. If you clearly see in these screenshots I didn’t “scream insults” nor said “stoop to her level” in this source. The only think I can think make you think that was that I didn’t want to stoop to the tumblr groups level and I’ve stated outside of this. Um because ya are? You have not brought any proof forward otherwise of 'not being on her side' and you have defended her endlessly kiddo. You are a whipped little bitch in our eyes and you need to yank the leash off and leave if you want us to believe you. Get the fuck away from your groomer dumbass. It's called a block button~! Use it next time to shut Tall up for a few weeks. Uh oh gang look out he getting caplock happy! Cuz he wants to sound big and menacing and impressive...when really he sounds like a screaming fetus lmao. =3 Baby need is bottle wah wah? We see the messages there champ, you insulted the fuck out of her and screamed and barraged her with insults, if you had talked like that to a clerk you'd have been flung out of the store on your ass kid. Have manners next time or shut yo mouth. ---

Do you need a mirror? I am only updating It because before I tried doing the “just ignore it” trick and now I’m just done so thats why I lambasted this shit to the public and no I am not obsessing over anybody realy just debunking your claims as soon as they come fresh like I would have had on the circle jerk blog. https://deviantartdramanow.tumblr.com/day/2021/12/24 And yet here ya are shitting your pants angry while picking on a minor, sad. ----

Ok and? I am having a great christmas Infact I’m doing this partly cause of boredom since I have a hard time normaly going to bed at a decent time. It’s just how I’ve always been on winter breaks and shit like that. Seems to me like you are starved for attention loser. Go touch grass for real kiddo, the fact you love drama is abit worrysome, get a life outside sucking on Tall's asshole and drawing 'WAAAAAH FEEL BAD FOR ME' art. Reported it btw =3 ---- Sorry I have to reuse this comeback as it seems very effective like have you looked in a mirror lately? All I’ve done was tell you as a group (notice how I say group) to fuck off since the beginning which is aparently harassment, joked about this backwards logic to my buddies, and mostly just made comebacks. I mean after all y’all got fucking baited into going after me just for me to obviously see you all the exact things you think I do like idk harassment, being obsessive and being in this white knight echo chamber. Maybe learn to take advice when it's given to you and leave your abuser be? The fact you are still here defending her in your pathetic way is kinda sad. Learn to fucking block her and let her scream herself stupid. Or are you afraid Aiden will be awarded all the good boy points as you sit there unloved just like in real life as mommy and daddy shove your stupid ass in the basement? Echo chamber btw? There's a whole ton of us and only one of you. Echo chamber is when you sit there and only have YOURSELF to respond to. Ask Eaokhan about this. Oh wait you cant because she got banned for doing the same stupid shit you are doing. Lars can attribute to this fact. -----

Poor things don’t know how to make effective “arguments” that aren’t just them talking to themselves in a mirror.. Look in the mirror deary, I think that's what we should be saying to you. Awe, look at the poor thing gang, he's so angry and his pants reek of bullshit as he sits there, sucking his pacifier, angry tears in his eyes, as all of us point and laugh at his 'pathetic' arguments but he puts this post up anyways gonig 'THAT WILL SHOW THEM, HUMPH! I CANT SCREAM IN NOTES BECAUSE MOD ISNT A BABYSITTER AND DOESNT WANNA HEAR MY SCREAMING RAGE FITS SO IM GOING TO POST IT HERE AS ALL MY WATCHERS GO 'Is he high or insane? Poor thing lets just keep quiet, he'll scream himself to sleep.' Meanwhile he asks himself 'why wont anyone help me? As the block user button sits there sighing, untouched and unloved as he continues to violate DA rules to scream at someone that isnt his reflection. ---- Ok and? Like ive said I made this satus to just kinda show my points since you decided to be a jackass and silence me. I mean I don’t care if you report it there is nothing wrong with this as this isn’t technically a callout, harassment campaign (as I’ve stated already an ungodly amount of times to just not harass these low lives or else your equal to them), it’s simply rebuttal that if your getting so mad then mabey idk not block it from the tumblr blog…. I mean don’t y’all break rules 4i, 8 and 9 ironically enough? You stank up the page throwing insults dear. Mod got sick of hearing your stupid ranting and no proof whatsoever to back up your claims. Only proof you showed was you love to entice and piss people off to strawman yourself. Disgusting pig. Um yes it is, you named people yet again (Prob shitting your pants angry you cant callout the anons who all are reporting the journal though LMFAO, shit your pants harder it's funny. Imagine getting triggered like this kid. He's malding so hard.) People told you to block Tall and you ignored it, of course we're going to roll up your sleeves and tell you the cold hard facts and that you are stupid to ignore em. Go show the block button on Tall's account some love. You want, yer a pussy and love her too much; PROOF you are GROOMED. =3 Wanna prove us wrong? Then get away from your groomer cowshit for brains. Stop doing cringe rps just give her a fat block and move on with your life. Also mod is no idiot, they know the rules more than anyone and they let the posts come in and approved them. Gonna mock the Mod now because god forbid...your posts were not up to snuff? Cry harder lmao.

Mod note: thanks, kid, for thinking I'm some sort of idiot that slapped some words onto a post and ignore my own rules on a blog that I run. one of the many reasons why I hate kids and I'm not having them cuz of shit like this lmfaooo ----

Me on my alt: *Posts shit not about the group and is giving lore about how Steve has mental issues that stem from him serving in a war*

The group: S U C I C I D E B A I T I N G

In all seriousness though even though admitably it’s poor timing if this was me trying to “suicide bait” I would be not using Steve. I mean watch dis imma about to debunk your whole ass claim with a line of daiolauge. From (which if you notice in the background you can see a guy wearing an m1 helmet)

Nah it's cuz your art breaks DA rules, not even you are above them. Plus it seems your bitch pedo pal has a 'kink' for suicide since she came running in the moment you had your butt ugly piss stain yellow dinosaur go 'imma keel mahself hurr hurr' as she made it all about her. Also maybe learn to block her and stop encouraging her habits hmmm? Nasty ass freak. Suicide isnt a joke and you seem to glorify it with her. You both need help. ----- Also, hope you dont dedicate too much free time to us dear, because we'll all start ignoring you once we move your stupidity over to other art theft blogs and have them share the insanity. Once that happens you or Tall wont be safe, also try telling Kiwi Farms you arent groomd with that bullshit excuse of a journal you have up. You'll be laughed outta there right fast. Long story short dumbass piss stain oc making loser; get a life, block your groomer or the misery will never end with you, or stay by her and get banned alongside her. Because we can and will have you both removed from DA and celebrate when you are gone. Anyways, off to reporting~! DA gonna have fun with you lot. Oh and tell TallTheirfy29 I burned her Christmas Tree and presents, mwah! ~Angel Dust

#submission #drama #deviantart #anon post #response #reddragondraws

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the-worst-fe-player · 3 years

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sure go for it @ the callout post

@corrinferaldragon is the one to report and or block (would @ her directly but the cowred blocked me when I called her a liar and homophobic lol) she is homophobic bitch that lied about being bi sexual as a sheild for her homophobia even tho she is stright. She also steals fan art like a lot of it 50% of her blog is stolen art

Anyway I went on my side account that I dont even use anymore ever since I got discord lol to just continue to call her out in the comments because I'm fucking sorry but I won't have homophobia in this community if I can help it i don't give a fuck who you are

Edit = she also calls being straight the natural order. This info was told to me by britishatheartamerican (a very lovely person with a cool blog btw)

#discourse #cw homophobia

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nirvhannahcornell · 4 years

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Firstly I would like to mention this is NOT the real nirvhannahcornell, this is a burner account made to call out her questionable and horrible actions. The real nirvhannah is known now as “josiebelladonna” and can be found here: @josiebelladonna. She changed her URL and didn’t save this one so I jumped on the golden opportunity.

Some of you may be familiar with Hannah, you’ve probably seen her around on your dash, in the tags of your favorites. She’s there posting fanart and fanfiction, it seems all like harmless fun on the surface. But deep below there’s a grim fuckin reality, a reality no one is talking about. We’ve all sat back and watched her hellish meltdowns. Picking fights with her “fans” because they like her post opposed to reblogging them, getting in public squabbles with her friends over petty shit. We’ve sat back and stayed silent, but I’m not staying quiet any longer. I’ve tried sending her asks to explain herself and without fail every time she’s said tumblr fuckin “ate them” so the next best thing was a public callout. Let’s see the matrix glitch this shit.

The perfect place to begin with her fucking crimes have to be how she tries to push the idea that she’s mixed. I’m fully aware it’s fucked up to call someone’s race to attention like this, and I definitely wouldn’t be if she wasn’t completely faking and tossing racial slurs around like her lilywhite ass can claim them. To my knowledge and to the research I’ve done, Hannah isn’t mixed. Her dad and brother are fully white and so is she. She’s tried to claim having “african blood” and “native american blood” (of course she says I*dian but we’ll get into that later), but from what I’ve seen there is no “african blood”, I’m 100% sure she did a test on ancestry.com and saw she was .0000001% african american and decided to call herself mixed. The “native american blood” she claims to have is ALLEGEDLY from her great grandfather, but I’d take that fact with a grain of salt because she seems to be a compulsive liar.

(Note how her racist ass unabashedly says I*jun for everyone to see. But it’s okay guys, she’s 1/64th Native American!)

(Here she is claiming to be mixed race. Notice how she says “I*dian roots” and “African Blood”. That shit busted as fuck like what the fuck does she even…)

(Here’s some more posts claiming to have “black heritage” and then somehow making it about how Joey “talked about her” on a podcast. (I’ll get into that too (: )

This isn’t the first instance of her using racial slurs publicly for you me and god to see. We’re all looking and I wish I couldn’t see. Here’s a few examples.

(“My I*jun boy” “I*jun orange” I literally cannot make this bullshit up.)

(“My I*dian beauty” “my favorite I*dian'' (she is also grungeandmetalfanfics btw!!))

She claims she can say these things, I guess because she’s .0000000004% Native American! Makes it a-OK! I guess because she has “African Blood” she can say the N-Word then? No? Oh well, she did it anyway!

(Her argument, I’m guessing, is she can say I*jun because Joey (an actual Native American man) says it. Which makes no fucking sense because shes fucking white she can’t say it.)

If this wasn’t insane enough. As if it could possibly get even more horrible. She is overall just genuinely a bad person. If you ever supported her art with a like, you would know. Because apparently that shit peeves the fuck out of her. Even though you’re showing your support she loses her fucking mind when you don’t reblog anything she’s produced. (I don’t blame you it’s shit anyways) And then tries to guilt all of her followers into reblogging her shit. It’s manipulative and horrible.

(this didn’t last of course she's too full of herself to stay away.)

Note how she makes it seem like she was blessing us with her content. Did you know she existed before this? She plagues fandom tags with her shitty fanart and fanfiction thinking we should bow to her and be fucking blessed with her presence. Maybe we should, she claims to have a fond relationship with Chris Cornell!

Oh.. Wait…

(one of the 2 interactions she had with him, both pertaining to fanart she drew. He would do this often, respond to fans and their fanarts. This is nothing special)

(Her dad calling her out on her delusions)

Don’t let her fool you. Her and Chris Cornell didn’t know each other, they weren’t friends. Chris had no clue who she was beyond the fanart she made for him. She’s literally so deep in this fantasy she’s insane enough to think she could’ve prevented Chris’ suicide.

(She also believed ben shepherd was in love with her. She sent him a letter and he didn’t respond. Apparently he owed something to her because she opened up to him via letter and, as you would expect a famous person who definitely has someone who goes through their mail for them, he didn’t respond. I don’t know how in the FUCK she ever got the idea that he was in love with her. I don’t know what in the FUCK is wrong with her. She eventually got pissed because she found out he had a kid with his girlfriend? And apparently he was supposed to tell her? She’s fucking delusional look into that if you want, I don’t have enough time or evidence for that one, it’s certainly a lot.)

A new installment in her delusions is the infamous Jasta Show feat. Joey Belladonna. It’s a 2+ hour long podcast where they mostly talk about the pandemic and what not, current events going on. Allegedly, in this podcast, Joey says Hannah’s name.

I sat through the entire podcast (Joey says holy cow about 5 fucking times) and timestamped at 106:58 they start talking about Chris Cornell. To which Joey says “oh, we talked about him yesterday because some girl was drawing some stuff- she liked him a lot. and I thought about him too.” Nonspecific. Plain. There’s no fireworks or warmth or whatever the fuck. He mentions that and moves on. I’ve timestamped it for you all, the podcast is free to listen to, you can all listen to it yourself. (The Jasta Show 517 Joey Belladonna) Unless her name is “some girl” there was no name drop.

(no one gave a shit because it wasn’t that big of a fucking deal “some girl”)

Don’t let her fool you with her delusions. She also makes it seem like her and Krista (Joey’s wife) are friends when really Krista likes most all posts that are #joeybelladonna on Instagram. They aren’t close, they aren’t buddies or whatever the fuck.

(Here’s that one shit she keeps talking about raw fucking format or some shit idk it’s a fucking side project Joey started that’s probably not even Joey messaging her they have 140 something followers I don’t even feel like getting into this dumbassery. Fucking clown.)

If you aren’t convinced enough in her insanity. Hannah has literally used Cliff’s accident as a plotpoint in her shitty fanfiction. Yes,that's right. She’s used Cliff Burton’s real life tragic accident as a plotpoint in a fanfiction with Joey and Lars. Not only did she do that, but she shoehorned Joey into the fucking accident. Like they’re all fictional characters. It’s fucking vile and insensitive.

(The fucking post she linked was the infamous pic of Lars, James and Kirk after the accident)

In conclusion, Hannah is batshit crazy. She’s insane. She wants us to believe she’s mixed because she’s obsessed unhealthily with Joey Belladonna and wanting to look and be like him. She wants us to believe she’s friends with all of these musicians, that they’re in love with her. That they were close. None of this is true. She’s just a lying, rude, self centered, fucking psychotic bitch and if you know her I’d suggest staying away.

Not even her fucking friend wants to be involved.

#nirvhannahcornell #josiebelladonna #grungeandmetalfanfics #badmotorartist

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crackshotingggggg · 5 years

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I'm aware of what happens when people show their face and go against kirmun. They get harassed by people like you until they are run off the site, whether they're wrong or right. But hey. Have fun joining in the witch hunts.

“have fun joining the witch hunts” bitch one of the people kirmun went after called me, an autistic person, r*tarded 20 times in her ‘scathing’ response to her own callout post then constantly misgendered me throughout it (who, btw, is still on this website after doing a sloppy coverup of who she is so your ‘they get harrassed until they are run off the site’ doesn’t even fucking apply half the time)

How about you go up to a person irl and say ‘oh yeah I want to be fucked by a big dicked wolf’ and see how they feel anyways.

ps: I don’t harass people, I have better shit to do. You’re just mad because kirmun is calling out someone for enjoying pedo scat porn. If anything, the only one harrassing people here is you so uh, get a life.

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andagony · 6 years

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name cat / deeds. star sign aries sun / leo moon / scorpio rising height 5′ 1 & 1/2″ what’s your middle name? noelle. put your itunes music player on shuffle. what are the first 6 songs that popped up?

blue monday - orgy.

white wedding - billy idol.

black eyes - radical face.

knees - voltera.

dear god - lawless & sydney wayser.

jesus for the jugular - the veils.

ever had a poem or song written about you? not to my knowledge but i’ve dated some bleeding heart artist types over the years and i’m pretty confident there’s a nasty scribble in an edge lord’s diary somewhere about what a bitch i am. all true btw.

when was the last time you played air guitar? yesterday morning probably. :(

who is your celebrity crush? tabrett bethell because some things never change. :’)))

what’s a sound you hate; sound you love? hate — basically anything monotone that builds in pitch. like the thq logo. also the sound of people eating makes me actively fantasize about killing myself; love — rolling thunder. not rain itself, necessarily, but the sound of a storm building up is very relaxing.

do you believe in ghosts? okay look . . . i’m not saying i 100% believe in them, but i am saying that enough weird shit has happened to warrant some skepticism over the years.

how about aliens? hi, i listened to a documentary about the moon being hollow once on accident so i’m basically a space expert. that means that everyone has to agree with me that only arrogance lets us think there aren’t other things living out there somewhere. i didn’t make the rules.

do you drive? i don’t know if i’d call those anxiety attacks driving per se.

if so, have you crashed? this is a callout post and i don’t like it. oKAY. so like . . . in my defense, the guy was in a black truck, it was storming, and it was 11:30 at night. i was finally off work and i just wanted to go home? so badly? that i didn’t stop at the intersection and??? the t - bone that cost 2k+ lololol. :((( fuck man. and he had to be one of my step - father’s coworkers.

what was the last book you read? grotesque, by natsuo kirino.

do you like the smell of gasoline? ?????????????????????? nO

what was the last movie you saw? i started watching tws and then i got sad about steve rogers and turned it off so i wouldn’t start crying like a sissy baby. so. the usual.

what’s the worst injury you’ve ever had? i tripped while jump roping when i was little and smashed my nose on the asphalt? which was pretty fucking gross. and while that was 100% more severe, ripping out my eyebrow ring was exponentially more traumatic cause i got it stuck in my sweater and lolol the slow, burning pain of your face tearing open. good times.

do you have any obsessions right now? girls. i love girls. all girls.

do you tend to hold grudges against people who have done you wrong? i want to say i’m a decent person, capable of forgiveness and the ability to move on. but that would make me a liar and steve rogers would be disappointed in me. can’t help it. i’ll give second chances sometimes but typically? i ain’t about that knife in the back kinda life. shit is too short to surround yourself with shady half - friends.

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spidypool · 7 years

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Sexism at Bed Bath & Beyond

I want to take a moment to talk with you guys about sexism. I know a lot of people view it as a dying problem or not as bad as it once was. And come on sexism at a retail store? Really? No exactly an important area. Well strap in I’m about to tell you a long slightly rambling story about the most badass woman of color I know.

So if you don’t mind taking a moment out of your busy days to read this post. Because I’m writing this about one fucking amazing woman and the shit she has to deal with. I know this won’t get reblogs or comments or whatever but I’d like some people out there to know about what’s happening because she deserves some sort of recognition.

Now first let me tell you a little background so you understand the settings and such. My store is called store 42. It is the largest Bed Bath and Beyond in the world and it is located in the busiest area Chelsea in New York City. On sixth avenue if you wanna get specific. It is also known as the flagship store. On a daily bases we get more foot traffic than quite a few stores have in a week. And I’m talking about our slow days here. We also get a lot of celebrities in here because of the location. So check out is a very busy area.

I work in what we call the Frontend. The Frontend is where you pay. It is also the broader term that refers to three departments; customer service, home delivery, and checkout. Though when we say Frontend we usually means checkout. I’m officially called a cashier though I haven’t been just a cashier in years. I am also trained in customer service, home delivery, and the office. Yes our store is so big we have a floor for all the offices and receptionists answer phones.

Now every store has a hierarchy and recently the titles of this hierarchy changed. But most of the time it is generally the same in. BBB it goes like this:

Store Manager – the boss

Seniors – these are like the top dogs of the store. They each supervise a section of the store such as Frontend, Hardside, Home Accents, Bedding, and Bath

LOD aka Leader on Deck – they are the person in charge of the whole store only during set periods of time really this person is who we call when a final decision needs to be made. These people are typically higher ranking Department Supervisors.

Department Supervisor (Previously called manager)

LEAD (Previously called supervisor why the name change? No clue! Also they are pretty much a department supervisor just without the pay)

Associate or Cashier

Now in the Frontend/Customer Service there must always be a LEAD or Department Supervisor (DS). During the day there are four people schedules to cover these departments. Two for each department, one in the morning and one in the evening. There is a little crossover to cover breaks and such. That is the minimum required to run the Frontend properly. The Frontend LEADs/DS are extremely busy. And there are a lot of jobs that need to be done. But the thing is none of the LEADs/DS do shit. Like seriously it’s ridiculous. They do the basics that’s it. Only Shelina does anything. She in fact does everything. And frankly that’s not fair to her.

She does:

The cashiers schedules

Writes the breakdowns (breakdowns tell the cashiers which register they are on and when their break is)

Orders products

Orders candy

Orders drinks

Orders change

Changes products (the Frontend unlike other departments changes what products are featured there based off the season for example we just had the summer season and then we changed it to back to college and now we’re changing it to the holidays/cooking)

Deals with incoming shipments

Product refills

There isn’t anything she doesn’t do. And no one helps her. She does it by herself. She works so hard she rarely takes breaks. She doesn’t have the time. She never complains when all the cashiers call out in the morning and not only does she have to do everything listed above but also be the cashier. She never complains when she is the only one closing or only has one person to help. She still gets everything done. Unlike very other LEADs/DS who bitch about it constantly.

This woman is a fucking superhero. She is the only Supervisor who is respectful and has your back. She won’t yell at you and in fact has never raised her voice. Mind you when she’s pissed you know it but she uses her words and makes it clear how she feels.

This woman spent the last two years teaching me everything she knows in order to have someone around to help her because she’s getting older. She a mother of 3 and a grandmother of 3 who helps out her daughter with her grandson by watching him every weekend. This woman is amazing.

Not a single Department Supervisor or LEAD helps her. When she orders drinks or candy and they come in instead of putting them where they belong everyone else puts signs on them saying for Shelina. Like seriously it is not hard to sort the candy by what department it is stored in. This job is not rocket science.

Every single cashier loves her because she is the only person we can rely on. In fact when she goes on vacation we all have to bare ourselves for the chaos that comes. Even callouts are higher because no one wants to deal. The other LEADs/DS can’t even write the breakdown themselves. They literally cannot survive without her. She inspires such loyalty in us when BBB fired 90% of the Managers all of us swore if she was one of them we’d walk out because no way where we going to deal with the shit storm of this job without her.

And BTW BBB fired most of their managers and when I mean most I mean about 90%. They fired so many that there was literally no one in charge and there still really isn’t in a lot of the departments. Plus they had no plan for what to do after they were gone. These people where with the company for at least 10 years a piece. It is disgusting they fired these long time employees with no warning just to save a few dollars. They made up the best of the company.

Now recently our Store Manager Christin left and we got a new store manager Anthony. Now like I said everyone knows Shelina is the one to run the Frontend which means she takes care of the most important department with little to no help. Frankly I don’t count. Only Anthony refuses to go talk to her rather going to Demascus I guess the next higher up after Shelina. Now Demascus does shit. He talks down to people and treats women like objects. If he can’t flirt/hit on/charm you well he doesn’t like you. He needs to have his little fan club. He’s been there the longest after Shelina and you’d think he’d know how to do the basics like order products, figure out what product should go up on the pillar, how to put the product on the pillar so it looks “filled and full” (Shelina taught me that the product wall must always look “filled and full” and there should never be an empty peg or be able to see the white of the wall). I recently watched him try to redo a pillar with the new season’s products and the results looked like a giant mess.

I gave Anthony the benefit of the doubt that he was new and didn’t know how this store worked. Though I felt like Christin wouldn’t have left without teaching him the ropes. But time goes by and Demascus still fails and Anthony still won’t talk to Shelina. He also gets confused when he sees me doing the physical aspect of my job. Now people like to joke that I’m Shelina’s assistant and in a way that’s true. She can’t do a lot of the physical aspects of the job anymore so I climb ladders, take down products, run back and forth getting stuff, ect. Did I mention I’m a girl? No yeah well I am. And I do more of the physical aspects of the job then most of the guys. I’m willing to do this for her. In exchange she teaches me.

Then Shelina said something to me. She said oh it’s because he’s sexist and thinks that Demascus (the man) should be in charge of all that. Great the guy who likes to do nothing is now in charge of everything. That’s going to work out great. So Shelina being Shelina saves him, again and again, because as I said before he knows shit. She does everything Anthony tells Demascus to do. Now she does this because she takes pride in her work and pride in how her department looks. It doesn’t matter who gets the credit to her.

But see she’s getting tired because no one is helping her. There is only so long someone can go without any help. Everyone they promote or higher none of them want to do shit or learn. She spent two years training me in the hopes that I would become a LEAD and she would finally get help. But I recently learned I will never be promoted. Not because I’m not good at my job but because I’m not liked this having to do with an incident where they scheduled no managers to work so the LODs had to cover the department. Now the LOD in question was Fei. Now everyone knows that Shelina trained me and I can literally run the department by myself at this point so guess what he did? He left me alone in the Frontend and never came back. So I did what I had to do and I ran the department. I made sure things didn’t fall apart. Because of the Fei helped to spread rumors about me and how I talked about the other LEADs/DS behind their backs in order to cover up the fact he left me alone. This cost me any chance at a future with the company. Shelina is still bitter about this fact while I have sadly accepted my fate. The only regret I have is I will never be able to help take off some of the pressure she has to deal with.

Back to the main point. There was an incident today. We keep the Dyson (expensive vacuum cleaners) up on high shelving in the Frontend. Not that this is in anyway remotely safe. These vacuums are heavy and located extremely high up and they over fill the shelves to the point the weight is literally bending the metal. Now usually if there isn’t any of a model on the shelf usually we don’t have it. Last week we learned that while we didn’t have any of a particular model on the shelf there was some located on what we call the Mez (a storage area located above the loading dock). But did anyone get them and bring them to the Frontend? Nope. And Shelina and I had no idea about them cause guess what? No one tells anyone anything. There is zero communication in this store.

We have a “Dyson lady” who is there for a few hours a day from the Dyson Company to talk about their product. We used to have a lovely woman there only recently this new lady (a fucking disrespectful and rude bitch) came to the store.

Now we have cards that the models on them and the customer brings them to the checkout gives them to us and we get the Dyson down. Only the customers kept bringing cards to vacuums we didn’t have. So she told me to go get the cards to the ones we didn’t have to prevent the mix up. And when I tried to do this the Dyson Lady yelled at me how we have the vacuums in the store like seriously how the fuck was I supposed to know. It was on the Mez no one fucking goes up there. I then tell her that unfortunately no one brought them down and I wasn’t able to get to them. Why you might ask? Because they are fucking large ass vacuum cleaners and the only way to bring them down was to lug them down the fucking stairs all the way from the back of the largest BBB in the world to the front of the store. I am not that strong.

So I go back to the front and go to tell Shelina but I don’t get the chance cause here comes Dyson Lady with Anthony. I don’t know what is said between them but it probably wasn’t good. What I do catch is what Anthony asks about “well which Dyson’s so we have up here?” and I answer because I’ve been the one going up and down the ladder all morning getting them for customers.

Shelina has me take him over to the Dyson’s only he then curses Shelina out like WTF you don’t say shit about your employees especially to those directly under them. He’s literally saying the nastiest shit about my superior to me and I’m at the bottom of the food chain. He is the goddamn store manager you’d think he’d have some respect. He then tells me “I don’t a fucking damn what Shelina tells you I’m your boss not her” and excuse fucking you. She’s never told me any sort of shit like that. She’s never told me to obey her over others. You know why I listen/chose her over the others? Because she treats me with respect and kindness something 98% of BBB Supervisors don’t do. In fact she’s never said a bad word about any of them other than that she’s disappointed in how they do their jobs because she knows they could do better. They just choose not to. Not only that Shelina is in fact my boss and you are her boss. He is so disgusting in what he says I am in literally shock and can’t manage to say a word in retort which I truly regret now though maybe it’s better I didn’t say what I wanted to because frankly he is fucking misogynistic sexist asshole and I would have said it right to his face. I have loyalty to those around me whether I like them or not we’re all here to do a job. Unlike him who apparently will say the nastiest fucking shit about his employees.

Now then he tells me he wants me to do the count (the count is when we count up the valuable products in the store to know how many we have this is done every morning) from now on and be in charge of the Dyson’s. I point out that I’m not a LEADs/DS and I don’t do the count. He then asks “why the fuck is he talking to me?” which frankly why is he? I tell him it’s because he wanted to know what Dyson we have. He then tells me to go get the missing Dyson’s from the Mez with “my buddy” Anthony (AJ is what he goes by thanks for remembering what name he uses). He tells me this with a wink and a nudge like we’re fucking high school girls talking about the guy I’m secretly dating. Now AJ is my best friend. My friend. We aren’t dating and I have no intention of ever dating him. It also isn’t a secret we’re close but everyone knows this and knows we aren’t together. People have assumed we’re dating before cause apparently a guy and girl can’t just be friends but what throws me is the fact my fucking boss my fucking elder boss like in his sixties made a insinuated sexual reference between me and a friend/coworker. That tell you what he thinks about men and women.

I shouldn’t be blown away by the sexism shown by my store manager. I’ve heard a lot of things. Two of my male LEADs/DS spoke horribly about a female LEADs/DS right in front of me. It was so disgusting in fact I avoided them for the rest of the day. People have the tendency to forget I’m there because I’m quiet and all over the place. They just say whatever in front of me. But still my store manager being a sexist pig to my DS caught me off guard. He’s only been with the company for a year Shelina has been with the company for over twenty. She knows more about BBB than anyone. And yet because she is a woman all her years of experience, all her hard work mean nothing.

If you’ve gotten this far thank you for reading. I know I went a little all over the place here but I hope you got my point. This amazing badass woman is treated like shit on a daily basis. I just wish there was something I could do other than writing this stupid blog post about it. Because she deserves the world.

#bed bath and beyond #sexism #feminism #woc #anti sexism #I hope I properly showed how awesome and badass of a woman she is for dealing with this shit on a daily basis #she is fucking incredible and I'm proud to know her #rambling

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rpchater-blog · 7 years

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rant #1 out of however many my ass gon post. prolly not a lot i ain’t gonna lie this shits gonna last like a week before i get bored but LMAO whatever. let’s talk abt “”callout culture”” y’all. but remember, ain’t nobody askin you to read anything so if u ain’t fuckin w my shit then don’t get into it. let’s fuckin go

CALLOUT CULTURE lmfao take a shot every time my ass mentions that on this blog. now before y’all get all up in my inbox again talkin bout “but aren’t u doing that ?? :///” i gotta say that HELL YEAH i’m a fan of callin people out. everybody deserves to know they’re fuckin up some shit, and sugar coating ain’t necessary. but i’m talkin abt this shit that spread throughout the rpc hella quick and i see some people that are as against it as i am. i’ve never personally experienced this shit myself, but i seen it around, and i sympathize w those who don’t deserve it

now, y’all asses can callout some problematic hoes when they’re bein racist, sexist, transphobic, ableist, homophobic, thieves, liars, abusive, etc. u know, just bein an all around dick. that’s when i agree w calling out some mother fuckers. BUT Y’ALL STARTED DOIN THIS SHIT TO LITERALLY ANYBODY !!!!!!!!! some bitch could name their character katie, then someone else names their character katie and y’all out here posting PSA’s all “this rper is a thief for taking my characters name!!! BEWARE OF THIS TOXIC PERSON!!!!!!” or someone can accidentally be problematic then give a thorough, sincere apology but y’all still be leakin their aliases/muse names/urls n all that other shit. we’re all here to have fun or escape or some shit, n y’all really be shitting on ppls fun just bc they made u mad in some fuckin way. the amount of ppl i’ve seen go thru bullying over something so small or after recognizing their dumbass actions n giving a genuine apology is sad as fuck to me. yall some rude ass people and need to learn what “talkin one on one” means. unless they’re clearly some shitty ass person who aint gonna change, keep ur callouts to ya damn self

now, not to hate on any fuckin body, but i saw this shit earlier that made me laugh my ass off.. n i just HAD to mention it bc it really was stupid as hell. some dumbass drama over some rps called listhq n listshqs or some shit like that. don’t really remember exactly how the urls went, but what i do remember is thinkin well shit.. another unnecessary callout post. to catch yall up, one accused the other of stealin plots, which i’d get if these ppl copied and pasted every damn thing from the “original” rp. but here’s the thing.. it was a bucketlist rp ((((shit that ive seen done more than once lmao aint nobody being original)))) w a similar url. each had their own twist to it, but still ppl were bein accused of bein thieves. sure, this shit would piss anyone off .. ive seen shit like that happen to rps that ive ran. IT SUCKS SOME NASTY ASS, but how many times have yall seen a rp revolving around rich kids in beverly hills ?? lit every fuckin week. all these rps got the same ass url too uk “beverlyhq”, “beverlyhillshq”, “hillshq”, i can go on. (((not shittin on any active rps that have this exact plot btw just using an example)))) point is, none of these ppl are makin aggressive ass callout posts bc they had similar ideas. this was an easy fix but we gotta turn it into some dumbass drama instead. the rpc is unoriginal, thought we all knew that ??? theres only so many plots u can do that can work w big groups

so basically what im sayin is .. i deadass see this shit all the damn time in the rpc and its ugly as hell. y’all really think yall some fuckin queens n kings. let me break it to u... yall aint shit. we all doin the same ass creepy shit... basically catfishing as our fcs but its cool bc we’re all on the same boat. idk when this shit started, but i remember rp back in 2012-13 bein nice n happy as hell. now yall just angry n rude ( YES INCLUDING ME!!!!! )

i’m just sayin y’all... handle your own shit n if that doesn’t work, then call the bitch out. but otherwise, just grow the hell up, thas all

#if anyone mentioned wants me to delete some shit jus let me kno i aint that mean #twitter rp #rpt #rph #rpc #rp rant

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fearducts-blog · 7 years

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AN OPEN LETTER FROM EVERYONE I’VE EVER MET TO VULGAR / MORTEM.

I bet y’all thought my drama days were over, but surprise surprise, I have come “rinse crying” back to this fandom because, I understand, Vulgar. You found paradise in America, you had a good trade, you made a good living. The police protected you and there were courts of law. You didn’t need a friend like me. But, now you come to me, and you say: “kindly kiss my ass” But you don’t ask with respect. You don’t offer friendship. You don’t even think to call me Godfather. Instead, you come into my house on the day my daughter is to be married, and you make my friend cry in public because you follow bait her, publicly post about how much of a terrible person she and everyone else in this fandom is and then once again pinpoint the negative reputation you have built up for yourself on everyone but you.

I don’t know what her URLs are these days because frankly, in spite of what she will tell you, up until two days ago, I could not have given less of a shit if I tried, but going by the screenshots I’ve seen lately this post is going to concern: woshi-tuzi / twinblcdes / gelosiia / buside / baolii / puntirotti any other blogs run by Vulgar / Mortem. Not gonna lie, this is a long post, there’s a lot to go over here, and a lot of it’s going to seem like old, irrelevant, petty high school drama, because that’s exactly what it fucking is, but since Vulgar is still using drama from a year ago as her sword and shield to treat others badly, it’s long overdue that we did some good old fashioned air clearing.

I guess we’ll start with breaking down what tipped everything over the edge, this charming message that was sent to Elle; X. ( in reference to this hot vague, but we’ll get back to that later. )

“ WHAT MOMO AND IVY DID TO ME ”

We stopped talking to her, and blocked her after an argument that transpired in private — that’s it, that’s all we did. You can skip this section if you want to skip year old high school level drama, but if not...

It all happened because she guilt tripped me for taking over 10 minutes to reply... as it happens, I wasn’t replying to her because it was 3am where I was and I was fucking trying to sleep, not that the time difference matters because it was 10 minutes and not to be crude, but I could have been doing anything, I could have been taking a shit and that was apparently grounds for a guilt trip. And while I’ll admit, I could have handled it better, I’m really not here to be guilt tripped on account of not replying to someone because I’m asleep whenever they message me, because in spite of proclaiming me their “best friend”, after a month of me living in a UTC+8 timezone, they still haven’t clocked onto the fact that I’m working to a different schedule to them. So this exchange happened : X. ( call me a herpetologist bc I know you’re a snake, Vulgar, so before you say anything about the time stamps, these are your logs, not mine. ).

Anyway, you might think this has nothing to do with Ivy, and you’d be absolutely right, it doesn’t. But Vular went to her anyway and deliberately misrepresented the situation, now fortunately, not only am I a herpetologist, but I'm too, am a fucking snake, so knowing Vulgar was going to pull the same shit she did in the past where she came to me to bitch about close friends of mine following minor disputes, where whenever she had an argument with someone over skype she’d send me an MS Word version of the logs????? Before going back to bed, I straight up sent Ivy the chat logs in the immediate aftermath, I didn’t bitch about Vulgar, I just showed Ivy what happened, said I was a bit pissed off and that I wanted her to know what happened in case she was put in the middle.

Guess where she was put the very next day and who tried to put her there!! X, X, X, X. Ivy told Vulgar how things looked from an outsiders perspective and that she should apologize, she even told Vulgar how to go about doing it. And we’ve all done it, we’ve all had skype drama we’ve copy / pasted to a friend, but the thing is, Vulgar was deliberately twisting things here because by her own admission, she did not like that Ivy and I spoke to each other more than we did to her. What she likes to justify this with was “I just wanted a friend to lean on”, no you didn’t. Also, “the one time I needed it, she was so callous to me”, bullshit, you came to me every single day with a problem and I always helped you through it, I held your hand through the polycoria drama, like I cringe at the thought of this post but: X, you can’t say I was callous to you the one time you needed it, not when you posted this, not when every day in the run up to this, you came to me with a new issue about someones’ OC “cockblocking one of your ships” or someone not wanting to be mains with you.

Anyway!! Vulgar told Ivy she was going to apologize, and to the surprise of probably no one, did not. Sadly, I no longer have screenshots because I’ve since changed computers and honestly, I did not anticipate having to write this, I thought we had all agreed privately to just hate each other and move tf on, but... back to the point, in spite of her being walked through all this I still had to ask Vulgar to address how unfair she was. She might have counted finally doing so as an apology, I did not. Again, it had nothing to do with Ivy... but guess who got dragged into it anyway — again? So, we each wound up in arguments with her:

X, X, X

Vulgar apologized to me twice after this, I accepted neither apology, the first because I was hungover and I honestly and thankfully went to sleep forgot to reply. The second because, at that point it was so far in the past and her name had been kept out of both mine and Ivy’s mouths for so long, that I didn’t think it even begged addressing, I wanted to just avoid her tbh: X, X. “Look shady?” Yes. Because you sent this to me whilst still misrepresenting the entire situation to anyone who would listen, you were not sorry at all.

Ivy never got an apology in spite of being dragged into this petty bullshit against her will btw. And I think it’s pretty rich of Vulgar to claim we freely talked shit about her meanwhile sending out spicy skype messages like this about Ivy; X. Also post this vague; X, which just so happens to coincide with when Ivy refused to leave the fandom even after being stalked, harassed and having her art stolen; X

EDIT: Btw, that was really classy of you introducing me to Ivy and then privately messaging me to tell me “she’s nice but I’ll never forget she vagued about you”, then linking me to her supposed vague, like I want you guys to be friends but keep in mind not to get too close to her. Nice try Vulgar, what she posted were fucking Melanie Martinez lyrics, you played yourself.

EDIT 2: Because wow, the shit just keeps coming out about you, doesn’t it?! I realize the irony of saying this in this post of all things, but it was really nice of you to go around telling people who were new to the fandom that I was the source of all the discomfort and drama, that I was such a horrible person who was only out to bully people and chase them away for no good reason while we were still, as you put it “best friends”, while at that stage the only drama I had been involved in was when you came to me and said you were scared and uncomfortable because of someone, you’re such a good friend Vulgar (: I really appreciate that thing you did where you tried to isolate me from everyone else in the fandom, to what fucking end?!

“ WHAT HILAL DID TO ME ”

Imagine being 28 and so asshurt by what a teenager says about you on the internet ( ie. that you shipped underage incest at the age of 27, which you... you did, you literally did: X, X, X, X ) that you... lie to another teenager and get them to write a callout post in your stead so that you can personally avoid the backlash while still damaging the reputation of said person. If it sounds familiar, it’s because it’s exactly what Vulgar did: X , X , X , X, X.

Here’s an album of the exchange Hilal had with Mysteriia following that “call out”, note how they don’t deny who and what prompted them to make it, only dance around the topic: X.

Was Hilal in the wrong to name drop Vulgar in the first place? Yes, it shouldn’t have been brought into the public eye. However, he didn’t do it without reason and he told her that: X. He has since left her alone entirely.

So then there’s... the paedophilia drama, which we won’t go into too much detail about, but Vulgar, you participated in, you agreed with Hilal of your own volition, and then because it was no longer convenient for you to, you lied to Skitty about it to paint me and Hilal ( and for some reason Ivy who wasn’t even involved, nor even in the rp community at the time, as far as I’m aware? ) in a negative light to them: X, X. Anyway, Hilal’s posts pertaining to this drama can be found here: X, X. It was pretty much all dash drama and it happened back in 2015, so a lot of it’s hard to dig up again, I know both Hilal and I spoke out of anger and there are a lot of things I’d do differently, so maybe I did inflame things, and if I did, I apologize. But Vulgar, I think that’s a pretty cheap thing of you to say considering I confided in you about being a CSA victim.

Also by the by, Hilal and Elle don’t even know each other, so Vulgar, you can drop the notion that we all meet up buck ass naked under every blood moon, rattling skulls and talking shit about you or whatever it is you claim is going on: X. Elle and Hilal have nothing to do with each other, funny how different people have different reasons to dislike you, almost as if you’ve done many things to hurt many people in this fandom...

Oh yeah, and:

[03:04:32] tumblr use pourir: can you say that i dropped all my fucking blogs bc of vulgar [03:04:52] tumblr use pourir: and that i had anxiety literally eating away at me for weeks because i felt i was off base

“ WHAT THEY ALL DID TO ME ”

Yeah, it sure is awful when people don’t buy into your pass agress posts and the fact that you blame all your problems on other people without taking a step back to look at how you’re treating people, isn’t it: X, X.

It’s really, truly terrible they ask you to tag something and you lose your fucking shit with them: X, X ( relevant links: 1, 2.). And again, it’s another situation where things could have been handled better from all sides, but Bellus apologized for what happened, you did not.

Heartbreaking, when you vague about them during their first week in the fandom because someone who isn’t you makes them a theme, and you passive aggressively throw ms paint quality graphics at them: X.

Completely and utterly devastating when another roleplayer blocks you and you then proceed to make them uncomfortable by repeatedly messaging them, following them on all your subsequent blogs, in spite of people literally telling you not to, and then when you’re ignored / blocked again, starting rumours that they have a crush on you and are blocking you to save their relationship until the point they get so uncomfortable they leave the fandom.

When you guilt trip someone on account of... not putting you in their follow forever??? Because they forgot??? They literally forgot??? Not like that happens with follow forevers is it??? X, X, X. Also when said person makes it publicly known that they’re feeling extremely low and would like to be left alone and you continue to pressure them into speaking to you: X, X.

Or when you do some good old fashioned general guilt tripping: X, X, X, X, X, X.

EDIT: let’s not forget, you’re notorious for pressuring people into ships, for getting asshurt and bitching about them when they don’t want to go exclusive with you or add you as a main.

And you often fall back on telling people it’s because you have anxiety, that you can’t help but go off at people because of it. You know what, I have bpad and guess who and who alone is 100% accountable for my actions? That’s right, it’s me!! Just because you have anxiety does not mean it is a free pass to treat people badly, you are accountable for your own behaviour, you ought to apologize and do it sincerely, not because someone asks you to, not because you want to save your own skin.

“ REPEATEDLY. ”

At first I was just gonna say no to this and leave it at that. But I’m guessing this is in reference to people from the tg fandom following Vulgar on other blogs in other fandoms, so...

You can’t really argue that Hilal followed you to your bsd blog when you followed him first; X.

You can’t argue that Ivy followed you to the Naruto fandom either when you followed her; X.

And lastly, you can’t say Elle followed you to the fma fandom when again: X, you followed her first and then immediately posted this hot vague about her and everyone else in the tg fandom. And even at that, you followed her blog from your tg ones before; X. Which doesn’t exactly do anything to dispel the idea that you’re follow baiting, does it?

If this is in reference to how Ivy and I “freely talked shit about you”, we didn’t. A lot of people will vouch for the fact that they didn’t hear about anything that happened until your behaviour towards Elle catalyzed this post.

“ HAD YOU BEEN UPFRONT WITH YOUR ALIAS ”

First and foremost, fam, change your container dimensions. Secondly, “you failed to read my rules”, okay cool, but again, you followed Elle first, she broke none of your rules by following you back, unaware of who you were, and if you wanted your rules read so desperately, it might’ve been a good shout to read idk... literally the first line of hers: X, like if rules are so important to you, you can’t claim ignorance here.

And for the record, Elle’s alias has never been hidden or changed, it’s in plain sight on all her other blogs, so as to how you pulled this argument out of your ass, idk: X, X, X, X. You knew exactly who you were following, she didn’t trick you. She made a simple mistake because, in fact, if anyone is deliberately hiding their alias, it’s you, isn’t it? Because you know: X, X, X, X.

These are the rules you claim she didn’t read / broke: X, X. Tell me how she broke them, I’ll tell you how you’re lying.

“ YOU WON’T DRIVE ME OUT OF ANOTHER FANDOM ”

Nobody was trying to do that. Nobody tried to drive you out of this fandom, we all left you alone. I don’t know how you leaped to this conclusion that this is what anyone was trying to do, based on the fact that somebody followed you by accident because you changed your alias to avoid the negative reputation which you created for yourself in this fandom.

But anyway, I said this to you when we had our dispute and I’ll say it again, you fly off the handle at the bat of an eyelash, without any consideration for anyone’s feelings but your own and you really, really hurt people because of it. If you want a clean slate, if you want to leave all of this behind you, then you owe a lot of people an apology. You’re not a blameless victim, you’re a sentient adult and it’s time to start behaving like one.

#drama //#call out //#enOU GH

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firelordazulaaaa · 3 years

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Azula

thanks anon for sending my fave :)

first impression: had the biggest crush on azula even though when i was watching i was obviously not rooting for the fire nation however, i was in love😌(btw this was when i was younger not now!!!) she gave off girlboss energy and it was very hard for me to not support her hahah basically thought she was about 17 and a bitch

impression now: she isn’t evil, everything i thought about her was so wrong she was just a child that was being manipulated into a solider by her own father!! she’s a woman loving woman and you just gotta stan ;) be gay do crime is what she lives by!! when i think of her now i can genuinely appreciate her character and how misunderstood she was, her mommy and daddy issues definitely are a callout to myself but she is overlooked in the fandom as the evil sister and she is so much more!!!

favourite moment: i don’t think i can choose one moment. the beach episode as a whole is definitely my favourite moments of azula as we get to understand her on a deeper level and the people around her. we will forget about the kiss however, it is a good moment to delve deeper into her character, just a shame it wasn’t her and ty lee :( another sort of moment i love is that she gets sound effects, i fucking love that and it made her a bit scarier ahhahah

idea for a story: i just wanna read something where her and zuko are happy siblings and zuko doesn’t view azula as evil and blame all his problems on her. i love a good azula redemption fic don’t get me wrong but a lot of them give me the vibes of trying to “fix her” and i cba with that shit!!

unpopular opinion: she may be a girlboss but as we know girlboss feminism isn’t the way to go so, basically my unpopular opinion is she may not be a feminist to look up to? i’m not saying she’d be against feminism or isn’t a feminist but with the rules of the fire nation we know the only reason she was in her place of power was because of the patriarchal of the fire nation, her fire bending skills and her ability to be manipulated by ozai. azula is definitely for the girls and would most probably back feminism, it’s just she was 14 and maintained power like a 50 year old like yes stan but because she was a girl doesn’t really change much. idk but i’ve hardly got many unpopular opinions on her looool

favourite relationship: her relationship with ty lee. i’m viewing in canonically now so them just in show, i just enjoy how from where azula stood in society she genuinely did love ty lee (and mai). yes there was manipulation that’s no lie but for such a complex character like azula who even said “trust is for fools, fear is the only reliable way” she loved ty lee and there’s so much proof of it. another good shout is her relationship with zuko which i find very interesting

favourite headcanon: she’s lesbian. yeah i could’ve picked so many unique headcanons like cutting her hair, actually getting along with the gaang or anything else but this one is my fave😌 i personally headcanon her as a lesbian but whatever floats your boat i just know she likes women and one specifically that goes by ty lee!! ik that how she was brought up would mean being lesbian is a no no but once she realises her true self and excepts she’d flourish

from this post

#there’s so much i could say #azula #avatar the last airbender #my post #ask game #i think i should’ve spent more time on this but cba

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acethena-discourse · 4 years

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@grungedyke Tumblr own’t let me reblogged, and i’m not sure if its being dumb or you blocked

Thanks for showing up dumbass. Your presence and your type of thinking in that server is like a tumor, do you realize that? You’re a spineless liar if you think a member saying they were leaving is “strongarming” someone, and those mods are truly either desperate or foolish to keep you in there. No wonder people are uncomfortable with the environment in there – you and other active users have a habit of distorting any disagreement into violent persecution while pretending everything on your side is completely “valid” and brave.

I’m allowed to stay because i don’t break rules. Even now, this isn’t breaking rules. I rarely interact with minors in the server unless they directly talk to me first. But please go off about how I’m terrible for thinking that demanding a mod force someone to stop unhealthy coping, and cropping that out is bad.

My claim that rules are more heavily enforced is directly addressing the fact that i have gotten in trouble for things i legit forget. Ie. THe server does not allow the word b*tch. So often i’ll type “bitching about’ and get a warning from dyno. Thats p fucking strict. I’ve also phrased things v poorly, and been told to either delete the message or clarification, I often opt to EDIT THE INFORMATION because I know exclus will screenshot the bad one, and not the new one. But okay.

Recently a rule has been implimented for triggers, telling us that server anouncemnts will be modifed with new triggers/squick as they appear. Now if you have issues with these instances of rules, please go take that up with the mods.

Now, as for your screenshot, yes, I did tell them to archive it, and how I’ve both handled people baying for blood over the art of 2 ocs in a server in the past. I locked the channel, put an NSFW ban in place, and then *archived them* something I’m surprised you are more grateful for. Considering not only would archiving the channel would keep the good advice (ie yes use lube, do not use soap like in fanfic etc.) along with the bad that yall screenshotted before.

You may pretend to be nice, but that typical tendersoft nerd innocent-white-person shit does not stop you from being predatory.

There is no pretending. I genuinely believe it or not, believe in being nice to just about everyone I come across. That includes you, or a stranger on the bus or even someone walking by my house in a fucking ski mask. Being polite, and kind is just something I believe in. Until you give me beyond a reasonable doubt, I don’t even owe you basic compassion, then you’re gonna get it. Yes, that includes for big mistakes like not having age roles when you were finding your feet in discord moderation. That includes, people like you, who are trying to accuse me of “preserving gross content” when the reality is archiving a chat is a neutral suggestion because it favors no one. But i see, clearly i should go around kicking random babies and yelling don’t touch me. Because clearly if i’m not openly 100% mean to everyone, i must have some ulterior motive for my kindness right?

Can you name a single change to the rules aside from this recent “keep all the messages and let the adults keep reading them” shite?

See the above. In the past when users got banned all their messages would be deleted. They started keeping this for context. Then there's last year where someone decided to doxx a bunch of discords and said “Btw I did this bc uwuw you don’t edit screenshots” it took two weeks to give or take for mods to come to a verdict on what to do. So they made the rule that screenshots may not have their og username in them. Based on this, alone, i suspect the nsfw channels and sex ed might not be reopened for a similar period of time until the mods make new rules and clarify old ones.

It’s irrelevant and maybe even suspicious for you to bring up the wrongdoings of people who are completely unrelated to this situation. You’re already deflecting onto other people, offering no evidence of the “context,” and bitching on behalf of the mods. If you were in any way committed to safety or improving the situation, you wouldn’t be bringing up random people and downplaying things you obviously witnessed.

“offering no evidence of the context” for someone in the server you would know a handful of things about me 1) mobile tumblr is hell and i attach information from pc once I can. 2) I was out of town for someone so eager to screenshot me funny how you were so eager to forget that information.

So heres screenshot 1

Funfact i did not, and still don’t know what agere is. Now i will say my stance on cgl is that its not for me. I don’t like it, i don’t want to hear about it. But as long as both participates are 18, i also don’t need to know about it. Now if a minor was in chat, said “i participate in cgl with my partner” i would full stop be like what the fuck. And would leave if the mods decided to condone it, but that isn’t what happened. But you can see the mods do point out that if an unhealthy relationship or it was discussed at all outside of nsfw- channels they would be warned, banned, or reported.

Then there is the obvious mention that age regression isn’t a consenting adult, yeah. Ya dang right it not motherfucker. But let's talk about the word AGERE in relation to this. I’ve never once heard that there is a special word for nonsexual coping mechanism. So like damn, I’ll just add that into my vocabulary.

But I didn’t know that word exists, me saying “non sexual cgl” or “coping cgl” is literally me acknowledging that I find that eh but ultimately okay between consenting adults who are not aged regressing vs sexual cgl.

screen shot 2

In this a user tries to suggest the mods have a moral obligation to inform someone its “unhealthy” when mods point out that no they do not, but nor do they allow users to go off telling everyone “Oh cgl is a great coping mechinism you should do it to.”

Which is important. Because again, I hate cgl, but I also am of the mind that, i can’t stop it. I outright can’t, so no i’m not gonna get involved in someones personal road to recovery and be like “you’re disgusting”. I can however tell them to keep it away from me, and not to discuss it in channels minors can see. (a policy that has been in place for a while now.)

screenshot 3

More of the mods not condoning it, and stating p clearly that policies have changed since 2017/early 2018. I’ve been in the server since july 2018ish. And things have been nearly constantly evolving.

screenshot 4

Mods again emphasizing that you can find the policy changes since the messages have changed. Because that is important. They confined this to other channels. Why they didn’t delete the information in sexed, i can’t actually say one way or another. They might have kept it because they believe in mistakes of that caliber being left alone. But you also have no evidence for why they kept the og messages.

But the reason, i consider what herpcourse did lying by omission, is herpcourse led you to believe the above screenshots were out in the open. The ones i just posted happened in some random channel. They did not, they happened in an age locked channel. That only adults are in. And mods are under no obligation to 1) be your personal therapist, 2) nor are they obligated to go “uwu reminder cgl in all situations no matter what is disgusting you dirties” because doing so is preformative. One of the mods is squicked by it just like me. But please go off about how admitting past mistakes happened, refusing to performatively disown something, and refusing to tell anyone who mentions it in the age locked channels is actually gross and unhealthy when you know nothing about them is bad.

I did not, in fact, witness anything in sexed, because I don’t go there. I only witnessed the stuff that followed herpcourse callout, which means the above messages. I have sexed muted.

I also didn’t bring up random people I brought up a known predator who is on youtube, actually sends salacious photos to minors, and is p safe to say fucking gross, my point was there are actual sharks in the water, please stop focusing on the tuna. Because you can surprise, call out both behaviors. But i’ve yet to see an exclus call out someone like pkrussel, instead choosing to focus on people who might have a seemingly large following in one community. Me pointing out sharks in the beach and asking you to stop focusing on tuna, is not telling you to ignore the tuna.

I’m only as committed to this situation as anyone can be, which isn’t v much considering I’ve yet to witness someone grooming a minor in gen chat. Or witnessed them grooming minors at all. The only skin i have in this game is the following: Minors still being allowed access to decent sex-ed resources and being allowed to ask questions. And 2) my own personal discomfort with all cgl. My hope is that rules do become more clear, maybe only discussion of sex ed by users to be direct questions only. Meaning a minor can come in ask a direct question and receive a direct answer. Which while not ideal sex ed, is sitll better than what i got, what you probably got, and what they’re likely getting (if getting any at all)

The mods are not level-headed and not passive when they actually care and think they have control. They’re cowardly, that’s the difference. They literally got more mad over someone making fun of one of their icons and a minor saying genuine trauma with the q slur is possible.

I don’t expect them to be 100% level headed. I’d honestly be kinda upset if they didn’t display emotions when shit like this happens. But please give me a source on the icon thing (which btw, no you shouldn’t make fun of people, period) and for the minor saying ‘queer can have trauma’ bc I do think it can. But if you join fya, you can’t request it be tagged as qlur. Because there is a lot o discussion not only of queer as a personal identity but also queer as a history. Which means groups like queer nation, or shows today like queer eye. And just like I hope if I’m discussing the motorcycle gang made up of lesbians called dykes on bikes and their history, you’d not want me to censor, or remove their history and accomplishments by calling them “d-slur on bikes uwu” you don’t expect me to censor the discussion above. But to my knowledge, the denial is not “queer isn’t used as a slur” its “queer as an identity deserves respect, and to insist its evil is to take the word our oppressors used and give it back to them.”

Also what’s with you specifically and always bringing up “afab” as a gotcha descriptor in arguments? What are you trying to say?

Bc lets be real, when you talk about ddlg, you’re talking about an afab person dressing up as a child and calling her partner daddy while he fucks her most times. Didn’t know to point out the difference between that and agere was in fact a “gotcha” based purely on the agab of the person. But okay.

You need to leave and delete your five blogs from anywhere you can speak to minors like yesterday.

Okay, what are the five blogs? Bc I’m only aware of...literally none that interact with minors in conscious effort.

I highly doubt there’s any reason for them to have changed, considering the execrable atmosphere in that server, so here’s a screenshot of one mod (toytulini) going Karen mode along with a bunch of other 20+ year olds while the minor they were targeting tried to defuse the situation as mentioned above.

What is the context? Bc i legit don't’ see any. I see them arguing, btu about what, I don’t know, if i was involved myself, I do not remember. So again, not much of a smoking gun. It looks like they were trying to get someone to actually *understand* what was being said, but that wasn’t appearing to happen. But again, missing context such as what the argument was about, why that started, so on so forth. also if the person was told not to argue there, yeah, they should have moved it. as per server rules, there are channels to argue in, that wasn’t one. So no matter the context, if they were breaking rules, and did not move when requested, yes, they should be given a ban based on whatever the conversation topic was.

Now, i’ve provided evidence. I’m gonna go to bed, please feel free to dm me here if you need me to clarify anything or want to throw out accusations about how being kind must be predatory af since i’m barely an adult and adults lose compassion after becoming 18.

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dreamquix · 6 years

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The Callout Post Of My Abuser From Like, March

I feel like I held this in for longer than I should have.

Alright, I know this will cause more drama, but I feel like I am left with no other choice.

It was either discussing why I'm sad about more recent stuff in discord DMs with mags or discussing this situation publicly, and mags is offline so its this.

I feel like I can't just make vauge vents about this any longer

TW: Verbal abuse, depression, self-harm and mentions of suicide attempts. If you're uncomfortable with this stuff, then either skip to the TL;DR or don’t click the read more link

So, as some of you may know, my username online used to be tiglilly-chan, however, there was a reason besides just auntiemags calling me out on my bullshit and me wanting to start over to be the reason I moved accounts.

You see, back when I used tiglilly-chan, I got myself into a lot of drama. Like, a lot. Its actually the reason I hate myself so damn much.

One of those people I got into drama with was a youtuber named sn0wy.

Back in around july or so, (I thought) I had a crush on him, and this was around the time he hit 5k, and via his 5k livestream, I joined his discord server.

Big mistake.

As, again, you all know, I had trouble expressing my love towards people normally and healthily, so of course, me being the fucking attention-seeking cunt I was back then, acted strange around him. Of course, him and his discord server called me out on my bullshit, and again, I was a fucking bitchy ass cunt back then, so I didn't listen.

I didn't fucking listen.

Then, the protomac drama happened.

Now, this is where the verbal abuse part of the warning at the start of this post begins, so be warned. Also, since this all happened on the tiglilly-chan discord account, and that account has been deleted ever since I moved accounts, that means I can't really provide screenshots of what they said specifically. Sorry about that.

Everything got worse from there, and all the things his discord server said to me almost all bordered on the line of out-right cyberbullying and, well, verbal abuse. Sn0wy himself even joined in on it all.

Now, since my memory is shit, I can't remember specifically what they said, but one things for sure:

The word "baby" just brings back unwanted memories now after this whole mess.

Also, did I mention him and his discord raided my fucking discord server because they """"wanted to teach me a lesson"""" AND I had at least 4 panic attacks due to seeing him in either my old discord server, him in my twitter TL AND just the memory of him? Yeah, I know.

Now, I'm not a fucking idiot, I know I did fucked up shit back then too, but honestly, this was also pretty fucked up.

But then again, fucked up people deserve fucked up things happening to them.

Its only fair for them to feel the pain the people they hurt felt.

Which is why a little while after this mess and both the Tomatogatcha and auntiemags mess, I started cutting myself (I don't anymore btw, so don't worry. And besides, my cuts faded out to the point where they're unnoticeable now, so there's that.) and hell, I even tried drowning and/or stabbing myself multiple times. In fact, I tried to drown myself in the shower today 3 times in a row.

During this time, quite literally the only reason I haven't really killed myself yet was because of auntiemags (Now its just the people I give a shit about in general that are the reason I'm still here)

I just wanna say that even after this mess, I'm trying to become a better person, because as I mentioned before, I also did fucked up shit, but honestly, I'm tired of him just popping up in my mind and making me more depressed then I already was. I'm tired of living with the fact that I was a fucking shitty ass cunt who deserved every last bit of this. I'm tired of knowing that almost nobody will believe me just because he's popular. I'm tired of this shit in general.

Now, do what you want with this information, fuck, you can even make a fucking sequel to the whole #MeToo movement if you really want to because of this, but please, for the love of every god ever, don't attack sn0wy over this. Thats not what I want at all. In fact, all I really want with this post is to just get all this shit off of my chest, as its been all I could really think about for the past few months, and its really making my mental health deteriorate more than it already has been.

TL;DR: Sn0wy and his discord server make a creepy fucking 12 year old bitch suicidal and depressed because she deserves it.

Thank you for reading this god awful long thing.

Bye.

- Chloe/Dreamquix

#sn0wy #tw: self half #tw: sucide mention #tw self loathing #vent #i mean i guess its kind of a vent #discord #drama #tw verbal abuse #tw vent

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