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#the 'your nails but better' trend doesn't help
grunge-mermaid · 6 months
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I really need pinterest to learn the difference between natural nails and nude acrylic/gel enhancements
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vainvenus · 2 months
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⌲;꒰ Pretty please!! ꒱
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Characters :: John "B" Routledge, JJ Maybank, Pope Heyward, Rafe Cameron.
Synopsis :: You ask your boyfriend to do a simple task for you just to see if he will.
Includings :: Short drabbles, established relationships, acts of service, nicknames, just lots of fluff, maybe ooc Rafe
An :: Just because I think this trend is adorable
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« J. Routledge »
"JB, can you pick out the pomegranate seeds for me? I don't like how sticky it is."
John B glanced back over at you as he stated at the Pomegranate and his lips press together in a thin line.
"Why didn't you get it in the cups? Where it's already all seeds?" He asks and you shrug, still holding the fruit out.
"It's sweeter this way. Please?"
He doesn't want to do it, not because he just doesn't want to; but because he doesn't really know how to peel a pomegranate.
But he nods with a smile as he grabs it from you and moves to grab the cutting board. "Of course, baby."
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« J. Maybank »
"JJ can you pretty please with cherries on top peel this orange for me?"
JJ chuckles a bit as he raises his brows in slight amusement, tilting his head towards you.
"What? Can't peel it on your own?"
He snickers, sort of making fun of you and you just shrug, holding it out to him again and he rolls his eyes playfully as he takes it from you.
He digs his nails into the skin of the fruit as he peels it back. He's a bit messy with it, but he gets the job done.
He takes one of the slices, popping it into his mouth and hands you the rest.
"There. Is there anything else of yours that I can peel off?"
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« P. Heyward »
"Pope! Tie my shoe, please."
"Of course." Pope hums and stops right in his tracks, he doesn't even question it or give you a confused look.
He gets down on his knees, patting one for you to place your shoe on his knee and he brings your hand to his shoulder to use as leverage.
He smiles as he ties your shoe, a simple task that he knows you could have done yourself but he doesn't mind doing it for you.
He taps your other shoe so both of them are tied the same and have less of a chance of untying without you even having to say anything.
He finished both shoes and dusts off his knees as he grabs your hand, entwining it with his and he places a kiss on your temple.
"There. Anything else you need?"
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« R. Cameron »
"Rafee! Can you reapply my lipgloss?"
Rafe looks over at you, not quite hearing you the first time so he walks over to you, leaning his golf club against the golf cart where your seated.
"What was that, princess?" He hums when he finally got close enough and you hold out your [f/color] lipgloss tube.
"I asked if you could reapply my lipgloss for me."
He's amused and a bit astonished at your request because it's so simple for you to do it yourself. He even narrows his gaze at you a little bit and you only smile.
"Are you fucking with me?"
"So is that a no?"
He inhales deeply and sighs, grabbing it from you. "Fine."
Rafe grabs your face softly to tilt your head up as you pucker your lips at him and he applies the lipgloss to your top and bottom lip in a fresh glossy coat.
"There. All better now?"
You nod, smiling and he can't help but smile back as he places a kiss on your lips and you groan that he messed it up.
He only shrugs and leans back in for another.
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romiyaro · 1 year
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ᴘʀᴀɴᴋ #3 "ꜱᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ɴᴜᴅᴇꜱ" !!!
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CW: nudes¡ suggestive language¡ mentions of sex¡
Pairing: (all post timeskip) suna, atsumu, osamu, ginjima x gn!reader
Network: @tokyometronetwork
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ꜱᴜɴᴀ ʀɪɴᴛᴀʀᴏ
Guaranteed returns. All favors are returned x1000.
Send him a partial nude and you will get a dick pic within 3 milliseconds. Send him a thirst trap and an audio capture of him moaning your name is sent back.
Suna prides himself on his ability to collect quality material, so it's no surprise he's so very enthusiastic about this nudes exchange business.
Has pretty lights set up around his room just for the sake of clicking aesthetic dick pics.
There's even a special folder on his desktop dedicated to you. All these frisky pics and videos are stored there. He even names it his 'personal pornhub'
Comes home with hundreds of nasty fantasies filled in his head. Trust me he's created a very nice simulation of all the things he'd love to do to you.
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ᴍɪʏᴀ ᴀᴛꜱᴜᴍᴜ
You just know this motherfucker is choking on his spit every time you send a pic that's even closely revealing.
This one time you send him a suggestive (only to dirty minded people) picture of your newly done nails holding your glass just for fun and next day videos of Miya Atsumu, star athlete clumsily fumbling with his phone are trending on the internet.
I'm really really sorry for this one but he totally responds in Adam Levine style😭😭😭 he's embarrassing you know it but you love him and that shitty replying style is something you and him have to work on.
He comes home all needy and whiny after that. Needs all the love and affection— much much more than usual.
He might not admit it but every time his phone pings and it's a message from you he pulls in a deep breath to stabilize his heart and be ready.
Atsumu is too much of an innocent boy for that cocky front he puts up.
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ᴍɪʏᴀ ᴏꜱᴀᴍᴜ
Now this guy is a totally different story. Unlike his brother, although equally cocky, he has the guts to back it up.
You once sent him a nude while on a double dinner date just to see his reaction and this mf looked at the picture and smirked, licking his lip. Never tell him how flustering you found it you'd just be digging your own grave.
He's an observant guy, he knows all your preferences– from the food to the positions, so it's not a huge surprise to you when he sends you detailed, nasty, toe-curling replies.
Lowkey think he could run his own pornblog and we would still follow him like dick hungry bitches.
Sometimes, he would send you unprompted random messages while you are at work. Like sirrrr, you get it. He knows you very well but it's none of his business to ensure you're melting in your chair at work thinking about him.
But that's not all. The real nastiness starts when you return home, or his hotel. This man is filthy. And he's gonna pull you down with him whether you like it or not.
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ʜɪᴛᴏꜱʜɪ ɢɪɴᴊɪᴍᴀ
You were sorely mistaken if you thought he was an innocent baby boy who had to be introduced to the art of sending nudes gently💀💀💀
He is the devil. This man laughs at you and calls you weak when you send him a partial nude.
The insult digs deeper when he sends you a beautiful, Pinterest worthy image of his pants pulled down just enough to show his perfect v-line. The sunlight kissing his pretty skin doesn't help either.
This ensues a nudes war. Who can click the better nude.
You both give each other occasional runs for your money. But it's usually him powning you most of the time. This guy has some serious aesthetics.
But the funny thing is, although you both forget the original intention of sending nudes, you both develop a cute and adorable sort of bonding activity out of it.
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Lost the taglist so i won't tag anybody and this isn't gonna be a regular writing phase anyways so🙏🙏🙏 also drop some holy water in the comments and reblogs plej i need it I've been thinking very nasty thoughts abt a certain white haired sensei from naruto
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yorshie · 6 months
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Scars
SFW Blurbs with the songs that I listened to
Leo (Oh Children by Nick Cave and The Bad Seeds)
Leo pulled you closer against his plastron, face tipped up and eyes closed as he slowly allowed himself to relax.
Your fingers were soft on his scales, tiny points of connection that he was hyper aware of as you slowly mapped your way across his skin.
The tip of one nail scored along the side of his pectoral scute, and he shivered underneath you, letting out a low hum at the feeling.
"Sorry." You whispered, pressing a kiss to his shoulder in apology.
"S' alright." He said softly, not moving when your palm pressed flat agaisnt his bicep. "It's doesn't hurt, not anymore."
He was aware of how your expression had crumpled upon seeing the almost surgically clean crack up on side of his top left scute, though your expression and scent when his whole shoulder had been covered in bandages had been far worse. In a way, he's morbidly thankful that the blade had been so sharp and well maintained. Now that the wound was fully healed and filled with ceramic epoxy, there were no harsh edges to scrap against you, barely any sign of how deep the wound had been.
It hurt though, to watch you touch him so hesitantly. He loved it when you let your fingers travel over him, had lost count of the hours you'd gently explored his tattoo or the whorls on his shell.
And now...
He reached down, palmed the back of your head, held you close while you stared at the scar on his shoulder.
Now, if he could go back in time, he wouldn't have hesitated to gut his opponent when he had the chance.
Your head tilted upwards towards him, brows drawn up in the middle and lower lip quivering, and he blanked on what to do, had no idea how to make it better.
Slowly, so slowly, the very edge of your finger traced along the healed crack, and he fought not to let his breathe stutter at the feeling, chills erupting along his limbs.
"I love you, Leonardo." You whispered it against his skin, but he heard the words you were really saying.
I almost lost you.
"I'm here." He answered, and knew from the warmth of tears slipping across his collar that he was right.
Mikey (Another Love by Tom O'Dell)
Mikey was sure you thought he was asleep, the way you moved so slowly, your touch whisper soft as you pet over the curves of his arm, tracing the orange flowers and shaded dots, running your finger over and over the carefully ink lines. It felt so nice, and he was content to let you explore for as long as you wanted, until your finger whispered over to rest on the scar tissue right at the edge of his plastron.
You gasped when he moved, when he pulled your hand off the damaged, raised scales and tucked your appendage around the far edge of his chest. His heart twinged at the sound, so he pulled you closer so you wouldn't think he was pushing you away.
"I'm sorry." Your whisper was small, and the regret in those two words had him rubbing a hand soothingly up and down your back, internally cringing once more.
"Don't have to be sorry, baby." He said softly, pressing a kiss into your hair. "It's just a little sensitive when I'm not expecting it."
You were quiet against him for a moment, and he silently hoped that you'd drop it, that you wouldn't ask...
"What happened, Mike?"
He breathed out slowly, hope dashed, and tried to decide what to say. Some time had passed, he technically should be ok to acknowledge the wound, but whenever his thoughts trended towards that night, the hurt bubbled up once more.
He didn't want to spoil his time with you bringing up old ghosts. Didn't want to make you wonder if he had ever accessed you as a potential threat despite the length of your relationship.
"I love you." He said instead, giving you a squeeze and pressing his mouth once more to your hair.
Your arm tightened around him, holding him close, hoping one day he'd be able to tell you. That one day he'd let you help soothe whatever wound he hid.
Raph (Dangerous Man by Little Dume)
Raph could feel you, barely, draped over his carapace, your soft hands rubbing that coconut scented lotion across his scutes and making sure the various cracks across the surface were still filled with ceramic epoxy and smooth to the touch.
"Feels good, sweetheart." He rumbled, relaxing into the sweet treatment, letting a churr come out when you finished and simply splayed across the width of his shell.
"You'll have to let me do the front in a little bit, big guy."
He grunted at the thought of your soft fingers ghosting across his chest. "Not all the ones on the front are filled in yet. Don wants to give 'em another week."
You gave a little sigh at his words, and his heart twinged heavily at how weary the sound was. When you remained silent however, he shifted one arm back, letting his fingers curl around your ankle in silent askance.
"You always have new cracks, Raph." You whispered, voice almost breaking on his name, and something slimy curled up under his plastron, stifling his throat.
He had to swallow twice before he could gruffly say. "Sometimes it just happens, sometimes it's just the only way."
Your foot twitched in his grip, your next words pressed against the central scute on his shell. "No one else has this many cracks, Raph."
He let spark of anger in your sentence boil under his skin, tried to breath it back down before giving a little tug on your foot. He rose up and tipped to the side, sliding you off his carapace to land with a huff on the mattress.
"No one else has this many cracks because I take 'em for them." He said, trying to sound serious, knowing you probably saw through to the ire beneath. "These cracks could be on Mikey, on Don, hell a few even got Mr. Perfect Ninja's name on 'em. So don't-" He broke off, suddenly aware of how your face had done deathly still and red.
You were trying not to cry. He sighed heavily, letting his head hang and brush against the bed, taking a deep breath of the combined scents of you and him to calm himself down.
"I'm sorry I-" The feel of your foot on his plastron cut him off once more, when you used the leverage to push away from him and slid to the edge of the bed. You stood, turned to look at him, eyes red.
"You're more than just a protector, Raphael." When he opened his mouth to retort, you held up the empty bottle of lotion. "I'm gonna go get that disinfectant lotion from Donnie."
And then you were gone, and he slumped fully on his shell to wait for your return.
Donnie (Hey There, Delilah by The Plain White Tees)
Donnie doodled away one-handed on the notepad balanced on his thigh, his other hand softly rubbing back and forth across your lower back where you were tucked in close, snoozing away to the point a gentle snore burred in your nose.
The Lab was relatively quiet, only the sound of soft classic rock playing from his main computer around the bend and the gentle ping of the Atari game still on standby where you'd fallen asleep halfway through the game an hour earlier providing the background noise Donnie needed to sit still.
He didn't pause writing when your snore caught, and you sleepily turned into his hand, a secret smile ticking the corner of his mouth when you grabbed his hand with gentle pressure and moved it so he was palming the soft swell of your stomach.
"Time?" You asked, voice sleep laden and raspy, and he hummed back, letting his thumb press against your flesh in acknowledgement.
"Only an hour later." Donnie assured you, eyes flicking over briefly when your soft hands started trailing up and down his arm, over the bubbly texture that even after all this time he knew you didn't expect.
"S'cold." You said, nails gently scratching over his ruined scales, and Donnie twisted his hand, the stretch a burn in his wrist, to trail the rough texture of his thumb over your own, conscious of the pressure he was exerting against you.
"That hand's always colder." He could go into detail, explain restrictive blood flow and damaged, seared nerves, but the press of your lips against his palm quieted his mind, let him focus instead on the pressure and tingle that shouldn't be there instead.
You sighed, tucking his hand into the neck of your hoodie, and he huffed out a laugh that could have been a snort, returning to his notes, his half ruined hand slowly warning up inside your clothes.
"Are you doing your exercises?" You asked, sounding closer to sleep once more, and he nodded before remembering you couldn't see.
"I have to," He clicked the pen, set aside his notes, and sighed heavily, rolling over to spoon against your back. "If I wanna keep being able to grip my Bo."
He flexed his hand inside your hoodie, and you grumbled, hiking up his arm so the both of you could lay properly, trapping his misbehaving hand in a position that hopefully would keep it from falling asleep.
Donnie smiled against your hair, snout whispering over the soft texture, drifting off to the soft pressure of your thumb on his arm, high enough where he could truly feel the sensation.
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do you have any tips for subtly looking more masculine? I can’t fully transition now because I’m a minor in a confirmed to be transphobic household, and if you have any suggestions that would be amazing
Lee says:
You can try starting slowly incorporating more masculine-styled women's clothing into your wardrobe. This is usually a gradual process anyway since it can take time to save up enough money to purchase enough new shirts/pants/shoes etc. to fully replace your current wardrobe, especially if you're working part-time as a babysitter, dog-walker, etc.
Clothes that are more structured or straight-cut, like button-down shirts or straight-leg pants, can help create a more traditionally masculine silhouette. Layering with hoodies or jackets can also be effective. You can sometimes find these things styled as "boyfriend" clothes, and you can tell your parents that it's the current trend/style. You can see our post on finding masculine clothing in the women's section here.
Another easy change is dropping the accessories. That means not wearing feminine necklaces/earrings/bracelets/hairbands, not painting your nails, etc. It's easy to say you want to keep things basic and sporty and that's why you're going without the accessories. Wearing a neutral watch or a smart watch is another accessory to consider instead of a thin-strapped "women's watch" if you wear watches at all that is.
You can see our post on purse alternatives here since bags are often the biggest practical change in the accessory category. Not carrying a purse when you hang out with your friends in the mall, go out on a trip, etc is obviously a high-impact change to make.
If possible, choose a haircut that's more typically masculine. Shorter haircuts, or styles that are longer on the top and shorter on the sides, can subtly change your appearance. If you use a female reference for your photo when you show your parents what you want they may not suspect anything. You can see our post on convincing your parents to let you get a haircut without coming out here.
If a haircut isn’t possible, consider styles like pulling your hair back in a low bun or wearing hats. If you're Black, cornrows, box braids, and locs are styles that can be gender neutral depending on how you wear them. There's a few links on that here.
There are also things you can do to come across as subtly more masculine without buying anything at all.
Sometimes, adopting a more traditionally masculine posture and body language can make a difference. This doesn't usually have a big impact on passing, but it can help you feel better about yourself and boost your self-confidence and reduce dysphoria, and it's something that your family may not notice because it's easy to alter when you're with them. You can see a post about masculine body language here.
Similarly, you can try voice training and practice speaking in a slightly lower tone or in a more monotone style, which is often perceived as more masculine. Be careful not to strain your voice, though, and maybe avoid doing it while you're with your family. You can see a post about voice training here.
Engaging in exercises that build upper body strength can also help in achieving a more masculine physique. Focus on workouts that target the shoulders, back, and arms. You can often do body weight workouts at home in your room without needing a gym membership or specialized exercise equipment.
Find a support system, whether it's friends, online communities, or a counselor/therapist, who understand and support your gender identity. This can provide a safe space to express yourself and explore your identity. It can help to have other friends who are also masculine to feel like you're not isolated.
Observing and adopting some masculine behavioral cues, like how men typically occupy space or interact in social settings, can also be a subtle way to express masculinity, but you want to be careful that you're not imitating toxic masculinity / obnoxious guys. Similarly, engaging in hobbies or interests that are stereotypically masculine can be a subtle way to align with male peers, but always choose activities that genuinely interest you and you can probably find other guys out there who are also interested in the things you already care about to be friends.
The above suggestions are all things that you can do without your parents necessarily noticing. Binding is something that may not be subtle depending on your chest size, so while it is possible to sometimes bind in front of family without them noticing (saying it's a sports bra, for example) I would recommend keeping your binder in your backpack and only changing into it at school in the bathroom / at a friend's house / in a public bathroom when you're out with friends but not family, etc. unless you really are wearing only a single well-fitting sports bra. You can see more about buying a binder and that whole process in this post.
It's harder to be seen as masculine or male when you're pre-medical transition and not passing which means people often have to "overcompensate" by being more masculine than they would otherwise choose to be, but as always, I'd like to note that it can be possible to pass as male / be masculine while doing any of the things I recommended changing!
So while I might advise someone who wants to come off as more masculine "don't paint your nails" for example, that is a general rule and doesn't mean that you have to follow those guidelines if you're really passionate about painting your nails. You can always choose whatever gender expression you're comfortable with. There are plenty of guys who wear nail polish and otherwise come across as masculine or who are recognized as men. It's important to remember that masculinity is diverse and there's no one right way to be masculine.
Followers, any other tips on performing subtle masculinity that won't make transphobic parents suspicious?
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silverraes · 5 months
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10 BL Boys I Want Carnally
10 BL Boys That Make Me Feel Things™
(not sexual, not romantic but a secret third thing)
okay so I wasn't exactly tagged in this but I saw several people doing this and I'll take just about any excuse to scream about my favorite characters so I'm just going to very sneakily join in on this trend 👀
there is absolutely no ranking to these bc I couldn't rank them if I wanted to
(also I changed the name a little bc my ace ass is literally physically incapable of wanting anyone carnally but I still have lots of thoughts lmao)
1) Tharn (The Sign)
I mean. is literally anyone surprised that this is where we're starting?
he's the nicest person out there. he can kick your ass if he wants to. he lost his parents at a young age and is absolutely convinced that everyone he loves is doomed to die and he keeps seeing visions of people dying and he's told again and again that those he has wronged in a past life - which he doesn't even remember - are still out to get him and yet he has so much kindness left for the world??
also he can be such a little shit and knows exactly how to tease Phaya back I love him so goddamn much.
(also that mole-)
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2) Kim (Kinnporsche)
was he also on my characters I'd hit with my car list? maybe. and what about it.
I love him so much. he's such a badass but he's such a loser. famous singer who falls for a fan he was supposed to be investigating but is too emotionally constipated to admit it. badass son of a mafia family who can kick ass but only if he wants to. who does it like him honestly
(it also helps that he's played by just about the prettiest man alive)
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3) Babe (Pit Babe)
did I start watching this show ironically? yes. is every mention of alphas and mpreg and that mama/papa thing hitting me like a brick and causing me 9000 psychic damage every single time? also yes. did I absolutely fall in love with the show and just about every character in it? you bet your fucking ass I did.
but I especially love Babe. he's just so babygirl. special alpha man who has to act tough and strong but just wants to be babied by his dumbass loser (affectionate) alpha boyfriend. like, he's actually so goddamn soft?? I love him.
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4) Guy (Bake Me Please)
I think we all knew this was coming. I was literally gushing about him for half of the episodes. Guy my beloved. that show did not deserve you.
he spends the entire show supporting his crush's every decision and trying to make sure he's okay literally how could you not love this man
(yes he was a petty bitch for like 5 minutes there but he immediately apologized for it the next episode. properly. unlike certain other people-)
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5) Sprite (Twins)
he's so himbo coded. himbo of all himbos. the himboest. not a brain cell in that head. he's my little dumbass I love him.
he deserves so much better than what he's being put through. someone please just love and support him for who he is. and also take him away from that family
(please talk to your boyfriend tho I am begging)
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6) Wei Wuxian (The Untamed)
MY BELOVED. I could write essays about him. he's such a great character I love him so fucking much. if you ever had to bear witness to me talking about him.. I am so sorry.
sassy emo bitch with a flute and a tragic backstory who's seen as evil by just about everyone but only ever had the best intentions. absolute fucking dumbass. kicks ass. always smiling despite the circumstances. loves his siblings so damn much. doomed by the narrative. what more could you possibly ask for
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7) Zhou Zishu (Word of Honor)
I'm trying so damn hard to keep this list to one character per show and it really took me a while to decide if I wanted to include him or Wen Kexing but ultimately it was Zhou Zishu for me
just.. god. him. assassin sect leader just trying to retire who keeps getting dragged into the biggest bullshit but doesn't really mind bc the bullshit comes with a mysterious pretty man. also that whole god damn nail thing. I have so many thoughts and feelings about that but this post would get too long if I got started on those-
(also actually pulling the "I'm literally dying" card to get out of chores is so fucking valid of him. more characters should do that)
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8) Milk (Choco Milk Shake)
he is quite fucking literally a reincarnated cat, of course I love him. I could list reasons for why I love him but it would be the exact same reasons just about every cat person on earth lists for why they love cats so. but here's a quick summary, just in case:
petty. dramatic. knocks over glasses. silently loves you so fucking much.
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9) Tew (My Dear Gangster Oppa)
I really did not expect to love him this much? greenest of green flags (except for the plot line we shall not talk about). can and will kill people and is fine with it (seriously it is so refreshing to see a mafia character not having a huge moral dilemma about being in the mafia). both a badass mafia man and a gamer guy who doesn't know how to talk to people and is absolutely whipped for his gamer bf.
also scars make a person just about 110x more attractive I don't make the rules. even if the scars are weird and yellow, it's the thought that counts.
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10) Tian (A Tale of Thousand Stars)
I? love him??
I just love how he sets out to do something for someone he didn't even know because he feels like this person deserves that much at least and how he ends up genuinely loving and caring for those kids and the village and this inner conflict he's having the entire time but hiding oh so well and how he actually calls out his parents on their rich people bs and-
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tagging everyone who reads this far and wants to do it. seriously. I mean it. if you want to do this, please go ahead and say I tagged you. I love reading everyone's thoughts.
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sankatsuka · 7 months
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Tenma Siblings Discussion - How Saki Feels About Tsukasa, A Seflessness that Makes You Feel Undeserving
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"But I'm not getting better at all... I'm ALWAYS troubling them, big brother, mom and everyone else...!"
Warnings:
Discusses JP dialogue from Smile of Dreamer, Hinamatsuri, Dazzling Lights, NSNF
HC territory as usual
HFD Tsukasa delusioner
I'm sorry but I was personally uncomfortable with what happened in Hinamatsuri, so this discussion helps justify Saki's behaviour. You may not like it if you thought Saki was entirely justified, sorry again!
In NSNF JP, I found the choice of wording interesting: first thinking about Tsukasa, then their mother, then delegating their father within the "and others".
From how she mentions him first, she seems to instinctively recognize Tsukasa as being the one most affected that she has to miss out. Moreso than their parents who are the ones logistically impacted, which probably shows their parents did a good job of not making her feel like a burden. This small detail and mention of Tsukasa in NSNF, as well as using the same flashback period as Dazzling Lights, implies Saki has always known how much Tsukasa focuses on her and how her wellbeing strongly affects him.
In NSNF, she's shown to be able to generally recall events, but not the strong emotions she experienced in them. So of course she can easily say 'Tsukasa has always cared for her', but it doesn't mean it is properly nailed in. She seemed to show a lack of awareness of this in Hinamatsuri, with how she never thought her forced smile would affect him to such an extent and how she only mentions Tsukasa's loneliness in passing. She also acts rather strangely in Hinamatsuri - she quickly snaps at her brother despite being very well aware of how he will always act in favour of her happiness. We see in unit story that Saki would never get angry at a loved one even if they hurt her (Honami), yet she doesn't think twice before getting angry at Tsukasa.
This is what leads me to HC that perhaps, her feelings towards the part she plays in Tsukasa's happiness are suppressed too. Because she can't just be "okay" to be happy on her own, she also would never be "okay" enough to not make her brother sad. It makes her happy to feel so valued, but with how she is, there's nothing she can do for him in return, not even just be happy and fine. Perhaps this is why she feels urged to have to smile even when she feels like crying from happiness, so she can give something back to her brother. Or even, maybe she cries because she can't do anything for him in return, yet he gives her so much and makes her feel so loved when she feels worthless. There's inevitably that feeling she doesn't deserve him, that perhaps she may even feel like he's going to leave her someday because she can't give anything to him.
You'd think that after being cared for so much, Saki would want to repay it twice as much now that she's able to. But she doesn't, and instead has him doing favours for her (buying her things). It's just easier and feels better to go about your day as if everything's always been normal that way instead of face all the pain from the past and try to make up for it. Plus, feelings in the past don't change that easily - just like how her self-hatred still stays strong enough for her to compose the powerful song in NSNF, her helplessness towards her brother won't just disappear. It instead manifests in turning a blind eye to it and simply continuing the way her past self has: just being carefree and happy and keeping up with trends, just like how she deals with her own self-hatred.
If Saki stops playing the role of the smiling sister, and instead goes all-out to do more for her brother, to return all the love he's shown her - it means having to face that helplessness and how she feels undeserving of Tsukasa's presence in her life. Not only will it make Saki feel less of a sister, it will further ruin their siblinghood when it was built upon such a one-sided foundation. She knows a normal brother isn't supposed to be this way (Smile of Dreamer side story), that everything Tsukasa has done till today truly makes Tsukasa the 'best brother in the world'. But the 'best' is all it will amount to, because thinking anymore beyond that will destroy their bond.
Before it was with the tattered Hina dolls, and now we see Tsukasa going the extra mile again to buy Saki the new Hina dolls. I don't want to think she's naive: it's obvious from first glance Tsukasa spent money to buy all those dolls for her, and she knows from all these years of growing up with him that her brother is always well-intentioned: he will always act for her happiness, Saki knows. But now she has more she has to return for him.
So Saki could have uncharacteristically lost her temper because Tsukasa's actions had exacerbated her suppressed feelings of helplessness towards him. She doesn't want to lose him if he keeps doing more than she can possibly return to him. Saki isn't the type to lose control over her emotions to the point of saying such hurtful things to someone she cares and loves - NSNF demonstrates this that she will keep things inside if she thinks it will hurt other people, even if it's painful. Such a habit doesn't easily die off. That's why this HC suggests that Tsukasa's actions may have triggered her somehow. In the first place, Tsukasa was throwing away something that Saki cherished as a way of appreciating his strong love for her - Tsukasa was belittling her own efforts to return everything he's done for her. If she already doesn't feel anything is enough, it's bound to be triggering.
Her suppressed helplessness and self-hatred does seem to lead her to act irrationally against her own will. She wants her loved ones to be happy, but she also has her own needs of companionship that she can't meet because of the way she was born. There's that contradiction that forces her to keep smiling and make jokes but also want to control others. She rags on herself for being born different, begs people not to leave her no matter what and expresses a desire for everyone to just disappear so she can finally have everything she wants: a world where she isn't left alone (/because no one is there) and everyone (/no one) is happy.
It may have been a budget issue, but the writers also made the choice not to have Tsukasa appear in NSNF Episode 7, despite how he's the one who gave Saki the belief that 'tomorrow will be fun', which is exactly what served as Saki's light in NSNF. And it's strong enough of a feeling that in Hinamatsuri's side story, Saki feels comforted seeing the light from his door at night, which reminds her she won't be alone in the hospital at this time of the year again, and that she can sleep soundly and safely think tomorrow will indeed be fun and not another day of being isolated. Yet he doesn't appear in NSNF to serve as one of the lights in her darkness.
Personally, it seems right to me that he doesn't appear in NSNF. It just feels out of place and ingenuine. I guess it's because I don't feel like any of Tsukasa's bonds feel real because of how he's lacking his own self so much. Saki's own feelings towards him, as I describe here, explain why it doesn't feel real: being too selfless and self-sacrificial makes it difficult for someone to love you back: instead, you become someone they feel they don't deserve. I honestly find it... sad, when it was something he worked so hard for as a child. It makes sense why Tsukasa believes he always makes Saki sad, when it can be possibly true with how he cares far too much about her that it troubles her.
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Welcome to my Blog!♡
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Facts about me :
Name : Megi
Age : 19 yrs old.
Nationality : Japanese // Greek
MBTI Type : INTP-T
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Football Clubs (+favorite players) :
PSG (Paris Saint-German) :
Neymar Jr. (10, Forward)
Kylian Mbappé (7, Forward)
Lionel Messi (30, Forward)
Sergio Ramos (4, Defender)
Achraf Hakimi (2, Defender)
Marquinhos (5, Defender)
Vitinha (17, Midfielder)
F.C Barcelona :
Gavi (6, Midfielder)
Pedri (8, Midfielder)
Raphinha (22, Forward)
Lewandowski (9, Forward)
Chelsea F.C :
João Félix (11, Forward)
Mason Mount (19, Midfielder)
and more.
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João Félix :
A comforting walk (Fluff)
- in which You and João go for a little walk to clear your mind.
Comforting Words (Angst (?) + Fluff)
- in which You comfort João after Chelsea lost a match.
Late Night Snuggles (Fluff)
- in which You can't fall asleep but Joao is there to help you.
Plushie (Fluff)
- in which Joao wins the plushie you wanted.
TikTok Trend (Fluff + Flirty (?) )
- in which you try a TikTok Trend on João but he wasn't ready for the plot twist.
Edits (Fluff)
- in which João catches you watching edits of him.
Pablo Gavi :
No Cuddles? (Fluff)
- in which Gavi has been ignoring You and not giving you any cuddles.
Number 30 looks better on you (Fluff)
- in which You wear another player's jersey to make Gavi jealous.
Spanish Teaching (Fluff)
- in which Gavi teaches You some Spanish words.
Pedri González :
Hirai Momo x Pedri Gonzalez (Instagram AU)
- in which Pedri and Momo like and comment on each other posts and are seen together, are they together?
Kylian Mbappé :
A Rainy Day (Fluff)
- in which the weather in Paris is Rainy with Thunder, Kylian is there to protect you.
Attitude (Angst + Fluff)
- in which Kylian comes home after training grumpy and angry which leads into an argument.
Frustration (Fluff)
- in which Kylian is frustrated during the match and your the only one that can make him feel better.
Foot Massage (Fluff)
- in which Kylian gives you a foot message but he finds out you're ticklish.
Dating Headcanons
- what it's like dating Kylian Mbappé.
Acrylic Nails
- in which You get acrylic nails and give Kylian a massage.
Neymar Jr. :
Pregnant (Fluff)
- how would Neymar react to You being pregnant + little imagine.
Lionel Messi :
First Meeting (Fluff)
- in which Lionel Messi meets your parents for the first time, do they like him?
Erling Haaland :
Love in the Field (Fluff)
- in which Erling dedicates his goal to you.
Phil Foden :
You belong to me (Fluff)
- in which a guy flirts with you and Phil is there to show the guy who you belong to.
Virgil Van Dijk :
Lovely Night (Fluff)
- in which Virgil proposes to you during your birthday.
Mason Mount :
Break up (Angst)
- in which Mason thinks things aren't working out so he decides to break up with you.. will you get back together?
Break up (Angst + Pt.2)
- in which Mason regrets breaking up with you and asks for a second chance.
Sergio Ramos :
Protective (Fluff)
- in which Sergio doesn't like the way someone looks at you and he's there to protect you.
Dating Headcanons
- what it's like dating Sergio Ramos.
feel free to request any player of your choice!
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Have a great day/night!♡
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How to lie in a job interview
I saw a post floating around about unspoken rules of a job interview, as a resource for people who struggle with them. I want to provide some hot tips to help you nail an interview that are a little more tongue-in-cheek about how underhanded they may be.
For context, i've never not gotten a job after an interview and I'm a very good sales person. Imo, getting the interview is the hardest part. But once you're there, its pretty easy. What you need to do to explain (or prove in the case of group interviews) the value you bring to a position. If you weren't qualified you wouldn't have the interview.
This requires an understanding of two elements.
Your experience
Expectations of the job role.
Once you understand how your experience can relate to the position you're looking for, then you'll nail the interview every time.
There are also two kinds of lying
Stretching the truth
Completely falsifying your experience.
Stretching the truth means either misrepresenting the nature of a precious position to make you sound better than you were or working with the fundamental experience you have and connecting it back to the position you want.
For example, i've worked largely in retail and sales roles. I have very little data entry experience. But, I'm looking for a role change. I could misrepresent the experience i gained from a previous position by saying that I have used digital management systems to keep track of stock over time, and aided in determining sales trends based on that. Which is true. I definitely look up stock levels a lot and I've done a stock take before. I've totally chatted with my manager, off hand, about ordering stock.
Or I might say that my role in sales required a level of interpersonal development which allows me to fit in well with an office culture. Which is does, but those skills were developed with customers and not other staff.
In either case, what I'm saying is technically true, but shapped to suit the role before me.
Outright lying is higher risk but offers greater reward. The benefit of lying now is that they already believe you. Afterall, you have the interview. Now, you need to show how your fake experience brings value to the new business. A basic understanding of the role you're lying about, and how to talk about it authentically is vital. It is usually best to lie about a role adjacent or structurally similar to one you've already worked.
To carry on from the previous example, let's say I've claimed to already work in an office. What value can I bring from an existing office position that sounds like it comes from someone whose worked in that role before? Well, I might say that I have experience developing stakeholder relationships and multitasking several different roles at a time. I could even make up examples.
When lying you need to stay confident. Whether you have worked the job or not doesn't matter. Your confidence needs to be the way this experience is relevant to your new role. And if you're asked to give an example, make up anything in the context of the job that lead to that outcome. At the end of the day, they don't know anything about your actual experience except what you've told them.
An element of all of this, and the underlying reason why it works, is that confidence and the ability to think on your feet will be infinitely more valuable to an employer than the actual experience you show. Even if the lie is found out, you were able to so confidentally understand the job criteria and relate to it on the fly and that makes you worth holding on to. Because it means you can be given a problem and can be expected to solve it with minimal assistance.
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I asked the question about 'overall" deal and "first look". I looked up the difference and was just trying to get more info on the differences and why they would change it. Also, wondered if they really did change it or if one of the articles about CM's deal with WB was incorrect? The Variety article back in 2020 definitely said overall deal. I thought the first look deal might be better for CM? Really is a legit question. I want TW renewed, and want to understand the impact of digital numbers. TFW2 is printing how TW is trending down, but with digital numbers, we should be good, right?
Yeah, your ask is legit, but why did the ask exist? Because 2po threw decontextualized nonsense about the deals into the water and people are suddenly talking about the thing. Then, if I don't nail down real fast how reality works, people start running around like chicken little about the thing. I'm sure you've noticed this pattern by now.
Either way. Honestly? Yes, it's technically better for us. BOTH deals are considered high status to get, but each are conditional to a company's situation. When CM was new, going all in overall deal with WB both secured their licensing and early footing. But they're established now, they got what they needed squared. They might wanna think outside of WB. WB still wants to look at their shit first but Jensen isn't stuck. So yes, it's actually better for us, which is why watching the other noodles try to connect the dots is funny as shit.
First rule of thumb ignore literally anything 2po says about ratings. He has proven time and time again he has no idea what he's talking about and, like many things, googled it poorly but enough to just talk about it, cuz he loves hearing himself talk.
If we're gonna talk about trending down I'd love to discuss how a show that premiered at 0.37 only 2 years ago is running a season average of 0.08 new episodes at 8PM prime top tier Thursday space, even with heavy marketing helping it out. The man understands NOTHING of how to track things like audience retention rates. He's about to google what those are now to try to prove in a convenient soon upcoming post that he does, and so on. He doesn't know the value of timeslots, he doesn't understand the workings of the media weatherdome, he doesn't understand the difference between a rerun at 8P, a live show at 8P, and a live show at 9 P. He doesn't understand that different nights have different values in different seasons, and what the network expectations here are. He doesn't understand why the 9P slot increasing 50% demo is a good thing, not something you can spin as "decline."
He just doesn't get it. He fundamentally has zero grasp of the topic he tries to talk about, so that's the first thing to remember whenever he's trying to talk. He's literally just googling through it and talking out his ass to find an angle of argument, not actually educating himself on an industry to find the truth. Because that both takes too much work for him and is full of answers he deep down knows he doesn't want.
We're fine. Our numbers are fine. Our digitals are *crushing it*. I promise you Nexstar isn't just randomly double airing a show that isn't making them money. The idea of "making it back" that's not how it works dipshits that's the opposite. If a show isn't making money it's replaced with a show that makes money. They double book the show that makes money. I'm not sure why they're acting like this is fucking rocket science or something they even have room to speculate in, and I don't know why this fandom lets it work when you could ask a lot of these questions to yourself and realize like "WOW! THIS IS HORSE SHIT!"
Fandom needs to start learning how to think for itself, because the level of transparency and rapid rate failure coming out of certain people should be speaking for itself as the squeal louder and louder.
Stop even considering his arguments. You could give a toddler alphabet soup in a highchair and they'd probably be able to slam together ratings about as accurate and well understood as 2po does. Stop humoring his results. Stop entertaining him. You've seen him fail over and over and over. You've seen him be caught in lie after lie. You've seen him blow thousands of dollars failing out. You've seen him be resolved with simple google searches, seen him try to pretend a reddit thread is a secret source.
You've seen it. These are literally just angry trolls with attention seeking personality disorders distilled into their most compressed state and about to explode, and until then, there's just nonsense spraying out nonstop.
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gelnailsnoise · 12 days
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Fall Nail Designs Simple
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Simple Fall Nail Designs to Embrace the Autumn Spirit
As the summer sun fades and crisp autumn air sets in, it's time to trade in your bright, beachy nail colors for a cozy fall manicure. But achieving a stunning fall look doesn't require intricate nail art skills or hours at the salon. Here, we explore a collection of simple fall nail designs that are easy to create at home or request from your nail technician.
Warm and Wonderful: Classic Fall Colors
Fall is all about celebrating warm and inviting hues.exclamation Embrace the season with a simple coat of polish in a rich, autumnal shade. Here are some perfect picks:
Deep Burgundy: This sophisticated and timeless color adds instant elegance to your fingertips.expand_more
Chocolate Brown: Offering a touch of warmth, chocolate brown is a versatile shade that complements most skin tones.
Earthy Green: Channel the changing leaves with a deep forest green or a muted olive green.
Pumpkin Spice Orange: Capture the essence of fall with a playful and vibrant pumpkin spice orange.
Metallic Copper: Add a touch of glam with a metallic copper polish. This shade pairs beautifully with other fall colors or can shine on its own.
For a little extra something, add a single rhinestone or a touch of gold glitter to one accent nail.
French Tip Twist: Embrace the Fall Palette
The classic French manicure gets a seasonal makeover with fall-inspired colors.expand_more Here are some simple variations:
Brown French Tip: Ditch the traditional white tip for a rich brown hue that complements your base coat.exclamation
Metallic French Tip: Elevate your French manicure with a metallic tip in gold, silver, or copper.
Double French Tip: Create a unique look with a thin line of a contrasting fall color under the traditional white tip.
Glitter French Tip: Add a touch of sparkle with a glitter tip in a complementary fall shade.exclamation
Simple Nail Art for the Fall Enthusiast
For those who want a touch of nail art without the complexity, here are some easy designs to try:
Leaf Art: Use a small nail art brush and a contrasting fall color (like gold or black) to paint simple maple leaves or oak leaves on your nails.
Dotty Delight: Create a playful pattern by using a dotting tool to apply small dots of various fall colors on your nails.
Wavy Lines: Using a striping brush, paint a few wavy lines in a contrasting fall color for a modern and elegant look.
Negative Space Accents: Paint your nails with a solid fall color and then use nail art tape to create geometric shapes or stripes that you leave unpainted, creating a negative space design.
Fall-Themed Minimalism
Minimalism is a popular trend that translates beautifully to fall nail designs. Here are some simple ideas:
Half-Moon Manicure: Paint the lower half of your nail in a fall color and leave the top half bare for a clean and modern look.exclamation
Color Blocking: Paint each nail a different fall color for a playful yet sophisticated look.exclamation
Ombre Fade: Create a subtle gradient effect by using two or three shades of the same fall color family. Apply the darkest shade at the tip and gradually lighten the color towards the base of your nail.exclamation
Fall Nail Design Tips for Beginners
Invest in quality nail polish: A good quality polish will apply more smoothly, last longer, and be easier to work with.
Use a base coat: This will protect your nails from staining and help your polish adhere better.
Apply thin coats: It's better to apply two or three thin coats of polish for a smooth, even finish than one thick coat that will take longer to dry and may chip more easily.expand_more
Clean up mistakes: Use a cotton swab dipped in nail polish remover to clean up any mistakes around your cuticles before the polish dries completely.
Apply a top coat: This will add shine to your nails and help protect your polish from chipping.
With these simple fall nail designs and tips, you can easily create stunning autumn manicures at home or at the salon. Embrace the warm hues and cozy vibes of the season with your fingertips!
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dondocodocodon-blog · 4 months
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Building an AI-Powered Marketing Strategy
Crafting an AI-powered marketing strategy revolutionizes how you connect with your audience. You can harness data more effectively, personalize customer interactions to an unprecedented degree, and anticipate market trends with greater accuracy. By integrating artificial intelligence into your digital marketing efforts, you gain insights that lead to smarter decisions and stronger engagement strategies.
This approach not only enhances the efficiency of campaigns but also delivers a richer experience for consumers by ensuring they receive content tailored specifically to their needs and preferences.
Assessing Your Digital Marketing AI Readiness
To know if you're ready for AI in your digital marketing, look at your current tools. Do they link well? Can they track success and learn from data? Think about what parts of marketing matter most to you. Is it fast email replies or knowing customer moods? Tools like SEO GPT 2 help write content that feels real. This saves time and fits the user's voice better than before.
Platforms such as Invoca give sharp insights by tracking calls from ads so you can spend smarter. The key is smart use with a clear plan. This way, AI boosts how well each part of your strategy works together.
Data Collection: The AI Fuel Source
In the world of marketing, data is key. You need it like air to power your AI systems. It's not about collecting just any data. You must seek out quality info that relates directly to buyers' habits and preferences.
This allows machines to learn patterns, predict trends, and personalize experiences at a scale no human could match. For instance, imagine using machine learning in an app tied to larger platforms. This can transform customer interactions from simple transactions to personalized journeys.
Now consider this: A McKinsey study found AI impacts marketing more than other fields by significantly boosting understanding and engagement with customers. Begin small with rule-based tools, then grow towards complex AI for maximum impact.
Choosing the Right AI Marketing Tools
When you pick AI tools for marketing, think about your goals. Want to know what folks say about your stuff? Use sentiment analysis for feedback.
Need a scoop on rivals? Competitor intelligence is key. For better campaign ROI, aim at the right crowd with data-driven targeting.
Say content creation wears you out. Some AIs craft copy that nails SEO needs or redo existing text so it seems fresh and new again (check out SEO GPT). Ever feel lost in tasks? Zapier can link apps to automate those steps.
Editing is tough but vital. The Hemingway app polishes readability, while Grammarly fixes grammar slips fast. Chatbots like Chatfuel talk to customers when you can't, an always-on helper! Don’t forget FullStory, either. It tracks digital trails users leave behind, showing how they interact online with your brand pages.
Remember: no single tool does it all. Mix and match for top effect!
Personalization Tactics with AI Technology
You need to personalize your marketing, right? Well, AI can do that. By analyzing what customers like or want, it tailors suggestions just for them.
Imagine a chatbot giving style tips picked only for you. This is happening already on platforms like Amazon! AI doesn't stop there. It learns from each customer's choices and offers up the best picks the next time they shop. Think of how Netflix shows you movies. You'll love the same idea here.
Plus, when folks browse or buy things on your site, AI uses those actions to whip up personalized content in real-time. You get happier customers who keep coming back because everything feels handpicked just for them! So, use AI smartly and watch personal connections with your brand grow stronger than ever before!
Optimizing Customer Journeys Using AI Insights
In your quest to shape customer journeys, AI gives you the edge. It sifts through data and spots trends in how buyers act online. Imagine a shopper clicks on your ad; AI notes this interest, kickstarting tailored emails that guide them back to buy from you.
Tools like 6Sense dive into user intent. It's smart about who might be ready to spend money with you. Using AI cleverly means more than just watching numbers climb. It’s crafting experiences one person at a time, be they named Jane or John, that feel unique because their web clicks and likes are different! This precision fosters loyalty, nudging sales upward.
Measuring ROI of AI-Enhanced Campaigns
You need to know how your AI tools are doing. To see if they're worth it, we check what comes back against what goes in. This is called "ROI." Look at the time saved and work done faster with AI. This shows the value gained from investing in smart tech for marketing.
AI can do lots of things, like sifting through data or creating stuff fast without getting stuck. Think of a car that drives itself. You still tell it where to go, right? It’s the same here: let AI handle routine tasks but keep your hands on steering big decisions and creative ideas.
Using AI means more than just being quick or trendy. It lets us focus less on small tasks so we can craft better strategies and build real connections, which leads to wins in business goals. In short, measure ROI by gains minus cost while using these clever machines as helpful partners, not replacements, in crafting winning plans that resonate well beyond mere numbers. Remember: the point isn't replacing humans but helping them soar higher!
Navigating Ethical Concerns in AI Adoption
In adopting AI, you face ethical issues that demand your attention. Cut through them with care. Trust is key. Avoid harm in all AI moves you make for marketing gains.
Work within the law and shape actions to fit your firm's values and style of work. Cornerstone OnDemand shows us that using smart tech saves time, lets teams plan ahead, and sharpens strategy focus. Yet caution is a must, risks hide here too!
For instance, ensure fair use so skills grow without bias or unfair advantage from AI suggestions on learning or project picks.
Embracing AI in your marketing strategy offers a competitive edge. With tools from SEO companies like SEO Vendor, you leverage data-driven insights for targeted campaigns, personalized content, and enhanced customer experiences. As machine learning algorithms understand consumer behavior better over time, adopting such innovative solutions positions you at the forefront of industry trends with optimized ROI potential.
Remember to integrate these systems thoughtfully. They're partners amplifying human creativity and strategic thinking within your digital marketing initiatives.
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This just in on the latest couples if he wanted to be would trend to fuck with me mentally because honestly as a queer all your friendships are half way romances: the orange peel theory (will your partner do a small act of service that you could do yourself for the fact that it will make your life easier and furthermore is it something you didn't need to ask them to do).
Naturally my forefront thought is thinking of my two prior FPs to which one was allergic so naturally peeling an orange is off the table and to be honest I'm struggling on figuring my out if there was a "I did this because it would make you happy" moment albeit I just think I wasn't around with them enough to have that (they did nice things but there was usually some expectation for those things in such situations). Ofc the previous one was half living with me at point so there were plenty of moments like bringing me tea or filing my nails right before their graduation or picking me up because they knew I would be happy for it. In contrast I think I wasn't great for reciprocating it and the times I tried had been more overbearing than anything but having undiagnosed BPD does not make the best at dealing with that. Having diagnosed doesn't do much better.
Ironically the best thought that comes to mind is my mum and I really enjoy clementines lately (of which I've always been avid of) and I'd say regularly we make sure to give a piece to each other because we know it would help to have a slice. For all the ways my relationship with her is tough, it is at least some proof that there is some form of love communication we share.
I'm also left pondering the cultural and neural specificity of it all. Ironically I'd say it's more effect of a cishet woman to regularly do these things due to the social training to expect other's needs. And also in some part it is hard to divorce non financial acts out of it when that comes up so much if two people are not regularly living together. Of course it's because I live with my family that I most commonly can find aspects of these acts with them. While I can't think of a few times I've seen forethought on something that would make me happy by my friends, it was often in the act of spontaneous gift giving. Friends who are more willing to spoil me and now often in more secure financial situation. Equally those more inclined to do caretaking acts are more heavily influenced by a collectivist upbringing compared to the western independent ones where it would be seen moreso as infantilizing.
I guess finally I reflect on those acts I wish I could receive myself one day; surprised with a birthday cake or flowers, prepared fruits, being picked up, or matching an outfit/cosplay to mine.
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I keep seeing posts encouraging eating disorders in the trending tab and reporting them as self-harm and I am just so tired. Have to get it out.
No, the starvation bloat won't be cute.
Neither will be the hair falling out, nails chipping and skin graying from the lack of nutrients.
If you actually had a significant amount of weight to lose at the start, congrats of the folds of loose skin. Totally so much better than having fat like a normal person.
Dying isn't pretty. And starving yourself is slowly dying.
People won't like you more for refusing to go out to eat with them. Maybe they'll pity you or feel bad about how much they're eating when they notice the difference. Being too dizzy to get out of bed won't help.
It's a terrible ugly way to go. You won't be pretty in a casket.
Eating is surviving. Food is joy. Fat is pretty. So much prettier than a corpse.
People who actually care about you will never want you to feel the pain of hunger. Surround yourself with people who want you to eat, because they want you to stay alive and well.
Accept that it's impossible to be weightless. Accept that it's impossible to look like celebrities, their trick is money. Accept that staying alive isn't about becoming perfect, it's about finding joy in small things. Accept that skinny doesn't equal healthy or pretty. Let it go. Forget the numbers. Focus on flavors again. Live your life. Please.
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twillightteaparty · 2 years
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Best friend headcanon! part two!
Jamil
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Friends who complain together are staying together. Y'all be keeping each other's secrets together, and taking them to your Graves.
You will get to know things that no one else will ever get to know not even his family knows this shit. Kalim could never know the things you do.
His love language is food, you will be well fed for the rest of your life for as long as you are friends. Truly a God's blessing for sure.
On the other side of this double edge sword you are like the only person Jamil accepts any amount of help from. Your also the only person that can give him constructive criticism that does cause him immense amounts of anger
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Y'all broke bastards out here. Guess we are being gay and doing crimes, presumably those crimes are mostly tax fraud but don't sweat the details
There is a lot of quoting memes, vines, tictoks and more but very out of context and if one of you starts it the other will finish the joke and it always ends in giggling fits.
On less hectic and more casual days I imagine there is a lot of sitting in silence and just spending time together. Considering you guys are probably over worked and exhausted it's nice to just vibe together.
You better be willing to pull pranks with this man, how else are you expecting this relationship to last? Well the other way is food. You give Ruggie a snack and he's wrapped around your pinkie finger
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You better be coming to tell him everything first, that said he also has all the latest tea to catch you up on. Y'all out here gossiping and day dreaming what can I say.
I imagine many nights are spent painting nails, pampering yourselves, all while eat popcorn and watching movie you both like.
I think it's safe to say that cater will be posting selfies of the two of you all over magicam. Tagged and hash tagged. He always is your number one supporter.
Honestly the best person to study with because it's easy to relax and focus, also his notes are always so easy to follow. Their colour coded and everything.
Azul
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You are one of very few people who get to get away with teasing him, do not abuse this power. To be fair I think that could be said for any friendship.
He's a very caring friend and will always go out of his way to always make accommodations for you. You have a headache? Have some appropriate pain killers and a nice cup of soothing tea <3
He'll of course he more than willing to help you study, or perhaps even come up with creative solutions to any problems you may be having. He's incredible to bounce ideas off of.
Unfortunately or fortunately being friends with Azul means being friends with or at least associated with the leech twins. For better and worse.
Idia
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You will always be up to date on the latest news, the latest events of whatever show Idia has been watching, the plot twists in his games, even on the latest trends in technology. There are few people he can get himself to talk to, though when he can talk to someone he talks a lot.
He's more than willing to help you study, he may be overconfident in what he knows though. mostly because he finds subjects in school easy and often gets homework done quickly because it doesn't interest him.
if you ever play any game with him it really do be him carrying through the game as he is level 80 + and then like helping you fight everything and helping you get places so you don't have to sprint everywhere or whatever. though no matter what it's always a lot of fun.
y'all have your own discord server or something where you guys trade news, memes, and joke around. it's perfect for streaming movies so you don't have to hike his dorm room every time. or hang out in VC as you guys do your own thing and listen to music together.
Part one / part two /
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Me continuing my best friend's headcanon series no one asked for, more likely than you thought. to be fair, The first one probably wasn't all that great but whatever I don't care.
Regardless, I hope everyone enjoyed the post.
Signed, Admin Tea
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niko’s masterlist
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last updated: 02 august 2022
most recent work: come and get 'em
newer fics are at the bottom of the list!
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drabbles
study date - kiyoomi hates chemistry and you really aren’t helping the situation.
wisdom teeth removal - kiyoomi gets his wisdom teeth removed and wants nothing more than to be with you.
bathing together - you and sakusa share a romantic bath, prepared by him, yet, something isn't quite right.
wash day (at night) - there's a warm intimacy that comes with doing your hair. reader is written to be a person of color. poc!reader
untitled 001 - sorting through my emotions due to the unjust murder of george floyd.
sakusa thinks you're pregnant - a series of misunderstandings leads sakusa to believe you to be pregnant. surprise! you're not!
meet my parents - sakusa wants you to meet his parents, but doesn't know how to ask.
sakusa asks you out - sakusa wants to be your boyfriend (and it’s about time he asked).
bootycalls - kiyoomi’s had a hard day, but he knows how to make it better. some cuddles, some banter, use of the L word. reader is accused of witchcraft, but it’s all in good fun.
taking care of a drunk reader - y/n is talking to a stranger about her sex life and kiyoomi is on damage control. it’s an uphill battle to finally tuck her into bed. give this man a break, please.
interruptions - sakusa’s daughter hijacks the post-game interview, but nobody seems to mind. gosh, she’s such a daddy’s girl.
warm - you're stuck indoors with kiyoomi during a blizzard; luck is truly on his side. suggestive but not explicit.
insecurity - insecurity is not something that finds sakusa easily, but god does it hit like a bitch once it does.
trespassing - reader takes a rich!sakusa to stargaze in the middle of nowhere. mutual pining but both you and sakusa are too dumb to notice. friends to almost lovers.
drunk!sakusa - late night talks over the phone that reveal a bit more than they should.
domestic series - a peak into life with sakusa. 01 // 02 // 03 // 04 //
different kinds of kisses - there’s a million different ways to kiss someone; a million silent ways to tell someone you love them. 01 //
the five love languages - collection drabbles showcasing the five love languages with a very soft, very playful, (and mildly horny) sakusa kiyoomi. 01 // 02 //
seasons with my lover! - a love that grows through every season. 01 //
greek mythology au! sakusa x reader - sakusa wants to be your hero.
six inch heels - giving sakusa a lap dance and-- was the room always this hot?
come and get 'em - sakusa hates when your dates come to an end, so if you want your keys, you better some and get 'em.
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headcannons:
01 // 02 // 03
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virgin no more! series (on hold)
*sakusa's first blowjob - sakusa wants to take the next step in your relationship. who are you to deny him of such a request?
*eat up, kiyoomi! - sakusa learns to give head for the first time. good thing you're there to help him out.
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tiktok trends! series
showing off your nails (ft. sakusa's dick)
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