#tayjoe

[cowboylikedean]

i really don't think he kept her captive as in out of the public eye like everyone's been saying for months. i think that's a decision she made for her when she had to (2016) and i don't think it was for him or about him.

i think the references to jail and being trapped are about being stuck under the emotional weight of someone who refuses to help themselves.

i can fix him (no really i can), renegade, the alcott, hell even ylm.... the betty speeches too... they all paint a story of a man deep in his depressive bullshit who refused to help himself or accept help and she felt trapped and suffocated by the weight of it.

i think shedding that weight was a huge part of her realizing she didn't need to hide herself away as much, but i don't think hiding herself was ever about him.

#tayjoe #ttpd

[taybigailsweirdheart]

Happiness is so much more heartbreaking now considering neither Taylor nor Abigail ended up with the person who they thought they would be with for the rest of their life.

#happiness #taybigail #tayjoe #Taylor Swift

[youwerenevermiine]

no cos: Pulled the car off the road to the lookout. Could've followed my fears all the way down. And maybe I don't quite know what to say. But I'm here in your doorway // I thought the plane was going down. How'd you turn it right around // All the jokers dressin' up as kings. They fade to nothin' when I look at him. And I know I make the same mistakes every time. Bridges burn, I never learn, at least I did one thing right. // My one and only, my lifeline // Stop, you're losing me. I can't find a pulse. My heart won't start anymore for you // I wake up screaming from dreaming. One day I'll watch as you're leaving. And life will lose all its meaning (For the last time) // I got nothing to believe, unless you're choosing me

#she lost the most meaningful thing she had in her life the only thing she believed in her religion her lifeline #it's devastating i need to lie down #tayjoe breakup #taylor swift #taylor #joe #joe alwyn #mine

[florencewellch]

I've not seen a single person here talking about the Taylor and Fernando Alfonso rumors, so thank you Tumblr Swifties

#now if we could move on from the tayjoe breakup that would be amazing #jake.txt

[sadbeautifutragic]

i'm craving tropical smoothie cafe maybe i'll get some for lunch tomorrow after i'm done volunteering

#fun fact: the last time i had food from there was the moment i learned about the tayjoe break up 🥴

[deeenerys17]

#Wtf #Kinda tayjoe coded

[niallschesthair]

today's one month since the tayjoe breakup announcement and i feel like i've aged twenty years and walked into at least three different parallel realities in that time

#it's barely one month and I haven't had time to even process it because there's been twenty different things happening at all times #since then and not a single one makes sense #like literally who would have told me a month ago that today I'd be here talking about how genuinely smitten mattybatty is with her??? #imagine telling hayden a month ago that matty would be involved at all 😭😭

[septembersghost]

It's so funny that when tayjoe were together swifties(not you sweetie😘😘) were literally sh*tting on harry and made fun of him for writing 'I love you'(which was sweet af) and looking sad at bbmas. And when tayjoe broke up they were calling him YB(🤢)and making poor man jokes. Yet after m*** h**** happened they are literally begging for both of them lol. And the amount of people I have seen who are predicting a haylor reunion is insane. I always thought no one took their relationship as anything beyond a fling yet even people in reddit(biggest anti haylors and the ones who hate harry ) knows about the 2014 phase and thinks they would give it a shot. I am not overly invested as in I'll be happy if they date but I will support any relationship they have(as long as it's not matt Healy). But I definitely didn't know people thought of haylor as anything beyond pr and I am shocked in the best way possible.

is now an appropriate time to say how horrendously some fans treated joe for actual years over nothing? calling him a nepo boyfriend (what does that even mean), calling him poor/jobless/boring, accusing him of all sorts of baseless things (the DV hand signal, for example), anons on here harassing blogs by saying she didn't care about him and he was a joke, i've never seen someone treated so badly for quietly minding his business and trying to stay in his lane. idk how tuned in he ever was to any of that noise, and i hope not at all, but that alone would become unbearable for a lot of people after awhile. and like i said before, we have no idea what happened between them and it's not our place to know (unless she decides to tell us), but there's no concrete reason to believe he betrayed her in some massive way right now. people grow apart. the dissolution of a six+ year relationship is going to leave hurt and scars and wreckage even if it WAS somewhat amicable, because you're losing a whole life you've built together, and whatever plans you might have had for the future. so of course she's hurting, i'm sure he is too, but i'm just not ready yet to skewer him and put him on the list with JM, JG, and CH as this terrible partner when all we knew was him being a good and decent and kind one for years (from more commentary than just taylor's). the tweets begging for joe to fight for her and to come back are funny, but also very sad - it's like the epitome of you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone. (i also don't think ANY of us were prepared for this massive of a shift in one month's time. during tour. with a re-recording coming soon. it's a lot to process.)

then with harry, i've never understood making fun of what he wrote if you're a fan of what she writes, because they're both drawing on confessional personal experiences? where is the logic? he's the only instance where we've gotten the other side of the conversation! i think the (totally idiotic) pr accusation started to really die down several years ago as more and more people got into the truth of their relationship and when he repeatedly praised her songwriting (the only people who accuse them of that now are detached from reality akljsdkljf). but yeah it's quite the mood switch to see the subreddits bringing him up in a positive way and acknowledging that he's a sweet and talented guy after ripping him to shreds for no reason last year. :/ although that's what he deserves to have said!

i've also never seen swifties and even people who don't like her so united in an opinion as they are in collectively being in shambles over this development. 😭 and as i said before, there's a difference between a bad boy edgy persona and actively causing harm with bigoted words/actions - you can only use racism as "satire" so many times before it stops being a joke, or make sexist comments and follow someone like andr*w t*te without being legitimately misogynistic. i just. *head in hands* someone on the sub said, "people keep saying 'let her live her life' - and i absolutely am, but i don't have to be comfortable with the way she's doing it when it involves racist boys, and i don't have to support it," and someone else said, "being hurt can make you do crazy things, and she is only a human just like all of us," and i honestly feel there's room for both thoughts here. we can understand it wholly and let her live, and that doesn't mean we have to support it ourselves.

meanwhile let us just keep manifesting haylor friends era. anything feels possible at this point!

#i've been mad about the way people discussed and treated joe for years and even without him and in light of everything i'm still pressed #because it was unfair and never warranted #i don't believe T & H will ever get back together but honestly who even knows what might happen everything feels unreal #i would not have a problem w/ m@tty if there wasn't a laundry list of things to have a problem with. #idc about him consensually kissing fans idc about him eating raw steak as performance art though it's gross to me personally #idc what he looks like that's mean/subjective. #but everyone who's unhappy bc of the legitimately upsetting comments and actions has a reason for that #sorry this is more into gossipy areas than usual but we're going through A Time! #anonymous #letterbox #thrown out speeches

[joeandtaylorfanfiction]

hey! For the anon who wanted the forevermore fic, it's on wattpad if they still want to read it!

https://www.wattpad*com/520162942-tayjoe-oneshots-forevermore

Hey! Thank you so much! You can read it here!

#asks #anon

[likeadevils]

Not any of those anons participated yesterday but I am genuinely shocked by the number of people who romanticize Taylor/zac while saying Taylor/harry was pr on reddit. I think its mostly because we actually saw them being interviewed together and heard them interacting with each other so people tend to think their dynamic as cute. Meanwhile neither haylor or tayjoe have that 'interactions' filmed other than few pics so people tend to be dismissive. I remember when rep came out people were saying most songs were about calvin eventhough narrative doesn't make sense or taylor herself said it wasnt

yes! i also think people got super sick of haylor and will try and minimize that relationship as possible. and there's this bias towards each song being about a different person, so people will try to cram as many muses as they can into an album when like,,, she wasn't that inspired by that many people

#asks*

[cowboylikedean]

can I just say I am still thankful for Joe being there for her in 2016. No matter what happens or has happened, he was there then and I will always be grateful

#taylor #tayjoe

[taybigailsweirdheart]

So now I guess she will truly never walk Cornelia Street again 💔

#tayjoe

[tayliviaspeace]

31 things I am convinced Jaylor do

*vacation edition*

Play a game and the winner gets to pick where they go for their next holiday.

Joe picking smaller towns so that they can be themselves in peace without the media.

Taylor planning surprise trips and not telling Joe where they are going.

Making it a habit to go to Nashville and London at least 2 times each in a year.

Joe flying to Taylor's tour destination if he has a vacation day, and Taylor flying to his shooting spot if she has an off day.

Joe records and takes pictures of Taylor all the time 'to document the memories', but it's really to see her smile and roll her eyes at him.

Joe taking Taylor on a piggy back ride in the water because she's scared of sea urchins.

Taylor sending Jack random voice memos of sounds and lyrics that she wants to use in her next song/album, while Joe just shakes his head at her, muttering about how lucky he is to be so inspired by her constantly, and see her work.

Taylor gets scared every time she does that because she feels that Joe will get annoyed at her.

Joe smiling at her and telling her that he loves seeing her work, which calms her down.

Sunset walks on the beach are a must, they can never go back home without doing it at least once.

Taylor is always packed a week in advance and Joe is never packed.

Joe surprises Taylor with trips and not telling Taylor.

They both take off days in September to go to The Lakes.

Joe made this a tradition/habit that there are no phones/anything work related after 6 pm, unless it's urgent.

Taylor seeing a tabloid of her and it makes her feel badly about herself, and Joe reads it, rips it apart and tells her exactly why the tabloid is wrong.

Joe always surprises Taylor with a dinner, the night before they're leaving, at an extremely romantic restaurant.

They try to go hiking or do something they have never done before.

Taylor convinces Joe to go to a waterpark, they have disguises so no one recognises them.

Taylor made it a rule to have one day strictly for photos.

Joe buys Taylor some souvenirs, and Taylor does the same.

Taylor and Joe collect seashells if they're at a beach.

They try to go to beachy places.

They make it a point to see a movie in black and white.

Taylor surprises Joe with matching pyjamas.

Joe surprises Taylor by cooking her dinner.

Taylor takes Joe to a museum, because [he seems like the type to like them] he once mentioned how he loved learning about different cultures, and he loved history, and museums.

If in Paris, they put a lock on love lock bridge.

They talk about all the places they could get a destination wedding.

At the airport, they both buy at least 1 new book, and chocolate.

Taylor insists on buying the country's signature and famous wines.

#taylor swift #taylornation #joe alwyn #william bowery #vacation #wedding #jaylor #otp #dream couple #13 #imagine #taytay #teffy #taylurking #tayjoe #toe #fan #swiftie #swifties #indian swiftie

[youwerenevermiine]

Taylor and Joe over the years.

#taylor swift #joe alwyn #tayjoe #headlines

[thisselflovecamebacktome]

omg yes!! your tags on the reblog make so much sense sjnsm thanks

All good. 

I have actually been thinking a lot about the line "Hang your head low in the glow of the vending machine, I’m not dying" and how it parallels “When I was shipwrecked, I thought of you. In the cracks of light, I dreamed of you. And it was enough to get me through” because while obviously not confirmed, it felt like that moment at the vending machine could have been one of many memories with Joe she relied on to help her get through the days and remember that there was still good parts of life. So yeah, the meaning of that line has been at the forefront of my mind since Evermore came out.

#cruel summer #evermore #evermore album #lover album #taylor swift #joe alwyn #tayjoe #achampionring

[sadbeautifutragic]

I wouldn't celebrate just yet think they still together on the low

if people announces it then it's 100% legit. same with the tayjoe split

#anonymous #ask