Hey mbti, I am an infj and I'd like to ask you what exactly consists an spiritual need. I don't know how to explain it to you, but I am in search of a belief system greater than myself. You are a philosopher, right? Maybe I could find some answers in philosophy. If so, where do I start?
The etymology of "spirit" goes back to the word "breath", as related to the "energy" that imbues all living beings. The word "spirit" is invoked as a contrast to physical existence, so it refers to the nonphysical aspects of you and your existence that are presumed to be equally important to the physical aspects. Without one or the other, your existence never really feels right.
If you just live for physical survival, you will soon find that your existence feels somewhat empty or hollow. Why? Because you haven't addressed the question of what you're living for. Many people only come to realize that they have spiritual needs because they sense an inexplicable lack or absence of something important - much of human behavior is motivated by an unconscious desire to compensate for some intangible void within. This leads many people to use their cognitive functions egotistically, as though spiritual needs are just like physical needs like hunger or thirst, for example:
immature Si: only attaches to things for safety/security
immature Ni: only pursues goals that benefit oneself
immature Ti: only uses one's knowhow to cheat or exploit
immature Fi: only cares about one's own feelings
immature Se: only knows superficial pleasures
immature Ne: only wants to be entertained and distracted
immature Te: only wants power, control, or clout
immature Fe: only wants to possess or dominate
The concept of "spiritual need" is about formally acknowledging the necessity of meaning, actively engaging in meaning-making activities, and being in touch with something outside of yourself, beyond mere egotistical wants/desires. Spiritual needs are universal and include things such as:
to seek and apply the right knowledge
to develop one's potential
to put one's talents to good use
to set a constructive direction
to feel a sense of greater purpose
to earn respect and trust
to express care, support, and love
to have a sense of place and belonging
to participate fully in the world
to recognize the value in everything
to conduct oneself in the right way
to care about moral goals/outcomes
to devote oneself to worthy causes
to heal what is hurt or broken
to be present, whole, at peace
to experience beauty, wonder, awe
to have hope for the future
to have faith in a greater power
There are many ways to fulfill spiritual needs because there are many ways to generate a meaningful existence. Some spiritual needs are closely related to the functional stack. The process of learning how to use your functions maturely should naturally generate plenty of meaning for you. For example, observe the connection between these function applications and the needs listed above:
mature Si: use ritual to generate sacred significance
mature Ni: devote yourself to a better future
mature Ti: make the best use of your capabilities
mature Fi: honor what is good and virtuous
mature Se: bring out the beauty and wonder of the world
mature Ne: use possibility to create a better world
mature Te: build a world that works well for everyone
mature Fe: use harmony/gratitude to rebalance the world
Philosophers are not innately more spiritual nor do they automatically possess spiritual wisdom. Some of my classmates went through the entire canon of philosophers and didn't come out much wiser. You say you're looking for a belief system, but that's not really what philosophy is used for a lot of the time. Philosophers are more inclined to doubt and even take apart belief systems, which can be a dangerous activity, if it leaves you with no ground to stand on. Only a subset of philosophers are fully devoted to the concept of wisdom and learning the knowledge that one needs for living life well.
The advantages of being a philosopher come from: general open-mindedness; a willingness to deeply and thoroughly explore concepts; the ability to structure, extract, and evaluate ideas and arguments; the discernment to separate truth from falsity. In short, being a philosopher grants you certain mental tools, but how you choose to use them is what matters most.
You still have to set the right intentions, goals, and purpose. You still have to do the hard work of learning the right kinds of knowledge and then apply the knowledge in the right ways. You still have to keep examining yourself and whether your path continues to be viable and good. To be a philosopher is in some ways antithetical to the concept of a peaceful existence. Is inner peace not what people really want when they say they "want a belief system"?
Instead of getting lost in a sea of abstract philosophical ideas, it would be more fruitful for you to examine the reasons behind why you don't feel at peace and address them more directly. The above list should give you a better idea of what spiritual needs are and the importance of using healthy methods to fulfill them. Determine which spiritual needs are most pressing/important to you at this period of your life, set some concrete benchmarks and goals in relation to them, and come up with a feasible plan for fulfilling them.
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