#sorry i saw something that made me mad

[transnapsap]

people who make sapnap out to be this big mean badass edgy guy or someone who wont say ily to his friends are so fucking funny to me. like besides dream sometimes he's the loviest in the dream team, ESPECIALLY vocally. he'll talk all day about how much he loves dream and george, he'll protect his friends at whatever cost, he loves animals so much, he got two kittens because he didn't want to leave the other alone, he loves SO MUCH and he's so loud about it, he is so unafraid to say i love you to his friends and it's so beautiful.

like you're telling me that the guy who once said he doesn't have to be tricked into saying he loves dream is this big mean monster? really???

#sapnap #pandasblr #sorry i saw something that made me mad #um. #anyways. #sapnap was my favorite when i joined the fandom and the first time i watched one of his streams was the first time i felt comfortable + #sleeping with the lights off in my bedroom in months

[malama-art]

would really appreciate it if people didn’t say weird things about my drawings (especially if the drawing is of a kid or a animal/pokemon) ^^

#not art #sorry i just saw someone say something weird about one of my ash drawings (again) and it made me a little mad

[adamnsey]

ok sidenote but part of me just LOVES when people describe adam and gansey’s relationship as toxic. its like ur SOOO CLOSE to understanding something just go a bit further dude.... ask urself WHY is it toxic? are they both individually toxic people? or just when they are together? if the latter, what is it about their relationship that makes both of them toxic to each other? is it their personalities? or is it more so the circumstances that they are forced to live and interact in? if their situations were different, would they be just as toxic? do they WANT it to be toxic? or are both of them constantly lamenting the fact that they can’t stop fighting? are both of them constantly trying to do better for the other? are both of them intrinsically doomed by the narrative and the social institutions in which they were raised and taught to live by? are both of them destined to be on perpendicular paths, not parallel ones? are both of them always feeling like this could be more, this could be better, maybe in another life, maybe if things were different, maybe if i were different, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe.... !!!!!!!!!!!!!! but no ur right alexa play Toxic by Britney Spears lol

#anyways sorry i just saw something on pintrest about their relationship being toxic and it made me mad for a second fhdjkhfsjfs #like yes their relationship is toxic in many ways but it is so nuanced i am BEGGING u to investigate further #and what u will find is that that toxicity is in fact quite Sexy and Cool #im JOKING hfdjsfhk anyways. just needed to rant sorry. #adansey #adam parrish #adam #richard campbell gansey iii #trc #the raven cycle #gansey #mine

[prisonpodcast]

some ccs are just straight up nuts there’s no other explanation

#saw a comment on r/dwt2 and it made me look into the moonzy/draggie situation #this freak accused him of having ‘grooming tendencies’ when he was YOUNGER than her #he showed all their DMs and it was just reciprocated flirting ?? #he was initiated more but it seemed reciprocal to me? #she just got mad at him bc he replied to one of her tweets where she was flirting with Karl with ‘ouch’ #<- replied in DMs I mean #I guess bc she thought the flirting was a joke ?? #how is this an ‘experience’ you need to speak up about im loosing my mind #‘guy flirted with me I flirted back but I wasn’t really interested pls show ur sympathies and like and subscribe🥺’ #and in her statement she was talking about an anon who came out about their experiences prior #saying they had been groomed but draggie had fully debunked that years ago #so idk why she was bringing that up ?? #and ofc you have aim.sey and max and sniff in the replies with their heart emojis #straight up nuts I’m losing brain cells here #btw she’s the one who said something about how a lot of ccs didn’t support her #including big ones from that ‘stupid mine.craft server’ (meaning dsmp obv) #just nuts straight up nuts #negativity #like I have to be missing something (and if I am pls tell me but I don’t think I am???) #because saying this cringe flirting with someone YOUNGER THAN YOUUU is ‘groomer tendencies’ is fucking nuts #it’s just what is with these people like what’s wrong with them #why does mildly uncomfortable experience = horrible predator we need to inform the public about bc they’re a danger to society #sorry I’m done I’m just actually upset lol

[afro-elf]

i've heard more about the famous people going to saylor twift's greatest hits tour than i've heard about the actual show like what even happens at her concerts? what could Possibly be going on?

#me #sorry i saw a like compilation of celebrity attendees on my ig explore page and it made me saur mad for some reason #with the little friendship bead bracelets why is this happening #something something taylor's self-infantilization is contagious and she needs to be quarred

[punctuation-completionist]

you don’t have to answer this ask but wow how are you supposed to be the bad guy fucking apologizing for reacting badly to being told to kill yourself?? i hate this website

well okay hold up i never said i was the bad guy. i said there were misunderstandings on both sides and that i was sorry for an issue in one part of how i handled it. just one.

#ask tag #not counting #like um. i do understand that maybe this person's sense of humor is way different then mine okay #but like. they said that they didn't mean it legitimately and once they saw it was haarmful they apologized #for me to say ''i am glad i understand your side of the story and you understand mine'' i am not saying i'm the bad guy #there's really no ''bad guy'' in this situation as i see it because the world is more nuanced then that y'know #like. sometimes people have a sense of humor that you can't pick up on. it doesn't mean you shouldn't state your point of view #and say ''that wasn't how i want people to talk to me and i also won't let you do that'' #also the only part i really ''apologized'' for was that i used a term for them that was uncomfortable #i assume for gender reasons. and i understand where that comes from. if someone called me ''girl'' while arguing i wouldn't like it #whenever i said sorry after that i did my best to try and word it in a way like ''i am sorry this happened but it's not my fault'' #like how when. idk. someone's grandma dies and you say ''sorry for your loss'' you're not saying that you killed their grandma #you're just saying that you feel bad that the thing happened but not that it's your fault #and yes. i do agree that the situation may have been fixed if they just said it was a joke but hindsight is 20/20 right? #anyways. that's my take on the situation. #and like. idk. if they apologized and told me how they saw it. i'm gonna believe them because i have had WAY more malicious people here #like idk. there have been anons who have said wayy worse and there's no discernable reason for why they would #like that one anon who told me that i should get my arms chopped off or something. idk. i deleted it before i could commit it to memory #and that was on purpose #but like. my point is. there's worse people. and if i focus all of my energy about being mad over a person who made one joke in bad taste #idk just seems like a waste of time #at least that's my perspective on the situation. never said i was the bad guy. just sorry it happened #also sorry it happened so late at night for me! i need an ibuprofen and a bagel now

[ozymoron]

dude its always "be yourself" till youre trans and now suddenly oh i get to nitpick every little thing about you oh that gesture was very feminine made you look like a girl oh youre wearing a shirt thats cream coloured? seems a little feminine to me oh you paint your nails? so youre a girl after all like ???? youre giving me mixed messages here am i meant to be myself or am i meant to conform to your idea of what a man is in order to be accepted as one by you

#⚠️ #one time after i came out my mum saw me lounging around in a black t shirt and she was like oh it made you look like a man thinking it was #compliment but dude i got so mad i was like for fuck sake is that seriously what i have to do to be considered a man is lounge around in a #black t shirt??? lounging around is masculine???? what???????? #i was also just a very angry person in general but still that really confuses me #had a psychiatrist note down shit about my appearance saying whether they thought it was feminine or masculine (they thought it was all #feminine) which was fucking crazy cause i went in for an adhd diagnosis #people just find out youre trans and suddenly start acting like experts on whats feminine and whats masculine and what makes you either #gender like shut the fuck up #can also come from people who they themselves accept some cis men are feminine and some cis women are masculine but suddenly as soon as you #try to transition now you have to be masculine or be feminine or youre not valid in their eyes #its fucking crazy #like if i showed them a dude with long hair theyd be like thats a dude with long hair but as soon as i have my hair long im told to cut it #i can show them a dude in a skirt and theyd probably laugh thinking its funny or some bullshit but theyd still think its a dude in a skirt #but if i wear a skirt suddenly im a girl #i know at the root of all this they truly believe people cant switch genders cause in their minds sex and gender is the same but still its #so annoying especially when they pretend to be accepting or think theyre being accepting and when you challenge them on their transphobia #they get all mad at you and act like youre being rude for criticizing them for doing the bare minimum whilst also just continuing to be #transphobic #like yeah you use my correct name but when im not around you use she/her for me and you say i **want** to be a boy instead of i am a boy bu #when i talk to you about this suddenly im the bad guy like its my fault youre using language for me thats transphobic #like ok man. whatever. #sorry for asking you to be a decent fucking human being toward me and treat me with respect #its like people just treat trans peoples gender like something they can just dismiss like its nothing liek we're just playing pretend or #something #like god its frustrating. i need to cut my mum out of my life fr

[sonknuxadow]

stop bullying beginner artists and people who just have an art style you dont like but otherwise arent doing anything wrong. start bullying ken penders

#and butch hartman also #Sorry i saw something that made me mad. #why do people feel the need to bully artists for no reason. if theyre not drawing something thats genuinely harmful just ignore it ?? #you dont have to comment on it saying its ugly or that you dont like it #like. you can offer constructive criticism if the artist is ok with it #but just going ''your art sucks'' is not constructive criticism

[dylanconrique]

to this day i still don't understand simon's so called ✌️ "friends" ✌️ for being so incredibly pissed that he lied to them bc someone was blackmailing him and his whole, entire sexuality. like... please be so extra fucking for real rn.

#*carly catalogs #love simon #i'm sorry but that's always made me so mad like.... #if my gay friend who wasn't out yet (to anyone. even me) admitted to me his identity and that it was being used against him i'm sorry #any problems i have at that point would be irrelevant #i get that he lied to them about their feelings and who likes who in their friend group and whatever #but HOLY FUCK #that pales in comparison to having someone find out something so personal about you and then continue to use it to dangle over your head #this is such a random post but i saw a gifset of it for the movie for the first time in yearsssss and just had to get this out

[theghostofashton]

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#the genre of posts that's like 'stop being so demanding about people pronouncing foreign names our mouths can't move like that' is just so. #like i'm sorry but this is not a real problem #it truly is not a real problem that people are too mean about wanting their names pronounced correctly #as if that's been a demand forever and not something that's just becoming more of a thing as of the last few years #the default for decades has been putting up w anglicization even when we didn't want it or it butchered our languages #because that's easier and how dare we ask people to put in the effort #so now that people are pushing back and being like no this is how my name is pronounced we end up being told we're demanding #and we're all just assholes looking for ways to be mean to the poor english speakers who can't say them right #we can tell when you're trying and we can tell when you're not and the idea that the former is more common is literally ridiculous #the most regular occurrence for me is people pronouncing my name correctly at first and then suddenly anglicizing it for no reason #they have demonstrated that they can say it correctly. they just choose not to. #that is the default #not to mention poc not being able to pronounce english words correctly or not knowing how to pronounce them get way more shit lol #idk like i am never trying to be mean #i have so much respect for the people who try because most people do not #and it is so endlessly frustrating to see this framed as us being assholes when we're simply tired of putting up with this #sorry i saw a post that made me mad lol #delete later

[evilyurifan]

how do i start setting firm boundaries with this kid in my club who keeps making unfunny jokes and taking over the whole meeting and pissing me the fuck off without like dragging down the vibes of the entire thing. because i did not manage it tonight, i got genuinely hostile and killed the vibes👍

#he is in the wrong here like fucking. if theres four people in ur club meeting for the week #and you say ‘hey put on this clip of this brutal saw trap’ #and one of the other people (1/4 of the group!) says ‘i do not want to see that’ #i think u r an asshole for insisting on watching it! and making me have to awkwardly sit in the hall cause just hearing the audio made me #feel nauseous! #lime.txt #sigh. he also just like. he doesnt mesh with the group he’s a first year but he acts like a middle schooler #i get being a fucking 18 year old guy and joining a niche media club and like not understanding feminism #but when other people make pretty clear that they are uncomfortable with something you are doing. quit fucking doing it #and i swear to god he keeps making us watch nu metal music videos #like today he did it TWICE every fucking time we start talking about something else #like me and this other guy started talking about gundam and he was explaining in depth why he was disappointed w the turn the 2nd season #of iron blooded orphans took and i was like omg interesting and he was like was gwitch good and then i was like yeah its an homage to rgu #and literally mid conversation this other kid puts a fucking linkin park music video on the tv and makes us all watch it. like fuck offfffff #sorry im genuinely too mad to do my work rn i need to destress im gonna have some cereal

[inutaffy]

ngl you guys are really pissing me off lol. fruity 4 was something steddie/ronance fans came up w and yall are like WHOS THE REAL FRUITY FOUR!! this is MY fruity 4 but like. it was just a name they used to describe the group. ok. good talk.

#stranger things #the fruity four #i saw something last night and it made me so mad lmao im sorry followers #hater era (my life) #jay's queue

[nyanryan]

the need to have "neurotypical" and "neurodivergent" be two completely different things with no grey area in between is a disservice to both groups. i would say every single person on this earth could qualify as neurodivergent if they bothered to go see a psychiatrist. its just that only certain ppl are going to be put in a situation where they cannot function and need a label to explain it bc society

#btw I am convinced that I am the only person who truly understands the field of psychiatry. or the lack of evidence to support one. #there are so many symptoms that are just the exact same thing but described in different ways and depending on the biases of whoever #diagnoses you You will end up with a completely different disorder! #there is no way to be objective about something as subjective as human experience #this is a vaguepost ab r/adhdwomen btw i love the group but also freshly diagnosed ppl be acting in ways. #being neurodivergent forces you to be more in touch with your own needs but every single person on this Earth would benefit from that #so please for the love of God teach the neurotypical people in your life to do that too #I also saw a post earlier about how shopping around 4 therapists should not exist because you don't shop around for surgeons or restaurants #and it made me so mad because you literally do shop around before therapists and for restaurants #and there are 1 million different subfields of therapy please for the love of God do not give up if CBT does not work for you. #if your therapist is so unskilled that they cannot help you because they cannot change the physical reality of your situation #then they are a bad therapist. they are bad at their job! #their job is not to make your situation better their job is to give u the ability to deal w the situation no matter how bad it is. #ryambles #my only sources are that i am mentally ill and have been in therapy since i was 14. but im right. #i meant to say for surgeons and restaurants but i was typing too fast. bc of the adhd. sorry. #i am reading all of this over and maybe it makes no sense but i dont care. read my post boy.

[mspaintlover]

i;m so sick of swatch/ton im gonna throw up for real

#IM NOT GOING TO CLAIM ITS LIKE MORALLY WRONG OR SOMETHING I JUST DON'T LIKE IT. IT DISINTERESTS ME DEEPLY #It just makes 97% of anything ever made or related to swatch disinteresting to me immediately its frustrating #i know they have canon character tensions going on between them which is fine but i dont get why exploring them by default has to ship #^sorry i saw cool art that was tagged ship #also sorry to put this here but i don't want to put Fandomy Complaints on my main and this is my swatch blog #.bmp #uh.. #complaining #?? #i just don't get it but maybe its becauyse im Swatch Brained but like i feel like maybe. it doesnt have to be about spamton sometimes . #maybe swatch can be their own character outside of half of a ship dynamic idk #<- also ALSO. i wrote up a huge thing about how Swatch wouldn't have like severely and permanently disfigured spamton #by throwing him in burning acid. which i intended mostly as like 'swatch isn't just Mean Butler/Barista and nothing else' because i was sic #of them just being used as a prop villain for Spamton #but i really didn't mean it as like. they were closer than they seem in game or that they didnt clearly hate eachother's guts #they very much do not like eachother . like Swatch is SO mad he stole the NEO body they made it clearly meant a lot to them #no doubt they have some bullshit going on but to me making it romantic or whatever doesn't add anything to the interpersonal conflict #this why it is my mission to make swatch art that is not ship sorry

[davidtennantpussytulpa]

somehow i have reached enlightenment where i am free of anger. all it took is for my mom to be so so mad at my dad and everyone and everything else in the world all the time to do it

#like. my moms making a HUGE cake and a bunch of cupcakes for her coworkers husbands birthday or whatever #and i usually help her with baking bc we both really enjoy it #so yesterday we made all the frosting and i made soft pretzels bc we thought it would be fun to use to make the handle on the beer mug cake #instead of using gum paste so i made like 10 or so normal pretzels and two that we could try and use for that #so we all didnt want to cook dinner and left to pick something up. and when we come back i saw my dad had eaten one of the fucking #specifially shaped ones. i was like im not even dealing with this now im fucking hungry and ate #then after we were all done my mom finally saw and was like did you fucking eat the differently shaped one #and my dad was like lol yeah 🤪 and she was like we were fucking using that for the cake #and my dad isnt even like oh im so sorry or anything he literally just. oh lol if it makes you feel better i gave half to the dog 🤪🤪😋!!! #usually i would be so fucking angry bc /I/ was the one who made all the pretzels in the first place but my body was like no girl we have to #shield ourselves from how upset your moms about to be #anyways. my dad just came in to my room be like ughhhh should i make another batch. and i was like well you dont have to bc i made two #so i guess we can go with that and hes like ughhhhh no i guess i will so your mom wont be mad at me 🙄 #im just. im just so fucking tired of my dad doing all this shit to either intentionally or unintentionally irritate me and my mom and then #acting like hes being fucking crucified bc EVERYONE IS AGAINST HIM!!!! when he refuses to apologize or even acknowledge that hes done #anything wrong. like i get nobody in this fucking family is good at talking abt anything but he just is so avoidant things have been piling #up for YEARS. #ugh. okay. done i guess i dont know im just so tired. i feel like i have to play fucking marriage therapist to these two bc he refuses to do #anything to try and make their lives not miserable

[bubbibuns]

ok i get it u have low empathy

#just say sorry dude!!! #i wasnt mad and not currently mad!!!! i just pointed out something you did that made me upset!!! #u have low empathy ok yea!! #u dont have to understand what i felt abt the character!! but you saw that what you did made me upset!!! #ough #whatever #posting this bc the person follows my vent acc sorry