#reblogue if you agree

[moumouton4]

I'm French, and without judgment I was wondering, on what arguments do you base yourself to say that Sanji is French in fanfictions and in fandom in general ? ( I know it's not the case for everyone, but I was wondering ) Because it's not as obvious as Aoyama in MHA for example. And personally I watch OP in French and some key episodes in Japanese but still I've never understood this.

No spoiler please I'm at ep 360 in Thriller Bark 😂

#reblogue if you agree #i'm going to stuff the tags to be sure i'l get at least an answer #vinsmoke sanji #sanji #one piece #one piece sanji #sanji x reader #sanji smut #sanji imagine #sanji vinsmoke #sanji fluff #sanji vinsmoke smut #sanji vinsmoke x reader #sanji vinsmoke imagine #sanji vinsmoke fanart #sanji one piece #sanji vinsmoke fluff

[miris-secret-files]

Arrange married life with Itachi.

"Don't ever kiss me again" "I can kiss you anytime I want bc you are my wife"

Maybe there would be a situation where they had to show that they were a happy couple

You don't have to make him look rough but I'm kind of bored seeing him all sweet and all the time and the point is he has started to like yn that's why maybe he would say that?!?

Arranged Married Life || Itachi Uchiha x fem!reader

A/n : I really didn't want to write it at first because it sounded very non con, like it resonnated weirdly in me. And then I thought about it, I couldn't back down from a challenge, besides it would be a good opportunity for characters to yell at each other ahaha so here it is ! Hopefully you who sent me this request you'll find it

A/n 2 : Hey CONSENT is everything ! Even if this fic may seem a little ambiguous I don't think Itachi would ever act like this. Remeber this is only a fiction before coming at me

Warnings : arranged marriage, yelling, mean stuff, Itachi is going to hurt you ( I'll do my best for that 😂 ) because he knows you're lying, forced kiss kinda, 18+ READERS ONLY and wrap it before you tap it

Masterlist ⚜

I don’t give permission to repost my work, if you want to share it just reblogue it

Word count : 1025

“Don’t ever kiss me again !” you screamed, voice echoing through the Uchiha residence. You residence since-

“I can kiss you anytime I want ! You’re my wife !” his voice boomed in a way little have ever heard. -since you’ve married him, since they had forced you to marry him

Things weren’t supposed to turn this way, not now that he started having feelings for you. But it was precisely for this reason that things turned this way. Everything was so much easier 6 months ago when you two met for the first time, well the day you got married. The day both your families agreed on this arranged marriage, supposed to bring the Uchiha lineage with the second secret mightiest lineage of Konohagakure.

At this time, there weren’t any problems about keeping the act outside your shared home. Everyone was completely oblivious, no one had a single doubt that the marriage had been arranged and that it was not for love and that neither you nor Itachi had particularly wanted to end up bound with the other.

No one suspected the reality of the situation any more, the meals eaten alone or in dead silence, the evenings spent reading a book, sometimes in two different rooms, even in the early nights when cushions separated your side of the bed. Far from the image of the perfect couple the whole village envied.

And that's only because in public you hold the act together like the best of actors, holding hands, fingers intertwined, or else by the arm, your head resting against his shoulder, him breathing in the sweet scent of your hair. Whispering sweet nothing into each other's ears, exchanging loving glances and discreet giggles.

That’s exactly what happened yesterday, during a gathering of the Uchiha family ( not all Uchihas knew about the arranged marriage ), the act was perfect, but maybe a little too perfect. Because as you got back to your residence - still in the act before the door was safely closed - his arm was supposed to lighten from around you and let you go do your own stuff like you’ve been used to, but to your surprise it tightened instead. When you looked at him you saw his face getting closer to yours.

You froze in place, he leaned closer and then you felt it. His lips oh so delicately pressed against yours. And then the instant of a second your hands came on his chest before pushing him with as much strength away from you as far as possible. He’s never kissed you on the lips before. Of course even when acting all lovey dovey in front of the others this was never something you had ever done, because being part of the Uchiha family required a certain public restraint. Even at your wedding he has only kissed your forehead.

Things leading to another you ended up both yelling at each other, your voices echoing in the hall. And upon hearing him calling your his wife you couldn't help but shout back “And I never wanted to be ! This !” you screamed gesturing at the walls and stuff around you “Is the fruit of an arranged marriage ! To which I did not even consent !” you added.

Your words made his jaw tighten, his hand shot to your arm which he gripped ( his aim isn’t ot hurt you just making sure you don’t leave while he speaks what is on his heart, this sounds fucked up though ) eyes boring in yours as he looked at your from above “Do not pretend you don’t like it ! Don't like to be mine”

“I don’t ! I wish they didn’t choose y-” your eyes held his gaze, not impressed at all by his outburst. You tried to shake your arm out of his grip but without success

Your words went straight to stabbing his heart prompting him to change his tone in consequence “Then act like you meant it by first stopping hanging on to me for dear life in the street every time someone you don't know comes near you. As if I’d ever protect you if something were to happen” this was pure venom you triggered.

“I hate you with every cell of my being !” you spat with anger, because you knew he was right, after all this time of living together you started to see him as a kind of protector.

“You wish you could” he gazed dangerously at you, the Sharingan in his eyes activating as his voice dropped back to a less loud tone, a testament of the upper hand he knew he had at the moment “But truth is you like it here in the Uchiha neighborhood, in my residence and in my bed every night. Don’t play coy, I know when you scoot closer to me during the night”

You blushed furiously with a mix of embarrassment and anger at his revelation “I’ve never done anything of the sort !” you tried to lie, but it didn't have any effect.

“You’ve done it every night lately. Did you think I would not notice ? Me ? Your own husband” he used another word refering to your marriage, his face getting closer to yours again, but way more slower now.

You didn’t budge, the conversation seemed to sink it, you knew he was right, you did need him sometimes. Not only his feelings were evolving, but yours too, and if he was reacting this way it was because things started to matter in a way it didn’t before. And you wouldn’t have outbursts like this if what he told you wasn't common knowledge for you too. Of course he would be the first to notice you started caring, even before you.

His lips pressed gently against your again, his grip of your arm lightening, leaving a coldness there you didn’t think it would. This time you didn’t try to push him away “I’ve let you do that every single night without saying a single word” he marked a pause as if he was looking for his words “We’re married and your lips are mine. From now on I won’t shy away from claiming them the way I should”

#naruto #naruto imagine #naruto dark content #naruto shippuden #naruto shippuden imagine #naruto shippuden dark content #itachi uchiha #itachi uchiha imagine #itachi uchiha x reader #dark itachi uchiha #request #miri's-files #dark content

[opinated-user]

The link to Courtney admitting to getting an anonymous donation is literally in the Lily Orchard post your responding too. There's no way you didn’t see it. This was a dumb hill to die on from start to finish. You should know better than anyone that memoryholing doesn’t work.

https://web.archive.org/web/20240107235420/https://www.tumblr.com/sweetface-the-dollbaby/738898018428993536/i-gave-25-dollars-through-the-tip-option-on

i already answered to that same post here. i also reblogued that post so it's on my own blog as well, so coloured me confused as to why you think the archive you made of that post on another blog was necessary.

i address how one of those anons (who i suspect is just you, because you all type and write the exact same) outright lied about Courtney making a fundraising for a laptop. you bring me an archive of a post i already had shared there, but not on that supposed fundraiser so i don't know what you're talking about. i also said that it's strange you'd mention a laptop at all, because the only person who ever helped Courtney to get a laptop was P and she is the only one who cares about holding that over Courtney's head. so coloured also fascinated as to why you specifically do you also care about that.

i also pointed out that anon was lying because Courtney never received anonymous donations from anyone. futhermore, even if they weren't lying, they failed to confirm that they actually did donated anything and therefore they can't be taken seriously. in that post that has the answer for all your questions, that you'd find if you actually care to scroll literally two post down below, you'd see that both me and Courtney agree that with a system like that one literally anyone can go demand Courtney money, even people who never actually donated to her and for amounts of money she never had in the first place. that anon, meaning you, is lying. you're a liar. you have done nothing to prove anything of what you say except tell me the lies i already addressed. you're insisting on this bad faith narrative while Courtney is grieving the lost of her mother, and for what? is this helping LO? is this making people stop seeing that she got a desk and was talking of buying another literally right after a fundraiser? does this make people think that LO must have kept quiet for two years because she's too much of a lady and respect the canadian goverment too much to talk about the process of immigration? is this going to make LO less likely to have groomed ginger? to have groomed Sunny? to have molested Courtney for almost a decade? to have catfished Brittany? is the lack of a receipt for cat food so valuable here that you think that has just as much importance to dismiss all of that? because let me bring you back to reality for a second here. you're not helping anyone. you're not destroying Courtney. i don't know what you're looking for, but it's not here. stop. you literally made LO look worse. you gave me more ammo to keep pushing on the notion she's a scammer. if that is what you want to do, at least be honest about it.

if you care so much about honesty and money, then go ask LO why she lied to you about having a desk and streaming on it for a stream that happened two days prior. i'll wait.

#lily orchard

[goldenstarprincesses]

Henlo! You rebloged my post about France in fanfiction and I wanted to reply to it because I found what you said interesting, but because you used just tags would be goofy to reblog it again so I am sending an ask!

I agree about the cannon not helping, the thing is France got better in the cannon, he is more interesting now. I am not very into Prussia so I don't remember if he got better in later parts. But this thing about him being the worst in PruCan fanfic isn't something I noticed in Brazilian Fanfics or maybe I just don't remember lol

I wrote my post at 1 AM and now I stopped to think about what annoys me about how simple and awful Francis' characterization is and I noticed that it simply doesn't have a reason. When I was writing my fic, I wanted to make him bad in a European kind of way, he is France, France really did a lot of shit, he is kind of goofy and useless now? Yes, but that wasn't the case in the Early Modern era.

I also never saw no one exploring his sexuality. Why is Francis overly sexual? Why is he so dramatic? Why is he always trying to get in someone's pants? Real people have reasons to act overly sexual, they aren't just born this way, but WHY I NEVER SEE NO ONE ASKING THOSE QUESTIONS??

Thank you for rebloguing my post and confirming I wasn't just seeing things lol

Hiii! First, I adore your blog. Thank you for introducing me to the world of TurkFra. My eyes have been opened and my mind widened.

I almost think the fandom needed to go through the "dark times" or "dark age" of character interpretation to get where we are now. I know there was for sure a shift happing when I dipped out of the fandom in 2016ish. And when I started occasionally reading fanfics again during lockdown I was blown away with the shifts regarding the characterization of nearly all the characters.

Totally agree with you 100% about interpreting a character like France in a way where he is bad shit person, because of the actual actions of France. Imo its really important to include things like that into every nations characterizing when engaging in more "real life inspired" characterization. Almost have to wonder if the rise in popularity of historical hetalia has had anything to do with this change. While it was sorta a thing in the early years of the fandom, it didn't really seem to have much of a collective following and community. And now it seems that characters of empires/colonists like France/England/America/Russia etc. have shifted away from being written to have very goofy and comically negative traits more in-line with the 2008-2012ish canon to having their negative traits rooted more in the real-life negative habits or traits of the real world nations. I'd also wonder if the average age in the fandom has gone up which has helped characters simply be better developed.

The "bad touch trio" was super common back in the day. It was France/Prussia/Spain. Pretty much the entire characterization for them all ended up being sex addicts who went around well, SA or SH other nations. That mixed with the very silly "everything is based on basic national stereotypes" vibe of early canon I think just made i so a character like France ("nation of love"/the idea that the French are much more sexually liberated then the English or Americans) was very one-sided even when other charters were getting a little bit better of treatment. I also always felt like France was never as popular in the American/English fandom as American and England. So he (and often Canada) would sorta just thrown into things without much development character-wise.

You bring up so many good points!!! legit I have always thought about things like this.

#I had this all written up and my internet went out for the rest of the night 😭 lost all of it #hws france #hws america #hws england #historical hetalia #hetalia discussions #hws russia #tw sa mention #tw SH mention

[berseker]

HELLO for the questions you reblog'd (reblogued? what's the correct way?) 8- How slow is a slow burn? (I think for it to be a good slow burn you ought to throw a bone now and then-- a stare that's perhaps a little too long, a touch that lingers, all that romantic stuff to keep it interesting!)

@ceciveh HI BABY I think I go with reblogged??? Idk lmao

Anyway, slow burn: I agree. I can wait forever for the actual… wedding, sex scene, kiss, whatever we’re waiting for, BUT I need to see the hints and glimpses of the growing relationship along the way. I think the waiting makes them more powerful — like, consider capri. By the second book I was going !!!!!!!!!!!!!! if they were slightly more civilized to each other and lost my marbles when we reached actual compliments. Good times.

#literal dying pterodactyl noises in public

[birdmenmanga]

BELOVED MUTUAL i love you thank u for always supporting my little writings every time u comint/reblogue i cry a little how is someone so talented following ME... anyways yeah that jjk fic has kagepro written all over it LMAOAO us when the summer goes on forever and the boring days are everything.. shaking your hands with a manic grin

HI okay I'm being so real right now... we're like in the same headspace fr fr like we're into different things but the way we see the world, the way we perceive intimacy, things like that, it really feels like we share something similar whether it's our values or worldview or whatever and when we make things it comes out in similar incarnations you know. so whenever I'm reading something you've written, even if it "doesn't make sense" it still really resonates with me... like yeah... so true bestie... it really is like this fr...

it's like you hit both points that I need for this sort of resonance you know. like if you were just as talented as writing but the picture you painted wasn't one I agreed with I wouldn't nearly be as insane about it; and if you were straight up worse at writing I just wouldn't be able to receive the image you're trying to project because it'd be too hazy. but you're both of these things; you're technically skilled and the vision you see speaks to me at a very core and fundamental level. I understand why this is heart-rending; I understand why there's comfort to be found here; I understand what you mean when you talk about love and grief, and pain and joy.

I guess I'm just trying to say that I like your writing a lot <3

#asks #radiashen #hiiii genuinely... you Get It

[truckfreaks]

a man with big boobes. you agree. reblogue

[eightfourone]

my love hate relationship with a mutual bc they reblog stuff from obvious conservative blogs sometimes ...

nothing conservative to their own blog, but like the third post down on who they reblogued from has covid denial, automatic rifles, and transphobia

like. are you not seeing these posts or are you agreeing with them. unclear. mixed signals

[androgynousblackbox]

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you mock polyamory and think monogamy is the only healthy dinamic ever, I don’t like you.

#i just had to block a person pro ship leaning that reblogued anti polyam shit like oh no #we can agree in a lot of things but polyam people are cooler than you

[merlintheenchanted]

Men tits....... (NOT pecs!).... reblogue if you agree.......

#this post is about trans and/or fat men #mlm #positivity #please sirs know that i am looking

[moumouton4]

Itachi x insecure reader (it's her first time) NSFW? Sorry for my bad English

Comfortable || Itachi Uchiha x fem!reader

A/n : Hello my dear ! Just a little disclaimer before : first of all this is going to be very subjectif I’m writing what for me should be ideal in this situation, some may agree ( which I think may be a majority of people ) some won’t and that’s perfectly fine, we’re all different.

Warnings : first time, insecure reader, very reassuring and soft Itachi ( but seriously I bet he is canonly like this ), 18+ READERS ONLY and wrap it before you tap it

Masterlist ⚜

I don’t give permission to repost my work, if you want to share it just reblogue it

Word count : 1035

When he started dating you, Itachi never ever thought about sex at any point. He is that ( rare or not idk ) brand of guys who just didn’t care about it at all

He never pressured you into doing anything, even kisses, hugs, cuddles. Nothing, he preferred first to be sure that his ways of showing love and appreciation towards you were consented and liked

But at some point the body and the hormones talk ( I know a lot of people aren’t like that so I’m only generalizing for the fic sake ) and sex, which was Itachi’s last problem came forward as you both went forward in your relationship

He’s not going to set a date for it lol, that would be way to stressful

He’ll let you explain to him what you desire and what your limits are. And of course he too will speaking to you about his desires

The first time your make out session actually goes into a more grinding, humping field you both know this may be it

Itachi may know being naked in front of someone for the first time isn’t the most comfy thing to do ( maybe he knows this from experience or not you choose )

So the only light source of the room is the little daylight coming from under the roller blind or the faint glow of a bedside lamp

But even if he doesn’t see you clearly ( I bet the Sharingan could but he’ll never use it on you without asking first ) he is 100% going to praise how beautiful and amazing you look

If your hands move up to cover yourself - and he knows it’s fine - he is going to take them in his, before pushing you flush against him, like so he can’t see you as much “Don’t hide from me Y/n you look perfect. So soft and huggable” he presses a kiss at the side of your head

With your consent his hands are going to gently explore the contour and softness of your body. Lingering on your waist and breasts area, then on your back as he pulls you flush against him to take your quivering – from stress – body against his strong warm muscular chest – and yes he is hard and stressful too

As soon as he gets used to touching you, his mouth will make its way to your soft skin. Going from your neck, to jaw, to clavicle and down and down

“I promise I won’t be staring at it my Love”

And if you let him, he is going to give you the best oral of your whole life ( in this case it would be the first as well )

He is just so gentle in his movements, as he gently sucks on your clit and licks your juices of your lower lips – you might as well fall asleep if it wasn’t this good “Mhhh so good” he praises

If he sees you’re close to cumming he’ll ask you if you prefer coming on his tongue or after on his cock “Do you want me to push you over the edge or…” though he can’t ring himself to say a word referring to it ahah, he is shy 👉👈

Either he isn't going to rush you into climaxing, as he wants you to get used to the feeling first, not too gets overwhelmed

With his oral he may have prepped you enough. If not, he is going to stretch you with his fingers. Slowly and cautiously adding one after the other, and making scissoring motions inside you with them

Once you’re both sure you’re ready for it, he is going to ask you again several times if you really want to take this step with him, reminding you that at any point you can tell him to stop and that he would never mind you stopping things at any point

But since you’re consenting, he is going to slowly penetrate you. He even has lubricant on the side if you need a little more help

His body will hover over yours, his arms maintaining his sold stature above you not to crush you ( even if he wouldn’t, he ain’t Toji lol )

He is either busy kissing your lips or breathing heavily, his forehead against yours as he encounters how tight your virgin walls are “Don’t worry I’ll go very slow”

He is never going to push if he feels a real resistance and you ask him to wait for you to adjust. And of course once he is fully sheathed in ( which may not always happen for a first time ) he is going to let you as much time to adjust as you need ( but again this is such basic human being stuff I mean everyone should do that )

The pace he is going to set if of course the one he knows you’ll be fine with. I mean you’re the one taking the dick so if someone should be bothered by the pace it’s you

He is just holding you so close the whole time, and it feels very profound for you, as you two merged in the same being, as if you both shared a soul at this very moment. The little strands of words of appreciation that flow out of his mind helps you a lot in feeling even more comfortable with everything currently happening.

He is also going to ask if you’re close when he feels himself nearing the edge. He just doesn’t want to stop and leave you frustrated if you were on the edge too

Besides this as it’s your first time he is surely wearing on a condom, but still he is going to ask if you prefer him to pull out anyways when he cums

After this he is going to stay by your side as much as he can. He doesn’t want you to think that he is going to neglect you now that he has had it. Beside you might be feeling very sensitive and vulnerable after this, so he is going to be there for you

He is helping you clean up, if you’re okay with it, and he is also ready to lend you some clothes to wear “You were amazing Y/n. You felt so good. I hope I was up to the job too”

Of course the following night he is cuddling you the whole night long, proposed drinks and snacks. This just brought you even closer than you two already were and you just can’t wait to see what the future has to offer

#naruto #naruto smut #naruto imagine #naruto shippuden #naruto shippuden smut #naruto shippuden imagine #itachi uchiha #itachi uchiha imagine #itachi uchiha x reader #itachi uchiha smut #akatsuki #akatsuki smut #akatsuki x reader #akatsuki imagine #itachi x reader #itachi smut #smut #request #miri-writes

[fromdemonsandart]

 @gaywillbyers  If Jonathan was a teenager in 2006/7, he’d be such an emo! With a myspace account where he’d post his artsy photos, song lyrics and all that. His catch phrase would be “nobody understand me!” and he probably has a crush on Gerard Way.

#jonathan byers #I saw you reblogued something about him being an emo lol #and I agree and emo from 2006 not 2009

[0aurelion-sol0]

Guys, I have been queerbaited in the most awful, vicious and horrendous way ever.

This ship that I loved and fited so well in the story got sidelined for an unhealthy relationship which by the way the main character never shown any interest in that character who was obsessed by him. But you also know what happens their was not only one queerbaiting but the two of them were forced into a straight relationship that made no sense at all.

I am also pretty sure the ending to that story was changed because of that ship because it made the most sense. But that one hurts a lot because there was so much queer coding to it, so much things that made sense.

It was also a very beautiful relationship that didn't get the proper ending it deserved.

But it really hurts, it really really hurts and I will forever be damaged by that ending.

_________________________________________

All in all where do I go from here...

It would be hypocritical of me to say that I haven't been pessimistic about Byler. I have said things that I disagree now. I think and truly hope they will be the highlight of Stranger Things. There's just to much elements and details that favors it and this is a western media so there are stronger chances for it being canon considering that even if we still have a long way to go, we are able to fight and be more and more accepted.

Like many queer people and people in this fandom, I had terrible experiences related to my sexuality. And this resulted in me being like many other people, shutting my mouth, not asking anything, locking myself up, letting myself eaten by bad feelings. You know the usual shit most of us go through. And I'm not denying that some people had and it's obvious that some had the healthy environments to grow up while being queer and having beautiful moments. I had beautiful moments but the negative takes over the positive sadly.

(This might be a little dramatic but...)

I have decided to be positive, I have decided that I will not let these bad feelings eat me anymore. I have pulled myself from that place and I will own my existence, this world and fight for it. I refuse to fall in line anymore, I just had enough. And I encourage you to do so yourself, no matter how hard it might be. You can ask for help and have people help you, that is also good. There are many ways you can love and accept yourself but you have to. Don't eat yourself up and don't let anyone decide or deny anything for you. Love yourself.

Stranger Things and this fandom will be my new home.

I have to thank every meta writer and theorists and the people who reinforced my beliefs about this show since I've never been in the fandom when I started watching it and not a lot of people that I knew IRL was watching it or agreed with what I thought. So far it has been a pleasure to read every work you've put out, every single fanart that I saw. It is truly a wonderful community.

I also like to thank everyone who liked and reblogued my own work, I truly feel honored.

It helps me a lot and it's more than just wishing to be popular or all the stupid shit they are trying to feed your mind with.

It's nice having people I relate to and who I can share these experiences with.

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I'm gonna have to do some rants and posts until I leave that certain fandom behind but also say goodbye to all of those I loved and shared beautiful moments with while experiencing the story and after that I will be putting my bags here and my life and my blog will be dedicated to this show but also all of the other stories that I love including one connected to Stranger Things which is also very dear to my heart.

So see you soon. And don't forget...

🏳️‍🌈

Also I'm probably late again...

But Happy Birthday Mikey!

#byler #mike wheeler is gay #will byers is gay #mike x will #will x mike #stranger things

[phereinnike]

hey vero? that chimamanda essay thing you rbd comes from a (i think) post on her website that is essentially her doubling down on her transphobia, as a response to criticisms from a nigerian trans author. i don’t remember exactly where to source this, but i think if you go into the notes of the post itself there were people linking to that! 💖

First of all, thanks for letting me know! I can't say I'm familiar with her content beyond snippets much like this one I've encountered on here & instagram.

It was very easy to find the root of the transphobia comments (i didn't check the notes, just googled her name + transphobia) and I read a bit on what she said -when asked if trans women were real women, she replied they were trans women. and when confronted proceeded to explain that there are real, factual differences between women & trans women-.

I'd like to take this chance to say that this is a mistake I made myself several years ago -although not quite so badly, as trans women ARE real women-. What I did was rb a post that said that the cis-woman experience was marked by missoginy growing up in a way trans-woman experience isn't, as they're not usually socialized as women in childhood. And I was wrong! A friend pointed out how hurtful it was to read such a thing from me, and I reflected on the issue and reached the conclussion that even if the missoginy is not directly pointed at them if they're still passing/living as men, it's such a deeply rooted issue on our society that there's no escaping it. Even if they weren't socialized as women, they knew they were women, and saw how women were being socialized. This of course is a very logical conclussion that I would have reached sooner had I dedicated one ounce of a braincell to it before rebloguing said post. It was shitty of me not to actually think on the issue before rebloguing it, and my thoughtlessness hurt someone.

Of course although it's not comparable to an author with a platform and reach purposefully spreading those idiotic ideas, I wanted to take the chance to say that often in conversations on feminism it's very easy to get swayed by terf rethorics that look like harmless logical statements "oh cis women and trans women face common and different issues" but actually hide harmful ideas "women and trans women are separate groups". Things like this can be seen for example in Adichie's use of "women & trans women" instead of "cis women & trans women".

While I still agree with the text that is in the post I reblogued in it's isolated context, about how much of nowadays online behaviour is completely performative and does without criticial thinking, personal input, acknowledgement of different experiences & cultures, or even the basic politeness that would bridge a lot of issues... If these words are being used to push a transphobic rethoric, then they're a pathetic shield used to try to paint herself as the victim, and I do regret it if I played any part on spreading that wider message that was cropped from the post to leave it disconnected.

My last word on the piece is regarding "People who depend on obfuscation, who have no compassion for anybody genuinely curious or confused. Ask them a question and you are told that the answer is to repeat a mantra. Ask again for clarity and be accused of violence." Your confussion and curiosity, in a world in which information is so readily availiable, are your own to fucking deal with. How someone lives their lives or identifies as is no one's business in the first place, but it's certainly not their responsability to stand there while you poke questions at them as if they were a lab experiment. Inform your own opinion not by reading a fucking book, but by listening to the people whose experience you're curious about. And don't speak over them or explain their reality to them through your lense, much less if that lense is purely academic.

Your identities are valid no matter if people respect, acknowledge or even understand them. Acceptance is a myth. Trans women are women, and in today's society it doesn't go without saying.

#thank you very much anon #re-reading the post after knowing this information certainly makes a few choice words stand out conspicuously #i'm so tired of everything being a minefield of hidden terf or nazi rethoric istfg #if your idea is so gross you can't even say it outloud withour repercussions maybe reconsider instead of trying to trick people into #agreeing to disconnected bits and pieces #Anonymous #vero prepares for interviews

[kantkid]

hello, sorry to bother but i just saw you reblogued a post that had been tagged as 'terf' and 'radfem' and wanted to ask, out of curiosity, what's your stance on those two particular topics? (completely agree about the porn btw)

Hallo! :) you’re not bothering me at all!

I confess I actually don’t know very much about the radfem movement, so I cannot really express an informed judgment. The few things I read by radical feminists are.....too radical for my personal view. I generally stand with more nuanced perspectives. This being said, I don’t have enough knowledge to subscribe the hate campaign towards radfeminism that is raging on tumblr, either (which is probably due to the Rowling thing? Idk). I don’t know if the porn criticism is inehrent to radical femisim per se, if it is then I support that specific part of radfeminism.

As for trans exclusionary feminism, I strongly disagree with it. I support trans women and trans men as equals and I believe the affirmation of their rights is crucial to the progression towards a fairer society that is the ultimate aim of feminism. I am a feminist and for me this includes by definition all kind of women (trans women, women of colour etc).

Edit: if being a radfem imples being terf I genuinely didn’t know (I’m quite ignorant on radfem). If this is the case, I strongly disagree with radical feminism as well, as a natural consequence of disagreeing with terf movement. I guess I’ll have to inform myself better, thank you for bringing the topic to my attention.

#Greta risponde

[jellyfish-aquarium]

jelly, i expected better from you than joining another baseless witch hunt of an artist :|

Oookay? This is the only ask I’ll answer on that post I reblogued.

One: I didn’t reblog it without base. I used to follow her. Her art is adorable, I admit it, but the comments she made always bothered me. There was a point I couldn’t enjoy her art anymore because of it. So, I unfollowed. Some people I follow used to reblog some things from her, tho, and I ended up blocking. So, again, not without base. It was from personal experience.

Two. I’ll always be honest to my opinion, to what I think. If I think someone is being possibly toxic, I’ll say so. If later on, it’s proved that it wasn’t like that, I’ll apologize for being wrong.

Three. No one is starting a witch Hunt. No one, in any moment, has said “Hey, this girl is toxic and homophobic, let’s all curse at her and send hate”. The poster only wanted to warn of a behavior that could be harmful to others. If some people are attacking her (which I don’t know, I wasn’t curious to the point of searching for her account), they are completely in the wrong. No one deserves hate.

Four. While I can see that a lot of people weren’t bothered by things she said, some might. It bothered me. And so, I’m rebloging for the ones that might also unknowingly run into unexpected behavior from a cute fanartist.

I didn’t look more at it, but If I see that the original poster was really trying to start an attack on her instead of just warning others, I’ll delete that post immediately.

I’ll never agree with things she does and says, but that doesn’t mean I want anything bad to happen to her. I just don’t want to see her posts, and I don’t want people that could get bothered by it or for young people that could copy her behavior to see it.

#I'm on the computer now so i can add tags #Jells Talks #Ask #Anon #Fandom #fandom discourse #I'm sorry anon #But I'm a honest person #And if someone bothered me I'll say it #Her behavior is far from acceptable and her metas are based on unreliable sources and her own taste for the characters