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eddawrites · 1 year
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I don't know which network gods have declared that the secondary couple in a show should be the more interesting one, but it almost always is.
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oasisofgalaxies · 2 years
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Its my least favorite thing you have no idea. It SUCKS.
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unsolicited-sentences · 11 months
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I fell in love with a man named Peter. His name wasn’t the issue…
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Think about how unstoppable the world could be if we were willing to tell each other 'I love you' whenever we got the urge. Whenever we had the passing thought.
Like think about it. We have LANGUAGE. We have the ability to speak, and communicate- hundreds of words that have the ability to invoke the strongest of feelings in us.
So why don't we use them?
Why don't we unashamedly adore the people around us?
Now I know we have trauma. Lordy, a whole lot of it. But the amount of love we could spread- if we just told people the good we thought about them in our quiet little heads. It doesn't have to be 'I love you.'
maybe it's 'hey I don't know why but you just look extra pretty to me today' or ' I just have been thinking about you a ton lately! You're amazing (AND HERE's WHY).' Okay maybe they look at you funny. Maybe they don't give a crap. So?? You have just communicated that you CARE, that you NOTICED and thought about them when you could have been thinking about the millions of other people on the planet. You just took a few seconds out of your entire life and dedicated it to someone else. If the worst that can happen is a funny look and rejection- all well.
You shouldn't be afraid to tell people about the good in them. You should never hold back from that. It's freeing, and empowering, to love, and to tell others so. Maybe it's your friend. Maybe it's your partner. Maybe it's your family. Maybe it's your dog. Yes- it can leave you opportunities to be hurt, to be looked at like a weirdo. But that is insanely okay. It is insanely worth it.
There are so many people who can't see the good inside themselves. Who don't know that there is someone on this planet who just- appreciates that they're alive. I think we all need reminders sometimes. You could be that reminder. You could be that person, that for a brief time, makes everything just feel somewhat alright.
And honestly- you truly don't know if you'll ever have the chance again to tell someone anything. If it's good, share it. Give happiness. Give love. Even when it seems silly.
Anywho.
Love people. Stop telling yourself to be afraid of doing so.
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catboybiologist · 9 months
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Hi! I’m CatboyBiologist.
Formerly a femboy, now a trans woman just starting HRT, and a PhD student in molecular biology. I started using this online persona as a fun, shitposty way to explore gender a few years ago. I post selfies (generally sfw, but somewhat sexy, so minors and ppl who don’t like that have been warned), rambles about science, tutorials and advice from the stuff I’ve learned by being a femboy in the past, nature pictures, stuff about the ocean, my adorable grumpy little tortoise, and unsolicited opinions on random nerdy topics. Any pronouns are fine. I don’t plan to socially transition for a while, and still present as a man most of the time, so I’m used to whatever you wanna use for me (for now, I’ll update this if that changes). Please send me pictures of your pets or other cute animals in your life!
As a scientist, I’m also documenting my transition! This google sheet will be updated at least monthly. I also have additional metrics I’m keeping to myself, and pictures that go with this, but I’m not sharing them publicly yet. Keep in mind that this is just one person’s experience with HRT, and may not represent universal trends!
Adding a little something here, bc I think it was an interesting bit a writing: if you want to see me respond to a transphobe about what "biologically female" means, here's a thing I wrote about it. CW for transphobia and discussion, obviously.
Also, if any of my measurements look weird, its entirely possible I fucked up. Let me know if anything looks off!
Here’s some of my favorite pre-HRT pictures:
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If you want to see more of my pre-HRT selfies, browse the “femboy” tag on my blog!
And as of this writing, I’m only 2 days after the start of HRT, so here’s a picture with my tortoise that’s technically post-HRT (but with 0 time for actual changes):
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If you want to see my future post-HRT selfies, browse the “trans selfie” tag on my blog!
Also here's another really cute picture and fanart of my tortoise by @whalesharkcat:
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I have affectionately given my tortoise the title of The Grumpus.
I also wrote a couple of tutorials and general vibes about being a femboy before I started HRT:
Sometimes I make shitposts of myself, I don’t take myself too seriously:
This includes the way I came out on tumblr:
And here’s an overly serious, long ramble about trans thoughts and things that I wrote shortly afterwards:
Later addition: Someone asked how I take selfies, so I wrote a quick and dirty guide with some tips on how I do so in response to their ask:
Oh yeah and apparently I was a 196 microcelebrity? I never to thought I was popular enough for that but apparently some people do 🤷‍♀️. So uh, hi 196 tags, I'm abusing you for my pinned post LOL
As for terminology, I personally do think of myself as a “man who is becoming a woman” as opposed to having always been a woman. If that doesn’t resonate with your experience, I totally get that! But that’s why I freely call pre-HRT me a femboy, while still calling post-HRT me a trans woman. I’m also keeping the blog name as CatboyBiologist for the forseeable future, because at this point, Catboy just seems like a gender neutral term to me.
I’m also trying to put together a script for a podcast regarding how studying biology influenced my perspective on sex and gender- lmk if there’s any interest in that! It’s probably gonna be way too long and indulgent but oh well.
So uh. Yeah. I don’t end these types of things well. Byeeeeee
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smudged-red-ink · 5 months
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Some day I will make a nice aesthetic intro post.
Today is not that day.
For now: Hey stranger, I'm Smudge, or Red, or Ink or really whatever you want to call me. Welcome to my corner.
I love random asks, dms, and tags, and I'm always on the hunt for more mutuals.
My paranormal slice-of-life WIP: Breakfast at Sunny's
Fast food employee falls in love with an oblivious vampire. Chaos ensues.
more detailed plot post here, all content under #breakfast at sunny's
Tag system:
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arkipelagic · 5 months
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filipinos and people speaking to/about filipinos suffer from the same illness and that is the pathological need to remind us that we have been colonized. we can not exist without being told we owe this or that to our colonizers or to some other foreign origin. solicited or unsolicited, they will do it. in an academic setting or under random throwaway comments online, they will always bring it up. we are subjected to measures of cultural, racial, and linguistic purity that does not exist anywhere and which no people on this earth could ever pass.
using spanish, english, malay, hokkien, sanskrit loanwords? that means our languages are nothing but creole to the core. cooking balbacua or caldereta? well, they’re not really “our” dishes; we just remixed them and then we eat them. practicing christianity or islam? i guess nothing about our faiths must be indigenous. we were colonized by the spanish? that makes us more latino than asian actually… or maybe we’re neither latino nor asian but a secret third thing - polynesian! et cetera, et cetera.
don’t even get these people started on popular race science (i.e. pseudoscience) about the so-called origins of filipinos. they sound like reincarnations of johann blumenbach and henry otley beyer with their nonsensical ramblings about the three waves of migration, “mongoloids,” and the “malay race.”
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enden-k · 1 year
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alhaitham literally is the most autistic character since zhongli himself. pinnacle of autism. did you hear about his soundproof earpieces. this guy is so well equipped to not deal with anyone's bullshit it's incredible. i relate incredibly much to zhongli and im putting alhaitham in the same basket with him.
literally whenever i hear people complain about how he's an "asshole" or "stubborn" or "heartless" or "cold" it's like. ok. so they just hate autistic people then. bc literally i am so attached to this guy he's never done anything wrong. man's just got level-capped autism.
sorry for the unsolicited ramble. i just. you are SO correct 100%.
( also i think he and zhongli would get along very well just like sitting at a table infodumping back and forth. )
EXACTLY my thoughts, thanks for putting it in words!!
i know of the noise cancelling headphones and rlly love this detail (i too have one that i use in everyday life bc im extremely sensitive to sound + my misophonia; i rlly rlly like this detail)
also yep same. i lit read through some random ppls reasons on why they hate him bc i thought i missed smth important in thr game and wanted to understand but in the end they just named things that rlly reminded me of things former "friends" and acquaintances threw at my own head once they got closer and learned to know me better/when i stopped masking. so it rlly annoys me now when i read such things bc it rlly feels like they dont hate him but just ppl with autism atp lol. if ppl would hate him bc his torso is bigger than ittos i would understand at least avxbxj
anw im feral about him like i am about childe as in, im not gonna take ppls bullshit on them since apparently they dont understand them like i do.....?? so i am stuffing them in my pockets lmfao
(i would love to see that tbh)
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running-minds-au · 4 months
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HI HI HELLO WELCOME
Blog is run by @transford-pines (me! im the one writing this! hi!) and @portalford-hasadeathray (my brother !!! <3)
So basic introduction this is a gravity falls x fnaf crossover au where michael afton ends up getting sucked into the multiverse shortly after getting scooped and he meets ford and they become best friends!! Yay!!
And then bill cipher and william afton team up :3 This goes sooo well and ford and michael have suuuch a great time (they do Not)
Basically we just kinda took gravity falls and shoved some fnaf into the mix and stirred all the mental illness together ! :3
Please send us asks about this we have sooo many thoughts about this au and we'd love to inflict the insanity upon you all :3
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more posts incoming Soon (threat)
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eddawrites · 6 months
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Thanks for tagging me @literaryspinster and probably a bunch of other people since I've been so flaky of late 😅
Star Sign: Sagittarius
Favorite Holiday: any day I don't have to work is a good day... but as a Goth at heart, probably Halloween for the aesthetic, even though it's not a tradition we hold in my country
Last Meal: tea and cake that I had for breakfast
Current Favorite Musicians: Cult of Luna, Obscure Sphinx, Jinjer, Gojira, Heilung, Chelsea Wolfe, Old Gods of Asgard ;)
Last Music Listened To: Dark Ocean Summoning because I'm trying to summon the will to write
Last Movie Watched: it's complicated - Prey, Fight Club, Barbie and Crimson Peak
Last TV Show: Twin Peaks
Last Book Finished: Annihilation by Jeff Vandermeer, currently reading the sequel - Authority
Last Book/Fic Abandoned: how I see about 90% of my WIPs until I find the will/time to finish them
Last Thing Researched for Art: nothing recent comes to mind, but I distinctly remember this one time I was researching shoulder gunshot wounds and found out that most of them come from failed suicide attempts
Favorite Online Fandom Moments: making new friends to share hyperfixations with, and about every AO3 notification I get
Favorite Old Fandom I Wish Had A Resurgence: I guess Hunger Games fandom is having a resurgence right now, just not in the way I'd have liked
Favorite Thing That You Enjoy: cuddling with cats, writing (when the brain is cooperating), playing video games, dressing up my characters in MMOs (the true endgame), reading and collecting books I'll probably never have time to read, collecting gems, carnivorous plants, make-up when it doesn't interfere with my sleep schedule
Tempting Project You Don’t Have Time To Finish: so many fanfics, so little time... also the novel and poetry collections that are forever stuck in the planning stage
@melmedarda @malaiikka @dontbotherwiththepronunciation @synergetic-prose @subjectsix @raincor
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dionewrites · 1 year
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callioope · 1 year
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fencing update. this post is a bit rambling.
Something that is very different about the new place I fence, compared to the original place I fenced 15+ years ago: people feel incredibly comfortable giving unsolicited advice.
While I perceive this is coming from a good place and they are trying to be helpful, it's a bit disconcerting to me. Fencing already involves so much complex coordination, and there's so much to think about while doing it, and now every week it seems, someone is telling me that I need to work on XYZ. It's very overwhelming.
Like I sometimes feel a bit self-conscious about just how often I say "well it's been fifteen years" (like shut up Liz you've said this already), but then I say it because I sometimes feel like people expect me to know or remember certain things and I basically get defensive like, cut me some slack please!
I said this once when someone was offering advice, and they were like, "Well but you fenced before, right?"
And it's like: listen. I fenced consistently for about five years. Then I went to college and came back only every couple of months, and had a brief semester of participating in the fencing club someone was trying to start on campus (not a great experience). It's probably been at least 15 years since that last 'visiting for the holidays' fencing session. It's probably been 17 years since I was taking regular lessons. That means that at best, the amount of time I haven't been fencing is double the amount of time I was fencing. It could by some calculations be triple it, depending on what you count as my official last day.
That is a long time! Like I fenced a person today who was probably born after the last time I fenced (before I started back up again this year).
I just don't feel like people appreciate just how rusty I really am. Sure, I've been back for four or five months now, but that does not make up a 15-17 year gap.
All this to say, trying to remember information I haven't used for 15 years is overwhelming enough. Things like how to time attacks properly, etc. Then there's the fact that I'm not in the same shape as I used to be -- in my peak I was fencing 3x per week -- and my body is also just older. I don't have the reaction time I used to. Recovering from lunge position back to en garde probably takes longer.
Then pile on top of this, getting different advice from multiple people about what I should work on -- it's just A Lot. It's a lot to keep track of!
And I'm supposed to be doing this for fun. I'm mainly trying to work on accepting losing and remembering that getting a work out by brandishing a sword is freaking fun. It is! But it's more challenging to do that when people are commenting on my technique.
As I mentioned at the beginning, I don't remember this happening at my old fencing school. Perhaps the difference is that we were all younger, and the couch was a more obvious and distinct authority -- we left it to the coach mainly to, well, coach! Now there were some people who gave unsolicited advice, but as I recall they were the, ah, rather more arrogant types and they were not nice about it. Now, it's a class primarily of adults, more than half of which are 40+.
Oh, and the other part is that: in a model where the coach is primarily the person instructing a student on what to work on, they can approach their growth and learning in a more structured way. Work on this technique first for foundation, then go to this, then this, etc. But if every person is offering their own advice -- well, how do I filter that? How do I prioritize?
The answer I've come to is that I'm going to try to start keeping a journal. Here are highlights of what felt good today. Here was what I decided to work on myself, and how successful that was. Here is what the coach's lesson's focused on, and how successful that was. Here is what random person suggested. And then just collate that and make a list of what's important to me.
But finally, I don't have any intentions right now of competing in official tournaments. So, maybe I also need to work on just letting things roll off my back. Thanks for the advice, file it away, and just don't think about it. That's hard for me, but maybe something worth attempting.
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cosmicisms · 1 year
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bejoomi · 2 years
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hello! 💕
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hi! wow i’m so!! excited to be here, this muse has been eating my brain for a long time but i finally have the time and energy to actually apply, so here we are now 💓 i’ll be getting back to any messages asap, but i figure i should introduce myself properly here too. i’m carly! (she/her, 25) and i’ve been in krp forever so i’m sure i know some of you already, so if you think we’ve met before feel free to say hi to me i’d be happy to catch up  😊 regardless, i’m really excited to get to know everyone and their muses, and to get writing, so please like this post if you’d like to plot and i will run into your arms. i tend to plot best through tumblr ims actually, but i’m also @YURlLECLERC on twitter so feel free to follow me there even if u just want to chat or witness my unhinged ramblings.
onto joomi now, aka guy whose quote on his app should’ve been “stop it. get some help.” he has an about page here, which has just about all the info you could want to know about him, but i’ll ramble about him some and try my hand at some plot ideas under the cut too! even though it’ll be repetitive if u look at the about page it’ll be fun
u see that gif icon? yeah that’s joomi like. 1% of the time. i don’t actually know how he settled on jeongin as his face bc he’s not nearly as cute and happy but it be like that sometimes. maybe one day
he’s an ‘02 liner, but early ‘02 (january 9th) and he’s very mature for his age
( ABUSE TW ) mainly bc he has been through a lot, namely just...a cycle of abuse. his mom had/has a lot of issues and got divorced and married three different times so far, to a shitty man each time, who were all abusive in their own ways (aside from one who was just a Regular Old Asshole)
he was also in an abusive relationship himself unfortunately ( END TW )
he managed to escape the toxic wasteland of his life in busan to seoul last year when he got into snu
except he didn’t actually go to snu, he lied to everyone, broke up with his boyfriend, moved, and decided he was too much of a fucking mess and that he needed to work on himself first or else he was just going to absolutely crumble
so he started picking up a bunch of part time jobs + his occasional allowance from his family (who was never poor, luckily) and started going to therapy
he works as a waiter and at lotte world and then kinda makes money doing other random jobs. namely ghostwriting things for people (essays, mainly)
but he also ghostwrites music for his band that he’s been in for several months now. their lead singer is an asshole and attention whore and joomi just wants to write from his heart and would feel too vulnerable if people knew He wrote the songs, so he lets their lead singer claim the songs he writes. the lead singer also Named the band so yes, the band is named eat schmidt, no, joomi doesn’t know who schmidt is quit asking please
joomi fell back on music a lot as he grew up. he can play guitar and is really good at piano and can pick things up pretty fast. he plays keyboard in the band right now but is confident that he could fill in anywhere (and he wants to be the lead vocalist tbh...but that’s just a distant dream. don’t worry joomi i will give you your band frontman arc.)
honestly i started this intro last night and am picking it up now tonight and i have no memory whatsoever of what i wanted to write but ok
personality-wise, he’s not exactly Prickly, but he is pretty stoic and tends to keep to himself. he’s good at holding conversation tho, especially if it’s about weird deep philosophical shit (best of luck to me writing it) and actually a very caring guy tho he’s Also a tsundere LMAO very sarcastic, but also very wise and pretty good at giving advice. he Likes listening to people and when people open up to him but he tends to offer a lot of unsolicited advice so he may not be the Best listener he would be very upset if he knew this though. 
he’s also kinda a bullshit detector, good at seeing through people and kinda cutting to their core (just scorpio moon things) so he Will call people out. all the time. if you’re hurting yourself or other people, that is; if you’re hurting him he usually just takes it and is like ok whatever. he’s working on that in therapy tho so this might change soon enough
tl;dr Band Boy That Is Tired
PLOT IDEAS
fans of eat schmidt. people that hate eat schmidt. generally just people from the band scene. joomi is not that proud to be part of this band but he does love rock music so he also kind of lives for it. he should be able to bond w anyone that vibes w this
also band members would be fun? i Do have intentions to make joomi the lead vocalist of the band in the future if all works out and guitar may be spoken for depending on how things go but!! anyone else!
coworkers! the lotte world job is probably oddly specific but the waiter job is pretty open to be Any restaurant. he will also write y’all’s essays...and can be convinced to do a lot of other odd jobs if bribed, especially if it’s taking care of your cats while you’re away
i would like as many people for joomi to call out as possible. he is not afraid of conflict for the greater good whatsoever so i think it would be so fun to have him fight people <3 feel free to hate him he Does Not Care
alternatively he doesn’t just fight people to be an asshole he Means to be genuinely helping. most of the time. so people he can genuinely help! he will stage interventions he will give u tough love but he also is capable of being gentle, he’s pretty good at tailoring how he acts to what he thinks people need. to some extent
i don’t know how to get joomi to learn how to do anything other than sing and play instruments but if someone can get him interested in that that would be amazing i think he’s currently the most useless muse in the roleplay as far as becoming an idol goes LMAO
he’s totally uninterested in becoming an idol atm, like it’s not even on his radar, so people to put it on his radar would be nice since this is an idol rp SDFSDDGDG not that i would be mad if he doesn’t get signed for years but! u know
neighbors? he has a roommate rn but he’s an asshole and they fight all the time. it may be concerning or u may just want them to shut up or maybe u have no clue and u just see each other around a lot, lots of options here. he will eventually move out but for now 👍 
joomi loves writing songs sm that is pretty much his Passion so?? i don’t have ideas related to this but maybe you need a song for something and don’t want to make it yourself? he will ghostwrite u a song and have a blast. fellow composer friends would be fun too but he might get grumpy if he thinks your muse is a better composer than him. that could be fun in itself tho!
honestly this is way more than i usually provide i am way more of a brainstormer so let’s cook up something fun ok <3
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Random but wanted to tell you that I'm practicing setting boundaries/getting comfortable with confrontational situations more which is really big for me bc I get super anxious about anything even vaguely confrontational. But I'm in a neurodivergent discord which is pretty cool and everyone's pretty respectful but sometimes some of the people can be a bit ignorant/clueless about various queer stuff or sometimes interact with me in ways that I personally aren't comfortable with (e.g. A couple of weeks ago I shared a photo of my patches and got unsolicited advice on how to improve them which I'm really not comfortable with and don't want, so I set a boundary saying I don't want that). And because people are respectful and accept my boundaries/interact with my points/arguments/criticism in a respectful way, it's slowly starting to be easier to actually speak up in those situations! Obviously I won't always be dealing with people who are respectful of me/my boundaries and that's a different thing I need to learn to deal with ig but it's really helpful for my anxiety just to see/understand that people won't get mad at me for stating a boundary/expressing disagreement. Anyway sorry for the ramble just wanted to share/thought you might appreciate it 💜💜
I'M SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU <333
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