#paraphiles

[fictionfreedom]

Positivity

To all of the big 3 paraphiles Your attractions are not hurting anyone You are indeed doing a good job holding back on your attractions, You may not be a rabid animal, but I know it can still be painful to have those attractions You are not a horrible person just for your attractions, you haven't done anything to anyone regardless of any thoughts or feelings you've had Any of your non-self-harmful coping mechanisms are good, and don't let anyone tell you any different You do NOT deserve to be harmed over your attractions, if you haven't hurt anyone then you HAVE NOT hurt anyone, your attractions and thoughts are not harmful If you are in therapy or anything similar for your attractions, you are doing a great job and I'm proud of you for trying your best If you have a paraphilic disorder, that is not your fault, and you are doing a great job ESPECIALLY if you're in therapy and trying your damn hardest to get better. Even if you aren't in therapy and you aren't trying overly hard to get better, you are still a good person and I am still proud of you

#the big three #paraphiles #paraphilias #pro paraphilia #pro paraphile #pro para #paraphilia #paraphile safe #paraphiles please interact #para safe #paraphile community #paraphilic disorder

[neuroticboyfriend]

Hey I appreciate ur posts on maps tbh. I have all three of the Big Three, and while the other two aren’t distressing for me (I’m still no contact for obvious reasons), being a map is something that keeps me up at night. I like get genuine nightmares about hurting kids bc of shit I can’t control. I know not all of us are distressed or disordered, but it’s so so helpful for the ones like myself who DO struggle with disgust and shame. Because shame is a really REALLY bad deterrent for any activity. And you can explain why actions are wrong without shaming someone for having those thoughts and feelings and no desire to actually act on them.

When I feel more like a person rather than a predator, I won’t prey like one, Yknow?

<3 i am very glad my posts have been appreciated. shame truly is an awful deterrent. my paraphilias make me feel like a monster, and that shame is part of why i drink/use drugs because... substance users/addicts are also demonized and my (completely unhealthy) thought process is basically "if you want a monster, i'll be a monster."

so in my case it ends up hurting me, but i can see how someone could go the opposite direction and end up hurting someone because they feel like nothing they do could ever be good anyway. altho i am obviously not saying people who do that are justified in their actions. they are not. it's just that abuse is a societal issue as much as it is an interpersonal one.

versus humanizing people... it validates their feelings and depth as a person, and makes them more likely to cope with life and express their attraction in healthy ways. so yeah. i am definitely with you anon, and i hope you experience more compassion and support as time goes on <3 stay strong.

#asks #anon #paraphilia #paraphiles #abuse tw #abuse #drugs tw #alcohol tw #ableism #sanism

[dismemberment-on-a-tuesday-night]

I'm starting my first Discord server. It's meant to paraphiles to have a friendly and casual enviroment to hang out in, and has channels for different paraphilias. All paraphiles are welcome. The only rules are to respect each other and facilitate a friendly environment.

Is anyone interested?

#Abraham original: Hot off the press #Paraphilia #Discord server #Paraphilia community #Paraphiles #paraphile safe #paraphiles please interact

[chaos-in-one]

Friendly (or unfriendly if you're against this) reminder that this blog is supportive of ALL disorders. This blog does not think ANY disorder inherently makes someone a bad person, and is against any disorder being demonized. This blog wholeheartedly believes that a bad person having a disorder, yes, even if things that are also symptoms of their disorder are part of what caused harm, does not make the disorder a "bad" or "evil" disorder or excuse ableism and demonization directed towards the disorder.

Yes this includes personality disorders

Including npd and aspd

Yes this includes all psychotic disorders & disorders that cause psychotic symptoms

Yes this includes paraphilic disorders. All of them.

Yes this includes disorders that cause, or are even characterized by, attention seeking

Yes this includes disorders that directly have lying as a common symptom

Yes this includes dissociative disorders

Yes this includes any disorder with "gross" symptoms

Yes this includes physical disorders too

Yes this includes disorders that can cause loss of control of any kind- control of speech, control of body movement, etc.

Yes tis includes disorders that make someone "look scary"

This goes for literally any fucking disorder. There are not exceptions.

#disability activism #ableism #demonization #disability awareness #personality disorders #npd #aspd #psychotic #psychotic disorders #paraphilic disorder #attention seeking #pathological lying #dissociative disorder #idk what other tags to put #also additional note I literally have a couple disorders on this list #and symptoms of several too #so if you're thinking of trying to argue on this post just fuck off #I guarantee you will not change my mind #and I don't want to hear it either

[fictionfreedom]

Feed me

I'm bored so if enough people want me to I will make a list of different songs I think relate to the big three paras. There will be three sections, of course, one for pedophilia, one for zoophilia, and one for necrophilia.

#proship #comship #profic #proship please interact #pro fiction #pro paraphile #anti harassment #pro para #mogai #paraphilia #paraphiles #para safe #paraphile safe #paraphiles please interact #paraphile #paraphilias #zoophillia #necrophilism #n3crophilia #actuallynecro #pedophillia mention

[twoheadedfather]

tiktok "leftists" when you ask them to be normal about people with cluster b or paraphilic disorders

#tw ableism #high emphasis on the paraphilic disorders but #once saw someone say that pwASPD were “scared” of people with autism because they could “suss them out” #i sat there. jaw dropped. what are you talking about #of course she didn't say “pwASPD” but... i'm not using the other word idgaf #sorry ik a lot of people make posts about this but god are they not lying #ableism #cluster b #aspd #npd #bpd #hpd #paraphilic disorder #leftists after they're asked to be leftist (IMPOSSIBLE CHALLENGE)

[cute-emo-boi]

Rb if u have a 'disgusting attraction™' :3

#pro para #paraphiles please interact #pro paraphile #paraphilia #my posts

[mortuaryprince]

babe my parents aren't home, come over and make sure you bring the knife

#autoassassinophilia #erotophonophilia #gore lover #paraphilia #violence kink #paraphiles please interact #knifeplay #bl00d kink

[offbrandfae22]

Me and who?

Found on Reddit

#dark k1nk #violence kink #bl00d kink #g0rewh0re #erotophonophilia #paraphile safe #intox cnc

[para-normalcanine]

Why are so many proshippers anti-para LMAO. "thought crimes dont exist unless you're a paraphile then your thoughts are disgusting and you're a freak" bro you aren't proship if thats your mentality 😭

#paraphiles please interact #pro paraphile #pro para #proshippers please interact #proship #comship #profic #profiction #tw ableist language #🥩 #🍐 #✅🚢 #🐜👕

[radwere]

valid reasons to be transid :

"I feel like the universe messed up by not making me x!"

"Not being x makes me extremely dysphoric :( "

"I wish my x was worse so people would take me more seriously!"

ALSO valid reasons to be transid:

"I just rlly like the vibe yknow!"

"I think x is super cool!"

point is all transid beings are totally valid no matter the reason behind why they identify like they do!!

#🌱 | jade speaks ! #antis dni #radqueer please interact #pro radqueer #transid please interact #radqueer #radqueer safe #paraphiles please interact #radqueer community #rq 🍓🌈 #🍓🌈 #rqc 🍓🌈 #transid safe #transid positivity

[fictionfreedom]

Is there a label for people who are attracted to being groomed?

Yep! That'd be called Aptophilia! If you have anymore paras you wanna look at the best option would be to check out the list of paraphilias on the MAP wiki (I'll link it below, some of the things it talks about are very debatable and occasionally gross, but if you just stick to the paraphilia list you won't have to worry about that, kinda) List of paraphilias - MAP Wiki (map-wiki.com)

#comship #proship #profic #proship please interact #pro fiction #pro paraphile #pro para #anti harassment #pro paraphilia #paraphiles #para safe #paraphile safe #paraphiles please interact #paraphilia

[darlingmirabeau]

Reminder that there is no such thing as a "harmful paraphilia". There is only harmful, or non-consensual, contact. Paraphilias are patterns of attraction. Attraction is not action.

#ayano.txt #pro para #paraphilia #anti contact paraphile #paraphile safe

[mortuaryprince]

i show up to your home in the middle of the night uninvited drenched in blood but i brought you a heart shaped box of chocolates and a bouquet of roses wyd do you let me inside?? hopefully

#autoassassinophilia #erotophonophilia #paraphilia #paraphiles please interact #gore lover #violence kink #bl00d kink #knifeplay

[para-normalcanine]

Saw a post where the OP talked about how their therapist told them that it's okay to be proship and indulge in taboo fiction and some dumbass anti in the replies was like "erm... maybe she's just telling you what you want to hear so you keep paying her" be so fucking fr.

#proship #comship #darkship #proshippers please interact #profic #profiction #anti anti #pro para #pro paraphile #paraphiles please interact #🥩 #🐜👕