#pace mentale

[ragazzoarcano]

"La pace con te stesso arriva quando decidi di non permettere più ad un evento o ad un' altra persona di governare le tue emozioni."

— Pema Chodron

#pace interiore #pace mentale #pace #pace con te #con te stesso #te stesso #decidere #permettere #evento #non permettere #altre persone #governare #emozioni #frasi emozioni #frasi e citazioni #frasi tumblr #frasi #frasi felicità #serenità #pema chodron

[chaosdancer]

caffè in terrazzo accompagnato dal suono, dagli odori e dai colori che regala la leggera pioggia mattutina

#pensieri #odori #colori #suono #pace #peace #pace mentale #inner peace

[sviluppimentali]

E fermati, guarda il mare.. l’alba…per un attimo non pensarci più..

#alba #me #life #Jesolo #pace mentale #pensieri #riflessioni #sole #mare #tumblr italia

[onionninjasstuff]

this is part one! | next

#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt #rottmnt donnie #rottmnt mikey #rottmnt draxum #villain pb&j duo #separated au #aaaaaaaa lets not talk abt the flow pacing and jokes in this my writing juice is running out #draxum having a mental breakdown and villain-ranting to himself for 4 pages straight #hes drinking all of that copium rn #im super improvising this whole thing btw im not rlly sure whats going on #but im having fun! #i hope everything is readable lol

[heartstopperthoughts]

Anyone who’s been saying that Nick and Charlie are too sexually pure like “oh they’re teenage boys, they’d be having a lot of sex” has clearly never read the novella

#like before Heartstopper was even a thought in Alice’s mind #we knew that they had sex in a blanket fort in the living room #for the record #I think the pacing of that plot point is perfect #especially given Charlie’s mental health journey #and Nick’s coming out journey #and their ages #and the genuine care and respect they have for one another #not to rush into things before they’re both 100% ready #heartstopper #osemanverse #nick and charlie #nick x charlie #narlie #nick nelson #charlie spring #heartstopper tv #heartstopper season 2 #heartstopper s2

[kirarahoshii]

sometimes a comfort show isn’t a sitcom or a romance or even remotely lighthearted. sometimes a comfort show is a survival/horror series about girls doing cannibalism and cult activities in the wilderness to survive

#eden speaks #yellowjackets #yellow jackets #tw cannibalism #tw cult #<- for the mentions #i thought i’d maybe be normal when i got into this show but no. mental illness #finished s2 and i cannot stop pacing around my room thinking abt it #i am HOOKED i’m afraid #tv shows #shauna shipman #shauna sadecki #horror #jackie taylor #taissa turner #misty quigley #natalie scatorccio #lottie matthews #van palmer #vanessa palmer #travis martinez #ben scott #javi martinez #laura lee #jeff sadecki #yellowjackets memes

[roychewtoy]

when kendall never really got out of the lake and has just been sinking his way through the rest of the story. and shiv never sees past the slant of light to see the knife coming until its sticking out of her and she can brandish it back, clutching bloody and desperate. and roman doesn't fold and crawl back to logan cause he never truly left the cage. and connor always returns to the doghouse in the desert, dried up out of sight

#that shiv gifset comparing the slant of light moment to the nearest ep is making me go crazy everytime i see it #i know they are all fighting dogs and im only really clanging that against connor and roman here #but theres just something about The structure of like. the cage and connors place in the desert #being actual physical things and.. kendalls water being this endless like sinking feeling #and shiv is just ...............fuck....................... #mentally i am pacing round the roys over and over and over and tht feels very ✅️on the money #🔄🔄🔄😐😐🔄🔄😐😐🔄😐🔄😐🫂😐🔄😐🫂🫂😐🫂😐🔄😐😐😐😐🫂😐🫂😐🫂😐🔄🔄🔄🔄🫂🫂🔄🫂🔄🫂🔄🔄🔄🔄🔄 #anyway heres how shiv violence can win #succession #chewtoy

[plounce]

thancred blames a lot of shit on himself wrt minfilia that aren't really his fault at all: not saving minfilia's dad from the goobbue (he wasn't the one that intentionally set it loose also he was 17 years old); not saving minfilia from being absorbed into the lifestream at the end of ARR (she very well could have escaped with the WoL and instead chose to listen to hydaelyn and run back); not saving minfilia from getting sent to the first (that was urianger doing Gambits for the Greater Good, and minfilia agreed to go along with it to help the first). and nobody's really mad at him for any of this (save f'lhaminn for not hanging out with minfilia more when she was a kid) and he has piled up all this self-blame and self-loathing about it all that this tangled mountain of guilt causes him to fail his "second chance" in ryne: he's really cold and distant towards her! she is so emotionally neglected by him, because he knows that he feels too strongly about the situation to treat her fairly, so he just doesn't treat her any way at all except for "defensive". i think it's interesting and cool how his self-perception of his "failures" boil over into becoming fueling his major character failure of the entire story so far. which he then of course resolves by nearly killing himself to give her the chance to be able to determine what she herself wants to do. but since ryne chooses to want to live and be with the people she values, thancred also gets to live, so her dad can give her a new name that is wholly born from their time together on the first. he's finally accepted that he did & has done all he can for the source's minfilia. being on the brink of death probably helps propel this acceptance lmao but ffxiv's themes mean that his loved ones arrive in time to rez him. ALSO he has to live because he never actually SAID any of the feelings he expressed during the ran'jit fight to ryne. he's just talking to his villainous paternal foil and himself. after constantly going "ill say smth when the time is right" he HAS to be able to SAY Good Dad Words to her to satisfy the character arc. anyway thancred don't be so hard on yourself except for the thing you directly sucked at for years

#chirps #ffxiv #i do think that the pacing of their story got a little wonky wrt thancred's inability to communicate #+ the fact that they were in that insane stasis for 3 yrs... i just have to think that the WoL arriving on the first sent thancred into #an even crazier mental spiral than his usual ones bc Oh God The Hour Of Reckoning Is Upon Her(s) #but (handwaves) the WoL was off fishing or smth during those conversations #thancred waters

[sipping-ambrosia-wine]

love how eeaao climaxed with Evelyn's whole hearted acceptance and open support of Joy being gay. starting at that put upon tolerance at the beginning and then the "you!! youre the reason my daughter is gay!" when she first meets Jobu Tupaki. obviously her marriage and her business and her father's rejection of her are also crucial to the film but when Joy and Evelyn are fighting, "stop calling me evelyn, i am your mother!"- thats not an assertion of her authority- thats saying "whoever wherever whatever you are i will love you because i choose to be your mother. of a thousand possible realities for the both of us i'm choosing you". their relationship is deeply flawed at the beginning of the film. Joy spends half of her act one scenes near tears, in turn harped on for her life choices and dismissed entirely. to go from that to being unequivocally accepted and protected- of course she runs! what do you even do with that!!! and then not dragged back or left to drift away- but followed to the point of no return and asked to stay. not just Straight Joy. not just Successful Joy. not Joy-Who-Listens-To-Her-Mom, not even Mediocre, Just-Okay Joy. any of these Joys Evelyn couldve had, any of these changes were entirely within her reach. but its tattooed college drop-out lesbian Joy who is told she's the only version of herself that her mother needs to be proud of.

Evelyn's father disowned her for marrying a man who he disapproved of. she doesnt want to risk that relationship again, between her father and her daughter, for Joy yes as well as for herself. one of the first jumps Evelyn makes is one where she stayed at home, listened to her father, and the world is her goddamn oyster. "i saw my life without you. it was beautiful, i wish you could have seen it." but we also see a world where she is blinded as a child and her father supports her and her opera career for the rest of her life. she's worn down over the years, yes but her first biggest bad-turn trauma is Gong Gong telling her "i am not your father". and she stares down the possibility of that again and proceeds to step up to bat and step up as Joy's mom. how different is "it's protocol" to "it's tradition"? kill your daughter shes a monster kill your daughter its for the good of us all- evelyn doesnt kill joy but she still wants to change her. the movie doesnt end until she chooses that for all her flaws none of them matter. all that matters is joy.

#sorry for the dogshit structure and formatting im a little unhinged from this movie if you couldnt tell #eeaao #everything everywhere all at once #eeaao spoilers #tw homophobia #i need to watch this again and take proper notes instead of sobbing #so if anything is wrong or rings false to anyone PLEASE bring it up bc im literally unwell and need to talk about this movie with someone #fr fr its very fast paced as well so i could be misremembering stuff #you know the mental illness popped out when you forget to tag the characters ur rant is about lmao #evelyn wang #joy wang #jobu tupaki #mine

[fly-sky-high-arts]

I do want to talk about sharing art online from the perspective of a hobby freelancer but before that I'll just toss this tidbit I mentioned on my main

Reblogs are not numbers. Reblogs are meant to share and pass on artwork that someone may like. NO ONE is forced to reblog anything BUT it is a core of engagement in a space like tumblr. Engagement is what brings in interest after all and it's one piece of what makes it important for freelance artists here.

When you look at the numbers and the notes, we need to stop viewing them and comparing them with likes (me included) or total in general. It doesn't help.

Artists do self rebloging to both show or remind folks they've done some work as well as to nudge people to reblog their stuff. Tags are nice and comments in them are a nice way to engage too but passing on the work, especially to help someone to get noticed, is a good way to just work the site as intended.

It will always be about luck because we can't guess who wants to engage with what online. You also can't blame yourselves for this. Don't use the internet mentality of "content" (eugh!) and "flopping" and go about it that way. People find stuff I drew years back and find ways to engage with it now. It's really about luck.

There are things that can help but I'll go about it in another post.

One more thing. Don't be shy about "shilling". Advertise your open commissions, your patreons or ko-fis. I promise it has nothing to do with how big of an artist you are. Remember that you're doing that within your own zone so "bothering" followers is hardly the case, it's your house. Make a tag for it if it helps your mind. I say as someone with social anxiety.

#sky rambles #sorry I know this topic has been everywhere but it made me have so much on my mind #I also vibe on Savvy's streams when I can and artists chatting there make a lot of good points and HELPFUL tips! #so I end up thinking about stuff like this a lot #freelancing is hard #it's also not a job that's sustainable where I live #but also because I can't pace my work differently because I will hate it then #and I don't want to hate working what I enjoy doing #and numbers can really add to that because it turns into 'content' mentality #(i swear i am becoming allergic to that word it physically makes me recoil every time) #it's about finding what works for you EVEN IF IT'S BUSINESS #you NEED to pace yourself HOW IT WORKS FOR YOU and not what brings more money #as unfortunate as that may sound #otherwise you will burnout fast and hate every bit of it

[ragazzoarcano]

"Non lasciare che il comportamento degli altri distrugga la tua pace interiore"

— Tenzin Gyatzo, XIV Dalai Lama

#lasciare #comportamento #gli altri #distruggere #pace interiore #pace #pace mentale #frasi e citazioni #frasi tumblr #frasi #frasi profonde #frasi ad effetto #frasi sagge #dalai lama #atteggiamento

[jils-things]

by the lighthouse.

dividers

#alright i suppose i should tell what's up lately! im mostly posting this like a mini update or whatever haha #so - since i made that last post on my disappearance i worked endlessly to finish my animation project and thank goodness it's finally over #i had to take a break from trying to be social here and just stay in my own space and i did that by having a smaller side blog to ramble #the project was very... tiring - definitely took out so much energy from me post physically and mentally and i was just frustrated everyday #so i just took my time to be alone with a few close people and i like to think im okay now? #i like to think so - since i was able to deliver a few commission drafts today so i'm relieved that im back to my usual pace #I'll post a few of my doodles here i did during my project just to fill the void haha #i've acquired a minor familial from another video game and i care for him a lot :] idk ill bother to talk abt it here but yeah thats funnn #also indulging a lil bit of t.n.m.n content as of late also thanks to my friend who knows abt it hehe #soo yeah! I don't know if ill be active like the usual but know that i'm doing alright now! hope everyone's doing okay too xoxo #ill probably still stay in my smaller blog for a little longer but will occasionally pop in here! #sooo yaaa #~ art #♥️ memoryshipping #also yea i think no.rton only had like. 10 days worth of being the blog brand here until i switched back to the usual guy lmaooo sorry 😔

[when-wax-wings-melt]

said it once i will say it fucking again. flashback fitz was the most accurate version of fitz there ever was. he was sweet he was angry he was frustrated he was patient he was confident he was violent he never trusted alvar again he trusted sophie more than anyone (nearly unhealthily). i miss him. bring him back. he was so unapologetically kind generous and deeply broken. I MISS HIM.

#flashback fitz was the most accurate because everything that had been established about him thus far was brought to a head #(his trust issues w first trusting everyone and then slowly that being chipped away at w keefe and alvar's betrayals #leading to him trusting sophie more than anyone else) #(his anger at alvar for the betrayal which carried into his anger at keefe. jealousy but also regret. violence and need for normalcy again) #(but also his kindness. giving sophie gifts. i want it to be you. we go at your pace. if you need anything im here. #excitement at speaking to silveny and determination to train and recover and adjusting to his physical injuries better than his mental ones) #it was him. it was FITZ. and i MISS HIM. #summer rambles #fitz vacker #that's why legacy and stellarlune (and unlocked but he was barely in that) were so so sad for me #because he was there. we HAD HIM. #kotlc #keeper of the lost cities

[ask-doctor-med-ler]

PSA: Limits (Doing Things At Your Own Pace)

Everyone has physical and mental limits, and generally speaking people hold an expectation that you need to push yourself past your limits to accomplish what you need to.

Here is your daily reminder that you do not need to push yourself past your limits. Physical or Otherwise. Those limits are there for a reason.

No matter what conditions or limitations you have (or even if you don't believe you have any) just take your time and do things at your own pace.

#psa #limits #pushing past your limits #do things at your own pace #nobody knows yourself better than you #self care #mental health #physical limitations #mental limitations #spoons #thneedville clinic #onceler walk in clinic #onceler medical clinic #thneedville clinic psa #ask med ler #ask med-ler #ask dr med-ler #ask doctor med-ler #ask doctor med ler #ask dr med ler #onceler askblog #onceler ask #ask onceler #ask blog

[bigfan-fanfic]

Writing Game 1.1: Simple

Prompt: Picnic Pairing: Bruce Wayne/Clark Kent

Thank you to the 87 wonderful freaks who voted on my lil poll! I hope you enjoy the first of nine little short fics for this first round!

"Y'know, traditionally, picnics don't involve so much... silver." Clark chuckles, gesturing at the chilled silver tureen of fruit, the mahogany charcuterie board, and the few cloche-covered platters of sandwiches, profiteroles, and chocolate covered strawberries laid out as they take a picnic in the gardens on the grounds of Wayne Manor.

Bruce gives a smirk, his dark blue eyes twinkling. He leans across Clark, enjoying the way the farmboy blushes as he glances down where Bruce's shirt creases at the open button. "That so? I wasn't aware you were a picnic aficionado."

"Oh, hush." Clark chuckles, pushing ever so gently against Bruce's chest to move him back to his side of the plush red patterned carpet laid down beneath them in the garden - probably some material like cashmere.

"Truthfully, I... may have gone a bit overboard." Bruce admitted. "Despite my extensive training, I am... rusty with my culinary skills."

"Wait, you're telling me part of your Batman training was cooking?"

Bruce levels an unamused look at the astonished Kansan.

"Sorry. Carry on."

"I just... sometimes I can go overboard when it comes to extravagance, to cover up the inadequacy I feel at the basic level."

"You're charming enough at parties." Clark muses, observing Bruce, watching him make a conscious attempt to remain open in his body language, to defy the instinct telling him to conceal his emotions. It was adorable how hard he had to try to be vulnerable.

"It's easier when I'm playing a role. When I'm Bruce Wayne, the socialite, the Prince of Gotham, it's no different than playing the role of Matches Malone, or any other aliases. I can throw myself into the character. When I'm stripped of pretense... I'm woefully incomplete."

"Well, that's just not true."

Bruce rolls his eyes. "You really think that? My deficiencies in simply making a meal for myself without Alfred's aid, my failures as a parent and mentor, my lack of skill in basic socialization-"

"When you make yourself into a checklist, you're bound to leave some stuff out. You look at yourself with such a critical eye, you're bound to see all the flaws before the good. If nothing else, that just goes to show how self aware you are." Clark smiles, gently plucking a chilled square of watermelon.

"Leave it to you to turn my self-pitying musings into a complement."

Clark smiles, using a black cloth napkin monogrammed with a gold W to catch the juices of the fruit running down his chin. "Pa always used to try and freak me out. He said if you swallow a black watermelon seed, you'd grow a watermelon in your stomach."

Bruce raises an eyebrow. "I haven't heard about that."

"It's not true. In fact, it's not even anecdotally true; nothing will happen, they're not even slightly toxic, like apple seeds. It's just some random thing we used to say or believe. Like that you shouldn't swim right after eating."

Bruce doesn't talk about his parents. Just as a general rule. And he doesn't now, even though he can probably tell that Clark is wondering if Bruce's dad would've told him these silly little lies, or any of the other countless common parental platitudes. Clark is a deeply empathetic person, and it hurts him to imagine that Bruce never got to be with his parents. It's not even the same kind of situation as him with Jor-El and Lara, who are still somewhat strangers to him - he still had parents. Still had Ma and Pa. And Bruce had Alfred, but it couldn't be the same.

Clark looks at him and instead says, "Can I have a hug?"

And Bruce looks startled, but obliges him. Gracefully, fluidly rises and practically straddles Clark, embracing him. Clark sighs happily and leans back until he's lying down, Bruce on top of him, pulled into an inadvertent kiss.

They kiss for a while, then lie together looking straight up, watching the clouds drift by in the sunlight. A brilliant day, not even just by Gotham standards. Bruce still isn't sure that Clark didn't fly up there before the picnic to ensure the perfect weather.

"I don't mind how extravagant you are. I think it's just how you show love. And besides, I know you don't really mind how plain I am."

"I envy it. I wish I could be simpler, I just... don't know how."

"I don't need you simple, silly. I just need you."

"That's exactly the kind of sugary sweetness I expect from you."

"Why, I do believe I'm growing on ya, Mister Wayne."

Bruce looks at him. Clark looks back. He can see Bruce steeling himself, preparing. And he lets out a very, almost comically, serious...

"I love you."

Clark allows himself one second of pure shock, realizing just how much it took from Bruce to say that, finally.

"I love you too."

Bruce's hand finds its way into Clark's, and they stare into the sky until the sun starts to set and the honeybees start coming for the fruit left uneaten.

Some things, it seems, truly are that simple.

#writing game #bruce wayne x clark kent #superbat #dc headcanons #headcanons #i love the idea that bruce really wants to express his emotions #but it's just a mental block for him #and clark is just content to move at his pace #and they love each other

[cathalbravecog]

i like it when ppl draw this freak with pants like that. woe. ms paint gwam be upon ye. mole if u see this, this is dedicated to u

#immmmmmm #so stuck between #my art fight stuff #and my mental health being ass #(im kinda hiding from tumblr atm oops but i still wanna post this) #so doodling smthn NOT art fight feels AAAHHH SO GOOD #theres drawings i could post in theory but getting a pic of it thats good is a nightmare. cant do it now its like alost 10 pm here. #even worse light conditions. oops...! #i keep fearing im loosing toontown as a fixation but its LITERALLY on my mind 24/7. im just playing the game a bit less. #finding motivation once youre in the postgame and done with all the bosses (except pace and chip) (and prester but his ass dont count) is a #BIT HARD. but then again my motivation been low as of late. #ANYWAYS. #gramanesspaysor. enjoy. #pacesetter #doodles #ms paint #toontown corporate clash #i dont think ill draw him like this much btw. i prefer like. staying more 'on model' with my prev art of him. this was just for funsies.. #like any art should be tbh..... hee hee #i hope my brain will fix itself a bit after art fight. i may upload these last pieces and stop caring about it too bc HOO #i mean i do have one thing thatll take forever to do still but #wauurghhhhhhhhh #i wanna draw more cool cogs but art fight almost done #guz art