#mutuals do not perceive

[technologyvoid]

On one hand, I probably really need a hug

#on the other. i can just continue avoiding food and go overheat instead #i need to lose weight anyways #mutuals do not perceive #tw vent

[treasure-goblin]

Valentines day is apparently the best day to question lots of things

#i think i may be demi/grey romantic? #still very much asexual #that has absolutely not changed #but i wonder if my staunch aversion to relationships is trauma #cal rambles #tre talks #mutuals do not perceive

[medi-bee]

more dragon!iterator sketches in varying levels of quality

#my art #rain world #dragons #five pebbles #looks to the moon #no significant harassment #seven red suns #big dragons and their little kitties <3 #still figuring out how i want everyone to look but im enjoying the process! #a part of me wants to robot-ify them more. the other parts of me cry at the thought #it is soo impressive to me when artists can draw mechanical bits. could never be me #hold on. looks at my follower count. wjat #um. uh. ah. hi everyone #IM VERY FLATTERED BUT please do not perceive me #i have a hard enough time knowing that my mutuals see my abnormal tags #i havent even done anythjing

[simplydnp]

Sometimes I think Dan and Phil are totally platonic besties and then other times I’m convinced they fuck on the daily. I think they do it on purpose and it’s honestly iconic.

kind of the best thing is that they are that and everything in between. you can tell they just like being around each other. they've made content together for 15 years and the large majority of it was done in the strictly platonic sense for their audience. and they were still having so much fun with it. we're in the 'we know you know' era now so we get to see flashes of different dynamics they have, but they absolutely have more we Don't get to see bc they're not for us.

they like each other. stupidly fond of each other. spending time together doesn't feel exhausting. they're best friends and each others' harshest critics while being the biggest hypeman and also safe space.

dnp's relationship with us, their audience, always has been and always will be different than any other content creators. part of it is how they accumulated it, but another part is just the massive history we have with them. they Get us. they Know us. they're silly goofy sarcastic guys who love us and hate us sometimes. theyre grateful but careful too. they like to rile us up, just like they do each other. it's a love language, teasing, and we've shown positive responses to it over the years. i like to say that my relationship with dnp is antagonistic sometimes--cause i know they're pushing my buttons on purpose. and ykw? it's fun! it's fun for us and it's fun for them because they have the control. i know anything they let out is cause they chose to let it out because they Know how we are. so yes they absolutely adore messing with us. we're a funny bunch.

#im getting sappy again #the things you mention anon are not mutually exclusive for dnp. which is a lot of the fun of it #like for me personally. why be in a relationship with someone who isnt your best friend. i dont know how they couldnt be your favourite ever #like maybe im projecting but theirs is probably the healthiest depiction of love i have in my life #theres movies and tv but its not real. and yes dnp are produced. and aware. and curate. but theyre not selling a relationship. #sure we perceive it. but its not the goal. the product is the entertainment value of them together cause theyre funny. #whereas almost every relationship ive properly witnessed in my life seems like. a trap. genuinely. #its like well no love isnt actually real its a concept you just. are stuck. for the rest of existence. be happy about it. #and with dnp its like oh like love is actually real. like theres a reason people want to stay together forever. #like people Do get lost in each others eyes. they get a different look on their face that reads i love you #theres people out there who will love every aspect of you and never get enough of you or your time #i am. so far off on a tangent. #anyways love dnp love the cat and mouse game we play together #dnp #c.text #dan and phil #answered

[doofnoof]

Pardon the clunky format but;

This is what I imagine newly-daycare-attendant'd Moon is like when he's attempting to flirt. Like, he's entirely befuddled as to why Y/N isn't swooning into his arms after he's mutilated 5 teddy bears, tied one kid to the jungle-gym, spilled a whole gallon of glitter glue on the floor and sent the children running through it so it looks like they're covered in red glittery blood, and cackled menacingly whenever he's swooped at Y/N from the ceiling, what could he possibly be getting wrong? Maybe next time he should tie them to the jungle-gym instead??? He is scratching his head and crossing out scheme after scheme on his vision-board (hastily scribbled on cork board that looks more like deranged rambling than a put-together plot, and it certainly doesn't help that Sun keeps going over it in Red Crayon to "Correct" Moon's plots, which just makes Moon want to be Even More Despicable and Villainous), and he's beginning to run out of dastardly plans to use to court his Beloved Daycare Assistant.

And Sun is seeing all of this and metaphorically pulling his hair out because No Moonie, That's Not How You Woo Someone, Gosh Forbid You Act Normal And Just Be Nice To The Daycare Assistant. While he firmly believes he's gonna be the one to Woo the Daycare Assistant, Sun is absolutely no better, every time he thinks something Romantic is about to happen he fumbles and falls face first into the ball pit, or trip over his own feet and faceplants into the floor, or he'll get caught looking at how cute Y/N is and break whatever he was holding on accident, one time it was an orange one of the kids needed help peeling and he squeezed it so hard that it exploded all over his face in a delicious, pulpy mess. He was so embarrassed he couldn't even make eye contact while Y/N cleaned his face off with a wet wipe and grabbed an orange from their own lunch-box to replace poor little Jeremy's exploded cutie, not that Y/N would've noticed (they did), because of the whole Completely Blank-White-Eyes-Thing. Nailed It.

The funniest part? Y/N is probably Just As Smitten as Sun and Moon are and Just As Bad At Letting Them Know that the whole Faux-Villain and Clumsy-Hero thing is Working, which doesn't do them any favors, because inevitably it's Y/N cleaning up Moon's Glitter-Glue-Devastations and Sun's Oopsie-Daisy-Cutie-Catastrophies.

#sorry for the insane rambling #bug barks #bug writes #I'm living for this new theater animatronic angle we're seeing and I can't /Not/ be strange abt it #fic #fanfic #fnaf #fnaf sb #dca #fnaf dca #fnaf daycare attendant #daycare attendant #this is for my mutuals only actually and if you find this in the wild Do Not Perceive Me #/lh

[telekitnetic-art]

(drops this on the ground) oh shit (drops it on the ground) oh damn my bad (drops it on the ground) oh whoops (d

#suggestive #cw suggestive #question mark??? #tagging just in case #anyway. #if you are a mutual and you see this. i am so sorry. #i had to get this out of my system i haven't stopped thinking about this game in 24 hours #vere #vere touchstarved #touchstarved game #listen. vere is hot but also such an bastard-y asshole that he loops back around to being hot to me. #yes that's the mc's hand holding the chain. #its cause thats what I WANNA DO TO HIM (is escorted out of the wendys) #anyway. go check out the kickstarter. please. #i don't have the courage to add my main art tag to this post. #do not perceive me ever again. #have a good day.

[onlyhuis]

bias line check! 💌

the post was getting long so i made a new one <3

tagged by: @hannieween <3 tagging: @highvern @duhnova @simpjaes @onlyseokmins @cheolism + anyone else who sees and wants to!

#[💒] — @june #was tempted to just put 9 pics of jun nksdhfjsnd #he is my only ult <333 but i have other biases hehe #mutuals do not perceive shua he isnt a bias. im lying #also pls dont tell me i have a type i dont !!!! there is no correlation here whatsoever be quiet !!!!

[ash-and-starlight]

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#…… #um. i think…. #g….. giancarlo volpe replied to my post on twt????? #im gonna dig a hole in the ground i’m gonna evaporate #wtf do i do now #is this another samuel deats + trevor’s asscheeks situations i- #this is so unnatural my art is meant to be perceived by mutuals and that’s it #????????​????????​???????? #🎤🎤🎤 #actually mr volpe what do u think about zukk [gets shot] #send post

[dykeyuu]

i’m not gonna actually reblog it bc i don’t feel like getting dogpiled but this is the most allistic take i’ve seen in a hot fucking minute like first of all since when are the two options “mind numbing small talk” and “traumadumping your deepest darkest secrets” like there’s a middle ground… there is talking in a meaningful and connected non-small talk way that also isn’t therapy session-level sharing😭 and secondly i cannot fathom on any level how it would be enjoyable to engage in small talk with anyone. like im not “speedrunning” anything i am just having a conversation as a human being and as a human being i do not want to engage in some pre-constructed social ritual that i can barely navigate half the time, that drains me energetically and affords me no sense of connectedness (and usually feels like it alienates me even more). if having a human conversation with someone makes you uncomfortable that’s not my fucking problem. if you don’t understand how one might feel glimpses of connectedness from a conversation with a stranger that is also not my problem— obviously i’m not looking for emotional intimacy with the cashier at the grocery store or whatever but that doesn’t mean that there’s no human connection when we chat for a couple minutes about some life experience or something. connectedness isn’t a sigmoidal response you can find human connection in people you meet once in your whole life and in people that you see once in a while and in people that you’ll never actually be that close to. anyways i think what primarily pissed me off was the all or nothing framing of the issue because it’s a dire misrepresentation of the experiences of at least some of the people op is referring to, and also the phrasing of the post makes it evident that op is painfully allistic and probably unkind to the autistic people in her life.

idk like of course the post feels directed more towards people who are vocal about hating small talk and use it as a way to exit a conversation they don’t want to have but i honestly don’t see a problem with that beyond it being a bit of a social blunder— but i have no problem with people committing social blunders like that because i think that unspoken social rules are confusing and frustratingly difficult to follow 100% of the time. i view small talk as the thing i have to get through to have a normal conversation but there are definitely times when i don’t have the mental energy to deal with it. besides, people in the notes are saying the most vile shit where they’re obviously taking “i don’t like small talk mfs” as code for autistics

like fundamentally i actually agree with op that you can’t just jump right into a breakdown of every trauma you’ve ever endured and that it’s important to be able to engage in a conversation about something other than yourself (and that it’s pretty irritating to ask someone how their day was and have them reply “oh i don’t do small talk”) but i just think the way the argument is presented is really hostile to autistics and misrepresentative of a lot of people who struggle with allistic social rituals

i think this is also an important point to make: when i say small talk i mean “weather’s nice today” type stuff, not like surface level get-to-know-you type conversation or chatting about interests, and i think people tend to have a muddled definition of small talk where anything that isn’t trauma dumping is small talk. i won’t start talking about hyperpolarization/all or nothing thinking in society’s collective perception of the world but know im thinking about it <3

#i can’t fucking stand allistics #allistic ​mutuals ur the exception <3 bc why else would i follow u #i guess i just fundamentally do not understand how these people perceive and navigate the world #sometimes u read a post and u can just tell that op hates autistic people and is trying to say that without saying ‘i hate autistics’ #long post #didn’t mean to write a damn paper about it…

[technologyvoid]

I've decided to just ignore dinner

#mutuals do not perceive #tw vent #it's fiiiiiiine i can eat on Monday since my irl friends will get suspicious if i skip lunch

[oldestking]

/  If u deal with g.il u have to know that u will be constantly threading through the thin line between him deciding that u will die by his hands or u proving him that there’s something of worth in having u around

#at least initially of course #;about #about #;headcanons #headcanons #well its not really a headcanon but u know; tagging- #and it lit can shift in o n e second #which is why its quite difficult to deal with him bc he's that unpredictable #this is much more pronounced on a.rcher g.il but caster isn't devoid of this #its just that c.aster is more likely to not bother with ur existense #while a.rcher g.il has this feeling but its more so; u have no worth to me so what worth could you possibly provide to the world then? #and would get rid of the person in question there #while with caster its more like; u have no worth to me nor to the world; SCRAM. #/and i apologize in advance but yes; his views are very egocentric in either case; that's just how he is #to him even if u came and told him 'i dont care about how u perceive me lol' it doesnt matter; and also he's k.illing u on the spot #of course i wouldn't do this with the context of writing him bc it would be too op but; if ur sassy with him it has to be on a #wavelenght of mutual respect even if its not said out loud; it has to exist #otherwise chances are that he is not going to be cooperative with u #its not a pretty trait but that's g.ilgamesh #and yes this is hypocritical of him but its his status as king and his hugeahh ego which makes this contradiction possible #so it has a reason (even if it sucks) as of why he acts the way he does; basically g.il works by his own rules #in conclusion: bite him and bark at him but know who ur dealing with; that's basically it; if u do so in a way that is akin to his taste #he'll do it back; and then u'll gain his friendship #as a last thing i wanna mention how his views CAN definitely change; as they have done so with as an example h.akuno and r.itsuka/g.udako #so even if u start a rocky path with him; things can still progress

[professorxsmokesweed]

i rarely use tiktok but i opened it on a whim today and discovered magneto is actually getting edits in the straightboy section and the comments were full of people respectfully gassing him up. his power grows stronger

#magneto nation. magneto world stardom. #i only downloaded the clock app bc of my baby sister and tbh this magneto knowledge makes it worth it. #the new problem: do we want erik to be perceived by the general public dudebro sphere #if it’s certain dudebros from the jjk sphere its okay those are my brothers. all others we are screwed #also some of the comments oh i giggled no offense to charles but they were calling him 3 kinda of stupid for certain choices #thats anothoer issue actually usually everyone whos not in my mutual circle gets a sideye when they shittalk charles🤔 #as i was typing this i watched my cat climb into my laundry basket and then THROW UP A HAIRBALL. GIRL ARE YOU KIDDING.

[sentimentalshitpost]

in my horny for george era

#.txt #seinfeld #george costanza #mutuals do not look #do not perceive me #on my main and my side blog i'm a disaster

[fogwitchoftheevermore]

the desire for jimmy to stop doing those "reacting to cosplayers" videos because i'm afraid i'll be in one of them vs. the desire for jimmy to keep doing those "reacting to cosplayers" videos because i want to be in one of them, FIGHT

#space rambles #like. scary. dont perceive me. #but also DO perceive me if you think if cool. thank you. #this fear is only SIGNIFICANTLY INCREASED because multiple of my mutuals have now been in these including one of my friends

[baeshijima]

hello sophie ^-^ how are you ??

hello hello earth !! im doing swell on this windy day 😌 a little tired but i have tennis tryouts later in the evening so im looking forward to that :D how are u ??

#omg a convo !? #mutuals !! #help i thought i followed u before but turns out i didnt 🐥 do not perceive me

[avallachs]

talking about the way people approach having / being mutuals with others w a friend is highlighting how insane the approach is in some corners of tumblr im so ??

#ophelia.txt #wack. anyway #i really hope this doesn't come off as pretentious or up myself but i love ppl & chatting to ppl so if u ever want to say hi to me for any #reason ur absolutely welcome to <3 mutual or not !! mwah #also tag games and things like that !! i'm notorious for not doing those but the idea of being perceived as unapproachable due to #who u do or don't follow is Baffling to me. and the fact that some ppl WANT that ??? ok...