#listen to trans women

[redditreceipts]

men try not to use misogyny as a confirmation of their "womanhood" challenge (difficulty: impossible)

#radblr #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact #radical feminists please touch #gender critical #feminism #gc feminism #gc feminist #gender abolition #radfems please touch #radfems please interact #radfem safe #autogynephilia #agp #listen to trans women #misogyny #reddit #patriarchy

[tofanahisjava]

The shit I see on TikTok is insane and this is even all that bad compared to what's out there. Like he really thinks hes making a point. He really thinks this proves that he experiences womanhood as much as any of us. I love how everyone of his examples can be categorized into either fetishizing femininity both the performative physical aspects or the servitude subjugation aspect, Or just straight up fetishizing and romanticizing male violence against women and the more directly violent aspect a female oppression. And he doesn't seem to be able to grasp that he is taking his stance of womanhood from a male perspective, Or that he only is experiencing misdirected misogyny and misdirected homophobia because of the way he chooses to live his life a privilege that actual women don't have. Anyways, I'd love to hear your guyn's take on this video. I'm gonna post more this guy's stuff on here because it seems like hes all over tik tok and is gaining a lot of popularity.

#I understand womanhood because I am a woman #tra logic #gender critical #radfem #Male voices of tic toc #No. But you assume you understand womanhood and womanhood because you're a man #Listen to trans women #female appropriation

[maleswillbemale]

These men are women

#tim misogyny #listen to trans women

[pehmekiisufacts]

Fourth and final part of the best comments in Dylan Mulvaney's video.

#radfem #radical feminism #radblr #radical feminists please interact #feminism #gender critical #misogony #Dylan mulvaney #Tra nonsense #Trans #Listen to trans women #Patriarchy #Peak trans

[riddlemedis]

TIM saying the quiet part out loud about narcissistic qualities of the movement.

TRA Changing everything you can about your body to get “cuter” is the best thing you can do for yourself vs radfem learn to accept and love your body as it is.

#radfem #listen to trans women #radblr

[chixie-roixmr]

casual drop of my cohost and bsky right here for pretty obvious reasons

#ain't no WAY some motherfucker is gonna get away with shit like this #pretending like a transfemme apparated in his room making very serious threats i prommy believe me transfemmes #AFTER YEARS of awful treatment and straight up “i do not see it” level BULLSHIT from staff and multiple hate campaigns run against her #listen to trans women #and learn to shut the fuck up when you have the ounce of self-awareness to realize this anger is from LITERAL YEARS OF NOT BEING LISTENED T #actual denthead jesus fucking christ

[knowledgevariabledarcy]

#listen to music #listen to me #listen to trans women #listen flavor #listen listen #Youtube

[untameableshrew]

kys :)

😇 no 😇

#radfem #radfems do interact #feminism #lesbian #radfems please touch #gender critical #trans #listen to trans women #pride 2022

[uncanny-tranny]

At some point, I think people have to contend with the fact that misgendering isn't a completely a universally agreed upon concept in the specific sense that misgendering can be very personal.

What may be misgendering to you will not be to other trans people - even if they have the same gender as you. You may be misgendered if somebody used the wrong label to describe you (e.g., somebody calling you "girl," even if it is slang), but that does not mean that that will apply to everybody.

It's important to recognize this because so often, people will say things like, "you can't use this label/phrase/term for any trans person who is a [gender]! And if any trans person who is a [gender] uses those labels/phrases/terms, they're wrong and bad!" and that is simply too broad a generalization.

It's fine to be uncomfortable with certain things like this. It is fine if you don't want to be misgendered, and indeed, I share in that sentiment. However, that does not mean that your comforts and discomforts apply to all trans people or all trans people who share your gender. There's a difference in that, I think.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #dysphoria tw #some other trans men do /not/ feel misgendered by being called/labeled as a lesbian/woman/wife and i do! neither of us are bad for that! #some trans women are misgendered by being called 'straight' if they like men! some trans women are misgendered by being called 'gay'... #...when they are attracted to men and neither of those women are bad people/bad women for their desires and who they are #what you do is listen to individuals and what they feel misgenders them and work with them without judging or being shitty to them #do you have to 'get it'? no! but you don't have to be awful about it either #and if it bothers you /so/ much then do both of you a favour and walk away

[whitehairedanimeboyfriend]

Conversations on here will basically be like

"Hey these new reproductive rights issues are affecting trans men too so let's make sure we include them in the conversation, instead of calling it women's health issues."

"Would you stop complaining? Trans women have it worse than trans men. TERFs want to kill us but only detransition you."

"If living as the gender you are not is so easy why would you transition in the first place? Obviously trans people transition because they can't live with existing as a gender they are not. Obviously "just going back" isn't an option because we often fail to behave the way we're expected to anyway. Forcing any trans person to detransition is a death sentence in and of itself."

"Why are you always speaking over transfems when we talk about transmisogynistic violence???"

#transandrophobia #its the conversation being about trans mascs to begin with that does it for me #yeah im sorry i interupted the beginning of your sentence with the middle of mine so rude of me #and the ultimate frustration is the topic has drifted so far off course #from including trans men in reproductive healthcare #and nobody cares #functionally i would just like access to reproductive healthcare #and you are the one pulling attention from that by turning it into a whataboutisms conversation #nothing that trans men want to acheive by being part of the conversation about reproductive health precludes trans women also getting rights #but telling trans men to shut up and listen to trans women because they have it worse #IS INTENTIONALLY LEAVING TRANS MEN BEHIND #not to mention arguing about who has it worse is what creates false dichotomies that leave out nonbinary people on top of it

[redditreceipts]

Imagine being friends with this guy, but despite you being a lesbian he keeps on hitting on you and he ignores every attempt from your side to signal to him that you're not interested. His behaviour already borders on sexual harassment, but you try to ignore it to not make the situation uncomfortable and not make him lash out. Then, when you could not have made it more obvious that you are not into him, he goes onto the lesbian subreddit and calls you "useless", implying that you actually do like him. I would have gone into his fucking neighbourhood and slashed his tires lol

I really think that men are unable to understand the lengths women go to to not make them upset.

Also, I will not rob you of the experience of reading his petplay erotica that he apparently sent his friend lol

#radblr #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact #radical feminists please touch #gender critical #feminism #gc feminism #gc feminist #gender abolition #radfems please touch #radfems please interact #radfem safe #autogynephilia #agp #listen to trans women #misogyny #reddit #patriarchy #radical feminist community #tras are mras #men are inferior #men are trash #men are the problem #terfblr

[the-real-list-of-ominous-threats]

I will yassify you

#normal threats return #still be nice to trans women and acknowledge that they're often mistreated #and listen to them

[medusamagic]

I need people to recognize that saying "I'd fuck/get fucked by a trans woman" is a stance that quite a few far-right folks have. You're not special for saying the quiet part loud. If you want me to believe that you actually care about trans women, say something when we try to call attention to issues that affect us.

#transphobia #transmisogyny #for the record #I'm not just referring to the predstrogen situation #though that really fucking sucks #trans women have been complaining about being shadowbanned over tame/sfw stuff for years #and no one listened until it was too obvious to deny #but even then smear campaigns are happening to trans women all over the place #including on tumblr right as you speak #trans women experience disproportionate rates of poverty #trans women are denied access to rape shelters because we're seen as intrinsically predatory #despite experiencing disproportionate amounts of rape #and yet for so many of you activism begins and ends with 'being a chaser on main' #please #I'm just begging to be heard #vent

[pehmekiisufacts]

Part 3 of the best comments in Dylan Mulvaney's video.

#radfem #radical feminism #radblr #radical feminists please interact #feminism #gender critical #misogony #dylan mulvaney #Tra nonsense #Trans #Listen to trans women #Patriarchy #Peak trans

[ot3]

this flavor of trans guy misogyny where they do rhetorical backflips to explain why them not caring about women is good, actually, and since cis men are also misogynists a lot of the time we should all just stop complaining about it.

#'no one bats an eye when-' #actually yes plenty of women but particularly black women and lesbians have a lot to say about the specific brand of misogyny #that you get from cis gay men. only no one listens to women who talk about misogyny. is the thing. s o. #IM LITERALLY NOT EVEN SAYING PEOPLE NEED TO PUT FEMALE CHARACTERS IN SHIT #IM JUST SAYING IF THEYRE GONNA BE THERE IT SUCKS WHEN THEY'RE ONLY THERE TO BE PLOT MOTIVATORS FOR MEN!!!! NO ONE GIVES A SHIT WHAT YOU DO! #like if you're a trans guy and you have a complicated relationship to womanhood and don't want to spend a bunch of time #in the headspace of female characters. i get that. i can understand that. i can sympathize. #but if ur response to seeing someone complain about misogyny is 'why should i have to care about female characters' then ur just an asshole #theres a time and a place to talk about the Unique and Woke Way That You Personally Dislike Women and it's not on my fucking posts!!!!

[stiffyck]

I'm losing braincells here.

A trans person asking you to respect their pronouns is not the same thing as a cis person not wanting to be called cis.

Like. You are cis if you identify with the gender you were born as.

It's not a slur, it's not just some derogatory word or something, it's an ADJECTIVE to better communicate what someone means.

It's like. Tall and short. You can have short women and you can have tall women.

Theyre both still women! But one is tall and one is short!!!

So saying "I don't know why we can't respect someone when they say they don't want to be called cis" IS SO STUPID.

Cis women who don't wanna be called cis don't want to be called that because they think that only they, cis women, are real women. They'd call a trans woman a trans woman, sure! But then they'd call themselves the "real" women! Like oh my god.

Cis isn't a slur and it's not a bad word. The only people I've seen using the "don't call us cis, we're just women" were transphobes.

#stiff talk #cw transphobia #the fact that i saw a trans woman say this #i cant even #listen when all the ladies in the comments saying “respect goes both ways!” and “thank you!” call you a biological male or call themselves #real women dont come crying to us okay #like cis people who dont want to be called cis dont wanna be called that because they dont think trans people are validth #they think that theyre not cis #they think theyre “normal” #like i dont even #i dont know what to say