johnny seo is very much a dom at heart but i can’t help but think of all the things he hasn’t even experienced. like sure, we can write as many smuts as possible but to think that this man probably hasn’t even done half the shit we write makes my brain go into overdrive.
like he’s a idol ffs like would he even have the time to do any of it ? no, BUT it’s always good to imagine.
Fandom Gripe #23: I know that fandom is in some deep denial about its treatment of female characters that are canonically involved with fan favorite m/m ships, but do y’all realize that when you disappear female characters from the narrative wholesale to push the idea that your canonically straight fav was “secretly gay all along!” you’re making several bad implications? That 1) bi men don’t exist, 2) bi men do exist, but those who have genuinely loved a woman before cannot genuinely love a man after that (therefore bi men don’t exist in practice), 3) women cannot inspire genuine love and devotion in men, therefore any relationship with a woman is “lesser” than the one they later have a man (see previous parenthesis), or 4) to acknowledge the existence of a lovable woman who isn’t a terrible person, where if a relationship previously existed, it did not end because of “incompatibility,” is enough to destabilize the present relationship between two queer men?
Because why is the tgcf fandom allergic to acknowledging that He Xuan had a whole ass fiancée that he loved? Why does no one ever seem to remember that the kidnappings and murders of He Xuan’s sister and fiancée were the final straws that sent him on his rampage, and he still keeps a shrine to them in the present-day of the story? Why is her entire existence and significance to He Xuan as a man, character, and to his character arc disappeared in favor of pushing Shi Qingxuan—the brother of the man responsible for his fiancée’s death—into that same role, as if to say that her impact on He Xuan is significant... just not when it's from her? Why does He Xuan’s life in fandom essentially begin not just after her death but because of it?
Baby, it’s Halloween
There’s a last time for everything
Oh, come on man
We can be anything
Whatever you want
I’ll be whatever you want
Whatever you want
Be whatever you want
- Halloween // Phoebe Bridgers
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happy birthday my scorpio king - i hope this year was good to you & i hope next will be even better. you deserve all the success & good things in the world (even though i have [playful] one sided beef with you all the time). you deserve it all & more. i am so very proud of you.
we have similar backgrounds & you are proof to me that you don’t have to be defined by your circumstances & that you can achieve great things despite them - and that you can find people who love you like family.
you’re a light in my life i am grateful to have. i hope you know just how loved you are & how much happiness you bring to others. love you lots. happy birthday and happy halloween🩷
lowkey annoying how the same people who say “wesker would not say he loves you” and accuse people who say that of making wesker ooc are the same people who genuinely think he’d kill you for interacting with him, which is also ooc
One line in particular that has stuck in my brain aside from the obvious: Prapai’s “please don’t joke with me” after asking Sky what he meant. It’s so desperate but it’s also kinda vulnerable?? Like he wants Sky so bad but there’s something off about this and he needs to pause and the last thing he wants is for this to be some joke. Because that’s mostly what he’s gotten from Sky up until this point: teasing, sarcasm, just a lot of pushback and testing Pai’s dedication to him. He can’t read Sky’s mind and know that he’s falling just as hard, he’s just hoping against hope and just fucking “please don’t let this be another test, please don’t tease me in this way, please don’t push me away if I act on this, please let me love you how you deserve to be loved, how I NEED to love you, please please please”
This is a small notice for people who followed/follows @Stephofromcabin12 !!
I didn’t delete the blog - everything is fine! (Not really, but *I* didn’t do anything to make it not fine)
Basically, I woke up today to find the blog gone. As in completely gone. Poof. Vanished into thin air.
Do I know what caused this? Not at all
Am I extremely confused and also a little panicked? Yes at all
I’ve already contacted support to help me get it back (fingers crossed that I can) and if not then I’ll simply have to make a new side blog (where we can all mourn the beautiful drafts and asks sitting in my inbox :’))
But for now there’s nothing to do but wait it out, and hope that its simply a bug/glitch
Further updates on LC will be happening on tiktok and also here while I wait for support to get back to me, apologies for any confusion this will cause!