#its okay to hate men

[radifemsara]

Women were never created from men's ribs, not ever. It is HE who emerges from HER womb. Framing the father as the life giver is a patriarchal lie, it's not true.

#radical feminism #female separatism #radblr #terfsafe #radical feminist community #radical feminists do interact #radical feminist safe #misandry #anti marriage #pro abortion #protect women #pro women #women are powerful #women are smart #anti men #men are the problem #all men #its okay to hate men #it is all men!

[3-aem]

im bored of animal crossing will be drawing gj again will be mental illness-ing once more.

#women make less than men because we dont know how to ask for more!!!!! #and thats so fucking true my ex manager had to coach me how to ask for more #and then i entered the call and went oh u want to give me less than what i asked for great okay sure love you bye #!!!!!!!!! *looking at myself in the mirror* i hate u #the noise my cat makes when hes frustrated #or really really excited i cant tell which is which anymore #my ex manager is also like lawyer core #ie not a lawyer but loves reading contracts for some uknown reason #and he was pointing out all the stupid phrasing #and i was sitting there like sir to be completely candid i do not even comprehend what the line is saying #let alone what it is suggesting and its implications #apparently when you get those emails like this is confidential dont share it!!! #u can u can like totally share it its not enforceable #the sender even knows its not enforceable they just put it there anyway #what are you gonna do with that info heck if i know!

[modify-and-sever]

are trans men really just "angrier because of the testosterone" or are you just saying and doing things to upset and anger trans men

#as someone on testosterone it absolutely does give you mood swings #and while anger isnt strictly a part of that experience for me (any moreso than i already was anyway) #im sure that some trans men / mascs out there do experience more anger than they did prior to HRT #and thats okay! its okay if thats your experience #but in my experience 99% of the “T makes you angry” crowd are either hostile non-masc trans and cis people who think that testosterone is #The Evil Chemical #and the other 1% are trans men / mascs who have been tricked by the 99% into hating themselves #so like. #before you start demonizing testosterone as a concept #please consider the implications of what youre actually saying #and not only that but WHY its your experience that people taking testosterone are more likely to be angry with you #transphobia #trans community #trans masculinity #transandrophobia

[dyketubbo]

not to be a woman womaning all over the place but i feel like if you genuinely like. do not have friends that are women then you have something to work on. if you cant think of any female characters that you treat the same way you do male characters then you have something to work on. if you cant handle even seeing "i dont like being called a guy/bro/lad/etc because it doesnt feel gender neutral to me" but can understand when one of your masc besties is uncomfortable with being called girlie or sister then you have something to work on. if your default in regards to how you handle other people and even characters is to assume masculinity then you have something to work on. if you cant even let women and otherwise feminine people speak about our experiences without bringing up how you suffer too then you have something to work on.

it doesnt matter if youre queer or a poc or a minority in whatever which way, if you do not include women in your life and cant even stand a fucking inch of genuine feminism (and i dont mean terfs but god is it fucking agonizing that thats all you people can think of when you hear feminism anymore) where the point is to treat women, all women, equally then you have something to work on. listen to women, even the ones whose experiences completely dont align with yours (hell ESPECIALLY the ones whose experiences completely dont align with yours). just like how we all have to check ourselves for racism, ableism, queerphobia, we all have to check ourselves for misogyny too. stop acting like it got solved at some point. it still exists and it exists within you and you have to actually fucking work on that. "women should be included in your life and you should listen to them" shouldnt be a hard goddamn pill to swallow.

#mask mews #truly i dont think if you can call yourself a feminist then thats a red flag. actually. like legit #yes fuck terfs we all fucking hate terfs but if thats all you can think of when you hear feminism youre letting them win #youre lettin the misogynistic assholes who call people 'feminazis' win. the mras the pieces of shit who treat our rights like a debate topic #and no transmascs yall are not exempt from them just because youve experienced misogyny too #i see misogyny from queer men all the time and yall need to stop acting like being a minority #prevents you from being harmful to other minorities #black men often perpetuate misogynoir. trans men often perpetuate transmisogyny. gay men often perpetuate lesbophobia #just as women can perpetuate the harmful shit against all of those groups too #we're all being shit to each other and we all need to check ourselves and im tired of people acting #like its just okay to like. exclude women from shit #its exhausting and its misogynistic and i think especially in this fandom none of you ever moved on from thinking gaming is only for men #watch yourselves. watch how you talk about women. about femininity. #how when yall talk about the annoying cis white women #its clear which of yall are annoyed about the cis white parts. and which of yall are annoyed about the woman part

[cerise-on-top]

Hiya! May I ask for a fluff alphabet for Price, if you haven't done that already. Since I saw in a recent post you only do 8-9 letters at a time now (which is okay!), may I specifically ask for: A, B, C, F, G, H, N, & Q? Thank you! 💗

Hey there! Sure you can! I've been in the mood to write something for Price anyway, so this came at a good time ^^

Fluff Alphabet for Price

A ctivities - What do they like to do with their s/o? How do they spend their free time with them?

On the one hand, he really loves going out to do something with you. Something along the lines of the occasional short hike, taking care of your shared garden or even just taking a stroll through the city, taking in all the sights and finding new ones you weren’t previously aware of. Those are things he likes to do when he’s been home for a while now. However, if he’s gotten home not too long ago then he’d much rather just stay in and sleep a little bit. Will want to cuddle you or just have you be his background noise. Don’t be mad at him if he dozes off while you’re watching a movie together, he’s just extremely tired and needs that rest.

B eauty - What do they admire about their s/o? What do they think is beautiful about them?

He admires how resilient you are. Price knows that life isn’t easy, that it always makes an effort to throw one impossible thing after another at you, but you never seem to give up. No matter how rough life gets, no matter how often it knocks you down, you always get up, dust yourself off and continue to smile. Even if it really took its toll on you, you strive to make your life better. Although it may get you down when you’ve had the worst day of your life, you still won’t stay down forever. You do what you can, and that’s what Price loves about you.

C omfort - How would they help their s/o when they feel down/have a panic attack etc.?

When you’re sad he’ll give you a hug, provided you’re okay with it. He’s a very good hugger, his hugs are very comforting and warm. Afterwards he’ll put on your favorite movie or series and watch it with you. If enough time has passed and you still feel down, then he’ll cook something you really like. Although he knows he can’t make the sadness go away forever, he’ll try to temporarily cheer you up. If you need to talk, if you need some advice, he’s also your man. If you have a panic attack then he’ll try to calm you down by taking you to a location with few people. Price can talk for a while if he needs to, so he’ll ask you to focus on his voice. Might also give you a rather simple task to take your mind off of things, such as counting backwards from 100.

F ight - Would they be easy to forgive their s/o? How are they fighting?

If it’s you, then he would forgive pretty easily, as long as it’s not something too big. If you accidentally knock down a mug he likes, then he might sigh and be annoyed, but he’ll forgive you. If you cheat on him, then he won’t. He’s usually calm and collected, even while fighting. Sure, he could be aggressive towards you and snap at you, but he loves you, so he tries not to. It’s sort of obvious when he is annoyed, his sentences become much shorter and he’ll actively try to get away from you. Won’t yell at you, won’t do any erratic movements either, but if he’s too angry then he’ll simply walk away from you until he’s calmed down.

G ratitude - How grateful are they in general? Are they aware of what their s/o is doing for them?

Yes, he is aware and he is very grateful. How could he not be? You have the patience of a saint when it comes to him. He knows it’s rough to be with someone who is part of the military, he’s away more often than not, but you still decided to stay with him. You cook for him when he’s tired, you draw him a bath when he’s sore, you reassure him when he feels like you deserve better than him. You’re so much more than what he deserves, he doesn’t feel like he could ever repay you for everything you’re doing for him. He tries, though, but it’s never enough. Price could give you the universe and it wouldn’t suffice.

H onesty - Do they have secrets they hide from their s/o? Or do they share everything?

Aside from the obvious, such as military intel, he doesn’t really hide anything from you. Price doesn’t see the point in keeping secrets from you. You’re together, aren’t you? You deserve to know just about anything about him. He might not tell you everything from the get go, but once you’re close enough you can ask him about anything. You wanna know about his time as a private? Sure. How he came to be a captain? Yeah, he can talk about it. Just ask and he’ll likely tell you. But in the same vein he hopes that you trust him enough to tell him just about anything as well.

N icknames - What do they call their s/o?

He doesn’t really use very many nicknames. Just the classic ones, such as “love”, “sweetheart” and “dear”. Sometimes he feels the urge to call you “sunshine”, but he usually represses that since that’s what he’s called his soldiers before. As much as it would fit you, he tries not to bring work home. He likes to call you by your name too, though. But aside from that there’s nothing he really calls you.

Q uirk - Some random ability they have that’s beneficial in a relationship.

He can keep calm in just about any situation, so he won’t lash out on you. He has an air of authority to him, so it’s not too often that someone is being a dick to him. And that extends to you as well. Price is a well respected man, so not very many people will come up to you and demand something from you. You, too, will be respected by most people, he’ll make sure of that. Regardless of whether you’re shy and timid or loud and boisterous, no one will bad mouth you. Price can fight, he will protect you. He will also fight for your honor if he needs to. He may have self restraint most of the time, but no one should ever talk badly about his partner.

#cod #cod x reader #john price #john price x reader #I didn't think I'd receive any more requests for the fluff alphabet but I don't mind either #I think a hug from Price could heal broken bones #okay that's an exaggeration but I do believe that his hugs would be so very healing. he's warm he's tall he's strong #what more could you possibly want? I've been talking about hugs again a lot as of late haven't I? but I just can't help it they're so good #I hate it when men touch me but I'll make an exception for some of the cod men. I am just so touch starved #some praise from Price would also make me feel better. just a small “you're doing so good love” and I could keep going #I've also commissioned someone to draw Price for me. once I have the full tf141 set I'll post it #I already asked her to draw Ghost and Soap #now only Price and Gaz are missing #I asked for the four of them with a turtle each. turtles are just such cute and precious little creatures #definitely my favorite animals. I wish I could give one a little kiss on its head. but alas there's salmonella to worry about #anyway Price with a turtle. cute. show stopping. very much needed in my life #I don't care about canon they will be turtle owners and love and care for them. they will build them nice things and take pictures #they send each other unsolicited turtle pictures

[milksnake-tea]

.....oh no.

#thinking out loud 🏵️ #hes pretty #hes so pretty #WHY WAS I ALWAYS UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT BRO HAD SHORT HAIR ....... ON GOD #hes a hunt ........ and i am unfortunately a hunt devotee ....... #. #i hate hyv #BUT GOD HES SO BRETTY AND IS THAT A CHAINSAW ????? IDK BUT ON GOD HE HAS GUNS TOO #robot men <3 #never thought id say that in my life #okay wait nvm its not a chainsaw ITS A ROPE

[gatitoguao]

imagine telling people to play a game, known for its many choices and outcomes, "correctly"

#bg3 #astarion #cant yall just enjoy the game????? #its literal pixels #why are spawn astarion people so mad at ascended astarion people????? #???????? #like are yall okay????? #aint no way yall sending eachother hate over FICTIONAL men #grow tf up #its also funny cause 'ascended apologists' like LMAO wtf #pleeeeease go outside #HAHAHAH #ascended astarion #spawn astarion

[theymademesignup08]

My new favorite hobby is reading books where I know the cute little boyfriend dies and get sad at the cute parts because of how badly it ends.

#i’m fine i swear #its cathartic okay #Because I hate men #the assassin's blade #throne of glass #sam cortland #sarah j maas #heartless #jest heartless #marissa meyer #sad books #this is why we can't have nice things

[thetopichot]

CW: Periods

So, we all know that Lucien can heat himself up like a warm ass heater right? To all of my homies with ovaries, consider using Lucien as a heating pad during your shark week. He can lay in your lap & he can also soothe your body pain. Win, Win situation.

#the cat speaks #yuurivoice #yuurivoice lucien #lucien yuurivoice #yuurivoice big red #big red yuurivoice #big red #cw menstruation #cw periods #i put a content warning for all of my fellow trans men & enby homies #im trans too & I hate getting periods #but hey thats life & life sucks #I was also in the middle of writing Lucien in the Late Night Call oneshot headcanon fic #I kept thinking about Lucien being used as a heating pad #he can adjust his body temperature so I wanted to talk about that #also one last thing #trans homies/enby homies/dudettes #you are all very loved #& its okay to have periods #you are still you #you're not any less than that #you are human #love you 🩷 #mwah mwah

[trans-xianxian]

I think we gotta start recognizing that "things accepted online/in leftist spaces" and "things accepted by the general public in the real world" are two very different things. like no actually gnc men are Not suddenly seen as okay because there are drag queens on tiktok. men are still beaten and harassed and ostracized and Killed for being feminine. in the us. in my very liberal city full of ppl with blue hair and pronouns I am made to feel uncomfortable and unwelcome for being a gnc guy. the tiktok comments on videos of men wearing make up are not indicative of the beliefs of most people

#idk its just very weird to see ppl imply that gnc men are accepted actually #like what world are you living in that thats true #strangers make weird comments to me all the time and I see a noticable difference between how I am treated and how gc ppl are treated #I am misgendered on purpose All The Time by randos #like absolutely point out that gnc women are treated worse/have not been accepted in spaces where gnc men have/etc #but you cannot be saying that being a feminine man is now seen as okay that is so wildly untrue in like the real actual world #this goes for a lot of other things as well #like when a woman is a creep and ppl are like 'well if the roles were reversed yall would say its bad' #and its like yeah maybe online or in your liberal friend group #ppl who call men out for things don't call out women for the same stuff #and that should be discussed #but for most of the public no one is calling out men for creepy behavior #like notoriously #also even online ppl are very hateful??? like all the time #the top 5 comments on a video of a man wearing a dress may be telling him that he hashtag slays #put I promise you for every compliment there are dozens of people calling him slurs #anyway please please please touch some grass engage in social issues outside of instagram I'm begging #ghost posts #text

[narcissa-black-supermacy]

"i can't believe remus hadn't done more for harry he was best friends with james he should have reached out"

have you ever met a Man in real life? knowing your dead bestie's son is being hunted down by a bunch of nazi terrorists and lives with awful people who hate him and being like "huh. well i guess if he'll need help he'll let me know. here, have some chocolate" is like, the most in-character thing for a male character to do

#remus being like. huh. cool cool. lets learn some dangerous spells and eat chocolate was absolutely in character #we as a fandom should embrace it more #i want more wolfstar raising harry fics where instead of being good parents they just. have no idea what theyre doing #its okay. children fall down the stairs all the time. right? like thats a normal thing for kids to do lol #no hate to men at all i happen to be a man lover myself #but i have never in my life met a man who did a good job raising kids lmao

[radifemsara]

If you're a man upset at being lumped in with rapists, pedos and abusers because of your gender, maybe take it up with the men who give yall a bad image and name instead of us women who have to be on guard 24/7 because of YOU. It may not be all men (and it is!) but it's ALWAYS a MAN.

#radical feminism #radical feminist safe #female separatism #radblr #radical feminist community #terfsafe #radical feminists do interact #misandry #pro abortion #anti marriage #fuck men #not all men but always a man #it is all men! #its okay to hate men #men dont deserve anything

[lovecatsys]

I think the part that bothers me the most about this is that it reminds me of the early days when Logan treated Akihiro not like a person but the manifestation of his own angst and a quest for him to do better that was all wrapped up in his own self pity and not actually about Akihiro at all

#akihiro #wednesday spoilers #do you get what i mean. except this time akihiro isnt around himself to contradict this idea and it hasnt been like him to do that for year #he used to constantly stand up for himself and protest the idea of his whole life being about logan because he Hated that so much #logan howlett #x men #but its so unlikely at this point anyone is going to remember that part of his character #like when he comes back will he be angry at victor and logan? for making his death all about them? #or will he just comfort logan and say its okay im here now #because the latter would be VERY ooc

[lollytea]

The amount of POV tiktoks I see making fun of Pick Me/Not Like Other Girls is insane. Like "haha imagine being this desperate for male validation"

*throws together a 20 second skit that is near identical to the thousands of other 20 second skits because mocking these girls is what's trendy right now and you are also desperate for validation of some kind*

#i know the Not Like Other Girls personality tends to veer into misogynistic more often than not #but this level of ire from the likes of grown women who are still bitter about girls who were annoying in highschool?? #wow okay. calm down #this isnt the serve you think it is #also like. why are all these tiktoks the exact SAME?? #theyre all regurgitating that one ''jake stoooooop'' bit. its infuriating #like somebody already did the bit. you can stop now #the lack of self awareness is baffling #like is the whole point not drawing attention to the fact that these girls #will tailor their own thoughts and opinions in order to be palatable to men #but everyone who makes these little parodies is cherry picking the aspects of other tiktoks with this same premise #that makes peoples blood boil the most #because tiktok gets off on hating annoying people #so you Will provide content of hateable annoying people #you Will get that tiktok money

[suffarustuffaru]

writing otto and heinkel is always like. slaps the alcoholism tag on every fic theyre in ever. googles alcoholism googles alcoholism googles and starts crying violently

#THIS IS A JOKE but also it is half a joke its true i do some research okay 😭😭 #i remember trying to learn otto lore and then i was like ‘wait hes self medicating his anxiety with alcohol wkdndnd’ #tw alcoholism????????? #why must these pathetic men be my favorites….. i hate it here… HAH

[hwanswerland]

maybe an unpopular opinion but one thing i really truly dislike is grown men being called boys. no they are not "boys", they are grown ass men that can and should be held accountable for their actions. not some 10 year old child

#fio.txt #this isnt even about ateez in particular #but every time an issue like this comes up its like OUR BOYS DID NOTHING WRONG #and i feel like calling them boys is taking away from the fact that these are adults and dont need your protection or coddling #bc a boy is a child and yeah children are kinda naive sometimes and usually not very educated or dont reflect on issues as much #depending on how old they are #however grown ass men are def supposed to do that and when they dont then well get their asses for it #fun fact what made me really hate this rhetoric is the rammstein situation where 60+ yo men were called boys #like fuck you you fucking assholes #okay im done ranting now lol im gonna disappear for the rest of the day and study for my exams