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vyorei · 3 months
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The agony these people are going through is beyond compare, the amount of people giving birth every day and the amount of children lost is heart-shattering, but the powers still refuse to call this a genocide.
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untouchablestarling · 2 months
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I just want to scream to the world that you were here.
That you existed too.
That you were ours, and ours alone.
And that we loved you.
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October is pregnancy and infant loss awareness month. I fucking loathe it. I can appreciate that awareness is important but it feels very in your face. Whether intentional or not I always feel pressured to share about something that I like to keep close to my chest, yet choosing to stay quiet makes me feel like a bad mom. It's a lose lose.
Today one of my old roommates who lost her daughter this year shared a post from a child loss account for a free giveaway. A fucking gift basket. What exactly are we giving away to parents whose kids died? I get everyone grieves differently and I don't judge but this made my blood boil. It feels like commercializing child loss. Maybe I'm cynical. Maybe I'm just cold and bitter in my grief. This just all feels slimy. My child died so let me enter into a contest to win a prize. Gross.
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cheerfullycatholic · 27 days
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reasonsforhope · 1 year
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“Bangladesh has achieved a huge success in reducing infant and maternal mortality rates in the last five decades, securing the top position in South Asia.
According to the World Bank's estimation, the current infant mortality rate for Bangladesh is 21 deaths per 1000 live births making 85% decline from 1971 as the rate was 141 deaths during Bangladesh's independence.
According to health experts, Bangladesh achieved unprecedented success in every health index in the last 50 years since independence...
According to Health and Family Welfare Ministry, Bangladesh maternal mortality rate was 269 per 100,000 live births in 2009. The ratio has reduced to 165 recently.
The government has set a target to reduce maternal mortality to less than 50 per 100,000 live births...
After the independence, the Bangladesh government had put emphasis on maternal health, family planning, child nutrition and so on.
Special importance was also given on different five-year plans, health policy and latest health, population and nutrition programme. Special allocation was also kept at annual development programme (ADP) on those issues.
Annual Global Childhood Report 2019 of the humanitarian organization "Save The Children" says child mortality rate has reduced to a great extent in Bangladesh, Bhutan, India and Nepal in the last two decades.
Among the four countries, Bangladesh has made the highest progress. The child mortality ratio declined 60% in Bhutan, 59% in Nepal, 57% in India, [and] 63% in Bangladesh in the last two decades...
Family Planning Directorate Assistant Director Matiur Rahman said that 3,364 union health and family welfare centres are providing maternal and child health facilities apart from family planning services across the county.
Of them, 2189 union health and family welfare centres are providing 24 hour safe delivery facilities every day.”
-via The Business Standard, 6/14/22
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harmonyhealinghub · 5 months
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The Unsung Heroes: Postpartum Doulas - Nurturing New Moms and Families
Shaina Tranquilino
December 11, 2023
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Becoming a parent is an incredible journey filled with joy, love, and countless challenges. While the focus often revolves around the miracle of childbirth, we must not overlook the significance of postpartum care for both mothers and their families. In this blog post, we will explore the vital role of postpartum doulas, shedding light on who they are and what their invaluable support entails.
Who are Postpartum Doulas?
Postpartum doulas are trained professionals who provide physical, emotional, and informational assistance to new parents during the delicate post-birth period. They offer compassionate care to nurture not only mothers but also their entire family unit as they navigate through the early weeks or months after childbirth. These skilled individuals are equipped with expertise in breastfeeding support, newborn care education, maternal recovery guidance, and overall postpartum well-being.
The Role of Postpartum Doulas
1. Emotional Support: Postpartum doulas understand that every mother's experience is unique and may be accompanied by feelings of uncertainty, exhaustion, or even overwhelming joy. With empathetic listening skills and non-judgmental attitudes, these doulas create safe spaces where moms can express themselves freely without fear of being judged. Their unwavering emotional support eases anxiety and fosters confidence in parenting abilities.
2. Physical Assistance: The physical demands of caring for a newborn can be daunting for any parent. Postpartum doulas lend a helping hand by assisting with daily household chores such as meal preparation, laundry duties, and light cleaning tasks. By taking on these responsibilities, they alleviate some of the burdensome workload from new moms' shoulders so they can focus on self-care and bonding with their baby.
3. Breastfeeding Support: One significant area where postpartum doulas excel is in providing breastfeeding guidance. They possess extensive knowledge about lactation, positioning techniques, and troubleshooting common nursing challenges. By offering practical advice and reassurance, they empower mothers to establish a successful breastfeeding relationship with their infants.
4. Newborn Care Education: From swaddling techniques to diaper changing tips, postpartum doulas are a treasure trove of newborn care wisdom. They educate parents on the essentials of baby care such as sleep routines, soothing methods, and recognizing signs of infant distress or illness. Armed with this knowledge, new parents gain confidence in meeting their little one's needs effectively.
5. Advocacy and Information Sharing: Postpartum doulas act as bridges between families and the vast network of healthcare professionals and community resources available to them. They help navigate this complex landscape by connecting parents with reliable information related to pediatricians, support groups, mental health services for mothers experiencing postpartum mood disorders, or even local parent-baby activities.
In our society that often focuses solely on the prenatal journey and childbirth experience, we must acknowledge the significance of comprehensive postpartum care. Postpartum doulas play an invaluable role in supporting new moms during this transformative period by providing emotional stability, physical assistance, breastfeeding support, newborn care education, and acting as advocates for their well-being.
As we strive towards nurturing healthier families overall, it is crucial to recognize the incredible dedication of postpartum doulas who work tirelessly behind the scenes. Their unwavering commitment helps new parents transition into parenthood with grace and confidence while fostering a loving environment where both mom and baby can thrive.
With that being said, the journey of welcoming a new life into the world is filled with both joyous anticipation and immense love. However, sadly, not all pregnancies end in the expected celebration. For families who experience the devastating loss of their baby during pregnancy or labour and delivery, navigating through grief can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. In these trying times, postpartum doulas play a crucial role in providing compassionate support and helping bereaved families cope with their grief.
Understanding the Role of Postpartum Doulas: Postpartum doulas are skilled professionals trained to provide emotional, physical, and informational support to families during the postpartum period. Traditionally known for assisting new parents after childbirth, they have now extended their expertise to offer guidance specifically tailored to those experiencing perinatal loss.
Compassionate Emotional Support: Losing a baby is a deeply personal and heart-wrenching experience that often leaves parents feeling isolated and emotionally shattered. Postpartum doulas who specialize in supporting families dealing with perinatal loss understand the unique needs of grieving parents. They possess remarkable empathy and compassion, creating a safe space where families can openly express their emotions without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.
These doulas offer active listening skills, allowing parents to share their stories, memories, hopes, and fears surrounding their lost child. By offering non-judgmental companionship through active mourning rituals such as holding ceremonies or participating in memory-building activities like journaling or creating keepsakes, postpartum doulas help parents process their emotions while honouring their baby's memory.
Physical Care and Recovery Support: In addition to emotional support, postpartum doulas also assist bereaved parents in managing physical aspects related to pregnancy loss. These may include helping mothers recover from labour, providing guidance on self-care practices and nutrition, or assisting with practical tasks such as meal planning, household chores, or arranging for support from family and friends.
Navigating the Complexities of Grief: Grief is a complex journey that affects individuals differently. Postpartum doulas who specialize in perinatal loss possess an understanding of grief's unique dynamics and can help families navigate its complexities. They provide vital resources and information about various grieving processes, counselling services, support groups, and other bereavement resources tailored to the specific needs of each family.
Advocacy and Education: Postpartum doulas also play a crucial role in advocating for bereaved families within healthcare systems. They facilitate communication between parents and medical professionals, ensuring their concerns are understood and addressed sensitively. Additionally, they educate families about their rights, options for memorializing their baby, and assist them in making informed decisions regarding funeral arrangements or obtaining keepsakes like handprints or photographs.
The pain of losing a baby during pregnancy or childbirth is immeasurable, but no parent should have to face this heartbreak alone. During these challenging times, postpartum doulas specializing in perinatal loss offer invaluable support to grieving families by fostering understanding, empathy, and compassion. By acknowledging the significance of their experience, these doulas help parents honour their baby's memory while navigating through grief towards healing and hope.
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violetspicexxx · 8 months
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#ectopicpregnancy #gofundme #recover #miscarriage
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day nineteen, gray
unable to commit to a rhythm
or a rhyming scheme
unsure of words and footing
the big breakdown while putting
the laundry away and coming across it—
the gifted newborn onesie announcing You
my nephew
too sweet for the world filling with blue hues
days now gray as the walls i was painting for You
ever reminded by the spots on my favorite sweats
i wore as i kept rolling on the color
zig… zag… fill…
feel my heart beat in my ears
thinking of how you’re not here
no tiny butt in a pumpkin
no homemade costume to match your cousin’s
emptiness we cannot heal
just steel
just gray
just gone
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this song hits so different when you relate it to your little one </3
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Happy second birthday to my little loves. The two that made me a mama. Two years of loving them every second of every day. I miss them both more than words can express and I can't wait until they are in my arms again. Until then, I know they are looking after me, Hubs and baby girl. I truly believe that they hand picked this little miracle and are taking extra special care of her.
To honor them Hubs and I are donating books to the NICU. We spent the day out shopping for them and it was a very cathartic and healing way to spend the day. I think this is a perfect way to honor their memory 💕
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Our baby has died and we still have to do our taxes.
Our baby has died and we still have to put gas in the car.
Our baby has died and we still have to wash dishes and laundry.
We still have to mow the lawn and shop for groceries and feed the dog.
I don’t know how I’m still surviving but I am.
I wish people would stop acting like there’s any point to life
I really don’t want to be a dick but seriously I don’t want to hear about how blessed you are and how much you feel the love of god when my baby is dead. Go ahead and find your joy in the world but there isn’t much for me.
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bryonyashaw · 2 years
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Trigger warning - National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month occurs every October.
During the entire month, people take time to honor and remember those who have lost a child during pregnancy or lost a child in infancy. Dealing with death in the family is never easy.
I have spoke about this in the past 4 years but I had an early miscarriage before Winnie and at the time I didn't have much support or understanding - it can be a very isolating experience. I spent the night in hospital as they thought it was ectopic. You blame yourself, you question yourself. Whether the pregnancy was wanted or planned it's such a sensitive subject and each experience, each person is different. You can't compare one person to another and you never should. How I view that particular situation now is that it was meant to happen or Winnie (my youngest) wouldn't of happened and sure, being a single parent is hard but the moment I gave birth to her and held her in my arms I just felt (cliché to say) but like my family was complete and perhaps this is how it was meant to be, however, I always acknowledge it happened. I've had 4 pregnancies.
"Angel Baby," "Sunshine Baby," and "Rainbow Baby" are terms that refer to babies born just before or after another baby is lost due to a variety of reasons. They help immediate family members move through the grieving process and find meaning in the loss.
There are many things that raise awareness like the #waveoflight and the #NeverBeStill campaign seeks to break the silence surrounding stillbirth and other pregnancy/infant losses by not only educating the public about ways to support bereaved families but also empowering expectant mothers to have a healthy pregnancy – because every pregnancy deserves a happy ending.
Pregnancy and Infant loss Remembrance Day serves to promote greater Awareness, Remembrance and Support of the estimated 1 in 4 individuals and families whose lives are irrevocably altered by the death of their children, during pregnancy, at birth and in infancy. The aim of the day is to:
• Raise awareness of the need for support
• Encourages people to talk
• It honors the babies who have passed.
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khaliscribbles · 27 days
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After the rain comes sunshine
We went over the Malahat this Friday to visit mum and Joan for Easter. Honestly it’s because we had the opportunity since both J and I weren’t working, to see them both and less about Easter itself. (I made mum laugh out loud when I told her how rabbits fit into the whole holiday – she’s very much agnostic and loves a good religion joke now and then). We had lunch at the usual place and it was…
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leftyfelix2 · 28 days
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One Year of One Less
Hello, everyone, If you’ve read my blog enough times, or if you follow my blog in general, you know that I greatly enjoy talking about positive, heartfelt, wistful things. Topics that make you think and ponder life. Or, at least I hope that’s the message I provide for all of you. Encouraging messages that enlighten you, give you hope, maybe make you laugh, and hopefully think about how awesome…
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seaglassparenting · 2 months
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Available as a sticker, journal, or greeting card ❤️
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