with the year coming to a close, i hope that anyone who's reflecting about how the year went remembers to be kind and fair to themselves with how you evaluate the year as a whole.
i think there are definitely times when life throws things that are... Not So Great at you. whether if it's some external circumstance that surprised you, or maybe your mentality wasn't at it's best. i wish for anyone who's encountered those kinds of challenges to be able to triumph over them and be able to say that they got through it.
heck, it might still be a work in progress even though you've kept chipping away at it, and that's ok! the results will show themselves eventually as you work through it! and i hope that we can all remember to be patient with ourselves as we go through these processes (learning, healing, etc.), because damn, it can be frustrating when you feel like you're "not there yet."
knowing that life can be rough at times, i think it's unfair to yourself (and others) to discount and downplay any progress you've made this year- whether if it's something that you did for the first time, or maybe you came to a new understanding and insight that you didn't have in the previous year.
it's not to say that you should undermine the validity of your experience with hardship, but to take the time to remind yourself what makes life worth living. to recall what moments were the most satisfying to you- and use it to strengthen your resolve for the next year and beyond. no amount of hardship will ever take away from the fact that you deserve to have hope that things will get better.
i hope that looking back on the year, you don't leave out the things you cherish. that you can remember the good that came this year. whether if the small victories are things like meeting someone new, trying something out for the first time, or making some strides in a long-term project/obligation...!
i wish everyone a happy new year! may it be prosperous, and that your life can move in a direction that's close to what you want out of life. you're all going to do great! remember to congratulate yourself for what you did well! despite everything, you're still here, and that's wonderful. never forget that!
man. lark was already such a jenny from thebes character but after this last episode...i don't even NEED to make a playlist for her we can just all go listen to that album
popping my head through your window (and possibly shattering the glass woops) to say: I am alive! I've been spending time with family, studying (I can safely say now that Professor Joy is the best and I would 10/10 follow her back to England to take her course at King's College if it weren't for the financial part. She was SO lovely and her class was amazing), preparing for fall classes, chipping away steadily at my essays and my fairy tale novel, hammering out the occasional blog post or poem, cooking, sleeping (or trying to, anyway), doing social things (I had one thing almost every day this week and it just about killed me. Thank God the person I was supposed to meet up with today cancelled, otherwise I'd be pretty much dead), reading TONS (am currently reading Sophie's World, War and Peace, Aggressively Happy, Jamie Smith's On the Road, Gordon Fee's How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth, and the Heidelberg Catechism for kicks, as well as working my way through a few class readings), and have caught up with a few stories I meant to catch up with (in other words: went to watch Barbie in the theatres, which was brilliant and not what I expected, and finished The Bear season 2, which.... I don't know, guys, it was a Lot). Things have been BUSY on the school front and many concerning things have been revealed BUT all is well and all shall be well!!
I shall be back in September. At present things are still SUPER busy. But I shall keep y'all in my prayers! Miss you and love you!!
as most of you probably already know, i’m in law school. although i wanted to have the “see you through til the day’s end” rewrite done by diluc’s birthday, it’s highly unlikely i’ll be able to finish everything i want to by then. there’s still too many scenes i want to rework and add in, and with all the studying i need to get done for law school, it’s just not going to be possible. i’ll try my best to keep everyone updated as i figure everything out
Though I’ve been super busy, I had a dream recently that was short enough for me to do. The context was Douman was visiting because he heard she was sick in bed, but seemed to have a bit of a situation along the way. Perhaps it is blue instead of the usual void because I was mulling over which blue paint color to choose for my new place. I remember suddenly waking up and laughing at how silly it all was.
somewhere in between all the online chatter of "reject modernity, embrace tradition," "alpha males this," "tradwife that," "bad evil feminism ruined everything," "how to be countercultural rebels 101: get married young, homestead, homeschool and have 12 children" and "every woman should be a homemaker without fail or nuance,"people seem to have forgotten that the principal God-given mandate to share the Gospel is addressed to everyone, regardless of gender. that's really the main purpose of both male and female followers of Christ.
good episode for people like me who are obsessed with Phineas and Spahr's relationship because it's a major focal point and we learn a crucial bit of background between them
bad* episode for people like me who are obsessed with that relationship because now I'm so stressed out about how Phineas doesn't know that Spahr didn't want to leave him and has been plagued by guilt and has been constantly thinking about him since
i am devastated over succession’s finale to this day but i also don’t think it should or could’ve ended any other way.
if kendall had “won” he would’ve still lost. he might’ve been happy in his own way but he had already sold his soul for a chance at victory. in that way he would’ve lost no matter what happened.
the american people in the show already lost, no matter who took over as CEO.
the whole point is that it’s all bullshit and only roman realized in the end that they spent their whole lives killing themselves and each other and a whole country over meaningless bullshit and in lieu of dealing with their own traumas and faults.
there are no winners and there were never supposed to be any winners no matter what happened, as long as the corrupt toxic culture that was at the heart of waystar, and that the company kindled in the american public, remained untouched.
my main worry with this season was that it wasn't going to fit with last season, specially being an all new story since neil and terry never got to write the sequel. But boy was I wrong! It not only fits perfectly, but it also gives us more lore, more history and deepens the characters so much!! I loved it, I loved everything about it! I will not shut up about it kdjfhgkdfg
man im adjusting to my meds again and the vivid nightmares have been back 😫 i didn’t even have that symptom as bad when i first started taking them but its been horrific this time around ugh
look I'm sorry, I really am. but if you watch The Husbands of River Song and interpret that as being a definitive picture of what River is like as a person... you're wrong. and you've missed the point.