#im so tired of it

[toytulini]

who is in charge of all the stupid arbitrary changes to every fucking app and website for no fucking reason have you never heard of "if it aint broke, dont fix it"?

i swear to god every app website service etc is just slamming the randomizer button on features every week and hoping it unlocks a market changing innovation instead of like. waiting to make sure the change is actually innovative before forcing it upon everyone

#toy txt post #im so tired of it #can you please just......maintain it. just keep the service functional #cos quite frankly youve been failing at that. ive avoided the new layout so far but i know its inevitable now theres no updating it ever #again. and also these last like??? 2 yrs have been the buggiest discord has ever been for me. its insane. #like every update the erode the functionality of it a little more and hope i dont notice cos they filled my screen with nitro ads #at a certain point im gonna have to find a new fucking service i guess? #this is getting ridiculous. #discord #enshittification #trust thermocline or whatever #frankly mine is fucking snapped

[gonnalosemydougdimmadomedamnmind]

Literally I am so sick of whore dick grayson, himbo dick grayson, fandom bicycle dick grayson, like yall really saw that dick is the canonical pretty boy with the nice ass and then proceeded to give him 'bottom' as a personality and just ran away with that. Dick is not a pretty idiot that loves having sex and only cares about his appearance, for fucks sake. He doesnt need to be rescued by jason todd of all people, who literally willingly burned all his bridges and can't even save himself, or wally west, frankly, who is one of his best friends but not the one he gets emotionally vulnerable with.

He doesn't do casual sex, at all. He needs an emotional connection first, is it so hard to believe that an attractive person actually wants to connect to someone instead of fucking them? Or fucking their problems away? Is it really so hard to believe that an attractive person can also be intelligent? Can also be kind? Can also be selfless? Can also take care of themself? Can also be a functioning adult? Can also be mature? Can also be damn fucking good at their job? Have yall ever met a real person before?

Dick is Romani and one of the most well known stereotypes about the Romani people are that they are like magically alluring people that can't keep their hands to themselves or that they're like thieving, dumb, dirty animals and what did yall reduce Dick down to? An overly emotional, stupid, pretty slut that acts without thinking.

You know just because something is racist in canon doesn't mean you have to take that and amplify it by 100 in fanon, right? Like the shit I have seen on this website alone, the takes that just won't stop, are literally so much more racist than anything you would ever find in canon. And good God, it's not like you have to make his race the forefront of his character! It's not! No one's is, that would be bad characterization. But should his being Romani affect the way you portray him? Should there be certain things you can be considerate about? Should being Romani be part of his identity? Uh, yeah.

And also. Should you maybe consider what he's actually like in canon to characterize him within fandom spaces? Uh, YEAH.

Dick Grayson is a romantic at heart, is extremely private, and cherishes the emotional connections he has with people. He is a good person because he chooses to do good things. He wants to help people! He's literally a genius, I mean this in every possible sense, academically, physically, emotionally, strategically, picking up and mastering skills with ease, being a detective... that doesn't mean he doesn't have problems. He's an extreme workaholic. He will never talk about his own problems to his friends or family, just the occasional therapist. He's so good with people, he knows exactly how to manipulate situations into his favor, to his own detriment. He will never give up on you, to his own detriment. He bottles up his emotions deeply, and yes, occasionally he does explode. He has a guilt complex the size of the sun. Everything is his fault in his head, Everything. He will accept the blame for anything, for his own rape even, because he's Dick Grayson and hey, he should've known, he should've been able to tell. (This is specifically talking about Miriam).

Everyone puts him on a pedastal because he's the guy that can actually pull off the impossible and no one but him realizes just how high that pedastal is. Bruce wants to be him, thinks there is literally no one better than him, no one who could soar higher than him, the ideal hero. His hero.

Goddamn Superman thinks he's the one person in the universe that will almost always do the right thing at the right time across every universe. And I don't mean that he will BE the right person at the right time, I mean he will DO the right thing at the right time, because Dick believes in the power of choices! Of free will! He could do bad things just as easily as the people around him, he could choose to be cruel because that is literally so. much. easier.

But he doesn't.

Almost ever.

In nearly every universe.

Do you know how much pressure that is? He drowns under the weight of his own perfection, truly. He can't fail.

He can't fail.

Isn't that so unbearably sad? You spend your whole life reassuring other people that everyone gets second chances, and that you are not your worst moment, and that you deserve compassion even at your most despicable, and that everyone makes mistakes, and sometimes things are inevitable, and sometimes all you can give is your best.

You are the only person. Who does not receive that same mercy.

He can't fail.

His family treats him as an emotional punching bag, sometimes a physical punching bag. Occasionally, so will his friends. It's hard to see the person behind the legend. And Dick's legend is truly titanic in proportions... the first child hero. No one could've done it, if he hadnt done it first. If he hadnt done it so exceedingly well. And then he had his own hero team. And then he became his own hero, again. And then he had his own city. He did it all first. The literal trailblazer, lighting the way for everyone else, not letting anyone stop him. Not waiting for anything. A force of nature.

Everyone wants to be him, be liked by him, be acknowledged by him. They all rely on him, the linchpin of a universe. Dick really is like the sun. Warm, encouraging, revitalizing. He is the light in the dark, illuminating and intense. Focused. Powerful. And they are all caught in his gravitational field.

Dick is so much more interesting than anything fandom will spare him. God, what I would give for fandom to give even a 10th of actual attention and critical thought to him or any other poc character in this franchise, that fandom gives to the white characters. I mean, we've all seen it. The narrative fabricated through lies that 95% of fandom takes as gospel because they refuse to engage with canon or simply don't care because it favors their favorite characters. In case you don't know, I am in fact talking about fanon jason todd- aka meaner Dick Grayson with Helena Bertinelli's lifestyle and fanon tim drake- aka less athletic, more victimized Dick Grayson. The white fandom darlings, extremely woobified, you know how it is. Sigh.

#dick grayson #anti bat fandom #anti fanon #anti jason todd #anti tim drake #not really but technically...? #like yeah this is in response to fanon versions of all of them #specifically dick obviously but #im so tired of it #so so so tired of it #my posts #tw: rape mention #bruce wayne #clark kent #nightwing

[teamblck]

“141 headcanon drabbles ☺️✨”

*excludes gaz*

#im so tired of it #cod mw2 #cod headcanons #cod hcs #kyle gaz garrick #simon ghost riley #captain price #john soap mactavish #mw2

[vapolis]

when will the struggle of non native speakers end that makes us google words we know 100% the meaning of just to check if it rlly is what we know it is 😭

#Im so tired of it #me googling loaned out

[reysdriver]

I really need the world to stop confusing movies about women for feminist movies; they're a venn diagram, not a circle

#xena's rambles #feminism #movies #women #im so tired of it

[hanjsquokka]

what's worse than writer's block is having writer's block and then getting all these ideas but then you can't write them because you have been staring at an empty document playing the whole thing in your head as if it was a six hour long movie you've used up all your free time (based on a true story)

#its been like this for a week #im so tired of it #( talks w mana 🥡 )

[littledoggyboy]

Hey guys! Manipulation is only hot when you give a lot of aftercare afterwards!!!

#I let myself be used #im so tired of it #wtf is wrong with me #I feel like it’s all my fault #im so tired

[rmbaloncesto]

#luka doncic #dallas mavericks #these are just random gifs i couldnt fit on the other gifset #so you all get them here #mavs #luka #wonder boy #NO I CANT GIF #who cares #i was bored #whoever mentions how much his weight has changed is getting blocked #you have been warned #im so tired of it

[phossyjaw]

im begging y'all to depict trans men and transmasc people in literally any other way than skinny twinks with top surgery scars

please please please. draw us with tits. with fat. with big hips. with curvy bodies. please for the love of god mix it up

#im so tired of it #this is a given but not everyone wants or can afford to have top surgery... please

[menalez]

so are we ever gonna disect why radblr, a side of tumblr filled with feminists & abuse victims, is also filled to the brim with abuse apologism and victim blaming? you guys have reinvented your own form of "but what was she wearing". and this is often directed even more harshly at lesbians, who are victim blamed on one side and assumed as evil abusers on another. this is on top of the rampant racism on here.

#im so tired of it

[obi-wkenobi]

never felt more unwelcomed in this fandom than i have in the past month because i like submissive anakin. i don’t care if you don’t like it or don’t understand it, just stop trying to push dominant anakin or submissive obi-wan on me.

#whats going on #why are people getting so defensive over this #just leave it alone #fucks sake #fandom salt #tbd #i dont usually vent #but ive seen about six posts in the last 2 days #im so tired of it

[moonlightcookie]

cookie run fandom when lesbians who see themselves in moonlight or sea fairy are begging for ppl to quit separating them and shipping them w other characters as soon as they are revealed

#moon.txt #im so tired of it

[dxntloseurhead]

did you know that you can post your redesign of a character without shitting on the original design in the caption. did you know you can do that.

#yes this is targeted #im so tired of it #ill see some nice art and then it’ll be a redesign where the op is shitting on the original design #and im just like ‘well now i don’t want to reblog this’

[shikasual]

the big toddler has changed Twitter to X, so I'll move on to the next letter Y to Yeet myself out of there

#twitter #elon musk #im so tired of it #just end it please

[xxcrimsonrainxx]

what if stranger things season 4 came out when i was 13 and i would hate the thought of being gay because in the show it seemed like the endless suffering in silence and feeling incapable of being loved. that's why representation matters especially in the mainstream show

#stranger things volume 2 #im so tired of it #let the queer people be happy in peace #steddie #ronance #byler #stranger things