#if its being used as a slur

[toytulini]

listen im ace and im pro kink at pride and whatever, but the way some of yall are wording your posts in response to the backlash against it is uh. really taking me back to the ace shitcourse era.

yall know theres nothing wrong with being a "virgin", right? that its not inherently shameful to have not had sex, to never have sex, even if youre not ace, even if you do want to have sex someday, like, its fine that you haven't had sex?

maybe if your problem is that theyre trying to police your behavior and shame you for expressing your sexuality, you can say that? instead of resorting to "haha stupid virgin gets no bitches" like my god. do you not hear how fucking regressive that attitude is? i know, i know, youre "joking".

get a better joke

#toy txt post #god im going to regret this post im gonna regret it so much i can feel it in my bones #let it flop..........pls #internalize my message let it sink in and understand what i am saying and then let the post flop #i say. knowing the ppl who need to see such a message are the ones who will make me regret this post and regrwt not having #1 million bajillion disclaimers #virgin is in quotes bc its a bullshit made up stupid purity culture concept anyway and quite frankly i hate even seeing the word #disclaimer: the previous sentence is not me saying that it is a slur for asexuals. it is me a single individual saying this specific word #grosses me out to read and see everywhere when its a stupid bullshit binary made up or at least historically largely used #to shame largely women and i dont know why we're still using it in 2023 #and ive just been. seeing such an uptick in this whole like. attitude? lately and like #im ace im minorly sex repulsed. mostly about anything sex at me bad. other adults sex at each other consensually? go wild #i like to think im pretty chill about it. i try to be. i think its fine ig to be like 'my meat is huge i fuck so much so good' #like okay not my thing but good for you. love that for you #but then some of yall have started turning it back around back to. 'haha your meat so small and shriveled you get no bitches' #'haha stupid incel virgin' like okay. didnt realize we all went back to fucking. middle school but okay #god im gonna run out of tine to get ready for my thing writing this stupid post UGH evil #but like idk we've kinda circled back to being like haha being a virgin still is stupid and silly and shameful #and if im quite honest. i do think the acecourse played a part in that bc i felt like we were making good progress in like #hey guys is fine to not have sex ever if you dont want to its fine to not want sex its fine #and then aphobes went fucking rabid on us and splintered and destroyed online communities all over but especially on tumblr #and so many aces went back in the closet we stopped talking about it we stopped spreading awareness and now this stupid goddamn like #and now this stupid bullshit attitude is back where its like funny to call someone a virgin as an insult but like no bro trust me its okay #its okay for me to do it bc im a hot queer person with huge meat instead of a cisstraight frat bro with huge meat #? like you know the issue was the behavior right? not the fact that it was straight dudes saying it? its bc the thing being said was shitty? #you know you can dunk on the puritan bitches trying to police your behavior at pride without getting us as collateral damage right #stop making me read that stupid ugly ass word ur not cool or funny #whatever #if you come on to this post to start shit i will not only block you but as many of your mutuals and followers as i can find. i will scroll #i will block this entire fucking website if i need to do not test me. i am exhausted and the acecourse ate up all my tolerance in 2015.

[scltbvrns]

homogenising something that has always been inherently diverse will kill us all one day.

#-> myra text #political critique #that is why hindutva should have not been popularised. hindutva is not decolonisation or reclamation. #it is homogenising and exclusionist. it takes away the diverse history of this country. #but this statement will reach deaf ears. rather than critiquing nobility they will go and bark casteist and islamphobic bs. #did invaders did what invaders do? yes. but this whole property destruction and lives being at risk has been going on for years. #biggest example who are quite popular: ajatshatru (son of bimbisara) & ashoka the great (the massacre at kaling) #i'm all in for criticising nobility i have no respect for any kings despite their religion and community and whatever. #they're all shits who benefited and left the common people to rot. #these people will say that tipu sultan is the devil reborn but will go on praising the marathas #as if the marathas did not cause a bloodshed in bengal karnataka and the punjab regions. not saying tipu is good but i rather #wanted to point out the hypocrisy of people in certain spaces. its a good thing to appreciate history and even better thing to learn from #the mistakes made in past but some of you guys did not understand the whole point. #absolute shit head cunts some of you guys are. come at me brand me whatever slurs you fuckers use i don't give a shit #calling people sex slaves just because they don't subscribe to your viewpoint is not the big own you think it is. #sanghi bs #india #hindutva

[teddyedwards]

Here's my resignation, I'll serve it in drag! / All rock and roll is homosexual

Manic Street Preachers and My Chemical Romance on defying gender and sexuality norms

nicky wire photographed by mick hudson / gerard way at Riotfest / mama by mcr / born a girl by msp / richey edwards / gerard way by kenneth capello / frank iero / james dean bradfield / a version of reason by rob jovanovic / interview with gerard way / frank iero's pansy guitar / richey edwards fairy t-shirt

#shh i know they are very different bands but they four guys from working class towns who used books and movies and creativity to escape #who were downright bored with the lack of glamour on the scene and explored gender and sexuality #who had an insane belief in their art and never shunned the idea of being a huge band #i had sooo many parallels i want to make a part two lmao #also tried to include as many sources as possible but its hard with older stuff and this has a target audience of like .. one person #mcr #my chemical romance #manic street preachers #msp #f slur #ps if anyone has any tips on how people actually find photographer credits hmu like my google skills are not what i thought

[prophecyofgray]

"stolas got what? how? .....he can get hurt?" immediately followed by THAT instrumental playing over stolas scrolling thru their texts in the hospital was like honestly top five biggest punches in the face that this show has pulled. my fucking god.

#helluva boss spoilers #helluva boss #the mortifying ideal of posting in the hb tag on tumblr dot com #anyway. walking into the ocean #also this isnt rly related but i dont plan on posting frequently about hb so while im on the topic: rly wish they would stop making + #r-slur jokes lol. i was kinda hoping that the one in the pilot was a one-time “trying to be 'edgier' than we actually are” kind of thing #and like at least they didnt SAY it this time and the joke was sort of condemning its use in a way? but more in a “thats not a pc word” and #not in a “this word is harmful and bad” kind if way. and also it just isnt funny. Unless u look at it thru the lens of blitzø being autisti #then its kind of funny #but not really lmfao #n e wayz

[wolvierinez]

hard to believe that "using the r slur is wrong" is like. a controversial take to some people. a shocking number of abled people, especially.

#can we stop using it and let the word die. #idec abt reclaiming it. why do you want to reclaim that word. #theres never been like. any positives to come from the word being used. its not worth reclaiming #esp not now when so many people still use it as a negative.many unaware its even a slur.

[ssigmas]

Ramattra had once hoped that omnics and humans could live in harmony with one another. Too, he had once convinced himself that he'd seen enough brutality and death to last him several lifetimes, and shed his cloak of war. He now understood how foolish his ideals were. As long as humanity scorned omnics, as long as his kind were slaughtered and decimated, Ramattra would see to it that omnics would prevail, even if it meant the only solution was the annihilation of humanity.

 Even then. ...However, there existed one glowing spark on the blight that was humanity, one such human that made him, if just for a moment, almost hopeful again. The electronic door of his quarters whooshed shut as he stepped inside. Your sleepy expression emerged from the bundle of cushions and blankets he kept on the floor for his meditations, lips curving into a soft, warm smile as he approached. These days, there weren't many aspects of humanity he found worthy of salvation. Very little about humans appealed to him, and yet he made exceptions for you. How could he feel anything else but fondness when he cupped your face and you nuzzled into his palm? How could he think that you  were deserving of anything else but his protection when you sought him out after battles, worried hands finding every nick in his metal and fault in his wiring? You possessed a uniquely caring and compassionate heart for your kind, and were one of the few humans he knew to be sympathetic to his cause. Even now as he knelt beside you in the bed of blankets, you reached for him, fingertips mapping and re-mapping the ridges and angles of his body you knew so well. You were so sweet to fret over him when it was you with the vulnerable, fleshy body. It would take no effort at all for him to crush every bone in your hand, and yet you held his with infinite tenderness, flexing each silicone tendon as if checking for damage. Ramattra soothed away your concerns and instead welcomed you into his embrace, guiding you to sit between his folded legs. Back-to-chest, he faintly sensed your heartbeat as it pulsed regularly beneath your skin. Such an odd, unfamiliar thing to an omnic whose body thrummed with constant energy, but he found it a comfort. It meant you were alive, after all. You stretched to press your lips against the edge of his faceplate in a 'kiss' as you settled against him. There was little he could do to reciprocate your affections except to rest his head atop yours, curving himself around you to cocoon you against his front. He had neither the need for a heart nor a pair of lungs. Even still, he focused on the rhythm of your breathing as each exhale warmed the metal of his chassis, drawing his world smaller and smaller until it was the only sensation he registered. He had always wanted a brighter future for his people. As Ramattra sunk into his meditations, he understood with a startling realization that he wanted the future to include you at his side.

#.txt #ramattra x reader #ramattra #writing #warm up :) #bc i cant figure out how to write this guy #he Is very polite and cordial to a lot of humans he talks to #but then in some of his other lines he says human like its a slur. so. #also i cant get his line abt genji being zen's human pet out of my head LMAO #but i dont think ramattra would be the type to want a subservient human following him around #like hes fighting for omnic rights but i dont know if hed take pleasure in seeing a human bow to him as a superior #idk if he actually considers humanity inferior. hes not like omnic supremacy hes like Please Let Us Live #also if it gives u any idea how slow i write. this lil thing took me over 2 hours

[sinfuego]

Tbh, nothing has made me sympathize more with Kipperlilly Copperkettle than her anger issues.

Cause anger is an emotion we feel when we're missing something. When we need something and can't get it. It's a balm to make us feel better when things don't go our way.

When things aren't fair.

#d20 #dimension 20 #d20 fantasy high #fantasy high junior year #d20 spoilers #fhjy #fantasy high spoilers #of course just cause you feel like things are unfair doesnt mean they actually are #and the reason why its an anger issue is cause the anger has befome detrimental #its warped from being somethjng to comfort you when you feel powerless to a tool you use against others when you fedl slighted #part of why anger issues are so hard to overcome is cause of how good it feels in the moment #even if you feel terrible guilt afterwards #the catharsis of releasing anger can be such a relief #that you dont even realise youve started looking for reasons to be angry #youre listing things that are terrible with the world just so you can feel better by getting angry at them #things like capitalism and people who bullied you and how your boss is a terrible racist #things that everyone can get angry over #until they get more personal and warps your judgment #“my boss called a group of immigrant a bunch of racial slurs” “his secretary was there too she can back me up” #“when i brought it up with her she says she wasnt payjng attention or something” “shes peobably racist too and thats why he hired her” #it becomes easier to make jumps like that instead of giving people the benefit of the doubt #easier to justify your anger with the smallest slights #until youre yelling at a pedestrian whe. you almost ran them over #“sure it was a red light but they shouldve paid attention and seen me coming too” #anyways this is all to say kipperlilly probably has some issues to deal with #idk if shes actually behind this plot or if shes being manipulated #doesmt stop her from being a total dick tho #but it does make me a little more sympathetic to her

[melonthesprigatito]

Look, I'm not interested in playing Palworld and I've been actively avoiding the drama/controversy so I'd be perfectly happy with forgetting it's existence and moving on with my life if it weren't for just how obsessively UNHINGED the Palworld fandom is, barging in on EVERY. SINGLE. recent Pokémon post on multiple platforms just to pick fights and shill the hell out of their game to (most of the time) confused Pokémon fans who are wondering what Palworld is and where these people came from.

I saw this wonderful art of the Kamado battle in Legends Arceus and the Champion battle in Sun and Moon on Instagram and I shit you not, a good 70% of the comments are entirely Palworld people just ranting and yelling about how Pokémon sucks, Palworld is going to kill Pokémon, anybody who likes Pokémon is a bootlicker and are riding Pokémon's 🍆, how anyone who complains about Palworld is a (and I quote) """"saviourf*g""" for Nintendo etc

Like, I just wanted to share my nostalgia about Sun and Moon and so did a lot of other people considering that there were still people talking about it, but it was hard to find those comments because they were drowned out by the Pals Vs Pokémon warzone.

And the second someone says something a Pal fan doesn't like, it eventually devolves into the Pal fans throwing homophobic slurs around and calling the Pokémon fans neckbeards, and shills and basement dwellers and such.

I'm sure there's probably sane fans who are just happy going about and making their Pals break rocks or whatever, but a majority of the Palworld fans I've encountered so far are like edgy screaming 4Chan people. Like, holy shit I wish they would just go to their own Palworld fan pages instead of invading Pokémon and turning every comment section into the embodiment of this meme.

(And I just want to address the whole "Pokémon Company is posting a lot more often recently because they're obviously scared of Palworld, lmaoooo why else would they suddenly start actively posting after months of radio silence 😎" argument that I've seen dozens of times.

First of all, the Pokémon channel/profile is always posting random game/anime/art screenshots. There hasn't been a sudden drastic increase of posts.

Second of all, it's A MONTH UNTIL POKÉMON DAY. THEY DO THIS EVERY YEAR. The influx of Snorlax posts is a promotional thing for Pokémon Sleep. Pokémon's just carrying on with their regularly scheduled hype building/ promotional stuff and the Palworld fans think it has something to do with them.(

#pokémon #tw: slurs #I wish they'd just go enjoy their game and leave us alone to enjoy ours 😭 #I don't wanna see all the insults and fighting #I haven't even been playing Pokémon recently I've been playing Kirby 😭 #All I wanted to do is look up some Pokémon art memes and plushies is that so bad????? #The saviour*redacted* thing is something that someone called me specifically 🙃 #I can't remember what comment it was under #I think it was someone accusing Ogerpon of being a Pal ripoff and I pointed out that Ogerpon is inspired by a Japanese myth or something #From my very outside perspective it looks like Palworld is only popular because its fueled by internet rage #I wish people were this defensive about Yokai Watch when it came out. I love that game :(

[androdragynous]

i wrote longer bullet points and then realized my thoughts on the Unending Debate About Using Queer are just

if someone wants to call themselves queer that's okay and do not force them to change this

if someone does not want to call themselves queer that's okay and do not force them to change this

being uncomfortable with the way someone else describes or does not describe their own identity and refusing to respect their choice is a You Problem

shut up about if it's a slur or not. like yeah so are half of the terms LGBT people use to self identify what else is new. who cares.

edit to clarify i am trans and gay this is not a transphobe-friendly post. gargle my dick and balls

#patch me through to palaven command #making my discourse posts at 4am #sorry but if i see one more long essay where the crux of it is like ooohhh but its not a slur only terfs say it is #first off i think you're stupid #second off if your only reason for using it is because its not a slur i think you're kind of a pussy. #like at least say it with your whole chest yknow. dedicate to being queer dont sugarcoat it because its the polite option #anyways i should sleep but im right. #q slur #tagging it feels a little against the point of the post but i shant refuse a polite request

[neechees]

I do hope that like. The f slur or dyke doesn't go through a "queer" thing where ppl insist that those words were never slurs and never ever used in a bad way ever & that you're stupid or "too sensitive" & mocked if you have a trauma to that word bc of homophobia or even just prefer not to be called that & ask others not to use that word for you

#like i dont really use 'queer' for myself. i like being called bisexual. it fits me & its direct #& ppl already avoid using 'bisexual' as if its a gross word or bc it 'doesn't exist' but i am bisexual pls call me that #i wouldnt really get upset if someone calls me queer but id get upset if someone called me a 'dyke'. #its not for all ppl obviously but i honestly think theres a chunk of white lgbts like using lgbt slurs #bc they want the experience of their own racial slur bc they saw slur reclamation of the n word by Black ppl

[lockandkeyhyena]

Mum, why did dad die?

…

Lots of reasons, honey. Go to bed.

#uhhhhhh so the poll ended up being not needed i had such a vibrant #image in my head for this scene #i had to draw it #anyway #yeen art #ocs #sadboycats #goliath beetle #titan beetle #eyestrain #q slur #<- cause its used as a slur here #i know yall love titan but i needed to make the point none of them are good people!!! #anyway uhhh i hope u enjoy it this took me like 3 hrs #maybe 4

[duncebento]

yall are just not around black people ever huh

#like u can argue about whether its good or not but ‘that hoe’ is really just common inoffensive parlance for a good portion of black ppl #like ‘that nigga’… yes it’s a slur but it’s clearly not being used as such in these contexts

[sparrowstarsandsorrow]

The duality of Paul Smecker

He's A-Okay doing it with a man but draws the line at cuddling.

#WARNING ‼️ USE OF F SLUR #censored anyway but still #type of languge should not be used or tolerated #only used for purpose of gifmaking a film scene #thank you for understanding #and also because its paul smecker he's gay but has internalized homophobia #i mean hes okay with it until it comes to cuddling #the man's got a cold heart #Paul Smecker: What a hypocrite #i mean really #hes being gay with a man then calls him that #thats very not cool of him #the boondock saints #paul smecker #willem dafoe #gifset #I've realised its been a long time coming for me to bring up paul smecker again #he is one of my favourite willem dafoe characters

[tianshiisdead]

This post is not an invitation for sinophobia piss off

God hanfu spaces can be so vile 💀 using 'manchu' and 'dog' so interchangeably is crazy, reason 10339405060 why I never look into the comments of Twitter posts abt hanfu

#diary #hater tag #stop oppression complexing we've been at the bottom of the hierarchy for a century and were at the bottom before qing as well #i try to keep this in private but you can only see ur ppl called so many slurs before getting irritated #also han women continued wearing hanfu into qing+ hanfu is better preserved than many ethnic minority clothing histories but whatever #i dont want to incite sinophobia but if i have to see 1 more person pretending theyre so kind for treating us minorities so fucking well #lol #as someone w plenty of experience of racism both back home in the mommyland and in c*nada #oh my god lol i keep quiet and struggle against sinophobia as much as i can but it feels like im defending ppl who see me as dirt sometimes #my tags have spiraled and arent rlly abt manchu anymore ngl 😨 my worst experiences at home have been wrt being hui and muslim lolol #since manchu are sinicized basically only terminally online pplare haters #anyways i might delete this later but ive kept quiet as much as i can for a long time and its getting frustrating #also hui and manchu are aggressively sinicized so the way i know less sinicized minorities have it even worse than my familyand i lol

[fecto-forgo]

sorry vent in the tags bc i think im going insane over this one?

#ok so my mom n her boyfriend literally fifht every other day n i think she finally realized after 8 years i have ears? n i can hear them? #so she hit me w fucking.'dont get upset its just like i used to fight with your *slur* aunt all the time when you were little!' YOURE MAKMG #ME MORE UPSET YOU THINK I LIKED HEARING THAT??? IS YOUR VICTIM COMPLEX SO LARGE YOURE CONVINCED #YOUR ELEMENTARY SCHOOL AGED CHILD WAS AN ENTHUSIAST FOR YOU FIGHTING W HER OVER A PAN?? #GIRL NOT EVEN ADULTS LIKE BEING AROUND LOUD FIGHTING 24/7 YOU THINK I LIKED THAT WHEN I DIDNT #EVEN KNOW HOW TO WRITE MY FULL NAME?? I HOPE YOUR SICKNESS GETS WORSE GO TO HELL #analiceoriginal.txt #also bc of their fight she burnt the cake topping so the leftovers didnt taste nice at all.why cant alice have nice things.

[severalowls]

I don't know why its a hard concept that words like queer and dyke and fag are slurs and that is the point. If they aren't slurs then you aren't reclaiming them, you're just saying words. You can't be like "queer isn't a slur" and "using queer is a radical self identifier to spit in the face of bigots that means a ton to adopt" like its one or the other bud. Its either something that means something or its not, and acting like you're a big dick radical for telling the odd person who is like "I'd prefer if you didn't call me that actually" that they're just being a weenie and should fuck off because it has zero negative meaning in wider society and there is no legitimate reason anybody could be bothered by it on any level is some fucking moon gymnastics dude.

#this isn't making up a guy to get mad at the latter is an actual post by an actual person who is consistently like this #youre either reclaiming it because its a slur (this rules) #or you're just being a complete weirdo for the sake of it #when you see a banner from the 1980s using these words they are doing it BECAUSE it is a slur #it did not magically stop. the moment it is not a slur is the moment it means nothing to anybody.