#idc if you really hate kids

[icepop680]

You don’t have to like kids, but expecting parents to leave their children at home 100% of the time sets up unrealistic expectations. It’s not fair to tell parents they need a babysitter if they want to go out for dinner, or that they shouldn’t go out at all.

Families should go out to eat. Children should go to restaurants, they should go to the mall, they should go out and interact with people they don’t know that aren’t their age. In pre-packaged child areas that are heavily monitored, we will raise generations of adults who cannot interact with those they don’t already know.

No one likes to hear a screaming baby, but it’s cruel to place the blame on the parents when they cannot control it, children are going to be loud, they are going to be obnoxious and messy — they are going to be kids.

We need to let our kids be kids, be loud, get into messes, and learn from their mistakes, within reason.

#don’t get me started on the villanizing of parents these days #why the hell are you thinking about the “cream pie a pregnant person got #children make the world go round #idc if you really hate kids #don’t get upset with the parents for doing their best #they’re humans the same as their children are #antinatalism #children #childhood #child free #parenting #modern kids

[dilfhos]

i feel a lot of yall that say they hate mahito are pre -tty comfy on that wagon. pretty sure some of yall would deep down let that him worm-wiggle in ur cooch. would probably let them dozen or so wiggling hands feel on you too. imagine the many touches he could leave with his mouth alone. or ur just scared to admit it and its okay. its okay you refuse to look closely at the chisel denting his torso. at the off guard pretty glances or the hair akin to a dead raccoon’s tail. maybe his luscious lashes fr turn you off or the pathetic way he giggles. its okay. his home isn’t much either, but its honest work if you kick away the rat bones to the other side, then its okay. he won’t be able to defend you either, but if you’re strong enough to be near him that’s okay!

see its okay 😌🧘‍♀️ you’re safe now. put down your pitchfork.

#[ just in—☆ ] #mahito #im here if you want to talk #this blog is now a safehaven for the m*hito fuckers🩵 #he can expand my domain anytime idc #after a bath of course!! #cant have the girlies thinkin i fuck dirties 🙄 #ill wear his kids #i mean his merch ill wear his merch everywhere #and put up cute little signs like: have you seen my disfigured rat :(( plz call. dont on weekdays #its okay TOTO I GOTCHU #lmao plz dont take this srs i was pissing myself writing this #if i cant go hard for the hated what kinda fan am i really djdhdhdhdh *a normal one don. a normal one*

[puppyeared]

lemme just, *tweaks it like i would with a picture frame*

#listen idk if this is a delinquents design or a redesign in general. i just think adrien deserves better fashion taste than his dad lol #my art #miraculous ladybug #ml #ml fanart #delinquent!ladybug #delinquent!chat noir #FUCK YEAH IM GIVING HIM CARGO PANTS. its so he can hold cool rocks and cheese and pictures of his lady lmaoo #also mari if youre gonna keep the flats fine but at least wear running shoes. girl your feet are crying listen to them #i was thinking of giving adrien a studded belt like a scene kid but its hard to draw and i think it deviates from the design. sigh #I JUST. REALLY REALLY HATE THE SKINTIGHT SUITS OK. I KNOW THEYRE GOOD FOR ANIMATION #BUT I HATE THEM WITH A PASSION. idc what you say 14 year olds should dress like 14 year olds #ladynoir #fuck yes im tagging this ladynoir. cry about it #marinette dupain cheng #adrien agreste #ml ladybug #cat noir #chat noir #ml redesign #character design #mlb #miraculous fanart #miraculous #doodles #fanart #miraculous ladybug fanart #mlb fanart

[neo-shitty]

“this gifted intruder…manipulates gravity!” 🫦🫦🫦🫦🫦

#AND MY MAN THANK YOU TO MY MAN #i honestly thought i was so over chuuya atp but alas look at me #i have been giggling every time hints were dropped that someone else was in mersault #I MISSED HIM SO MUCH IDC THAT HE’S UNDEAD #WHY DID HE SOUND LIKE A BIRD IM CRYING BABY???? blink twice if u’re not ok #BUNGO STRAY DOGS AND STRAY KIDS ENJOYERS PLEASE AGREE WITH ME WHEN I SAY KENJI GIVES FELIX VIBES #AND VICE VERSA #THE FRECKLES THE ATTITUDE EVERYTHING #tecchou 🫦🫦🫦 #OH FUCK as much as i love teruko as a villain i wouldnt want her to be my enemy at all 😃 #the way bram speaks is knocking my out 🤣 the effort put into his character’s dialogue actually #TECCHOU DOESNT GIVE A SHIT ABT WHATS UP HE’S JUST LOOKING FOR HIS BF #he actually wld swear that he hates jouno and proceeds to find him when he’s missing i love them actually #tecchour forgetting he had a whole other mission when kenji offered to look for jouno with him #YK WHAT #TECCHOU REMINDS ME OF WONWOO #the only thing i gained this year from bsd was a mad crush on both tachihara siblings i hate it here i really do #bring him back asagiri 😔😔😔😔😔 #TACHIHARA MY MAN 😭 #he’s so cool and i love him so much i might cry #THIS WHOLE CLIP OF HIM IM SOBBING #atsushi you’re so naive 😔 #kenji tecchou fight tho 😗 #toff.txt #bsd spoilers

[nero-neptune]

that disney+ peter pan and wendy trailer looks monochromatic and boring as hell. i say this as both a hater and a peter pan connoisseur. lost girls exist (bad And wrong). costumes look just ok. where's the whimsy? why is every color in that trailer some uglyass shade of green and brown? mary blair did Not paint dozens of works of art for the 1953 production of peter pan just for its next gen disney reimagining to be this bland. and ugly. i simply must reiterate how Butt Ugly it looks.

#im not even gonna get into how there's lost girls and that goes against one of the biggest aspects of the story #also sorry that yara shahidi is getting hate for playing tinkerbell. she doesnt deserve that #unfortunately she's in a color by numbers green tinted cgi hellscape of a disney remake and i cant help her #the Only thing i'll give 'em is that the lost boy hideaway is cool looking. but 2003 did it better idc #i'm just. so annoyed about the lost girls (who are canonically too clever to fall out of their prams and get sent to neverland duh) #god i am such a hater but that trailer looked Ugly. just color scheme wise. it looks uglyyyy #idk if they were going for a touch of gritty realism and a more 'big kid' take on the story #but when you think 'neverland' i really doubt youre thinking greyish green and yellowish blue and dirt brown #who did the color correction? i just wanna talk #and if its a remake of their 50s cartoon version why abandon all the Color? #peter pan #peter pan and wendy #rambles #i was honestly going into that trailer with an open mind and i can forgive a lot. but i cant unsee an ugly color scheme

[lesbiansanemi]

We’ve officially hit the point where I can’t fucking sleep because of this shit and on top of everything the AC went out I literally want to cry I’m so stressed I physically feel like shit like I need to throw up I’m so tired but between my stomach hurting, the stress, and the heat I can’t

#today he told me it ‘wasn’t fair’ that I expected him and his bf to move #just because I refused to get rid of my ‘disgusting cats’ and they would be ‘happier’ in a shelter #his reasonings for why they would be happier in a shelter were all things that they did not do/did not happen until he started this shit #‘they’re always hiding and you never spend time with them’ #they hide from YOU #early morning and late at night when you’re in your room they’re fine #im out here rn just sitting with them giving them attention #also yeah I used to give them attention for AT LEAST several hours of the day #but after I essentially got chased out of all the common areas no obviously that wasn’t happening #man FUCK YOU #also sorry I don’t want to spend literal THOUSANDS more than I would other wise to fucking move #esp when YOU moving means no changes in your finances #you make over 50k a year I make barely 20k AND already have more bills to pay than you #why the FUCK should I be getting stuck with the far worse financial decision #and then to try and frame it like you’re getting treated ‘unfairly’ just because I won’t get rid of my cats for you?????? #I genuinely hope the stupid fucking car your mom gave you explodes tomorrow idc idc idccccc #ESPECIALLY WHEN HE BOTH THREATENED AND SAID HE DIDNT CARE TO MOVE OUT #and when I said ‘great. do that’ he starts throwing this fucking fit #I hate him so much it is so goddamn UNREAL #I am dealing with a giant man baby who has never been told no in his life before now #and it’s really fucking showing #this is what happens when parents give their kids everything they want #and you have normie cis white man privilege and have also gotten every job/into every program you’ve ever wanted with minimal effort #so when someone finally says ‘no you don’t get whatever you want at my expense’ #he has the most immature meltdowns fucking imaginable #kaz rambles

[allofuswantgwinam]

random but like 2 months ago my mom saw this video of this mom and daughter that would cuddle and like one of those touchy families ig and me and her do not and never have done that. Well this woman came to me after she saw it and was like talking about how she felt like maybe she wasn’t affectionate enough and I was like “no please. do not cuddle with me, i like how we are” and this bitch said “good, me too. but it just made wonder if you felt that way” 🤣🤣🤣 she’s so funny. i told her either way it’s too late now, i don’t even like when my friends are touchy with me most the time either but if i love you enough i will tolerate it 🤣🤣

#unless you’re my person i don’t wanna be touched 😭😭 #like my aunt is really touchy so when’s e went to Disney it was driving me crazy!!!! #but I love her so much so I just let it happen 🤣🤣 #I was dying inside tho #idk why #I realized this about myself a couple years ago actually #bc I have a friend that has trauma so she’s like ‘absolutely not’ #but i don’t necessarily have trauma but I hate it #but most the time I won’t say it unless idc about you #🤣🤣 #idrk why but I wanna know why I feel this way lol #cause my dad is affectionate and I would be like ‘no’ and he’d be like ‘you’re my kid idc I do what I want’ maybe that’s why #bc he didn’t respect my boundaries shocker #he not gross tho #I feel like that sounded bad but I’m talkin like a hug and kisses on the cheek etc #been meaning to rant about him actually bc he kinda been irritating #by that I mean I’m realizing a lot of things and it makes me kind of mad at him

[merrilark]

hm.

// world news for ts

#man ppl are really. irritating. about the sub situation. #i haven't really been following it but it makes me raise my brows that people are so quick to meme a tragedy #and cheer for the suffering and likely deaths of strangers. #idc if they knew the risks; there's a kid on there and he undoubtedly believed he would be safe. and tbh? even if there wasn't? #its... disturbing to me that people would be so gleeful about people potentially dying because they hate them. #how quickly we stoop toward the levels of people we hate bc we feel that we're somehow justified. it makes me sad. #people can be angry. they can feel however they want. but idk. the casual sadism isn't great. #whether you like them or not those are living human beings and human beings deserve to be treated like humans. #will probably delete this i just feel sad about how people are acting about people dying. i'm allowed to feel that. #actually no im not going to delete this. some of the stuff i've seen is downright ghoulish. #feeling disturbed over such behavior isn't virtue signalling; it's genuine concern and a belief we all deserve a modicum of respect #when tragedies happen. when people die. they should have been guaranteed the bare minimum of safety by oceangate and they weren't. #it's a stupid and senseless death of people who believed they would be safe and weren't. not a freaking celebration. #anyway.

[releaseholiday]

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#@answer in tags anon 😩😩 idk how good of an advice I can give bc I’m exactly where you are rn:( #it’s so hard for me to actually believe that Louis’ okay with any of this and I know that whatever it is on the deep level he’s not #that’s just not who he is #and I’ve tried to justify it for the longest time bc yeah I’m sure if he thought he h could do it another way he would’ve #but there was also a line for me and getting the kid involved again crossed it for me #there’s no justifying reason to do it imo #if his career is threatened okay then im sorry but his career isn’t more important than this kid’s life #idc if they tell him he’s a child actor or whatever this will fuck uo hos life forever #no matter how it ends this is what he’s always gonna be known for #and Louis as someone who had his life fucked up when he was barely a teen should’ve thought about it #even tho it wasn’t his fault this whole things started even tho he’s also a victim here #he’s the adult he should know better #but god I really don’t want to give up on him😩 I don’t want him to fail I don’t want him career to crumble #and I hate that this is exactly what these people wanted #but I also don’t think I can support this:( #I’m sorry this is not the advice you wanted😭😭😭 but I hope you at least know you’re not alone

[wewontbesleeping]

I really hate when I accidentally come across the stupidest ‘theories’ about Taylor Swift songs from casual or new fans on tiktok bc like. Well that’s simply not correct. And we all know that. Like it’s just factually incorrect to say question is about Justin Bieber. It’s just incredibly stupid. Yeah she wrote out of the woods about Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez. You figured it out. Congrats! Haven’t we suffered enough

#I don’t even use tiktok but I’m still forced to come across shit like this and it’s so annoying lol #like I don’t care but also you’re stupid and it’s irritating to see #I think this is the most annoying thing about being a Taylor swift fan #people care so much about who a song is about #but they don’t REALLY care #along this line I also saw a lot of people saw midnight rain is about TOM HIDDLESTON #I also just really hate how smug a lot of these kids are #and btw !!! I REALIZE that as a grown adult I should not be so annoyed at teenagers being teenagers #bc yes when you’re a teenager you think you’re the smartest person in the room and you’re the only one who really Gets something #but also. It’s annoying idc #ANYWAYS I was forced to see that this morning so now you are too

[theghostofashton]

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#.....love seeing people say w absolutely no shame that men of color 'deserve' the racism they get #like. imagine saying someone deserves racism. imagine it. no matter what other criticism you're making no matter how valid it may be #you have already lost lmfao #'men of color can be misogynistic' yes! for sure! but that doesn't fucking mean they deserve racism????? #this is fucking why we never get anywhere this obsession w justifying bigotry bc you don't like the person or bc they've fucked up somehow.. #the point is to end bigotry it's to end racism how the hell do we do that if you're saying oh yeah but this person actually deserves it #creating a group of people it's valid to be racist to are you kidding me???? #so many people call themselves progressive and then say shit like this and it's really like. do you want to end oppression #or do you want to oppress the ppl you hate #you can't have it both ways hate to break it to you #anyway even the worst man of color you will ever meet does not deserve racism <3 #bc that legitimizes the idea that not being racist to someone is contingent on them being a good person lol #two wrongs will never make a right idc

[planethead]

i am watching the regular show movie and god im tearing up

#* orbit posts #the last time i watched this movie was back when it released which wassss 2015?? iirc #but it made me emotional #i really loved regular show. idc how shitty or random the writing is. it is amazing #it rly makes me think. i love watching shows like that. if watching shows that are written poorly was a crime then consider me guilty #i would do anything just to experience this time of CN as a teen again #anyway back to what i was saying.... i lowkey??? sorta maybe relate to rigby in a way #imagine your friend got to succeed and you didnt. and youre worried that youd fall out #i am mature about this now but if this were kid/teen me i would do anything just to be with my friend if that meant lying #i would hate that because the last thing i want is to inconvenience anyone especially ppl close to me #i never want my envious thoughts to ruin someones life even if it was a little bit

[todayisafridaynight]

Why are you saying that about Tanimura

You loooooove Makoto Date

because makoto date isn't a cop anymore you DINGUS he's a failwife bartender journalist who can't be trusted to watch haruka for more than five minutes because she's going to end up kidnapped and kiryu's gonna find him crying on the floor battered and bruised

#snap chats #i hate the term 'failwife' but for date theres an exception because its just accurate its the best way to describe him #this is why date didnt watch haruka in Y6 while kiryu was away because he knows he's awful at it #she prob woulda ended up running off anyhow he woulda taken a nap and wake up to her gone #I LOVE HIM HE'S SO BAD AT EVERYTHING #but also not he was kinda nasty with dropping the news clippings everywhere #ALSO. WHY CAN HE FLY A HELICOPTER. #LIKE IS THAT JUST A THING JAPANESE DETECTIVES KNOW HOW TO DO CAUSE ???? #DATE WHY DO YOU KNOW HOW TO DO THIS #idc i love you date's MY favorite old man from this franchise #date rarely does anything cool but when he does. gg king #i love him... i love him and kiryus relationship so much i really hope we see them together more in LaD8 #i already know dates in LaD8 dont tell me lies LET HIM AND KIRYU BE BESTIES AGAAAAIN #i also hope akiyama manifests from the sewer so he can be like I FUCKING KNEW IT #as if he's like. a wife coming home to find her husband cheating except instead of cheating kiryu's alive and date's a shitty liar #i love date have i said that yet. i do #he's kiryu's bestie his ride or die his silly rabbit #i love how date acknowledges he was there for most of haruka's life... he's her peepaw too..... #or an uncle that might as well be her peepaw point is kiryu and date vaguely raised that kid together #I Said Vaguely ok im not THAT delusional

[ars0nism]

when does it go from establishing the precanon dynamic to just selfindulgent fluffy bullshit

#me writing 85 different scenes of valerian & his little family #almost made myself cry with this one with the simple 'oh. he does see me for who i am. he really doesnt secretly believe im my agab' #i started writing these oneshots because i wanted to figure out valerian's relationships with his loved ones precanon more #his backstory used to be incredibly vague #now i know his first kiss i know his friends i know his relationship with his kid before and after the Incident #i know the way his relationship with his husband fell apart not because they fell out of love but because he kept doing more heinous shit #his starting motivation used to be 'well yk they didnt really fit my morals' despite the fact that he spent. like. 30+ years in the army #now its 'idc about my morals my kid's in danger fuck you' while he TELLS everyone its about morals #silly little liar boy #he does grow as a person #enough so that eventually he gets faced with people who hate him because of who he was and he actually feels remorse #hes so shaped #favorite oc fr

[hobie-enthusiast]

ALEX I JUST HAD AN IDEA...

so you know how spidey sense like, lets the spider know that there's a danger nearby before it gets to them? what if there was a spidey sense but for like, not danger. yk. like. LIKE...

i imagined hobie sitting by himself somewhere, not really paying attention? and then he gets this feeling that envelopes him whole and gives him the warm fuzzies and makes him smile, and he doesn't get what it is until his s/o comes up behind him and hugs him from behind, or like slaps his shoulders trying to scare him and he just wuvs them so much

im so soft you made me soft for hobie look what you've done!!!!

- your friendly neighborhood 🕷️ anon [ idc if emoji anons are so last year im spider anon now >:) ]

THAT FUNNY FEELING !

— hobie brown x gn!reader

— fluff, just straight fluff, hobie being so in love its crazy, petnames and lots more fluff

— hobie's spider-senses were giving him a new sensation, but he couldn't really put his finger on what it was

— ANON THIS IS SO ADORABLE MUWAH! ALSO EMOJI ANONS ON TOP I LOVE IT

Hobie had been getting a new warm feeling that he didn't understand.

It happened whenever he was at peace. There was never any danger near him or around him. He could be sitting there, minding his business, only for this warm feeling to engulf his entire body. His mind draws blank as it’s engulfed with that damn fuzzy feeling.

He could never say he hates it though. It reminds him of you.

It comes at him whenever he’s somewhere with you. Whether the two of you are just hanging out, winning a battle, or walking around, he’s randomly hit with a wave of a good-feeling. One that stays with him for a small while, that feels like happiness spreading through his body.

That's how he mentally connected it to you. Of course, he didn't think for a while you truly were the cause. Not until recently.

You practically begged him to come over, to take the day off from being Spider-man and hang out with you. Hobie always had a hard time saying no to you, so he agreed.

You were out at the local shoppe by this point, so he let himself in (with the spare key you gave him of course). He looked to find ways to entertain himself, settling on strumming his guitar. He kicked his feet onto your bed as he lied back in your desk chair.

After a small while, he started getting that feeling again. That fuzzy one that engulfs him entirely, making him feel good. He glances up to look around, but sees nothing. He found it odd, but maybe it meant you were back home?

Nah, he was kidding himself. The connection was probably just in his head.

—

You place your groceries on the counter, ears picking up the sound of a guitar playing. You smile to yourself. Of course you know who the culprit was. He had a key because of you anyways.

Slowly, you creep up to your bedroom, carefully cracking the door. You keep quiet as you admire your boyfriend from afar. He seemed so relaxed, which wasn't usual for him.

Hobie deserved some peace and relaxation after saving so many people. You seemed to be the only one who truly thought that. Miguel didn't see it that way. The criminals among New York didn't understand that. And even Hobie himself didn't think he deserved a break for doing what he's supposed to.

So watching him so.. unaware for once truly was a sight.

You enter the room as quietly as possible, creeping up behind him to wrap your arms around his shoulders.

When you crept up, Hobie was engulfed by that feeling again. A warm smile crosses his face when he feels you lean against him, laughing in his shoulder.

"There ya are." He said with a small laugh. "I had a feelin' you were home."

You raise an eyebrow, smile never faltering. "What? No you didn't! You were so unaware when I snuck up behind you!"

Hobie raises his eyebrows, the feeling slowly fading from his body. So he was right! That warm and euphoric feeling did come from you, his lover. No one else could make him feel that way, not even close.

"Oooh, does the tingle work even for me?" You ask in an excited tone.

"The.. tingle?"

You nod happily, moving so you sit on the bed by his legs. "Yeah! You know, the thing you use to sense danger."

God Hobie found you so.. mesmorizing. Your truly somewhat childish nature that wasn't that but close, he loved it.

"Nah, only works for danger, love." He responds, looking down and strumming his guitar.

"Then you can't sense me! I'm like a ninja. This is perfect." You say, standing and grabbing Hobie's arm. "C'mon, I have some groceries for dinner."

He nodded and stood, guitar on the bed as he followed you to the kitchen. Of course he was going to keep the sensation a secret. He wanted to keep that for himself, a way you make him feel. And besides, what's the harming in letting you think that you could sneak up on him?

It could bring more heartfelt moments like that.

—

Ever since then, Hobie pretended to be blissfully unaware.

He pretended like he couldn't feel you sneaking up on him to scare him. He pretended he never knew you were right behind him, waiting for him to see you. He pretended like he didn't expect your "unexpected" or "surprise" hugs.

Because honestly, he loved you. Hobie loved these little things, even if it sounded weird in itself. He loved having a partner who was always catching him off-guard with affection, even if he was sensing it.

There are random times when the two of you are just sitting together, each one doing a separate activity. He would be on his guitar and you would be catching up on your latest game or book.

Then, that feeling would hit Hobie. He would feel the fuzies he felt from before, and a smile graces his face. It prompts him to move to hug you from behind, nuzzling his head into your shoulder or neck.

When you question him, "What are you doing, love?"

He just sighs, smile never leaving his face. "Just love ya, so damn much sweetheart."

Certainly enough to make your heart melt and cheeks go red. You always found these moments slightly odd, however. He initiated those moments whenever you planned to try and scare him or give him your own surprise hug.

He always beat you to it. Not that you could complain, oh no. If anything, you welcome this with open arms.

You had a slight feeling that Hobie wasn't being entirely honest when he said he truly never knew when you were behind him. Hobie was always aware of his surroundings. But that didn't make you think for too long. You chalked it up to Hobie just letting his guard down around you, and that made you feel nice.

This new sense of Hobie's was his personal favourite, one that he's glad comes from you, the very person he loves and appreciates so so dearly.

#NEW ARTICLE || OUT NOW !! #hobie brown x reader #hobie x reader #hobie brown #across the spiderverse #spider man: across the spider verse #atsv x reader #atsv #atsv hobie

[annarubys]

thank god there’s two back to back mcr shows again last night was so difficult without them

#i am not in my normal headspace rn but regardless i AM crying partially because i am so thankful i am getting to witness this #like i am kind of going through it this week #but the fact that i am also around for an experience that would have made 14 year old me explode #and that it’s *that* experience that is making me feel better. it’s so insane #like as an adult you find a lot of different things that can comfort you but for it to be something from when you were a kid. GOD. #i hate being earnest i hate it i hate it but i just feel really lucky 🥺 #ANYWAY. if you read these tags no you didn’t <3 #you can rb the post if you want though lmao idc #a.txt #mcr