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katchwreck · 1 year
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haggishlyhagging · 1 year
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The turn toward intersectionality has also deepened feminist discomfort with thinking in terms of false consciousness: that's to say, with the idea that women who have sex with and marry men have internalized the patriarchy. The important thing now, it is broadly thought, is to take women at their word. If a woman says she enjoys working in porn, or being paid to have sex with men, or engaging in rape fantasies, or wearing stilettos—and even that she doesn't just enjoy these things but finds them emancipatory, part of her feminist praxis—then we are required, many feminists think, to trust her. This is not merely an epistemic claim: that a woman's saying something about her own experience gives us strong, though perhaps not indefeasible, reason to think it true. It is also, or perhaps primarily, an ethical claim: a feminism that trades too freely in notions of self-deception is a feminism that risks dominating the subjects it presumes to liberate.
-Amia Srinivasan, The Right to Sex: Feminism in the Twenty-First Century
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““Stealth wealth” is the name given to the clothes worn by the extremely rich – very fine wools in navy or grey, oversized coats, tiny handbags, whites so bright they’re almost blue, a thousand shades of camel, a whole caravan of them, a palette that whispers “taste” with a little lisp. Logos are replaced with secret codes – a clever little stitch at the hem, or a hoodie made of cashmere.
Woven through these merino wools and pale suedes are the codes and strappings of a life where the wrong type of collar, for example, betrays you as a gatecrasher, a fraud. For years now, the fashion press has monitored and marketed these clothes to the rest of us, frauds every last one, with the unspoken promise that if we spend the equivalent of the price of a car on our new jumper, we too might gain access to a world that doesn’t want us.
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Perhaps I would mind this “quiet luxury” less if the clothes were fabulous. But, instead, they’re bloodless, grandly bland, dreary. They speak of money, not taste; of fear, not joy. Why should the rest of us buy them – what good are the clothes without the power? If we’ve learned anything from our good friends in Succession, it is the true horrors of being wealthy, the boredom, the panic, the interminable snacks. Why would we want to cosplay as a billionaire when we know that to be so is to live without trust, without shame, to be monstrous? What sick trick are we playing on ourselves? It makes me wonder about our relationship to politicians, too – rather than making him unelectable, why does the cash and privilege of a billionaire like Sunak (who once visited a construction site wearing a pair of £490 Prada suede loafers) instead seem to inspire so many people to doff their caps and run to Selfridges? These people are ruining our lives, and our response is to buy their shoes?
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Buying into “stealth wealth” feels like buying a band T-shirt, except the band are the worst people in the world, and the T-shirt costs the same as a month’s rent, and the music is them laughing as they shout “Eat shit” from a car. With the greatest respect, no thank you.”
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Podcast Published: Aug 2, 2022
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Steve McGuire: Anyways, maybe we start by just setting up what was the keynote about? What was your critique of it?
Erec Smith: Well, the keynote was at a conference called the Conference for College Composition and Communication. The keynote address, I'm forgetting the very long title, but it was, How Do We Use Language to Stop People from Shooting Us or something like that. And his overall argument was that white professors, white scholars are inherently problematic. He used terms like students of color feel suffocated by whiteness. And this idea that language is sold as something that will save our lives, but it won't. I don't know anybody who thought that language would make one bulletproof so I didn't really understand that either. I thought this did a little bit more harm than good. It didn't just demonize white people. It infantilized people of color. Scholars and students. So I went to the listserv and I asked, "Was this the best way to go about this? I think this was pretty problematic and we should talk about it."
That was not met with agreement. It was not met with a desire to talk. It was met with a desire to yell at me and not listen to my responses. That's for sure. And I realized something then. I realized that there is a particular narrative that is heavily founded on victimhood, infantilization, the oppressor/oppressed dichotomy. And that if you don't abide by it, then you are a bit of a pariah. There are sacred texts. I mean, John McWhorter's characterization of this as a religion is apt. There are texts you cannot question. There are people you cannot question. There is a party line you cannot steer from. And that's that. It is somewhat cultish. I like to tell my students emotional intelligence is it about not ever getting angry, it's about channeling anger into something more productive.
So that's what I did. The initial anger, which eventually became just amusement, but we can talk about that a little bit later on. The initial anger resulted in two books, several articles about the misguided nature of contemporary anti-racism. And a website and online journal called Free Black Thought. I have other things in the works right now, but those are the solid things. And it's changed my career. I had no intention of doing this stuff before that listserv, before that thread. No intention. And here I am, and I'm speaking all over the country about these things. I'm being asked to moderate very popular panels. And this is all because I'm pushing back against the contemporary mode of anti-racism in academia.
Steve McGuire: Right. Right. So you're not yourself just against anti-racism in toto, you just have a critique of certain contemporary trends within anti-racist discourse and action, I guess.
Erec Smith: Right. Right. And a lot of people will mischaracterize me as being against fighting racism, which makes no sense whatsoever. And the people who say that, I mean, this is why nuance is kryptonite tonight to woke ideology. It's got to be either or, or else their ideas fall apart. So to critique this version of anti- racism comes off as I'm against fighting racism. Right?
It can't possibly be, I don't like this particular strategy. I want to do this strategy. No, that's not possible at all. So my critique of anti-racism is the fodder for my last two books. One called A Critique of Anti- racism in Rhetoric and Composition, and one called The Lure of Disempowerment. The first describes the contention and issues around anti-racism in academia. The second is more prescriptive in that it is trying to provide a possible alternative to a lot of DEI trainings, which again are based on a oppressor/oppressed dichotomy and a lot of guilt and victimhood. So, yeah.
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Steve McGuire: Interesting. Yeah. In the first of the two books that you mentioned, you propose an alternative approach to anti-racism that's based in empowerment theory. Could you maybe just describe how that is different from the current trends in anti-racism that you're critical of and what that is and why you think that could be a more productive approach?
Erec Smith: Well, I think current anti-racism, based in what I call, what others also call critical social justice, it necessitates victimhood, it necessitates infantilization, it necessitates disempowerment. The people in question have to be distinctly disempowered first and foremost. If they're not, then nothing else works. So you're already casting people in victim and oppressor roles before you even know them.
And that's wrong for obvious reasons, but it's also wildly disempowering. And so how do we do this in a way that doesn't infantilize some and demonize others, but empowers everyone? Because I do think that feeling empowered goes a long way in being able to accept other people. Because a lot of what's going on is that we project our insecurities onto other people. We project our fears on other people without even realizing we're doing that. So empowerment theory, what that does is help us be more self aware. It promotes metacognition, emotional self control, things like that. So that we can meet people where they are. And once we meet people where they are, we can have generative conversations about what needs to happen in ways that doesn't guilt people or patronize people or anything like that. And that's why I embrace empowerment theory. I dedicated a para ... I'm sorry, paragraph. A chapter to it in my book, A Critique of Anti-racism. And that chapter was expanded into an entire book called The Lure of Disempowerment. And so that's really what I'm driving these days.
Steve McGuire: Okay. Yeah. In the first book, The Critique of Anti-racism, in the introduction, you point to W.E.B. Du Bois as an example. And I was reading that and I was like, yeah, this is ... I mean, it's a really inspirational story. I wonder, is Du Bois ... He's an exceptional person. He's an exceptional intellect. He demonstrated exceptional courage. He clearly had a degree of self confidence. Is that the kind of thing that you're hoping for everybody to achieve? I can see somebody saying, needing to be like that just to get through the academy or something like that is a lot to ask somebody, if that makes sense.
Erec Smith: Well, you're not being like that to get through the academy. You're being like that to be like that.
Steve McGuire: Okay.
Erec Smith: And that's empowerment. The ability to not let somebody discourage you because of what their thoughts are about you. It doesn't matter. I often tell people, "Listen, if somebody calls me the N word in traffic, I don't care. I'm going to my tenured professorship to shape young minds and then research and write scholarship on topics I care about. And this guy is going to a bar at 8:00 AM. I win. I don't care about that guy's opinion." But I know that is a very unpopular disposition. So with empowerment theory, what I'm doing is saying you can create a disposition that can't be toppled.
You can do that. You can realize that somebody disagreeing with you isn't epistemic violence. You're not harmed. They just disagree with you. You can move on as long as people aren't in your way and blocking you. And if they are in your way and blocking you, then empowerment theory can help you better deal with that situation more strategically, more productively. In ways that don't indicate that your emotions are overpowering your ability to look at a situation for what it is. And I mean, that's what I see when I point to Du Bois and his attitude. I mean, he had that attitude in the 1880s. A black person in Harvard in the 1880s. If he could have that attitude then, then we cannot embrace victimhood now. Frederick Douglas had a similar disposition. When abolitionists would ask, "What should we do about black people?"
The black question. He said, "Don't do anything. Let them fall. That's how you learn how to get up." He was all about, "Just let us do this. We're adults. If you leave us alone, we'll handle it." And they didn't like that. They actually didn't like that. They liked the idea of minorities being the poster people for victimhood. I guess it helped them with their political aspirations as well. But Zora Neale Hurston's another one. She spoke out about this. She lamented the fact that the only role for black people was one of pity. And people were uncomfortable by the confident and successful black person. They didn't know what to do with that. They knew what to do with the downtrodden black person who needs white people to save them. And they knew what to do with that. And Zora Neale Hurston complained about it. In fact, she died in abject poverty because she had this position. And fought a lot, interestingly enough, with W.E.B. Du Bois. But that's fodder for a different conversation. But yeah. I point out Du Bois. I think he's a great model for dealing with things. He's a great model for what it looks like to be empowered. And I'm glad I put him in the book.
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Steve McGuire: Yeah. Viewpoint diversity or intellectual diversity, a lot of people think that's a problem, say, in higher ed in general. I mean, you've got Heterodox Academy. And I think that probably a lot of people in various ways have found themselves in situations where they didn't think the way that people expected that they would think based on what they knew about them. Like I myself lean conservative, but I have a PhD, I've taught in the university. A lot of studies show there aren't that many conservatives in higher education. And so in terms of talking about politics, often I'll find myself in a minority viewpoint position. But I guess the question I'd like to ask you is how is it different or amplified when race is involved? And I could imagine it's a much bigger problem. Maybe one that is experienced on a more pervasive basis. I don't know. I'm just interested to know what your thoughts on that would be.
Erec Smith: Everybody thinks I'm a conservative because of these views. I wouldn't call myself that. I would say I'm left of center. I would say I'm somebody who embraces classical liberalism, which used to be something that both sides of the aisle could get around. I mean, it's the Venn diagram of Republican and Democrat, the center, what's classical liberalism. At least there was that. But that doesn't seem to be the case anymore. So people of all colors just assume I identify as a black conservative and I don't. That being said, at the college level ... And York College of Pennsylvania, where I teach, is not egregiously woke in any way. There are people here and there, but it's not a place that I feel uncomfortable walking onto. So there's that. But the field, the field of rhetoric and composition is a different story altogether. And yes ... Excuse me. I've been called a white supremacist by white people in the field. So that's how bad things are.
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Steve McGuire: Interesting. You mentioned a few minutes ago that this has been something that you've dealt with your entire life, and I was just wondering if you'd say a little bit more about that. Is it that you've always had heterodox social and political views or interests, or what is it that put you in a position where you've had to contend with this so regularly?
Erec Smith: Well, I was always not being black correctly.
Steve McGuire: Okay.
Erec Smith: And I got this from white people as well as black people. So I've been dealing with this since I was a kid growing up in a predominantly white neighborhood and being reminded of that on a regular basis, several times a day. And then going to a more diverse high school and being shamed by the black students for being too white.
Steve McGuire: I see. Okay.
Erec Smith: So the combination of that, I didn't know it at the time, but that really set me on a path to where I am today, really, because I was very interested in why two people can come to the same conclusion for very different reasons, through very different values, attitudes and beliefs, very different ways of describing the world of using rhetoric on themselves and others who describe the world they see fit. A world in which I have to play a particular role. And that role can't be the smartest guy in the room, or that role can't be one of respect and virtue. It can't be one of optimism. An attitude of success. Wanting to follow your dreams and things like that. It was like both parties were saying, "How dare you like yourself? Don't you know you're black?"
They were both saying the same thing there. But they took different paths toward it. And that is something that can be addressed in rhetorical theory. How are we describing, what words are we using to describe this world? And how can we come to the same conclusion from apparently different places? Because we have similar ideas about ethos, about who we are in a grand meta narrative of society. And although we seem like we are fighting each other, we kind of abide by that narrative. We're all abiding by that narrative. So I was very interested in that. I didn't know the word rhetoric at the time. I didn't know the word discourse at the time. Ethos and things like that. But I would eventually discover it and realize this is where I belong.
Steve McGuire: Okay. So you're talking like, yeah, audiences have expectations of you right off the bat, just looking at you or hearing you speak or what they think they know about you and that sort of thing.
Erec Smith: Right.
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Steve McGuire: It's like you were saying earlier, everything's binary. It's either-or. I'm wondering, what do you think is ultimately the source of that? It seems like it's just so crucially important that you agree, going back to this listserv debate, that students be taught or be allowed to express themselves in, say written assignments, I guess, through the African American vernacular English, as opposed to standard English. And the suggestion that it would be valuable to learn standard English is just instantly seen as anathema. You can't even debate that point because it would already be conceding too much even to consider it.
Erec Smith: Right. Yeah. They don't want to dignify it with a response.
Steve McGuire: Yeah. Right.
Erec Smith: Right. And the whole idea that expecting students of color to learn standardized English is inherently racist. That was also a part of the keynote address that sparked all this.
Steve McGuire: Okay. Yeah.
Erec Smith: So yes. That's part of it. Any kind of pushback will expose them for the flimsy ideas that they have. So they can't allow any kind of pushback. And so that's why you get the treatment that I got from the listserv. But there's something else going on as well. And this something else derives from what's called critical pedagogy, which derives from critical theory, which is something that derives from a Marxist think tank called the Frankfurt School. And there is a very clear thread between that school and what's going on today. When I talk about it, I sound like a conspiracy theorist, but it's true. It's all there. And what's there is the idea that the point is to transform society. Society is bad. That's not an argument. Society's already bad. When it comes to cultural Marxism or race Marxism, society is racist. This situation is already racist. That's already decided. These students are downtrodden and they feel bad and they're victims and we need to liberate them. That's already decided. There's no conversation about that. If you want to have a conversation about that, you're a bad person who doesn't get it or you're suffering from false consciousness.
Steve McGuire: Right. Yeah. Right.
Erec Smith: And those students who want to learn standard English, but they're black, that's false consciousness.
Steve McGuire: Right, right. Right. So you're not offering a counterargument that deserves to be considered, you've just made an error that needs to be pointed out to you.
Erec Smith: Right.
Steve McGuire: Yeah.
Erec Smith: Right.
Steve McGuire: But it seems like at the end of the day then, it's motivated by something other than scholarly concern to know what's true. It's motivated by politics or you reference McWhorter and his idea that it's a religion, which would make it a kind of spiritual problem or theological problem, not just a political one. But that raises the existential stakes for people who adopt these views to such a level that it literally is harmful or even heretical to hear or consider other points of view. Does that seem fair to you to say?
Erec Smith: Well, yes. Because, as is true for many critical theorists and pedagogues, the point is to change society. The point is to transform it. And this comes straight from ... Marx said, "Philosophers have been describing the world, but the point is to change it." I mean, that sentiment is still alive and well and in various corners of academia. So when that's the main goal, what education becomes is a trojan horse for those ideas. So you have the equitable math whitepaper. Maybe I shouldn't say whitepaper. Recommendation report that basically turns a math class into social studies. You have questionable accounts of history that are formatted that way to support this narrative that supports the need to transform society. And Lenin gave this advice in the 1920s. He said, "It's not enough to just learn these ideas. You have to learn math in so far as it supports communism." History in so far as it supports communism. And that's going on right now. There's a leader in my field who thinks that black students who want to write in standard English are immature and selfish. Because their success in acquiring standard English will help them go out and probably be better equipped for certain jobs and be happy and successful and therefore maintain the status quo.
Steve McGuire: Right.
Erec Smith: Right. Happy and successful people don't revolt.
Steve McGuire: Yeah. It's very similar to Marx. Yeah. You don't want people to be just materially satisfied enough that they're not going to go out into the streets. Interesting. You've said your career pivoted since 2019. You're tackling this stuff head on now. So you must at least have some small hope that pushing back and arguing against these ideas could have some positive impact in the academy. At the same time, it seems like this is the pretty strong wave or series of waves that's washing over a lot of places in higher education in the United States. And a lot of people don't have, I think, much hope at least for the immediate future that we can really successfully push back on some of these ideas. What are your thoughts on that?
Erec Smith: Well, I'm done convincing the wokest of the woke. Or trying to anyway. They are now a catalyst for my thoughts on viewpoint diversity. And they're also an opportunity to model what it means to push back on these people and why, and that we don't have to accept their absurd ideas. There are people out there who are listening to these things and saying to themselves, "I must be missing something. This makes no sense, but it's my positionality that keeps me from understanding what's going on." No, no. You're seeing it correctly. It's absurd. It makes no sense. You're seeing it correctly. And I want to confirm that. I don't just want to confirm it. I want to confirm it and meticulously explain why it's the truth. I just want to be that voice out there. I want people to know that not everybody's buying this crap. So long story short, I'm done trying to convince people. I am trying to "save" people who haven't fallen into the woke abyss yet or are still trying to figure out what's going on. That's what I'm trying to do. And I want them to know that there are people out there like them, like me, who they can reach out to.
Steve McGuire: Right. Yeah. Yeah. And you seem to have a bit of ... You mentioned earlier at the beginning, something about that you were angry, I think, earlier when you went through what you went through in 2019, but now you seem to be able to laugh about it, joke about it. It at least appears to me like you have no compunction about just calling it like you see it and saying it flat out with no apology. Is that the case and how did you get there?
Erec Smith: Yes. That is the case. And I got there from ... I mean, initially, the pushback, I was like, "Wow. They must not really understand what I'm trying to say. If they'd only listen to me." When I realized that they're just living in this world that makes no sense whatsoever, then they became jokes to me. And that's what they remain. So when people try to call me out and mob me again like that, I get excited. I'm like, "Okay. Yay. All right, we're doing it again. All right. What idiocy are going to say now? What absurd ideas are they going to throw at me now?" So I take that attitude about it now, and it makes all the difference. It really does. If you can point out their absurdities and do it in a way that is amusing and memorable, then you can probably get a little bit farther with these ideas instead of always being serious or stern all the time. I mean, that's important too. But I mean, when somebody says something ridiculous, point out the ridiculousness. Yeah.
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lightdancer1 · 1 year
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False Consciousness is what makes Marxism a godless religion:
And a far less efficient godless religion than Confucianism, which was the core of one of the most successful systems in the history of systems for 2,000 years. It allows the Marxist to always be right, to never be in error, and to never have to account for the many, many ways the writing of a Prussian Lutheran in the 1840s Rhineland and Dickens's London doesn't work in an age of nuclear weapons, computers, and satellites that can see houses from space.
If an idea cannot be falsified then it operates on the premise of a religion and should be treated as such.
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cendrillonmedousa · 2 years
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What is false consciousness?
False consciousness describes the ways in which women and girls are misled within patriarchy to help maintain their oppression in society. For example, a "tradwife" gives up personal, physical, social, and financial freedom in order to embody the ideology of the white nationalist man. Her consciousness would be considered false because the goals of her husband do not benefit her.
Women and girls are inclined to disregard the true nature of sex relations because of belief in the possibility of social mobility. The belief in the possibility of social mobility is presuming that patriarchy always aims to choose desirable behavior. Otherwise, women and girls would not end up supporting choices antithetical to their own interests, such as supporting a misogynistic celebrity or promoting lip fillers to teenage girls.
A Marxist feminists would argue that women and girls need to develop greater class consciousness. If women and girls realize that they have the power to make things better, they could coordinate with each other and re-order society.
Consciousness, then, reflect a woman or girl's ability to politically identify and assert her will. Since we were and are raised on false consciousness, we have to practice consciousness raising.
Consciousness raising is as simple as women going around the room and talking about issues in our own lives. Women are isolated from each other, and as a result, many problems in women's lives are viewed as personal rather than systematic. Consciousness raising helps to better understand our oppression by bringing women together to discuss and analyze our lives in a female-only space.
Historically, consciousness raising groups would hold a weekly meeting in the living room of one of the members, where each woman would talk about a predetermined subject with no formal leader and few rules for discussion. First-hand knowledge was used as a basis for further discussion and analysis.
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aberration13 · 2 years
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Went to go see what leftist discourse is like on Reddit and got banned from two separate communism subreddits for a single comment where I dared to suggest that drugs and video games aren't going to magically disappear once socialism happens.
Surely these subreddits are moderated by real people who actually go outside sometimes and have a firm grasp of the world around them.
I miss being able to go hang out with real leftists in real life on the regular.
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the-happy-man · 1 year
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Class consciousness and false consciousness are concepts introduced by Karl Marx…
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seeminglyseph · 5 months
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My main problem with Sword Art Online is that now everyone forgot that .hack exists and did most of that shit first and better and was a video game series that was definitely like. Kinda cringe at times but like. Was also fun.
And also had people get trapped in the game and go into comas and shit and corrupt businesses and OP edgelord gamers in MMORPGs and also the AI souls of the dead possessing some glitched out monsters.
It’s a real fucking shame the anime adaptations never matched the quality of the games but they did have the highest quality soundtracks because .hack//SIGN has an OST by fucking Yuki Kajiura and it’s one of the best soundtracks of all time and if you love music go listen to the .hack//SIGN soundtrack right fucking now. The anime was mediocre, the soundtrack was fucking amazing.
.hack deserves better, so much stuff that SAO seems to get credit for originating was in .hack but more enjoyable. I wish they would rerelease the original 4 because they came out for the PS2 and are like. Expensive as fuck now. .hack//GU got a PS4 remaster I think and they are genuinely fun games I fully recommend I think it’s on steam too so you can play on PC?
They were fun and played with the idea of being trapped in a game and a greater conspiracy of computer corporations behind the scenes that was very early 2000s sci fi anime that was really fun.
If you follow the full .hack lore it all ties together in a really neat way like the main character of GU is Sora the edgelord goofy assassin character who turned out to be a child roleplaying as an assassin online in SIGN, who is still being kinda an edgelord like a decade later.
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bloodhound00 · 7 days
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meadow-dusk · 7 months
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if you learned Halloween singalong songs in elementary school / childhood reblog and tell me your favorite one 🎃
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biolums · 2 months
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obsessed with my prof having to give us a rundown on marxism bc its genuinely just not taught here. bro really sounded like he was missing the uk when he was saying how the left leaning people here are only ever liberals while theyre more often leftist in the uk
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women of color who have made indelible contributions to women’s liberation have often done so while chastising white women for being too man hating…lol. the in-group politics of racial/ethnic uplift (and its more radical counterparts), of religion, of immigration-status and class-as-identity often result in the kind of performance of loyalty and sacrifice (and pedestaling as reward) that you see in nationalism and jingoism. that’s why you see conservative, upper class evangelical women like phyllis schlafy and socialist, secular, radical women like frances beale both make appeals to the need to defend their men against overly manhating feminism, and the need for women to stand by their men and present a united front against the Them or They that seek to assault the Us. it’s how you have expectations of purity in one’s dating life, marriage, and child rearing in all kinds of communities such as these, and opposition to or sharp criticism of birth control and abortion (because the family is of the utmost importance!). neoliberal multiculturalism has only made the false consciousness of racialized and minoritized women worse, and i don’t even like the idea of false consciousness
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agp · 3 months
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people will talk shit about others singularizing the holocaust as distinct from genocide in general to advance zionist interests but no one seems to care when people singularize genocide as distinct from conflict to advance bourgeois and settler interests.
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greenycrimson · 1 year
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"The difference, according to Slavoj Žižek, between the way ideology used to work and the way it works now is that we used to accept it at face value. Now our naïveté has been replaced by a cynical awareness - what he calls the "paradox of an enlightened false consciousness." We see the gap between reality and the distorted representation of reality, and we understand it's lying to us. We don't renounce it, we just note that we are noting it. We mock it. Susan J. Douglas talks about a similar shift in feminism in her book The Rise of Enlightened Sexism. If you grew up in the seventies and eighties, then you thought of yourself as living in a postfeminist world. You solved the problem of living in a sexist world that pretended not to be sexist anymore by noticing it in quotation marks and not caring, by detaching and shrugging it off as though it were all a joke, or unreal." - You Play The Girl, Carina Chocano
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