Of all the days a celebrity could have chosen to come to tumblr, destiel eve is certainly a Choice
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on this sacred Destiel Is Canon Day, I'd like to give a shout out to the wildest sidebar chat of all time on one of my posts
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the way that cas's true happiness wasn't in dean loving him back.
it was just being in love with him.
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You know what I find really fascinating about the destiel confession? The entire discourse about if it's canon or not.
Let's ignore those who say Cas's speech wasn't romantic love for the purposes of this post (though I beg them to try to limitus test I've seen of giving that speech to a platonic friend or relative and it not being uncomfortably weird).
I'm talking about how the argument I've seen, both by Destiel shippers and non-shippers it isn't canon if Dean never responded.
And like yeah - that's fascinating.
First because it means everyone has their own definition of canon. Is it someone confessing their love to the person they're in love with? Is it both parties confessing? Is it a physical action like a kiss or sex? Do you have to have both the love confession and the physical act or will only one suffice? Is it someone acknowledging to themselves or another 3rd party their love for someone even if it's not to the person in question?
We all have our own definition of canon intrinsically and this one happens to fall in an incredibly loose gray area.
And that's because there's the other limbo of this confession in Dean's lack of response. I actually can think of no other example of a show that does anything like this (though if they exist I'd love to know). Any other show would have something definitive at some point of Dean acknowledging the sentiment. Dean confessing back. Dean telling Cas he loves him, but as a friend. Dean telling someone after Cas's death he was in love with Cas. Dean being confused by Cas's confession and him dealing with that love after the fact that he doesn't share. Dean acknowledging afterwards he doesn't know how he feels about Cas's confession. Quite literally - any verbal acknowledgement either during or after the fact this confession happened.
And it doesn't exist. It's Schrodinger's confession. Or maybe Schrodinger's response. We all (Destiel shippers) assume the cat is dead because all evidence points to the fact (it's been in the box 3 years after all). But there are factions pointing to the lack of proof because it isn't official because we haven't looked in the box. And frankly, a lot of people would love to look in the box, find out definitively, but it's not an option on the table. The box isn't in our hands to check.
So instead we treat it like a knock of "Shave and a haircut" without the two knock response. If there's a call, there has to be a response. And we all fill in what we assume the last two knocks are based on our own individual definitions of canon and fight over why our knocks don't match someone else's.
And, on top of that, Cas's confession is all about the being and not having. We can be in the moment and enjoy this ship is canon. But we also can't actually have it (it being a concrete response, a kiss, a happy ending) as much as Cas couldn't. It's prophetic - breaking the 4th wall by accident - it's something almost not quite nothing - regardless there's something about the parallel here that's telling about the ship itself.
So yes, while the shipper in me is eternally torn between this being somehow both terrible and great, the English major/secret TV critic in me finds this terribly fascinating.
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could y’all please help me find a meme
i’ve seen a multitude of destiel goes cannon memes since that first november 5th three years ago, but one really stands above the rest and i don’t think i have it saved
it was a meta meme, castiel says “i love you” as he always does, but dean comments on how he’s stuck in this meme. always having to rely information of mostly terrible world events, that he never gets to reciprocate. or something close to that, the basic point was that dean is stuck in this meme and has felt the weight of these years and is finally ready to reciprocate those feelings.
please does someone know what i’m talking about?
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Happiness
Today my dash is overwhelmingly Destiel and I love it!
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november 5th is an absolutely insane day bc. Not only is it a british national holiday where we Celebrate a failed attack on parliament ,, it is also Superhell american Election putin. resigned Oh No He Didn’t day? who Decided that Today would be the day of batshit Events
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