#desisapphic

[janersm]

Fat shaming anyone is inexcusable. Fat shaming someone with an eating disorder is unforgivable.

#disordered eating mention #fatphobia #fat shaming #terfs dni #anti terf #radfems dni #anti swerf #anti exclusionary #anti radfem #ableism #mental illness #mental health #mental health stigma #lanasbestdealer #femaleserialkillers #desisapphic #fat anorexic #fat bulimic #anorexia #bulimia #binge eating disorder #nickiminajsglock

[anti-terf-posts]

Can i share a few terfs you should block?? I remember seeing @/desisapphic who is just the most vile terf/biphobe/acephobe ever. If you can even stand to look at her posts you would puke. (She also keeps telling people to kys so really proceed with caution) Also @/sowhatnotcreative. Plus people like @/disillusionedmonster. Pls be wary of these folks they are just animals atp. My favourite way of blocking terfs is just going thru the "lgb drop the t" tags as well as all the "radfems do touch", "radfems do interact"," trans cult" and other such tags and just blocking them.

tysm for the bocklist!

#asks #ready-freddie #blocklist

[toxoplasmewsis]

Do you have rf les blogs you recommend?

Not all of them are rfs, some of them are just lesbians who are chilling

@nansheonearth is the one i'd recommend if you want to stay in the loop with radfem stuff going on in the US. She posts about lesbian specific and general all-woman events. @kittyit and @weary4u are both cool people and good for finding resources on detransitioners.

Keeping track of stuff on tumblr I think @menalez is good for knowing who to avoid. For some reason @kronkk also gets a lot of weirdos coming at her and you can probably see who to avoid just based on who's being weird around her.

If you want lesbians with teeth there's @desisapphic @tervaes and @normallesbian

If you want to enter a completely different world that is not rf related and you're a fan of MCR then @butchviking or @bugjolteon. If you want to follow one of the last surviving freakfems who is really into old ladies theres @radidoe

ummmm i have a lot more but i'm too shy to tag more people now also idk who is crypto and who isn't so i don't want to get anyone into issues by tagging them lol

edit: from the comments drachenstochter too c: for rf recs

#some of my mutuals i simply cannot post about for this reason! #and some of you have half accounts so i'm like oh god what if i tag the wrong account #yea :3

[femmesandhoney]

Your fav "chill" tumblr accounts?

I feel burnt out by radfem content and need a break

i'll just list some of my favorite blogs who don't stick to just feminist stuff or their quirks and their personalities are interesting to me and who break up my feed. this isn't to say they don't often post feminist content, since this blog was created away from my old main blog, but yeah ✌️

some i enjoy are @sportsbianism @sapphicgem @giftinguava @bratgore @pussyinhalerr @butchlesbianz @rusalkam @desisapphic @grinderhash @painwithoutinjury @neuralsircuit

#this blog and my dash and who i follow are mostly all feminists and interesting women sorry 😅 #hard to escape radfem stuff on my dash overall bc this isnt my fandom blog lol

[menalez]

desisapphic was not the one who said semen makes women dumber. it was a different lesbian who isn’t a radfem. maybe don’t lie because you dislike someone?

it seems some ppl are determined to make us hate each other / go against each other for some reason

#perhaps that’s why i got no receipts too

[kittenorgans]

Rules: Tag 10 people you’d like to get to know better

Tagged by @dorohenka 💕💝

Relationship status: single

Favorite color: purple

Song stuck in my head: salvatore lana del rey

Last song listened to: salvatore orchestral cover

Last googled: purpose of a medically induced coma (lol)

Dream Trip: USA especially the south and alaska 🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅, mexico, colombia, brasil (scuba diving and sharks), peru, caribbean (people & food!!!).. also vietnam, cambodia (the tomb from tomb raider is there), morocco, tanzania (animals and mount kilimanjaro) iran 🇮🇷 when it’s safer

Anything I want now: money LMAO and a driver’s license

i tag @victoriassecretagent @desisapphic @deadgeisha @newmiu @gruncheon @dolvenchy @pivovarovah @encoffin @covenings @desaturating7 sorry if i forgot ppl

[oneblackbraid]

Tagged by @thecoloredcanvas thank you! (identifiable/phishable information left blank)

Rules: tag 10 people you’d like to get to know better!

Favorite Color:

Currently Reading: Ten Arguments For Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now by Jaron Lanier

Last Song Listened To:

Last Series Watched: Paper Girls (bring it back whitey)

Last Film watched: DC Superpets

Sweet/Spicy/Savory: savory

Currently Working On: letting myself take a day off

Tagging @justheretolurk23 @senorjaded @desisapphic

and I don’t even know who’s on here anymore, so hop in this train!

#you down with obb

[bulldyke-rider]

did desisapphic deactivate too or am i just blocked?

@sapphicdessi she's among us

[janersm]

Every hashtag that an ableist, aphobic, biphobic TERF has made about me (so far) because she didn’t like that I said relationships involving bisexual people are inherently queer & told her not to call me bihet.

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#get a life you fucking loser #you're harassing me in my inbox like an insecure pathetic baby and self-victimizing yourself #and lying #who actually experiences oppression and vitriol is homosexuals #wah being told im privileged is oppression and hate #you're calling all gays hateful and evil saying they oppress you for being in het relationships Imao #you think sexuality is based on gender and not biological sex bc ur homophobic #once again by this logic straight men are gay if they date bi women and lesbians are het if they date bi women #stfu #stop erasing ppl bc you wanna be oppressed so bad #white woman cringe #gays have it easier because when they get hate crimed at least they know their entire sexual orientation #we're so lucky #for being validated before getting killed and beaten <3 #you can tell which bis have been w women be at least some of them will acknowledge the privilege they have when with men but still very few #and ive seen other bis dogpile them and accuse them of having internalized biphobia for saying they have privilege when dating and marrying #men #the white ppl of sexuality tbh

#can u imagine if you told a straight man he is feminine and in a feminine relationship or some shit for dating a woman #thats how crazy you sound #closest kinda of analogy i can think of at 4am #jfc #stop oppressing me for having a bf my relationship is gay so treat me like a gay person if you don't it's discrimination and erasure #but also according to her #heterosexual relationships are gay #braindead comment #i face the most homophobia bc i have a bf it's true #sorry gayz #???? #liberal brainrot #just switch words around and call it oppression #why are liberals all so narcisstic and toxic #they're so obsessed with telling minorities they are privileged and finding a way to say they aren't privileged be they think oppression is #fun and being privileged is boring #white as hell but acting like they're the biggest anti racists or anti oppression while they perpetuate it and deny their privileges and #intersections of their privileges #she's gonna say she's authority on racism now bc i can't say trans ideology and community is racist and white #w their own white supremacists

#and according to her the nasty gays (dirty perveted genital fetishists) and the monosexuals (straights) are harming the most oppressed and #neglected 'minorities' asexuals and bisexuals #imagine equating bisexual struggles to asexuals Imaooo #yikes #a self drag #don't erase yourself then complain :)) #stop saying hetero relationships are gay :)) #everytime a bi person says they're gay you're committing homophobia and erasure of two groups of people :)) #one of whom who faces real oppression for their sexuality #hint it's not the woman w the bf #she thinks she's authority on lesphobia/ homophobia then calls all gays biphobic privileged oppressors #even poc understand we have different struggles and privileges #it's so funny #how pathetic they are #so offended by having privilege #if you're gonna call yourself gay and your straight relationship gay #complaining about bihet is so hypocrital #i didn't even just say she's het Imao #i was gonna write up a post about this but it feels like a good place to discuss this #bi women just keep slapping us in the face acting like this and saying shit like this

#homegirl also said i ruined her sleep and made her take more meds #i didn't force you to stalk n harass me #i had this post so long i had to cut down so much of what i said #god she's annoying af #such a manipulative sad pathetic person obsessed with being a liberal victim #while she's literally mutals with TYGRESS #why can't they ever talk about how homophobic and misogynistic they are #i feel like for one thing #truly if bis stopped acting like women are just for fucking or not real partners / people for not being men then things would be different #i have a butch lesbian friend in kentucky #it's more unsafe to be a poc #anyway #bisexuals stop gasligting gay people challenge #she said she was going to bed and now she's watching her phone and refreshing my blog every second #YOU'RE CREEPY #looks like white men are rubbing off on you too much #your disability doesn't make you homophobic or a creepy stalker #that's 100% you #you're so creepy tbh #i dont think you know how blocking works #you literally brought it up as an abusive tactic to control a minority Imao when it isn't relevant

#to deflect from accountability and silence them #white behaviour #next you'll say being gay is an excuse to be racist #stfu #you're so obsessed with what ithink #it's really funny #you think lesbians can have dicks or like dick #you're pro conversion therapy #stay away from women but you probably will anyway thankfully #the fact you care so much what i think while speaking over me #if i acted like you a decade from now #at your age #yikesss #you're straight up stalking me and harassing me at this point Imao #<3 #you wanna play the liberal oppression card when you're a homophobic moron #i'm also a brown woman #so stfu #YOU STILL HAVE ME BLOCKED AND YOU'RE ENGAGING #HOW PATHETIC ARE YOU? #liberal cringe #gaslighting queen <3 #no patience #ur 95 percent and higher in het relationships exclusively #shut the fuck up #you don't know what vitrol or hate or oppression is #thats why you talk like this and act like #being hatecrimed makes you privileged <3 #i mean the gays practically do by denying my relationship isn't gay #so funny….they use the world queer

#by funny i mean sick #A SLUR AIMED AT HOMOSEXUALS FOR BEING GAY #WHO DIED OFTEN AFTER HEARING THAT WORD OR GETTING BEATEN TO NEAR DEATH #haha my relationship is queer <3 ur not even GAY ur bi and never date women or seriously #then you complain erasure #racist/homophobic/ misogynistic content my bi heart <3 #says people some get treated worse but then denies privilege #bc funny who is it they argue who always have privilege? FEMALES AND HOMOSEXUALS #NOT BISEXUALS AND MALES #B & T community are evil #males and osa are the most oppressed and females/ homosexuals are the most privileged <3 #what is gay privilege #you can't name one #bc it doesn't exist #if you deemed content biphobic you'd lose ur shit and never watch it tho #but heterophobic content doesn't exist :)) #and i'm every single terf when i'm not even a radfem #i think this drama is really funny tbh #you might as well be bc ur all cliche and homophobic #cry #if you cared about being productive you wouldn't be here

#it's so funny how your media consumption is literally all about misogynistic/ homophobic/racist white men #it's funny how cliche you are #you're so mad that i have a brain and you don't #keep crying <3 #talking about homophobic people and calling them out is doing something also tbh #you're such a hypocrite #you think you're fighting heterophobia #but you're just homophobic #spreading bs #you're really narcissistic and manipulative <3 #i'm glad you don't have a gf #you're homophobic and are obsessed with victimizing yourself #there is no such thing as discrimination for opposite sex attraction #it's a privilege #how aren't het women more offended that bi women act like they're suffering so much bc of het woman while y'all live the same lifestyles #for the rest of your lives... #oh right it's that homophobic pact. #they seem to have #remember when a bisexual woman married to a man said she was JEALOUS of gay men at pride #your pride is there everyday every second of your life and rewarded and centred #privileged #ifcc

#you're erasing gay people and being a hypocrite #and you're erasing straight people #so funny you're so pissed off youre called out on how stupid you are you're stalking my blog #if you were so confident you wouldn't take me seriously #you're in a privileged relationship #you have osa privilege #your relationship is straight even if you aren't #you're gonna call gays and straights bis #then don't whine when you feel erased #calling ur relationship het isn't even erasure #biphobia isn't real #you just think heterophobia is real and that gays oppress you #run to your boyfriend and cry how some actual gay person thinks you aren't oppressed #this is the straightest bio i've ever read #you can tell which bis have been w women bc at least some of them will acknowledge the privilege they have when with men but still very few #and ive seen other bis dogpile them and accuse them of having internalized biphobia for saying they have privilege when dating and marrying #men #the white ppl of sexuality tbh #can u imagine if you told a straight man he is feminine and in a feminine relationship or some shit for dating a woman

#thats how crazy you sound #closest kinda of analogy i can think of at 4am #jfc #stop oppressing me for having a bf my relationship is gay so treat me like a gay person if you don't it's discrimination and erasure #why are bihets like this... #holy shit #my straight relationship is gay/queer and if you don't agree you're heterophobic]

She has her friends monitoring my blog and encourages people in posts to bother me, but accuses me of stalking and harassing her when I haven’t said a damn thing to her in weeks. The only reason I even go to her blog is to make sure I have blocked every single person who she’s talking shit about me with & encouraging to come after me.

Also, who even is tygress? And how does she know who I’m mutuals with? My following list is private.

#desisapphic #the terfs are not alright #ableism #mental health stigma #biphobia #homophobia #aphobia #acephobia #queer #queer pride #lgbtq #bisexuality #bisexual #bi erasure #stigma

[anti-terf-posts]

just so you know the fucking disgusting terf @desisapphic seems to be gone.

oh thank god

#asks #anon #god mention

[gothe]

tagged by @desisapphic

relationship status: single

favorite color: none

song stuck in my head: none

last song i listened to: lost in my bedroom by sky ferreira

favorite foods: mexican & east asian cuisine .. tacos, kung pao chicken, bulgogi beef, san sebastian cake

last thing i googled: how much protein in one egg white

dream trip: japan

anything i want right now: to work out but it’s a rest day

[femmesandhoney]

where did desisapphic go? i left radblr for a few months and cant find her anymore:(

i believe she's sapphicdessi now if she didn't change it up

[menalez]

"but i disagree with ur argument that it’s like. an accepted and normal thing. again, the majority of radblr are bisexuals, the ppl who were prejudiced against bisexuals in such a blatant way were always criticised and being called out and i know this bc i’ve been on here for years at this point and had personally called out many of those ppl who were already basically pariahs outside their own little radblr cliques."

what does it being mostly bisexuals have to do with anything? lots of bisexuals hate other bisexuals most of all. like that imdb person that said bi rape victims are just whiners trying to play 'most oppressed' if they talk about biphobia or that drpepperwoman that said bi victims of abuse shouldn't complain because she as het-partnered bi doesnt feel oppressed so the rest of us must be exaggerating or lying. And plenty of people encourage them and tell them how cool and awesome they are for "standing up" to other bisexuals. Lots of non-bisexuals encourage them.

I don't know how you can think it's not an accepted and normal thing because that is entirely different from my experience. plenty of people that were very friendly with the blackpills are still around and popular, like that like-a-ruby, tenko-irl, desisapphic, lesbian-king-kai and lots of people that reblog from them too less vocally. it's not like I now most of the names tbh only the ones I have seen repeatedly over time. Or like kronkk throwing a tantrum and saying she doesn't care about the blackpills and that they're right and she "loves mean lesbians" and then deleting all those posts when other lesbians started to react badly. or people like piqued-curiosity who say she disagrees with them but always goes out of her way to defend then and say they need compassion and healing, then passes around essays calling bi women dick worshipers and saying bi rape victims are just weaponizing abuse and she calls it insightful and smart, and that rape victims just need to learn critical thinking skills and not zero in on that because those aren't the parts that matter. No one seems to understand that we have every right to get mad at people like her that treat our abuse like an acceptable target even if they claim to disagree with it. And there's weird borderline shit like heterophobic saying she thinks most people are really bisexuals, and heterosexuals are also a sexual minority, basically saying homophobia is the fault of bisexuals because they are the majority and they enforce it. It can't just be that heterosexuals are manipulative and homophobic liars, it must be they are bisexual. Or her saying bisexuals don't experience the core of homophobia, so I guess when we're raped and abused thats some het bullshit that doesnt have to do with real homophobia. Or the lots of women that say weird shit about bi men, anything from that sports are homophobic only because of bi men, to saying bi men need to be exterminated because they hurt all other demographics. Bi women are not stupid we can see that's biphobia that will carry against us too if it was more acceptable.

and most of all maybe you don't see it because radblr is huge, it's not like just you and your followers, it's several circles with sometimes only tiny overlaps. I often dont see these lesbophobes or know who they are until you reblog them to call them out either but that doesn't mean I don't believe you that they're a problem in other circles. maybe you simply don't know the people passing bullshit around bi women all the time but that doesn't mean its not tolerated in some groups. And most of all just like lesbophobia, homophobia, and racism are still a problem I don't know why you think homophobia against bi people was magically solved. Of course its there just like all the rest.

okay after i read this message i now understand that the reason u don’t see them as a fringe group is bc you consistently read things said by both bisexual women & lesbians you disagree with in the most uncharitable and bad faith way possible bc i know some of the stuff you referenced and it wasn’t as you described it

[morallygay]

Hi ppl idk if you have seen her but there’s this crazy woman « desisapphic» who won’t stop stalking blogs and then go « why are the bi so obsessed with me😭 » she’s a raging biphobic incel among other things and post unhinged rants about it (and also very entitled). Block and report just in case even if she’s not worth your time

Indeed! Thanks for the ask, if anyone sees this please go do that too

#asks #also a terf which obviously isn’t surprising

[janersm]

If you think it’s safe to be out in Alabama just because it’s in the U.S. or in the west, then let me remind you it’s still fucking Alabama. This week a middle school teacher at a school a few miles from my house was harassed & threatened over a joke he made while in drag at a fundraiser for a charity.

#the terfs are not alright #biphobia #bi erasure #desisapphic #alabama

[janersm]

“you're literally hitting refresh instead of "going to bed'”

I literally cannot sleep when people start drama after I’ve taken my meds, thus I took more meds. But I’ve been in bed the whole time.

Also, every response you made included a little more bigotry, which I then reported to Tumblr for biphobia and ableism.

#desisapphic #the terfs are not alright #biphobia #bi erasure #ableism #lgbtq #tumblr #gatekeeping