#but also is it rude to ignore them?

[dinosaur-mayonnaise]

three way emails are so ANNOYING

you add a third person and suddenly none of the regular social rules apply.

and don't even get me STARTED on cc's. i can never be a corporate girlie bc to me these are the horrors.

#are you meant to say 'dear all'? #are you meant to name the two other people? #who knows #if one of the people reply to your email saying only 'dear [y/n] do you reply back saying only 'dear [their name]'??? #do you still include the third person in the 'send to' option? #or do they get downgraded to 'cc'? #and what if the other two people are having a conversation without you but still including you in the email #are you meant to acknowledge them? #bc i always find 'yes i've received this' emails such a waste of time #but also is it rude to ignore them? #but also are you intruding on their conversation if they're talking amongst themselves? #but also would they still send it to you if they didn't want you to reply? #or do they just want you to be a passive observer? #don't even get me started on when YOU'RE the one cc'd in #let alone being bc'd in #pain torture agony #i hate this someone needs to burn outlook #let's go back to handwritten letters through carrier pigeon #or better yet telegrams which charge by the letter so you don't have to bother with pleasantries

[senselessalchemist]

ahhh fuckit why not - halloween comic in november

(apologies for inconsistent quality)

#saroart #dead cells #the beheaded #the collector #its a halloween comic #which is just an excuse for mild shipping #and to draw a pair of kids belonging to whatever species the apprentice/blacksmith/etc belong to #the collector is very rude here #tsking at him #but at least he gave them a knife #also just ignore things like where did the knife go #dont worry about it!!

[finncakes]

i like to think they patch eachother up a lot since they always seem to be looking out for one another...

bonus kiss-a-roo for ashton under the cut :]

#ashrym #idk why i always keep my ashrym art outta the main tag #i think it's cause the few times i have i get some rude tags that make me feel bad #i don't think they mean to be rude but man. they really are. #anyway they've been on my mind. unsurprisingly. #thinking specifically abt orym saying smth ashton did was sweet and ash did not respond to it seemingly flustered (if i remember right) #and also haunted by the fact that ashton frequently rolls their eyes when orym talks abt dorian. methinks they're jealous 👀 #these tWO. making me go bonkers. i want them to become canon so BAD now....the potential is SO GOOD. please... #liam taliesin i am begging you.....tanks in love tanks in love tanks in love #also ignore how weirdly massive orym's head is in the second pic -_-

[neverevan]

I think every fandom has that one incredibly popular fic that is just downright terrible, but you can't say anything because it'd be rude, so you just watch everyone fawn over it and hope no one ever asks you about it

#we all know which one anyway #steddie #spideypool #marauders #wolfstar #hannibal #hannigram #also please never leave rude comments on fics or complain about them #if it's not for you ignore it #but authors write for free out of passion #sometimes things get popular even if they aren't good and that's just life #think about twilight or 50 shades lol #fandom #random #ramblings

[littlecutiexox]

I got horrible sleep last night so if I'm snappy today besties this is why

#I got cute asks but also super rude asks and usually im okay ignoring them but today its a struggle #i need to sleep #imma finish my work quickly #put happy tunes on #and play more breath of the wild

[hxhhasmysoul]

Lines and People

Tag as many people as there are lines in your excerpt. @cursedvibes thank you for the tag!

after a long while of feeling really drained i managed to put the first lines in chapter 9 of my royalty/harem sukuita fic.

“Yes, everyone is shocked that I’m not my lover’s prisoner.” Yuuji bristled. Not because the General knew his true name. He just still didn’t know how to behave when people showed him reverence. Especially people who held unquestionable power and who he used to report to.

I'm tagging (only if you feel like it :D): @ishouldgetatumbler, @voidcat-senket, @dodici12, @yuujispinkhair, @mysterypond, @dream-of-tanalorr

#my trash writing #tag games #cursedvibes is keeping me honest with these prompts #like if i don't actually sit down and write i have nothing to show for it #but i'm also like #oh no a friend tagged me it'd be rude to ignore them #they thought about me #they are so nice #XD

[heartsofminds]

being 21 is one of the most humbling ages ever like it’s always SOMETHING! literally always fucking SOMETHING!!! 🤩🤭

#this tag is legit just me complaining so ignore it lol #but my shitty brother having a shitty gf and always disrespecting my boundaries about her always being over at our apartment #her not liking me or his friends that are also my friends is the biggest red flag if I’ve ever seen one #and her causing drama with my parents and them putting me in the middle between them and my sibling #not to mention they’ve all been so mean to me lately! #also my dad’s side of the fam has been showing their true colors with me suddenly being an 'adult' but yet still too naive to know anything #and my friends using me for ranting and nothing else! 🤩 #and the guy I liked not even having the decency to tell me he’s not into me and just leaving me on seen #like what is up with people just being mean and rude??? #my heart is literally breaking and being tap danced on and no one seems to care #I’m being a huge baby about it but i have feelings too #literally need to curl up into a ball with a heated blanket and cozy pjs and a bradley there to snuggle me and put all his weight on me #but alas! i’ll have to settle for a shitty throw blanket and my pjs ripping apart at the seams #god I just love it here!!! (obvious sarcasm if you can’t tell from the nature of this post)

[byanyan]

i'm actually like, so fond of this mental image in my head of byan, who has 0 patience and has a hard time sitting through activities they don't enjoy, just letting sol lead them around a museum or a bookstore by the hand despite both of these locations being ones they tend to avoid. yeah, they're in and out on how much they're paying attention, probably playing a game on their phone or something for at least half of it, but they're there and they're listening to him talk about the stuff that interests him and trying to find some of it interesting for themself, and that's honestly so far beyond the effort they typically put in to another person's hobbies & interests... says a lot about just how much he means to them and it gives me a lot of feelings tbh

#answered the ask an hour ago and i'm still just sitting here with my chin in my hands as i continue to think about it #and it could seem like. disrespectful or rude to spend half of the time their on their phone #but i see it more as them WANTING to be there with him; WANTING to have a good time with him doing what he likes; #but also knowing that they'll get frustrated and crabby if they don't have something to busy themself with #and actively wanting to avoid that BECAUSE they want him to have a good time & they want to be there with him #bc it's not like they'd even be ignoring him and everything around them... they're listening & they're present #they just also need a little extra stimulus #idk idk i'm rambling i'm just. i'm still thinkin about it i think it's v cute #━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ ooc ⋮ don't @ me.

[aroaessidhe]

libby added a bunch of new releases. i blacked out and when i came to some bad decisions had been made

#i don’t like to hoard books in libby for days it feels rude #but also…..my holds are full so if i didn’t borrow them immediately i’d have to wait forever…… #i’ll just read fast… (let’s ignore the presence of the 700 page fantasy) #laya talks

[nocylipcowa]

honestly, i don't mind tourists but the next time an english speaking guy comes to my station and asks me 'how are you' i want them to explode on the spot

like i know a proper answer is 'im fine, thank you' but also fuck you fuck you for forcing me to tell you how great im feeling because im not. please die <3

#for some reason i kept writing hoe instead of how. hoe indeed #another interesting case was an english speaking guy who just ignored my hello and just went for cześć. no dude you are not cute #i havent drunk vodka with you and im not going to #i also love when people just dont say anything no hello etc so i assume they are english but no that was just a rude pole but kind enough #to say thanks in our mothertongue <3 riiight #and dont remind me about people choosing teacups jesus fucking christ #i want to beat them all with a stick #txt

[healingheartdogs]

People who don't know dog body language who have pushy sketchy dogs are so awful to be around. I told our housemates that their dog Klaus doesn't like me when we went out to watch the eclipse earlier today because I didn't want to go in the fenced yard with him out and they were like "oh no he's fine don't worry." When he saw me he charged up to the fence, high flagged tail, snorting and barking and jumping at the fence and they still were like "oh he's friendly, he just wants to smell you, see his tail is wagging". Like my dude... tail wagging does not mean friendly, and what about the noises he's making rn sounds friendly to you?

Selene's sister grabbed him and I thought she was going to take him inside because she acted like she was going to, but instead she stopped halfway and just held him back while I came into the yard and then let him go to run up and sniff me, which he had very stiff body language the entire time he did so. For a while after that he ignored me because of the kids calling him away and was chill, but still kept coming over and sniffing me occasionally and was very tense each time so I just tried to stay calm and sweet talk him and didn't try to touch him to help defuse the situation.

Then I walked a little away from the group to point out a plant in the yard to Selene's mom which was a mistake because once I was out of the little circle we were standing in he started body blocking me, tense face, stiff body, whale eyeing, and then jumping at me and barking. They tried to call him away and were like "oh he's just trying to get you to play, sorry he's so demanding of attention." I started trying to walk toward the gate to leave because he very much was NOT trying to get me to play and I did not feel confident in their ability to control him, and he immediately did it again. And again they tried to call him away. And I got maybe another two steps before he turned right back around and did it again. And they called him away again saying he was just trying to play. Rinse and repeat for a total of like six times of him body blocking me, tense and whale eyeing, and then jumping at me and barking. All while they're just laughing like "Sorry, Klaus just really loves playing". Dudes your dog is actually behaving aggressively toward me right now, please get control over him so I can leave he is NOT TRYING TO PLAY WITH ME.

This is the second time I've been invited into the yard while Klaus was out and the first time they kept telling me the same thing but he was actually following me around growling at me then and they were still like "oh it's just cuz he doesn't know you yet, he'll warm up to you, he's friendly". YOUR DOG IS SKETCHY. I DONT WANT TO INTERACT WITH HIM. HE DOESN'T LIKE ME. PLEASE JUST PUT HIM INSIDE WHEN I'M IN THE YARD WITH Y'ALL. And PLEASE learn some dog body language because nothing about his right now says "friendly" at all!!!!! Not even a little!!!! TAIL WAGGING DOES NOT MEAN FRIENDLY, ESPECIALLY A HIGH FLAGGED TAIL.

#i will not be going back into the yard while he is out #i only did this time because they made it seem like they were going to put him inside #but then didn't #i do not trust that dog #and they are oblivious and just laughing while he is actively menacing me #cant tell them shit about it though because they act like we're criticizing their parenting if we do and get offended #and then be like 'well your dogs are out of control so what do you know' because my dogs bark at strangers #like... okay your dog growls at and menaces strangers???? mine just bark at strangers who talk to them and try to rile them up #and i dont correct them for that because its not worth correcting and also not their fault #your dog is actually dangerous and you dont have control over him #my dogs are not dangerous and when i tell them to be quiet and get inside they do #so who doesnt have control huh???? #theyre just mad because theyre the strangers my dogs bark at sometimes and since i dont like how they interact with my dogs i allow it #because they are rude as fuck and do not respect my dogs' boundaries at all #and think that dogs shouldnt be allowed to have boundaries because they should be 'kid safe“ which really means shut down from punishment #thats how they are with klaus which is a big part of why i dont trust him too #because they have created a dog who gets punished for setting boundaries so that the kids can 'safely' climb all over him and annoy him #and to me that is a recipe for a dog that doesnt give a lot of warning before becoming aggressive because hes been punished for it #i do not trust dogs who have been punished for having boundaries #and i dont trust their owners either #also them doing that means their kids think they can do whatever they want to dogs and interact very rudely with them #so i dont let their kids interact with my dogs at all now because even with me constantly correcting them they ignore me and are rude #and that definitely is something theyre also salty about because their kids want to play with my dogs #and they also want my dogs to play with Klaus and there is mo way in hell I'd allow that which they also dont like #hes an intact bully who they have admitted can be 'really fiesty' with other dogs #and Hermes is an intact male who seems to have a 'kick me“ sign on him for other dogs and i just wont risk it #and it drives them crazy that i dont trust their strange dog not to be aggressive to my dogs and wont let them all be 'friends' #DOGS DONT NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH STRANGE DOGS THEY DONT KNOW OR LIVE WITH #I hate ignorant pet owners that make their ignorance my problem #rant

[steampunk-raven]

every fandom ive been in always has people who engage in so much fandom discourse and like 9 times out of 10 I fully agree with their opinion but they’re just. so mean about it

#how can someone be so mean that i (person who literally agrees with them) feel hurt? #kinda fucked up if you ask me #why are there people like this in EVERY fandom. why is that #also these are the same people who start the discourse. they say they aren’t but they’re always the ones who make vague rude posts about #random posts in the general tag that they are probably just not the target audience for #in most of the fandoms ive been in it was just kids like that which still sucks but also sometimes it’s adults? which is so weird to me? #why are people like this why do people CHOOSE to be mean #I mean for some of it it was because it was on twitter and twitter is Twitter but still why do people have to be mean on there #I have not looked at that wretched site for YEARS now and holy shit is my fandom experience (and life in general) is better for it #this is. kind of a vent i guess? i’ll tag it as one just in case lol #vent #also ive blocked all these people lol dw #I guess some i don’t have blocked because they make funny shitposts and aren’t SUPER mean but I ignore them when they’re not being funny #which is usually easy enough

[bishonenspit]

just a reminder it's my personal preference that my scans (and artwork but that's another topic entirely) aren't reposted at all especially to another tumblr blog thank you xo

#reblogs are great and okay but i don't see the need to repost the same scans to your own blog and then put them into the tags again. #i don't need to scan nor do i even need to post my scans #i do it purely for the sake of digitalizing and archiving old artwork that i like and also often times spent my own money to get access to #if this happens i will just politely comment but if you ignore me or delete my comment i will just block you sorry! (just happened. twice) #it is a super simple boundary of mine to follow it really is not asking a lot #like please let's just chill and get along and don't. ignore people when they request something of you to do with their stuff yk it's. rude #idk is this me being stuck up or prissy or..? i feel like this isn't such a big deal to ask but what do i know. idk

[katranga]

the dryad and the wood woad from the conjure woodland being spell are lesbians. i hope we're all on the same page with that

#every time they die i'm like ugh it's the bury your gays trope askjhd #also i wish i could talk to them!!! or shake their hand or something #feels so rude to ignore them #bg3 #bg3 text post #kat speaks

[genekies]

screaming in the club

time for another vent in tags

#so i was joking and i thought it came through but im also dumb and autistic and my jokes dont always cross. sO #i was joking about one of my roomates not seeing Nightmare Before Christmas before bc i was showing 2 of them my picture vinyl of it and whe #n one of them said they never saw it i said “but you were a loser on tumblr in the 2010s wdym” and their fiance was just rude to me and i th #ought it was clearly a joke but ig not and they lowley attacked me for it? im just?? i tried to clarify that i was joking and they know im a #utistic. hell the one i was joking to is also autistic but idk so now i feel like utter shit especially after all i did today thst juet drai #ned me. ive been trying to fix our 2nd shower. i had a meeting. i had an extremely hard therapy session. and i showered today. its been hell #like i am trying to get thru relapsing on SH and my ED and ofc they dont know but that shit made it worse and i dont want to say anything bc #then ill feel like im guilt tripping? idk but im also super nervous about a HRT appmt i have coming up and i cant afford it and we have no #food in the house i can eat rn and no one has gone shopping. i cant go shopping either bc i cant drive/dont have a car. and its making it #harder to help get back on track with eating when theres nothing for me to eat? so everything is fucking amazing right now. #the only meals i could POSSIBLY have and all claimed by the one roommate i was joking with. it all takes up half our freezer too so thats #fucking awesome. all this food for one person and none that i can eat or the other vegan in the house can eat. i have been hungry for DAYS. #all there has been for me to eat is cup ramen and grilled cheese. AND SOMEONE WHO WASNT FUCKING VEGAN ATE ALL THE VEGAN CHEESE IM GENUINELY #SO PISSED OFF? like dude yall have your own cheese wtf #the thing is its already really hard for me to tell when i am actually hungry bc of years of ignoring it so when i actually feel it and ther #es nothing it really gets to me. im so tired and idek where my EBT card is to get myself something. its all just so much. #i just want to lay in my bed and sleep for days. but i cant. i have too much shit to do. like even just tomorrow i have to clean the #bathroom. mop the kitchen. do dishes. shovel snow. and just generally take.care of shit because since we have 2 roomates MIA right now and #no one else wanted to do shit i had to step up and i am STRUGGLING. i have been for a while. the thing is everyone that didnt sign up for sh #it didnt have much going on besides probable seasonal depression #i relapsed. have debilitating mental health. i can barely get out of bed before 4 pm. and i have to take care of myself and my cat. #im so close to snapping on them at this point #i need the one roommate i actually like to come back or i swear i will lose my shit. hes only been gone for 6 days but HOLY SHIT #everything has gone to shit #vent over ig im going to sleep soon. still hungry if i cant find something.

[mudskip-muses]

hey just a psa if youve ever sent someone hate over their interpretation of a character unfollow/block me right the fuck now it is So unnecessary to do no matter how much you disagree with someone literally just block them its not fucking hard

#there is never a good reason to be rude to someone over fucking fictional characters #not to mention that telling someone theyre wrong or you think theyre 'bad' or whatever does literally nothing #other than make someone feel shitty when you could have just fucking ignored them #remember that nice little saying 'be nice to everyone because you dont know what theyre going through' #do you reeeaaaalllly wanna be the guy that makes someones day worse because you personally dont agree with what they think #about a bunch of Fucking Pixels and shit we all enjoy as a hobby #to escape how awful the world is??? #just be fucking nice why is that so difficult oh my fucking god #sorry skippys in a Mood but also #if you dont like it #Block Me : ) #curate your own damn experience online instead of expecting people to do it for you ffs #ooc #vent