#btw i dont tag people cause

[redysetdare]

I don't think a lot of people realize that lot of their advice to disabled people often boils down to "Get over it." they are trying to be helpful but their idea of helpful is "Just do the thing" because that's what they do. for them they just do things. It comes naturally to just do it.

They don't know how to bridge the gap between you and the task. For them the bridge is already pre-built and stable. For disabled people the bridge is run down, not well kept, it feels unsteady and is hard to get across without being slow and cautious - hell for some people there is no bridge and we need to build it ourselves but we don't have the bridge building tools and no one gives them to us.

"Just cross the bridge." They say before walking over their pre-built bridge. They never gave you the tools to build a bridge to cross.

#text #I hope this makes sense #disabled #neurodivergent #adhd #actually adhd #actuallyadhd #idk how to tag this post really i dont post a lot in disabled spaces... #by disability i mean all disabilities btw #i suffer from ADHD and chronic pain ad many other things #and all of them cause me problems that make it hard to 'just do it' #so hearing 'advice' that is just 'do the thing you're struggle to do' really gets on my nerves #especially when the people giving that 'advice' throw a hissy fit when i say that its unhelpful

[jinxybri]

so- i was having thoughts about the cmv (and graciously threw them at a friend) and yall get them too.

isla chose everyone else's survival over her own:

she left her kingdom and married fable to save her people

she was either made or decided to stop visiting her fathers to save them from seeing her misery

she went to enderian for information because her husband wouldn't give ti to her (to protect her people again)

she left fable and went to enderian to save both her children

she left enderian to save icarus

she hid from the gods to save her children

she got taken by fable to save her children again

something something Isla only chose herself and her feelings when she fell in love with Enderian

#cause having any type of relationship with the mind goddess would've endangered everyone - her children #i dont believe she ever fell in love with fable btw #she mightve loved him sure but not in love in love #she instead chose the marriage so fable wouldnt attack her kingdom and her people #from what i can tell #me when the new cmv guys #it gives us so much insight into what their relationship was like #fable smp #fablesmp #bee's writing tag #also side note but formatting thoughts into actual sentences is so hard for no reason rn omg

[1spooky-dad]

Not to continually compare apples and oranges, but I so often think about how much bbh has flourished on qsmp compared to d/smp,,, a lot because his fellow creators no longer just use him as the butt of a joke that so blatantly crosses his boundaries. He's no longer "that guy I'm gonna curse around just cause I know he gets mad about it" once people find out he'd rather keep his streams PG, they actually respect that and do their best to respect that. Which, tbh, makes the couple of times where someone gets him to say a curse word in another language all the better. Hes no longer "that guy who screams LANGUAGE at people." Hes an incredibly developed character that everyone on the island adores, and only occasionally teases by tricking him into saying Culero. And guess what? It turns out him not cursing doesn't have any real effect on his character's story! It doesn't dumb it down, it's not less powerful than others on the server.

It's amazing how well someone can flourish when given the proper respect and decency they deserve. When you're not constantly on edge from everyone pushing your boundaries, you can finally do more for yourself and the people around you!!!!

#i wish ppl would stop lumping the smps together like they were the same #qsmp is far better cause not a single creator on there is tossed aside like every other one was on dsmp #everyone is an important player they even gave lore to why dantdm doesnt show up anymore #rip dantdm btw #qsmp bbh #qsmp #not tagging the other one cause i dont want to be bullied by 12 year olds #imagine inviting people to play minecraft with you on your server and then never lettingnthem be in the story your a part of on there #could never be quackity

[salsa-di-pomodoro]

Guys i know Christmas is overrated on every possible level but if at the end of december i don't see at least ONE submas reunion fanfic featuring Emmet (and possibly other characters if they're staying over) finding Ingo passed the fuck out under the damn tree during Christmas morning with maybe a little note of apology from Arceus taped to his receding hairline ass forehead i will riot

Or! He could be found under the communal (is that the right word) Nimbasa city/Gear Station tree. That would also make for some fun shenanigans i think. Imagine being a depot agent and getting a call for something weird at the christmas tree and you get there and fucking boss Ingo is just sleeping under there with a little bow on his hat

(it doesn't have to be Christmas btw. If you want to put a different holiday or celebration or tradition that's also cool christmas is just the one i celebrate so the first that came to mind. Also its the funniest to me but what do i know about other religions? Absolutely nothing so if you've got a funnier alternative go for it. It could also be and invented religion from the Pokémon world. Hmm)

Edit: by the way the same thing is happening on Akari's side. I just didn't mention it cause i was in submas brain mode and did not think about it

#ingo may or may not have known he would get back. he expected it though i love him too much not to give him closure on Christmas #so he got to say goodbye. he was just waiting for the day #ingo does not wake up immediatly after Emmet and the others enter the room. hes sleeping too deeply oddly enough for once #submas #ingo #emmet #subway boss ingo #warden ingo #subway boss emmet #subway bosses #ingo and emmet #wait i have it ingo was sleeping fine thanks to divine intervention. yes thats perfect #depot agents #btw im sharing this so people use my idea so dont be afraid to steal it if it tickles ur fancy. just tag me or tell me cause i wanna see it #also sorry for christmasposting so early in december. i know yall still mourning halloween 😔 #im not putting this on my to do list bc i know for a fact im never gonna get around to actually writing anything #hmm #salsa's writing #yeah thats good enough for me #whoops forgot to add #submas fluff #submas crack #is that last one an actual tag #well it is now #akari pokemon #akari #pokemon legends arceus #pokemon legends

[es-quest]

"ES!" Kotoko yells at you, and you jump in surprise as-

Something rams itself into the wall in front of you but instead of a loud crack as presumed bones hit hard strone. It's body compresses, making a wet squelching sound as it does as the flesh expands. You can't bring yourself to move as it dislodges itself, it raises it head and too long neck and turns to look at you.

#milgram #es quest #ask blog #es milgram #amane momose #kotoko yuzuriha #cw body horror #cw child abuse #ooc: SEE! I PUT THAT BODY HORROR TAG FOR A REASON #also note: Im pretty sure people will make the obvious Den parallels but I actually dont know what either the Den or The Beast looked liked #before designing monster amane #you can actually see me draw a lot of sphinx like amane's rather than humanoid beastmen type monsters for her cause I like that better lol #oh btw I think its funny everyone focused on the danger Kotoko poses #like yeah she does but like.......I think there might be something a bit more dangerous here

[abstract-hellbender]

quick af btw >> you can hate dutch van der linde without calling him an evil snake who eats people..,,,, genuine serious if you think hes a cannibal GET OUT OF HERE

#yall the anti semitism in this room is CRAZYYYY #i see so many people boil his character down to >> greedy selfish money hungry manipulator who feels nothing narcissist #and then i heard there was a CANNIBAL THEORY GUYS PLEASW #points to him.... he has black hair and facial hair thats often shown in jewish charicatures AND a hooked nose.. #im not gonna say any of it was exactly intentional or anything im just saying some of yall need to take a step back and think about where #some of these theories are coming from yknow #also cause the cannibal theory holds no ground. his tall trees camp LITERALLY HAS CHICKENS N SHIT RUNNING AROUND AND FUCKING PREDATORS #THAT KILL YOU MID MISSIOON I GOT EATEN BY LIKE 2 BEARS GUYS. PLEASE. HE CAN FUCKING HUNT. #also cause the first character who mentions being eaten by dutchs gang (which are mostly native americans btw) is the hyper racist professo #who only says it CUASE HES RACIST ASF guys please. please. idgaf theres bones under a chair theyre ANIMAL BONES he has DEER AND ELK SKULLS #EVERYWHERE GUYS. there are cannibals in rdr1 they established using an arm model for them. BUT ANYWAY im getting off track #you can hate him idgaf #this is a reminder that you dont even need a reason to hate a character you can just hate them #dutch van der linde #i will tag him idgaf i think its important enough

[buwheal]

Mandatory profile picture update!!!!💥💥💥

ive just dug deeper into my grave and i think ive officially reached the depths of spamton purgatory so now its my favorite bastard (boowomp)

#I thought I'd throw up a little something so you guys know even yhough i have like 15 followers or whatever it was #i dont know lmfao i tried to keep the yellow background so its similar #btw!! im going to the aquarium for my birthday soon and i ordered a new little digital camera!! so im gonna bring spamton!! #and I WILL be posting those pictures #I wanted to go saturday cause my birthday was monday but it was pushed back because a ton of people would be there saturday :-( #no tags cause this is just like a weird little announcement #cooking up a couple posts or art dumps idk

[spacephobos]

tua having a nonverbal autistic character is so cool their next step in autistic rights and representation should be publicly sacrificing tom hopper

#i love harlan so much actually #the umbrella academy #harlan #btw if you didnt know tom put his autistic child in aba which is an abusive practice that traumatises and hurts autistic people #its often compared to conversion therapy because it is pretty much the same science behind it #autistic advocacy groups protest very heavily against it #hes also said bullshit about autism being caused by diets #i despise that man #sorry for getting serious in the tags of a jokey post #but everytime i wanna bring this up i always realise people just dont k ow about it #tua

[quartermoonconvergence]

gotta be honest here if u rationalise max’s parent characterisation as “indians who don’t know english” i do not want u here

#like. do 200000+ of english speaking indians mean nothing to you #like. it isnt a first language. its only there for christians #in india btw. like a lot of ppl in goa learn english as THIER FIRST LANGUAGE BECAUSE THEY ARE CHRISTIANS #NOT EVEN COUNTING SOUTH INDIANS AND NORTHEASTERN INDIANS USING ENGLISH MORE AS A BRIDGE LANGUAGE #A LOT OF INDIANS DONT KNOW HINDI BECAUSE IT ISNT THE NATIONAL LANGUAGE #ITS LIKE. 45% OF THE DAMN COUNTRY #PLUS. THEY ARE IMMIGRANTS. IMMIGRANTS. YOU KNOW. PEOPLE WHO WILL ATLEAST HAVE SOME IDEA OF ENGLISH #THEYRE RICH ENOUGH TO IMMIGRATE TO A NEW COUNTRY IN MOST LIKELY 2004 BASED ON MAX’S AGE. ITS VERY LIKELY MAX’S PARENTS KNOW ENGLISH THAN #THEY DONT. #DUDE. THEYD KNOW WHAT ALLERGIES ARE. THEY GAVE BIRTH. MOST PARENTS INTERNATIONALLY KNOW IT IN ENG #im sorry im rly mad abt this i saw the worst post ever recently and it’s rly odd how performative this fandom gets #like ok. let’s just call immigrants uneducated on english and perpetuate stereotypes that cause hatecrimes i guess!! we just ended racism!! #dadvid still isnt ok btw guys /s #like atp ure just a performative and ignorant person. like. #max parents hcs are a particular litmus test if a person is a performative white activist or not #im sorry for all of this in the tags but i was seething abt this a little since. well. uhm. yknow. #camp camp #cc max

[lumiilys]

POV: You are taking measures to be able to look for stolitz art in peace

#I’m glad people have the decency to tag it at least #and I’m not saying people can’t criticise! #But some people seem to only engage with vivzie’s stuff from a place of hatred #and that’s annoying #I am begging people to stop engaging with things they hate it isn’t healthy #ANYWAY #I’m ranting cause it’s annoying to have to scroll past angry posts when I just wanna see cool art #ALSO IF YOU ARE HB CRITICAL DONT COME AT ME #i /have/ seen a lot of valid criticism #and I think it’s stupid that ppl will attack people for any kind of negative opinion #it’s just #seeing fandom discourse is so annoying #I’m just here to have fun #wish tumblr wouldn’t include those posts in the main tag but whatever #thanks for tagging them at least #helluva boss #stolitz #Ollie rambles #sorry for this btw I don’t usually wanna put discourse on ppls gls #*tls #this is why I don’t wanna join new fandoms anymore hahahah #found my safe corner for the last 2 years

[aroacedavestrider]

jump off a cliff

hi Roxy Trans Woman Anon. unfortunately i live in ohio and as such its flat as fuck here so if you really truly want me to do that then you gotta buy me a plane ticket to somewhere with mountains. if you dont have the cash then get to finding it girlboss !! that coin wont bag itself !!! xoxo

#mad cause im right and im also tearing you to shreds in my friends notes arent you #you dont have a real argument. #1.) youre repeating the same thing over and over rather than actually adding on to whatever take you think you have #2.) when you do say anything else its an insult rather than anything of fucking value #3.) you resort to suicide baiting when you know youve lost an argument. nothing more can be said and youre mad that no one cares #and tbh this isnt exactly a great look for you! telling a trans person to jump off a cliff in the name of. what. trans people? trans women? #your colors are showing and theyre fucking ugly lmao #roxy is whatever gender you want them to be and the most healthy way to interact with that is to live and let fucking live #either stay mad or pay for my plane ticket. ill do a backflip if you give me an extra five thousand dollars #this is rebloggable btw i dont give a shit. clown on this idiot #delete later #ask to tag #if youre not a fucking coward then block me and move on. like yknow. a normal person would

[aliensmoothie]

tagged by @heartreformer yay !!! thank you !!!

last song played :

favorite song : ( the answer to this changes so often LOL )

song of choice :

taglist : @zxrtecs @unarmed @soul-cairn @corpseposting and whoever else wants to play !!!

#⸸ #song of choice is just because i think more people should listen to peeping tom . ive been really into it lately . #no pressure to those i tagged to play btw :) i always struggle to think of ppl to tag cause im like . what if they dont like tag games . 😰

[jebiknights]

I know I've been complaining about this a lot recently and I'm sorry about that, but it's become really frustrating for this to happen when I'm... not even reading a fic about Anakin. Like sure whatever you don't like him but the kinds of things I see people have characters say... Congrats! You hate Anakin more than you like these side characters you seem to only have included to have them shit talk Anakin (and often woobify Obi-Wan). At this point you are being more insulting to those characters than to Anakin himself.

#like tell me you know nothing about these characters pasts #you just know they are loosely associated with obiwan or you think they and obi wan should fuck #and in order to do that you need to?? trash anakin in ways that make the characters look assholes? #anyway! #frustrating that i cant go into arguably my fave rarepair? tag without either seeing a bunch of c/dywan #woobywan where people clearly know NOTHING about quin #or have quin be cruel just bc they dont like anakin #fandom wank #comm chatter #this is very frustrating for the clones too btw #its one thing if someone dislikes the jedi in general at least then i know its not personal #but like all canon and legends.... says the clones liked anakin #the 501st LOVED their jedi #not just ahsoka they loved ANAKIN #cody and anakin gossiped about obiwan #anakin was well respected if sometimes looked on indulgently as being reckless but getting shit done #like just cause yall hate him doesnt mean everyone does

[phoneybeatlemania]

Never forget 🙏🙏🙏

#this is queued btw #I dont have a queued tag cause I just never queue things :/ #hey queued #is anyone using that? im taking it #ringo tweets #we all talk about What If John Had Twitter #RINGO DOES. IS THAT NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU PEOPLE #he's the only pure thing about social media #he invented the internet tbh #ringo starr #21st century beatles

[06-archive]

I think… people who watched atsv and came to the conclusion that miguel is a villain are a bit stupid. Or maybe theyre not using the right word

#spiderverse spoilers #atsv spoilers #cont in tags btw #I don’t think hes exactly a good guy or anything hes very much not #But i dont think its fair to call him a villain. an antagonistic force at most #We see his perspective with canon divergences and we’re supposed to understand why hes so irrational about this #empathize with him and all he doesnt want this happening to another spider man #hes just very irrational #especially when he lays out the truth for miles #that hes an anomoly and all #like yeah hes bitchy and hes unhinged and hes harsh and rude but you have to understand his perspective #he lost his entire universe because he caused so many anomalies and hes keeping every spiderman safe by keeping the canon #even if it means letting bad things happen and letting people close to them die #miguel alone and reading his character like this to me simply just adds to his character in the movie ugh i love him #atsv did such a good job with their characters and building their arcs i woill scream so loud #i cant wait to see what they do with him in beyond

[kimmkitsuragi]

this is truly so stupid why are charli and rina fighting (presumably) because of a trashy man... and more importantly why is charli burning bridges because of him

#if rina gets blacklisted because of this stupid ass man i swearrrrrr i will start killing people... #i mean sure we dont know what exactly is going on but lmao it feels kinda obvious what is causing this problem #and i say 'fighting' but truly it's just charli acting weird all by herself like. girl what r u even doing #unprompted... #normally i dont care about celeb 'drama' btw but. as i said if more and more people will start to pull this shit #it will start to look less like drama and more like rina getting outcasted and blacklisted for SPEAKING THE TRUTH... #so :/// #not tagging this w their names for now i dont want weirdos defending that man on my askbox or something lmao #🗒 #okay tagging it months later hope it will be ok. for archive purposes #charli xcx #rina sawayama