#and then i could be her safe space

[cinaminrolll]

me @ johanna mason

#i love her so much #i just think we would complement each other so well #and okay yeah we’re complete opposites #but they say opposites attract you know! #like she could help me become more self assured and confident #she’s teach me how to stand up for myself and break out of my shell #and then i could be her safe space #where she could let down her guard and just feel at peace #and i could help her relearn how to see the beauty in the little things #and okay maybe i’m delusional but i can’t get her out of head lately #hunger games #the hunger games #johanna mason #thg johanna #catching fire

[claiireluv]

someone told me because I ship byler I must hate eleven and i just wanna speak on behalf of all bylers because wdym thats literally my daughter??

this is an eleven appreciation post

#byler #eleven they could never make me hate you #i love her so much #protect her at all costs #this is NOT a safe space for eleven haters #eleven stranger things

[liam-summers]

Angel + Being Buffy’s Emotional Support Vampire.

#btvsedit #btvs #bangel #buffy x angel #buffy summers #angel btvs #zanisummers #dailybtvs #otp: how's forever? #*gif #There are so many more scenes that I could have included omg #the way he's her safe space #and when he left she lost that #and that's the tragedy of them #they should be allowed to have this damnit

[chirpsythismorning]

I just remembered something hilarious that happened a while back. I was arguing with a milkvan about how the phone calls Mike was making to the Byers were for Will and not El bc they couldn’t communicate as a result of government surveillance after the mall fire and Owen’s being removed from the program officially, and they basically insisted El’s anonymity was not an issue in s4, so Mike could call her, which meant to them that when Dustin said Mike was always whining, he was referring to Mike not being able to reach El. I followed that up with, well then why does El have a shrine of Mike in her room, but there isn’t a trace of El anywhere in Mike’s room or basement or house in general (besides the crumpled up letter)? And you can’t say it’s to keep up the front that she doesn’t exist for her safety, bc according to y’all that wasn’t an issue and the Wheeler’s know all about El… so… again the point stands, why do we get this contrast of El having a Mike shrine and Mike having absolutely nothing connecting to El in his space? As you can probably predict, it was crickets after that 🤣😭

#byler #I had to say this bc I remember their excuse in the past for why Mike didn’t have anything of el in his room #was bc they had to keep her safe by not talking about her or having things connected to her in their spaces #but how does that coincide with Mike apparently being able to call her?? #like it makes more sense for the government to be having surveillance with the landline #then to have an entire house wiped of el to protect her? #you could argue both were for her safety #but you can’t argue that safety was the reason for the lack of el in mike’s space #but that there was no issue with safety for phone calls… #it just doesn’t work like that 🤣

[lesbianbanana]

Please know that it's not anti feminist to say that a woman (*cough* Helen and Persephone*cough*) who was kidnapped WAS kidnapped and didn't go by choice ❤️

#like yes.. agency ig #but don't romanticise it #and dont erase it #when historically they were kidnapped/abducted long before society came around and said they had a choice #Helen didnt run away eith Paris she was ABDUCTED #She wasnt a bitch or petty or jealous or whatever #she was happy with menelaus #she loved her daughter and her brothers and ugh #she hated paris #like read book 3 of the iliad and tell me thats love #and Persephone #she was happy with her mother!!! #the same mother everyone demonises for SAVING her daughter??? #if the mother??? is calling it kidnap?? then it is most likely probably kidnap like???? #and not just demeter?? hecate??? #like maybe persephone grew to love Hades but not in the beginning when he ABDUCTED her from her safe space of flowers and from her mother an #and friends #and her sisters in some versions #i could write an essay #the amount of people i see saying helen just wanted to cause a war and she hated menelaus and NO #And when they try to demonise Demeter 🧍‍♀️➡️🚪

[cinnamon-notes]

send me candles in hope that the apt i found is still available and i will get it 🕯️🕯️🕯️

#it's literally the perfect apartment #the best i could find in this small town #and so close to work #and bright and cozy with plenty of space and unbroken windows YAS #i really REALLY wanna get it #i really really need it #the one where in currently living is a mess and has so many problems that would require so much work that my landlady is not willing to get #done and its getting unsafe and all she does is blame me for having caused her those problems when basically her building has always had #these problems and they just happened to be well more problematic right when i started living here #i just need a safe apt :)

[missroller15]

WAIT A SECOND- 😭

#btw not my own original comment so I’m not taking any credit at all for it!!! #but when I tell you my jaw DROPPED- #that’s so skdjskdnsmsnsmsm #i cannot #he definitely became a safe space for her in later seasons #i could particularly see that in s6 (since that’s where I’m at) #gilmore girls #jess mariano #rory gilmore #literati

[random-lil-illing]

have some charlotte emily while i work on the lore of my au :3

shes literally so me. also unrelated but i hc that shes partly blind :)

#my art #art #digital art #finished art #fanart #fnaf #fnaf 2 technically #fredbear #charlotte emily #charlie emily #charlie emily fanart #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy’s #shes literally me and my daughter at the same time wdym #listen shes just the character ever #her story is so tragic though #killed by your dads best friend… a man you thought you could trust and he killed you in cold blood in a time of need #exactly why i hate william #FUCK william afton all my homies HATE william afton #this is not a william afton simp safe space btw #anyway enjoy the burnt food #<3

[alternativeulster]

swiftie mutuals please know that i still love you i just cant help but be a hater

#my opinions on ts are complex #like i think she's an insanely good and hardworking performer #you cant ignore the amount of work it takes to perform something like her eras shows #AND i think that when she puts her mind to it she can really knock it out of the park with a great song #every album has at least one A+ song #like genuinely i think anti-hero was her best ever lyrically #and she's at her best when she leans into the sappy over the top vibe like w love story or ybwm #my main problem with her is ofc her excessive private jet use #i understand that shes too famous to fly commercial bc she'd get mobbed #but when travelling within a single country she could at least be using road travel #anyway #wrt her music my main issue is that a good 80% of it is very... bland #she doesn't really do anything new or push any boundaries artistically #just plays it safe #and her lyrics can be genuinely awful when she takes herself too seriously (1830s but without all the racists) #and that sucks bc when she DOES decide to explore a new concept or play a character #she generally makes something interesting and fun! #blank space was fun bc it was a play into the media's constructed narrative about her #reputation was. a choice. but i'll defend it for being something different and actually taking a risk #this is a long ass tags ramble but i guess my point is #shes a pop singer. shes a pop singer who makes catchy pop music and thats okay #but she has a habit of taking herself too seriously and trying to be a deep meaningful 'poet' type songwriter like phoebe bridgers etc #which is just. not at all what she's good at #her music needs an ounce of self awareness to be good but her new album completely lacks that #sigh #dont ever get a diploma in music theory worst mistake of my life

[torgawl]

never thought i'd see people try to argue or analyse wriothesley's murder in regards to his personality. i think people are missing the point. the situation has nothing to do with him and has everything to do with an extremely traumatic environment that made a small boy think the only solution so save himself and the people he cared about was to take the life of his abusers. it's not supposed to be rational, it wasn't premeditated, it wasn't about getting away with it. if you read his description of the murder you can see how out of it he was. his goal was to protect himself and his siblings and that's what he did. that's why he admitted to the crime so easily and why he is keen to associate the fortress as a rebirth place. he was just young, lost and traumatised and that's about it when it comes to the extension of it all.

#people acting like they're disappointed because he's a 'manipulative' and cunning individual or because he's cold and that it doesn't match #the crime as if at that time he wasn't just a kid experiencing extreme distress and without a safe space to seek help #i also don't personally think he's manipulative at all. he isn't like ayato or yae miko. he has very strong values and he does everything #to abide to that. if that means ommiting information at some point to make the best out of a situation he will do so but he doesn't do #things for personal gain and as soon as he can be truthful he lays all the cards on the table #this reminds me of that ayaka situation where people tried to paint her as manipulative when all she did was ask the traveller to hear #people's stories so traveller could take their own conclusions about the situation in inazuma shsjsh #it's also the way wrio isn't even cold. he's serious and composed but goddamn if he didn't show how empathetic he is #also how lightweight his personality is during the archon quest... #at this point i'm just questioning myself if we're even playing the same game #wrio 'i believe in restorative justice rather than punishment' the slay #wrio 'there's a prophecy about a flood dooming the entire country so i'm taking matters into my own hands and building noah's ark to save #my people' the slay #wrio 'i have no reason to trust you but i will still offer you a cup of tea' the slay and people still try to pain him in an obscure light #he's not even that morally grey 😭 he's morally gray in the sense everyone is #wanting to stop people who hurt others isn't controversial or shouldn't be #also because we KNOW that's his last resource #his job is literally to give people a second chance the same way he took his except he actually wants to make life easier for others #than it was for him and people are so vocal about how grateful they are of him like??? #he's such a good guy genuinely #and just because he's intelligent and usually composed doesn't mean he isn't emotional sensitive or even prone to being put in situations #where's he's forced to react a certain way because that's just human nature #he's literally just a silly guy with trauma and big responsabilities set him free from the shackles of mischaracterization please 😂 #not that i'm better i'm a fool i may just be talking shit really #but seeing people act like the murder is somehow badly written or that he is dark and dangerous make me go ??? #having the ability to do something doesn't define you as a person and i feel like judgement without context makes no sense #but maybe that's just me

[kopykunoichi]

Okay listen, I love Ahsoka. Okay? I love her.

I know there's no way she could have stayed on Coruscant after Order 66. But the fact that it's Rex and Echo and Riyo working together to save the clones and she's just out there laying low, out of contact, done with the fighting, etc...it just seems so out of character to me. Hell, Trace and Raffa have contributed more at this point!

Ahsoka, who wouldn't even kill the clones who were actively hunting her (on three separate occasions). Ahsoka, who risked everything to save Rex's life. Ahsoka, who always had a closer relationship to the boys than any other Jedi. Ahsoka, who had told Rex that he was her best friend...just ups and leaves and eventually "loses contact" with him for years and then sends Kanan and co. with a loose lead and a tactical droid to find him?

I know she was traumatized by what happened with the Jedi. I know she was burned out. And I've read some good fanfiction that did a better job of explaining this than anything in the novel or the show. But honestly, I'm still just so perplexed that it happened at all.

She should have stayed in contact with Rex. She should have been helping with the effort to rescue Wolffe and the men, even if she couldn't be on Coruscant. She should have been using the Force to help locate and remove their chips, as she did with Rex. She should have been helping them find places to lay low so they wouldn't get caught. She had so many things to say about how the Jedi and the government were failing the citizens of the Republic, but when those men - her brothers in arms for almost 4 years - needed her most, she did nothing.

When Rex told Echo that "good help was hard to come by" and Echo hung his head and decided to leave his brothers and sister to go where he was needed, I just couldn't help but think that she should have been a part of that too. Fives gave his life to try and free the clones from their inhibitor chips. Echo is continuing the work his brother died for. Ahsoka only knew to save Rex at all because of two words: "Find Fives". She got off that ship alive because of Rex. But when Rex needed her most, for a mission of his own choosing, she wasn't there.

Hear me on this, I'm not hating on her character. I just felt that this particular writing choice for her was way off base. The Ahsoka I know wouldn't have abandoned her brothers, especially after she had just buried so many of them wearing *her* face on their helmets because she meant the world to them.

#clone rights #the bad batch #the clone wars #ahsoka tano #captain rex #ct 7567 #tbb echo #arc 5555 #arc trooper fives #arc trooper echo #ct 1409 #ahsoka #the clone conspiracy #truth and consequences #who knows? maybe they'll bring her back earlier and have her actually do something to help the boys #at this point so much of the novel has been pushed out of canon they might as well toss it all out #tales of the jedi could have been just a few months and she could already be working behind the scenes #echo could join rex and they can rescue wolffe and take him to a safe space and ahsoka is there waiting for them all #i hate to see her separated from the only people left alive who love her so much #Please Filoni just give me this #the bad batch season 2 #if Riyo Chuchi can get in front of the senate and say CLONE RIGHTS...Ahsoka Tano can absolutely contribute to saving those boys #It really does make you wonder why - with all the suffering going on everywhere - Riyo is so focused on fighting for the clones #is it just because no one else is and she's just a good person...or does she have some skin in the game? #Not me putting on my shipper goggles and re-examineing all of her scenes with clones

[critterofthenight]

i had such a fun dream, i didn't wanna wake up :c

#my art teacher was a former goddess and she was looking after treasure in the secret room of a church #and i was the only human who could see the other gods so she decided to make me her heir #and she taught me magic and other things and the secret room became my safe space #then one day few of my classmates accidentally got into the room when noone was there and they were gonna start investigating wtf is this #when they tried to leave without raising suspicion they ran into me the art teacher and the priest in the church garden #but we didnt realize that smth was going on so we all started playing some kinda ttrpg set in the middle ages #my classmates talked about how much more fun that era was bc this whole dreams setting was a combination of modern day and the 1800s #we played in the church garden and there was a wishing well next to us #if you looked into it your reflection became the person you wanted to be #the art teacher was sad bc she wanted to look different but i showed her that my reflection was her so she laughed and hugged me #the game was very fun and when we were leaving my former crush was waiting outside of the gates #her new best friend was with her but she smiled at me and caressed my head and i literally purred #we were walking home and she told me that dating apps suck and she doesnt know what to do #i took her hand and told her to forget those assholes bc there are so many people who love her #and the two of us started running through the forest next to the road hand in hand #we looked like two nymphs of the forest and we were laughing and i was sure she loved me #and then i woke up :c #✩‧₊˚

[wilchur]

I wish there was an option to tell Shadowheart she's being a shitty Shar follower when she chews Durge out for causing carnage in the Last Light. Girl it was SHAR'S curse that turned all these people into hostile undead, tf do you want from me

#i know it's a part of her character that her morals start to stray away from shar's influence as story goes #that her beliefs are not innate but a result of indoctrination #but it would be such a funny thing to say #and would fit my durge well because he's has convinced himself that “this is a safe space” #but the safe space is actually just astarion who's being an absolute enabler #i revel in the idea of ezra accumulating a party of people who he thinks will give him the unconditional acceptance that he craves #only to start getting challenged and begin to lose his fucking marbles #because he's been making all the wrong decisions and is so deep in hog shit now there's no way out of it :) #i could write an essay on this guy fr #bg3 #bg3 spoilers #durge spoilers

[strangefellows]

oooohhh, you’re onto something there. I feel like if Demian is Enoch, Carmen is definitely going to have some sort of role in it. Because Enoch’s death is what broke Carmen and made her attempt suicide. So maybe she feels so guilty about that she gave him a second chance?

Oh, for sure absolutely Carmen has a hand in it.

And yeah, maybe! I'm not Carmen's biggest fan, and I've always been a little...suspicious about how convenient it was that she had a conversation with Ayin about "oh if something bad happens to someone because of me, i wouldn't be able to handle it :C but you could! you promise if anything happens to me you'll finish what i started right?" like...right before enoch died and lisa said what she did.

Like, I won't say she isn't 100% sincere with her desire to make the world a better place - because we know she is - and that Enoch's death didn't hurt her (it def did), because I don't think she's evil, but like...the timing and specificity of that conversation (Day 49 flashback, if you want to go look it up) really just...bugs me. (Personally I think she knew it was coming, and knew it would hurt her and what it would drive her to do, and let it happen because she also knew what Ayin would end up doing with her body once she made sure to get that favor from him, and that's what she wanted, to sacrifice herself for the project and her dream-- until, like she says in Ruina, she realized Wait No at the last second and, well. Now she's The Voice and REALLY going for it with her dream no matter the cost others pay or the terrible means to her ideal end.)

BUT THIS ISN'T ABOUT CARMEN THIS IS ABOUT ENOCH. And yeah, honestly, I can see her giving him a second chance both out of sincere guilt for his death and knowing Enoch for who he once was kind of assuming he'll be totally onboard with what she's up to now. A gift he didn't entirely want, but that she thought he did/would, similar to the Distortions.

#projmoonblogging #ANOTHER THING! I REALLY REALLY DISLIKE HER TELLING AYIN TO FADE AWAY WITHOUT A TRACE IF HE'S SCARED OF HIS PATH IN THAT FLASHBACK #AND IT BEING ECHOED BY MIRROR A IN DAY 50 RIGHT BEFORE AYIN DOES IN FACT FADE AWAY WITHOUT A TRACE #I DON'T!!! LIKE THAT!!!! #I DON'T LIKE HOW CARMEN MADE AYIN A SCAPEGOAT!!! #I COULD GO ON ABOUT THIS!!!!! #THIS BLOG IS NOT A SAFE SPACE FOR CARMEN I'LL FIGHT HER MYSELF

[sschmendrick]

I kinda miss hanging out with old people. All my friends used to be old people.

But the older I grow, and the more I'm expected to behave well like a normal adult, the harder I find it to keep those links. I'm lost between trying to stick to a script I don't know the words of to have a proper normal and interesting relationship for them, and allowing myself to screw up a little, be boring, be interested in stuff they aren't, having opinions they don't agree with (for silly stuff like music, though yk me), not be cool. Cause the latter stresses me out. Cause I see no reason for people to want to be friends with me if not that.

#also defining your relationship to old people who already have a well established family is hard when growing up #cause they were just my friends at first #and they helped me find a safe space #and they were like a chosen family #and then their adopted daughter hated me cause they had a friend that was her age and it messed up with me #now i feel so stressed out about it. i feel so stressed that i am taking space i shouldn't. that i am making their other friends and #family that have been there for far longer uncomfortable with just my presence #and i know i was just a depressed teen and very sensitive to this shit and people keep saying that it reveals more about the other person #than you (as it's not the first time i was left to deal with people's opinion of me FOR THEM) #but it just felt like i wasn't allowed to express my discomfort and i just had to swallow the way their reaction to their emotions impacted #me and handle it on my own #and I think I'm still hurting from it #cause I got no support #i'm just asked to sit there and take it and act as if it meant nothing #...ngl saying it writing it stating it feels good because i've held onto that for years and years and I couldn't say it #i wasn't allowed to #even my psychiatrist (when I had one) told me it was nothing and to ignore it #I just wish people could say that yes it's not okay. that i'm allowed to feel how i feel. i wish people would recognize and understand #what i mean when i say that. #cause what is it worth when i'm the only one saying it to me and the only one agreeing that it's true #i hate that i need people to agree and make their agreement vocal to help heal that inner child that was always told to push it down #cause what else ? #sometimes I wish I could see young Leska cause I know I'd be among the only ones to give em a hug #I just want to take them in my arms and tell them that it'll get better. That we're not out yet we still need to fight but we will #eventually #hopefully

[dgraymen]

ough

#my recently developed nightly horrors have begun again #shout out to my newly disorganized attachment style ayy #not to be dramatic but like. i am so tightly wrapped in a blanket of insecurity it's like my skin now #i wish my parents weren't moving and i wish my partner could either confidently move with me for grad school or have a ldr #instead of considering breaking up as an option because grad school is 'a long time'. but it's a 3.5 year degree and i want to come BACK #man. it is taking literally everything i have to not let this emotional instability turn into destructive behavior #it's really horrible when your partner is your safe space but is also indirectly hurting you at the same time #also really horrible when you need to feel close to your partner again and spend quality time but she's just started having real friends #and you need to support her in that because it's what she deserves #but then what do i deserve. #fuckin ough man