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#alhamdullilah for everything
fluffy-appa ยท 2 days
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You deserve a calm love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a caring safe space to heal, grow and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from๐Ÿคโœจ
โ€œPray to have a partner whoโ€™s heart remains soft for you always.โ€
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blessednour ยท 2 years
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You do not know the value of what you have until you lose it..
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moon-and-rain0 ยท 1 year
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Feeling like a stranger in this world, like I am in the wrong place. I donโ€™t belong here. I donโ€™t get this world nor its people.
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terroristiraqi ยท 13 days
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oh i wish feelings would go away
#p#need to unregister from the class we signed up for together lol#unless i need it in that case he can leave#i do care about him but he was just exhausting me constantly#just being immature and not to my standards. which like fine i have high standards for ppl whatever#but just not being realistic at all. then has the gall to call me immature and call this 'tv ahh shi'#genuinely burst out laughing at that one#he loves me sure.#i realized i kept dreading calls or trying to ignore his texts and avoid him essentially#didn't see him for a month and we kissed day after eid and there was nothing honestly#none of the spark or the feeling that was there before#alhamdullilah. i came to my senses even tho 3 weeks late#he says he doesn't hate me. 'you're the only one who can break my heart'. direct words#he's upset no doubt. blocked him on everything#i think he thinks i'll come back i mean i came back twice#but khalas. sneaking around and lying and the excuses i keep giving to my family. it's exhausting#on top of me being already iffy about him. i'm 18 man i have so long to find someone#he was a lousy boyfriend a lot of the time. didn't make up for the things he said he'd make up for#he did get better but im not entirely sure since we didn't see each other for a month#all i need to do is look at the bright side of it all. i have so much freetime now. i can do what i want. i don't have to apologize for#every little thing. i feel more relaxed. i don't have to check my phone as often. i don't need to make excuses for someone else#alhamdullilah alhamdullilah alhamdullilah
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timothylawrence ยท 11 months
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apparently some desktop posts arent showing up on mobile and vice versa but anyway. love yall goodnite
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thefutureisyou ยท 1 year
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Alhamdullilah always..
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urostakako ยท 9 months
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my mom is the best person in this household and she is the best person in this whole fucking family and im sick of people acting like its otherwise
#ive never met a person who has made more sacrifices than her#my aunts and my grandma made her life absolute hell and my dad never believed her and blamed her for ripping our family apart#he only believed her when he heard it straight from his sister in laws' mouth. HIS SISTER IN LAW. NOT HIS WIFE.#my dad's sisters are constantly shitting on her. constantly constantly constantly and he never thinks theres anything wrong with it#because shes from a 'lower' family and because what right does she ever have over his siblings who have bullied him his whole life#it makes no fucking sense how he can side with these people over his own wife. what kind of husband are you#and my mom has done infinitely more for my brother than my dad but somehow my brother finds blame for her for every single thing#if there is a problem like the lights going out EVEN IF MY MOM ISNT FUCKING HOME my brother will find a way to blame her for it#because everything is a womans fault. if she makes him late to school once he wont talk to her for weeks disregarding all the times he made#her late for work and made her work until 9 in the fucking night to make up for it#and if my dad ever does the same thing? oh its not his fault ๐Ÿ˜#these people are all the worst hypocrites#everybody has their flaws. my mom surely has flaws too. but who are you people to act this way to your wife. to your mother.#someone who has sacrificed for you over and over and over again and continues to suffer because of you but still does things for you without#complaint#my mom's mother is sick and was so close to dying these past few weeks. alhamdullilah shes doing better now#but my dad did not call my nani or my mom's siblings once. NOT ONCE. never asked about her. never did anything#and then when my mom had enough and called him out on not being there for family he yelled at her for being crazy and unreasonable#but if this were any of my dad's siblings and my mom didnt call hed throw an absolute fit 'oh youre horrible you dont even think of family?'#my mom is somehow always the scapegoat for every single problem. if my dad drives recklessly and breaks smth in the car#and then my brother drives the car he will blame my mom for breaking the car because women are always horrible drivers#if my dad leaves the lights on and the bulbs stop working my brother will blame my mom#if my brother does something horrible my dad will say my mom is the reason hes grown up this way#DISREGARDING THAT HE HIMSELF ENABLES MY BROTHERS BEHAVIOR.#im so sick of this family im sick of their hypocrisy. my mom is the best person theyll ever meet AND THEY KNOW IT#if i could be even half the person my mom is i would not have the problems i do now#aricouldyounot
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apricotluvr ยท 10 months
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June 2023
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seashel1 ยท 2 years
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I think God gave me covid to slow me down โ€ฆ. I think he was like BREATHE. Relax. Lie down! STOP! It worked. Iโ€™ve not moved properly for 5 days </3
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agirlwithimaan ยท 11 months
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This is your sign to pray tahajjud atleast once a week or every few weeks.
I've struggled with binge eating as long as I can remember. I've been able to lose weight but end up gaining it back just as quickly because I was never able to change my eating habits. So just a few days ago I woke up for tahajjud to pray my usual 2 rakah and make my usual duaas and then I realised that I've never actually made duaa about my weight and eating habits. So I added this to my duaa list and immediately the next day I wanted to start my "diet" again. But this time I wanted to try to change my mindset and would you believe this- I haven't binged on food for 4 days (which is a huge deal for me.) I don't constantly think about food. I'm able to make better choices and can actually see teeny tiny results. I realised that I've tried everything to lose weight but I never really made duaa and asked Allah for guidance. And now that I have- Allah changed things for me and gave me a huge amount of strength to reach my goals. We usually ignore asking Allah for help on small and trivial things but we forget that we cannot accomplish even the "simple" things without Allah's help. Whether it's for something big or small. Tahajjud works.
Alhamdullilah.โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
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fluffy-appa ยท 2 months
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What is your wish for this Ramadhan?
I want Palestine to celebrate this Ramadhan together just like the rest of the world.
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zeynepaura ยท 4 days
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๐ƒ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐†๐จ๐จ๐ ๐‡๐š๐›๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ
หš เผ˜โ™ก โ‹†๏ฝกหš ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’ ๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’–๐’‘ ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’… ๐’‰๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’•๐’” หš เผ˜โ™ก โ‹†๏ฝกหš
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First off, giving up an old bad habit is difficult, that I know; however, it is not impossible. I've had a lot of difficulties in my life where I repeated the same habit over and over again and I thought for me I would never overcome them. But you know what changed? trying. I tried my best every day and even if I failed, I slowly accepted that I am not perfect and I am only human. That is who we are, and that is why Allah the Almighty is so merciful, because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala himself knows we humans will slip up and fall. But listen, it's not impossible and as annoying as it is, as long as you keep trying, keep having that good intentions of becoming better and to do better; trust me those habits will be history.
Whenever we do something for the sake of our lord, everything works out, everything clicks together. These habits you have won't be vanished for one day of course, or a week, it's a process--a journey that we all need to accept. Think of it as a fitness journey, you won't get fit in one day. These things take time and after feeling so negative about myself I realized as long as you try, asking Allah for help, and doing the most you can--it is possible.
I hope these tips do help you, and everyone is different as everyone has different struggles and bad habits. These will either help you or guide you to overcome those habits in your own way. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy for us.
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โค‘ ๐‘ฐ๐’Ž๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’—๐’† ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ธ๐’–๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š ๐‘ถ๐’‡ ๐’€๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ต๐’‚๐’Ž๐’‚๐’›
I have seen a video of someone asking a scholar why do I still commit these bad deeds/habits if I am performing my five daily prayers? and the answer to this was the quality of your namaz. Do you rush into prayer, are you zoning out, are you not on time for namaz, and etc.
There is of course a lot to this but the quality of your namaz and how much time you spend with our lord does affect our hearts.
One of many ways to re-connect with our lord to become better with our daily prayers are:
Performing your prayers on time (I understand how our laziness could get in the way or how we are so into whatever we were doing before and cannot detach ourselves from this but, a quote I read and did help me at times like this was "Put your time and effort to Allah, and Allah will put his time and effort to you too.")
Recite a dua/surah after your namaz (Ayetel kursi, a repentance dua, La ilaha illallah, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul hamdu, yuhyi wa yumitu, wa huwa ala kulli shay'in qadir, and etc.)
Perform your wudhu 15-10 minutes earlier (Let me tell you when I did this it was so effective. When you perform wudhu earlier, you are in a clear-minded state and are purified. Along with you being on time for namaz, this additionally helps you become more focused during namaz)
Perform Dhikr (Subhanallah, Alhamdullilah, Astaghfirullah, La illaha illallah, Allahu Akbar)
Learn the meaning of what you are reciting (When you learn and understand the meaning of the surah/dua's you are reciting, being focused becomes easier and the connection becomes stronger)
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โค‘ ๐‘ซ๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’“๐’‚๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”
Create distractions for yourself to not commit those deeds/habits!
Do what you love and enjoy (Go back to those hobbies you used to enjoy! or hang out with your friends and family.)
Educate yourself (Look up interesting things; Learn something new; Watch an islamic podcast)
Get to work (If you have any outstanding work or homework, get straight to it.)
Learn a new surah (Let's say you REALLY have nothing else to do, then what better way to spend that time in something worthy--learning a surah!)
Go outside and enjoy nature!
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โค‘ ๐‘ฉ๐’–๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’๐’… ๐‘ฏ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’•๐’”
Along with giving up those bad habits, create new good habits to incorporate in your day-to-day life!
Each day, add something in your routine--even if its small! For instance, get back to that skin care routine you were so lazy to do; or go on that walk you kept saying later to; or even folding your clothes and organizing your closet. Each time you add a good habit to do, you become distracted to those bad habits, have less time do commit them, and on the long run you are creating habits for a better difference!
With this in mind, please do not do everything at once. To prevent a negative on-going cycle, just like that book "Atomic Habits" said, that "If you can get 1% better each day for one year, you'll end up with 37 times better by the time you're done."
A habit to always include and progress even more is repentance! Recite and repeat Astaghfirullah; Ya Gaffar and Ya Gafoor; as well as the repentance surah's! Before doing anything, always say Bismillah and whether you're doing chores or scrolling on your phone, always say Astaghfirullah. This helps you be more aware of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala!
And lastly, remember you can do it!
: ฬ—ฬ€โž› Allahumma musarrifal-qulubi, sarrif qulubana 'ala ta'atika
O Allah! Controller of the hearts, direct our hearts to Your obedience.
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theweepingegg ยท 4 months
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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2024 !!! Alhamdullilah, Another year has gone by. A lot of things has happened to me. I am however thankful with everything and I'm sure things happened for a reason.
Here's to another year. May our year be kind to us and also be full of blessings for us. Insha'Allah.
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terroristiraqi ยท 7 days
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im over it im just lonely. but i have leyli so everything is right in the world. alhamdullilah
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fatimaah ยท 1 day
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Rafah
My heart is cracking everyday. I don't even want my money. Want to sell my house, sell my tears and donate each sum. I think that's the least I can do....forget it all, forget them all, how can I forget what you've been through?
You make me want to cut my heart and rip it all, each piece, apart; give you my soul, so yours won't be lonely and so your heart will beat even in the price of mine.
I hate the world, I am starting to hate myself, I wish u knew how much I want to do for u, how sorry I am, oh little boy who brings his mother food in a container heated under sun... burning his hand.
Just because you were born in your land they're making you watch how your loved ones are turning into skeletons.
Wish I could sell my skeleton, to buy you bread, when was the last time you had bread? Was it before October? Why are you still smiling? Why are you so grateful, oh father? You lost your love, you lost your beautiful little girl so why why why are you still saying Alhamdullilah?
I wish you knew how much you did for us. You shook the world, u turned off the stupid tv we were all watching and now we finally see what is going on in our houses. You gave us a reason to think about life, death, gratitude, hypocrisy, faith.
You lost everything, why didn't they break your faith then?
Sometimes I feel like we are all made from glass, ready to mentally and physically break even from one week of living your routine. You aren't the glass, you aren't even a stone. You are mountains, you are beautiful birds, you are the best representation of not giving up.
I hope you know how much you shook my heart.
Nothing,
No one
has even shaken it like you did.
I apologize
wish I could scream it from the top of a highest building in Samarkand, so that you will hear me.
And if you do, will you forgive me?
April 25, 2024
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islam-reflections ยท 1 year
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All your life, other people will try to take your accomplishments away from you. Don't you take it away from yourself.
Michael Crichton
Alhamdullilah a million times for everything that Allah allowed us to do
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