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aspecpplarebeautiful · 12 days

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Being asexual doesn't make you a child or child-like. If you are an adult you deserve to be treated like an adult.

#ace positivity #asexual #actualy asexual

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callmefe · 22 days

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Lol, my friend is looking trough my posts and is corecting all my spelling mistakes. IN MY DEFENCE, english isn't my first language, but it’s still funny hdidhdid

ANYWAY! Out of boredom, I made a silly little poem about love! I'm aroace (or better said demi-romantic and asexual) and I wrote a poem about my view on love!

"Love is a word I never understood

From since I was so very young.

Everyone told me it's like "magic",

But yet, by Cupid I was never stung.

Throughout the time I felt so weird...

Why was it only me,

Who just could not feel the romance

When others were flooded by it like a sea?

Now I grew and understood,

that love is so much more than that!

It comes in all shapes and forms,

Everywhere you look at!

I love my friends and family,

that I can not hide.

I love my cat, I love my home,

And I can say it with lots of pride!

So even though Cupid missed me,

He's ignoring me at the time,

I learned that love is more than romance!

And after all, I wasn't left aside."

I'm actulay kinda proud of it, considering I don't really write poems! My friend actulay inspired me a lot hdhdje. I hope anyone that sees this can enjoy it too! HAVE A GOOD DAY/NIGHT HDHSHSHHD :3

P.s: My friend just told me that "Time" and "Aside" don't rhyme, BUT idc, cause I don't wana change it lol

#original poem #my first poem #I don't really write but I think it's actualy pretty decent #english is not my first language #I did SO many spelling mistakes at first #aroace #asexual #demiromantic #idk what else to tag #hope you like it #thank you for reading #i was bored #take care of yourself

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breadbrobin · 1 year

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i no longer dress for the male gaze. i dress for the Gayze. as in the gays. as in im gay. i dress for women

#yeah i’m like super gay actualy #smth ab wearing a tank top with a loose ish fit and a slutty little keyhole neckline that makes me feel mm #yk?#iykyk #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#queer #gay #bisexual #asexual #women #womennnnn <33

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anonaddy · 2 years

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Don’t read plz. <3

Oh! I never explained why I “left” tumblr? I can’t post drawings anymore cause my phone and tablet and drawing tablet were taken because im pan :] Oh and my computer history gets checked every night and its srictly only for school now.

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olderthannetfic · 7 months

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In ace communities, "sex repulsed" has always meant a hard, unequivocable, non-negotioable, non-contextual, permanent "no", no matter if it's based in disgust or not. The term has always been used to distinguish the "absolutely never" aces from other types. This is how the ace community has always used this term, it's what the term means in an ace context, and I don't see that actualy changing any time soon (even if a bunch of people are inexplicably using "sex negative" for that, I really don't see that usage sticking around after a couple of "oh wait, you mean you don't want sex YOURSELF, not that you think I'm a bad person" misunderstandings)

Anon, you're the one pathologizing and stigmatizing asexuality by trying to talk people into coming up with a different term than the one that's been used this way for decades.

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currently-evil · 2 months

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I’ll distract you 😌💕

24 21 and 16!!! Please 🙏🏼

Thank you, I am writing now 20 pages about floods in my country and I need to break. Did you know that in the middle ages only one guy wrote down what were the causes of some floods and after he died everybody was like "in year 1493 there was a flood but its boring and i wont write anything more about it" I AM DOING A STATISTICS ABOUT ALL MAYOR FLOOD WHY NOBODY OF YOU WROTE DOWN WHAT CAUSES IT OH MY GOOOOD

Anyway, I am going to stop talking about flood and talk about Rowan, my beloved :)

16. Describe their least favorite/most embarassing sexual encounter.

I am going to assume consensual. I dont really wanna bring my mood down to think what happend in Farm.

His least favorite was his first time he got in contact with anything sexual. (Rowan was all his life extremely asexual and sex repulsed, only now his relationship with Steel and Ortega made him realise sex was good and it was something he actualy wanted and liked.) I think it would be when he was a Farm operative on some mission, he was pretending to be asleep in some club to have free range to scan minds of patrons, when some couple started doing it next to him, with this whole "haha its more exciting because somebody is near and we can be caught" while Rowan couldnt move away and was subjected to their very horny thoughts and was all like "Eww Eww Eww stop it! stop it! Blergh!"

Most embarassing was his first time with Ortega, when he still havent told him about being Regene and they did it in the dark. I imagine Rowan was stiff as board at the beggining, for sure accidentally hitting Ortega once or twice and so unsure it was painfuly visible he had no experince. But it was good. Ortega was patient and loving and both of them didnt comment when both of them started to cry in the middle of it.

You know what! His first time at all would be super embarassing too! It was with Steel and he powered through all the foreplay with pure determination of "i like wei he likes me we both want to have sex stop being nervous STOP BEING NERVOUS CALM DOWN" and then suddenly when he sits on Wei's dick he just breaks down like "THIS SO NERVE WRACKING WHAT DO I DO?? WHAT IF I DO SOMETHING WRONG? WHAT IF I RUIN THE SEX? HOW DO I EVEN HAVE A GOOD SEX? HOW DO I EVEN MAKE IT GOOD FOR WEI??" and Steel have a little heart attack. He have to calm Rowan down and assure him that he doesnt have to do anything, he can just lay down and enjoy and be a little pillow princess its ok, they have time. After that well :)

21. What scent of candle do they light after sex?

I like to imagine Rowan as sleek and modern guy with woodsy scents. I had one that I think would suit him, It was called Seaside Woods Yankee Candle. But to be honest I think he would just light up a cigarette :D

24. A song they would fuck/get fucked to

Honest to god I think he would fuck in silence. I think he would concentrate too much on his partner on noises they make on their thoughts to even hear any kind of music in the background. But I think Ortega is more of a guy to have music while having sex and Rowan would just roll his eyes at him and bitch about it but honestly agree to anything if he could have Ortega kissing him into matress.

#excuse any mistakes i dont feel like checking this #rowan rowan #i need to come back to my floods

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acilykos · 2 years

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You asexual freaks will never be accepted by us who are actualy lgbt. Senku isnt asexual accept it.

You’re right, he’s not just asexual, he’s aromantic too! A loveless AroAce! Isn’t that great?

How’s your aphobia going? You seem quite pissed about the idea of a fictional character not banging anyone lol I’m sorry your brain capacity isn’t high enough to handle the idea of people not being interested :’(

Here’s some lovely AroAce Senku manga content just for you. I hope you have a great day or night depending on your time zone :)

Also here’s a little German proverb for you before you leave! Gods, throw some brains down or heavy stones, as long as they hit ✨

- Sincerely an AroAce <3

PS: I think you forgot some letters! It’s lgbtqia+ The “A” stands for Asexual, Aromantic, Agender, and every other romantic/sexual orientation and gender that starts with an “A” ;)

#senku is an aroace we love it #senku ishigami #ishigami senkū #dr. stone #dcst #drst #senku #senkuu ishigami #ishigami senkuu #asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aroace #aro #ace #you are not just a clown you are the entire circus

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nkhluu · 7 days

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WELCOME TO THE BLOG 💗💗

My name's Nkhluu!! (Not actualy name ofc)

I'm asexual, and i go by she/her

Will use #nkhluutalks as an tag

I'm Mongolian. With English being my second language, my wrting will be horrid. So just to assure you that i use a bit of Google Translate.

I LOVE READING (i'm a nerd) LIKE, DO GET ME STARTED ON GREAT EXPECTATIONS, LES MIS, AND LITTLE WOMEN 😻😻😻

More about the blog is that i post South Park. Like ONLY South Park. You'll barely see any other fandom. I'm actually in lots of fandoms : Moral Orel, Modern Family, Jojo Rabbit, y'know. The usual. My favorites are Pip, Estella, and Damien. And a few others.

I DO take requests, they are fully open! But the art might take 3-4 hours, or more. Due to being..y'know..A student. More about South Park is that i'm working on an au 'Cosmic Bupkis' with an irl friend. You can find the acc here. I haven't posted anything, but be sure to turn on the notifications!! Here are example arts for those who want to send requests:

I'm suprised if anyone is going to read this. Have a nice day (or depending on your time zones)

#south park #sp #nkhluutalks #pip pirrup #sp pip #sp gregory #sp estella #sp damien #sp christophe

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hunting-songs · 3 months

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Sexual Traits: Senritsu Döne BOLDED is ❛ yes ❜ ITALICS is ❛ conditional ❜ or ❛ partner-dependent . ❜ STRUCK-THROUGH is ❛ nahhhhhh, not at all, hard pass ❜

INCLINATIONS & HABITS submissive / dominant / prefers to top / prefers to bottom / likes to switch / heterosexual / gay / lesbian / bisexual / pansexual / asexual / demisexual / enjoys sex with men / enjoys sex with women / enjoys sex with aliens / enjoys sex with androids / enjoys sex with (sentient) monsters / enjoys sex with genderfluid, agender, demigender, or nonbinary individuals / enjoys sex with all genders regardless of how they identify / enjoys sex with multiple people at a time / enjoys intimacy with women / enjoys intimacy with men / enjoys intimacy with genderfluid, agender, demigender, or nonbinary individuals / enjoys intimacy with all genders regardless of how they identify / initiates / waits for partner to initiate / spits / swallows / morning sex / night sex / sex at any time / no sex drive / low sex drive / average sex drive / high sex drive / hypersexual Due to her keen hearing and therefor clearly always knowing what her partner wants (especially wants from her), Senritsu does not innitate anything that goes over playful flirting. For Senritsu her hearing is like reading minds, and just because someone is thinking about beeing sexual with a person does not mean that they actualy want to. Her partners can not conset to her knowing that about them,after all Senritsu can not just turn off her hearing. So she will always wait to her partners clarly and loudly stating their consent and intentions with her by innitating.

BODY & APPEARANCE slender build / medium build / athletic build / muscular build / curvy build / voluptuous build / chubby build / wears boxers / wears boxer-briefs / wears lingerie / goes commando / shaves / trims / does not shave / waxes / cup size a-c / cup size d-f / 1-5” in length / 6-9” in length / 10” or over in length / Mun hasn’t thought about length

SOUNDS silent / quiet / loud / grows in volume over time / bites hand / bites partner / bites pillow to muffle themselves / calls out partner’s name / curses / growls / fakes / exaggerates / prefers a quiet partner / prefers a loud / appropriately vocal partner / prefers a responsive partner / prefers a loud partner / prefers a partner who grows in volume over time / no preference for partner’s noise level / turned on by dirty talk / turned off by dirty talk *For Senritsu there is a very big difference between hearing someone wanting her through their breathing, bodys movement or heartbeat, and actually hearing them say that. Senritsu would never- NEVER!- react to a persons advances that are not clearly said out loud, because she knows that there is very often a difference between what a persons wants and what their body wants /reacts to. And just because she knows what that person wants , it is their own, clear decision to approach her and only if they do that first, she will actually entertain the idea of indulging in anything with them. That is also the reason why Senritsu would never make the first step towards a partner that goes over playful flirting. She would not even kiss them (in a romantic or sexual way) first. It is because Senritsu feels like she is taking her partners consent away, when she would react to what she is hearing in their breathing, heartbeat and way of movements and she is not the kind of person who even slightly enjoys the thought of that. It is already a breech of trust for her knowing her partners wants without them announcing them, and she will not break their trust any further.

PLACES bedroom / shower / bath / pool / ocean / kitchen / home bathroom / public bathroom / car / tent / alleyway / field / forest / school / empty or abandoned building / library / rooftop / terrace / dressing room / elevator / parking lot / museum / cemetery / beach / closet / hospital Since the time after she had been cursed, Senritsu is very uncomfortable with Hospital settings. There is no good place to startle awake with a inhuman hearing one can not control yet, but a hospital where people are screaming and in pain and one can even hear the cold air down in the mortuary wash over the corpse of your best friend, was for Senritsu the worst place at that time. For any other place beside a hospital: Senritsu is a adventurer. She can sleep anywhere. And she can 'sleep' anywhere. Tagged By: A little bird! Tagging: YOU!

#enjoys sex with (sentient) monsters. Senritsu is a music hunter. She definitive hooked up with a mermaid before #let the woman live #hunting-songs: headcanon #hunting-songs #lol #She is also polyamorous but #THAT WOMAN HAS ENOUGH PROBLEMS KEEPING ONE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP GOING

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derangedpepper · 2 years

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just some random amphibia headcanons

marcy: they/them/xe/xeir/xem/nya/nyas (im an idiot so i mostly use they/them for marcy), asexual lesbian, afab non-binary, sleeps like a cat (not as long, but like xe look like a cat when they sleep), gets like 2 hours of sleep a day on a good day, has adhd and autism, was OBSESSED with danganronpa when it came out. like. all they thought about was danganronpa and it was nyas longest lasting hyperfixation. xeir favorite animal is a bird (for obvious reasons) and their second favorite is horses, has ridden a horse twice, terrified of the ocean, lil sneaky goober. wonders how literally anything tastes (anne once had to stop them from eating a lava lamp, but i mean can you blame xem??) has broken like every bone in their body. pre-amphibia they said poggers. now nya says froggers. booksmart lifedumb. whenever they see someone with neopronouns they have to resist the urge to use the neopronouns. is one of those ao3 writers that is gone for like a year then returns with the weirdest story ever. once forced sasha to binge the entirety of mlp including the movie, and now hes traumatized (in a /nsrs way dont worry (but i mean they are traumatized in a /srs way too)) commits piracy and various other crimes a ton (somehow they havent been caught. wtf.) has conversations with their alt accounts on the internet (same). gay for sasha and anne. anne: she/her, pansexual, transgirl, literally if a mouse squeaked she would wake up and she hates it. loves cats and frogs. LOVE watermelon like its amazing cmon you should try it (totally not anne boonchuy speaking to you rn), dislikes grayscale, third favorite animal is ferrets cause theyre little noodles, gets overwhelmed by noise easily (anne same), falls for rickrolls and deez jokes (and stuff like that) SUPER easily, she smells like a wet towel (but in a good way). enough said. literally always loses her shoe, no matter if its pre- or post-amphibia. wants to dress like a pirate at times and does. once accidentally commited piracy and cried about it for a month. gay for marcy and sasha (no i did not almost write anne) sasha: he/she/they, but mostly he/him, bisexual, genderfluid, wakes up right when marcy goes to bed (5 in the morning), goes to the gym, enough said. will cry if he sees a toad. they are angy but uwu on the inside (im so sorry for saying this but theres no better way to describe it), ate wood as a child and i think this affected how he turned out. despises koalas, even before she discovered how bitchy they are. favorite animal is definitely a dolphin. rickrolls everyone, tells deez jokes, literally just anything you can think of. yes he has 69 in every user she has. afraid of horses but wont tell anyone (especially not marcy). i thought of the "is afraid of horses" thing before i was like "marcy made them watch mlp" and i actualy forgot i had headcanoned sasha as terrified of horses. gay for anne and marcy.

#amphibia #headcanons #marcy wu #anne boonchuy #sasha waybright #lgbtqia+ headcanons #i could probably list like 98 million more headcanons but eh #i got the tag word limit like 8 times wtf #what are yalls opinions on worms on strings? also whats the plural of worm on a string

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chaoticlycrookedimperfections · 2 years

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Uuuh. Tik tok calling me out

Disorgised attachment

I know the phyc says this and I agree cos of the little I research.

But. Tik tok o confirms it.

I’m not fucking asexual.

My reaction to relationships and sex is all trauma.

Oh and is one of the rare attachment styles. Fuck

From what I remember about being with d. I think I did some of these things but also just inside my head. That relationships was fucked 3 months in when she did th thing to me. And tried again soon after.

I’m gonna be alone forever. I’m too scared to be in a relationship but the worse thing to me could be being lonely.

Top 5 tbings that’s the worst

Mum dieing

Putting on too much weigh / getting too big

A relationship.

Being lonely

Crying infront of the phyc and pretty much anyone except sort of funerals.

I have anxiety about a lot of things. But if I did get cancer ( that’s possibly cos I’m high risk for that ) it’s Actualy not in my top 5 worse things in the world.

I fucking hate my trauma responses. This one screams dad and maybe whoever before and after I was relinquished.

Again I NEVER STOOD A FUCKING CHANCE

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rjalker · 9 months

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wow brain fart. it's not asexual reproduction, that's cloning. what's it called that snails do. where all individuals produce both sperm and eggs. I keep getting mixed up with plants lofl. I don't think monoecious applies to non-plants...

....okay actualy I googled it and it can also apply to animals. Alright. that works then lol.

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minty-frost · 3 years

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Something that I learned is, *sips water from a neon green-yellow mug*... Adults are so GODDAMN horny...

#Imm not sure if this is because im a child #Or im actualy asexual #But i am disgusted by most sex jokes and just people talking about it

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absurdthirst · 3 years

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1/2 Hello! I wanted to "answer" the ticklish anon! Actualy, the same things happen to me with my girlfriend (both women too) but on the other side. She's hella ticklish, sometimes even when we're holding hands 😭 The only difference is that she isn't asexual, she does have a low sex drive though. And absolutely evreything i did during sex tickled her, kissing, touching her and oral too. Knowing she hate being tickled i always felt bad for her

Ohhhh good story!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳

Anon, I hope this helps!

#real talk #anon to anon

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the-genetic-llama · 3 years

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So I need some help from the ace spectrum community… Iv been struggling with my sexuality recently. I know I don’t need any labels, but at the same time it just feels really wrong when one of my friends who’s part of the lgbtq+ community says like “well your hEteROsexUal” even in a joking sense, so I want to find what I am so I can tell them that… I have looked into demisexual and asexual and I feel like I may be one of those? I’m only in highschool and Iv always had a lot of pressure in terms of school and other things so Iv never really thought about dating much or relationships. More recently my close friends have started talking about people they like and how they want to kiss so bad and what not and I just can’t understand it… it’s then that I realized I have really NEVER looked at someone and thought I wanted to touch or kiss them or anything. And Iv never really understood crush’s. Iv liked people kind of, but Iv never been able to imagine myself actualy WITH them. Iv never had sex or even been touched so I don’t know whether I would like it or not which is why I’m so unsure. I do read smut and what not and like it a lot.. same with sexual things between charecters that have nothing to do with me, you know? I really don’t like physical contacts with anyone other than my family. Even my best friend since birth, I can’t stand to be touched and find it really uncomfortable. But I feel like I might like it if I met the right person you know? I also feel like that may be because I’m super insecure about my body. Please tell me what you think. I’m really struggling.

#asexual #asexuel #ace spectrum #lgbtq+#questioning #demisexuell

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andimthekingofaraby · 3 years

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U guys as someone who is almost definitely some sort of asexual it is genuinely CONFOUNDING to me that some people after a few glasses of wine always default to..........horny?????? Don’t we have less inhibitions drunk?????? Does that mean there are people. Walking around on this planet right this very second. Whose default state underneath everything about the context of the situation/place they’re in restraining them out of propriety..........is horny?????????????????????? This actualy makes me very uncomfortable to think about like?????????????????? Y’all just walk around and the sight of an attractive person could literally THROW YOU OFF YOUR WHOLE STATE OF MIND¿ that’s actually so inconvenient for u like cannot relate but get well soon I gues????

#I am....so powerful #ace #asexual #this is a joke #but also I am 100% deadass because I’m so confused?????#u guys pls I am 22 years of age and these are new revelations for me

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