the opinion for today is that john’s never really needed to be fixed and pairing him with any character for the sole purpose of “fixing” him belittles both the character and john himself. john does care a lot for people, but a lot of people want to ‘fix’ him in ships when in reality, he does care. he can be a great boyfriend who understands boundaries ( as shown with kit, for example, and dani ), but he does run away when he thinks that significant other might be in danger because of him and he’s aware of that fact ( like with oliver, in the newer constantine: the hellblazer run ).
is he an asshole? absolutely. but does he need to be ‘fixed’? no. he’s fine. he’s a decent guy, who’s willing to do just about anything for his friends and feels immense guilt if anything happens to them. he’s never needed to be a hero. he doesn’t want to be a hero. don’t force his hand into being one in the dc universe. keep him his little chaotic neutral self. has he saved the world? yes, but it’s more of a “well, no one else was going to do it” mentality and at one point, he only saves the world because there’s a lack of cigarettes and the shipments of cigarettes weren’t coming in, but that’s also because of his “well, i keep saving the world, and it keeps ending. there’s no point anymore”. poor guy, honestly.
anyways, in sum, i don’t like the whole “they can fix him” ships with john. i think it’s demeaning. can someone be with john without needing to fix him please. thanks.
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one time on another platform when i was super new to self shipping i was like. how can you believe your f/o loves you back? and someone replied “don’t they bring you comfort? that is their love for you”
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"OC X Canon, selfshipping and self insertz are cringe" what if I sent you to the MEATGRINDER.
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I can't I need this milkman so bad what the flip !!! I'm a sucker for a pretty man w/ tired eyes you CAN'T do this to me !!
anyway, might post my Francis doodles later + some of my TNMN sona stuff because she's such a gal, and THEN maybe post the self ship nonsense I have in my wild lil head
also shout out to his bloody doppel it makes me feel things
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♡ F/O ♡
Dunno who needs to hear this but:
Your f/o loves you and you only
Fuck the "canon"/popular ships.
You're just as valid, you're just as real.
They're yours, and you're theirs 😌✨❤
They love you - Always.
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He would never hate me for my mental illnesses and brain being fucked up and needing reassurance constantly,,
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dont know if this has been posted before but whatever
PROSHIP DNI !!
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Some fandoms are really weird and anti-oc and it's incredibly obvious! Just a little poke is all. :P I was inspired to put these together after I got rejected by an artist who ships Bagginshield but refused to draw Bofuranna.
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Thank you so much @lipsticklens !! 🥺🫶
Honestly I hadn't given it all that much thought?? Sometimes when I gain an f/o I'm really crazy about I just jump right into like...an established relationship, but it's so much fun to think about those early awkward days!!
Utonium being the hopeless and awkward romantic that he is, I think he'd want to do something very traditional. A nice dinner at a fairly fancy restaurant and a walk in the park under the stars, but given the nature of the show I'm sure things would go pretty wrong pretty fast! It'd be cute if the sort of 'plot' of the episode was the girls doing everything in their power to make sure NOTHING goes wrong by following them around and beating up villains or monsters who might try to interrupt the lovebirds! 😂 but despite ups and downs the date ends up being successful and they share their first kiss, initiated by Jane because Utonium is a little too shy for it 👉👈💖💖
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EEEEE gay horses forever and always 🫶🫶
[Pr*shippers fuck off and die, preferably.]
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