#3.16

[scoobydoodean]

You really just can't unsee it once you see it though, can you?

Sam starts blaming Dean for what he's going to do (work with Ruby) way back in 3.09 because Dean isn't going to be around to be Sam's mommy, which is going to force Sam's hand.

After Dean comes back, Sam actually blames Dean for him working with Ruby by saying Dean wasn't there to protect him (4.04).

Dean repeatedly begs Sam not to work with Ruby and is ignored repeatedly (3.03, 3.04, 3.09, 3.16, 4.01-4.04, 4.12-4.22).

After telling Dean to open up to him and trust him (4.08), Sam calls Dean weak and pathetic for being traumatized by hell and says Dean is holding him back and therefore deserves to be lied to because he can't be of use (4.14) Sam says it's not what he really thinks when they both know it is (and Sam repeats it to other characters in 4.16, and 4.18) and then he admits it's the truth again to Dean's face in 4.21.

Sam accuses Dean of not trusting him enough (4.21).

Bobby blows up at Dean for not supporting Sam enough and calls him a pansy after Sam strangled Dean near unconscious, and tells him family is supposed to make you miserable (4.22).

Dean tries to reach out to Sam and Zachariah and Cas actively prevent him from doing so (Cas only at first) (4.22)

Zachariah (5.01) and Cas (5.02) both tell Dean the apocalypse is his fault because Dean didn't reach Sam in time to stop him from killing Lilith.

Dean says Sam hurt him, Sam is the one Dean depended on the most and Sam hurt him in ways he can't even voice (5.01). Sam apologizes, but then in the very next episode, shoves Dean into a wall for not trusting him like Dean is crazy and irrational when Sam doesn't even trust himself (5.02).

Sam says he thinks they should go their separate ways and is shocked when Dean agrees easily. Dean says that he spends more time worrying about Sam than he does doing the job right and time apart would be good. Sam reiterates that he's sorry and Dean gently says he knows Sam is (5.02).

Cas asks Dean if he's okay even without his brother, and Dean says "Especially without my brother. I mean, I spent so much time worrying about the son of a bitch. I mean, I’ve had more fun with you in the past twenty-four hours than I’ve had with Sam in years, and you’re not that much fun. It’s funny, you know, I’ve been so chained to my family, but now that I’m alone, hell, I’m happy." (5.03)

Sam says he wants back in. Dean objects, on the basis that he thinks they're stronger apart. Dean says they're each other's weaknesses and it's being used against them (5.04, but the weakness line is repeated from 3.03 and 3.16).

Zachariah pushes Dean into a future 2014 where Dean never met up with Sam again, and as a result, Sam said "Yes" to Lucifer, and billions of people died. All because Dean didn't want to be around Sam after being hurt and never reconnected with him (5.04).

Dean reconnects with Sam (5.04) even though he clearly doesn't want to, because the first case we see them on again, Dean struggles to trust Sam and leaves to go drink alone because he doesn't want to be around Sam (5.05).

Sam says part of the reason he went off with Ruby was to get away from Dean, because Dean is smothering. Dean is the problem in the relationship, because Sam feels inferior compared to him. Dean apologizes for being too smothering (5.05).

What does all of this tell you? Dean can't win. Dean will always be the bad guy in the family. He loves too much, or he isn't loving enough. Sam needs him and Dean wasn't there for him and so Sam went down the wrong path, but also Dean is smothering and Dean being smothering is the reason Sam went down the wrong path. Sam is not a trustworthy person, but Dean doesn't trust him enough. Sam not being trustworthy is Dean's fault. Dean doesn't deserve trust, but Sam deserves Dean's trust no matter what and not giving Sam his trust is the worst possible thing in the entire world and also again makes him smothering. The apocalypse is Dean's fault. Every single thing Sam does every single mistake he might ever make in his life is always at least partly Dean's fault and Dean's responsibility.

#parentification #season 5 #season 4 #multiseason #projecting displaced aggression and scapegoating in spn #3.03 #3.16 #3.09 #4.04 #4.22 #5.01 #5.02 #5.03 #5.04 #5.05 #family chains

[dailybuckleysiblings]

The Buckley siblings + pinky promises ♡

#maddie buckley #evan buckley #maddiebuckleyedit #evanbuckleyedit #911edit #gifs #4.05 #3.16 #4.04 #by krys #911verse

[spacedean]

DEAN WINCHESTER in one random episode per day ‣ 178/327 3.16 NO REST FOR THE WICKED

#spnedit #deanedit #dean winchester #deanwinchesteredit #supernatural #supernaturaledit #randomep #3.16

[amazingmaeve]

MICHONNE HAWTHORNE IN THE WALKING DEAD | 3.16 “Welcome to the Tombs”

#endless michonne gifs #michonne hawthorne #michonnehawthorneedit #michonne grimes #michonnegrimesedit #danai gurira #twd #twdedit #thewalkingdeadedit #the walking dead #3.16 #my gifs #queue me up scotty #* #*gifs #*gifset #twddaily #dailytwd #twdladiesdaily #dailywoc #wocsource #wocdaily #dailytvwomen #dailywomansource #ladiesofcinema #femalegifsource #femaledaily #femalecharacters #dailyhorrorgifs #bblecher

[fighting-naturalist]

Daniel and Jack in “Urgo”

#stargate #sg-1 #stargateedit #jack o'neill #daniel jackson #richard dean anderson #michael shanks #s3 #ep16 #3.16 #***edits #literally SO MUCH of what makes their dynamic good #is just the way they look at each other #doesn't matter if you ship it or not the chemistry is undeniable #just two actors who vibe together so perfectly

[rheefamilysource]

GLENN & MAGGIE IN THE WALKING DEAD | 3.16 “Welcome to the Tombs”

#glenn rhee #glennrheeedit #steven yeun #maggie rhee #maggierheeedit #lauren cohan #glenn x maggie #glaggie #twd #twdedit #the walking dead #thewalkingdeadedit #s3 #3.16 #my gifs #queue are lovely #*gifs #*mygifs #* #dailytwd #twddaily #twdladiesdaily #dailywomansource #dailymalesource #dailypoc #otpsource #romancegifs #photopeablr #bblecher #dailyfilmsource

[scullys-scalpel]

#grab that dough #dorothy zbornak #bea arthur #the golden girls #3.16 #80s sitcom #my shitty cell phone gifs

[livingsingle-tv]

Living Single (1993-1998) → Season 3, Episode 16: Likes Father, Likes Son

Synclaire: Oh, you know what? I think that Regine wants to be alone with her date and his son. Or her date and his dad. Well, you know what I mean. I mean them. Khadijah: Good save, Synclaire. Overton: Actually, she did alright. I mean this is an awkward situation. Synclaire: I'm tellin' you.

#living single #black sitcoms #synclaire james #khadijah james #overton jones #regine hunter #kyle barker #cole front #warner devant #3.16 #television #gifset #scene #queue

[azurelum1]

I don’t know how to feel when my friend has only watched season 1 to 3 and s15 e20 of Supernatural - like you saw Dean get dragged to hell and was not interested in to know what happens next but curious enough to know how the show ended so you watched the last episode which he dies on a rebar

I -

#supernatural #spn #dean winchester #sam winchester #destiel #s15 e20 #carry on #season finale #spn s1 #spn s3 #spn s3 e16 #no rest for the wicked #3.16 #15.20

[deancasforcutie]

something about the continued(!) motif of Dean’s body as a conduit for violence, from his first traumatic death to his last, but also how the difference between his damnation and salvation is his self-affirmation that “that’s not who I am” (no longer “a good soldier and nothing else, daddy’s blunt little instrument”) — and how he weaponizes the assurance that nothing will hurt him like that again

reclaiming agency over one’s life (and death) — that’s the deal with catharsis

#they healed so many old wounds in just one season. pls corporate overlords let us have more long slow-build catharsis-driven theater <3 #the winchesters #supernatural #spn #dean winchester #spnedit #spn meta #spnwin 1.13 #3.16 #15.20 #mine

[joshdonnas]

3x16 | THE U.S. POET LAUREATE

The West Wing (1999-2006)

#twwedit #thewestwingedit #the west wing #josh lyman #donna moss #josh x donna #s3 #3.16 #tvfilmsource #smallscreensource #usersource #otpsource #useroptional #userthing #tvcentric #filmtv #tvandfilm #tvgifs #TVedit #i just love this little spin they do lmao

[scoobydoodean]

And is "Dean looking at Sam like he's some kind of sideshow freak" in the room with us now? | 3.16, 1.06, 1.14, 2.05, 2.10, 2.11, 2.14

#pk rewatches spn number ? #good gifs with free tools challenge #projecting displaced aggression and scapegoating in spn #spn revisionisms #3.16 #1.06 #1.14 #2.05 #2.10 #2.11 #2.14 #compilation #season 1 #season 2 #season 3 #multiseason #the flannel business #ruby #that little fallen angel on your shoulder #sam and isolation

[dinahlaurellancesource]

dinah laurel lance: food is her love language

#arrowedit #laurellanceedit #dctvedit #dctvgifs #1.07 #1.08 #1.11 #1.15 #1.19 #2.13 #3.16 #4.15 #gif #laurel lance #tommy merlyn #thea queen #quentin lance #birds of prey #* #by samin

[70s-show-diary]

Kitty: Here, here. You can each have a Snack Pack. Fez and Hyde: [together] Thank you, Mrs. Forman.

What I love so much about this scene is it shows how much reverence the kids have for Kitty. Is pudding what Fez and Hyde really want in this moment? No. They wanted beer. But they respectfully (if not also solemnly) accept Kitty's offering and recognize the way she graciously overlooks what they had been doing in the kitchen. Its moments like these that make it painstakingly clear that Kitty Forman is the venerated matriarchal figurehead among her family and (kids') friends. She is in many ways, the heart of That '70s Show.

BTW - @that70sshowgoldencouple has a lovely gifset of this entire encounter here.

#I just love Kitty so so much #and this scene is *chef's kiss* #That '70s Show #Romantic Weekend #3.16 #Kitty Forman #Fez #Steven Hyde #That 70s Show #T7S #q

[ozkcer]

“house will do wilson before you do chase” - foreman to cameron after cameron has slept with chase on multiple occasions, one of which foreman does, in fact, know about. foreman also blames cameron sleeping with chase the first time on her being high while also knowing that house is on vicodin 24/7

this is the same episode that wilson ‘accuses’ house of wanting to fuck the village people (notoriously gay) and then demonstrates how much he knows about the group

#hilson #house md #3.16

[archivistsammy]

stackednatural, may 15

We are not gonna make the same mistake all over again.

3.16 “no rest for the wicked” // 8.23 “sacrifice”

#stackednatural #supernatural #spnedit #cowboycoven #spncreatorsdaily #dean winchester #sam winchester #winchester brothers #3.16 #no rest for the wicked #s3 #8.23 #sacrifice #s8 #our edits #spn stacks #category is: enmeshment #this is obviously a theme that runs throughout the show but what strikes me about this stack is that dean is using the same point to make #very different arguments #in s3 he is wary of how bad actors use their familial devotion against them #while in s8 he is the one playing on that familial devotion #from we are not gonna make the same mistake all over again to let's make the same mistake all over again