if my intuition is correct, bagi said that people are gonna hate her for what she's going to do/not going to be happy about it, and i feel it's her starting to talk about how spiderbit's relationship is not healthy for each other
“I wasn’t upset you didn’t tell me. I wasn’t even upset about the real reason you didn’t tell me. I was hurt...” Asher paused, looking upwards as he drew in a breath to bring his tone back to something more neutral. “I was hurt because you think that’s a way to not talk about the real problem. I’m hurt you think avoiding reality is a way to avoid answering a question I haven’t even asked. Haven't been allowed to ask. You think because you don’t say it, not only do you not have to face it, but I won’t, and that’s... that’s just not how that works, Loch.”
Loch dropped his eyes to the ground, stomach churning.
“We keep circling like it will just resolve itself, but we’re making ourselves miserable pretending this doesn’t exist. It’s not just you; I know I’ve not pushed harder in the hope the outcome might change. But you’re walking on eggshells of your own making, and I’m tired of tiptoeing around so you don’t have to break them. Tired of my mind tricking me that them still being unbroken means something. So just... do it already. Just break them.”