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*Ames was taking a nap in her bedroom, cuddling her Cloud plushie in her sleep. Such a smol, cute bean doing such a cute thing in her sleep ^^*
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Cloud came into Ames' room quietly, not wanting to disturb or wake her up. Seeing Ames sleeping, Cloud couldn't help but smile softly.
Cloud snapped his fingers with an idea and took out some sort of book before going through the categories that were on the left of it like bookmarks before landing on the sub-category 'Lullabies' and looking at the endless, various of options of lullabies he could choose.
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celestialtarot11 · 1 month
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Friendship Synastry 🌹🌴
Hi friends! Just thought I’d do this post because someone mentioned there weren’t a whole lot of synastry posts focusing on platonic connections, which I agree ☝️ So let’s change that! Enjoy! Please like, comment and reblog 💅🏻
1st house overlay 💗- So beautiful! I share this with someone who I’ve known for 10 years! We see each other in one another. Growing up we always pretended we were cousins 😭 and everyone believed us. We both hype each other up and the friendship is harmonious.
Venus in the 4th house ✨- A feeling of home like no other. That same friend and I got disconnected for 7 years and somehow we reconnected! This placement truly is beautiful and embodies finding each other again and again in friendship. Both parties feel comfortable making jokes and sharing intimate details with one another. Both feel seen on a deeper level.
9th house synastry ❤️- Cultural differences in friendship! Both learn from different cultures and share their experiences with one another. Both are teaching each other new things and love to engage in topics of philosophy! At some point both could live away from one another and have to travel to see one another. Short distance or long distance!
10th house stellium 🌟- Both inspire each other to be better versions of themselves. Mutual level of respect depending on what planets fall into the 10th house. Both see each other as people who can bounce ideas off one another without shame! If the planets are afflicted or malefic, the friendship can turn into competition to boost ego.
Scorpio stellium ☮️- Transformative connection. Both see each other at their worst and help each other out. If the planets are afflicted or malefic, the friendship can end with betrayal or end suddenly due to private information being let out. For example, something personal only the other person would know. If ifs aspected good, the friendship is a deep bond and feels familiar to both. Intuitive, and spiritually deep connection. Both dream of one another.
6th house sun 💆‍♀️- The planet person may ask a lot of help from the house person! Not necessarily a bad thing, but if this is aspected negatively it can be more of “pain in the ass” kind of feeling 😭 Especially if the friendship isn’t going well. But when aspected positively, the house person can teach a lot to the sun person and it’s a beautiful exchange of knowledge. Set boundaries ya’ll! 6th house synastry requires boundaries too. 6th house synastry can also suggest that friend popping up randomly to visit you!
Mars in the 6th house 🌹- The mars person empowers the house person to be better and take initiative in their life. Brings a lot of energy, joy, stamina, and life to the connection. Without the mars person the house person may feel bored, or disconnected in their life. It’s important the house person knows to balance their energies with action vs rest! The mars awakens the house person!
Moon in the 11th house 💅🏻- If the house person has chiron there I’ve noticed they sympathize a lot with the moon person. Both may face criticism in the friendship and jealousy, because both seem like a power duo. Growing up I experienced a lot of this with my friend we share this synastry, and people have found reasons to shame us! If there is no chiron, the moon person is often comforted by the house person. There is a deep connection and a sense of community present for both 🌹😊
Leo on the Descendant ✨- After reconnecting both people would’ve gone through a major glow up in their personal lives and physically! Both people could be in touch with their hearts and emotional truth. In some other connections I’ve seen people get in touch with their egos rather than their authenticity. The connection can lose spark!
Aquarius ascendant 🫂- Both felt and experienced the black sheep phenomenon growing up. They are able to connect on that and lift each other up. Close knit community! Especially if they knew each other for years. Both are unique individuals but mesh together so well because both embrace their authenticity and power in the connection. Both can view the connection as unique, irreplaceable, and unforgettable.
Leo stellium 🌟- Lots of hyping each other up, feel good feelings and love 💅🏻💗 Both are great at lifting each other up! When one person feels discouraged the other has their back and vice versa. If the connection is afflicted it can easily lead to competition, jealousy and control issues. If the connection is great both are literal teddy bears to one another and are protective 🌹
Their rising falling into your 5th house ❤️- The rising person brings a lot of fun, adventure and play into the connection! The house person sees the rising person as connected to their inner child, bold, vibrant and a leader. Also a protector in a lot of ways, emotionally and physically. They could feel very safe with the rising person. The rising person naturally causes the house person to open up and have fun ✨
Moon in the 5th house 🌹- Nurturing, intuitive and beautiful connection. Peaceful and chill. Telepathy is common between the two and this placement doesn’t necessarily dull the fun, rather through fun and laughter the two feel their bond growing deeper. The moon person offers a creative safe space for the house person to explore and open up.
Venus in the 12th house 🌟- In a healthy friendship, both are connected to the spirit realm and connected to each other spiritually, and acknowledge that. They allow their intuition to grow together and foster a deep sense of belonging. Both feel like they truly accept one another for who they are and the healing of wounds related to love begins. More so platonically, both feel they can open up to receive care ❤️ Mother wounds heal a lot in this connection.
Cancer Venus in the 5th house ☮️- The cancer person shares a lot of emotional wisdom to the house person, and both have fun like no other. Truly this represents the intertwining of two souls on a platonic level. The venus person is so encompassing of emotion, and brings a sense of community and comfort to the house person. The house person makes space and room for the wisdom the venus person holds, and together the two share a unique bond.
Aries rising falling into your 2nd house 💨- The aries person is seen as vivacious, bold, intelligent, and self assured. Sometimes may struggle with self worth and esteem, but with the house person Aries can learn a thing or two about self esteem. Vice versa, I feel that both people learn about self worth and confidence in the connection and both bring out the best in one another. The house person gives a sense of grounding to Aries rising, and Aries rising brings the heat and passion to the house person ❤️
Thats all I have friends! Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your love with me ❤️☮️ Please like comment and reblog for support! Your feedback is always appreciated.
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cyberstrangerballoon · 7 months
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11TH SYNASTRY CULTURE 🫂
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If you asked me which house in the synastry I would like to have, I would answer 11TH, without hesitation.
11TH is so fun, it's the house of friends, social events, technology, expansion, dreams... Why is it still so underrated?
People are dying to have the 8th and 12th house experiences. Why? I've had it, and I can tell you it's not fun at all.
8TH and 12TH experiences left me with wounds to this day that have not yet healed. I dream about the mf almost every day, it's not healthy and fun. The sexual part may seem like a tempting invitation, but I can assure you it's not worth it.
But anyway...
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What I love about this connection is the feeling of companionship, you two never run out of things to talk about, never get bored, and never stop gossiping. Always making fun of each other and picking on each other.
The 11th house is about expansion, Jupiter, masses... So when you share a planet with this person, everything intensifies. You may be complete opposites of each other, but that's what makes it work.
In my opinion, for a relationship to work, the couple has to be friends first. What's the point in sharing your life with someone if it's not to laugh?
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You probably met through mutual friends, or at a social event, or even at school. You felt like you could trust him. The type of person who will listen to your bad jokes.
The house here feels a Sagittarian energy, youthful and full of life. The opposite of the 8th house, where you feel angry and anxious. Here you feel free, you feel like you can be yourself around him.
The irony is that he can be completely stupid or even crazy. But you see him as charming, everything he does makes you smile. It's as if you were watching TV on your favorite channel. (Kind of Fiona and Shrek vibes).
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I also interpret the 11th as the house of secret passions. Like this: you think you know everyone in your circle of friends, but you discover years later that one of them was secretly in love with you.
It's the house of slow burn, friendzone, friends to lovers... Sometimes it's a little difficult to decipher if a person is really into you or if they just consider you as a friend. This is one of the dangers of this house.
One thing that piss me off about this position, is that sometimes you two are in love with each other, but neither of you makes the first move. Even all your friends knows about you two. Like, get up sis.
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If Venus falls in 11TH, there is a great chance of it being love at first sight. You feel comfortable around each other. Venus brings a feeling of acceptance and affection to the house. It's as if the house feels like it can trust her. The person of the house may begin to see the planet as a muse. He may start to speak highly of her to his friends, use her photo as a wallpaper, or even like to stalk her.
The funny thing is that the house is probably very shy in the presence of Venus. It's like he's seeing a goddess, and it kind of makes him nervous. Then he probably started making small gestures, all very subtle. You two will probably start dating out of nowhere. Your friends will not be shocked though.
You will probably realize that you are in love with each other, when out of nowhere you start living together or even having sex after a date with friends.
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Mars here is a funny thing. (I speak with property and experience). You two probably like to tease each other in front of others. That type of couple that picks on everything the other says. Makes fun of his clothes or his manner. Just for fun. Others may think you hate each other, but it's just a way to spice things up.
Y'all are probably that type of couple that likes to make each other jealous. You guys likes to pick on superficial things, slap eachother and even swear in public.
But it all adds up to hot and wild sex in the end, so it's worth it.
Sex can be a fun thing here. Yall might use sex toys, showing off in front of others, trying oils and music, you guys might even like threesomes. It all depends on the vibe. more likely to talk and moan during the act.
Sex here is a matter of trust and friendship. You guys like being together because you already know where you like to be touched, you know your tastes and desires. It's a complete recipe. You two are insatiable, full of life and lust.
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sluttywonwoo · 8 months
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CONGRATULATIONS FOR 12K FOLLOWERS!!!! 🥳💖💕💞🌺🌷🌸❤️🫂
For the sleepover, can I have Hoshi and ❛ you can kiss me, you know. ❜ or ❛ i really want to kiss you right now. ❜
-Love you and congratulations again!🫶🏻❤️💖💕
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as far as first dates go, this one has to be the most awkward. it’s not even awkward for the reasons first dates are usually awkward. you’ve known soonyoung for years, he’s one of your best friends, and you’ve only just admitted your feelings for each other in the last couple days.
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“well, i guess that means we should go on a date,” soonyoung said, mere minutes after your mutual confession.
“is this you asking me?” you asked.
“might as well be.”
“so romantic.”
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you’re not used to seeing him in this context. you’re used to seeing him in his dorm, wearing sweats and sometimes t-shirts if he could be bothered with them. other times he’d just walk around shirtless. you’re used to late nights on the couch kicking his ass in smash or being forced to watch his stupid reality tv shows.
but tonight he’d dressed up, he’s wearing a fucking tie. you don’t think you’ve ever seen soonyoung wear a tie. and you’re not at one of your places, you’re at a nice restaurant.
“this doesn’t have to be weird,” soonyoung says suddenly, clearing his throat, “if we don’t make it weird.”
“right.”
“so don’t be weird,” he urges.
you scoff and cross your arms over your chest. “okay, it’s easier said than done, asshole.”
soonyoung shrugs. “i don’t know what i was expecting anyway. it’s you. you’re the weirdest person i know.”
you kick him under the table and he balks, opening his mouth in a silent scream as he grips his shin. you shove a piece of bread in your mouth to keep yourself from snorting in the middle of this very nice establishment.
you choke-laugh through the sourdough until you finally manage to swallow it, and when you do, you find soonyoung gazing at you from across the table with a certain fondness in his eyes.
“what?” you ask, worried you must have something on your face.
“i really want to kiss you right now,” he admits softly.
you blink, completely caught off guard, but soonyoung doesn’t seem fazed. he just smiles at you and leans across the table.
“don’t worry, we don’t have to kiss if you don’t want to.”
“no, i want to!” you blurt, making soonyoung’s smile turn into a smirk. “i just wasn’t expecting to.”
“oh yeah? anything else you weren’t expecting to do tonight?” he teases.
“i mean, i’m already on a date with you, aren’t i?”
12k celebration
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gemgirl28 · 10 months
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How do you make friends in zutara fandom? It’s been really hard for me because I seem to find myself in bigger discords where it feels like everyone is in a clique and it’s hard to connect, and they talk so badly about people they don’t like to the point I’m afraid to say anything because I don’t want them to do that to me too. I don’t know if it’s gotten worse lately or if I’m just looking in the wrong place
Hello anon! First off I'm sorry you've struggled to connect with other people in the fandom. It definitely can be difficult when we are all interacting with each other online, but I hope you do make some genuine connections 🫂
I will say, making fandom friends in 2023 feels VERY different from 2020/2021 when I first got into fandom, and that is very much due to shutdown vs things opening back up. When I started engaging with the zutara fandom in August/September 2020 I was working full time from home doing a job that was often dead (read: I was online during working hours) and a part time job on the weekends that was soooo slow it allowed the brainrot to really sink in as I daydreamed about zk while working. Now I work in office a minimum of 3 days a week and while we are in our slower season, we still have a ton of work to do to prep for our busy season.
And that's just me! I know people who are engaging in other fandoms, have also had work ramp back up, have had family stuff that pulls them offline, etc. It's a different space than it was when I was first making connections with people (and I would be curious to see if anyone who was already online pre-Covid has written a dissertation about the waves of online engagement due to shutdown).
Also, I do struggle to make connections in larger servers, mostly because I get overwhelmed at the nonstop activity and end up muting them. I do think they are great places to keep up with fandom activity, like events, fanart, fanfics, etc, but for initially making friends I find it tough.
So all that to say, here is my personal method for making fandom friends (results may vary):
Engage with the same person over and over. Like their posts, comment on them, reblog with commentary/additional tags, just over and over engage with them.
They slowly start to engage back (liking your posts, responding to comments, reblogging your reblogs, etc.).
Slide into their dms and ask them how they are doing, then tell them what about them made you slide into their dms (I legit messaged someone that their vibes seemed nice and it worked).
Talk about fandom stuff but also about your interests outside of fandom (IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: DON'T SHARE IDENTIFYING INFO. I'm talking about things like fave foods and music, not where you live or your mother's maiden name).
Be friends forever.
Now that I'm reading that back it sort of reads like instructions for getting to know someone on a dating app. But also, if you aren't trying to fall a little in love with all your mutuals, what's the point?
tl;dr: It can be tricky making friends now that real life has ramped back up, but if you give it a little time and effort, you can make some great connections in fandom.
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honeyedmiller · 12 days
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hi dev! 
to say the vibes have been off lately would be an understatement, wouldn’t it? because there has been a lot of negativity, too much for a place that is supposed to be about finding an outlet for your creativity and people to share your interests.
i know it has been difficult, draining to be around here and face all the discourse cankering the fandom. 
because of all this negativity, i believe it is important to try and balance it out with some kindness. so here i am, doing a little check-up on you <3
so first, how are you, really?
everything you feel regarding what is happening is valid and you deserve to feel happy and safe around here. so please, make sure you take the time you need from posting, from sharing fics, even just from being on the platform. i want you to know it’s okay and i support whatever you decide, for whatever reason.
i also want you to know that you have your place here, as much as the rest of us. you’re loved and wanted and i can assure you the fandom is a far better place with you in it.
i hope you’re taking care of yourself outside of tumblr as well. please remember to stay hydrated and to eat something 🫶🏼
now i would like you to sit back and enjoy the perfect, quiet night in with joel <3
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do not hesitate to reach out if you need to talk, i’m here for you! sending you all my love and so many hugs 🫂
anna 💗
hi anna. this is so sweet, and i absolutely love the moodboard.
truthfully, i’m feeling very frustrated with everything that’s been going on lately. from the plagiarism, hateful anons, fatphobic asks and racist slurs being targeted at my mutuals and people i consider my friends is just so fucking gross.
i think i can speak for a few people on here when i say this shit has gotten completely out of hand. the bullying in this fandom is unfathomable and disgusting. these anons are always so bold when they have some really mean shit to say and quite frankly, it’s just draining to see, and i’m sure it’s even more exhausting for the people who are actively going through it themselves.
this used to be such a fun space. i love interacting with everyone on here and sharing my writing and other incredible stories on here, but it’s hard to do so when you feel paranoid about random people following you that may plagiarize your stuff or people who keep a watchful eye on you just to spite you and be hateful.
it’s just not fair. i know we all try and say we can’t let people like those anons “win”, but in all truthfulness, it’s just so tiring seeing something every single day on here. my heart hurts for my friends who constantly get hate, get plagiarized, or even have racist slurs thrown at them. it makes me feel really uneasy and i honestly think these anons forget that most of us are here because we all support one proud chilean man.
this is supposed to be a safe space for everyone, and it’s quite honestly the complete opposite.
sorry for the rant, but things have honestly just gotten so out of hand.
i appreciate you checking in though, you’re so so sweet and the fandom really could use a kind heart like you. i’m so happy you’re in this space, anna. much love 🤍
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prowerprojects · 7 months
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Mind if I drop two? Both for Tails.
🫂 (Any friendship barring Sonic)
🧸(Can be before meeting Sonic, or after but both still figuring out their boundaries pre-Adventure)
Of course I don't mind! Thank you! Ask game
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Oh, I have a few.
First thing that comes to mind, I don't think Tails and Cream are especially close friends at the moment, they have more of a "friend of a friend" type of relationship, however, I could definitely see them reconnecting and becoming really close when they're older. It's hard to find someone else who can relate to their childhood experiences in a similar way and it would do both of them a lot of good when trying to reflect on them.
After Sonic, I think Amy is Tails's closest friend (even if it's not necessary mutual. Amy is a very social person). He also tends to get a bit protective over her, even if he obviously knows that she can take care of herself (this one is probably mutual though). And it's not just physical safety, they both get really mad when the other gets overlooked. I really like how in some games (like Adventure and Battle) they live pretty close to each other, so I imagine they help each other with domestic issues. They probably go shopping together. Imagine the core four fighting Eggman and Amy and Tails keep talking about upcoming sales djcjxxjmd. I also like to imagine that when they were little Amy had taught a lot if basic necessary stuff that she had learned from her parents to Tails, you know, how to sew on a button, how to cook simple meals, how to use a broom, etc. (On another note, Tails is probably the biggest Sonamy shipper out there, but a lot of it maybe comes from being worried that she would stop hanging out with him if she ever got over Sonic. This is not rational and he tries not to think about it, but it still gnaws at him a bit)
I also like to imagine Tails being friends with Big. Tails just comes down to his place to hang out most of the time, Big doesn't really mind. Big doesn't know anything about Tails being an engineer or whatever, he just sees a kid living by himself so he tries to be a cool older cousin-type and does his best to keep an eye on Tails.
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I've been making up a lot of headcanons about Tails's family lately, but here's one: when he met Sonic andnstarted traveling with him, he actually run away from home. He used to live with his uncle and his family back then, and it wasn't really great for him (I actually headcanon that those foxes from the Origins cutscene are his cousins). So he didn't think twice about leaving them. (They just assumed he died during Eggman's invasion). Sonic had no idea that Tails had living relatives until years later.
I actually might have posted about this before, so here's another one:
For Sonic and Tails's early days. There was a lot of awkwardness at first, I think. Neither of them had a close friend before, and they had to figure out how to frienship on the go. Sonic is a very free person, who always did whatever he wanted to do, and Taills was so starstruck that he was willing to drop everything if Sonic had asked him to. Not great! Luckily Sonic isn't some kind of jerk who would have taken advantage of that. (Luckily they worked it out somehow and by Adventure Tails was already the one dragging Sonic around and nagging at him for not staying on track, haha.)
But those things, combined with Tails's smarts and whatnot led to Sonic kind of overlooking the fact that Tails was really young at the time. (I do think he tends to "coddle" him more nowadays, comparatively) And maybe there was a bit of denial, too. Sonic wanted them to just be two friends hanging out, he didn't want to be responsible for a child's safety. But of course he knew subconsciously that he'd have to take on a bit of responsibility over Tails, since even disregarding the age, Tails still wasn't as strong or fast as him and he was his fan which gave Sonic some authority (bleh!) over him.
It was a very complicated matter for Sonic to figure out, but a necessary one, without it he wouldn't be out there giving speeches about the superpower of teamwork nowadays.
Whoops this one kind of shifted to Sonic's pov a bit. I do think their early days were more of a period of growth for Sonic, though Tails did become more comfortable around Sonic and wasn't scared that Sonic would just abandon him somewhere like his mom anymore (She had a good reason for leaving him with her brother and she was gonna come back for him but. She died)
Back in the early days Tails used to love hearing stories about Sonic's previous adventures and constantly begged him to tell more. At some point Sonic just started making things up because he run out of stories and Tails wouldn't believe him, haha. He didn't know about that until he was reading a book and realized that he already knew that story. But Sonic putting on his storytelling voice always reminds Tails of when he was little.
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from-izzy · 4 months
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Your moots as TBZ ships???
hi anon! thank you for sending this in! 💖 sorry it took a while (i think this took more than a fortnight i'm so sorry 😭) because i had to think about it!! i'm doing ones that i talk to frequently or once in a while! to all my moots that i haven't/barely talked to, hmu! (i'm sorry that i'm too shy 😭)
welcome to another episode of '😭-izzy-doesn't-know-how-to-explain-things-and-she's-very-sorry-about-it'
@cloverdaisies - juric
so! you know how juyeon adores eric and juyeon is (arguably) eric's favourite hyung? 😊 they do everything together and is so comfortable around each other despite their age gap? 🥹 well, i mean clo and i are the same age but since around 2022, clo has always just been a writer to me. then out of nowhere, in the spur of the moment and a sudden hit of confidence i told myself "omg! 👀 what if...i just text cloverdaisies, say my greetings, thanks then disappear? if she doesn't respond then alright, at least i said whatever i had to say." yeah...it went well! very well! i love clo! 🤍 so much! 🤍🤍 and i hope she knows that!
@heemingyu - nyusun
ok so...we're just a tiny bit chaotic? 🤷🏻‍♀️ just a tiny bit 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ i think we hide it quite well in group chats (...that's a lie) but when we're on dms...oh yeah...the world really isn't ready for us when we meet 🤭 like sunwoo who adores new and annoys him all the time, i admit that i do it to sana too. but at the same time, like new who is always teasing sunwoo and being crackheads together, that's sana to me 😁 it's just...yeah...i feel like for the sake of world peace, we probably shouldn't meet? and sana should most definitely should not drive 🚗 (just like what new said in his bubble!)
@justalildumpling - sunric
my response to this: so roode 😭 just absolutely roode 😭😭 the audacity to even--but this is saur chaotic sibling energy 🤣 i get what you mean now when you say that we're more like sunwoo and eric rather than an old married couple like jaemin and jeno fr 😮 but also j! aussie aussie aussie! i finally have another friend from aussie that i can annoy if i do come to you (or you come to me...but i don't think j likes me that much though so...) 😟 life is...sad...and i get bullied by j all the time...sigh...☹️
@littleroaes - ppangcob
hmmm...i'll be honest with you, i'm not too sure how to explain this 😭 but! i think we just radiate this kind of energy! 😊 we are both very shy at first and dora is the same as well (in a good way! i will always protect you! 🫂 especially from sana, i promise!) ppangcob is the shy duo of tbz but at the same time, very comfy around each other and others when you get to know them well 🤗 just from our dms and interactions, dora is so silly and funny like girl! thanks for being my first mutual! 💕
@sungbeam - sunkyu
there ain't a lot of words but I'M SO SORRY FOR THE MOMENTARY PAIN AND CONFUSION THAT I PUT YOU THROUGH UMMMM 😭😭 but i am still going to hide (after this, let me say my words first) 🫡 just like sunwoo who auditioned for the company because he saw changmin...that's it! ok bye! i'm leaving! see you!! 😁
@winterchimez - kevcob
...do i need to explain this though? 🤔 but ok i guess i'll do it. so, like i mentioned, i think we're a different kind of soulmate dynamic where you get bullied and teased 😁 and i'm the one that teases you 😁😁 (ily i swear) kind of like kevcob as well 💕 but remember that time when we texted and we sent the same idea and question at the same time?? 🤗 like huh?? no one that i know irl does the things that i do?? this dynamic is so new to me...but i'm so ready for it 🥹 also, what are you waiting for? the stars have spoken? ⭐ book a flight ✈️ to where i am please and thank yew!
@wuahae - bbangju
ok so hear me out 😭 i don't really know how to explain this one either but! just the times when i would cry in vc 🥹 also ask help or something and cat would be like "yes, i have the solution." 🥹 but i'm also just reminded of that time in the concert when younghoon was reading his speech and crying but juyeon was like "it's okay, take your time" 🫂 i just have a feeling cat would do that tbh. we haven't talked much recently but i love you and i hope life is treating you well, cat! 💖
@zzoguri - cobric
me is the crying, emotional mess 😭😭 and moni is the parent that is intently listening to the child, putting in reassuring comments 💬 and trying to calm me down, chipping in their own experiences 🗨️ and telling me that they understand 🫂 moni has always been like that since day 1. i guess it really is true that we're not really strangers 🥹 sorry that we haven't talked much! i do miss you and i hope you're doing well!
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tropicalgothships · 1 month
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I apologize in advance for the rage to come.
By the way, what a chickenshit move for that person to make, creating a sideblog to slander you with because you have anon off. I don't think touching grass is enough here, I think this idiot needs to touch the bottom of the ocean and stay there forever. Four years of constant harassment is FUCKING UNACCEPTABLE. HEY IF YOU'RE READING THIS, YOU SICK FUCK RANDO, GET A LIFE. FUCK ALL THE WAY OFF. QUIT ACTING LIKE A GODDAMN TODDLER AND LET THIS PERSON EXIST IN PEACE. RUINING SOMEONE'S ENTIRE LIFE OVER A SELFSHIP IS BULLSHIT. AND ENOUGH WITH THE LIES BTW, JUST GET OVER YOURSELF. YOU DISGUST ME, YOU PATHETIC WORM. I'M SICK OF WATCHING MY FRIENDS GET HURT BY PEOPLE LIKE YOU. SOMEONE WITH THE BRAINS OF A ROCK AND THE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE OF A SCORNED BABY. GROW THE FUCK UP.
(I'm so sorry for the rant, you absolutely do not have any obligation to post this ask btw... I'm just fucking livid as a selfshipper, friend and fellow fat person!! Hiding behind a screen is fucking simple. It doesn't take balls, it takes a shriveled up sack with nothing inside. Fucking coward.)
And if this wasn't clear, I CARE SO MUCH AND AM SO SORRY THAT SUCH A HUGE PART OF THIS COMMUNITY THAT WAS BUILT TO SUPPORT HAS INSTEAD TORN YOU DOWN.
IT'S NOT RIGHT. IT'S NEVER BEEN RIGHT. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
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Basically it all stemmed from being blocked by this person for no real reason, they told all my friends when the self ship community moved to X that I stalked them- when really I just blocked them on every social so I didn’t see them and they didn’t see me. This was in 2018.
A month later in January 2019, a mutual friend of mine and this person wanted to mediate a chat with us both and we both agreed to it. It didn’t end very well because I chewed this person out for lying about me. I’ve been stalked in real life, where it had to get legal action involved. Making sure that someone doesn’t see you online isn’t stalking.
And that was that. It’s been going for years but it really kicked up a notch in 2020, at the start of the first lockdowns. Everyone was online, I wasn’t as I was at work and that was basically when the impersonating anonymous asks started.
It’s been like that ever since March 2020.
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(For Cloud, Boyfriend and Girlfriend)
*Ames was sneaking around, wishing crown on her head. She was planning to do something mischievous >:)*
@the-plushie-friendships
Cloud was in his room with Nimbus and Strato doing their own separate things, Cloud was just playing on his GameBoy Advance that he summoned with his spellbook, having a grand ol' time. Strato and Nimbus had their back turned, Strato with the bored expression while Nimbus was occupied in his own activity that he was fond of: stitching.
Meanwhile, Boyfriend was practicing his rapping skills in his room with of course, his Girlfriend helping him with his vocals.
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vouam · 1 month
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i feel like i dont see women in this position talked about often on radblr so here goes. feel free to ignore this ask if you dont want to answer it. but i just wanted to say that, damn, its really hard to be a woman in a long term, happy and loving relationship with someone who comes out as a trans woman years into the relationship. i was a die hard tra and now im... not. i have so much guilt all the time and nobody to discuss things with. i never thought in a million years i would be agreeing with 'terfs' and yet here i am. and yet i love my partner and am so happy with them. and yet i also cannot delude myself into believing gender ideology anymore. i feel like no matter what road i take i wont be being true to myself. i dont want to leave but it feels wrong to stay, like i'm tricking them into thinking i believe it when i don't, but i dont want to ignore my own thoughts and feelings and just go along with it either. every time a male pronoun comes into my head when i think of them i feel guilty. guilty of thoughtcrime! the only people they have come out to is their friends/our mutual friends, so i cannot speak to anyone about how i feel. every day i wish i could go to my mom and just tell her how i feel. i wish i could speak to other women about this, especially women in heterosexual relationships. but i cant. my partner doesnt understand how isolating it is when they have lots of friends (incl. trans women friends) to speak to and i have no one in my life who knows except the mutual friends. the few times i've brought it up ive just been met with 'but what would you want to talk to them about' as if idk.. im not supposed to have thoughts or feelings on my long term partner changing so much about themselves? i honestly think much more women would 'peak' if they actually sought out trans communities. going on r/mtf to learn how to support my partner was very... enlightening.
Oh wow, I don’t even know where to start with this one. This sounds like a really difficult and confusing thing to go through so firstly I really hope you’re okay.
You fall in love with people so of course it’s understandable that part of you wants to stay and that you have strong feelings for them. But also it’s important that you can’t keep pretending to be someone you’re not and lie about being accepting of gender ideology. That must be exhausting to keep up that lie, especially when you have no one to talk to about it.
Even regardless of your views, so many people leave their trans-partners despite being trans accepting. It’s confusing to watch someone change drastically, when you fell in love with a version of them that they aim to distance from. And the fact that they are being dismissive of the fact you want to talk to people about it is a red flag.
Obviously I don’t know you, I don’t know your partner or the full details of your situation. But if I were your friend in real life, I would ask you if you could see yourself living like this in the long run. It’s tough because feelings of love get in the way of logic, and people tend to reminisce about their partners old self. But definitely keep your mind focused on the present and future and what is best for you long-term.
Wishing you the best, you can chat here any time, it’s definitely something that should be talked about more on here 🫂💖
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girl-next-door-writes · 7 months
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Build-A-Festive-Fic
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The Holiday Season is approaching and so I am launching my Build-A-Festive-Fic.
Rules:
Step 1- Pick a character that I write from the list below.
Step 2 - Pick up to 4 emoji’s, one from each category you will find beneath the cut. You don’t have to choose one from EVERY category, you can simply pick fluff and 1 emoji if you wish.
Step 3 - Send me your choices in an ASK! I will not be accepting dm’s for this one guys.
THINGS TO NOTE:
All my blurbs will be fluffy character x reader because that’s the lane I am sticking in.
I will only be accepting 10 so get your requests in asap.
Characters I will write:
STAR WARS: Hux, Poe
HARRY POTTER: George Weasley, Remus Lupin, Ominis Gaunt
SHERLOCK: Mycroft
ALSO… Spencer Reid, Steve Harrington and Eddie Munson
Set 1: Choose 1 from this list.
🎉 Crowded Party
☕️ Coffee Shop
🎭 Intermission at a Show
✈️ Airport
🏀 Sports Game
Set 2: Choose 1 from this list
👀 best friends to lovers
😍 mutual pining
😐 Forced proximity
😘 Flirting then realising feelings have been caught
🍼 Seeing them with kids/baby
Set 3: Choose 1 from this list
😴 Putting your head on their shoulder
🥹 Wearing their hoodie
🧁 Making you taste test
🤭 Tugging you closer by your waist
😳 Eyes Meet across the room
🫂 A hug that gets deeper
Set 4: Choose 1 from this list
🌡️ ‘I’ll keep you warm.’
🏠 ‘You feel like home’
💕 ‘You’re so cute, you know that?’
🫶 ‘You know you’re stuck with me, right?’
🤡 ‘Don’t you dare!’
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yourdaddyfigure · 9 months
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This one might be a little long, please bear with me. 🌻
I appreciate you and your positive, healthy approach to all aspects of the d/s dynamic. Honestly just appreciate everything you do on here regularly. I know we don't actually interact a lot, but you do sooooo much for all of us even if you don't know it. You have a beautiful soul, even if you don't quite feel that way all the time. I don't know your struggles and I won't pretend to, but you got this and I'm so thankful for you, your posts, Daisy, the advice you share. You're doing amazingly. 💖
I'm sorry sometimes people don't respect your boundaries regarding a lot of stuff, especially the daddy thing. I wish you all the positivity and hopefully less of those messages moving forward (I know probably not). You handle all of this with grace and I just wanted to let you know you're doing amazing, friend. Make sure to do all the things to take care of you and hopefully life is treating you wonderfully. If it's not, I'm sending magic ✨ but also will fist fight it for you (mostly a joke, I can't fight). 😵‍💫
I know this seems like maybe it's out of nowhere, but I just felt like sharing. I believe in you. 🧡🫂
I-😭 I literally have no words for this ask! This was the sweetest thing I have ever received on here and it legitimately melted my heart! 😭🫶🏼
I wish I could do something to thank you for this, but I really don’t know how. Was it out of the blue? Yes, very much, but I appreciate this more than you’ll ever know, my friend. I know we don’t interact much, but I do see you on my feed a lot, and I’m so honored to be one of your mutuals. You’re a sweet soul and an amazing friend. I will forever wish nothing but the best for you in life and that you achieve any goal you place in front of you. You’re special! 🫶🏼
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neewtmas · 5 months
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24 days of Appreciation
DAY 8
Hello! It's time for the 8th day of appreciation of this month, where we shine a spotlight each day on those we appreciate in this fandom!
If you want to submit someone or something (for more info read here), you can do so here or just message me! If you wanna stay anonymous, either tell me or submit on anon.
Appreciation by me:
today my appreciation goes out to @losticaruss ! another lovely mutual that I unfortunately don't really talk much too (kinda my fault really!) but I do really love seeing you around on my dash and in my notifs. Thank you for always liking the stuff I post haha you are a beautiful presence in this fandom and I'm so glad you're here and my mutual🫶🏻 🫂
Appreciation by others (submissions):
by @wellgoslowly: hihihi !!! i really want to shout out @oblivious-idiot and @ikeasupremacy for the advent calendar. allie and mayra were the first close friends i made on here and i couldn’t have asked for better. they’re both genuinely such creative and kind hearted people and they both deserve the absolute world. i don’t know what i’d do without them.
Show your appreciation and submit someone or something here :)
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kaaaaaaarf · 4 months
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This is the Tumblr hug 🫂🤍 Please pass it on to as many mutuals as you want to brighten someone’s day! ❤️
Hi lovely Skye! So this is the ask that tried to tear us apart, I see, I see. Well, I have to say, it made my day, and it reminded me how happy I am that we are friends. Take that Tumblr!!
<333
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elitadream · 4 months
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Happy New Year, Elita!! The art you share in this fandom is truly something wonderful. I think I may have said this in the few times we spoke in notes, but every time I see you in the notes of someone's post, you're nothing but kind, supportive, and encouraging I know so many people cherish that. I am looking forward to seeing what else you have in store and that 2024 is good to you. Make sure you tell yourself all the kind things you say to others whenever you feel down. 🫂🫂🫂🫂💗💗💗💗
Happy New Year to you too, dear friend!! ☺️ I've seen the very lovely asks you have also sent to a few of my mutuals, and I wanted to thank you for being such a sweetheart. 🙏💞 People like you are truly the best thing about communities, and I'm very grateful to be surrounded by such amazing, generous and kindhearted folks. 🎇
Thank you for the amazing feedback you have given me throughout the past year. I hope 2024 will have great things to offer and that you'll get to enjoy these experiences to the fullest! 🤗💫
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