#>disapears again

[chrysopoeias]

controversial and way too long rambling about otp and fan interpretations

I cannot stand this pathological need to insist that with the royais, it is actually all along secretly Hawkeye who is the real mommy boss in the relationship, while Mustang is a barely functioning man-child that needs her instructions just to breathe. This insistence that Hawkeye must be the meaner, nastier, cooler, more badass person I see way too often. That she must be the one that is always smarter and better at everything. And above all, she must be tired and rolling her eyes out of her skull constantly for dealing with Mustang's bullshit and the whole relationship in general. 

Why can’t Hawkeye just be lame and have her issues too? Why must she be the mean alpha boss bitch? If anyone should be the mean alpha boss it’s more likely Roy ‘I punch children to get my point across’ Mustang, honestly.

And where is the love and romance in this idea, portraying one character as always annoyed and tired by the other? Portraying it as Mustang being the child that Hawkeye needs to mother, or he might end up sticking his tongue in a wall outlet down a public toilet. If I read about it one more time I will commit sudoku in minecraft.

It feels like disrespect for Mustang’s character too. The joke/gag about him being useless in certain situations only works because he has a hero complex. He is obsessed with being useful, on never giving up, especially on others. Not being able to help others highlights that and hurts him fundementally. It is not that he IS actually useless.

Hawkeye is just not the one in charge and leading the relationship and their goals. She is the one that follows, famously. It’s a repeated point that she is the more overtly insane and dependent one. Roy’s end goal is what keeps her going. She will explicitly not move on and take charge of their plan herself if she comes into that situation, she will simply give up and kill herself.

The need to see her be the one that is just better, stronger and smarter and doing everything in the dynamic all the time (while doing it perfectly ofc) annoys me. I have no idea where this comes from, besides popular bad American cartoons and movies often using the ‘clueless man x fundementally better woman’. Or it is #feminist ideas that the female character must be perfect and in charge otherwise it's too stereotypical and problematic.

I know fandom spaces are mostly made up of women, so it’s extra silly to me that women are the ones complaining about men in straight relationships putting all emotional labour on women and taking advantage of learnt helplessness to get out of tasks. And it is correct to complain about that. But then the same people turn to fiction and go ‘Aw isn’t it cute and sexy and so endearing for a male character to be completely helpless while his better and smarter and stronger mother girlfriend has to do everything for him UwU’. Truly baffling. It’s so unsexy to me.

My sickest fantasy is wanting to see mutual effort and respect in romance. Can they just both be cringe and pathetic sometimes? Strong and clever sometimes? Take care of each other and fill in when the other is lacking? For their codependecy and mess to be mutual? 

Stop making Mustang into a helpless child FFS.

#>does not draw anything for over 2 months #>posts rant #>disapears again #verwijder later #at the end of the day it is just fiction kek

[laaskrin]

Forever making new OCs, hoping i'll actually stick with this one

#my art #digital art #laaskrin draws #my oc: neven #throwing this into the void before disapearing again #bye

[idiot-artistry]

Fem coworker. Save me fem coworker Also this was drawn with the swap AU in mind so. That's why she's a Protag sprite in case anyone was wondering

(REBLOGS ARE PREFERRED TO LIKES <3)

#all posts #art #mar. 2024 #elevator hitch #coworker elevator hitch #sorry she doesn't have the funky tie </3 #tried to keep the colors though. mostly just that I used the orange for her lipstick (or well the shading on the orange but whatever) #also literally when did my art look like this. this deadass doesn't feel like I drew it even after I spent like 4 and a half hours drawing #yeah four and a half hours don't ask how I don't know either #anyway #disapears again

[unicourt]

dooodle of bugsnax ocs! :o)

#ssorry #for disapearing again! #bot my usual thing but it was fun to doodle! #bugsnax #bugsnax grumpus #bugsnax oc

[juvian]

What I think shiny Charcadet, Armarouge & Ceruledge should look like ✨

Mine - Do not repost

#it’s my first shiny edit ever! #and I’m no way a photoshop pro it was actually the first time I edit colors and all ever #Charcadet took me 3 minutes to do it was so easy for some reason fidjien #AND THE LINK DISAPEARED ? I’m not reblogging it again anyway no one reblog them jcndjdnd #Alex’s edits #what I think shiny [blank] should look like ✨ #shiny pokemon #pokemon #Fakemon #fanart #ceruledge #armarouge #charcadet #shiny charcadet #shiny armarouge #shiny ceruledge #pokemon edits #edits #shiny Pokémon edits #shiny recolouring #shiny Fakemon

[mcd-brainrot-hours]

what if vylad forgot how his family looked overtime? what if the only faces he could remember were his mother and garroth? what if he forgot what he had looked like? what if-

#anngsststtsgahahagdhsaugh #aphmau #minecraft diaries #mcd #vylad ro'meave #the ro’meaves #*disapears again*

[keskeaa]

Still needs finishing touches

#my art #cult of the lamb #cotl #cotl lamb #cotl fanart #fanart #needle felting #polymer clay #sewing #fiber art #I tried to embroider the lil v mouth on there but #the thread disapeared into the depths of the wool #so I’ll probably felt that on with black wool #and I need to get the whole thing felted more bc I hate the fuzzies!! #and also add the white trim but ughhhsgdjsbakdhka idk how I’d do that #I could enbroyder but I tried that and I hated how it looked #I could get a bit of white ribbon but I don’t think I can get any thin enough. cutting it would risk it not being entirely straight #I was thinking I can use my frilly lace but cut the frill off but. that hurts my heart WKBDJSBDKA #I could also use my white fabric but again risk not being straight and I hate it #it’s some faux silk or something and it’s the WORSSTTTTT it shows u every sewing mistake #I’ll prob come back to it later with some brilliant plan in a few weeks or months #as most of my projects tend to do. #if you actually read my rambles you’re a trooper all I do is nitpick my work EJBDSKBSKAJ love ya #clay #3d art

[deanway-to-heaven]

Supernatural gifset per episode | S01E01 | Pilot/Woman in white

A local woman’s drowning death was ruled a suicide, the county Sheriff’s Department said earlier today. Constance Welch, 24, of 4636 Breckenridge Road, leapt off Sylvania Bridge, at mile 33 of Centennial Highway, and subsequently drowned last night.

#spndaily #spnedit #supernaturaledit #samwinchesteredit #deanwinchesteredit #spn gifset per episode #my gif #posting again because it disapear

[slytherindisaster]

Saturday Moodboard Challenge by @drinkyoursoupbitch: ship edition feat. Frily

concluding last week's entries, here's a continuation

#not me coming back from the dead every saturday to drop a moodboard and disapear again #frily #fred weasley #lily anne collins #fred weasley x oc #soups moodboard challenge

[greeneyeswhitehair]

I just realised I've never uploaded this to Tumblr! But I have recently made more danphan merch 👀 It's available on my Etsy here ^^

#danny phantom #hello tumblr i come only only once half a year to announce danphan stuff and then i disapear again

[offsale]

havent posted art here before. picked up this game and fell in love immediatley

#art tag #rain world #rainworld #artificer #saint #spearmaster #disapears from the internet again enjyo my images #predictably my favriote creatures are the worms (all) bcs they look like eels

[gh0st--friend]

hehe happy xb hermitmay day! and happy mermay!! who else to make a mermaid than the fishboy himself hm? @hermitadaymay <3

#.png #xbcrafted #hermitcraft #hermit a day may #hermit-a-day-may #hermitaday #this was alot of fun #now i shall disapear again til hypno day ;) #fully aware ivemissed the other 6 days but xb fave hehe

[pinkyjulien]

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#NOT TO BE NSFT ON MAIN #But I'm going through it... and by it I mean well... the horn knee #but like. lots of Thoughs about- HFH how Valentin is probably the first trans guy for Mitch #not that its rare by 2077 but because I HC him as demisexual #his first time was late-ish compared to his friends - he didnt had a lot of lovers - then there was Scorpion #who was more of a brother than a boyfriend but I DO HC THAT THEY ROLLED IN THE HAY Alright #But back to the thingy-- He's probably not experienced when it comes to Well Tdicks right #Mitch start to develop feelings for Val too the whole vets group start to notice it hardcore #cause these two gonkasses arent exactly subtle - they're just blind #and so one night while the vets are chillin drinkin the usual #subject comes up like eyy hows it going with V you gonna rizz him up or what #Mitch going PFFF idk what yall talkin about but he's red and suddenly don't know what to do with his hands #conversation goes and he's all like awkward cause Well Duh #Boys take showers together so everyone knows Val isnt Cis- there's others trans folks in the camp too its nothing unusual just an info #and get this... what if. its Butch Grease Queen Carol who gives him tips on how to get his boy all rilled up #while drunk ofc - Mitch wishin he could disapear from the discussion cause it's just too much but lowkey taking notes HKGJDKZKG #while some other vet goes on about how good it feels in there tm and all-- YNOW WARM N WET AND ALL #Mitch just nervously laugh and thanks them for the advices tm even if nothing will ever happen and just change the subject #he def jerk off in his tent tho cause he can't keep the vision out mH. hhhHHFHHF 👁👁 #and he'd be like damn here I go doin it over a friend again and feels guilty next time he sees Val #(val def does it too in his northern appartment #idk where im going with this don't mind me JHGJ #sex is such an insignificant part of their love - its present and they explore all type of stuff together #but its not something that would ever be source of problem or doubts if that makes any sense #while simultaneously being important - cause Mitch was Val first time - and in a way Val was Mitchs first too #and his boy sure does feel nice /)UwU(\ weeeee #tbd

[tubbo--updates]

tumblr start registering and posting the updates first try challenge impossible!?!?

#ModSpeaks #im So. Annoyed. that this keeps happening #ill try to post a silly little update as i do and tumblr will give me the green little "why yes this has gone through and been posted yippe #and then it just. vanishes? disapears? gone to the void? #and i have to redo the update all over again #and sometime i have to do this MULTIPLE TIMES for ONE THING???? #tumblr moment honestly

[darewolfdq]

something something the cycle continues

glaze really struggled with this one but- i like the idea that 8 brakes up and ties together a bed using dead coral and a canvas they found. I'm assuming the elevator is going to act as a base so they wanted to make it more comfortable.

#oct and ling make it out of the underground: wow that was horrible. sure glad its over :] #fresh horrors: hey #splatoon #splatoon art #splatoon fanart #my art #artists on tumblr #videogames #videogame art #oct #ling #agent 8 #splatoon side order #side order #i know i said i whould disapear untill winter brake but i lied cuz when i saw that trailer all the nurons in my brain activated #anyways- i speed ran this .w. #good night :D *colapses into a pile of dust* #oct is saying “were back in the fucking builiding again” but glaze kind of ground up the image a lil-

[lesslie-sass]

He actualy shows some emotions besides usual resting bitch face 😮

#bakugan #bakugan battle brawlers #bakugan fanart #fanart #digital fanart #digital art #lineless art #artists on tumblr #lineless drawing #my art #medibang #medibang art #gijinka #gijinka art #gijinka au #i disapeared again....